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| 1 | [REQUEST] Signs a girl likes you?In ten years you most likely won’t have anything to do with her or a lot of any people in high school. Shoot your shot, it really doesn’t matter. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 02:43 AM |
| 5 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedI’m in my 40s and married now but this post is completely true. There are plenty of girls I should have went for in my 20s but was fixated on an idealized version of a girl that lost interest or in the end just wasn’t right for me. I’m happy now and it worked out but I regret going through a ton of heartache in my physical prime for no real good reason. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Asking for feedback from ex datesYup. This was years ago, like 2005 or so. I just thought it was ridiculous that she had me on her bed then didn’t like that I put a move on her. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Asking for feedback from ex datesSecond date, she invited me into her bedroom and I kissed her. She said the kiss wasn’t “organic and forced.” | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Asking for feedback from ex datesI did something similar once after a few dates with a girl that ended up losing interest. Her true reason was worse than I bargained for and tbh I was better off not knowing and just moving on. Bottom line is you don’t really know them, and their reasons are varied and for all you know she’s not that great of a person anyway. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!I’m in my 40s now and look back fondly at some of the romps and hook ups I had. It’s rose colored glasses though because I did go through a dry spell or two. I was a STEM major as well. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Sitting outside a bar I like. Afraid to go in because of a waitress I asked outYears ago I was friends with a super outgoing and confident guy. He’d ask out waitresses in front of all of us, and would get shot down most of the time but he was great at playing it off. That’s when I learned that things are only awkward if you let them be. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | So is hitting on people while they’re at work always bad? Cause if you like a specific person and that’s the only place you know where they’re at, what then?I used to hang out with this extremely extroverted and confident guy-he would hit on waitresses in front of everyone and when he got rejected he was playful about it to show it wasn’t a big deal. Go that route, and don’t let the rejection bother you if it happens, as it really is no big deal. Chances are she will take it as a compliment even if she says no. But don’t ask again if that is the case. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 32 | Shoot your shot today, there's no difference in getting rejected tomorrow.It really doesn’t matter. I’m 41 now and married. When you’re my age you won’t remember most of the girls that shot you down but you will remember the vast majority that did not. The world is your oyster my friends. | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | A story from my youthDefinitely. There’s plenty that will be interested full time. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | A story from my youthThere’s truth in that but it’s pretty general. I was told those things as well. The way I learned was from watching an extremely extroverted friend. Granted, that’s not me at all, but he’d hit on everyone, waitresses, bartenders, etc. He would get rejected in front of me and he was very good at playing it off. It was not one bit awkward. That was when I learned that things are only as awkward as you make them. I quickly followed suit. I even went home with a bartender, just off her shift. Funny … | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 05:13 PM |
| 2 | A story from my youthDefinitely….the follies of youth though. I got told all the time to be more direct….but to no avail. Youth is wasted on the young. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 04:50 PM |
| 6 | A story from my youthThis was basically me, it didn’t click till I hit 30. What I learned was to not care about rejection at all-just move on to the next one. There always was a next one. I straight up slayed for a year then met my wife and game over as far as that goes. Lol. Wish I was like that the whole time. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 03:53 PM |
| 70 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.Been around a while (41), never happened to me and I’ve never heard of that happening to anyone. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 09:23 PM |
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