SarahG321 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Saying hello and a question	DISCUSSION	SarahG321	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/18 10:07 PM
1	Ideas for some space and self care		SarahG321	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/19 07:21 PM
0	Trust and vulnerability, how would a RPW respond?	DISCUSSION	SarahG321	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/19 09:48 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	I think I fucked up and married the wrong guy FleetingWish has a great point about respect. I didn't know what respect looked like until I read Laura Doyle's book (and watched her online program). I had no idea that immediately responding to something he said with my opinion about it wasn't listening at all. Even though I was often agreeing, I was still taking over a conversation that he started and something he wanted to share his views on. I didn't realize that my "helpfulness" was destroying our connection. I didn't realize that not sayi…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/01/19 04:08 PM
3	Trust and vulnerability, how would a RPW respond? Wow, very validating that he wants my approval/okay. He's going to do what he wants, but it will be easier for him is he can come back and say, "You were on board." (This is not the first scenario for this.) He's not the type to allow people to have a change of mind.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/19 01:39 PM
5	Trust and vulnerability, how would a RPW respond? Thanks, I really appreciate the insightful responses. I have a lot to think about.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/19 01:36 PM
4	Trust and vulnerability, how would a RPW respond? He wants to have a hookup if the opportunity presents itself. Not with just anyone, someone who he feels a connection with. He says it will help his waning sex drive toward me. (I'm fit and attractive, and he says he knows that millions of guys would envy him.) He's presented it as something we'd do together (I don't want that), but I know him pretty well and, honestly, I think that might just be a way for him to keep me on board so that I can't say no or decide later that it's not okay (he sets…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/19 12:23 AM
2	Emotionally unavailable men I've found Laura Doyle's 6 intimacy skills to be priceless when it comes to this kind of issue. This is a great post on boundaries: https://lauradoyle.org/blog/healthy-boundaries-in-relationships/ Take care!	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/19 05:57 PM
2	Emotionally unavailable men This can be a tricky paradox and a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you're truly torn about something, it's usually because you don't have enough information yet... Instead of labeling yourselves (labels can be very big and confusing), here's another perspective... When we start to have doubts, we pull back. Then, the other person senses this and they pull back too. Now you have what appears to be two emotionally unavailable people. So, what can you do about it? You stay fully involved (present/in t…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/18 08:21 PM
2	Found an amazing podcast I would like to share My sister loves this podcast. She shares lots of great tips; little things like set up your coffee maker the night before is "taking care of your future self".	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/18 12:52 AM
8	Help picking between two guys Wow, very wise observation.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/18 07:52 PM
2	Help picking between two guys Trust your gut and trust the way you feel (around the person). That's what you're going to experience each and every day. If you have to wrestle with it, it'll be a long road. Also, whichever guy you choose, you don't have to marry him. This is just the next step in courting. I hope you won't put too much pressure on yourself.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/18 07:51 PM
0	Dealing with a BPD Friend Ultimately, it's your choice. I've been in your shoes and found that it's sometimes better to just be an observer and allow the answers to come to you in their own time (instead of making a set-in-stone decision just to be done with it). College has already given you some distance. If you just let it play out, it might be less awkward and you are not directly rejecting her. It can also be good to practice saying no if she makes unreasonable demands, etc. Laura Doyle has a great blog post about s…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/18 07:44 PM
6	Captain woke me up with something special Aww, how sweet. And thanks for sharing the love!	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/18 07:25 PM
1	How to forgive yourself for oopsies you've made before finding RPW? Guilt = I owe someone something If you've genuinely apologized, then accept that you are forgiven and know that there's not much else to do. I think the mere act of doing those three things will help you do less of it in the future. If the other person is still angry, maybe ask if there's something you can do (and decide if the request is fair). Anger = someone owes me something. If you trip up again, repeat the things above and move along. Don't pressure yourself. Pressure takes away from perfo…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/12/18 04:22 PM
2	Love This Sub! I am also so happy to have found this sub. I was looking for an alternative to Laura Doyle's online programs. Thanks for creating this sub!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/12/18 03:51 PM