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| 8 | Flocks of women dancing by meIt's a bar, the women are dancing. The girl dancing with you may have been flirting a bit. You danced with her. Did you offer to buy her a drink after the dance was over? | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 05:00 PM |
| 19 | I’m never too sure what the hell to do when women are acting wild at clubs, parties etcYou're meeting the wrong kinds of women. Try going to a cafe or lounge instead of the clubs or partying | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:40 PM |
| 6 | When asking out, should I always go for specific time or can I let it be arranged later?You gotta get in some conversations before taking a plunge like that. I would find a reason to stay a little later to talk to her. Don't ask her out the first time you speak to her. Just talk. About anything, find something. Tell her she's a beautiful dancer and you were wondering what her goals were. Does she plan to dance professionally? "Cause her dancing is so beautiful yanno, you really could." Ask her to show you a move you're "struggling with," the next time you talk to her. Tell her you … | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Dating adviceWell considering it has -2 Karma (at least at this moment) I don't think it's doing well. Left too many open holes here. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 03:51 PM |
| 8 | Dating adviceWhy is that excuse so hard to believe? Edit: If you think she's a liar, then why would you want to ask her out again? | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How to prioritize myself over females?I'm not frustrated with you? I'm sorry if it came off like that. Maybe it was the 3am timeline. I answered your question before going to sleep. Sorry if it came off as agressive. That wasn't my goal And, just as an older guy, we've all been there in HS. The guys that are making you feel like that are projecting their insecurities onto you. And lying. HS politics is hard man. No one is really having a good time lol. The only worse time for a kid is Middle School. That's a pretty low bar, huh? HS … | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 03:56 PM |
| 2 | How to prioritize myself over females?Okay, stop calling them females. They are not some other species to be studied. They are people, like you, like me. They just have boobs, well, you actually have boobs too, yours just don't have mammery glands that make them protrude. And they don't have a penis and have an extra hole there. Your sole purpose in life is not to breed, and neither are theres. We aren't in hunter/gatherer evolutionary mutation mode anymore. We are a well developed species. So, that may help. To think of them as peo… | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | The worst that can happen?It was probably just as weird for the girl you were talking to. When you have situations like this, no one knows how to react, right? I mean, Kat could have done that to you. Pulled you into the store, and then followed you out and accused the girl of stalking. What would you have done? Confused and bewildered, probably done whatever made this random crazy happy cause you didn't wanna see what happened if random crazy got mad. | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Is it better to straight-up tell a girl you like her or drop hints?Whatever makes you feel better about yourself bro. I'm gonna tell you the truth. You want to play games and drop hints with ppl... So, I dunno what you're hinting at to me, since you just said you don't reveal your true feelings. And I'm probably just as confused as the girls you talk to. Or claim to anyway Go take your hints somewhere else. | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 08:25 AM |
| 5 | Workplace FlirtingWhew was getting worried you was about to overshoot. If you go in acting like nothing changed, she gonna think you're weird, and then you just shot yourself in the foot, right? Lol. So you gotta build up that rapport all over again. And plus you got ppl that probably have no idea who you are, and what you are like, and they see you coming in hot with 0 context to the history... Bad first impression. You can really mess up the work peer group for yourself. And then it gives you an idea of where s… | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 08:16 AM |
| 0 | Is it better to straight-up tell a girl you like her or drop hints?And as a married guy, I'm tryna help some bros out who struggle. He said he likes this girl. Actually it's been deleted now. But my advice is not trash. It may not be what you want to hear. I dunno why you wouldn't. I don't got nothing to gain from this. I'm not charging you for some videos, I'm not tryna get you to join a singles cult, I seriously just wanna help bros who are genuinely looking for advice. It may not always be the answer you wanna hear, but it's the answer you need to hear somet… | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 07:22 AM |
| 7 | Workplace FlirtingUh, most ppl don't have office romances. Especially one night stands. And you didn't speak to her for three months. She probably assumed you moved on. And she did as well, most likely. You never called bro. I mean, anything you had is gone. You are at square 0. Doesn't matter if you had her number. You never called. She never called you. Was the first question I asked. 3 months is a long time. Again, she can be married, you dunno. And how you even know she still works there. a good work friend b… | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 07:09 AM |
| 1 | The worst that can happen?I dunno if she was on drugs or just a crazy person tbh. It sounds like the other girl really didn't know her either | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 07:02 AM |
| 1 | The worst that can happen?What kinda awful ass sales pitch is this? In any social group, there is ONE leader. Sounds about right. I'll give you that When you are dealing with a group, you have to pay 70% of attention to the leader, even the leader is not your target. If you won't, then the leader will push you out of the group. The only time is acceptable is to ignore the leader is when he/she thinks of you as a part of the group. I dunno where you heard that from? That's... The stupidest thing I ever heard. And will bac… | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 07:00 AM |
| 1 | The worst that can happen?So you swapped numbers? Did you text that girl? Some ppl just be on drugs or... crazy. It's possible that the girl didn't know what to do either. I mean what do you do when that happens. Obviously, she coulda been a friend. Maybe she didn't know that the friend was there. It's also entirely possible that Kat is friends with the girl that accused you and/or just knows your reputation from HS. Maybe she went to your school or somethin. I mean, that's also a possibility, that she thinks because of … | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:52 AM |
| 1 | What do I do when Chad shows up?Your scenario isn't making sense to me, tho. If you're paranoid by the people around you, ppl you don't know and never interact with, for no reason other then they cross your line of site. You have this whole person in your head: personality, thoughts, and then you get all into what your friend is thinking and making that real. It's not real. You need to see a doctor, my friend, that's a paranoid psychosis if I ever saw one, and you need to find out what's causing that. And get treatment. Do oth… | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:39 AM |
| 1 | What do I do when Chad shows up?No. Why would you call a dude over who is minding his own business walking by? | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:31 AM |
| 1 | What do I do when Chad shows up?Why would he call him over? | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:31 AM |
| 3 | What do I do when Chad shows up?This dude is just walking by in a park? I mean, are these ppl stopping and talking to you? Like, I don't understand the scenario here. Your at the park with a friend having a good time, a guy who has nothing to do with you passes your proximity for whatever reason, and you... What? Suddenly like, he exists and you now can't talk to your friend? Why? How is Mr. Walking His Dog Passed Me a threat to you? | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that women love men of all ages and men never become invisible or unappealing to women after a certain age, but men are attracted to youth and women after a certain age become unappealing to them and invisible?The short answer is no. None of that is true | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:26 AM |
| 5 | While making out, how do I coordinate my kisses with my partner?This is one of those things that you can't plan and coordinate. Kissing, passion, is right brain activity. It's an art, not a science. You gotta listen to your body, listen to hers. As you get more comfortable and have more practice, your confidence will grow. Don't second guess yourself while kissing, and get logical. Get outta that space if you see yourself going there. You know what, practicing Mindful Meditation, and it's a very specific meditation, can really help here. Google around and wa… | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:23 AM |
| 16 | Workplace FlirtingSo, I'm probably gonna guess that rapport you had built up 3 months ago is no longer there. You're starting from 0, man. While it may take you a shorter amount of time to get back to that point, assuming she's still open to dating to begin with, don't assume things are just gonna pick up where they left off. To her, you're gone. Outta her life. Maybe as a good work friend she kinda missed you for a few days, but she didn't accept the friend request.... You never had her number... I don't think s… | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to straight-up tell a girl you like her or drop hints?You did the right thing. You absolutely did the right thing. The ball is in her court now. But don't wait around for her. Maybe see if you get something in a week, but if you don't, start putting out feelers for other girls. Bravo man, tho. Seriously. You don't wanna be friends with her, you like her, don't be friends. I'm not sure what the whole, "Do you like me," thing was about. To me, a girl who asks that generally has feelings for you. And maybe she does or did. I have a feeling she is teet… | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to straight-up tell a girl you like her or drop hints?No, don't listen to his advice | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:00 AM |
| 6 | Workplace FlirtingHave you spoken to her in the last 3 months? | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 05:59 AM |
| 3 | Dream girl ghosted meYou never saw her again? You work together. Did you ask her about it? | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 05:57 AM |
| 2 | 66th day – 2 minutes after she gave me her Instagram, she banned me on it– wtf/ Belgrade daygame diariesWhat? | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 08:24 AM |
| 3 | 66th day – 2 minutes after she gave me her Instagram, she banned me on it– wtf/ Belgrade daygame diariesthis guy did a whole expose on it That's where I learned about it | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Only good at the seduction phase?Some guys can't think past the sex. Some guys struggle with commitment. Some guys put an addiction of some kind (work, video games, drugs, clubbing, sex, wealth) in the front and everything else on the back burner. Some guys just have what my wife calls, "Shiny Balls Syndrome," where they are always chasing somethin better, or the next arm candy. Some guys just hate the idea of being tied down and love being a bachelor where they can come and go as they please. So, sure, it makes sense that a gu… | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 03:47 AM |
| 2 | 66th day – 2 minutes after she gave me her Instagram, she banned me on it– wtf/ Belgrade daygame diariesThe only thing that book offers is a numbers game. Sure, approach 1,000 women, and you'll find one stupid enough. Literally the Mystery method. No, he literally says that in his later book where he completely denounces the character of Mystery and letting him live down the rantings of a self-obsessed lonely guy having a psychological breakdown and addiction problem. But giving an addict millions is sure enough insentive at the time to tote the book around and do a TV show as drug habits are expe… | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 03:38 AM |
| 2 | 66th day – 2 minutes after she gave me her Instagram, she banned me on it– wtf/ Belgrade daygame diariesMy experience is that the guy who wrote Mystery is actively begging people to stop using his book. It was an embarrassing moment of a complete psychological breakdown that ppl took as a self help book for some reason. | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | 66th day – 2 minutes after she gave me her Instagram, she banned me on it– wtf/ Belgrade daygame diariesYou know the guy that wrote Mystery came out with another book totally destroying that character he built, saying how he was an insecure man-child back then who threw a temper tantrum into a book never expecting it to sell. And when he skyrocketed into millions it further pushed him away, even into drugs a bit, before finally denouncing the character and getting professional help. You know that right? Edit: He even said the promise of further fame and fortune (to feed his drug habit) was what fu… | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong here?It's too far for her man. It's ok not to want to be friends lol. I dunno who's signals got crossed, honestly. But, what she's saying now is that she never meant it to be meant as a relationship, so that's what you have to go on. It's a no go. Guess what, you're allowed to be mad about that. You're allowed to say to yourself, "I think I made it pretty clear. This just seems like an excuse. And I don't want to be friends." Look on the bright side, you got some pros here, right? You can look back a… | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong here?No. Don't use her like that. Goddamn | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I [31/M] was the flake. How can I mend things? [30/F]You flaked twice last minute? Yeah, she don't think you're reliable and gonna follow thru. I think you need to let this one go. Lesson learned. | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Why would a guy ask for exclusivity then barely contact you?Move on. Just a dick. | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | How to get over that stage when you freeze trying to approach a girl?How good are you at initiating general conversation with anyone? At work, at a party, in class (dunno if you're in school) etc. Is this freeze just applying to women you wanna pick up, or is this a general theme in life? | /r/seduction | 27/10/20 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Things you should never do?Yeah, you don't have to stay there. You have a choice. Just say, "I can't just be friends with you. I'm asking for a chance/date. Maybe it will work, maybe it won't. But, I'll just always be wondering, 'why not me'." I mean, you don't have to say something so dramatic, but the only person who put themselves in the friend zone is you. If you don't want to be just friends, and only staying because you're hoping for somethin more, stop torturing yourself. I know it's hard. "I don't wanna be out of … | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 11:03 PM |
| 6 | Things you should never do?Don't be friends with a girl thinkin eventually lead to something Everyone talks about this stupid friend zone. If you want to date her, she says no, then consider whether or not you really can just be friends. That means you accept there will never, under any terms, be more than just friends. If you can't do that, walk away. Tell her you can't just be friends, and walk. When my wife and I first met, and I finally asked her out, she said no. And I said, "I can't just be friends." After like... I… | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 08:19 AM |
| 0 | One year ago, during what is called 'Navratri', with courage like no other, I hand out a note. Swipe for the result.Why would you do that lol | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 08:02 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys tell which women want casual sex and which ones genuinely want only a relationship?When you start to really talk or meet up whatever, ask them what they are looking for If your got some apps put that in the bio. | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 08:00 AM |
| 2 | this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subredditThat's ok. It scares me that places like that still exist. I would move. It sounds like you're in a cult. Edit: I say it like it's easy. It's not. Look around for resources. But you aren't in a good area. | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 07:10 PM |
| 11 | this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subredditWell, I guess it depends on what you choose to do with those 20 seconds lmao | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 06:55 PM |
| -2 | this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subredditSo what? Everyone does embarassing things now and then. | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | this 20 seconds of courage changed my life. I had posted this 1 year ago on this subredditIs there a girl you like? Have you told her? Tell her... | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Girl that I’ve been seeing and I both tested positive for COVID. She often checks on me and texts me for updates. Now that I really have no reason to not text her and I’m too available. Her attraction and efforts are falling very low. Do I just pull away or is this too inconsiderate?You know what I'm most afraid of? That you're going to be one of those people I see that isn't "woke," until it's too late. Until you're dying. That's what keeps me awake at night. People like you who die for no reason. And I wonder what was the point? You learn, but you die. And I still fukin care. And that's what gets me. I still fukin care about a guy who I don't know. A guy who goes online and has the nerve to say he wants to kill me. I care about you. That says a lot about who I am. And you… | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Girl that I’ve been seeing and I both tested positive for COVID. She often checks on me and texts me for updates. Now that I really have no reason to not text her and I’m too available. Her attraction and efforts are falling very low. Do I just pull away or is this too inconsiderate?Lmao. OMG. I can't believe ppl still think this. Well, you met me. I had Covid. My neighbor, this sweet little old lady who's grandkids live somewhere out west, she used to make my wife and I cookies. She died. Now you know two people, one who was young enough, healthy enough, to survive a 105° fever and only needed oxygen, not a respirator, and my old lady neighbor who we went shopping for, who made this far, and died two weeks ago. Grow up. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Looking for an accountability partnerIf you're struggling with approaching people, start smaller than just "attractive girls." Plus, I hate to remind you, there's a pandemic. You can't just sit out there approaching random people and expect everyone to be welcoming towards you. I would limit your interaction, maybe to Bumble friends? The friends section. When you fill out your profile, make sure to include in the fact that you're feeling isolated right now. You have anxiety. You need to reach and just say hello. Work from there. Ma… | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl that I’ve been seeing and I both tested positive for COVID. She often checks on me and texts me for updates. Now that I really have no reason to not text her and I’m too available. Her attraction and efforts are falling very low. Do I just pull away or is this too inconsiderate?You know she's sick right. It's Covid, it's fuckin scary. There's a pandemic. She probably is afraid to be around people. It's a deadly disease and while your symptoms may be ok, hers may not be. Think man. This ain't a flu. This thing has killed more Americans in 6 months than a fuckin war killed us in 5 goddamned years. And you're too important to text her? | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 07:46 PM |
| 2 | How do I open at a fast food place?Find anything. Any observation. "Did you see the squirrel outside, the baby one?" If she looks at you funny, she's not interested | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal?Then thats's not normal. You are allowed to have feelings and express them. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal?Have you told her how you felt? I mean, you didn't just leave her hanging in the wind with no idea what she did, to work it out, right? | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 06:55 PM |
| 13 | How to figure out what type of seducer I amYou can't decide what type of seducer you are. You seduce, and then your method fits a certain pattern. You have to be actively seducing people first. So, start there. | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 02:53 AM |
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