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Yeah, well that last line gets used by feminists who want their man to blindly accept their flaws and shortcomings rather than expecting them to grow as a person. But thats not what I'm saying. My point is just that if you have to force yourself to act like a tomboy to get your man to like you, he may not be the man for you. Its just food for thought. Compatibility is only one aspect of a successful marriage. Didnt mean to make you nervous.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 02:24 PM
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Are you married? The advice you've gotten so far is good but I think it would be wise to seriously think about the implications of marrying someone who is adverse to a whole aspect of your personality. Its one thing to marry a man who doesn't like your flaws and wants you to overcome them, but wanting to act feminine isnt a flaw, its a perfectly normal and acceptable personality trait. Anyway, I guess im just saying to make sure you are actually compatible and that his vision of you is someone y…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 02:17 PM
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We discussed it. He was definitely less impacted emotionally, and my doctor and other trusted people said that's pretty normal.
/r/MensRights30/03/14 01:57 PM
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It's what my doctor and a few other people told me when I confided that I was upset about my husband shrugging off my miscarriage.
/r/MensRights30/03/14 03:10 AM
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Hey there. Lady here. I miscarried a couple weeks ago so I kind of understand your situation. I'm very sorry for your loss. GENERALLY speaking, miscarriage (especially first trimester miscarriage) is harder on the woman who was pregnant than the father. Men don't tend to get really emotionally attached to the baby until they can see the mom's stomach getting bigger or feel it kicking, whereas the first trimester baby is much more "real" to the woman living with the pregnancy symptoms and hormona…
/r/MensRights29/03/14 03:01 PM
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Ewww, no boys allowed! Kidding. There are several men who post here. NBD.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 02:50 PM
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The Church deems masturbation a sin (Catholic) Getting sexual gratification from people other than ones spouse is adultery, whether or not physical contact happens. Enabling the prostitutes who "perform" porn is participating in sin/evil. Objectification of children of God is wrong. I could probably go on.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 02:48 PM
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I know him quite a bit better than you or the other posters here. Thanks for your concern though
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 06:46 PM
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"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" It's unacceptable in my marriage. :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/14 04:33 AM
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Where do you live that you don't see anyone wearing skirts? Maxi skirts and dresses are all the rage here, I see them everywhere. I'm stocking up for when they go out of style again, haha. I find skirts and dresses much more comfortable than jeans and wear then almost exclusively.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 09:29 PM
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Misery loves company. They know it leaves them feeling empty and lonely but don't want to admit they did anything wrong so they settle for trying to make sure no one else is happy either.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 10:38 PM
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I don't read trp. I read it briefly but realized quickly that many of the conversations are inappropriate for a married lady to be reading. Many of the posters there seem dangerous and damaged, but some seem like good husband material. I'm just glad I've put the search behind me now, haha.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/14 04:32 AM
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Cooking and cleaning supplies are still marketed almost exclusively to women. I don't see the big deal, it's really not any different now.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/14 04:01 AM
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Saying you'll find and rape someone online and actually doing it are two different things. It will cross the line if she is ever actually assaulted. As for the info, you can't honestly expect to bare everything on camera and expect to remain anonymous, can you?
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/14 02:26 AM
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I think it's beyond ridiculous that she is upset about not being respected after becoming a video prostitute. She wanted the attention. She got it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/14 09:06 PM
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Doing things you are honestly uncomfortable with sexually just to please your husband is a good way to end up resenting him or hating sex. Not good for a marriage. It's perfectly fine to have limits. You're right, marriage is about compromise.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/14 04:17 PM
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We found out I am pregnant this week so we have been really happy and excited :D He has been really sweet to me and taking care of me with my random waves of nausea. Can't complain!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/14 07:11 PM
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There's a really good chance I am preggers as we speak (we've been trying,I am nauseated one minute and starving the next, super tried etc) but it's too early to accurately test if I am or not. The not knowing is making me crazy! Having my son has definitely been the best, most fulfilling and rewarding and virtue building thing that I have ever done. I can't say emphatically enough how happy and just full of joy I am since he entered my life, and this it's coming from the girl who cried through …
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/14 05:08 AM
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Also, you know what would stop her in her tracks? Pregnancy, you know, the natural result of sex in your twenties. I don't doubt she would be a lot more discriminating if she knew each dude she gave it up to was a potential father of her children. Further proof, in my mind, that birth control has done much more harm than good
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 03:23 PM
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Disney lied, there is no such thing as fairy tale love.” Well call me crazy, but I think this could be one of the dumbest quotes I’ve ever seen come across my Tumblr feed. Did Disney lie or are we just too anxious to take the next step to wait for the right person to come along Yeah, and you know what princes are really into? Used up 36 year olds who spent their lovely and fertile years "finding themselves" with an endless succession of random dudes. Don't worry about your competition being thos…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 03:15 PM
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Also, this will KILL your butt and inner thighs. Very good.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/14 06:26 PM
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I know, he's adorable. Like a cat.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/14 06:25 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r45YhhswIdw I have been doing this for only about a week. I love it though because I feel pretty even while i am working out, haha
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/14 06:13 PM
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I am focusing on cutting down on the daydreaming. I have gotten a bit too spacey these days.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 11:05 PM
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My husband likes bright red lipstick too. :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 08:38 PM
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I wouldn't do anything against my religion for him. Luckily, he doesn't ask me to.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 04:55 PM
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I assume it's because men don't compare themselves to other men as much as women do and their self-worth isn't as wrapped up in how they look.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 04:52 PM
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We do but nothing big or fancy. I usually make him a card and/or a playlist for his iPod and make his favorite dinner and he usually gets me flowers or whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 09:38 PM
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Um..the sex? Haha Seriously though, I love the feeling of loving security I get from allowing my husband to be a man and lead our family. I also love that I am always pushed to improve myself and grow in holiness.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 09:30 PM
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I don't disagree with you that emotional infidelity is equally sinful. And obviously God didn't give us a powerful sex drive and say it's wrong to use it for anything. Our sex drive is powerful because it is of paramount importance. The whole purpose of sex is to create new life and strengthen marital bonds so that our children get to grow up in a strong and healthy family. Calling God cruel for having rules about sex is like calling me cruel for not letting my two year old eat a plate of cookie…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 06:49 PM
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I think I am lucky because I am just not into sports, and my husband likes to play sports but not watch them. I don't mind watching HIM get all sweaty and pumped though, hahaha. I do love me some football food though..
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 05:58 PM
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I met him in my high school chemistry class The first thing I noticed about him was he was a know-it-all jerk ;) About a year and a half I was 19 when we got married, he was 21 I love our lingo. If a stranger came into our house for a day they'd be very confused, but we understand each other perfectly.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 05:27 PM
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Don't really know how this should be handled in a secular relationship, but using pornography is a potentially mortal sin and unacceptable in my marriage. Lusting after people is equal to adultery. But then, so is fornication so... As for your situation, the morality of it is for you to figure out for yourself, but i wouldn't accept hypocrisy from her. Either you both quit committing mental adultery or you both accept it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 05:23 PM
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Marmee March from Little Women is my rolemodel in a lot of things. Warm, generous, self-sacrificing, nurturing, resourceful, content in difficult circumstances, put her family above all else, never complaining. Also Melanie from Gone With The Wind. She was also able to be calm and content in very trying circumstances, she was incredibly forgiving and loving, she put other people's comfort before her own, and was totally devoted to her husband. She is basically a model of Christian virtue and fem…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/13 10:16 AM
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Dear men, I want you to love my body type and consider it superior to all other body types. Just never ever say anything about it or you are an ass. 0_o Really, if she has such disdain for men who like that shape, maybe she should work harder to not have that shape.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/13 05:52 AM
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Knowing about hypergamy doesn't make it go away, but it does keep me from throwing away my relationship because "I DESERVE to be haaaappy." I still get the attraction to high status men but I am able to say that's just hypergamy speaking and not dwell on it too much.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/13 12:23 AM
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That's how we feel too. Plus we both went through the public school district here and we know we can do better for our kids at home :D
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/13 03:18 AM
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I am a housewife. It isn't impossible in our economy. We are far from rich and we do have to make sacrifices for me to stay home and homeschool, but it is worth it. People looking in might say we are "poor" but we have a good, simple, respectable life. Just find a man with as much desire to be a sole provider and patriarch as you have to be a housewife and you are good to go. Housewife isn't a dirty word. I love being one. It is very challenging and fulfilling.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/13 08:05 PM
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Well that is depressing.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/13 09:47 PM
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What advice would you give to a woman whose husband tends to catasrophize everyday annoyances? I don't want to rudely shrug him off and just say he is being overly dramatic, obviously. But at the same time I NEED him to be strong so I can be strong. It is really scary for me to see him lose his cool over a situation, and it happens so often that it is just becoming emotionally exhausting for me and I see other people around us dealing with all the same problems and they don't seem to be falling …
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/13 01:09 AM
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My husband isn't like this at all. When he has had a bad day he rants and can't stop ranting. All the advice out there for women whose men wont "open up" is profoundly unhelpful for me. Not really relevant, sorry. I guess I am ranting now.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/13 12:56 AM
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This is relevent to me. I have a couple male friends, but we aren't really super close.my husband knows them and knows we are friends. Hubby has access to my phone (his is slowly breaking so he uses mine pretty often) and I usually leave my facebook up on the computer in the living room, he is alright with my male friends as long as he can kind of monitor our conversations and I am not trying to be sneaky or hanging out with them alone. I can definitely understand the arguments against having ma…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/13 04:27 PM
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Honestly, I advise you to not spent TOO much time in theredpill. Many of the men there are very angry and not everything they say is what they will truly believe when they come to terms with the situation. Also keep in mind that the red pill and red pill women, while operating within the same foundational principles, have totally different aims. This is the more relevent place to come as a lady looking for marital advice, for sure. RPW is a bit softer (naturally, we're girls!) I think you'll be …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/13 05:08 AM
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I can obviously only speak from my experience as a woman, but my husband and I were both virgins when we got together and I am happy with that. I think it lends a greater sense of intimacy to our relationship in that, for both of us, the other is basically the personification of our entire sex life. For me, sex = my husband, and its the same for him. If I were still looking for a husband, I think that a man having a long sexual history would be a negative for me. I think that is contrary to the …
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/13 10:24 PM
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In my experience it works better to not do the approaching, but make it obvious that you are open to talking. Smile a lot, that will help with the "bitchface" and make you look more friendly and approachable. It will also improve your general mood. I mean, don't walk around with a goofy grin on all the time, but keeping a slight smile will make you look and feel friendlier. Also, eye flirt. Make eye contact, then look away quickly, wait a second then look back and smile. This shows that you are …
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/13 04:20 AM
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I would like to think I would react that way, but I don't think I would. I am way too shy, especially with strangers and especially when I am alone. I don't know how I would react to that...
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/13 04:02 AM
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I agree with this. It is not your responsibility to support him financially.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/13 10:01 PM
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Nope.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/13 04:53 AM
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We are in the same boat! I am also 23 and got married at 19. :D I agree that red pill women tend to marry younger. Likely just becase we know the benefits of marrying young (wife goggles! Yay) and we know what we want, namely commitment, and so wont waste time riding the carousel because we know the damage that would do to our ultimate goals.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/13 04:52 AM
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