If it was commonplace for men to be sexualized, and women were constantly pursuing men trying to sleep with them, men would not like being sexualized. However because most men are deprived and struggle finding sexual partners, being sexualized would solve that problem for them
Japanese women are great til your married and they take all ur money and give u a salary of 200$ a month. Also I remember reading somewhere that sexlessness among Japanese married couples is some of the highest