I also was falsely accused so I know your pain first hand. She contacted me after the first court date to meet up and get together. As fucked up as it gets. I too have a different view of women. I'm slightly jaded towards them. On the plus side I was found not guilty in a court of law. I have been for drinks with the woman twice afterwards.
I have been caught in same situation and best advice is to get out of the relationship. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me Twice...... My only regret is I didn't get out earlier.