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My specific issue is saying "this person isn't worth your time" which sounds like an unnecessary value judgment of them as a human being. You're not for her, she's nor for everyone, and that's ok- just because someone's not into us doesn't make them unworthy people.
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:40 AM
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There's no "feeling of power" in not responding to a text. It's not validating to be wilfully rude. I will say that some (actually many) men respond extremely poorly to even the most polite rejection, and women don't always know who's going to say "ok, np" and who's going to say "well ur a fat ugly bitch anyway" That's a valid reason many women just stay silent. Because it's exhausting and dehumanizing dealing with aggressive men.
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:28 PM
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Why not? There are reasons that might have nothing to do with you: some family emergency is taking her focus, or exams, or work issues. Or she's just not speedy at texting. Look at it this way. What have you got to lose by sending one last text? Guys here might say "your pride, you simp!" but if she's not into you, that doesn't matter. If she MIGHT be into you, that text could remind her- "oh yeah, that guy- he's kinda cute" and she'll respond. Instead of assuming that this is a game where sex c…
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:21 PM
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"Isn't into you" is sufficient.
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:13 PM
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I'll see your "she's a prostitute, and coffee is her price" and raise you a "men say they won't pay for p*ssy, but think a fancy dinner entitles them to sex." With those guys (surely none of the fine gents on this subreddit) it's as if they DO expect to get sex for money, as long as they're not giving it to the woman. Avoiding this booby prize is another reason why women might insist on splitting the bill.
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:05 PM
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I still have more insight into how women might think and react than the subset of dudes here who treat women as a game code to be unlocked. Some need the occasional reminder that women are just as human, varied, and complex as men are.
/r/seduction13/08/22 06:10 PM
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It always surprises me how much y'all downvote me on this sub. Here you have a valuable resource at hand- an actual grown-ass woman- willing to give you honest opinions on what women want/think. Apparently (insert Jack Nicholson gif here) you can't handle The Truth.
/r/seduction13/08/22 12:00 AM
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I see what you mean, but my suggestion is that she noticed him and thought no more about him. No, she wouldn't stare unless she found him attractive OR he had a monkey on his head. But she wouldn't be thinking "best not look at him again in case he thinks I'm into him!" because she's literally giving Jim no thought at all.
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:57 PM
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The wording suggests she's actively avoiding looking at him lest he think she's into him. When in fact, she glanced over, and is now thinking about her grocery list. She's not planning her action around some rando.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:40 PM
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You think her actions are centered on him. I assure you, they are not.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:27 PM
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As opposed to what- leading her on, lying to get laid? My dude that's not cool
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:22 AM
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Older women have no reason to lower their standards. The difference is, younger women lack confidence and experience. Older women have both, plus they know what they want, and don't give a shit what other people think. Just sayin.
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:47 PM
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Women are arguably at their physical prime in their 20s, as are men.
/r/seduction08/08/22 01:22 AM
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Everything up to but not including the last three words.
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:27 AM
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If someone asks if you're seeing other people, be truthful- their decision to get with you might hinge on the answer, and a player shouldn't lie. But, yeah! Go forth n' smash!
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:43 PM
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Women don't like fuccbois, generally. Just say you're having a ho phase, everyone can appreciate that.
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:36 PM
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The reason why divorce rates used to be low was because women had few options: your husband beats you? What a shame you can't get credit in your own name, open a bank account or rent property without a man's signature, get child support. And abortions were still happening, it's just that people died from them. Not precisely the topic at hand, but the misconceptions (ha) deserved an airing-out.
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:33 PM
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If OP can say this with sparkle, he's going to know immediately if she's into him, which- older femme here- sounds like she definitely is. Good luck, have fun!
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:27 PM
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Don't fish off the company wharf. This incredibly hot chick is a coworker, and she probably has no interest in dating at work. That's why she's avoiding you. I'm not saying things would be different if you met at a club, but you didn't, so take the hint.
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:24 PM
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Believe me, this is default mode for many guys on dates. They're so busy talking about themselves that they don't bother getting to know the woman they're with- ie asking her questions about herself. Don't be that guy.
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:20 PM
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If she loves you, then you are the best guy. Treat her right and stay worthy of that.
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:40 PM
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That can-do attitude is so inspiring. /s
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:42 PM
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I'm not in the US, and may or may not be a bangable dime.
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:26 PM
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I want to update this for "guys, you need to travel" (yes! Great advice, always) but downvote for "...where women are easier and friendlier".
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:30 PM
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Not that you want to hear this, but it's said that an acceptable (ie, reasonably decent-appearing) age gap is a partner no less than half your age plus seven years. Just leaving this here as a curiosity.
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:43 AM
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No. It's presumptuous and creepy af.
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:27 AM
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Haha, sure. But know your way around. It's the vulva, dawg.
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:10 PM
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This is excellent advice.
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:27 PM
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Well, with an attitude like that, how could she resist? But, real talk- there are many, many women in the nerdspace. And we are definitely not all taken.
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:26 PM
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Fortunately, our tribe is adept with tech. Seek online, young Padawan.
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:23 PM
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I'd love to find my own cuddly sci-fi nerd! Where would you find women like me? At science-fiction conventions, ComicCons and their spin-offs, at board game nights, meet-ups, and cafés, at screenings of Firefly and possibly at The Rocky Horror Picture Show, at DnD events... hopefully, you get the picture. Your tribe is out there.
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:00 PM
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A FWB situation is one in which you mutually agree to use each other for sex. So yes, of course you're being used, and so is he. That's the whole deal. However, you can and absolutely should have boundaries. Consider insisting on condoms. "But you were ok without them before!" Yeah and things have changed. "But I don't like them!" That's too bad- no party hat, no party. "Oh no, I forgot them at home..." Well that's a damn shame, no sex tonight. If you want more from him, bring it up, but be prep…
/r/seduction20/03/22 08:33 PM
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Wait... isn't pussy a good thing?
/r/seduction20/03/22 08:25 PM
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We are, and we don't care. If we like you, we like you. If you're clearly running a script to get a date/laid, without showing genuine interest in us as individuals, we are scornful.
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:06 PM
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