Sassy_Praline Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
87	“Are You Sleeping With Someone You Love Or Someone You Want To Love You?”	MINDSET SHIFT	Sassy_Praline	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 09:16 PM
53	Why picking the right spouse is so crucial for working moms: “. . . a mother’s career is only as good as the man or woman she marries.”	STRATEGY	Sassy_Praline	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 05:51 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	Vetting is not new or unique to FDS. This movie came out in 1993, the scene presented as old-school wisdom. It was not met with backlash, and comments are in praise of the "door test." Do not be afraid to use similar tactics to see whether your partner shows qualities you want. Side note: do y’all actually unlock or open his door when you’re inside the car? I’ve never done this, which led to some men saying I failed the test, lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/22 12:57 PM
29	Men who don’t hold doors open Interesting take. What about men who hold doors open, but not car doors?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 11:00 AM
64	Perspective \| For years, I pursued men and got nowhere. Then I learned how to sit in the passenger’s seat. Love it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾! I’m getting ready to get back into dating, and needed this reminder!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 02:56 AM
10	Women Don’t Know. Old Scrote = Birth Defects, Developmental Issue Ditto. Here’s an article that touches on that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/21 03:18 AM
3	Working on Leveling up and I’m on my financial goals right now. This woman has been a huge help and I cannot express how great it is to see women reaching their goals and sharing their success secrets with other women. Share and grow together and one day we will rule the world;) I fucking love this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 09:13 AM
7	Let's talk birth control I agree with this, but for different reasons: cups, IUDs, and tampons have dangers that are downplayed or hidden by their manufacturers. Google Lauren Wasser, the model who nearly died from tampon-caused TSS, who’s on a mission to educate people about the toxic ingredients in tampons.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 08:25 AM
58	Old letters from LVM? Photos? Clothes? Burn them Or donate the clothes. Bless someone else and get some positive vibes back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 10:32 AM
156	MEN ALWAYS KNOW, ALWAYS! And women know, too, but tend to ignore the signs. Listen to your gut, ladies!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 06:20 AM
47	Anyone else deal with men in their life who don’t wash their hands? Or basically unhygienic? Yes, this is why I don’t like beards. A study found that most men’s beards have fecal bacteria from their nasty ass hands.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/21 08:08 AM
3	Y'all belong to the streets GTFO!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 01:42 PM
32	Is there any fds subs that showcase the physical aspect of leveling up? Happy New Year! Check out r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/21 04:18 AM
2	what are you proud of? Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/20 08:45 PM
3	what are you proud of? Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/20 08:45 PM
3	what are you proud of? Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/20 08:45 PM
32	what are you proud of? I finally passed the bar exam! Now I’m job-hunting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/20 11:15 AM
1	Be very careful when meeting a man for the first time. Tell a friend who you’re meeting and where you’re going. Have your phone fully charged. This kind of thing happens way too often. More details: https://nypost.com/2020/11/17/man-wanted-for-savagely-beating-woman-he-met-on-dating-app-report/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 11:31 PM
9	How to differentiate between bare minimum and actual HV? A comment on another thread said the bare minimum is something that you yourself would automatically do without thinking.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 08:10 AM
36	Are there any older, single females on here still figuring things out? Present! Turning 40 next month and away from my old ways. I read everything on this sub during my daily “Self-Therapy Hour.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 06:59 AM
61	Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS. For me, it’s Mr. Rogers!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/20 06:52 AM
9	I’m out of words. She is going to be applauded in the black community for doing this. It just goes to show how we raise black girls to be providers, and boys to be receivers. Imagine paying for 6 grown men on your birthday... Well, as long as you’re happy sis. 🤷🏾‍♀️ That money would’ve been better spent on some male strippers. 💵🦵🏾👅👮🏾‍♂️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/20 07:19 AM
34	What hard lessons did you learn over the years through dating? Pay attention to how he is at work. If he’s trifling at work, he’s trifling at home. Also, I read that bosses are like parents in terms of their duties, so if he’s a bad boss (abusive, etc.), then he’ll probably be or is a bad parent.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/20 09:03 AM
14	Don’t go on “boat dates” with guys you don’t know well or you could be put into a situation you don’t want to be in. 😬 This brings to mind Jo Rogers and her 2 daughters who were all raped and murdered by one man on a boat: https://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/cruelest-choices-article-1.1821207	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 05:48 AM
13	Don’t go on “boat dates” with guys you don’t know well or you could be put into a situation you don’t want to be in. 😬 This would be a great app! You should build it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 05:44 AM
2	Stay alert on what’s compromise or not Excellent! Saving your comment.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 05:41 AM
6	Never forget 👑 Yup. I also noticed that I brought my Pickmeisha energy to my LV jobs. I was always going over and beyond for bosses and coworkers that didn’t deserve it, for crappy pay and no recognition. I also projected insecurities and overshared in interviews and at work. I won’t be doing that again, thanks to FDS!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 11:16 PM
31	Never forget 👑 Great advice, OP! This also applies to jobs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 12:22 PM
3	What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of? I’d love to see content from professional FDSers on specific topics, like AMA from a therapist or a series of educational posts on healing from trauma, e.g. Also, maybe a space for FDSers to post about local activities or opportunities? Some folks may want to meet other HVW in their area, while others may want to know about potential new hobbies or interests that they can do alone. For example, I want to start hiking in the Bay Area after the pandemic, but I’m too scared to do it alone, and I do…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/20 10:30 AM
1	What is the worst suggestion for a date you have ever had? I’ve been offered the coffee/bar dates, but my fave offer was this one: Neighbor scrote: “Can I take you to lunch?” Me: “No.” Neighbor scrote: “How about dinner?” Me: “No.” Neighbor scrote: “But I can take you somewhere nice. I can take you to Sizzler.” Me: “Sizzler? Why didn’t you say that first? I’ve been dying to go there ever since I had my 8th grade grad dinner there in the 90s!” /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/10/20 12:02 PM
10	When LVM and I took a personality test together... This right here. And they specifically target people with insecurities to make themselves feel better. That’s why I’ve been working on my insecurities during lockdown so I won’t attract any more narcissistic assholes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/20 07:52 AM
9	Ageing married scrote with kids looking to cheat on wife seeks woman that must be younger than him and states 'his pleasure must be the most important.' He’s fishing for a woman who’s just as depraved as him. He wouldn’t reveal his “sexual tourism” past to strangers unless he was seeking the Ghislaine Maxwell to his Jeffrey Epstein.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 04:58 AM
2	Lack of support from family and friends Your friends and family could be jealous that you don’t have to work. They’re human after all so this shouldn’t be surprising, but it’s not your problem. Maybe don’t discuss things like that with them anymore? Sometimes you gotta set boundaries with your folks. Congratulations on finding a HVM that takes care of you and your kiddo!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/20 07:55 AM
7	What are your favorite things about being single? I can be as dorky as I want. Also, no need to feel self-conscious about looking crazy on sick or tired days!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/20 10:22 AM
1	Pickmeisha marries overweight video game addicted scrote and is upset when he changes for the better. I thought the same!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 07:43 AM