| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | I wasn’t the problemGreat message other than the tone & antagonistic part. OP didn’t do anything to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 02:01 AM |
| 2 | How much alimony do you have to pay and child support?By move in, literally occupying the physical space of another man residence wise was enough to terminate the alimony? Not only that, how did the system find out she moved in with him? I thought marriage to a new person was the only way California alimony could be removed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Constantly having doubt about my 10 year marriage despite my wife is almost perfect. But she may not be the oneThis is rage bait. However, anyone actually in this situation should respect real fidelity & most importantly prioritize the family unit. Divorce affects the kids too. Feelings aside, honor your vows. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/26 06:13 AM |
| 1 | How in the world do I get over being angryHappens to so many men. You’re not alone. Real friends will ask you about it instead of dropping you cold, by the way. I called the cops the first time I was falsely accused to try and get them to investigate my innocence. He essentially said they just aren’t your real friends. (I was 20-21 at the time) | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 12:27 AM |
| 1 | How in the world do I get over being angryI’m sorry to read this brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/26 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Just passed……men are screwed again.Gross. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Just passed……men are screwed again.I’ve noticed the government and other agencies love to throw in that word “privilege” when it’s time to revoke the rights of people, or leverage a quality of life dependent resource to control or influence them. Housing in a rich country is “a privilege”, transportation, medical assistance.. you name it. When it’s time, it becomes a privilege. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 01:12 AM |
| 3 | I broke and begged her back.Just get back up. That happens. Don’t think too hard about it. I’m a very prideful person & I’ve had some very embarrassing moments. Doesn’t change anything about me. What I went through made me more myself than I’ve ever been. Stronger is an understatement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Anyone come out NOT broke?You are an inspiration. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Ex wife texting another guyThe solution to disrespect is indifference & distance. I don’t think you know the gravity of what you just did there. I’m taking that maxim for life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Boys, I need a pep talkThis. It means you’re a great guy on paper but i don’t want to fuck you. My old friend’s now wife told him that, went on “break”, went on a f*** fest and then got back with him and married and had kids. She told me she went on that escapade but he didn’t know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/25 05:38 AM |
| 5 | Ruined itIf any man comments in one of the many women spaces on Reddit they get eaten alive. Reddit has zero actual male spaces except this one. & there is no place at all except this one where men can have discussions about their relationships, alone, amongst each other. All the other ones were banned because its apparently misogyny to have a male only space. Thats a part of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/25 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Did anyone else experience a complete 180 like this before divorce?I see/hear you I read your whole story. Don’t ever give it to someone else to tell you how you should feel about yourself. But what you just told me? You are a good man. Good men like you deserve the world & should not put up with anything less than good nature from anyone you meet. If I had a kid that would be my entire world. Don’t know how you could do it, but you & I both know you have to get your kid out of that mess. Fight tooth & nail. You have been seen brother & you are strong. You will… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/25 08:50 AM |
| 3 | For those of you with verbally abusive and controlling wives, how did you feel after divorce.Not who she became. Who she always was but you did not know it yet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/25 03:26 AM |
| 1 | I must have the worst luck ever.Currently dealing with a nerve injury on my penis. I’ll take shit relationships 10x over this. Even just to avoid the anxiety during it if it goes away. Not downplaying your situation.. just saying. They aren’t worth bothering your mental situation. Find another one. Enjoy the ride, not the destination. 💯 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/25 10:20 PM |
| 4 | so glad i’m not marriedSame here brother (in terms of never getting married). God speed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/25 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Are faithful men attracted to cheaters? With how terrible divorce can be for men, I see why some men are so cruel. They don’t wanna be hurt & cheated!I know. It’s gross how their ego controls & decides everything. I’ve also had a girl on her bday come up and rub on my crotch in public. I didn’t mind either. I too, was an absolute douchebag when I was a teen and they took care of me. Mostly due to the treatment I experienced from my ex, and the other half witnessing the BS I saw from them. But every time I let myself be that sensitive sweet boy looking for a relationship (and being in one), I was manipulated, used, taken for granted, & abused … | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/25 08:02 PM |
| 6 | Are faithful men attracted to cheaters? With how terrible divorce can be for men, I see why some men are so cruel. They don’t wanna be hurt & cheated!I used to see a girl who said she got with a guy only because “all the girls wanted him.” As well as this common phrase I, including the concept I mentioned, have never heard a man say in my life: “I don’t know what I saw in him.” It just tells me something is off and different about the way men and women see relationships, and why they do it. How do you not know why you got into a relationship with someone? I want nothing to do with that. I have also heard from multiple men that they have been … | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/25 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Divorcing abusive wife - last call for adviceTell her that you are going to leave her once she starts acting up, drive somewhere for like an hour and she’ll swap back to being nice. Do this until you escape. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/25 06:35 AM |
| 8 | I’m trying my hardest to save my marriageShe's unable to form any of her own opinions separate from the hive mind of the people she hangs out with, or collective hive mind of feminine pop culture as a whole. 🤮🤮 Undo the knot! You can get over that one! | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | My (24M) ex (29F) lied about being married and her sexual past. Are these signs of a manipulator, and should I ever consider a second chance?No. Pro tip: whatever number you get multiply it by 3. That naive sweet-boy attitude you have right now will be crushed and turned to stone the more you date moving forward. Prepare for that. You can get out on the other side with zero tolerance self respect & a no BS policy. I’d say add that to your portfolio now rather than later. I’m also in my twenties still, 24 was not a good time for me. Whatever you feel from your current situation, I promise you was nothing close to what I went through. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/25 02:25 AM |
| 2 | It’s that time…Good, man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/25 11:48 PM |
| 2 | It’s that time…Just do the best you can to prepare, and leave before she does anymore damage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/25 04:25 PM |
| 2 | It’s that time…Before you say anything, make sure there isn’t any ammo (lies) that she can spin to ruin your life and reputation. Have the truth recorded and ready. Don’t delete any text messages at all costs. Also, those family friends you & her spent time with aren’t your real friends. They will cut ties with you the second she decides to say anything without proof because she’s mad at you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/25 02:57 PM |
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