SatanicBoner Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
41	How beautiful women view the average guy This seems like a really negative over-generalization. If someone takes this to heart, I can only see it damaging their confidence. Of course it's true that meeting women is a numbers game, but getting bent out of shape about that is like getting mad at the sky for being blue. It is what it is - accept it and keep doing whatever makes you happy. Truly excelling at seduction means getting to a point where people like this don't bother you anymore.	/r/seduction	22/04/13 08:34 PM
1	How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other? That's the point. Just talk to them. Maybe they aren't interested - but maybe some of them are.	/r/seduction	15/04/13 10:41 PM
1	Cockblocked by friend - how could I have responded? Someone asked me that in another post. Here's what I wrote (abridged): Treat them like you would treat some girl giving you shit, or being outright rude: don't get mad at them. Laugh it off. Poke fun at yourself. Just don't take them seriously.	/r/seduction	25/03/13 06:51 PM
3	Can we talk about accepting failure, embarrassment and dealing with shame? Are you saying that we you are blown off in front of your friends it affects you negatively? Treat them like you would treat some girl giving you shit, or being outright rude: don't get mad at them. Laugh it off. Poke fun at yourself. Just don't take them seriously. Consider it a shit test that guys give other guys. I can promise you that any guy who is a straight up asshole about you getting rejected (as in, that guy is really trying to hurt your feelings by being malicious) either has never co…	/r/seduction	18/03/13 10:56 PM
2	Can we talk about accepting failure, embarrassment and dealing with shame? Good point. I did over-generalize.	/r/seduction	18/03/13 08:04 PM
7	Can we talk about accepting failure, embarrassment and dealing with shame? I guess? If you've talked to 100 women, and all of them, in an unbroken line from 1 to 100, think that something very specific is wrong with you, then yeah, sure. Then again, has anyone here ever experienced that scenario? Even if you have, you could just be really unlucky. And even if you're not unlucky and you really are a huge creepazoid, you can change that about yourself. I mean, isn't Seddit all about changing yourself into the best version of you? :) After doing this stuff for whatever am…	/r/seduction	18/03/13 06:51 PM
4	Can we talk about accepting failure, embarrassment and dealing with shame? It's just like approaching. Embrace the fear and do it. If they're so disgusted by your sexual advances that they shut you down right as you go for a kiss, who cares? That's just part of the game. Tells your friends about it, and have a laugh!	/r/seduction	18/03/13 02:28 PM
36	Can we talk about accepting failure, embarrassment and dealing with shame? When I used to approach girls (I'm married now), it boiled down to two things 1) I will never see these girls again. 2) If they aren't interested, how does that change anything about me? e: Just read your replies below. These two principles can be applied to any "sticking points" you might have. For point one, I live in a city of around 1 million people. It's not a small town, but it's not huge by any stretch of the imagination. If I go out to the same exact bar every weekend, I'm probably never…	/r/seduction	18/03/13 02:25 PM
24	How do I stop being a hater? I'm a very cynical and negative person and its affecting my game. I have had this problem as well, and for me, it's all about changing my inner-monologue. Whenever I have a negative thought, or I'm being overly critical, I just remind myself thinking negatively is just destructive for myself as it is for anyone I'm directing my negativity at. I will, throughout the day, periodically remind myself to think positively, to not judge people, and to just chill out. Most importantly, I catch myself getting really negative when someone suggests an activity or asks me…	/r/seduction	17/10/12 04:17 PM
-1	Hi seddit. I'm a woman and want to know what drives you men crazy when you're making out/having sex with us women. One word. Blowjobs.	/r/seduction	06/06/12 03:15 PM
1	IAmA beautiful woman - AMA "IAmA beautiful woman - AMA" seems like an absurd thread title.	/r/seduction	31/05/12 09:03 PM
2	IAmA beautiful woman - AMA really thought this was an r/circlejerk post	/r/seduction	31/05/12 08:41 PM
1	convince me that my looks won't prevent me from getting laid. You have to convince yourself.	/r/seduction	07/05/12 07:33 PM
2	Difficult to sum up this article with a title but it's one the best I've seen in a long time [from Post Masculine] This is an awesome piece of prose.	/r/seduction	17/04/12 04:26 PM
5	My main fear in approaching women is having a dull conversation/running out of things to say. I would upvote this a million times if I could.	/r/seduction	17/04/12 04:19 PM
2	I'm moving, and I have some material I would like to give away. It really sunk in and I accepted the truth when the judge at my divorce hearing said 'I see it all the time. Soldier goes off to serve this country, and a woman leaves him at the worst time, under the worst conditions.' That just makes me fucking sick. It's terrible that what he said to you is true.	/r/seduction	02/04/12 07:10 PM
1	Approaching girls who always seem to be part of a group/surrounded by friends, that you don't know. Thanks!	/r/seduction	30/03/12 08:02 PM
1	Approaching girls who always seem to be part of a group/surrounded by friends, that you don't know. What would you do while solo?	/r/seduction	30/03/12 07:48 PM
5	Conversations seem dry? Well, if you're bored by the conversations you're having, bring up topics that interest you.	/r/seduction	30/03/12 06:54 PM
2	Approaching girls who always seem to be part of a group/surrounded by friends, that you don't know. I'm interested to hear any responses to this as well	/r/seduction	30/03/12 06:54 PM
1	Conversations seem dry? Are you enjoying the conversations you're having?	/r/seduction	30/03/12 06:41 PM
1	A better way to look at your chances of rejection My Fiance fucking hated me when we first met, but... welp.	/r/seduction	30/03/12 06:40 PM
14	Quit nodding your head down \| Generation Nihilism I think it's important to differentiate between a couple of variances on the up/down nod. First, there's the most friendly - the up-nod with a smile, raising of eyebrows, and direct eye contact. Second, there's the "I'm better than you" - the up-nod, no smile, no movement in facial expression, eye contact. Third, the "respectful" - down nod, no smile, no movement in facial expression, eye contact. Fourth, the "friendly neighbor" - down nod, smile, raising of eyebrows, eye contact. Fifth, the "I …	/r/seduction	29/03/12 04:00 PM
1	What is the next step after pick up? In an LTR right now, and I couldn't have put it better.	/r/seduction	29/03/12 02:00 AM
3	How to compliment? Awesome! Just keep talking to whatever girls you come across! Don't worry about what they think of you.	/r/seduction	27/03/12 04:55 PM
5	How to compliment? Well, that's the thing - you're putting your entire sense of self-worth into this one interaction with this one girl. I'm going to be real with you, the odds are overwhelmingly against you. Chances are, you'll give her a compliment, she'll say "thanks" and that's all that'll be made of that. But don't let that scare you away! You're a man. You don't give a shit if someone has so many hangups, they're uncomfortable with you being honest with them. Why would you waste your time with someone like t…	/r/seduction	27/03/12 04:36 PM
1	Canned material and why it can be a good thing (WOT) I think the biggest benefit of canned material for newbies is that it can grant confidence over time. For someone just starting out, not knowing what to say is a huge source of anxiety. So, it's important for these guys to use canned material, if for no other reason than to build up their confidence a bit. Once they've gotten their feet wet, had some good interactions, they'll start to find that they don't have to always use their go-to opener. They'll feel good about just "being themselves" in …	/r/seduction	27/03/12 04:27 PM
2	How to compliment? What's wrong with being straightforward?	/r/seduction	27/03/12 04:15 PM
13	What happened to the SimplePickup guys? It seems like Youtube removed almost all of their videos. Wow, I didn't know we had this many haters on Seddit. Wassup with the nasty comments against Simple Pick-up?	/r/seduction	23/03/12 06:34 PM
2	How to Be a Gentleman That Turns Women On Really like that diagram, Nick. Where did it come from?	/r/seduction	22/03/12 03:39 PM
1	Looking for attraction advice from seddit, this is insanely important to me, any advice appreciated Fuck ten other women.	/r/seduction	22/03/12 03:24 PM
1	Screwed badly obvious #close, advice needed on how to proceed next . I'd put my energy into something else if I were you.	/r/seduction	21/03/12 07:33 PM
2	getting women to fall in love Hey man, at least you're being honest! I can promise you it'd be 100 times worse for everyone involved if you went along with it, against your own wishes. Also, I should mention that this kind of thing is only manipulative if you aren't being genuine. If you really do think that whatever a girl is insecure about makes her cool and unique, then don't worry about telling her that!	/r/seduction	21/03/12 07:31 PM
1	getting women to fall in love You're right, that is manipulative. I think that's why cutting them loose is doing the right thing, and you shouldn't feel guilty about it. e: It just sounds to me like you have some hangups about what you really want out of this. Maybe it'd be best to really ask yourself that question, and give yourself an honest answer. And, if you find that you don't like the answer, do something about it!	/r/seduction	21/03/12 07:24 PM
2	getting women to fall in love Why does cutting them loose bother you? Do you actually have feelings for some of these girls? If you do, why are you cutting them loose? If you don't have feelings for them, why would you feel bad about breaking up with them and saving them a lot of heartbreak and anguish when they find out the guy they've been dating for a year was never actually into them? What's your goal with pick-up? Are you just in it for random lays, or do you want a relationship? It sounds to me like you haven't figured…	/r/seduction	21/03/12 07:17 PM
1	Screwed badly obvious #close, advice needed on how to proceed next . I found your writing a little difficult to understand, so I want to make sure I'm getting the details right. From the sounds of it, you've tried contacting this girl off and on for a couple of weeks, and she's flaked multiple times, correct? If that's true, I think you should go meet other women.	/r/seduction	21/03/12 07:14 PM
3	Puzzled by a coworkers actions So, so many times over. SO many times. Don't shit where you eat.	/r/seduction	20/03/12 08:33 PM
3	What are some tips for a guy at the beginning of a relationship? This is good advice, but to add to this - if something actually is a big deal, don't be afraid to speak out. You're better off getting that stuff out in the open as soon as possible, rather than glossing over something that really bothers you.	/r/seduction	11/03/12 08:38 PM
4	In a relationship, but I need female friends. Just want to say that I'm in a similar situation, and this is definitely good advice.	/r/seduction	06/03/12 09:16 PM
2	Went through my phone tonight and I just wanted to say thank you, seddit! Congrats buddy! Remember: we didn't put those numbers in your phone - you did.	/r/seduction	01/03/12 09:46 PM
1	Advice on getting AFC friends to support PU/become wings? Keep doing it. Show them that it works, and that it's 100 times more fun than sitting in the corner, being too nervous to talk to anyone.	/r/seduction	23/02/12 07:13 PM
1	"When's the last time you had sex?" response? Answer "Two minutes ago."	/r/seduction	23/02/12 07:12 PM
1	The Obsession of Inner Game you just need to go in it knowing you are a fantastic man/woman and that you are worth the same amount of time as others are worth of yours. From my understanding, isn't this what inner-game is all about?	/r/seduction	23/02/12 07:10 PM
3	What's the best way to get past when she says "just because we're going to your place doesn't mean I'm gonna sleep with you tonight" "Ugh! Get your mind out of the gutter! Why do girls always do this to me!?" "You're right, we should totally not have sex tonight." Basically, this is a shit-test. What you do with a shit-test is completely play into it - this gives the subtext that you're ignoring it, and her tests don't bother you. If she says you're a player, you tell her your 12 dates last weekend said the same thing, but you don't know why. The main thing with shit-tests is, keep calm and carry on.	/r/seduction	22/02/12 07:48 PM
2	The importance of assumption by PUA Brigthon Hey man, the props are well-deserved. Keep up the good work!	/r/seduction	16/02/12 07:17 PM
1	its been said before and i'll say it again, AA combined with what seems like insta shutdowns doesn't help internal game You're too dependent on the outcome. Don't worry about girls shooting you bad looks, or blowing you out. That shit doesn't matter. Getting blown out changes absolutely nothing about who you are, or your chances with other women in the future. No one cares if you've been rejected by someone so closed off, they can't see the awesome guy standing right in front of them. Pick-up is largely a numbers game, and the only thing you can do to fail is to sit in the corner, trapped in your own thoughts, ne…	/r/seduction	16/02/12 05:39 PM
1	its been said before and i'll say it again, AA combined with what seems like insta shutdowns doesn't help internal game Here's a link, in case it's moved by the time you read this - http://www.puabrighton.co.uk/pua-blog/read_45255/the-importance-of-assumption.html	/r/seduction	16/02/12 05:34 PM
2	The importance of assumption by PUA Brigthon Great article. I love these inner-game concepts. I wish Seddit focused more on inner-game.	/r/seduction	16/02/12 05:29 PM
1	Crushing it with 7s. # close, but no lay 8s. Trouble with 9s... I think the flaw is that you're probably treating these girls differently based on what you perceive them to be. Try treating a 9 as you'd treat a 7. If it doesn't work, no big deal. Just keep in mind that you're always learning throughout this entire process.	/r/seduction	16/02/12 02:32 AM
1	Crushing it with 7s. # close, but no lay 8s. Trouble with 9s... This sounds like an internal thing to me. It's not like there's some secret society of women where they rank each other as HB7, HB8, etc... and you, as a guy, have to follow some linear progression up the "rating" scale. It's in your head, man. You're holding yourself back by obsessing over shit like this. Just go talk to girls. Don't give a shit about their "rating" based on a bunch of subjective, made up bullshit. Don't think about it - just do it.	/r/seduction	15/02/12 09:33 PM
1	Neil Strauss sums up my feelings on seduction perfectly: "I think most men go in for women, but somewhere along the line realize it's not about women and never was--it's about themselves." I am one of those men, and despite their faults, I cannot thank guys like Neil enough.	/r/seduction	15/02/12 09:28 PM
1	[Brand new video] Sex, Seduction, and Sexuality by Steve "El Topo" Mayeda from The 21 Convention El Topo is awesome	/r/seduction	10/02/12 05:46 PM
2	Getting at least 1-2 number every week. None have gone anywhere. What should I do now? Honestly man, I wouldn't sweat it too much. You seem like a guy who is genuinely trying to study what's going on, and you probably know that flakes are all a part of the learning experience. Keep this in mind - there's no magic bullet for this problem. It's something I, and probably everyone else, has gone through at some point. Just keep number closing, and approach every day 2 setup phonecall/text as practice. As you gain more experience, you'll find they just start falling in place. Over-thin…	/r/seduction	10/02/12 05:28 PM
1	What do you guys do when you meet a girl who's friendly but not DTF? I would think to myself "Who gives a shit?" and move on.	/r/seduction	10/02/12 05:13 PM