SatinsLittlePrincess Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	My Wife is Leaving Me and The Country for Another Man No need to contact Child Abduction resources unless she actually tries to take the kids out of the country. Child custody is determined by the children’s residence at the point of the divorce, so wherever OP currently lives that jurisdiction will determine custody. Once the custody has been determined, one then requires both custodial parents to agree if the children will be relocated to a different jurisdiction, which means wife cannot unilaterally move the kids to Peru without permission from …	/r/Divorce_Men	21/03/25 02:38 AM
3	This is not me You’re absolutely right. I know a lot of women who love their partners deeply, and support them in all sorts of loving ways. And… taking the Red Pill / MGTOW nonsense seriously is a self fulfilling prophecy. No sane woman capable of love will go anywhere near Red Pill men because they are, universally, incapable of forming any loving relationships. Hating women ensures that you will never form a healthy relationship with any woman. I’m not saying some of you don’t have reason to be angry at your…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/24 10:38 PM
1	Do I tell the kids even though my wife is forbidding it? If you don’t want others to think badly of you for doing something, don’t do it in the first place. This isn’t your secret to protect. Tell the kids if you want to. But yes, do be careful how you tell the story. State the facts about what happened and let them be the ones to make any judgements about it. “I found out your mom has been having an ongoing affair. This is a deal breaker for me, so when I found out, I decided to file for divorce. I still love you all, and I will support you having a …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/23 10:56 PM
3	Telling the kids If you open the door to saying “it’s her fault” you’re also opening the door to mom explaining what caused her to fall out of love which switches back to “it’s your fault.” Your kids will be thrown into the middle of figuring out whose fault it really was which isn’t great for them, and is often terrible for your parenting. Your kids then know both you and your ex- failed as co-parents and are against each other which they can then use against you both. Unless the kids need to know something abo…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/23 09:50 PM
-5	How to start a new relationship with a women when you have to keep paying your ex wife child support and alimony Seconding this - also a woman, but no kids. Any time a potential date complains to me that he has to pay so that his children can be fed, housed, and educated, I’m tapping out… I know several woman who pay child support and they all get why it’s important, and none of them complain because they get that financial support is part of what they were taking on when they had children.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/23 06:02 AM
2	Why did my wife try to change me? Thank you. And yeah, I do sometimes think people ask questions here to get validation that women are shit, that it’s all her fault. And frankly that’s almost never actually the case…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/23 10:02 AM
-2	Why did my wife try to change me? Ceasing or reducing one’s time in paid work activities, especially for people with intellectual curiosity and / or ambition, when one has kids is, more often than not, a disaster for the person who does it. For a lot of people, work is where they interact with people enough to avoid loneliness. It’s also a place where they get praise and are appreciated when they do something well. Neither of those things happen when someone is home alone with an infant or toddler. And that kind of isolation and…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/23 02:33 AM
-5	Why did my wife try to change me? If you’re actually looking for a serious answer? Having kids fundamentally changes a romantic relationship, including changing: - the amount of labour the partners have to tackle to keep their home, kids, and relationship functioning, - what is important and less important in terms of the characteristics a partner brings to the relationship, - the stakes if things go wrong, and - the amount of rest and decompression time each person has available to them which also has an impact on their ability…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/23 01:49 AM
1	Why won't married women have sex? I wish I had an award to give you, because you are absolutely correct about that post…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/23 10:42 AM
-1	How to get paternity test on a kid that is 19 Thank you. As an adopted child, my adoptive father was such a great dad. I recognise that finding out the child you thought was genetically yours comes with a whole bunch of issues, but so much of being a father is raising the kid and so little of it is DNA. Don’t yank the rug out from under this kid and rob him of a father because of something, OP, your ex did. Which is not to say that you can’t manage this with a bit of sensitivity and still get the DNA test. Just make it clear that you consid…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/23 12:39 AM
5	Is there a scientific or evolutionary reason so many women are so negative towards their husbands after kids? Parenting adds an enormous amount of stress to any responsible parent’s life. It also means sleep deprivation, and a whole bunch of added work, often in areas that most people do not enjoy - like diaper changing, or cleaning, or cooking for people who complain that they’re not getting Oreos for dinner. And, having kids often amplifies inequities in a marriage which makes them far more obvious. Research has shown that stress makes people more irritable. They are less able to control their reactio…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/23 05:16 AM
6	How are you guys able to live alone? That’s about filling the void in your life with stuff. Like there you are deeply unhappy and you can’t figure out why. You have the life you were supposed to want - spouse, kid, house, check check check. But you’re still unhappy. It’s much easier to see things like “well, if our home / car / clothes / whatever was nicer, I’d be happy” rather than deal with whatever is the real cause of one’s unhappiness. And, of course, it will never be enough because no goods can ever really fill the void that …	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/23 10:43 PM
11	Wife wants a second child and I don’t. She threatened divorce over this. Get the vasectomy ASAP. They’re far more effective than condoms. The childfree sub has resources if you get any pushback form doctors who don’t want to give you the snip. Speaking as a woman? Men with vasectomies get some bonus points for taking responsibility for their reproductive lives. Single women who don’t want (more) kids will almost certainly see it the same way. Reframe your thinking around child support. Child support covers the kind of shit you’re already paying to keep your child fed…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/23 03:12 PM
2	37m - Less than a year divorced - "talk to dad' opposed to "talk to your dad" difference in language? At one point in your ex-wife’s life, you had the role of “dad” within the home you and your ex-shared. You no longer have that role because you no longer share a home. That’s especially true if you were the kind of parents who referred to each other as “mom” and “dad” after you had a baby - essentially, in that case, “dad” was both the role you played, and your name within the household. Now you’ve split up. You still have the title of your son’s dad, but you’re in a different position regarding…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/23 10:06 PM
3	The Luckiest man alive Worth looking at the gender stats on dating apps. Tinder is 79% men, 21% women, so yeah, women get a lot more attention and most men struggle. Bumble is closer to even, with 43% women. OKC is a 65/35 split if I recall correctly (couldn’t find the current stats). Good luck to you! https://medium.com/heart-affairs/yes-online-dating-is-harder-for-men-but-its-not-for-the-reasons-you-might-think-ae4269ecd3d1#:~:text=Tinder%20has%20the%20worst%20with,%25%20women%20and%2057%25%20men.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/23 02:28 AM
1	Girls Night Out Forever. You know that men can look after children too, right? And that women can earn money?	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/23 03:55 AM
-4	Girls Night Out Forever. This will probably not be very popular in this sub, but… One of the reasons men put women on pedestals is because it means you can expect things from us like emotional support, housekeeping, child rearing, etc. without having to provide benefits to us in return. You can just pretend women are “just better at those things” or that it’s women’s “role” to take the short end of the relationship stick. You’re talking about here are Walk Away Wives. And the reason those women walk away from “good guys…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/22 12:17 AM
3	The Sheepdog That Killed 8 Coyotes As someone who really feels a lot happier and better adjusted when I get a lot of alone time, I get what you’re saying, but… A lot of animals isolate when they think they’re going to die. It keeps them away from predators. It keeps them from infecting their pack mates if they are sick. A period of rest is often their best bet to heal - if that’s an option - though often it’s also a symptom of losing the will to live. In that vein, the urge to isolate can also be a symptom of serious depression p…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/22 11:53 PM
2	Why do Women give up on their marriage more than men do? And then the community downvoted you because they don’t really want to know…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/22 01:33 AM
6	Why do Women give up on their marriage more than men do? Giselle Bunchen is Tom Brady's equal in every way and despite that she was the more active parent and relationship manager of the two. She also repeatedly told him she needed him to be a more active partner and co-parent and dude was like “but football…” I remain stunned by how many men are still like “how could this happen to Tom Brady?” Like guys, if you're not carrying your share, your wife is a whole lot more likely to leave you...	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/22 12:03 AM
14	Decree prohibits kids from being left alone with significant others, ex-wife leaving our young girls with her bf alone. There are very real risks to your daughters that come from being left alone with a man. 1:7 adult women who had a step father was sexually abused by that step father. So he may seem like a “nice guy” but most men who abuse girls do. There are very clearly men who specifically target women with daughters they plan to abuse. And yes, this also happens to boys but the culprits are less likely to be step fathers and more likely to be church leaders or other “friendly” men who want to mentor your son…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/10/22 06:01 AM