SauceyQ0369 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	Childless liberal women have guaranteed an illiberal future by selfishly not spreading their legs. As one of 3 liberal daughters from Trump voting parents, who also grew up in the south - LOL okay Which gene passes down political views? None? Birth parents aren’t the highest predictor of political leaning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 07:14 PM
39	Q4W: Who should be taught how to treat their partners? And why? Teach young boys and girls how to value relationships in general. Friendships are not lesser relationships than romantic ones. In fact, my standard of treatment is (does this man/woman I’m dating treat me as well as my friends do.) I’m both lucky and have put it a lot of work to foster these relationships. That mentality transfers to any meaningful relationship in your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 07:11 PM
1	CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfair I don’t care about how much I “spend” on looking good lol I’m doing that whether I’m dating or not. What I do care about is someone’s character. I’m a generous person, and I’ve dated a fucking miser. Never again. We are fundamentally incompatible if you bring this mentality to dating. But I really don’t care what a bunch of broke or miserly fucks do. Let them eliminate themselves from the dating pool with poor behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 06:46 PM
2	Why do so many breadwinner women contribute less than their partner in household expenses? I mean the article talks about it. “there’s also internal insecurities from a male partner to contend with, says Shuffman. According to UBS’s survey, men who are not the primary earner are less trustful of their wife’s investing and spending habits than men who are the primary earner. And more than half of non-primary-earning men say the financial arrangement causes tension in their relationship.” Additionally - being the primary breadwinner as a woman somehow still increases your household work…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 06:39 PM
8	We should try to convince women to appreciate non-financial value in male partners. I do not want kids in this lifetime but prior to making that choice (and in another timeline) I’d be 100% okay with a househusband if I had the funds. I never wanted to be dependent, I always intended to make a lot of money, even prepared to be the main money maker in a relationship with no kids. But since I don’t want kids I would require my partner have a career of some sort and bring in some amount of income, because I live to a certain standard and I can’t support that life for 2. Minimum ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 05:58 PM
2	Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available? Oh I do lol and I have for a long time. I used to bring condoms out to the bars with my friends though because they were dtupid especially in college. Also kept a Halloween candy bowl full of them in my house. Since my mid 20s i havent had to worry so much about men trying to BS their way past condoms and you get smarter with life experience, so i worry less about my friends. I’ll admit my bias because my large social circle is responsible in many ways lol. This is also why sex ed is important! …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 06:06 PM
2	Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available? Ain’t no condom-less sex unless we’re monogamous and can show each other freshly minted, clean, tests lmao condoms do more than prevent pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 05:29 PM
2	women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable. No you don’t. She needs to communicate her boundaries and not expect people to read her mind. Or if she feels like she can’t lay down boundaries with people she calls her friends, she needs to find new friends. If she has never felt like she could do this, maybe she needs to learn to be more self assured in communicating boundaries. This has literally never been an issue in my entire 33 years and I’ve been in a sorority, and have a laaaaarge social net of women. I’ve also never had a totally ran…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 05:19 PM
–	AI Would Choose a Drug-Addicted Mother Over a Stable Father. I Tested It. Do you even understand how LLMs and AI work? Imma guess no. It is a loooooooong standing “standard” to save women and children first. AI is trained on what’s available. How many data points do you think exist that assert saving a man over a woman in a lifeboat situation. What does this say? That existing data overwhelmingly favors tha scenario. Likely from endless fiction and old real life scenarios, seeing as this isn’t really a thing in the modern day. I’ve worked on drill ships and there’s ze…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 03:19 AM
28	Men issues and female privilege are connected. Worked on oil rigs for years, can confirm it can be pretty toxic. Most men either encourage it as a form of gatekeeping (hurr durr you gotta have thick skin to make it out here) or are too afraid of losing their fellow mens respect if they speak out against it. I think its shit men have to deal with it too however theyre not sexually harassing each other so	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 08:59 PM
17	Men issues and female privilege are connected. Wooh buddy there’s a lot to unpack here. No feminists don’t think men’s issues don’t deserve to be platformed. The problem is that men don’t platform their own issues, independently, I most often hear men speak on these issue in conversations around women’s issues. I don’t know a single feminist who wouldn’t be supportive of men having their OWN independently run, and advocated for, healthy, movements. Even here you’re not bringing up men’s issue independently because you claim they are mutually…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 08:51 PM
6	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? Totally agree with you! Even as a woman who doesn’t want kids, I’m super supportive of programs that encourage and help other women do that! I’d love to see paid PARENTAL leave (for father and mother) like the Swedes have. I’d vote for that shit immediately. I think it’s good for babies to have a parent around a lot year one. Especially if you’re breastfeeding. I’m not against people choosing to stay home but I don’t think we do enough to support women who want to do that even if it’s just for a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 08:40 PM
6	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? I think it’s a bit disingenuous/intellectually dishonest to act like “women always worked.” It wasn’t until the 70s that 40-50% of women were gainfully employed. Prior to certain decades various industries and careers were either off limits, or openly hostile, to women. There were many jobs women were not allowed to do, careers they couldn’t pursue, and the lack of employment protections for pregnant women meant your career was likely short. Prior to the 70s most women left the workforce after m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 08:34 PM
–	Q4M: what makes a woman not marriage material? Have you figured that out? I’m 33 and I feel like I’m finally understanding myself, what brings me fulfillment, what fill my cup, what I want to prioritize etc. and it’s taken trial and error to get there. Beyond that I’m not saying you can’t date or pursue a long term loving relationship WHILE you’re also growing! The best relationships are ones that grow WITH you and encourage you to be you best self. But you’re setting yourself up for disappointment if your only and biggest goal in life is ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 07:16 PM
3	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? I’m asking though what percent of women who are married with kids and work would rather be SAHMs but can’t because of economics? It’s not like it’s just money, there are many other reasons to want to have your own “life” and fulfillment outside of being a parent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 07:12 PM
12	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? They have no choice? Then why do 1/4 of all families still have a SAHM? (And that percent is increasing) You think the other 3/4 all want to but can’t? Im sure there’s a percentage there but I doubt it’s 50% or more of the remainder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 05:56 PM
6	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? Because in the last few decades women have gained economic freedoms they didn’t have easy access to before. Higher education. Higher paying, and higher skilled jobs across all industries. With our new economic and social freedoms, women don’t need to get married and have kids in their early 20s. We have time to pursue our own interests and lives without the addition of caring for a family, before we decide if that’s what we even want. Additionally - even in 2 income households, women continue to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 05:51 PM
–	Would you prefer if men put as much effort into their looks as women, or if women put as little as men? I know you didn’t mean to make me gag (you couldn’t know how much I HATE FEET), but the mental image I conjured of the skin between your toes was unpleasant 😂😂😂 But hey good on you for giving a fuck!! I respect a man who actively manages his toe claws.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 05:12 PM
1	Q4M: what makes a woman not marriage material? Girl you are 22 what’s the rush? Your only goal in life shouldn’t be to get married. Your ability to get married says nothing about you as a person, it’s not like an achievement. You shouldn’t be trying to make yourself someone else’s wife material, you should be focusing on learning who you are, what makes you happy, what drives you, what your passions are, and creating a life that you find fulfilling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 01:51 AM
2	Women are more attracted to social status than social skills. I see. I’m not sure that’s true. I will say it seems like it’s becoming a more common sentiment though. I think OLD has burned a lot of people so we’re looking for more organic connections. I’m trying to put myself in the position where I’d have to choose between dating a guy who I met via like the meetup group I’m active in or a stranger from Hinge, I’m still pretty firmly in the “well I’d pick whoever I click the most with” which would require me to go on dates with both lol It’s an interestin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 01:48 AM
6	Women are more attracted to social status than social skills. I’m sorry how does having a friend group equate to being a lone wolf?? Just because they’re all one gender?? Your definitions are interesting But also I kinda don’t trust men who have no platonic lady friends. I have guy friends, I live with one of my best guy friends (and his gf is one of my best friends lol). I have a very blended and healthy friend group. I’m still confused by your comparison here because if you’re meeting someone from outside an established social network, they won’t have a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 01:02 AM
9	Women are more attracted to social status than social skills. Define social status. Becauee when you say a “lone wolf” that to me says “he has no friends” and like nah dawg. People with no friends are red flags. I’ll date an awkward nerd who has meaningful friendships over a charismatic LoNe WoLf 1000% of the time	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 12:50 AM
9	Would you prefer if men put as much effort into their looks as women, or if women put as little as men? “Do some research” what research have you done? Do you work on skincare formulation? Have you consulted with a professional like a dermatologist? I have a friend who is a formulation chemist, worked to develop skincare products at one point. Many products are snake oil, but plenty are not and do not have harsh chemicals. Examples: Hyaluronic Acid - studied for decades. Empirical data abound. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10299688/ Sunscreen - I can’t believe this is something the fuck…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 08:32 PM
8	Would you prefer if men put as much effort into their looks as women, or if women put as little as men? I Stan men getting pedicures. Feet are disgusting. My old school, oil field his entire life, dad gets them 😂 his toes aren’t painted but he likes to get them cleaned up and trimmed once a month. My mom has always loved it because his feet are nicer for it. Pedicures for all! More seriously though: I don’t think when women say they put effort in tot heir appearance it’s about expensive clothes, procedures, accessories, makeup, etc. It’s more about the consideration. Most women are certainly not s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 08:14 PM
1	What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys? Using a tanning bed is just irresponsible for your health so I’d definitely be bothered by it. Potentially a deal breaker. That’s another one that seems to tie itself to a certain personality. I wouldn’t say I’m a skincare addict but sunscreen is part of my daily routine lol so I’m not sure we’d be aligned on long term life values. Plastic surgery and Botox - depends. Using Botox in your 20s and 30s says to me you have self image issues, if you’re 40+ ehh more reasonable but it’s still a vanity …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 04:26 PM
1	What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys? I am being clear. It can be both. People who take PEDs for the gym aren’t the exact same as a regular gym bro. In my experience. I also don’t want to date gym bros. I don’t care for the lifestyle competitive/physique lifting entails. Testosterone for contraception or for hormone replacement for aging (fun fact T also helps women in menopause) is not the same as taking it to make big muscles. It’s a vanity thing. Don’t care for it in that case either. But if you’re taking T becauee you have low T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 04:05 PM
3	What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys? Do y’all realize that me saying I’ve dated people with that physique doesn’t mean I exclusively date power lifters?? Like I haven’t dated all of them but I can tell you I’ve only dated 1 who took steroids and I didn’t like how it affected their personality health and behavior. Steroids/PEDS aren’t exactly easy on the body especially long term. It’s a substance/drug. I don’t need a ton of reasons beyond I don’t like it and the lifestyle it indicates. I also don’t care for the lifestyle. I don’t l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 02:59 PM
3	What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys? Yep not everyone who power lifts takes steroids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 02:52 PM
5	What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys? Breaking news: most humans have body image issues :P Every man I’ve ever been with did that’s for sure. It’s a fucking plague on society. We should all love ourselves a little more	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 01:04 AM
3	What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys? Do you think everyone who goes to the gym does it because they are insecure about their looks or it’s all superficial? Girl please look in to weight lifting and how much it benefits women!! Idgaf about losing weight being skinny etc but I do care about the fact women’s bone density drops like crazy after 30 and the only real fix is lifting (no you don’t have to power lift or even lift super heavy, but putting that strain on your bones and muscles makes them stronger!) Leg strength is a dependabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 12:57 AM
1	People say women should have agency...until they date older men. Mkay buddy. Definitely had more depth and information in my reply than that but if you’re going to intentionally misrepresent what I said (or misunderstand) and provide no real substantial rebuttal, I don’t particularly feel the need to continue engaging. I’m certainly not the thought police, you do you	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 12:49 AM
3	What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys? I mean I do love leg day! But like I said I don’t do ALL of those on leg day. Not even that many movements! But I like to have a large pool to choose from to hit the key muscle groups so I don’t get bored doing it week after week. Novelty keeps my ADHD brain motivated. Plus it’s where women can really shine 😂 my Roomate and I have friendly competition: I stomp him on leg day but he’s got me beat on shoulders and arms. Also fan of farmer carry’s but I do those on arms and for my grip strength. Pl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 12:46 AM
5	What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys? I switch it up from time to time. I do a PPL split. Leg day is usually: - squats (working my way to free weight barbell squats but I have to work on the tightness in my hips from an injury so smith machine or hack squat machine until I get better depth and stability I also like to add in the upside down squat machine especially for single leg presses and calves and because I can do a monster amount of weight on it which is just a fun ego boost lol) - barbell hip thrusts - weighted goblet squats …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 12:32 AM
1	People say women should have agency...until they date older men. They are socially and psychologically different arguments. One is about a power dynamic and again potential grooming. The other you think the gays getting married ruins the sanctity of marriage. I never said all age gap relationships are bad for society, don’t make up arguments for me. But I do look at significant age gap relationships with a critical eye (at a certain age). That is absolutely not the same as thinking gay people are immoral or gross for something they cannot control (sexuality).…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 12:23 AM
8	What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys? I’ve dated power lifters lol so as far as physique goes non issue Steroids deal breaker Chest and butt bigger? I mean unlikely seeing as men don’t have breasts the way women do and idc if I have big ole pec muscles. If he had a more toned ass I’d probably want to work out with him 😂 leg day is my fave day and I don’t see many men with as nice an ass as I do but I’d take it Shirtless on a date? Is it an appropriate time to be shirtless??? I’d think it was weird if he just didn’t have a shirt even…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 09:19 PM
1	People say women should have agency...until they date older men. Free speech is free speech brother. I don’t have to like it or associate with those people. But they’re certainly allowed to be hateful. I find this to be a really odd and frankly faulty comparison. Because yall keep using it with the premise of just being against a relationship. Being homophobic is different, categorically, than having concerns of manipulation/power dynamics/potential grooming. It’s a bit reductive to compare the two and think it’s a gotcha. I’d have equal issue with a much old…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 09:16 PM
2	People say women should have agency...until they date older men. Can you explain how people not liking something and speaking about it removes someone’s agency? Because last I checked it doesn’t seeing as it’s words not laws	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 08:33 PM
0	People say women should have agency...until they date older men. Yeah there’s so many major CEOs out there chasing 18 year olds. They make up a large portion of the population right? Are you saying it’s mostly the mega rich doing this and not just the average man with an average life?? lol wut	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 08:23 PM
4	People say women should have agency...until they date older men. MLMs and pyramid schemes. People rail against that all the time. And it’s definitely something more women get swindled by. Also young adult men and women are being taken advantage of with student loans I wouldn’t consider that a women’s issue specifically. Men tend to fall for “romance” scams. Women do too but typically those scams are targeted at men. I think a lot of people speak up when it comes to age gaps because they have either witnessed or personally been involved and understand the fall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 08:20 PM
1	if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them? Can confirm I’ve helped many a male date (or friend) cover up a blemish lol. Especially when professional pics are involved. My ex and I were going to a black tie wedding and out of nowhere he sprouted the biggest pimple (and he never got them. I think it was from shaving) he had no qualms about having me cover it with makeup. No one wants a random blemish to haunt them in their nice pics! Also, emo boys and eyeliner. I remember crushing hard on Pete Wentz from FoB 😂 it’s definitely a look but i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 08:09 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right I never said it made what she did right dude. My argument is that it doesn’t mean she’s lying or doing it for attention or doesn’t care about the legal case. It jsut means she made a piss poor decision and may have even shot herself in the foot	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 11:10 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right The door is on the porch where she needed to drop off the food are you being dense on purpose?? Whatever man I remember you now. You’re the guy who argued about gym clothes the other day. I’m done engaging with you you’re obtuse	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 11:08 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Sure did experiencing that not affect you mentally? If not I’m impressed! I’m not saying you’d post it on tiktok but traumatized people don’t always make logical decisions. And again hers was a very bad and maybe even borderline illegal choice that absolutely hurts her case in court. Even if the guy is a sex offender creep. We don’t disagree here she was totally wrong for that. Yes it’s a bias. We all have biased. I even said hey I could be wrong and I’ll eat my words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 11:07 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Her eyeballs could see it without zoom though and that’s the point you dip Jesus Christ you’re obnoxious. Indecent exposure charges can happen if you’re naked in front of your windows! Much less naked with your door open which kinda throws expectation of privacy out the window!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 11:04 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right If your door is wide open and you are in plain view it is no longer private so let me rephrase If you pass out drunk with your dick out on your living room floor or couch, with your front door open, genitals easily seen without entering the home. You could be charged for indecent exposure. Hope that helps	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:59 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right lol we’ve all been burned by society because we can all read the fucking statistics on sex offenders convictions. We’ve seen how companies handle these things too. It’s in the zeitgeist. Maybe she’s already been victimized and burned by the system before. I’m not trying to say she was RIGHT. She was WRONG for posting it. But I’m not going to assume she did it for clout. Have you ever been raped? Sexually assaulted? Had someone masturbate in front of you in public? Groped? I’m going to assume no …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:58 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right You didn’t read it all the way. A 16 yr old was involved in his public masturbation. That’s a child by law. And he didn’t even have to touch her. He motioned her to his car Article 2: yes it says definition varies by state! Good job buddy. Yes it defines sex act there too good job! Does every individual state and government entity define it exactly the same? Nope. That’s the point you missed. All the articles I posted are from organizations that deal with sexual violence. Do you want me to hunt …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:45 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right She probably shouldn’t have posted a video and exposed others. But to assume that means she wants clout is wild. Especially as a woman who has had to deal with the system that’s allegedly there to protect us. You’re assuming she wanted to gain views for some reason or another. Or maybe she was freaked the fuck out and didn’t believe door dash would do the right thing. She deserved to be fired for posting that video. She deserved to be dinged by TikTok. But her posting it doesn’t mean this man is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:32 PM
2	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Prove he was asleep	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:29 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Should she have posted it to TikTok no but big fat doubt this man had no intent. But yall will fall over yourselves to defend him lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:29 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Dog you’re fucking wrong Here’s a direct example https://www.yahoo.com/news/jackson-man-18-charged-masturbating-014924941.html “An 18-year-old man was charged this week with various sex crimes after investigators determined that he had masturbated in front of a woman and three girls in Lakewood, on four separate occasions since the start of the year, said Ocean County Prosecutor Bradley D. Billhimer. Massinissa Ladj of Jackson, was charged with sexual assault,” CHARGED WITH SEXUAL ASSAULT for me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:27 PM
0	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Jesus fucking Christ how naive are you people? Flashers. Exhibitionistic disorder. Indecent exposure. All plausible in this scenario. Leaving the door open with your dick out in plain view while someone is coming to deliver something, could absolutely fall under those categories. For fucks sake	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:22 PM
3	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right LOL the cops are famed for dealing with victims of sexual violence. So if they disagree with her, case closed! If you’re drunk as a skunk and piss in public. Still indecent exposure. Still criminal. You’re wrong. A drunk person can also be convicted of rape! So idk where you found this argument. Probably the recycling bin of the TRP	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:19 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Depends on the law. Indecent exposure can be considered sexual assault. It is at the very least a sex offense or sexual violence. But it can absolutely be classified as a form of sexual assault. Legally, sexual assault can happen without touching. If you nonconsenually force someone to watch you jerk off that can be SA. Forcing someone to watch porn is sexual assault in a court of law. Below are jsut 3 sources but in each they explain that indecent exposure can very much be legally defined as se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:17 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Ever heard of flashers? Leaving your door open with your dick exposed, is flasher behavior. Or rather exhibitionistic disordered behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:08 PM
2	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Indecent exposure is a crime and considered sexual harassment The woman in question used the wrong word, okay fine. It’s still sex pest behavior. It’s still harassment. It’s still indecent exposure. It’s still a crime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:06 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Semantics. Sexual harassment and indecent exposure can still land you on the sex offender list. Yes it would still be sexual harassment and indecent exposure if the exposed person had tits instead of a duck Make up scenarios to be mad about and use as whataboutism, A+	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:04 PM
2	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Actually if you’re drunk and expose yourself ITS STILL CRIMINAL. Fun fact! Intent is INCLUDED as a factor. You know for 100% certainty that he didn’t intend to expose himself? Okay cool prove it Go head and fall all over yourself to defend this shit lol your arguments are so poorly constructed and unserious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 10:01 PM
1	The DoorDash incident proves feminism right Go read about flashers or creeps who get off on indecent exposure/exposing themselves to others. Because it’s a thing. And this whole story could very plausibly be that. You think it’s an impossible scenario?? Naive It’s called Exhibitionistic disorder There is a chance this guy got drunk and passed out. I’ve ordered door dash and gotten drunk and fallen asleep. Never with my door open though because that’s pretty fuckin weird. The whole situation is extremely suspicious and I agree with OP, the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 09:55 PM
-2	Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is. Don’t get a job in sales if you can’t handle rejection lol that’s for sure. Rejection is a part of life and it happens in more than just dating. Of course there’s some folks who have experienced more of it than others but it is still a part of life. It’s your choice if you decide to avoid dating, sales jobs, performing, karaoke contests, or various other ways you could possibly be rejected. Or you can spend time working on your mentality around it so it doesn’t cause so much distress.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/25 08:58 PM
2	How do you have so much confidence or ego? “Only bitch I’m in a competition with is me” Megan Thee Stallion Great words to live by. Comparison is the thief of joy. If you create a life that brings you joy and fulfillment, you spend less time looking at others, especially through the (absolutely rose colored) lens of social media lol. Are influencers or OFers actually getting more out of their lives than others? Eh I doubt it. You could argue cold hard cash but there’s definitely more to life than making easy money and it doesn’t guarante…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 07:06 PM
3	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? Assuming that someone who voted for Trump believes and adheres to the WHOLE of conservative ideology is supremely lacking in nuance. I know a heck of a lot of registered republicans who are still pro choice, but they vote red for “economics.” Abortion isn’t a key issue for them. People hold complex and nuanced beliefs. Same applies to dem voters, not everyone who votes dem hates guns. Etc A quick search for stats leads to a nicely broken out Gallup report. 36% of the population is conservative v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 06:51 PM
3	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. OMG this is one of my fave fitness “influencers” on insta!! His ass is iconic and frankly goals	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 01:18 AM
3	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. OP you’re excellent at cherry picking. You should volunteer to help farmers you’re so good at it Between your 11 year old article that has no mentions of SA accusations and picking the minority to bolster your point. I’ve been going to gyms across the country for like 20 years and I’ve seen it all 🤣 especially at powerlifting gyms. I go to a 24hr fitness and see dudes in booty shorts. One of my favorite fitness people on insta is a straight man with the best ass I eva seen and he wears slutty li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 01:02 AM
7	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. LOL okay bb. Clearly from I think literally every response to your post there ain’t as much of one as you think 🤣🤣🤣 but if you don’t spend a lot of time in the gym I guess you wouldn’t know	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 12:56 AM
7	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. Because it seems like you’re mad men aren’t wearing women’s tights and crop tops to the gym 🤷🏼‍♀️😂 I’m saying live your truth if you want to wear slutty little gym clothes baby Like do you even lift OP? I’m not convinced	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 12:52 AM
9	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. Homophobic? You’re the one saying men aren’t wearing women’s clothes so it’s not the same thing. You jsut be moving goal posts all over the place and saying goofy shit. Also don’t have to be gay to cross dress! That’s homophobic to assume dawg. What’s wrong with you	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 12:50 AM
4	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. If you want to wear women’s lulu lemon, who is stopping you? Of course men aren’t wearing the exact same outfits. Becauee most aren’t wearing women’s clothes my dude. But if that’s your thing, live your truth	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 12:46 AM
4	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. See lots of this at festivals 🤣 sky’s out thighs out baby	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 12:43 AM
1	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. I still do not see an accusation of sexual assault here. I see someone who is saying “we can all see your bulge” You’re really reaching here OP Do you even lift? Lmao I feel like you’ve never been to a weight lifting gym in your life	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 12:41 AM
1	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. So where in this story did the man get accused of sexual assault? Don’t see it	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 12:37 AM
2	If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory. Has it never occurred to you that most people who go to the gym aren’t staring at their fellow gym goers? I’m a horny bisexual who thinks women are better looking than men on average and I ain’t staring at them in the gym. I’ve also seen plentyyyyy of men in slutty tight shorts. I can’t imagine it’s super comfy if it’s tight on your junk but I’m not “distracted” by someone’s dick print. I’m too busy lifting weights. Or if I’m even stealing glances I’m looking at your arm and thigh muscles 🤣 whic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 12:33 AM
0	NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic men The autism may be part of the root cause (not understanding social norms or boundaries) but you’re right it isn’t “to blame.” The person I met blamed their autism not me lol I think that shit is a cop out and I definitely don’t mean to paint with broad brush saying all autists are creeps because of autism. Not my intention here My point is more that: it’s not deterministic. Just because you are autistic, doesn’t mean you have to behave poorly or in ways that bring people discomfort or harms them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/25 05:25 PM
2	NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic men I recently had an interaction with a man who blamed his boundary stomping and rudeness on autism. I think y’all don’t quite know what threatening means. He kept touching me even after I moved away and said I didn’t want to be touched. He wasn’t being a literal menacing cartoon villain, but someone who whines when you ask them to stop doing something that physically makes you uneasy IS threatening. I know plenty of well adjusted autistic dudes in relationships and many are my close friends. The w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 12:25 AM
-2	"Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way" Aight we’re moving the goal posts now lol Are you sure using Kurt cobain as an example here works in your favor?? Isn’t the story that he took advantage of someone with Down’s syndrome? Wtf kind of example is that? Exploitative relationships aren’t good ones dude. “I don’t need to mask” okay buddy. Everyone masks to a degree. Even NT people because when your environment or audience changes, you have to work with that. Or maybe that’s just a life skill I’ve garnered. I have my people who I don’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 12:21 AM
3	Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women. My mom had me at 38. She lifted weights until her 60s when an injury made her stop. Her activity levels never showed her age. And she only started lifting in her 30s! She also worked out throughout her pregnancy. If you take care of your body, you’re better off for longer. This includes fertility and pregnancy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 12:11 AM
–	"Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way" I’m well aware disabilities exist on a spectrum. Seeing as I’m professionally (not tiktok) DX’d AUDHD and have been for over a decade. I’ve been to a lot of behavioral therapy in my life even before my DX! It fucking helped. So did the immense pressure of not being a weird girl. I’ve now found a balance as An adult. And as far as my adhd goes my evaluating psych made me take the test twice because I scored so poorly he thought I was faking. I deal with this as a disability, it has a major affect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 12:06 AM
-4	"Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way" “A woman who is attractive enough the flaws won’t be a deterrent” We’ve come full circle. This is the same shit yall be sayin about Chad 💀💀💀 hot guys get away with anything because they’re hot LOL I’m sorry this is deliciously ironic. Just be hot and autistic bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 12:01 AM
–	"Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way" I’m failing to see how this even disputes my point about how young girls are socialized and how women are more likely to care and cater to social norms. It kinda supports it lol Those autistic girls were socialized from a young age to behave “right”. Boys will be boys but girls just mature faster! Lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/25 11:59 PM
–	"Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way" I’m sorry I don’t understand your point here about women able to mask because men ask them out? Autism doesn’t just affect dating lol it affects your whole existence. And what do you disagree with? That autistic folk can’t learn to behave differently??	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/25 06:59 PM
–	"Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way" There’s research addressing this. Granted it’s new because for a long time autism (and may other diagnoses) were based on almost exclusively male presentations. But there is some data to validate the idea that how young girls are socialized leads to higher levels of masking/camouflage. I’ll include some links below. Anecdotally, as someone diagnosed with AuDHD (both later in life and by professionals not tiktok lol) I do believe socialization plays a part. “Boys will be boys” mentality. Young bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/25 06:57 PM
–	"Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way" I mean, autism affects your personality no? It’s also not a death sentence. If women can learn to mask at a high level, so can men. Anyone can if they want to, try to, and have something to model behavior off of. This includes empathy which can be learned!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/25 06:37 PM
6	Women tend to be all about mental health awareness, yet practice a zero tolerance policy for socially awkward men There’s actually studies on how autistic women are socialized more to mask and therefore integrate better in to society. Women are better at hiding their autism, because of how we’re socialized. So idk if I agree with your statement. If men were socialized the same way as women in regards to social behavior or sought help that focused on the same - and they put in the effort - I’m sure they’d be able to hide it better	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 09:25 PM
3	Women tend to be all about mental health awareness, yet practice a zero tolerance policy for socially awkward men That’s a very generous example you’re using. Compared to some of my experience with men who blame their weird to inappropriate behavior on autism. And the examples differ here in that someone being a people pleaser and struggling to say no harms them. Someone touching you and invading your physical space because “they have autism” is harming someone else. There’s harmless behaviors and then there’s less than harmless ones. When it’s the latter, autism still isn’t an excuse. And why is it mostly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 09:21 PM
3	I Don’t Think Women Actually Know What Emotional Intelligence Is Eh I’m a woman and I need a schedule to clean. I have adhd and a full time job and other shit going on and a 4 bedroom house to keep tidy with my Roomate. Who also has adhd. Some things are easier. Like cleaning the kitchen after you cook (duh). Dishes. Etc. But it helps me keep up with non daily tasks to have a schedule and to separate tasks so it’s not like “clean everything every Sunday” because then I’m overwhelmed. granted - I made this schedule and task list MYSELF (with some helpful input…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 09:16 PM
1	Q4W: Do you think most men are just not good enough/worthy of dating/marriage in the modern world? “Why does it require a different subset” because that’s how you dig deeper and get more targeted vs generalized results. So if my question is: do women who pull in a substantial income still expect men to be financial providers - that can’t be answered by the pew study. Because it’s just generalized. I looked and didn’t see a delineation by income and expectations. That would be insightful data. It doesn’t contradict my claim as I was speaking specifically to women, not men and women. Sorry that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 10:00 PM
9	Q4W: Do you think most men are just not good enough/worthy of dating/marriage in the modern world? Interestingly your data shows: - men place equal to higher importance on men being providers to be good partners as education and household income increases, this becomes less important While I don’t disagree there’s a general social more that persists about men being financial providers - I’m not convinced that women who want partners of equal to higher income want PROVIDERS. This would be a separate subset of people to study. Generally, anecdotally, I find this to be more about joint financial…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 08:40 PM
8	Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with? I mean they weren’t. Humans in general are not meant to function as we now do lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 08:18 PM
0	Q4W: Do you think most men are just not good enough/worthy of dating/marriage in the modern world? How is it an expectation to provide if the woman also works and brings in income? Wanting someone on equal footing or close to that does not equal wanting a provider.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 07:57 PM
2	Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers? So if they’re working themselves to the bone - how much time does that give them to spend with their wife and family? I’ve been a workaholic and I’ve been with a workaholic. When your partner is always working or stressed or preoccupied and doesn’t put effort in to the relationship (be that quality time which is free all the way up to actively planning dates/outings, gifts etc.) how can you (royal you) expect intimacy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 07:49 PM
11	Women's brains have been FRIED by social media and OLD Man some of yalls feeds are f*cked lol. My Instagram reel doom scrolling feed is filled with recipes, new music, crochet projects, ROCKS, science, history. I haven’t seen brain rot like this since I first downloaded tiktok years ago (which I no longer have anyway.) Gotta train that bad boy to feed you better content. If your feed sucks - it’s because you engage in the shitty posts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 07:43 PM
4	Is there a double standard where women say they find men going to therapy attractive, but then treat it as a red flag later? I guess I’ve yet to meet basically anyone in life who wouldn’t benefit from even a little therapy. Especially men haha. I do think it’s kinda weird to talk about therapy on your dating profile tbh. It always comes off as performative. So even as someone who is a big proponent of therapy, I don’t want to put that on my profile or read it on someone else’s. Maybe they do mention it because they’re trying to weed out anti therapy men? Idk though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 09:02 PM
3	Is there a double standard where women say they find men going to therapy attractive, but then treat it as a red flag later? I’m curious as to why	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 08:11 PM
2	Is there a double standard where women say they find men going to therapy attractive, but then treat it as a red flag later? There’s no double standard, because being in therapy doesn’t mean the problems go away 100% or forever. Nor does it mean someone has to be willing to be with you if you have certain behaviors. As someone who’s done a looot of therapy - it doesn’t always eradicate the issue. Maybe you’ve gone from raising your voice 90% of the time to 20%, and that’s amazing progress! Even if you never get it to 0% that’s a monumental change. But some people can’t even deal with that 20%. I’m also NOT calling you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 08:07 PM
1	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. The evidence is anecdotal. Much like your own. And as to your second assertion: no. Provide evidence. Here’s some: https://ro.co/health-guide/what-size-penis-do-women-prefer/ https://blog.ziphealth.co/best-penis-size/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4558040/ https://www.askmen.com/sex/sex_tips/women-discuss-penis-size.html Absolutely NOT “considerably larger” lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 07:41 PM
–	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. I’m sure there are women somewhere out there who do. Just like some men like small tits and asses The majority of women aren’t size queens. Much like the majority of men. I know this is a very complicated concept but I’m sure you’ll figure it out	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 09:49 PM
–	The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter. BREAKING NEWS Some women publicly gush over big dicks on a TV show Women who don’t care, don’t say shit Also the sky is blue	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/25 08:47 PM
3	If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for? A few reasons. I love my body, I think I look good, and I see no need to hide my body. I like looking at myself call me narcissus lol. Therefore I wear things that I feel confident in and that show off the body I put in all that gym time for. Much like a sculpture at a museum, I can be on display and not be inviting touching or flirting. I work a corporate job. I dress to certain professional standards most work days. I also have to go to the field which means PPE. In the corporate world, I only…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 08:37 PM
0	Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it? Yes I mean it Attraction is subjective. I have found plenty of folks attractive who did not fit the “narrow” conventional standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 09:13 PM
5	Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’s lol u mad? You still don’t know kink from fetish. And I’m not interfering with consenting adults doing weird shit. Go spend more time not getting laid. The rest of us will enjoy our healthy sex lives 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 12:23 AM
3	Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’s No they are not. Per psychology. Go read a book bb I ain’t taking any life advice from someone who needs to learn to be sexually charismatic from Reddit my guy lmao you’re the naive one 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 12:21 AM
1	Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’s As someone who is in to kinky taboo sex: you’re wrong. You think the same way my religiously brainwashed friend did when she was 20 lol. You absolutely still enjoy “vanilla” sex even if you like kink. If you can’t get off without your “kink” it’s technically a “fetish” and a different category psychologically. There’s even studies about how people who engage in BDSM and kink have healthier relationships due to having high levels of open communication and honesty. Trust. Among other things. And s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/25 12:04 AM
2	Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them lol raised by women like idk almost everyone else in this world? Think that gives you some kind of authority? I’m actually 6 women all meshed in to one like the human centipede so AKTUALLY you’re wrong. 🙄🙄 Learn some damn self control you absolute gremlins	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 08:39 PM
–	Women are right to exclude hordes of men from sex and dating What are you trying to say? Just because something is allowed doesn’t mean you have to do it - in reference to what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 07:58 PM
–	Women are right to exclude hordes of men from sex and dating If only you knew I teeny tiny bit of psychology. You’d understand why it’s easy to leave healthy relationships but hard to leave abusive ones (this goes for men and women, shit is gender neutral)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 07:57 PM
–	Why Do Women Insist the Women Men Complain About Only Exist Online? Are you saying 21% of that 40% are born to couples but unmarried women? Or 19% Also what’s your source? Just for clarity sake	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 07:37 PM
–	Why Do Women Insist the Women Men Complain About Only Exist Online? Out of wedlock doesn’t mean single. So I’d be curious how that alters the statistic. Plenty of folks are having kids without marriage AND staying together	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 07:33 PM
0	Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them I am in fact an expert on confidence thank you :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 07:28 PM
4	Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them Real confidence doesn’t come from external validation. There’s no problem with people being attracted to you when you’re dressed hot. It’s the - assumption it’s done for that reason - unwelcome behavior (see: inappropriate approaches and leering)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 07:23 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards I’m just matching your energy bb	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 06:50 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards It’s really not that interesting. The only people who get offended by the (physical) standards of others, are insecure because they don’t fit the standard. It ain’t that deep and it isn’t worth taking seriously. Upset people are always louder than neutral ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 06:38 PM
3	Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them I’m not being obtuse. You are. I’ve been going to clubs probably longer than you. What you don’t understand is no one has to care what the connotation is. You can go to a club, looking sexy (I’m not going to engage in your pedantry about defining the word sexy lmao) and not want to engage with a man. That is a cold hard fact. There are no rules that say women have to be willing to engage with a man at a club either. As long as you’re not leering at women or having conversations with their tits, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 06:31 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards I can do you one better. That’s a chronically online take you have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 06:06 PM
5	Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them Because it feels good to look good. I’ve had plenty of years on this earth to think about it. Feeling and looking good is a confidence booster. Bi women exist btw. I know yall forget but we do and we manage to not drool like an asylum patient at hot women. And yes we do wear bras as shirts to go out dancing because it’s hot as fuck. I was out at a show this summer in a jumpsuit with a swim suit top under neath so I could remove half my outfit 🤣 and I was at place known as a mostly men’s gay bar …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 06:02 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards I’m absolutely certain I know more woman than you and I’d say you’re wrong. But think what you want!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 05:54 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards Okay and? Is she the supreme leader and speaker for all womankind? No? Then let her be mad lol idgaf what some random woman is upset about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 05:40 PM
1	Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them Golly gee I didn’t know CHILDREN were the ones who dressed revealingly. What a weird statement to make. Adults are the ones with adult bodies and features and choices. So we are in fact dressing like an adult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 05:29 PM
4	Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them Your comment is incongruent with logic. Impersonating a firefighter is also a crime sweaty. Also it’s a job Looking hot, while it does require some effort, is not a job. Much less a life saving one. Get over it. Women like to look hot and it’s not for you and if you act a fool you deserve whatever ire comes your way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 05:09 PM
8	Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them Imagine having so little self control as an adult you can’t maintain eye/face contact in a convo. Bisexual women don’t do this shit lol Men are the weaker sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 04:39 PM
–	Women should never lower their standards I mean yeah? Y’all think this is a gotcha lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 04:36 PM
7	Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them Because you can dress sexy to feel sexy and still not want to engage with men. Has that ever occurred to yall? ETA: have you ever even BEEN to a club dancing for hours? It’s hot as fuck. Should I wear a moomoo with leggings and a hoodie?? Hell naw	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 04:23 PM
13	Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them Look at peoples faces when you’re talking to them OP wtf That is basic human decency. Get a grip	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 04:21 PM
1	Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends? I don’t have to think hard about this. Most of them were hook ups at first lol one of my best relationships started from a ONS, we were together for like 4ish years. The rest that didn’t start as hook ups, maybe just one I would say no. But idk how much HS boyfriends count 🤣 The better question is: would I have wanted to date/commit to everyone I’ve ever hooked up with. That answer is a hard no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 07:36 PM
1	Q4W: How much money does a man need in order for it to factor into your attraction towards them? Is there a number that would overcome and “physical” issues for you? There is no amount of money that would make me want to date someone I found physically unattractive. Nor for a disability (though not all physical disabilities would be a dealbreaker anyway.) That’s something I’d have to take on a case by case basis, and decide if their limitations would heavily impact my life or limit them from participating in things I’d want to share with a partner. Money matters for financial stability. I make a fair amount more than average. So I don’t exactly need someone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 09:40 PM
1	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women I lost about 3.50 participating in it	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 12:28 AM
2	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women Nah I’m over arguing about it. I’m not invested in changing your view. You can have your opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 12:26 AM
1	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women More like faulty comparison	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 12:22 AM
1	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women Like I said. It’s a philosophical debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 12:17 AM
1	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women No I very much said it was gray. Just because it’s on paper not as bad doesn’t mean it isn’t immoral on paper either. See. Nuance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 12:08 AM
2	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women Yeah you’ve completely misconstrued my point. Maybe you’re taking my original statement absolutely literally. If so, like obviously it’s not literally half. Thank you for mansplaining passport bros to me. Although you did it with a whole lotta lack of nuance. Money creates a power dynamic inherently yes, is every case equivalent to indentured servitude? (I’ll let that ridiculous Dubai comparison pass since I’m taking a hyperbole mulligan myself.) I would say, no. I’m sure many of them are situat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 12:01 AM
4	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women I am not wrong, so no lol You have clearly misunderstood my point. Don’t mistake my opinion here for “oh poor passport men” it ain’t that. I simply see the nuance in the world. Not every mail order bride lives in a hut in a 3rd world country. Not every passport bro is an abuser. I didn’t provide any hard core stats on this and I really don’t care to. People and relationships are complex and it is naive to think just because someone appears to be at a disadvantage, they cannot also manipulate or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 11:37 PM
5	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women Maybe. Maybe not. There can be elements of abuse or toxicity involved. Control. Power dynamics. Either way. I don’t particularly care what other consenting adults do unless there is active harm being done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 11:19 PM
8	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women Their money. Status. Citizenship. Access to other countries. Etc. Half the time (this is not a statistic it’s just a guess because tbh I ain’t takin this argument seriously unless OP does) Sometimes they’re not. Sometimes they’re taking advantage of someone’s situation. Sometimes I’m sure it’s genuinely joyful and mutual	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 11:16 PM
2	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women Hey now I think that’s a little extreme man lol I’m not going to let someone I find unattractive burn to death in front of me. I also may not pee on them though, that’s why you always carry a water bottle. Never know when you’ll have to save someone with it	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 11:02 PM
1	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women That still doesn’t necessitate laws about it. I think those women are getting the better deal half the time at least anyway. I think it’s 50/50 on who’s using who in those cases 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 11:00 PM
1	Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure? I like competition. Makes winning feel even better. I’ve worked in a male dominated field nearly my entire career. It’s never been an issue Ambition is attractive. It doesn’t have to be about work though. Someone who doesn’t have anything they’re working toward is just stagnant and I mean…boring? You don’t have to strive to climb the corporate ladder or run every marathon. But you should have goals you’re working toward. I do kinda see it is a failure in some respect to have no goals, nothing yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 10:58 PM
30	CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western women Why do we “need” to? You’re not harmed by some mid guy traveling abroad to find a wife. Honestly I think half the time they’re the ones being taken advantage of for their US citizenship or economic status anyway. Let them reap what they sow? Let them remove themselves from the dating pool? Who gives a shit ETA: hard to even entertain the idea of changing your view when you won’t elaborate on it lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 10:52 PM
1	Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men? lol whatever weirdo	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 08:55 PM
1	Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men? Don’t be obtuse. Legal adult doesn’t mean you have all the adult experience and worldliness. Looking back at myself and everyone else I knew at 18, we were still babies in the world lol But we all know why those older large age gap people want to date someone less experienced. Personally I wouldn’t touch anyone under like 25-28 with a 10ft pole because they’re goofy but I prefer my partners to be on the same playing field as me	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 05:29 PM
2	Women in the past were not unhappy in their marriages, modern women's psychology have just adapted to modern society Is that what I wrote? Mmmm nope I think your reading comprehension skills need some work or you’re trolling. In case it needs to be said: the world does not exist in false dichotomies. Reality is nuanced. Sometimes people lie to other and themselves. That is very readily apparent. Does that mean everyone is lying? No and no one said that. You just made that strawman up in your head to be aggressive about. Hope that helps	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 01:01 PM
2	Women in the past were not unhappy in their marriages, modern women's psychology have just adapted to modern society Yes people never lie to themselves or others. No one has ever been delulu about their relationship ever. Are you for real or are you just like idk extremely limited in experience. Talk to anyone who’s finally seen the light after an abusive relationship. You might learn something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 06:13 AM
6	Women in the past were not unhappy in their marriages, modern women's psychology have just adapted to modern society Oh sweet summer child. We didn’t have to ask. They just told us. How naive of you to think these conversations haven’t been had. Our mothers (most of ours at least and it sounds like you’re young so definitely yours) got to live in a better time. Our grandmother’s and older, not so much. It doesn’t sound like you’ve actually conversated much with the matriarchs/elders of your family. I have. Most of the other women I know have too. It may not have been all women who felt trapped, but it was a di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 06:05 AM
1	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. I mean I am being truthful when I tell someone they should learn to live a good life without the pursuit of a partner or allowing that lack of to destroy them 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 03:46 PM
1	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. You’re…on a post talking about it my dude. That’s the point. No one brings this shit up at parties lol at least not any I’ve ever been to. Maybe it gets brought up because you’ve brought it up in the past? And that wasn’t even the question here. It was okay well when these men actively complain what do they need to hear if they can’t handle being told to be happy or to try and fix things they can?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 03:38 PM
1	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. You’re…on a post talking about it my dude. That’s the point. No one brings this shit up at parties lol at least not any I’ve ever been to. Maybe it gets brought up because you’ve brought it up in the past? And that wasn’t even the question here. It was okay well when these men actively complain what do they need to hear if they can’t handle being told to be happy or to try and fix things they can?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 03:37 PM
0	I don’t see any good reason why men and women, regardless of how they look, can’t have meaningful, lasting friendships with one another. Also, having friendships with different genders can be a very good thing. I said “potentially toxic” because it is. People have this mistaken idea that you have to respect everyone’s opinions and feelings. You don’t. Not everything needs validity. Beyond that I said potentially. But all you got from it was “omg she’s calling me toxic” Maybe you are. Maybe not. Maybe these views come from how you were raised. What media you engage with. Your sphere of influence. Idk. Which is why I said to examine it. Challenging our own beliefs is how we grow and gain perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 03:23 PM
1	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. Okay so you’re complaining about being told “lies” and also complaining about being told to get over it and try to life your life anyway. Soooooo again what do you tell people like you? Apparently nothing. Lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 03:21 PM
-1	I don’t see any good reason why men and women, regardless of how they look, can’t have meaningful, lasting friendships with one another. Also, having friendships with different genders can be a very good thing. Nah good sex isn’t hard to resist. I’m not an animal. I have higher brain functions. Why go to a party without my SO? Because they’re busy? Out of town? Not in the mods to party? Life doesn’t stand still because your SO isn’t involved. It’s healthy to have a life outside your relationship. Why would my ex have gone climbing without me? I’m not a climber. Duh. Had I been insecure I’d have worried but I’m not. I was never worried about my ex leaving me for his climbing partner. Oh boy a citation t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 03:18 PM
1	I don’t see any good reason why men and women, regardless of how they look, can’t have meaningful, lasting friendships with one another. Also, having friendships with different genders can be a very good thing. I also view relationships as very serious. Ive never cheated on a monogamous partner. I’m not sure how a serious relationship precludes you from friendship though. It’s not even about values, you can’t handwave away potentially toxic behavior by calling it values difference. It’s unhealthy to pedestalize relationships. You need more than just each other. Again, what if your partner is bi? Now they can’t have any friends? This breaks down outside of being hetero normative. I invite you to challen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 03:11 PM
1	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. And I’ve heard plenty of women not care. Most women are not going on multiple dates a week. Much less while in a situationship. And that’s all irrelevant. I don’t need to be an astronaut to know it’s hard. You don’t have to be sexless to know that it probably sucks. You don’t have to be perpetually single to know it can be a fulfilling life. The advice is to learn to be happy. What else should these men be told? Lies? God forbid they’re told the reasons they’re apparently repugnant because lord …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 02:42 PM
1	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. What’s your point here? No one is being forced to date or f*ck someone they think is weird. No one is forcing men to do it. No one is forcing women to do it. If men are banging weird women that’s their CHOICE	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 02:22 PM
2	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. I doubt your whataboutism and beyond that they’re not the same situation. A kissless virgin at 25-30+ is far far far weirder than an older woman getting less attention. The former is an extreme outlier. And if they get upset being told to center something other than men in their lives, that’s their problem. Am I supposed to police their behavior? I’m not even sure the zone of irrelevance exists. All the older women I’ve known via my parents who were either divorced or widowed either had no probl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 01:12 PM
1	I don’t see any good reason why men and women, regardless of how they look, can’t have meaningful, lasting friendships with one another. Also, having friendships with different genders can be a very good thing. That’s a wild comparison lol. Insinuating there’s some sort of addiction component here? Weird as hell Idk dude maybe because they’re friends?? Maybe there was a party and it’s safer/easier to sleep on a spare room? Maybe the friend lives far away. God forbid you go camping with opposite sex friends too right? lol yall are sheltered as hell. My ex’s climbing partner was a woman he went camping with without me because I’m not particularly interested in going to remote and difficult locations for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 01:05 PM
16	Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person? Mmmm if men were just neutral or “not valued” then being involved with them wouldn’t inherently make you tainted. The mindsets OP described are absolutely not neutral. They are categorically negative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 02:11 AM
1	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. Yeah war is extreme haha, your suggestion is a better comparison! Humans are actually really bad at knowing what will make them happy. I know I read it somewhere but it’s so bad that we can’t really predict what will make us happy a year from now, much less a decade. Obviously a lot of people are mean and ugly about it but I think saying “learn to be happy solo” means living your life with the absence of even the pursuit of that thing. What would your life be like with the absence of this. Have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 01:49 AM
2	The narrative that "women are happily choosing to be single" makes ZERO sense when you look at the actual data Okay so…they’re categorically not single even in their minds? Sooo they don’t fit this description lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 01:00 AM
1	The narrative that "women are happily choosing to be single" makes ZERO sense when you look at the actual data Just because a bunch of dudes are willing to f*ck anyone who will let them, does not mean they are real viable options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 01:00 AM
1	I don’t see any good reason why men and women, regardless of how they look, can’t have meaningful, lasting friendships with one another. Also, having friendships with different genders can be a very good thing. Why? Because you don’t trust them? What if your partner is bi? Now they can’t sleep over at same sex friends houses either? In the end it is insecurity. Cheaters gunna cheat no matter what restrictions you try to place	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 12:53 AM
2	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. I’m trying to think of a good comparison here like do you think one needs to experience the trauma of going to war to understand it’s bad? But that feels too extreme. Again, I see OP calls out that extreme end “kissless virgins” but I responses to the post in regards to the specific and broad subject. It’s going to sound harsh but I think if you haven’t had any intimacy in decades of your life, you do need to be told it’s a you problem. I have never met a well adjusted, normal, desirable person …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 12:49 AM
2	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. I, again, am not unfamiliar with the concept of kissless virgins. I’ve been hearing about this small subset of people since the early days of incels. OP mentioned those people, however, their post still read pretty broad overall. Further. I don’t think it’s BAD advice to tell those folks to learn to be happy single. I also do not think it’s wrong to say if you’ve had zero intimacy for multiple decades of life it is a YOU issue. Again this subset of people is statistically tiny. Though likely ver…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 12:42 AM
4	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. Honestly yeah. Outside of some very extreme outliers or asexual people (who wouldn’t be complaining lol) it is weird and it’s very likely a you problem. The % of men who are “kissless virgins” is extremely small in reality, and there have always been people who were just…not desirable. I think most of that can be fixed/helped to some extent though	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 11:05 PM
6	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. How much being single affects you (general you) can be weird though. I was mostly answering the idea of being open about relationship history. And MOST men are not in the “kissless Virgin” territory. I even said that idk what to tell that subset of men. But I know men who are as single as I have been who also act like it’s the end of the world. Which is ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 09:40 PM
9	If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history. I not only think being single is perfectly fine, but I enjoy it as much as (if not sometimes more than) being in a relationship. AMA! Lol I don’t count anything before turning 18 because idk high school dating feels unserious but I did have 2 “relationships” in HS. But I was single most of that time. My sr year in particular I was single and it didn’t bother me. College I had a fling here and there until I met my ex who I dated for 3 years. We broke up shortly after I graduated. I was then singl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 09:21 PM
2	Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men? Why do you care exactly? Begone negative Nancy	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 08:00 PM
3	Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men? I hope it works out for yall 💕 I’d say give it a shot if you like her back!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 07:32 PM
10	Women, what would your opinion be of an older woman who told you that she was attracted to young men? 35 and 57 isn’t that big of a deal, even if it was a man who was older imo. Once someone is 25 I kinda don’t care anymore. It might still give me the ick depending on the age gap, but I think it’s unlikely to be predatory per se. Past 30? Not weird in anyway. 30 feels like the sweet spot for maturity for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 07:28 PM
6	In what ways being a woman was easier in the past and in which ways It was harder to be a woman 100 years ago compared to nowadays? Nothing about being a woman in the past sounds like it was more appealing. I’d never give up my high earning career to be a kept woman. I wouldn’t step in to the past for millions of dollars. Less freedom doesn’t mean your life is easier. Or else women wouldn’t have fought for the rights we have now. So to answer your question, personally, being someone who HAD to rely on a man for a good life doesn’t sound easier. It sound so much worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 02:15 PM
6	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) I take issue with your false dilemma. Lots of entertaining men aren’t “chads” or PUAs. Lol well y’all whine so much about the average woman and her tastes i suppose that’s some sort of backwards compliment then 🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 02:02 PM
9	Do women even want to meet men? Not necessarily. Even the college aged gals are placing less emphasis on dating. Even when I was in college this is how I felt	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 01:57 PM
7	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) Do y’all for real think men who are fun to talk to are douchey chads lol like what is going on in your noggin? I’ve got friends ranging from autistic engineer to ones you’d label as “chads” and they’re all entertaining and fun to be around, and none are douchey. Don’t act like there’s some sort of false dilemma here. I must also be a chad because I’m entertaining as fuck	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 12:12 AM
8	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) Entertaining = / = pick up artist. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 12:06 AM
2	Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women) I’m an extrovert who mostly dates nerdy introverts (all my LTRs have been with gamers too lol.) An annoying portion of my friends are introverts too lol (I love them though) Introverted doesn’t have to mean boring at all. Honestly introvert and extrovert are kinda nonsense. Even as an extrovert I need me time, I need breaks from social engagements, but I am 90% of the time energized by them. Introverted just means you’re drained by social engagements, especially with strangers. I know introverts…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 12:05 AM
7	Do women even want to meet men? Jobs + time consuming hobbies haha I have little free time between work, hobbies, and friends. I’m reticent to give any up for dating. Maybe next year 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 11:48 PM
10	Do women even want to meet men? I think a lot of women still want a life partner, but I think the importance of finding one has overall lessened. (Unless you want to have kids). The zeitgeist has changed. My parents, rare chill boomers, raised me to be independent, self reliant, and to never depend on a man for money or happiness. At the same time…my mom doesn’t quite understand how I can also be happy and fulfilled without a relationship. She’s asked my sister if I’m dating again because I’m so happy, and anytime I go out she…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 11:45 PM
3	Do people take dating advice more negatively from the opposite gender compared to their own? Same. In fact I’m recently out of it. It took time to come around, but I don’t think I would have as quickly or with as much confidence without that gentle feedback from my friends. Even during the times I didn’t think I’d walk away, their reminders of my worth rattled around in my head haha. Knowing they were there to support me made the break so much easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 11:17 PM
4	Do people take dating advice more negatively from the opposite gender compared to their own? No no please keep speaking up! Even if friends don’t listen at first, it’ll stick with them. And it’ll pop back up every time whoever they’re saying acts up. Eventually, hopefully, they’ll thank you for the reminder when they finally walk away from the relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/25 11:07 PM
1	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Especially teenagers lol you’re still young and learning life. I think a lot of times the oversharers are just seeking advice or input. Also loudly gossiping about their lives all over school, as if teachers don’t have ears. I also think teachers have unique insights in to kids/teens lives. Hell I’m not a teacher and I’m curious about the shift in behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 06:26 PM
2	If society doesn't owe men wives, men don't owe society our labour, taxes and blood Right? People who think like this are an insignificant part of the population. They don’t realize they’d have no impact on society at large. It’s like the MGTOW dudes of yore (since I haven’t seen a lot of MGTOW in the mainstream the last decade). Go your own way! Shoo! Stop talking about it, be about it 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 05:52 PM
2	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 It could just be a social observation? Idk. One of my favorite teachers in HS was a man. I broke down crying in class one day over a breakup, he took me outside the classroom, let me cry a bit, gave me a stiff one armed hug and talked to me about it for a few minutes. He made me feel better. And he also let me skip class to go to the guidance counselor. I was also at an all girls school so maybe the teachers were exposed to our lives in a different way. Mr A stands out but I had 2 other male tea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 05:48 PM
3	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. You’re gross and wrong. I don’t feel the need to argue with someone who’s so far from a civilized concept of reality. I’d say stay away from women but I doubt that’s much of an issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 05:20 PM
20	If society doesn't owe men wives, men don't owe society our labour, taxes and blood You get wages and services your taxes pay for. As does everyone with a job. If that’s not enough then quit and go live in a cave or something. No one cares.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 04:47 PM
1	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. lol okay I guess you are here in bad faith since I explained what I meant by men. Should I say it again? Power structures enforced by the men in charge. The main point being women didn’t ask for it or give it to yall or make it the social standard. The sarcasm is because I find you exasperatingly obtuse and unserious. Because having to explain the obvious is exasperating. Asking “who decided that” is obtuse, unless you’ve never opened a history book. Or unless you can’t distinguish a discussion …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 04:21 PM
1	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. I have read my own post. Hell I wrote it. I very specifically said you don’t have to do those things. While pointing out systems and structures that created those expectations to begin with. How is that enforcing toxic masculinity? Is it enforcing toxic masculinity to say men should fight against it if they’re upset about these expectations created by society? Okay so you are being obtuse. My bad I’m so very sorry I didn’t say patriarchy at first. I suppose I expected you to not take it personal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 03:54 PM
1	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. “I’m a very well trained martial artist” mmhmm o guess they didn’t teach you in your martial arts class that you’re to use your skills for good and to protect others then. Because in the decade I took martial arts that’s what I was taught. Do no harm and help others. Weird that it wasn’t a gendered thing. Was yours? What style of martial arts? Bro I’m not trying to enforce toxic masculinity. And I did address. Society at large, especially patriarchal systems. Made that “decision”. Again you are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 03:41 PM
2	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. You’re absolutely right! You as an individual did not decide that for yourself. And you are under no specific legal obligation to be a protector. You are 100% free to stand by while someone murders your hypothetical wife, sister, mother, hell even your brother or father or uncle or aunt. Sure society might side eye you, but that’s because of social mores. Are you being intentionally obtuse or are we pretending some long standing matriarchal* society deemed women the weaker sex rhat needs protect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 03:30 PM
3	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. I’ll be clear that I’m speaking on western American feminists movements. I wouldn’t say that an Israeli group speaks for American western feminism. That incident is interesting and upon reading about it, there seemed to be concerns about the wording allowing men who are accused to turn the accusation back on the woman accusing them. I don’t believe this is feminists arguing men can’t be raped. But again I am not well informed on Israel’s feminism. Second, Mary Koss isn’t some prolific figure. I’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 03:21 PM
2	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. You’re wrong. Rape doesn’t cease to exist as a concept when women marry a man, he can still rape her. Rape is unwanted. No one, absolutely no one, is owed sex or is obligated to give access to their body for sex when they don’t want to. That is rape. Marriage doesn’t change that. Absolutely abhorrent to think otherwise. And stfu already about men protecting and providing. Women work. Women provide. Women protect each other and men too sometimes. Men aren’t under any legal forced obligation to “p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 02:41 PM
3	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. Are you saying marital rape isn’t a thing? A wife can’t be raped by her husband because she has a “responsibility” to give him sex?? lol Jesus Christ	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 01:42 PM
3	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. Citation needed for large scale feminists efforts to exclude men as rape victims Citation needed for men’s advocacy groups trying to change the definition of rape (because I can’t even find them) Men must not care that much if they won’t even fight for their own rights huh ETA: the new definition does include made to penetrate but not in that EXACT wording. If you did your reserach you’d see that made to penetrate is in the CDC definition as well. This definition is used when gathering statistic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 12:40 PM
8	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. Women. Still. Have. Real. Issues. Stop minimizing it. I’m done with you and this argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 04:51 AM
6	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. “But you can't pretend that there isn't a culturally or intellectually significant cohort within the feminist movement that deserves criticism for being outright misandrist.” Was that my argument? Did I say that? I do disagree that it is SIGNIFICANT. I’d be willing to say chronically online. Also let Me remind who wrote those laws about rape. It was other men. No. I was rebutting OPs generalization of feminists. There are people within in every movement worthy of criticism. Outlier ideas. Extrem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 04:37 AM
4	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. Men have themselves the role of protector to protect women against other men. Ironic. Okay make sweeping generalizations, I don’t think you know what empathy really is. Plenty of women empathize with men. Go start your own men’s rights movement. Donate to one. Volunteer. Go do what women did for their issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 04:30 AM
5	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. The person you originally replied to say “the stats say women generally underreport rape”. Not that they underreport more than men. You said “Wait how am I arguing in bad faith because u said that women underreported I genuinely don’t see anything about underreporting” The ones I provide specifically discuss women doing this. Can you also not read those? Do you even understand what you’re writing out? Like are you using a translator because you’re either trolling, unable to articulate and argue …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 02:16 AM
26	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. Saying someone is exaggerating or over exaggerating is quite literally downplaying. The language you used, is not that of someone who believes someone’s fear/emotions are reasonable. Your post argument is inconsistent with your title. You’re also only bringing up men’s issues in comparison to women’s fears to complain they’re not talked about enough. Why? You could have just said “men’s issues aren’t talked about enough” and left women’s issues out of it. It feels disingenuous when men only brin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 02:09 AM
6	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. It’s literally so easy to find this information OP. The DOJ even has a page on it. You’re clearly not arguing in good faith OR you didn’t bother to do an iota of research on a topic you wanna argue about https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/why-women-do-not-report-sexual-assault https://ballardbrief.byu.edu/issue-briefs/the-underreporting-and-dismissal-of-sexual-assault-cases-against-women-in-the-united-states#:~:text=The%20NCVS%20estimates%20that%20more,every%203%20rapes%20go%20u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 01:55 AM
8	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. We don’t require the protection of men from other dangerous men. I’ve probably stepped in to protect women as much as any man has. I’d protect a male partner from another man or woman. Protecting each other is what we should be doing. But It’s laughable because every time a guy brings up the stale argument of “BuT wHo wIlL pRoTeCt YoU” they mean protection from other men. It’s ironic	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 01:50 AM
1	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. Raising wages isn’t going to make people in poverty RICH. And poverty has a causative relation to doing crime. So let’s maybe make the world more affordable AND address social issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 01:46 AM
9	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. Feminists are the reason the FBI changed their definition of rape so it could include men… https://www.huffpost.com/entry/eric-holder-fbi-rape_n_1189145 “The change comes after years of efforts by the women's rights community. The Feminist Majority Foundation recently led a "Rape is Rape" campaign, calling on the public to pressure the FBI to update its definition. More than 160,000 emails were sent to the FBI in support. And a decade ago, the Women's Law Project began a campaign to change the d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 01:43 AM
45	Women over exaggerate their concerns of their safety. Women being more vocal = / = over exaggerating Men should be more vocal about their safety issues. This does not require trying to downplay women’s fears.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 01:24 AM
1	Self improvement is the only true antidote to romantic loneliness I’m pretty sure I made it very explicitly clear that obviously this doesn’t apply to all. The people I know anecdotally are all different physically. None of them are conventionally attractive except maybe my ex (though he’s only 5’9). My point in pointing out there are many people on the spectrum who hold down jobs and have careers, is that you have to have a modicum of social skills to make it even in tech careers. They’re obviously not a one to one but it shows people can LEARN better communi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 08:51 PM
0	Self improvement is the only true antidote to romantic loneliness Lololol the irony of saying that in this sub Sure man. Idgaf. I’m a firm believer in therapy and helping yourself. I’m not sure we can compare rape victims to…people with neurodivergence who don’t think they should be held accountable or act helpless. But at the end of the day both can and should perhaps go to therapy ✨✨	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 03:16 PM
1	Self improvement is the only true antidote to romantic loneliness lol not throwing around ableist with someone who’s got the tism 😂 it has never been and never will be ableist to hold people accountable for their behavior. Being autistic or adhd or whatever else have you doesn’t give you a free pass on behavior. Sounds like you’re making a lot of excuses, and I can’t take victim blaming seriously. Autistic folks aren’t helpless victims. Give them more credit	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 01:43 PM
0	Self improvement is the only true antidote to romantic loneliness I think a therapist would be a better option or like idk friends who aren’t autistic af. Definitely not some random YouTuber 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 04:48 AM
0	Self improvement is the only true antidote to romantic loneliness I’m aware of how autistic people function don’t worry. I not only have a diagnosis from before it was trendy and it was still weird for women to be diagnosed. But so does my recent ex. And many of my friends who are engineers with wives and girlfriends. It’s crazy but autism isn’t a social death sentence. You can learn how to interact with people with effort. Like all things in life. Blaming neurodivergence is such an annoying cop out and I get tired of hearing it. Especially from men who blame …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 04:47 AM
-5	Self improvement is the only true antidote to romantic loneliness Dudes with autism can get dates. It just depends on how autistic they are and if they put any effort in to coping with their neurodivergence. obviously this is somewhat over simplifying but it’s absolutely ridiculous to act like autism is some social death sentence for EVERYONE and like there’s nothing to be done about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/25 05:05 PM
–	Why does the phrase "Nah, she's too hot for me" annoy women? Yeah in my entire life I’ve only heard this phrase used in terms of a guys personality. Never anyone’s looks	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/25 04:36 PM
3	Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men. No it’s just that women’s compliments and attention don’t come with hidden strings attached. I’ve complimented so many other women (in a strictly platonic way not trying to hit on them) in my life and the reaction is always the same. Genuine joy at a compliment that doesn’t seem to come from being leered at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 06:43 PM
–	I'd like to see an AI that accepts a photo and creates an assortment of images of the opposite sex that are statistically equivalent in attractiveness. I think that would go a long way towards dispelling a lot of delusion in 2025 dating. Once again, attractiveness is subjective. I see, what I would consider, mismatched by looks couples, all the time. And that’s the problem. I’d consider them mismatched. But maybe my other friend wouldn’t. Because it’s subjective. Why would I listen to what some AI has to say about my looks/looksmatch? Especially When you can’t even fully trust them to relay straight up factual data? AIs have a hallucination problem as it is and this is fully subjective. AIs are only as good as the data they’re f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 10:00 PM
–	I'd like to see an AI that accepts a photo and creates an assortment of images of the opposite sex that are statistically equivalent in attractiveness. I think that would go a long way towards dispelling a lot of delusion in 2025 dating. You’re basically saying the same thing with different words. You can’t make people “manage their expectations” when it comes to something as subjective as attractiveness. Besides who would even use this AI by choice?? Definitely not anyone with delusional self confidence, they’re not usually looking for external validation	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 09:45 PM
–	I'd like to see an AI that accepts a photo and creates an assortment of images of the opposite sex that are statistically equivalent in attractiveness. I think that would go a long way towards dispelling a lot of delusion in 2025 dating. You can’t force people to find other people attractive, not even by trying to knock their own confidence. Maybe you’d be better off developing some of that delulu self confidence instead of trying to affect other people	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 09:39 PM
–	I'd like to see an AI that accepts a photo and creates an assortment of images of the opposite sex that are statistically equivalent in attractiveness. I think that would go a long way towards dispelling a lot of delusion in 2025 dating. Attractiveness isn’t objective. And I don’t think you understand how AIs work. Also who cares if people are delulu and confident? Let them live lol your desire to take people down a peg says more about you than anyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 09:27 PM