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You aren't his mommy, and and you can't scold him into not flirting with other women. You don't trust him, and you never will; find a boyfriend you can trust. NEXT.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 02:10 PM
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Ah, bummer!
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:37 PM
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28 days ago you had a boyfriend; is he still around? And if you had a high sex drive and were insecure because you were a virgin, why didn't you have sex with him?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:34 PM
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Yeah, or she didn't want to financially support him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 09:17 PM
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What if she didn't want to have to financially support him after he screwed up everything in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 09:12 PM
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Maybe she doesn't want to financially support his slacker butt if he's been negligent in other areas of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 09:11 PM
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This would really only be true if he was somehow financially supporting her, but most women after college have their own jobs and money and are fully capable of supporting themselves. Women in college usually have some sort of financial support of their own, also. Most likely she would be thinking "He has been slacking off in all areas of his life, and he slacked off at work and got fired. I'm not going to financially support him while he plays video games all day and night."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 09:08 PM
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Absolutely. She had already lost her attraction due to his negligence of the relationship, and when he lost his job, she was already fed up. If he retains her attraction by not moping, lazing around, and whining, she tends to pick up the slack during his period of unemployment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:23 AM
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Yes, exactly! When my husband quit his job, with my blessings, he was very active around the house, building a lot of stuff, grocery shopping (lol, he only bought food he liked, hahaha), etc., and he completely picked up the slack. He didn't mope around or lounge around, he did what he could while he could.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:06 AM
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Well, at least you weren't covered in someone else's semen.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 03:42 AM
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All of them IRL - 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 03:45 PM
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I get paid in sex for sex :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 03:14 PM
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My thought has always been that if a man wants to find a good set of plates, he should find women open to sharing. So, when you meet a girl, you say "I have a girlfriend, but she's not a very good one and I'll probably be breaking up with her." This not only gives you an increase in SMV by pre-selection, but if the girl agrees to be with you she is automatically fine with sharing you with other women. Also, if she does catch you with other women, you can say it's your girlfriend. This is especia…
/r/askTRP12/12/14 06:57 PM
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Oh sweetie, bless your heart!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 01:56 PM
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why a person should die for their country and be denied the right to vote If you die for your country then you are dead. Unless of course they turn into zombies and become undead, if you believe that sort of thing. I guess as long as they can walk then they could get to the polls and vote, so sure, let the undead vote. Why not!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 10:12 PM
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Oh now you are changing the context; one minute you are talking about dead soldiers and now you are talking about live ones. Make up your mind!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 10:01 PM
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The dead soldiers you were talking about? I'm not in touch with the spirit world, but I guess you could always hire a Medium.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 09:47 PM
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Because they are DEAD if they die for their country. Should all of the people ever killed in war be able to vote from beyond the grave?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/14 02:20 PM
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It also amazes me how dishonest they can be about their own sexual desires when likening you to just a sexual outlet for not actively searching for reasons to say no. Reading through this thread, the reasons some women have to refuse sex to their SOs is odd. Why anyone would have to refuse sex because their partner wants to do it while they are sick or mourning (although seriously how long is that supposed to be an excuse - years?)? Why are they with such a callous person?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/14 04:53 PM
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I think that was actually a TRP who didn't understand that women in happy relationships don't really notice other men in a romantic/sexual way. It's only women who are unhaaaaaappy who notice other men.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 02:42 AM
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one thing I hope to learn is what are ways I can posture things so that my husband assumes the more leading role. All you have to do is not be combative, not shit-test, not nag, and not escalate arguments. Don't run the show and he will start. It's simple, but not easy :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 03:47 PM
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Why else would they hang out with them? They obviously benefit in some way from the relationship. Attractive women don't always get cash and prizes from their beta orbiters, they also get companionship and someone to use as an emotional tampon when their alphafux doesn't call the next day.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:11 PM
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I think that it's mostly gay guys who hang out with fat unattractive women, at least from what I usually see.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 05:02 PM
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Good plan!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 03:00 PM
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Right, it is difficult and it takes time to change bad habits for the better. Keep on trying and trying and eventually it will come natural to you. My problem was with being bossy; it was hard to not be bossy, but now it is easy to sit back and not try to run the show. Have faith and trust in your husband and know that he loves you and wants you to be happy. Practice makes perfect!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 02:50 PM
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It's sounds like you may be taking things a little too personally; maybe try to step back and examine his criticism in an impersonal manner. I would be willing to bet that he isn't criticizing you personally but just making suggestions that you take as criticism. Him saying "Don't forget to get milk when you go to the store!" probably doesn't mean "You always forget!"; it probably means "I really like milk and it's getting low". Sometimes things husbands say are reminders instead of criticism.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 02:41 PM
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Using a large, nationally representative data set that reports on both sexual frequency and participation in household tasks, the authors study both “core” and “noncore” household labor. Core household labor is that typically described as feminine—childcare, laundry, cooking, shopping, and washing. Noncore household labor is more likely to be masculine—outdoor tasks, auto repair, driving, and finances. The data overwhelmingly suggest that “sexual frequency is highest in households with tradition…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 02:20 PM
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Exactly! We are building a huge garage for all of my husband's tools, and then I will turn his tool space into a fermenting space :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 02:04 PM
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We don't really ever fight; we discuss a lot of stuff, naturally, but we are usually of one mind, and agree on almost everything. We havr the same values and are both pretty easygoing, so very little ruffles our feathers.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 02:04 PM
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It sounds like you have no control over crying, much like the way I have no control over shrieking at large spiders :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 05:04 PM
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My whole family shares a cleaning woman; she comes around all of their houses once a week and takes care of keeping everything clean. They have used her for about 15 years now, and she was referred by a friend of my mother. She is extremely reasonable, too.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 03:17 PM
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We have lots of shared hobbies and interests, and then we have lots of interests and hobbies that we don't share. Outside of work, we pretty much spend every bit of time together: sometimes we are together doing stuff, but just as often I am in the kitchen working on projects and he is outside fixing things.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 03:12 PM
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Acquaintances are fine, in fact if you work outside of the home, you will have some male co-workers or clients. Be polite, chat a bit, and then be on your merry way. Don't hang out with them one on one for long periods of time, don't eat lunch with them alone, etc. Don't put yourself in a potentially compromising situation with them.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 06:42 PM
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If you get a boyfriend, will you be fine with him spending one on one time with a female friend? Would you be fine with him hanging out alone at her place watching movies as friends? How would you even know that they were just friends? What if they were just friends but then one day something happened and they became more than friends? The reason RPW says that you can't have close friends of the opposite sex is that much of the time one of the friends feels more than the other. You may think of …
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 05:01 PM
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It isn't criticizing him or not trusting him if you tuck some cash back in case of emergency. There's a reason there is the old saying about cash in the cookie jar; wives have been doing it for all time. Who knows, when really needed in time of crisis you can help your household with money saved from scrimping on your expenses.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 03:44 AM
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Wow! you are doing a great job!
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 03:09 AM
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We don't do gifts ever. If she is pleasing you, reward her with your attention. A nice dinner out while staying at a nice hotel (bonus loud hotel sex!) or something the two of you could enjoy together. Spend more quality time together when you are happy with her.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 02:59 AM
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If your normal modern woman, who has had many partners, asks a guy how many partners he has had, and they are on their first or second date, then she isn't asking to try to vet him. She is asking on a whim, to make conversation, or to mock. If the guy gives a serious answer, then she will judge him for whatever answer he gives, so the best thing to do is Agree & Amplify so as to not be judged. The only time a man should answer earnestly is when the woman is very seriously asking and volunteering…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/14 05:54 PM
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I've never really needed outside influences to inspire me. I get entertainment out of books and movies, but I rarely get inspiration. I might get some ideas from some of them, but that's pretty rare. There are things that I want to do and I do them, there are things I do grudgingly that I don't necessarily WANT to do but that will make my life better, and then there are things that don't interest me that I don't do.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/14 04:18 PM
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In that case, I would agree and amplify with a huge smirk: "Thousands!" If a woman is asking you how many partners you have had, she is giving you a shit-test, and if you take her question seriously then you just failed her shit-test. If a man asks a woman, then it means that he is sizing her up for relationship material and that having a low count is important to him. Men having a high partner count is a display of high value and a woman having a high partner count is a display of low value. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/14 02:42 PM
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Girl game is just looking your best, having skills, building people up, and having a pleasant personality; these things work equally well with women as they do with men. Smile, be open to friendship, be pleasant, be interesting (skills), encourage them, etc. I don't hang around the type of women who are catty and back-biting, but sometimes using RP tactics can help to keep women from riding roughshod on you in a group environment. Some of the dark triad moves would have been handy to know in hig…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/14 02:31 PM
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I don't encourage lying about anything, but seriously, how many guys on a date ask a girl's partner count? It's pretty much assumed in this day and age that people have had multiple partners, and it's unlikely to find a TRP in the wild; they are the only guys who have been instructed to ask.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/14 02:16 PM
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Or as I heard it once, "The more you bitch, the more he becomes your bitch." Neither is very attractive!
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 05:07 PM
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Oh, I've been working on this for a few years, so I rarely suffer from it anymore, but I still vividly remember the feeling of almost hyperventilating due to self-induced over-productivity :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:31 PM
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Yes exactly - I suffer from that! I try to do too much, fail, and then give up trying at all. It's a vicious cycle; but now that I recognize my behavior, it is easier to slow myself down, remove a few things from my plate, and regroup.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:04 PM
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Start with one thing and work on it. To me, it looks like: Right now I've just been exhausting him in more ways than one. I've had an expressive bout of disappointment at least once each week for the past month and a half and it makes me cringe to my core. This is the worst problem that you listed. If I were you, I would work on this. When you get frustrated at his progress (or lack thereof) realize it and stop yourself. Instead of saying something discouraging or nagging him to do better, find …
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 03:49 PM
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Ignore feminism if you can. If it rears its ugly head and gets in your face, smack it down, but if it is over there, ignore it. One thing I've noticed about feminists that really confuses me is that they love to hate-read. They love to go to sites like RPW and get all worked up about the supposed "patriarchy keeping us wymmynz down" and then go to their little troll subs and go on and on and on about how awful we are. They hate-read more stuff than they love or like-read. So bizarre.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 03:38 PM
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I rarely see my husband oggling other women, but when I do, he is always doing it to really tall skinny women, and since I fit that description, I'm perfectly fine with it :) And now I wear heels a lot more!
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 03:19 PM
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I think that hypergamy is only an issue if there is trouble or a lull in the relationship. I think it's up to each person to keep their's in check, but it really helps if their SO is taking care of their appearance, career, and is confident and upbeat. The problem is when a couple gets complacent, and the woman gets bitchy, and the man gets whiny, and then they feed off of each other; the whinier the man, the bitchier the woman, and then they let themselves and the household go to pot. So here y…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 03:07 PM
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I'm not very big on tattoos, but done right they can make a dull man seem more manly. I think that a lot of people overdo it though. I have a friend who had his first child tattooed about 50 times for one sleeve, but the artist wasn't very good and the skulls are all deformed! I can't hardly stand to look at them!
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 11:15 PM
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I do the majority of housework, but my husband chips in with taking out the trash, some dishes, and he usually scrubs the bathtub and toilet and does about half the laundry. I don't ask him to, he just does them on his own, and I do appreciate it because I work a lot. We don't split the chores up though, we just do what needs to be done.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 11:08 PM
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I'm pretty sure your flair allows you to award points - try adding an alt12 to the end of your comment and see if the bot comes along and awards the point. Look at the bottom of the comment box and it tells you how. You have to have a certain amount of text in there, but that can be just copying the part of the comment you like best.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 10:53 PM
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Maybe she can take fewer classes and then not only will she not be as stressed out but it will also cost a lot less each semester. What degree is she working towards? Is it a useful degree where she would be able to work, like Accounting, or is it a "for fun" degree like History?
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 10:46 PM
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Generally if someone says "no judgement" they are about to hand down judgement massively. It's a lot like when people say "I'm not racist, but..." they always follow with something racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/14 09:43 PM
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