Saucy_Moist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender?	Discussion	Saucy_Moist	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 05:34 AM
1	The Issues with Conversations about Abortion	Debate	Saucy_Moist	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/24 09:51 PM

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1	Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights. I mean, I'm sure a lot of those women might've still been against abortion and still voted for him for other reasons. Honestly, it's pretty dumb to have considered abortion in this election (IMO) because Trump nor Kamala can really do much about abortion since the supreme court overturned Roe v Wade. It's unlikely another justice will die or resign within the next four years, especially if Kamala had won, so really nothing could've been done about abortion in my view. Could be the case many wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 05:38 AM
1	Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs? Political beliefs absolutely should matter. Lots of politics involves views on morality as well as financial perspectives. These are two things you should absolutely be aligned on with your partner. Your modern married couple has LOTS of issues because most people nowadays completely ignore how they and their partner are aligned on financial decisions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 05:34 AM
58	Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights. Is this rage bait? LMAO Not to mention, there isn't a crazy gap between men and women being for or against abortion. Lots of men support abortion being legalized and lots of women are against it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 05:29 AM
1	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. It was a rhetorical question. My insinuation is that it's a dumb thing to care about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/24 03:38 AM
0	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. Who cares? This is chronically online thinking. More "red pill" guys I know want I just described. Very few people IN the red pill leaning way of thinking in real life don't actually want a submissive woman fully. They just don't like disagreeable women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 07:03 PM
1	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. 30-35 is less ideal to start having kids than 25-30. That isn't a personal attack, that's just what the reality is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 05:42 PM
0	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. The point kind of went over your head. For someone who is apparently 30, you're giving a very emotional response.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 05:41 PM
0	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. 2 of my friends who are pretty serious about marriage and having kids are planning on trying to marry their girlfriends pretty soon because they want to start having kids by at latest 30. I don't have a girlfriend currently, but when I do get one. I plan on ideally starting a family in a couple years by 25. We all want this for the reason we know it's better for the health of our future wives and kids to start then and not later. I promise you, most men serious about marriage and having kids def…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 04:37 PM
0	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. Do you disagree with what I said?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 04:32 PM
-2	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. But you're right, they won't cast you aside JUST because of your age but let's be real, your not as likely to have a healthy pregnancy at that age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 04:28 PM
-2	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. Sure, but you have less options. 35-40 year old men have the options of women late 20s to 40. I'd assume 35-40 year old women want 35+ men. Also higher quality women are probably younger because good women are very quickly found. You'll have hard competition waiting that late.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 04:27 PM
-5	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. I know I'm not answering this prompt, but I don't really like the way of thinking creating this black and white extremes. In my view, society works best with parts of both. Staying a virgin until marriage, having kids young, and also having the ability to choose financial freedom and freedom, but ideally staying at home with a husband who provides and respects your perspectives (but this scenario only really for having kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 04:23 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Yea my bad missed your last paragraph I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 07:32 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Well I think men do really bond over shared interests and doing things together more than women so. It's no surprise that when a woman meets the emotional and sexual needs as well as the wants of what a man would want for and friendship that's the ideal. You get everything you want in a person packed in one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 07:32 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Oh yeah you definitely didn't ask your previous question as an attack on me 💀. So you admit your data can be misrepresentative, don't understand there are differences in how younger generations are dating, and all the while think your data has disproven my point despite all this. I don't see the point of arguing with you anymore if you're missing information.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 05:18 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? You ever been with a woman? Or at least one that REALLY liked you? Ones who find you more impressive, whether it's your looks, a skill, or personality, generally are a lot more enjoyable to date and longer lasting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 05:12 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? It's kind of common knowledge our generation dates differently than previous generations. Our generation sleeps around more, is less inclined to have children, etc. you're unaware of this? Again you keep going for ad hominems it feels, I live in a college town. I probably talk to new girls as well as guys almost everyday at work or in my classes. And of course you think it's 0, it makes you feel better to keep trying to poke at me than make an actual argument against what I'm saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 05:11 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I think you're missing what my post is referring to, most guys born as girls would not continue to behave as men. Most people forget they're conditioned to act the way they do, you wouldn't be into the same things as a girl most likely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 05:08 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Data and statistics are all great and it seems like you take a lot of pride in using it since you have your tag is "Science Pilled Man" but I think you're not really acknowledging how unrepresentative most statistics are of different environments that allow or don't allow people to behave in certain ways. That's why my anecdotal evidence is even relevant, your statistics aren't comparing the opinions of men and women in different environments. Unless you can find some not really sure how you've …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 06:23 AM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Yeah you're missing the point. The point being when I have to do less work to be interesting it's probably because I'm more attractive to said person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 06:19 AM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? More accurate to how people genuinely are. I'm sure people my age will be much more different as they get older and start caring about what job someone has and playing nice pretending they're something they're not to lock someone down. It's very clear to see amongst my 30 year old sisters friends who do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 06:15 AM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I 100% agree. The hardest thing about being heterosexual is not being able to truly understand the other gender in a way that would make an absurd difference in your quality of life. If I keep the knowledge I have now as a man as a woman? My life would be so fucking easy. It'd be so easy for me to be with a guy I wanted and keep reasonably, it'd be so much easier to deal with men, especially male coworkers, I'm sure I'd have creepy dudes being creeps as there are always guys like that, but I'd b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 04:09 AM
0	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I have, but those are clearly satire AT LEAST from what I've seen. It'll be an average looking dude with a girl who's relatively good looking a lot of the times I've seen them. They're clearly rage bait, and SOME of the girl ones are rage bait too but a lot of them I can tell aren't especially when girls in the comments share their own experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 03:37 AM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? How can it be even when women don't find most men attractive, and most men find most women attractive? You're not comparing apples to apples, thinking it's even based on gender purely from that standpoint doesn't make sense. You do realize men don't date women they don't find attractive, generally speaking? Like if a man thinks your unattractive, he MIGHT sleep with you but he's definitely not dating you unless he's a small proportion of very desperate men. I'm not sure if you just have too much…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 03:36 AM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I mean I think it's harder to remain a virgin as a woman than it is for a man. I feel like a lot of women have sex (beyond the fact women want sex too) with guys quickly just to pander to them because they at a younger age don't know how to get a man to like them beyond providing sex. Are you so sure you wouldn't fall down that hole as a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 03:14 AM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I think you have the misconception I'm referring to. Things wouldn't be symmetrical. These women who behave this way would probably be socialized to not because of the implications of how their decisions as the gender they are affect them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 03:12 AM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Respect that you acknowledge thing's don't magically get significantly better or that you'd have the knowledge you have now as the opposite gender. Maybe think this the case, men and women, and I think they're most all very ignorant for thinking this. Myself as a girl would lean towards being more traditional because of the way my family raised me, so I think I wouldn't be led astray as much as most modern women as far as understanding men and what not, but I recognize I wouldn't fully understan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 03:11 AM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I don't agree with seeing yourself as higher than what is reality. That's why girls get with guys who use them for sex, one post that stuck in my mind was "when you realize you're attractive enough to sleep with, but not for him to date". I think if this girl had a better understanding of her own attractiveness she'd have an easier time sniffing out this sort of behavior from men. Not that that alone is enough, she should've been able to sniff other aspects of his behavior to tell he was this wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 03:06 AM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I was already familiar with the men assuming interest from women more often than is the case. I'm not sure if there's possibly a generational gap to consider with a lot of the data on male and female behavior. I'm Gen Z and Gen Z from what I understand behaves much different than previous generations. A lot of guys my age have very low self esteem, and most girl's my age can be pretty hard to impress (in my college town at least, at home it's totally different).	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 02:59 AM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? In the context of giving your opinions over gender discussions it's worth understanding where the other side comes from and whether you would think the same thing if you were them. Nothing about this post is suggesting you SHOULD care, just understanding why other people care and whether that'd be valid if you were in their shoes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 02:57 AM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Also I think you're right for your 1st response, I just don't think most people do that. My initial example was just one example of the many ways in which men and women, ESPECIALLY in this subreddit and on online discourses misunderstand each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 07:37 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I think this is generally untrue. I think men who outperform most men have overinflated self worth. Not applicable to most men in my opinion. Especially in high school, I'd see many otherwise average women comment on other mens looks who are on their level in my opinion as far as how unattractive they were. Men overinflate their abilities probably, but women overinflate their appearance and appeal probably. Also no one can have a fully accurate assessment of what their equivalent is, just their …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 07:36 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? There's a pretty simple couple answers to your question. I think the discourse people have in this subreddit would especially be easier if people acknowledged what they would be like as the opposite gender. Some men and women like to act as though the other gender is more flawed than their own for certain behaviors not willing to understand certain viewpoints and behaviors are reasonable when coming from their lived experience. I think people use their perception of what they see as their equiva…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 06:28 PM
1	If women hit the wall, according to men, would it be in a young woman's best interest to NOT date older men? I don't think women "hit a wall" per say, but I think it gets harder for a few reasons. You're competing with more women. At 21, you're probably competing with women between 18-22. At 30, you're probably competing with women anywhere from 23-35. Following these numbers you PROBABLY have 3x more competition. Male libido is lower. If we're assuming you want a man your age, men's sex drives are lower than in their year 20s. This meaning the way you look has less of an impact on whether a man will c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 05:00 AM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Yeah it has	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 01:37 AM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I think a lot of it depends on the environment. Like I'm probably a solid 7 for men my age 18-22. On my campus? I'm pretty uninteresting to most girls unless I prove I'm interesting. In my hometown? Most girls my age seem to be interested when I interact with them whether it's the grocery store or restaurant etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 12:42 AM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I was asking about what problems you were talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 12:23 AM
3	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? It's inevitable it'll be harder as a woman. I think men respect men more generally and women respect women more generally. If most coworkplaces were female dominated it'd be easier to be a woman. Is what it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 11:50 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? What are you referring to specifically? I agree I don't really face many of the same issues either but I think I'm just lucky that I attract what I like in a girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 10:25 PM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? So? I'm not sure what point you just made. You seem to just like ad hominems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 10:21 PM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? You're the one who started off using "slutshamers" even though I never used that language. You're projecting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 10:20 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Fair enough then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 10:19 PM
4	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Look, I believe you. But I think men experience much more variance in respect. The highs and lows of men respecting men are greater than for women. If you lean towards the bottom, I doubt sincerely being a man would be better for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 09:50 PM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Can't find the exact statistic but the only partner being their spouse couples cheat the least. Your first claim is invalidated by that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 08:40 PM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Also you're not accounting for generational differences. These statistics could apply to older demographics than younger Millennial or Gen Z demographics that are sexually more promiscuous than previous generations. I can believe in older generations men cheated more, in this one? I doubt there's a difference if not more. Women nowadays get around more than men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 08:39 PM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Do men lead because they cheat more or because women don't admit it as often?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 08:35 PM
3	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I had to learn to be more assertive and outgoing than my nature is for other men in the workplace to respect me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 08:32 PM
6	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I don't want to turn this into a debate that isn't what it was originally, but if you're a shy man, men are less inclined to respect you. Speaking from experience. Shyness in men is seen as weak and you're probably more respected as a shy woman than a shy man. An outgoing woman vs an outgoing man is a different story though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 08:32 PM
3	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? You're missing the nuances of what I'm saying. Both settle, women generally probably to a higher degree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 08:26 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I think you misunderstood what I said. Already feminine men look MORE feminine as a woman and a masculine looking woman would be a masculine looking man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 08:22 PM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Promiscuous women are the ones MOST inclined to sleep with you as a man, what LMAO. Female coworkers or friends who were promiscuous have ALWAYS been the ones who would push sexual undertones in our conversations and one of them basically offered to let me come inside her place to "check out her succulents" after I dropped something off to her and she came out wearing nothing but a large t shirt it looked like. Bro you ain't about to tell me girls who sleep around are harder to get with, how tf …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 07:58 PM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Women don't seem to be much better, it seems a lot lie in order to seem more moral. My thinking this coming from someone I watch who does clinical work, she says a lot of her clients who are male will cheat and admit to cheating to her vs female clients will cheat and half the time not see it as cheating. For example, a wife cheats so the husband will be like yeah I cheated on her back because she cheated on me. Vice versa will be husband cheats and wife fucks someone else to cheat and it'll be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 07:48 PM
3	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Not a good argument against it. Everyone has to settle to an extent and it's probably the case women settle harder than men do. I've seen regularly online or on tiktok women will make posts about their "ugly boyfriends" disrespecting them and how they're on thin ice and thousands of comments of girls thinking it's funny and agreeing, so although most people are coupled up with their looks match, I don't most are HAPPILY coupled up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 07:34 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? My thing is like a lot of people get pushed towards doing it because women seem to be a lot more influenced by other women as well as giving into men, they like to do things they otherwise wouldn't in hopes to appease them (or so it seems to me). I don't really accept this behavior from women anyway, but I do feel sympathy for the one's that choose to do so when they really don't want to. I'm not the type of guy who has ever pushed a girl to sleep with me even though with some girls that have li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 07:32 PM
1	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I agree to an extent with your last part. People underestimate how attractive androgynous features are. That being said. I think incredibly feminine men are generally more attractive as women and vice versa but more often than not I think it's the case the same genes vice versa do about the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 07:30 PM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? Be careful with that though, it's not always symmetrical just because you're siblings. For example, if your brothers 6"1 and you're 5"2 as a woman, you aren't an equivalent 6"1 guy, you're like a 5"7 guy. That's only looking at the metric of height/physical appearence, gotta consider this for personality too. Also my own brother is way less capable with girls than I am, just because of my personality I'm a lot easier to get along with than he is so way more girls have liked me than him. I think …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 07:28 PM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I've even heard men who have "played the field" even admit if you're a guy who wants to be happily married or with just one girl not to do the same because although they can romantically be happy with 1 woman, their sexual desires will never be fulfilled by 1 woman (the only exception to this advice being red-pill bros who say sleep with at least 50 women or you won't be able to satisfy a girl, sounds like you lean towards agreeing with these types).	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 07:26 PM
2	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? I never used the term "slutshamers" and from the way you're talking you sound kind of insecure. Dawg live your life how you want, but statistically people who sleep around tend to have dispropriately less happy marriages, are more likely to cheat, and are more likely to end up divorced. The least likelihood of all 3 are people who were both virgins at marriage. Again, live your life how you want, but promiscuity is not an arbitrary thing. And obviously men who have an issue with it aren't going …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 07:23 PM
3	Do you imagine what the opposite gender version of yourself is when judging the opposite gender? These are just generalizations. Obviously not everyone feels this way. Also thinking you need to have sex with a lot of people to have a good exciting sex life sounds like a bad cope. People who are genuinely very attracted to their partners don't seem to have needed to have had sex with other people or anyone else beforehand to have good sex lives. But maybe I'm wrong, who knows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 06:21 PM
1	Men, why won't you commit? Most men who won't commit are using women for sex. A lot of men fear the consequences of marriage (i.e divorce). A lot of modern women are very promiscuous in comparison to the past. You can still be an awesome person as a woman who's slept around and a guy may want to date you, but it may be harder for him to see you as his special person when he knows to other men out there you were happy to be their slut for the night (this language may bother people, especially women, but men know this is ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 04:03 AM
3	At this point, is being married and having a family just something that doesn’t happen anymore? A lot of women won't like me saying this, but how much modern women sexualize themselves has a big part to play in a lot of modern men's lack of ambition to BE men (i.e. work to provide for a family). A lot of men who I've seen (and JUST for the record, most of this is coming from comments on the internet, including reddit) take issue with the idea of being with a woman who has a "high" body count or isn't a virgin. It's hard to want to call a woman your wife and mother of your children when she…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 06:01 AM
1	Putting on muscle doesn't make you significantly more confident or attractive if you already fit Definitely does, I have a crooked nose. The degree to which my attractiveness changes if the angle shows it's crooked vs doesn't is a LOT. I think you're being a bit extra, obviously NO face is fully symmetrical but the closer it is to being so as far as structure and what not, definitely the better it does for your looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 06:32 AM
–	Why do so many women love to suggest men “hate women” simply because they are frustrated with the horrific state of dating? I see women complain a lot (I'm sure not a lot but a good amount) about how men are not chivalrous, won't ask women out on dates, don't meet their standards (maybe for some their lifestyle, what they want in life such as marriage and kids, don't make enough money), or there just aren't many of them out there. Reality is like, MOST men would love to be this. Most men would love to ask women out on dates, be chivalrous, ACTUALLY be with women instead of people porn addicted basement dwellers, or e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/24 01:16 AM
1	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men Yea you're not getting it because you don't see the nuances. Obviously men value commitment and obviously women also value sex, but between the two each gender values one more because it's harder to achieve. Men generally can get commitment before sex, and women can generally get sex before commitment, therefore what is received after is valued more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 12:32 AM
2	There is no presumption of cheating and no paternity test. (That's why, presumption of cheating does not justify being against the test). It has probably always throughout history been threatened, it's probably now being deterred to an extent due to technology but also encouraged due to our promiscuous society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/23 02:56 AM
0	There is no presumption of cheating and no paternity test. (That's why, presumption of cheating does not justify being against the test). I've said this in the past, but I think paternity tests should be required at birth to have a father on the birth certificate for the reason that a substancial number of children are born every day, and the fear of being left alone with no man to help you financially/emotionally to support your child will, with what I believe, help discourage cheating and save those men from raising children that aren't theirs. I'd also imagine it'd make child support and custody agreements much easier for the c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/23 02:55 AM
–	Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rights Maybe because we're in different environments, but honestly the degeneracy of our society is so quick to be defended from my experience. To be fair, so men do this too, but I've heard of girls who know their girlfriends are cheating and will back them up/not tell their boyfriend. It seems like with things like cheating, most people judge on such a minimal level/do not care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/23 04:08 AM
1	Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rights I guess to me the equivalent could possibly be a girl sleeping with a married man, getting pregnant, then that guy leaving his wife/girl to raise the child with that other woman. Not quite the same equivalent but this happens to some women and some will do that. But also again, guys don't think or give a shit about other men that they don't know. I don't think women do either, they may seem empathetic but I have a hard time believing a lot of that is genuine vs a facade amongst SOME women to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 10:02 PM
2	Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rights it seems unusually sinister that men who understand this situation in a unique way are doing this to other men I think a flaw of both red pill men and blue pill women with some talking points is they have this idea that all men care for other men or that all women care for other women. They may care for issues regarding their gender and sympathize more with people of their gender in some regards, but in reality, when it comes down to it, they don't care about them more often than not. The realit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 07:03 PM
2	Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rights I see no difference between the two of them with who is screwing over the husband more. I do, that's the man you made a commitment to and now you put your child in an awful situation. Their "father" finds out and the child and husband's lives get insanely fucked over. As a man who wants to get married and have kids someday, imagining raising a child that I believed was mine, then to one day find out that both my wife cheated on me to birth another man's child, and lose thinking my child came fro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 07:00 PM
-1	Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rights To an extent I think you're right, but (I'm guessing you are a woman) you should understand women have much more capability to be cunning and deceptive compared to your average man. Even my extreme feminist type friends will even admit, women can be ruthless. They are just much more naturally socially attuned than most men which is why this sort of deception is easy. In my experience only very well socially, attuned men can sniff out the nuances in most women's "fake" behavior to read what they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 06:53 PM
1	Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rights So many of the times I will see men in here who have very well thought out and rational plans for mandatory paternity testing and consequences or women caught with paternity fraud. But somehow I don't think I've heard them extending those same consequences to the men who got those married women pregnant outside of their marriage. Then take the men who get them pregnant to court and put them on child support. I agree with what you're saying these men are problematic, but the women who go through …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 06:47 PM
17	Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rights Y Chromosome And Surname Study Challenges Infidelity 'Myth' \| ScienceDaily Good chance 4% of children born are born out of wedlock. This is such a nonsense nice guy response, even if it doesn't affect most men, good chance at least 1/25 children born EVERYDAY are being born from infidelity. I can guarantee the women who ARE cheating producing children born of infidelity are the ones who would be most vocal about "trust issues" like yeah. Women and the "nice guy" types will defend this, and to an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 05:59 AM
1	"Never compare yourself to her ex" but she definitely will Maybe because you are a woman, you are blind to it, as I said before, from personal experience, I've seen it first-hand. I've seen entirely average women sleep with decently good-looking guys because the girls are an easy fuck. Also, since you are a woman maybe you have a complete underestimation of how low men will stoop to get easy sex. You don't have to be attractive, you just have to not be ugly. That being said, I'm sure a woman would be enthused to sleep with a guy that's even more attract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 05:55 AM
1	"Never compare yourself to her ex" but she definitely will This data is clearly not based on a well-done survey. Look at these proportions for ages 18-24, 0.49% of women have had 3 sexual partners and almost 16% have had 4. Clearly this survey was not done on a large scale, most likely in a specific environment with not a very large number of participants. Either way, if you are an American who has been on a college campus, it's very obvious, unless you're just not observant at all that female hypergamy is true in regard to hookups, and women know it to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 11:34 PM
0	"Never compare yourself to her ex" but she definitely will What is it you think this data disproves?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 08:57 PM
1	"Never compare yourself to her ex" but she definitely will This makes sense, but I don't know if this answers my question. Really, I'm wondering if there is any truth to the idea that a man, from the jump, being worse in bed + less attractive than a former partner will result in a woman having no optimism/enthusiasm for the purely sex aspect of their relationship. I only ask this because, from what I've heard from many professionals (mostly psychologists), generally younger women have no tolerance to teach men, they want a man to take control and know w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 04:28 PM
4	"Never compare yourself to her ex" but she definitely will There has to be some truth to this. Reality is a guy who's slept with multiple women is probably going to be better than a guy who's slept with less or is maybe a virgin until said girl. Most women don't realize the male equivalents of themselves most likely would not be as good in bed as the guys they fuck (for one-night stands). Being entirely average is going to give you less sexual opportunity and less opportunity to learn. If you're a woman, do you believe some of what he says to be true? I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 03:53 AM
7	"Never compare yourself to her ex" but she definitely will As a guy on a college campus, it's true. The guys who were on my floor who were very good looking were sleeping with entirely average women. I'd remember thinking "Wow, if the genders were reversed, he as a girl would never be interested in her as a guy." Because a lot of these girls weren't as attractive as the guys. (In the context of hookups and quick flings, not girlfriends).	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 03:48 AM
3	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men He's meaning beneath in looks, personality, etc. But I think if you're a woman looking for a man who'll want to take you seriously (girlfriend or eventually a wife), how difficult you make it to sleep with you will make you more attractive to more conscientious marriage-oriented men. That being said, this will NOT work if you've had previous one-night stands or quick flings. If you make it any more difficult to sleep with you than he finds out you gave to previous guys, which will probably make …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 03:41 AM
4	What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here? Men probably hide the girls they fuck because men will fuck down. I don't think most guys will be ashamed of their girlfriends or even care what their friends think of their girlfriends generally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 01:54 AM
1	Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced. How does this make sense when most women rate most men as not attractive, and most men rate most women as attractive? It's that men go for what they can get, which is less attractive than themselves because it's easier. For this reason, it makes no sense how in general women view themselves as less attractive than they actually are. It might be true men over-inflate their qualities and abilities, but their ATTRACTIVENESS? Absolutely not. If a man thinks you are his equal, he will date you, if he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 03:57 AM
1	All of men's dating issues are caused by men It's culture, and that's both men and women. If women don't want to be treated like trash don't go for men that won't respect you/want nothing more from you than sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 03:38 AM
1	Are men more romantic? I don't think there is such thing is unconditional love, with the exception maybe what a parent has for their child and vice versa. I think almost always love outside a family is conditional. I think there are less conditions for women to be loved by men. I think the upside to this for men is there is more you can do to be loved but that's a double-edged sword because when that is gone less conditions are met.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 03:34 AM
5	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. "With this mindset, what’s the point of even trying? All women are the same and if your genetics have failed you then there’s nothing you can do. The best course of action for men who think this way is to simply give up." This is literally what some men do. You're right, this is not how all women are. But it seems the more optionality women get, the pickier they are, naturally. Men would be the same way if given lots of optionality. I think that being said though the issue this poses for a lot o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 03:30 AM