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| 12 | I supported her and sacrificed my own progress for 10 years for nothing.The better lesson is do not stop your own progress to assist with a woman's progress, ever. That's her responsibility not yours. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/26 04:54 AM |
| 1 | It wasn’t entirely your fault. Adultery should never be forgiven.YUP | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/26 07:42 PM |
| 4 | Wife divorced me, we have two children, I wanted to have a Godly family but she didn’t want that with me, now she has a boyfriend whom she is on fire for God with and I feel like this is all a slap in the face. Anyone else go through something like this?She's faking it. It's the religious cosplay "faux-redemption while actual lived conduct directly contradicts her arc" | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 08:45 PM |
| 4 | I've come to the realization that marriage and divorce are all about the woman in life and in courts.Basically. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/26 11:06 PM |
| 6 | My wife doesn’t love me anymore. What do I do?Leave her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/02/26 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Why did you get married in the first place?'Marriage is like owning a tiger. People who own one say everyone should. What we don’t see are all the mauled marks and destroyed homes just the love of the tiger.' 100%. Harrowing. Just harrowing. Sometimes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Texas Divorce Rant!That is insane. FIVE times. Once was enough for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/25 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Who is she?That all hinges on the presupposition of the low IQ career criminal actually proposing to HER or saying yes to marriage lol. Chances are, absolutely not | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Who is she?Same man. Mad at me because *YOU'RE* the piece of shit? Lmao okay. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/25 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Who is she?Literally my piece of shit separated "wife". With a felon that violated a stalking RO and committed DV against the woman that filed it on him. You can't make this shit up as Mr. Samuels once said! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/25 01:00 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys get along with your ex’s boyfriend/husband? Especially if you have kids, how has that been?Well the thing is, she's not even my ex. My state doesn't recognize separation as a legal status so we're still married with an open case right now. Been separated over a year. I don't like him and I've told her repeatedly to keep him away from our son as I don't like that my son has been acting out differently (acting aggressively towards other kids at school, saying curse words that aren't things that are being said in my household, etc) ever since this man she began having an affair with came… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 12:07 PM |
| 14 | A Guy I Work With…..So is OP for not telling the fiance about his girl cheating on him. Fuck that shit, I'm not keeping ANYONE'S secrets like that, I'll go tell your partner. No one deserves that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/25 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Monkey branchingThat's an interesting perspective I never considered - that monkey branching or jumping from relationship to relationship is a low SMV behavior and RMV I'm not familiar with that acronym but interesting perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/25 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Monkey branchingPerfectly worded. I could not agree more monkey branching is absolutely worse and it just shows the character of a weak person who can't sit by themselves with any kind of discomfort whatsoever to process things or to even finally end things definitely. Assuming that the both of them aren't married which would further complicate things with the law being involved. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/25 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Divorce sleep problemsBeen there. In time the normal circadian rhythm returns more or less. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 11:29 AM |
| 5 | A man aloneI agree with this. Some kind of therapy, anything. Even if it's downloading and talking with chat GPT and having it learn you and your situation and talk to you. He definitely sounds stuck and this person that left to go back to the streets does not think about OP. It's a hard realization to come to at first but likewise you can do the same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/24 05:41 PM |
| 3 | What is a reason that will stop you from remarrying?Women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/24 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Well it's final"Without boundaries plausible deniability runs the show for her actions." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ue0sm3whBRk Vetting is a horrible strategy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/24 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Well it's final"mAkE bEtTeR cHoIcEs" People can completely flip on you once they decide they can no longer keep the mask on. This does happen and saying what you did offers no actionable advice and contributes nothing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/24 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How To Get Jacked - A Beginner To Advanced Guide5/3/1 for periodization training after your LP/newbie gains are exhausted is what I'd recommend or some sort of hybrid Powerbuilding variant. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/24 02:19 AM |
| 1 | @the_dadvocate has almost a million followers on TikTok and is promoting a healthy discussion about men and relationships100%. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/01/24 07:28 PM |
| 11 | Help: Just seen my ex wife on dating app.I can understand what you might be feeling. Hasn't happened to me - but I get it. Stay strong. Stay cold. Stay Stoic. Detach from the emotions of that. You already know the trainwreck she may perhaps be. You know ALL of her flaws. Whomever is next, doesn't. Not yet. But they will. In Time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/24 02:08 AM |
| 9 | The things people say to single dads.When in reality the wife just buys frozen bags of Dino Shaped Chicken. This right here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/23 04:20 AM |
| 7 | Right wing trad cons are NOT your friend.Tom MacDonald was correct. Both sides hate you and want you dead. Fuck them both. Gynocentric world | /r/MensRights | 05/12/23 08:02 PM |
| 9 | Divorce Realization: Housework is really not that much 'work'Sadly my ex mainly laid up in bed doom scrolling on tiktok and other social media all day in the bedroom with our child but then again I too could have done more as well looking back - to be fair and acknowledge my own faults so as not to make myself a victim of my own circumstances in this regard. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 05:18 PM |
| 6 | Divorce Realization: Housework is really not that much 'work'Your assertion is true - even more so if one MAINTAINS a cleaner house because logically there will be less to clean up than the initial time if one was lax on the upkeep. Think about it. You're just doing spot cleaning here and there if you keep things neat and orderly on a regular basis. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | I’ll just leave this here…won't even get into paternity fraud here, which only happens on one side. True - because it is logically impossible to happen with the genders inverted. Women know what dick is entering her; unless she's literally blind but even then - there are other identifiable characteristics that could be employed using the remaining functioning senses to identify the male in question in this ridiculous scenario. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 02:35 PM |
| 1 | I’ll just leave this here…This is where that equality that is so sought after would apply. Equal accountability & consequence(s) for the action(s). Fuck double standards. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Wife's father died and she had midlife crisis / mental breakdowna woman’s word is worth half that of a man So true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/23 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Wife's father died and she had midlife crisis / mental breakdownThe more I learn about women the more I wonder why we sacrifice our lives, money and time for them. Did we forget that women use more negative emotion to cope with things? I find myself pondering this same sentiment as well as of the past 8 months. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/23 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Wife's father died and she had midlife crisis / mental breakdownAs are spending sprees and etc. You have to do what it takes to take care of the household which feels like it's under attack. Quality post, thank you for your insight. I agree with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/23 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Wife's father died and she had midlife crisis / mental breakdownall part of her losing touch with reality. Believing in shit that demonstrably doesn't exist is bad for one's mental health and almost always coincides with other other maladaptive behavior. Facts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/23 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Wife's father died and she had midlife crisis / mental breakdownLiterally my ex-wife after our son was born. She turned on me completely. Sorry you're dealing with this. I know it's tough. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?This is absolutely true - especially if the rebound/affair partner breaks it off with the wayward spouse. They often experience extreme grief, pain, sadness, and all the rest. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/23 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?That sounds to me like more of projection of your own thoughts than it is likely reality. However in small chance that you have irrefutable proof that those words are reality - emotionally detaching ones-self from that person and their actions is the best course; not just contributing to hookup culture. That's where the redpill guys got it wrong; They're telling men to do the very same thing that they rail against women doing and going around banging randos (despite being INCREDIBLY risky for ST… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?Same though process for me too. Courting a woman/dating and all that is not even on my radar. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/23 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?Sure, you can - but I'd personally advise against that. In doing this you're just distracting yourself from processing the pain/achieving growth and you're only cultivating stagnation with temporarily pleasuring your nerve endings. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/23 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?Spot on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/23 03:12 PM |
| 16 | So weird how many of us saw our wives get addicted to scrolling TikTok constantly.I would get so angry if I texted her something important or tried to call her and she wouldn't respond. Because I know she is always on her phone and I know she saw me trying to contact her. Same here man. In front of us they're always on their phones but are unresponsive to texts, calls, etc. What a mystery. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 11:35 PM |
| 15 | So weird how many of us saw our wives get addicted to scrolling TikTok constantly.It is shocking, at first. Once you cross into that black void that is the darker side of feminine nature though - you just learn that it is what it is and you move accordingly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 11:33 PM |
| 26 | So weird how many of us saw our wives get addicted to scrolling TikTok constantly.Let them destroy themselves. This. Full stop. They will face accountability for their actions one way or another, in time. It's gonna hit like a ton of bricks, too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Red flags in a woman you should NEVER ignore.1,3,4 (not drugs or alcohol though - but in other areas to a degree..),5 were my ex-wife. Damn. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/23 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Married male friends have become NPCs.100% agree. Divorced individuals aside, also taking the "advice" from single friends that have never been divorced as well (dating around, etc.) should have as much weight as Aerographene. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/23 02:51 AM |
| 4 | Married male friends have become NPCs.Likewise a wife's/fiance's/girlfriend's SINGLE female friends are a bad influence to her as well potentially. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/23 06:21 PM |
| 3 | She's Not Yours, Its Just Your Turn"I tell people.. marriage is a lot like the lottery; you are probably not gonna win. But IF you win.. What you win is SO GOOD. So I don't know.. maybe buy a ticket - fuck it but get a prenup!" - James Sexton "Love is grand. Divorce is a HUNDRED GRAND." - James Sexton "All marriages end. Either in Death or Divorce. You HOPE it will be in death do us part and not the latter." - James Sexton Watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o5z8-9Op2nM | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | My Boy (Not my story but thought I'd share)Thanks for sharing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Found out today my ex is already on dating sitesbc hypergamy and they're all basically whores. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/23 05:07 AM |
| 2 | I hate the modern mindsetFacts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/23 03:39 AM |
| 1 | I hate the modern mindsetMe too. I feel your pain. They don't make 'em (men and generally as statistics prove, women) like they used to sadly. Marriage isn't the same and I don't know how to fix it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/23 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Are divorces in Texas less brutal than the rest of America?This needs to stop. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone here have a relatively painless divorce?Facts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/23 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Is a self-described hoe phase any reason to be concerned?Tale as old as time regrettably. I am starting to believe that women of today are completely unable to pair bond for any significant length of time at all (i.e. forever, if married). | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 04:22 AM |
| 5 | The toxic friendYep. The damage was done. Women can make some pretty fucking BONEHEADED decisions based on outside influence/a misunderstanding of their OWN FEELINGS at times. Sorry to hear you are going through/went through it too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/23 03:26 AM |
| 2 | The toxic friendYou can't un-ring that bell, depending on how hard it was rung. Damage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/23 03:24 AM |
| 3 | The toxic friendYep that's the usual advice given to sabotage the married women. Men are not your enemies - it's your SINGLE/UNHAPPY/DIVORCED (presently, previously, etc.) FEMALE friends and family. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/23 03:23 AM |
| 4 | The toxic friendSingle women keep women single. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/23 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Is there a scientific or evolutionary reason so many women are so negative towards their husbands after kids?Literally story of my life. Wife's mind broke after our child was born. No idea why. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/23 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Nobody outside understandsSociety as a whole doesn't care about men or our feelings. It's really fucked up. We're still human and feel things too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/23 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Nobody outside understandsDamn. That hits man. I can see it. :( | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/23 01:28 AM |
| 4 | Did Anyone Else Divorce a Slob?Oh yeah she definitely is a fucking slob. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/08/23 01:12 AM |
| 2 | So... how long does the seething hatred last?Being friends is yet another female fantasy Why do they all share this same delusion? Its ridiculous. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | So... how long does the seething hatred last?You were correct in how you responded. She is absolutely out of her fucking gourd. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/23 03:58 PM |
| 3 | So... how long does the seething hatred last?>It’s like you really never knew them for all those years Exact thoughts I had. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | So... how long does the seething hatred last?This is so true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/23 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Walkaway WifeSo true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/23 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up ok?Don't do this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/23 02:35 PM |
| 1 | How often does it end in suicide?So the lesson here is if you're a man- never get married. Maybe 80 years ago you could but women today aren't worthy of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 06:34 PM |
| 4 | How often does it end in suicide?Wow that's disheartening. Fuck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | How often does it end in suicide?True. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 04:56 AM |
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