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Yes risk means first date a dating app is useless if she would never go to the date because of her fears. She doenst explain what she is afraid off so assuming dating apps are a solution is more than unhelpful.
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:23 PM
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There is a risk lmao, if you dont get why she might be afraid you should really talk to more women. If she is shy and nervous and fearful dating apps wont help with that.
/r/seduction20/03/26 03:13 PM
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The point is going to a date with a guy you only texted ...
/r/seduction20/03/26 03:12 PM
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She is shy and afraid of getting hurt dating apps are not the sort of place a person like her will thrive in at least assuming her statements are somewhat accurate about herself.
/r/seduction20/03/26 08:51 AM
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So my guess is dating apps arent a solution because you are afraid to go on a date? What are you exactly afraid of and why? What would you be comfortable doing, what sort of relationships re you looking for a single hookup? A F+ relationship? How much sexual experience have you (as in did you have bad experiences or had problems saying no or stop in the past) and how comfortable are you with saying "stop" and "no" in general? What kind of guy are you looking for? There are a lot of variables dep…
/r/seduction20/03/26 08:51 AM
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I mean good on you taht you heard the surrealism and sorry taht most of your encounters apparently were this shallow or maybe they just didn't vibe with you as much. Stuff getting better would be the expected outcome I think, so good luck for you.
/r/seduction19/02/26 11:30 AM
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Because you dont date to just have sex?!?!?!? Like people can improve so why cut someone off because ethey suck the first time. Not to mention especially in sex you need to learn your partner, all the experience is worthless if you dont know what they like and if you only know ow things they dont like then your experience is probably even counterproductive. So yeah, why would a girl talk to someone again tehy had a good time with and bad sex with?because things can improve and not everyone just …
/r/seduction18/02/26 01:34 PM
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Also just personality if you are someone intense etc. And he is very light hearted and easy going it make shim more approachable, I dont think its attractiveness most of the time but just beeing easily approachable and nice.
/r/seduction11/02/26 10:28 AM
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I dont think you made a mistake your question was OK, the problem seems to be cultural or personal. Personally I think the question is good because it removed ambiguity and makes sure there is no nasty misunderstanding, it was pretty clear there wouldnt be a problem but you did well in my opinion.
/r/seduction28/01/26 12:44 PM
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Well i honestly don't know but I think you are looking at it the wrong way, why do you need to say something flirty? Sure to escalate but having a nice conversation and engaging if the other party flirts will probably be enough, why? Because you will get experience feel more enatural doing it and just get experience. Its not bad to be bad at flirting, especially since flirting can mean literally anything. I once heard that I was apparently pretty flitirtious at a party, while just having a norma…
/r/seduction23/12/25 08:52 PM
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Well the best way to make sure she doenst feel akward is starting with a question like "do you have a moment?" That way she has an easy out if she doenst wnat to talk to you, don't be discouraged if she doenst have a moment maybe she really is busy, just give it some time and try again, if you get the feeling she just doenst wnat to talk then stop. On top of that you can also ask in a conversation stuff like "oh am I keeping you from something?" When you get the feeling she is feeling akward, yo…
/r/seduction12/11/25 11:10 PM
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Could be could not be mostly will be up to you. If you make it weird it will be weird, if you make it normal it will be a normal car ride. My advise: Ask her if she wnats to go out of town with you, then ask her if she wants you to pick her up or if she wants to drive seperately. Don't worry about gossip, its a small town if you go anywhere inside of the town it will be the same, its just different gossip. Just don't be weird about it and you should be fine.
/r/seduction12/11/25 12:13 PM
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There can be a lot of reasons, he may be desensitised, he may just react more to direct physical stimuly if a simple kiss helps, he maybe just doenst like sex that much. Does he have adhd? I personally have it and my mind goes a lot of places all the time so getting aroused by simple visual cues is not always easy for me because I may see a nice pair of tit's, but my mind is thinking about "how cool would it be if yi could shoot lasers out of my eyes". Physical sfimuli have helped me perosnal be…
/r/seduction03/11/25 08:04 AM
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Men are simpel, so while some will have an issue with it (because these kinds of people always exist), most if not the huge majority will not. Don't worry what others think if you wnat mor econfidence in your body. Are you yourself happy with how you look? Yes? Then anyone who isn't is not worth your time. Why bother what others think? If they find you undesirable but you are happy with how you look what else matters? Your future partners will either not care or like you for how you look
/r/seduction08/10/25 07:11 AM
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I'd argue like at least half the points also go for how to get men to be honest especially point 10, beeing together means sharing together making an effort to be part of at least some hobbies is a necessary thing to do. If you don't like the hobbies or have different TV tastes etc. That's fine as long as you make an effort to be part even if it just ends up beeing someone to talk about it. As for some of the other points I like the advise but feel like this should be obvious but apparently it i…
/r/seduction11/06/25 07:27 AM
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I only really struggle to intentionally flirt, I get told that sometimes I am extremely flirty with some of my female friends, but they all know I don't intent on being, but when I try to be I fuck it up most of the times.
/r/seduction25/04/23 08:19 AM
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Or she realised after a time that you aren't the king she originally thought you to be, so one should always be oneself to avoid that.
/r/seduction23/09/22 10:05 AM
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The first is as bad as the second. A man shouldn't lie about their salary, but it's also not a equal statistic. One shoes how much you can contribute in a relationship financially. The Bodycount just shows how much you sleep around. It can be indicative of problematic behavior yes in rare edge cases, but unlike salary in general it doesn't show how much you can contribute in a relationship just your experience which also just so happen to rise with age. Body count is judging people for their fun…
/r/seduction08/09/22 07:36 AM
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You are the reason people would need to lie about stuff likes that yikes. Look at a mirror man.
/r/seduction07/09/22 08:25 PM
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Long Term it's pretty bad, they are an adult hopefully (make sure they don't lie about their age, I know some girls that do so 19 is a better bet it's more likely they don't make themselves older than 18), so you don't do anything wrong but they still change a lot in a quick time while you are hopefully more in tune who you are. So the relationship can go rather bad really quickly you also don't have much in common in live besides Hobbys maybe even thens he spends probably more time on them than…
/r/seduction07/09/22 08:22 PM
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I would argue it's mostly because of issues they have, be it relationship related that they don't address (or have addressed but their partner hasn't acknowledge or changed anything about it which isnt an excuse one should just end it in that case), they may feel the need to be validated by another person, they truly fell in love or are just stressed out and have issues dealing with it in a healthy manner so they cheat as a release. Doesn't make it better but bored one and thrill I would argue a…
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:57 PM
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The six back beer right?
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:50 AM
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That is a terrible reason to stay friends, be honest what you want. If you want more be open about it and when you get rejected work on moving on but don't play a seductive game to win her over later ... That's just sad and so dishonest that the girl should honestly kick you out of her life.
/r/seduction12/12/21 10:36 PM
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I totally disagree. If you like a person you can also be friends. You will need to move on from them regardless and when you only can that if you remove them from your live as much as possible you are not moving on but are just pushing the problem away. In my opinion you don't need to stay friends I mostly don't stay friends with girls I was interested in because I already have a friend group that is large enough for me and adding every girl I was interested in which didn't work out would make k…
/r/seduction12/12/21 10:12 PM
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Human rights were popular here first ... I needed that laugh thanks, I mean people were treated equally scince when? The late 60s? Yeah pretty hard a fan of human rights not to mention the war crimes in Vietnam soooo much human rights. Man you are funny ... I mean even today people are forced to go into bancrubcy just because they are sick, cannot get clean drinking water because of fracking or invoromental problems, homelessness alone ... Man yeah the time the US wasn't an oligarchy run by the …
/r/seduction08/12/21 04:58 PM
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It's capitalism but without restraints it's like alcohol, yeah you can drink fine but when you overdo it, it feels amazing sometime but most of the times the headache kills you and you liver slowly dies. That's American capitalism it's highs feel good but from time to time you guys crags down and drag us all into the abyss with you (aka 2008 and the great depression).
/r/seduction08/12/21 02:04 PM
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Nah we don't hate you for tagt, we hate you for your inflated ego, thinking what you do is right, exporting your toxic and stupid ideas to our younger generations and as such bringing these stupid topics to us (as an example identity politics is pretty much an American invention, and stuff like racism which are totally different problems in Europe and america at leats in my opinion). Your hyper nationalism, how you act as tourists, your uncontrolled capitalism, how you your president can alone s…
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:30 AM
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It's fine to ask it here in my opinion it is reakted to dating but you would probably get a more comprehensive answer in other subreddits. Depending on what exactly you search for as an answer (aka just what to do or rather a long explanation).
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:21 AM
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Well doesn't change it much, I personally still wouldn't talk about it with a girl I wasn't interested in (well with the exceptions of good friends but it seems like you two only have contact in that environment so personally I wouldn't call you good friends if that is the case). So I think my point would still stand
/r/seduction10/11/21 10:11 AM
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If you feel like you have a mental blockade that will stop you from hooking up I would advice some light alcohol. A couple of beer really help loosening those mental blockades (if you already know that won't help then sorry). If you want to initiate it just try to get into touch contact with him it's a party the rest will probably follow naturally.
/r/seduction10/11/21 09:22 AM
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Well I would guess he brings it up because he fancy's you too. He probably wants to measure what you find attractive to get a good idea if he got a shot. So I say ask him out or ask him directly if he is into you (depending on what you prefer). Overall it's a pretty good sing I would say, personally at least I wouldn't talk about this kind of stuff with a coworker I'm not interested in.
/r/seduction10/11/21 09:07 AM
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I also would add that they might think now that he has success jokes about his weight are fair game because it cannot possibly hurt him when he is so confident and successfull now can it? The main point OP needs to take away here I think is talking it out with them.
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:22 PM
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I don't know your friends but it can just be that they themselves feel bad because you have success, while being build thick. I know that this can be frustrating as a guy friend and maybe that's the issue if they all are just bad at it and don't know how to deal with their jealously against you. I would ask them if anything is bothering them and tell them that you are hurt from their comments. Because it could also just be that they think now that you are having success they can make these jokes…
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:19 PM
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That's not the point, the point is when you do this, aka pay for the dinner etc. You do it because you want to and not because you expect anything in return. When you hold open the door and treat her nice, you don't want to manipulate her but just want to do it. You don't need to pay for dinner, hell not even hold the door open all you need to do is being honest and be kind, without expecting anything in return.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:18 PM
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Well we don't know how much his friend is already invested in this girl, op tells us they both just want to hook up but we don't know if that is really how his friend feels about this whole situation. If it is just a hook up for OP I would say letting it go is the right thing to do as a friend, if he would like to have a serious relationship that is a whole other discussion, long term happiness should be supported in a friend group but a hookup falls not in tagt category. It is just hurting your…
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:05 AM
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Nah, you don't know him, I do, he really has no clue he just does it well. It probably helps that he is a really aprochable guy, that may even be the main reason but it isn't something he does consoucly that is for certain.
/r/seduction12/10/21 09:24 PM
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Hell I have a friend who looks ok, not really great in YM opinion, but he gets tons of lady's like wtf a lot. He isn't particularly smart, nice or anything he just got a feeling for it. And the women that like him are like 10/10 sometimes. So you think he knows his stuff. Nope he just hasn't any clue whatsoever, all his relationships endes with a broken hearth and he was always more invested in the girls than the other way around. Now he has a nice girlfriend and is happy but ask him how, why or…
/r/seduction12/10/21 09:14 PM
1

Well I think it sounds more elite she is getting mixed signals, at least op wrote that he already slept with her and didn't want to go into a FWB relationship so she thought it ended he messaged her again knowing what she wanted so I would say she isn't the scumbag here.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:51 PM
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My guess is they either think you want him to sleep with you without him really wanting it (aka subverting his own wants) which is a bit ironic but I guess it isn't great. But well it clearly isn't what you want to do, I mean the dude knows what you want and is the problem here. A friend of mine had a similar problem until recently, in the end she made it clear she wanted a serious answer from him what the fuck he wants from her, because the mixed signals where giving her too much of a headache.…
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:49 PM
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Well not necessarily, some customer can be intimidating and while yes turning you down is an option depending on their exact surounding they may feel pressured to give you a number so you don't kick up a fuss. They don't know you won't do it.
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:42 PM
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Well it does. The comment I answered too was about wether or not you should date before or during self improvement. As I said above I disagree with op because there are things you should improve first before dating, because dating can be detremental to your success.
/r/seduction24/09/21 03:41 PM
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No I think you missed the point a bit there. What you need is being attractive in many ways now, not in 10 years, while there are some women who have the "build my man" mentality I personally would advice staying away from them. What you need is being good enough right now, the potential is the icing on the cake. Why would I date a ugly bitch? Yeah she can get beautiful and become a nice person but I won't put up with that till then. Neither should she if I'm a ugly asshole. It is YOUR responsib…
/r/seduction24/09/21 09:12 AM
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Well I would disagree a bit, it all depends on what you wish to change. I for an example am at the moment not in a great point in my life, my mood is on a perma low because of that. Dating now would just add to that, as it has until I stopped, because due to my personal mood at this moment I would not date myself. First I need to get my house in order and get back on track before dating is a good idea again. If it is something like muscle build up, working on your looks or getting some skills I …
/r/seduction24/09/21 09:05 AM
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Totally agree.
/r/seduction31/07/21 03:36 PM
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That sounds wrong, I am in a friend group with some girls that mostly have male friends. They are totally fine and I would argue their exact relationship with these friends is what matters. What you wrote sounds like she is using them somewhat (depends on wether or not gift giving is just normal in this friend group aka everyone gets so many gifts not just the girls or her specifically). My gut feeling is that it is a higher red flag, but I don't have enough information to reliable say that this…
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:13 AM
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Personally I think you can be friends with girls you have a crush on or romantic feelings. The key is to be honest about how you feel and accepting when it doesn't work out from her side. If you like a girl it is most likely because she is a great person and you like spending time with her, rejection is in my opinion a stupid reason to lose a good friend over YOUR problem (aka that you cannot get over your feelings). While it may be a good move to safeguard yourself against hurt feelings in the …
/r/seduction30/07/21 04:35 PM
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Needy people are not shit, they have problems but still are most of the time good people. You can dislike them of course but I have nothing against a needy friend or even a needy girlfriend the question is just how needy they are. So it should be more "this is why needy people have problems finding a relationship" instead of "needy people are shit" because this is a groce oversimplification and just plain mean without merit as needy is not a destinct enough word for everyone.
/r/seduction08/05/21 04:51 AM
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I only eber heard some other guy jeaslous of this brave act called secruity and got the guy arrested or thrown out the bar, such a dick move it worked every time I saw it, always these assholes that got in the way.
/r/seduction25/06/20 02:36 PM
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I disagre personally. The former does not rely entirely on looks. It has a big part but I thinks it's also context and your personality. If you look bad but are seen in a situazion where you are dominent charismatic and seem to be caring it will be seen as attractive. Looks are just the easiest variable to manipulate yourself as the rest relies on the exact situation and parameters of your own day/hers.
/r/seduction13/05/20 09:47 PM
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Heck getting people of drugs is manipulation. Every time you try to change somebody for their own good be it telling them to woek out more, stop drinking read more, all manipulative. Even asking people to help you is in some form a manipulation, as you play to their helper instinct in hopes of helping or playing to their guilt over a favor they owe you etc. Manipulation is the base line we all interact with one abother scince manipulation means in essence chaning a persons behavior, which you do…
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:54 PM
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