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| 523 | This changed my life forever - Girls actually do want Boys | SavagelyInnocuous | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 09:32 AM |
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| 19 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityThis is false and a dangerous idea. It’s true you aren’t a victim, there is no perpetrator. But saying it’s 100% your responsibility totally discounts the women’s choices in the matter, and discounts just statistical realities of the world, like that some men may never have what they are looking for from women, no matter what they do. It’s nobodies fault, that’s how how the world is sometimes. | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 12:03 AM |
| 7 | Why results come when you stop caring"So you start texting the person nonstop, getting upset when they don’t answer you back right away, and pressuring them to spend time with you." I'd say this is the problem. Pressuring someone, or limiting their choice triggers psychological reactance. But if you treat them like humans, allowing them to choose, and let them know you're fine with a "no", it can help reduce the pressure. I really don't think it's necessary to tie that in with the whole needy vs abundant dichotomy. Sure, create a g… | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 07:37 PM |
| 2 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.Most replies are going to be people just adding insult to injury, by throwing advice at you of what you're doing wrong and how to be better at game. That's what seduction companies and forums thrive on, it the constant implication of guilt and blame on the person who is struggling, never admitting that game just doesn't work sometimes for some people. Please feel free to discard my advice, but if you want to talk to people who can relate, try the incel subs. There's a lot of good people on there… | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 06:54 AM |
| 5 | Just an advice I want to give my fellow brothers: "Girls should not be your destination but should be part of the journey." If whatever you're doing is to try and get girls rethink your mindset.Pretty much every seduction post and everything PUA coaches say boils down to the same thing. Essentially, In order to get girls, you have to not want to get girls, then they'll come. I think this is the big trap of the PUA industry. It's how the industry survives and keeps the money rolling in. It's an inherent contradiction, and as long as it keeps men blaming themselves for being too "needy" then they'll always feel like they're not doing good enough. It introduces a new struggle into men's l… | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 09:49 PM |
| 2 | This changed my life forever - Girls actually do want BoysI'm sorry man, but I'm not a person that will be able to help you. Sounds like you've had your share of shit happen to you. I wish you the best bro, and I hope you'll find some of the girls who aren't nasty bitches. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 07:53 AM |
| 1 | This changed my life forever - Girls actually do want BoysIt sounds like your at a disadvantage, but that doesn't mean everything is lost and you have nothing going for you. Even people at a drastic disadvantage will still find people who will like them. I think you will have better luck with seeking something more that hookups, doesn't necessarily have to be monogamy though. I think probably friend "networking" will work better than solo cold approaching for you. | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 05:33 AM |
| 1 | This changed my life forever - Girls actually do want BoysOnline is brutal. Try making a female tinder account that's decent looking and compare it. They get bombarded with men. The imbalance between men and women is drastic, its like going to a bar with 10 girls and 30 guys actively hitting on them. It's hard to compete. Daygame, mutual friends, activities and stuff is much better odds. I think it's very possible to find what you're looking for. The demographic area also makes a huge difference. e.g. it's hard to find anyone mid 20's in a small town w… | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 08:08 AM |
| 1 | This changed my life forever - Girls actually do want BoysIt's true that some men have apparently more to offer to a woman than other men. But I don't know of any guy that has nothing to offer. Saying someone has nothing to offer is an extreme position and not true. The truth is there's a spectrum, and ever guy can offer emotional connection, friendship, and sex, which you can get good at. The really popular girls have a lot of guys they can choose from, so they'll go for their best options. Same as you would. If you really just wanted to get laid then… | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 08:48 PM |
| 2 | [venting] [field report] I fucked... It up.You were close man, I feel like the moments before the kiss are the hardest. There's so much tension, it's hard to sit with that pressure. But then you start kissing and it releases that tension and feels much more comfortable. And then she'll be loving it and it starts to connect that she is really into kissing you. That voice is brutal though, it's probably been beaten into your head from your childhood by tons of horrible experiences. It's hard to really realize that it's total bullshit. Past… | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 06:00 AM |
| 3 | This changed my life forever - Girls actually do want BoysYes demographics are huge. That's why I'm planning on moving to Oregon now, one of the least religious states haha | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | This changed my life forever - Girls actually do want BoysBy conservative beliefs I'm talking about old school religious prudishness and "sex before marraige is a sin" attitude. And slut shaming, which makes women feel like they have to act uninterested in sex. | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 08:59 PM |
| 5 | This changed my life forever - Girls actually do want BoysMan just reading this hurts me, because I know how that feels. It's frustrating as hell. The only things I can think of is maybe its an issue of demographics. Depending on where you live, and which women you're talking to, they act different. Like a really hot girl in a bar is probably going to get hit on by at least 10 guys that night, it totally changes her behavior. Rejecting another guy is just routine, not a big deal. But it might be a big deal to him. The place I was living had some weird … | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 08:55 PM |
| 12 | This changed my life forever - Girls actually do want BoysYeah unfortunately that's exactly how it was for me. I went through harsh cycles for over a year of being confident and talking to plenty of girls, then all my options drop and I feel like women don't like men and get depressed. Then I find some reason to think women do like men and I get confident for a while. I was living in the worse place on earth to get action from girls, a town in Utah, where most people are mormon(where sex is a sin next to murder), and I wasn't into banging the dumb drun… | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Why I try to limit texting to a minimumI disagree, this advise has actually messed up my game a lot. I agree that texting is inferior to talking, but the idea that texting should be limited as possible ended up sending off a vibe that I was all business and direct, and not fun or relatable. For me, I ended up only attracting women who were really really busy with work, school, etc etc which means they didn't hardly ever have time, and the flake rate was really really high. The whole-trying to avoid appearing needy- advise really mess… | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 07:19 PM |
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