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As a Mens Rights Advocate i am finding more people are starting to agree with me after years of arguments and conversations. Many of those people are actually women, too! They wont go as far as to advocate, but they at least agree that men are being discriminated against.
/r/MensRights11/05/25 01:17 AM
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This is gross. wow...
/r/MensRights29/03/22 01:44 PM
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Are there any subs you would suggest? One of the many reasons I come to r/mensrights is because the mods are just and most people here are sane and reasonable.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 06:28 PM
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The “single agreed upon definition” was more to make a point that a lot of average, neutral women who do not initially identify as “feminists” are pressured by feminist (or media) to call themselves “feminists” using a very low bar of entrance. They use questions like “do you believe women should vote?” and “should women receive the same pay as men?” to convince previously neutral women that they are “feminists”. A lot of women irl wear the term “feminists” loosely, not actually doing and saying…
/r/MensRights05/03/22 10:47 PM
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"Let’s try something easier." I'm agreeing with all of your points, please don't talk down to me. I understand that men and women receive the same pay taking into consideration their hours, experience, education, quality of work ect. To answer your question, in my 30ish yrs of work experience I have maybe only heard one person irl seriously referencing the "woman make less than men" lie. I am not saying that people don't believe it, or that a majority don't believe it, but that I can not begin t…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 05:32 PM
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Most women gain nothing by supporting men's rights and have everything to lose from it. Exactly, I really get a lot of backlash supporting men's rights as a female. Every time I bring it up I put a social-shame target on my head. Hate and pity from women thinking I am a "tool of the patriarchy". The only thing I have to gain is the promise (however ephemeral it may be) that the men in my life I care about will be treated better in the future and that they would not be downtrodden and lose hope f…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 05:13 PM
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Am lady, also support men's rights. I don't post a lot on social media but I have a lot of conversations with people irl about this.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 05:05 PM
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When polled if they are "feminists" it is no surprise that most women say "yes" because feminism has no commonly agreed upon definition considering we are in the 4th wave of it. "should women vote" some people argue that you are a feminist if you even agree with this statement, no wonder it is so confusing: notwithstanding the widespread historical ignorance
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:59 PM
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I would say that perhaps there is a bit more societal reprisal on mothers than fathers. I was searching for this comment and I agree. In general, if someone says, "my father walked out on us as a kid" many people would internally roll their eyes thinking *another man walking out on their family, sad but it happens all the time*. If a mom walks out on her family (like my mother) the response is usually "Oh that is so terrible! I am so sorry you had to go through something like that!" Attempts to …
/r/MensRights21/10/21 02:10 PM
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"They will belong to the streets of Social Media" This encapsulates the phenomenon so eloquently!
/r/MensRights15/09/21 01:34 PM
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Have you spoken to her about this? Perhaps even with a mediator?
/r/MensRights03/09/21 01:09 PM
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Who knows what each individual defines as "feminist", with 4 waves of Feminism now "women deserve the right to vote" is miles away from the toxic sludge of inconsistent ideologies it has become
/r/MensRights03/09/21 01:07 PM
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Agreed! Very thorough!
/r/MensRights18/08/21 09:20 AM
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I initially came here to say, "I have a degree in science education and never had an evperiance like this" but No one in the comments is generalizing this to all universities or all teacher education programs. Everyone is reasonable and sees her as a bitch to be exposed. r/MensRights restores my faith in humanity, even as it exposes the nasty underbelly.
/r/MensRights14/08/21 01:46 PM
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This is sick.
/r/MensRights13/08/21 08:01 PM
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That's disgusting.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 08:29 PM
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Of course.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 01:38 PM
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But at that point shouldn't you include "men"tioning and com"men"t? That's 30 "men". That is my gravest error this week,
/r/MensRights01/07/21 01:37 PM
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I want a partner, not another parent. Lol, that's pretty much what he said and we have a pretty awesome marriage. I'm not the boss and I don't want to be the boss.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 08:43 PM
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;)
/r/MensRights30/06/21 08:40 PM
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You said "people can't afford to get married" not "people can't afford to get married and then divorced"
/r/MensRights30/06/21 08:38 PM
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Getting married saves you money: https://www.businessinsider.com/10-ways-getting-married-saves-you-money-2015-9#-4 I have friends that got married specifically because it is cheaper (at least in the USA)
/r/MensRights30/06/21 07:13 PM
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The richer and more educated a country is the fewer children they have. I am not sure that specifically points to feminism
/r/MensRights30/06/21 07:12 PM
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The 1950's family setup (man goes out to work, the woman stays home to care for the kids) was engineered by politicians in charge of the country. The goal was to give men/ families such a good working wage the women would be able to stay home and care for the children subsequently providing high-quality childcare which would produce better quality citizens, which was considered a privilege because in poor families both parents had to work. This does indeed create an unintended power dynamic wher…
/r/MensRights30/06/21 07:06 PM
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I can never get back the 14 seconds it took me to count all 28 instances of the word "men"
/r/MensRights30/06/21 06:45 PM
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I'm married, so I don't get this specific rebuttal. The first thing I can think of (that hasn't been posted so far) would be to respond by giving her permission to be ignorant. "It's okay to be ignorant of the real statistics. I certainly was before I saw the numbers [insert one stat that really spoke to you] and heard the all of the stories of legalized sexism. But it is not okay to make up lies about me. It sounds like you would rather throw insults than have a mature conversation. If you woul…
/r/MensRights25/06/21 08:54 PM
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That is a tough situation OP. Given your circumstances, it sounds like she is not listening to your feelings at all. I would make it a priority to speak up sooner than later. Otherwise, she will continue to steamroll over your feelings. (Am a female, can confirm.) If people go to have their car serviced regularly and get a second opinion why shouldn't a couple get a "check-up" on their marriage?
/r/MensRights25/06/21 07:57 PM
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This is messed up. Thank you for bringing my attention to this.
/r/MensRights24/06/21 08:30 PM
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It's a great excuse to celebrate. We should always celebrate victories. SJWs are the ones to suck the fun out of everything with their battle-cries of "it's never enough!!!!!" I don't want to live in a world that celebrates sparingly.
/r/MensRights24/06/21 08:26 PM
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Probably not. Employers can drop you like a bag of potatoes.
/r/MensRights24/06/21 08:23 PM
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This is sick. I am so sorry that woman hurt you and then the system makes you go on trial every step of the way. I wish you find complete emotional and physical healing from this incident.
/r/MensRights24/06/21 08:14 PM
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the "apparently stealing" part of your comment (among other things) implies that you doubt the experience and professional understanding of OP. In reality this comment disqualifies you from having any authoritative opinion on the creative world because you simply do not understand how it works. Your unwillingness to validate the very real and very painful experience of OP while insulting his life's work is what makes your comment assholey. It is okay to not understand the creative world. I certa…
/r/MensRights24/06/21 08:09 PM
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Links to his music or the marketing classes he took?
/r/MensRights24/06/21 07:54 PM
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"that those ppl not actors or not"? I don't understand
/r/MensRights23/06/21 08:44 PM
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I am so sorry you have had to go through this. My husband is a phenomenal musician, has taken every marketing class available, and blogs won't feature his work because he is white. It is painful to know so many other people are going through this.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 08:42 PM
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This comment is ignorant and out of touch with the creative world.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 08:38 PM
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You clearly do not understand the creative world. Woke politics impacts musicians, visual artists, journalists, actors, poets, writers and of course voice actors. Their livelihood (that they have worked their whole life for) is literally impossible with woke politics. If I practiced an instrument for 6-8 hrs a day (like most top musicians) for 18 years to become the best-of-the-best and have no other education but can't get into an orchestra because I am not "ethnic" enough you're going to say t…
/r/MensRights23/06/21 08:36 PM
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I am sorry you have experienced this woke bullshit. It sounds like it has impacted your life significantly.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 08:26 PM
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I couldn't even finish that trash movie. gag me.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 08:22 PM
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Saving this for later, thanks!
/r/MensRights30/04/21 01:01 PM
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Very well-written analysis. I haven't thought about it like that before. I wonder if you can find some studies to validate/ in-validate your hypothesis. I found this This research found that while both women and men have more favorable views of women, women's in-group biases were 4.5 times stronger[25] than those of men and only women (not men) showed cognitive balance among in-group bias, identity, and self-esteem, revealing that men lack a mechanism that bolsters automatic preference for their…
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/21 07:44 PM
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I think you have pretty good advice here especially the grey rocking technique, although I doubt she is narcissistic, currently our social culture is grooming everyone to have narcissistic traits. The narcissists I know (one is a vulnerable narcissist) are super fun when they are in a good mood and extremely harmful in a bad mood. I think a narcissist would have strung OP along as long as she could through lovebombing, gaslighting, and guilt. A narcissist also probably would not have stated her …
/r/MensRights22/04/21 09:45 PM
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Yet at the same time men are accused of having no standards.
/r/MensRights22/04/21 04:55 PM
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Get off social media Find a new source that reports only the news (ie TheNewPaper) Instead of focusing on all the things going wrong in the world focus on the issue that matters to you the most. Maybe you care about animal rights, men's rights, deforestation... just pick one and put your energy toward it. I pick men's issues and supporting men, that way you will feel less inclined to go 5 different directions. list things you are grateful everyday, simple but powerful
/r/MensRights21/04/21 11:48 AM
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I would agree with airgod as well. She probably like;y used her own money to buy the roses and roses can be expensive. Filing a complaint could very well turn her off to ever giving gifts again, on the other hand, if OP respectfully talks to her one on one he may be able to build a more genuine relationship with her and earn her respect.
/r/MensRights21/04/21 11:17 AM
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I agree. It disturbs me as well. The word only invokes anger, shame and outrage.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 02:22 AM
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It is socially acceptable for a woman to be playful in public, but men are considered 'creepy'.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 02:17 AM
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Yes, because it is not actually about equality, it is about "power" in a system of only "victims" and "oppressors" (according to them).
/r/MensRights10/04/21 12:27 PM
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This is a great list however, I wished it included an updated distinction for 4th Wave Feminism.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 12:10 PM
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Excellent resources, thank you!
/r/MensRights10/04/21 12:08 PM
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I do follow the @ thetinmen. I just wish it was in a nice list, video, infographic, or something that is easier to communicate on Reddit.
/r/MensRights10/04/21 12:06 PM
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I am also a woman who believes men's rights have been trampled upon. There is solid advice offered in this thread. I reaffirm how important learning the facts/ statistics and how to discuss/ debate things with others is very important. This article is enlightening. Use stories to help people understand your perspective, sometimes the facts don't actually help people understand better. This is the story that brought me to r/mensrights.: https://www.newyorker.com/books/novellas/this-is-pleasure Be…
/r/MensRights09/04/21 08:17 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights07/04/21 12:53 PM
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I am so glad you crawled out of the hyper-Lefty sinkhole, for you personally and for everyone you impact. If by saying, "there is nothing anyone can do for them" you mean, the justice they demand won't actually make them happy, I would agree. If you meant that there is nothing we can do but tell them to take a break, I would disagree. I think living your life in an upright way, helping others, and engaging in thoughtful conversations with Leftists (who are not hard-headed) are practical things a…
/r/MensRights07/04/21 12:46 PM
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This is so well written and to the point. I am saving for later.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 12:21 PM
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So many of them that I know personally are depressed (no suprise there). They will just eat themselves alive and make us pay for it.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 12:18 PM
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Do you have a source for this?
/r/MensRights07/04/21 12:16 PM
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Yeah, he gets really deep into Biblical stories.
/r/MensRights05/04/21 03:02 PM
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It sounds like you are falling for the logical fallacy of "Hasty Generalization" This fallacy occurs when someone draws expansive conclusions based on inadequate or insufficient evidence. In other words, they jump to conclusions about the validity of a proposition with some -- but not enough -- evidence to back it up, and overlook potential counterarguments. I never said I identified as a supremacist.
/r/MensRights05/04/21 12:56 PM
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"heathen spawns" lol
/r/MensRights04/04/21 10:36 AM
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I am curious, did you try other feminist subreddits?
/r/MensRights04/04/21 10:25 AM
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I am so sorry that she hurt you like this. There is no excuse for her actions. I would like to say, as a woman, that I hope you eventually find someone to open up to. Showing true vulnerability as as man or as women is stressful. I hope that you find a woman who is worthy of hearing your feelings and who is receptive of them whether they be positive or negative. You got this.
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/21 11:42 PM
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Good point
/r/MensRights03/04/21 11:08 PM
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You are saying what everyone else is afraid to say, and that is noble.
/r/MensRights03/04/21 11:08 PM
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When the narrative is a house of cards to begin with.
/r/MensRights03/04/21 11:03 PM
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My husband and I joking ask for consent all the time. "may i look at you?" I consent " I DID NOT CONSENT YO YOU KICKING ME IN THE BUTT!" "oops! I forgot to consent!" winky face
/r/MensRights03/04/21 11:02 PM
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I am sorry that speaking common sense is brave, but you were brave and courageous to speak the truth. “You can only find out what you actually believe (rather than what you think you believe) by watching how you act. You simply don’t know what you believe, before that. You are too complex to understand yourself.” ― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
/r/MensRights03/04/21 10:59 PM
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Your outrage culture is showing. Outrage culture is not welcome here. r/mensrights is a place of civil discourse, not name calling.
/r/MensRights03/04/21 10:55 PM
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Interview from the Washington Examiner: A new organization pushes back against ‘woke’ public education (washingtonexaminer.com)
/r/MensRights01/04/21 04:10 PM
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You can submit an incident report to the organization From the Website " We believe our children’s education should be based on scholarship and facts, and should nurture their development into the happy, resilient, free-thinking, educated citizens every democracy needs. Our classrooms should include rigorous instruction in history, civics, literature, math, the sciences, and the ideas and values that enrich our country. Yet in recent years activists have targeted public, private, and charter sch…
/r/MensRights01/04/21 04:09 PM
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This made me lol
/r/MensRights01/04/21 02:29 PM
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This is insane, I can't event believe it. Thank you for throwing light on this discrimination.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 02:21 PM
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The whole "mansplaining" thing is just a tool women use to dismiss mens' opinion. "Karen" and "boomer" terms people are using to dismiss what people say as well; unless of course, the person is being a jerk. Maybe there are small nuggets of truth behind each of those, but not enough that anyone should be ignored, dismissed, talked down to, or rejected.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 06:31 PM
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I think there will always be fringe individuals within movements who will create fake issues. To achieve a successful movement there must be strong leadership, good communication, and a laser focus (among other things). I trust that MRA are able to keep their supporters in check and achieve the goal they set for themselves.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 05:01 PM
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This is a fair point, especially since women occupy most of the social internet space. I am a female and don't have hatred toward men. My mother raised me to hate men, but I know too many awesome men to believe that they are evil. I feel honored to be allowed to be here and not be vilified just because I am a female.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 04:40 PM
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Oh this is so cringe...
/r/MensRights30/03/21 04:15 PM
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I have never been more convinced that men bring order and justice. Even the fact that men have tried to crosspost and converse with women's subs but they are chased out. I haven't see any feminist women try to dialogue with with the men's support subs.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 04:10 PM
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r/mensrights is a breath of fresh air on the internet.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 04:03 PM
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Yes, I feel this too. I feel like it is really hard to talk to people now because everyone gets angry at everything. It sounds like you almost need a screening tool. Like a question you could ask that would tell you if she believes all the bullshit she reads or if she actually thinks for herself. When I meet someone (as the conversation allows) I will see how they handle hurt in their life. If they sound like they are taking responsibility and trying to forgive and heal, that is a good indicator…
/r/MensRights30/03/21 04:01 PM
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Yeah it really comes down to a lot of unknowns about the situation. We don't know if this is private or public, whether there are school rules against photos without someone's consent, OP's relationship with parents, what OP's parents are like, who the girl's parents are (heck they might be lawyers!), the reputation of OP, the reputation of the girl, as well as the school's history with bullying among so many other unknowns...
/r/MensRights30/03/21 03:36 PM
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I wanna meet a girl named "Root". lol Also the fact that the poster used the term "girl" instead of "woman" is believed to be demeaning to some circles. Feminism eats itself alive.
/r/AntiFeminists30/03/21 03:31 PM
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Will skipping the detentions give the girl more ammunition that OP is belligerent and rebellious?
/r/MensRights30/03/21 03:19 PM
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This is great advice. Document. Document. Document. Time, date, location, witnesses, description of the incident. (please note: I am not a lawyer) It sounds like your stronger argument will be the number of times this has happened, instead of getting really detailed in the quality of the punch. Here is good instruction on writing a description of the incident: How to Write an Incident Report: 12 Steps (with Pictures) (wikihow.com) Note that you should not write what you think might have happened…
/r/MensRights30/03/21 03:17 PM
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I am so sorry to hear about all of your loss. All of those are high-stress traumatic losses. I have also lost a brother to suicide and my mother at a young age so I know the pain of losing someone close to you quite suddenly. I hope you have been able to grieve with a supportive community and if you need anyone to talk to I would be glad to listen; sometimes talking to strangers can be carthartic. The Factual Feminist was a solid video, I wish she had her own channel. I also am now following But…
/r/MensRights30/03/21 02:59 PM
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Just following up from this post, what did you decide to do and how did it go?
/r/MensRights29/03/21 04:51 PM
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. theres no point on argueing with them. I agree there is no point in arguing with them. There is no point in arguing with fools in general. If one is willing to have a civilized dialogue though, it can be an opportunity. It is emotionally exhausting to be dialoging with those who are against you all the time so I do so only here and there.
/r/MensRights29/03/21 04:42 PM
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Did you get a chance to read the short story This is Pleasure? "I'm sick to death of all the things about women". I don't blame you, mostly because there is not diversity of perspective or opinion. Even women who think outside of the mainstream are just getting crushed, ostracized, downvoted, and demeaned. It feels very cult-y and narcissistic.
/r/MensRights29/03/21 02:44 PM
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Interesting read, I did not know so many women were wrongfully incarcerated. I looked at the data but I did not understand all of the abbreviations. This quote stuck out to me, " These “crimes” included events determined to be accidents, deaths by suicide and crimes that were fabricated. " Were the crimes fabricated by men?
/r/MensRights26/03/21 02:13 PM
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Being restrained in how we present is the norm, has been the norm for a long time, I have noticed this. I used the term "silly" but from the short story I mentioned the main character is actually more eccentric-playful-comedic-silly-socially bold-passionate, it's hard to describe. I have seen an account of a transman and I thought it was interesting. Some other commentator posted a youtube video that I thought was pretty well done considering the lack of male perspective in the arts. Social chan…
/r/MensRights26/03/21 02:05 PM
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It's such a shame because humor can help relieve social tension, make you more likable, among so many other things... I hope the social landscape gets to a point when men can more freely be themselves and break out of the box people are putting them in.
/r/MensRights26/03/21 01:55 PM
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That channel is really good! He has a great way of walking viewers through the pressures of being a man. Thank you!
/r/MensRights25/03/21 09:54 PM
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to add to Myth #2 I would also say that women prefer male bosses Why women prefer a male boss - The Business Woman Media (lots of sources, this is just one of them) Great resource! Thank you for putting this together!
/r/MensRights25/03/21 08:25 PM
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That is disgusting to even imply that putting kids in cages is okay because they are male.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 08:22 PM
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I like the "did you just assume my gender", I might use that. lol
/r/MensRights25/03/21 08:03 PM
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I claimed to support men online, you can check out my post history to confirm. I haven't gotten my "banned from r/feminism" badge, yet because I haven't joined the community.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 08:00 PM
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I will look into this!
/r/MensRights25/03/21 07:53 PM
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I don't know how to change this. I took Jordan Peterson's Big 5 personality test and learned that I am high in volatility which means I have highly changeable emotions (it can be hour-to-hour or even minute-to-minute) Understandingmyself.com says " Individuals high in volatility tend to vary in their mood. They can be irritable, reacting strongly to disappointment, frustration, pain and the threat of social isolation. They can lash out and are relatively easily annoyed. They are more likely to a…
/r/MensRights25/03/21 07:53 PM
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This response is well-thought out. Feeling are more nuanced the just "society teaches men crying=bad"
/r/MensRights25/03/21 07:42 PM
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The closest thing I can think of is him cheating on her or giving her an STI, but even then that wont necessarily ruin a woman's job, finances, reputation.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 07:32 PM
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I think this reply makes it sound as if men and women fight in the same way and I do not think this is true. Watch a prison shows like 60DaysIn and come back and report the difference in how men and women fight. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned". I have seen women hold onto grudges for years, just waiting for right moment to cut someone down. I would rather have a man be mad at me than a woman.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 07:28 PM
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When I express feelings of sadness or anger I do indeed feel awkward, even with close friends. (I would infer that is mostly due to abuse and trauma, though.) It is good to know that not everyone feels awkward like I do. I am glad you found someone to connect to on such a deep level, there is such an epidemic of loneliness since COVID. That sounds like a friendship to be treasured!
/r/MensRights25/03/21 07:16 PM
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Send me a message and I'll show up next time. I can not claim to be very good at arguing, but supporting men is a cause I can get behind. Mostly because I think a lot of the social chaos we are experiencing is due in part to a hyper-feminized unbalanced society. I worry about America's ability to keep up on the world stage when we are only focused on the "evil patriarchy" and feelings>facts. The short story I mentioned blew my mind that my ability to be silly, yet still socially accepted, as a f…
/r/MensRights25/03/21 07:08 PM
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Thank you, I will look into this!
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:42 PM
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What is "twox"?
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:41 PM
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Thank you for the suggestion. I am also a Christian so this may resonate with me on another level.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:41 PM
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I read mostly non-fiction, so I will add this to my list.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:39 PM
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My husband checks off a lot of those as well. If already are or you choose to be in a relationship someday, I bet you are a wonderful partner!
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:37 PM
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I am so glad you do something you enjoy despite the haters! You shouldn't have to deal with that hate. It sounds like you have gotten stronger doing something you love in the face of adversity. I also rollerblade, if you travel the world maybe we will roll past one another and not even know it.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:34 PM
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"compare e off" What does this mean?
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:29 PM
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Women don't like other attractive women. I get friendlier interactions with women when I do not look pretty. I will get the cold shoulder from women when I look nice because, I think, they see me as competition. Men on the other hand don't seem to give the cold shoulder to other men just because they are handsome.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:29 PM
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In addition to this, if men are expressing an extreme emotion I often feel powerless to help as a female. When my husband feels like he is not accomplishing much in life or is grappling with existential dread, there is very little I can actually do to cheer him up besides make sure the house is running smoothly, take care of myself, and listen when he wants to talk. I can't make him feel better besides taking pressure off of him. In contrast he can cheer me up or bring me out of almost any mood …
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:21 PM
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Yes, in addition, talking to men many of them have reported that the same women who encourage them to show emotions will react with disgust when they express sadness. If men express feelings (in general) less than women, when men express feelings very strongly are they just perceived as expressing it more "awkwardly"? Just a thought, I don't know if it is true. My father expressed feelings in front of me, but it was usually in the extreme.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:15 PM
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What an evil woman, I am sorry you have had to go through this. Unfounded accusations can ruin men's lives and it sounds like she tried to ruin yours. I hope you are able to see that not all women are like her.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 01:12 PM
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I was talking about men being playful from the short story I mentioned. It's an excellent read if you have the time. My husband and I discussed the story for close to an hour afterward. The main character is very hard to pin down, but in-short I would describe him as playful-silly. It sounds like you know people who have been more playful-bully, for lack of a better word. He ends up being on the receiving end of a massive harassment lawsuit and one quote that stuck out to me was, "it would have …
/r/MensRights25/03/21 01:05 PM
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As if, the only supportive thing you can do for a man is encouraging a somewhat more "feminine" behavior.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 01:00 PM
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This is the type of quote that should be coming up with the hashtag #supportmen on Instagram. This is wonderful advice! My comment about playfulness is from reading the short story I mentioned. As a playful female I realized I can socially "get away with" a lot more playful behavior than men can.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 12:37 PM
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I love the whole Bean and Ender series!
/r/MensRights25/03/21 12:22 PM
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The curfew idea made my blood boil, it was actually one of the steps that led me here. I had some quote I was working on, something like, "I would be a liar if I said I was never 'creeped out' or hurt by men. I would have to be mentally ill to assume those men represented half the human race."
/r/MensRights25/03/21 12:19 PM
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I will check this out, thank you!
/r/MensRights25/03/21 12:17 PM
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Apparently Reddit made me a new username instead of signing me in. This comment was from me. My father expressed his emotions in front of me when I was a child, but now he is controlled by my step-mother and I am not ready to see them yet. Also, my husband is the most emotionally intelligent individual I have ever met. He is better at regulating his emotions than me. Edit: I have adopted Thomas Sowell and Jordan Peterson as my honorary grandfathers at the moment.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 12:16 PM
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Bummer. It is worth coming back to if you happen to remember. My husband and I spent almost an hour discussing it after we finished it. I am not usually inclined to read character-driven stories, but this one was so well written I would probably read it again.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 12:12 PM
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Thank you for these suggestions!
/r/MensRights25/03/21 02:12 AM
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Thank you so much for the suggestion!
/r/MensRights25/03/21 01:32 AM
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Gawd, I only HOPE more women will see the light and how wrong they are.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 01:30 AM
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I find that order, justice, and sensibility have not left this community like the rest of the internet. I was not aware this is a "men only" group, if it was I would obviously not be here. I will continue to stand up for men even if it makes me look bad, even if you hate me because it is the right thing to do. Also, I am genuinely looking for more literature, I even submitted my own, which is the reason I am here in the first place.
/r/MensRights25/03/21 01:29 AM
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This is pretty good also something that is easy to share. I married a musician so he fulfills many of the "women do this.." statements. I personally prefer beer, I'm going to go home and drink one and try to fix my windshield wiper myself.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 10:31 PM
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Document. Report if you feel comfortable. Talk about it with someone who will take you seriously.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 10:22 PM
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How awful! After everything you have been through. Not only was she complaining and negative about her problems but she discussed her dislike of your gender. That would take a lot of stamina and maturity to not take personally. I have a brother who committed suicide. Please stay strong! Find those supportive people in your like and keep them close. You got this!
/r/MensRights24/03/21 10:16 PM
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I am sorry the women around you are so shallow, you deserve better.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 10:11 PM
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