Savierdua Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Men need to stop trying to put promiscuous women in their place. The SMP and the world already tells them exactly what their value is. Upper class women sleep less because they know their value. They don't have to hop through hoops to secure a high value mate. I have never heard about an upper class woman in my life hoe around, they all tended to be in stable LTRs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 10:56 AM
4	Men need to stop trying to put promiscuous women in their place. The SMP and the world already tells them exactly what their value is. Attractive women sleep around less, actually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 08:17 PM
35	For men and women: If you attracted a Red Piller or FDSer would you pursue a relationship? I think it’s good in a regretful way because it gives me an easy way to filter damaged people (sorry, but that’s invariably the kind of people these methods attract).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 11:36 PM
5	The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions. Why wouldn’t casual sex be a waste of time? It’s essentially just mutual masturbation when there is no fruitful future being thought of. Sure, some men may enjoy being lifelong bachelors and I don’t judge them but where does that leave us family-oriented men who wish to build a future with a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 11:31 PM
6	The main issue in dating is men medicating their mistakes with wrong solutions. Please don’t do this to anybody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 11:26 PM
84	It seems like the core of the issue in dating is that men want women who are more attractive than them What? Research seems to indicate otherwise. Men rate looks evenly across the scale, while women rate 80% of men as below average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 08:45 PM
1	How many people here have had their heart broken? What is the ''unlearning'' tag in your flair supposed to convey?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 09:17 AM
1	What do you think the future of dating will look like? The popularity of these genres are artificially facilitated. Look up mindgeek.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 09:10 AM
18	What do you think the future of dating will look like? -The increasing commodification of relationships a la OF and Tinder -Men who feel rejected will suffer from low self-esteem and mental health problems due to a lack of positive feedback loop, they are the main ones who check out of society -Women will increasingly accept a solitary lifetime of hook-ups, wine and pets -Monogamy will be slowly phased out and be replaced with pseudo-monogamy (serial dating/forever girlfriends) and soft harems in the form of online dating -Both genders will become i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 09:05 AM
2	Found a solution to the PPD debate for me and maybe other guys These communities already exist and it’s not rare for them to be dark. Violent nationalists, religious extremism, incel groups etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 06:49 AM
4	Found a solution to the PPD debate for me and maybe other guys 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 06:48 AM
1	How many people here have had their heart broken? I'm sorry to hear you went through that. That must've been rough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 01:16 AM
5	How many people here have had their heart broken? Glad to hear you're doing much better now!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 01:16 AM
2	Can The Era of Men ever truly die? Exactly. I'm no chauvinist, but you don't have to that clairvoyant to realize that much of female's earning power in the modern service economy is only realized and backed up by the fundamental hard labor that maintains civilization itself and most of that labor is overwhelmingly performed by men. Much of the cushy jobs that women (and men too) have are bullshit and superfluous. It would be much more disastrous for the hard labor to diminish and shrink than it is for the bullshit jobs to disappe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 09:53 PM
–	Can The Era of Men ever truly die? No. The economies are propped up by essential labor that overwhelmingly men perform. Without men, civilization would literally collapse. What PPD women don’t understand is that their new-founded freedoms in service economies and the welfare state are privileges, not rights. They are all propped up by the hard labour of men who perform the duties necessary for our society to survive. It’s a tough pill to swallow, but they will come around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 04:34 PM
10	People with non-traditional/unorthodox/alternative relationships, how do you make it work? Your relationship getup sounds like what tradcon should have evolved to and accomodated to the progress of technology and culture but never did. I’m glad it’s working out for you both, awesome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 06:46 AM
1	Are we usually just fighting about shortcuts? Life for me is about perception. I may not have the power to change the tangible reality of the world, but I have the power to control the inner state of my world, which makes a world’s difference to me and that’s what matters the most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 06:29 AM
40	would you be willing to date a woman who did not have sex? Is she not having sex until commitment or is she not having sex forever? That’s an important distinction. I’d be willing to wait for sex (as I’d expect her to do consistently) and I enjoy romantic relationships, but you can’t achieve a crucial intimate climax of some sort without having sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 06:23 AM
1	Are we usually just fighting about shortcuts? It took me years to develop my value system which I found rational, and in the end it has made me feel fulfilled. Many more men ought to do this instead of putting so much value (and feeling validation) in meaningless sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 06:15 AM
-1	Are we usually just fighting about shortcuts? Are you mixing up leverage with shortcut perhaps? And yes, the reason why sex has such a huge leverage in the SMP is because us men have created the conditions for it. If we (men) as a collective were more levelheaded and not get swayed by sex as easily, the marketplace would be more fair so to speak. But that’s not ever happening, is it? Many men bemoan that this strategy reduces their success with women, but what is it that you want? I ultimately view hedonistic casual sex as mutual masturbati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 05:55 AM
2	It collectively benefits women to focus on the top 20% of men. In other words, this means most men will become porn junkies and most women will become dog-children ladies. We’re already seeing these statistical projections today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 02:54 AM
3	It collectively benefits women to focus on the top 20% of men. Yes, for now. But we’ve already seen junkfood entertainment such as video games and porn stifle the balance of the sex market and I assume once prostitution becomes less destigmatized, more men will spend their free time in that avenue instead of thinking seriously about a family future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 02:44 AM
1	It collectively benefits women to focus on the top 20% of men. And will they get genuine validation and sex from women who look down on them and see them as tools?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 02:41 AM
4	It collectively benefits women to focus on the top 20% of men. Why on earth would a man want to get validation from a woman who likely resents him and is also likely to divorce him in the future? It’s also bold of you to think either sexes won’t calibrate their sexual strategies in dysfunctional societies. Men will simply slowly but surely stop playing along by the common rules as anti-gynocratic sentiments become popularized. There won’t be any love in the wastelands the way social structures will be arranged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 02:10 AM
9	It collectively benefits women to focus on the top 20% of men. If this is the social trajectory we’re headed towards, how can you be so sure the ”bottom” males will even want to commit? It’s just going to be hookers and online sex for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 01:55 AM
4	CMV: Men put more emotional labor into relationships than women I feel like this is one of these things both genders bullshit about, not exactly gender specific, but rather individual specific.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 11:02 PM
2	CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussions The solution we’ve been looking for was right in front of us all along, but some won’t be pleased with the answer. We as a society dropping monogamy was a rebellious act in our eyes, but the right thing to do was not to abandon it but rather reconcile it with modern technology and culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 06:56 PM
2	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material The simple solution if you’re a relationship oriented man is to reject women who sleep outside committed relationships. It’s that easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 04:58 PM
4	If you came to accept and understand, rightly or wrongly, "the monumental power of female sexuality," would it change your behavior? How? Well said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 06:49 PM
3	If a women doesn't want sex without a relationship they should say so, otherwise no ones the bad guy when it doesn't work out. Monogamy is normal and natural, ergo heartbreaks are normal and natural.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 06:42 PM
18	If you came to accept and understand, rightly or wrongly, "the monumental power of female sexuality," would it change your behavior? How? It only holds monumental power over you if you let it. If you don’t set discipline and boundaries for yourself, your character will be weakened by fleeting temptations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 06:40 PM
3	How to have many evolutionary fit children? Epigenetics matter as well. Interestingly, there are fringe biology currents surfacing lately that emphasize the Lamarckian theory of evolution rather than hard-darwinism. So with that in mind, you must actively reproduce the conditions which you think are ideal in your life so that your children might be inclined towards the ideals. To give you an example, keeping yourself fit and healthy for years before procreation will have a desired effect on your children to have these inclinations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 05:16 PM
1	My girlfriend and i barely have sex. That’s why I wrote that he should consider the compatibility between them before taking action. What’s with the people in this community and having poor reading comprehension?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 05:04 PM
1	My girlfriend and i barely have sex. I am clearly articulating a case from the premise me and OP are roughly settling on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 11:37 AM
2	My girlfriend and i barely have sex. The fact that she is still putting up with you means she is giving you a chance to man up and fix the relationship, but also if the problems pile this early on, this might be a warning sign that you two are not compatible in the long run. With that in mind, if you think that's the girl you want to be with, start putting in the work to improve yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 10:54 AM
1	As a man, is rejection just frustrating OR a bit deeper than that, more existential, when the subject of your love and adoration chooses another man over you The studies on single moms you are talking about didn’t adjust for income. Once you adjust for income, it shows that kids of single moms performance is in line with their performance of kids from two-parent households that are in the same income-bracket. Source is Lundy Bancroft. The solution is to eradicate poverty. I googled this person and what came up were a bunch of web pages about domestic violence and battered spouses. Could you link to the specific study? And my concern with single paren…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 10:46 AM
6	My girlfriend and i barely have sex. This is a rather common occurrence. Your girl is losing her attraction to you because of the behavior you've displayed going into the relationship. It's a usual pattern where the man thinks he can just ''relax'' because sex becomes a constant supply and he stops being the man that the woman once was attracted to. What have you done? Maybe you've given away too much of yourself, maybe you've displayed needy behavior etc. Take a step back and evaluate your behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 10:21 AM
–	Does it make someone a bad person if they want to distance themselves from 'weak' men? Yes. True friends stick with each other through thick and thin. If you wish to cut him off from your life, you should not do so during the lowest point in his life. That is just inexcusable and unconscionable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 07:57 PM
1	As a man, is rejection just frustrating OR a bit deeper than that, more existential, when the subject of your love and adoration chooses another man over you Studies show that across the board, children of single mothers perform worse whether it be academically, legally or even healthily. It's gotten to the point that this thing isn't something you can bury your head in the sand for anymore, and it's a huge widespread problem that makes many question how we're running things. There is no controversy in stating these facts except for the people in hardcore denial. > Re: “spineless” fathers. Not sure what you mean by that but I’m guessing you mean men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 07:49 PM
1	As a man, is rejection just frustrating OR a bit deeper than that, more existential, when the subject of your love and adoration chooses another man over you I personally did and I was born right at the start of gen Z, but I know many who aren’t as lucky as me. These guys tended to be either raised by single mothers, or spineless fathers if they were present.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 10:46 AM
–	Size queens are on the dumb and extremely shallow side The size debate has to be one of the most asinine joke of a topic that gets passed around. I guarantee you most women do not care about it as long as you fit the median bill, which is where most guys are. The size question is mostly that of male projection and insecurity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 03:33 AM
–	Whats your honest thoughts on the term simps and men who are classified as such? Oh absolutely, originally. But I’ve seen the word thrown around excessively to the point it has essentially lost its specific meaning. I find that it’s just a go-to insult towards men who treat their SOs well nowadays.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 12:02 AM
–	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. Hold yourself up to a standard and likewise to other people to be part of the change you want to see is what I can say to the best of my ability. If you disagree with the consistency of a woman’s dating history, you can simply not date her (and why would you, considering you’d end up resentful for it in the end?).	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 11:44 PM
–	Whats your honest thoughts on the term simps and men who are classified as such? I don’t like it because it’s one of these things part of a trending collective that pulverizes the feminine and masculine dichotomies of a monogamous relationship into a genderless, frictionless, and formless blob of a relationship. Instead of calling someone a simp, I would rather call them spineless and weak-willed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 11:23 PM
–	Whats your honest thoughts on the term simps and men who are classified as such? To some degree does it have some validity in the Extremely-Online context, but I find it to debase monogamy-minded men and also, as an implicit consequence, devalue women as people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 11:04 PM
3	Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women? Sex is either a basal urge to be ridden of by casual sex, or a transformative activity that happens deep in a relationship. Nonetheless, it’s an ever-pervading instinct that exists on a physical as well as a sociosexual level. In other words, it permeates every facet of society and for the good reason that it leads to procreation, Life. When people decide to decouple sex from its teleological path, it means they debase Life to a series of urges and fleeting desires. It means they are not as inte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 11:01 PM
7	Q4M: Men who don't want their girlfriends having massive sexual experience in her past, does it apply the same if the experiences were with other women? It would still upset me, as it shows she has managed to separate sex from the bonding process, which is a massive no-go for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 08:54 PM
4	As a man, is rejection just frustrating OR a bit deeper than that, more existential, when the subject of your love and adoration chooses another man over you You learn to get over it. It's one of the things that comes with being a man in the modern era. I think it's important for men to emotionally adapt to this early in their lives. Unfortunately, with the decline of male role models, not everyone has the opportunity to be guided towards the right path.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 01:30 PM
1	How a n count is even calculated? Would you date a woman with very little experience but a very high sex drive? I would, and I think that's preferable for most men. I would not consider dating a woman who sleeps outside committed relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 01:26 PM
17	Working out, for yourself or to become attractive to others? Started for women, stayed in it for the self-love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 01:58 AM
1	What's a life well lived for you as far as love, sex, and romance goes? A happy romantic relationship wherein she fulfills her feminine duties, and I my masculine duties in a manner that creates a perfect gender complementation, so that the two souls become one in the act of creating Life. Everything falls into its place when you as a couple fulfill your duties for yourselves and for each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 02:57 AM
-2	There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luck Human rights are a social construct. What is going on right now is a failing of the culture upholding this construct.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 02:52 AM
3	Are Most Women Autistic on Online Dating Apps? No. Autists make up a minority of the population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 02:50 AM
1	If women suddenly switched to being the stronger sex, how would it affect dating dynamics? Useless speculation. Eggs would still remain more expensive than sperm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 01:32 AM