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i’ll entertain. that question makes you cross the point of no return. two scenarios will come out of that. she says yes, then you’re golden she says no. you really have to cut your losses now lol because the moment she says no and you go back on your own statement. you lost, you’ve completely fucked your frame. when she says no, you have to completely cut it off, leave nothing on the table. and that’ll be hard to do for you. my point is, you have too much to lose here. you aren’t in abundance, y…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/23 01:05 PM
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it would be easy as 1,2,3 if you were actually in control. sounds like you need to make her a plate because youre attached to her validation while also trying to fuck around. it is clear as day you’re in her frame already. if you really want to make her a plate, tell her you’re not interested in a serious relationship anymore but that you’re down to keep it casual. but you’re not going to be happy about that either tbh. why? because the moment it gets casual, you’re going to wonder if shes fucki…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/23 12:26 PM
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don't say shit like "it's a surprise". next time you in this situation, you tell her ya'll going back to yours.
/r/askTRP28/06/21 08:31 AM
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yeah probably another guy or an ex bro. girls be like that. dont get too hung up over it. as an attractive guy, you should also have a plethora of other attractive girls at your beck and call in case one of your girls (like her) is... defecting. :) good luck.
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:17 AM
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sliding in a DMs requires a certain finesse. try getting comfortable getting matches and talking to girls on dating apps (Tinder). the mindset to have is: "every girl you match and talk with serves as practice to your game" how do you talk to these girls? simple. go with these two rules. make the conversation fun for you and her. (make it sexual, please do it right or you come across as creepy) escalate to a meetup asap. this means you go back and forth for at least 10 texts and then you escalat…
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:13 AM
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yeah bud, if you're new to the dating game, try meeting girls outside first. you aint gon catch any luck sliding into DMs
/r/seduction28/06/21 07:55 AM
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you might not be overtexting but you're definitely pursuing her on text. how? you are giving validation to her by replying to her texts. in her mind, she's certain that she would always get a text back from you and sorry to say, that's an attraction killer to some girls. no matter how good or "solid" your text game is, you cannot build attraction on text. try this, stop waiting for her text, give her radio silence until she hits you up. when she does finally hit you up, take a day to reply to he…
/r/seduction28/06/21 07:52 AM
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Girls act difficult towards guys who they think don't deserve them. They test you and they make you prove yourself to them. Girls will be easy and throw themselves to guys who they think is a real man, a real catch, an attractive guy. If an ugly girl thinks that about you and is giving you a hard time, what does that say about you as a guy?
/r/seduction28/06/21 07:38 AM
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"But the week before she was travelling home she texted me Less and would be slower with responses , she even messaged me To say sorry that she’d been bad at texting but that she had a lot going on" Even though you thought you weren't overtexting, you overtexted. She realized that you were too fixated on texting her and came across as needy. I am 90% sure that this is the case.
/r/seduction28/06/21 07:34 AM
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lmao she just aint attracted to you dawg. with the way you're telling the story, i can just tell you're super knee deep feelings for her. she gets the vibe and is now so turned off she just friendzoned. she was attracted to you initially but then you fucked it up by being needy, clingy, texting too much. get a life man. you're saying all these details about this girl, overanalyzing her and watching her every move as if your life depended on it. ask yourself this. you're on r/seduction. do you re…
/r/seduction23/06/21 08:20 AM
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what is this simp shit bro? have some respect for yourself. sure she was attracted to you AT FIRST. and then you became her little texting buddy and she lost all attraction for you because you made zero moves to ask her out. she was probably getting piped tf out while u were texting her. at some point you probably wondered why she wasnt replying to you for hours while u were waiting for a text. nothing is going to change when u take her on an extravagant date. it will not re-kindle the feelings …
/r/seduction23/06/21 08:07 AM
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brush it off and laugh it off with them. on a side note; you're trying way too hard to seek approval from this potential new social circle of yours. that ain't the way
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:47 AM
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the problem with most responses to these kind of posts are way to serious and shows a level of butthurtedness on us men's part. your response of "i'll see you on friday or we'll never meet again" was an overreaction on your part she's a plate. plates are supposed to be for fun. there's literally no reason to give them any serious answers or serious emotions like that. just be lighthearted with them. tease her for being scared. treat her like a kid and tell her that u'll come over another day. it…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:44 AM
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ate dinner with her and her mom. left her w her mom to go club. shes okay w it
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:50 PM
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do not make her your plate. reason why: you're too emotionally invested in her. as for getting closure, i would just ask mate. yeah it's breaking frame but you've already lost her so might as well get it. now that you're single, you have the opportunity to build and create the best version of yourself. DO THAT. a few months time, when your ex sees you're doing better and is a better version of what u were with her, she'll want to hit your ass back up. but by then u've already moved onto better t…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:38 AM
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yup you've just became one of her orbiters. you're right, you didnt set a sexual frame from the start and therefore is not attracted to you. cut your losses. go with the other two girls. always be in a frame where she knows you're going to fuck the brains outta her
/r/askTRP04/06/21 02:44 AM
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gotchu, thanks for the advice my man
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:11 PM
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wow yeah, this is great. thanks mate, i'll definitely tell her that
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:10 PM
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will break things off but in the mean time, how do u think i could take my words back?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:29 PM
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yeah it really is, but i fell for it. will my given comfort make her respect me less? how would i take that comfort back?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:27 PM
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i know what she said was bullshit and the BP side of me kicked in and gave into her. went full beta, dyu think she respects me less now?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:26 PM
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you're scared that you hanging out on friday is less alpha because she suggested it. the alpha thing to do is hang out on friday if you feel like it. and if that's the case, i sent you a sample text in my previous comment
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:30 AM
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you're thinking too much. "yeah, good for friday at x time" would be good. but the underlying lesson here is to not cancel plans for a girl just to hangout with her. make her fit w your schedule, not hers
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:12 AM
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"the wearing whatever she wants or pleases" seems like a test but she only tested you because you were probably enforcing it in a low-value way on her. next time, act instead of enforcing it. if she really does wear whatever she wants that displeases you, NEXT.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:08 AM
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i'm from myanmar and the dating culture here is pretty much the same as india. BUT no matter what sort of dating culture your country or city has, the rules of TRP remains the same mate. it's 2021, women are more "empowered" and primed to make their own decisions in this day and age, even in cultures such as india and myanmar i think you're reading too much into it. she tells you that she wants to travel solo and whatever she pleases. okay. take that information as it is. you can't change her mi…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:58 AM
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thanks for the advice my man. i do know how to proceed and escalate, it's just that i lack pre-escalation foreplay. (turning her on before i escalate)
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:09 AM
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i think my sex game is pretty good. i am pretty dominant and freaky in bed according to my past partners. i just struggle with frame and believing in the things that i do that will turn her on.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:08 AM
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yeah this sounds similar to my situation. i am too focused on how i'm going to turn her on and making all the right moves instead of letting my dick insticts kick in to actually turn her on.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:06 AM
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thanks for the advice brother. i guess i just need to have better frame to pull these off. i think the thing is that i am dependent of the outcome and therefore is holding me back to doing what you've said
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:01 AM
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that probably wasn't why. my guess is you fucked up on text. either by being too overt or coming on too strong and losing your cool. i can tell because something like this has happened to me.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:41 AM
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somewhere along the lines of your interaction, whether it be text or conversational, you might've come on too strong or weak in your frame and therefore she's decided to make you an orbiter. long story short; you fucked up somewhere
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:31 AM
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haha true, kinda annoying though
/r/askTRP29/04/21 07:03 AM
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your whole game is wrong from its foundation with this girl. you say you met this girl five months ago and now you're trying LDR after 2 weeks of dating before she went. LDR should not even be an option for you my man. game other girls while she is away, text her less. if she is invested in you as you are invested in her, she will be dying to get your attention. that said, focus on yourself while she is away and game other chicks
/r/askTRP29/04/21 06:55 AM
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