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2	Why are some manosphere men so bitter that women have sex with men they are attracted to? The fat ugly girl has no reason to accept the fat ugly guy's advances, because she can do better. There are many, many guys who are into fat women, a lot of them not fat and ugly themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 04:52 PM
2	Why pro-male activism isn't nearly as widespreed as female one? Male activists need to be willing to do what early feminists did. That's not gonna work. Both men and women see women as inherently valuable, both men and women largely view men as generic and expendable. Any political movement that aims to improve men's lives cannot be explicitly focused on gender issues the way feminism is, because female gender is worth much more than male in the eyes of both sexes. I can only see male activism succeed as part of broader political movements and organizations …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/19 12:28 PM
1	The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about. You can't try to game girls while hating them. I dunno about that. I know one Chad who actively despises women. But he still wants to have sex and has no problem gaming them, because he is rich, ok-looking and socially competent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/19 09:23 AM
3	There is nothing wrong with the state of male - female relations It is perfectly sustainable. Yeah, sure. That's why Trump never got elected and far-right isn't growing anywhere... Men not getting sex is not a crisis. More and more men being unhappy and supporting radical ideologies because of it absolutely is. Not everything is about sex, but sex is a part of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/19 09:27 AM
3	There is nothing wrong with the state of male - female relations I am not "hopeful" at all about European countries sliding towards extremism and dictatorship, especially my own Eastern European country. I just think that it is extemely likely, because the current system is unsustainable and no other viable alternative has been presented so far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/19 08:00 AM
1	There is nothing wrong with the state of male - female relations There is no example because no society in the past ever had technologies and cultural norms we have now. This doesn't mean that everything is going great. How can anyone claim that our current system is stable and viable when it is unable to reproduce itself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/19 07:32 AM
6	There is nothing wrong with the state of male - female relations Russia has recently decriminalized wife-beating. Polish government is actively trying to supress feminist organizations and ideology. Who knows? I can definitely see women's rights being rolled back in more authoritarian countries. And with anti-liberal sentiment on the rise everywhere in the west, things may change there too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/19 07:05 AM
16	Economist article on lack of sex amongst millennial men That's already better than their old shtick of "everything is completely fine, there's just a tiny minority of crazy neckbeards complaining".	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/19 07:03 AM
1	Are most male insecurities fueled by women or by other men? Oh yeah, no problem, I agree completely about game and charisma. I just don't think that bringing up Denny DeVito is a very convincing argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/19 10:04 AM
1	Are most male insecurities fueled by women or by other men? Danny Devito used to cut hair in a salon before his acting career took off...dude pulled bitches left and right Even if I assume that it is true (and I am not sure), that was in the 1950s and early 1960s. That's not just before online dating and social media, that's even before sexual revolution was in full swing. You can't deny that things were way different back then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/19 08:46 AM
3	The increase in socially incompetent men is often brought up. What about women? Nah. I've known multiple nerdy, overweight, unattractive, fanfiction-writing girls at the university. If they want to get a bf, they have zero trouble getting dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/19 08:53 AM
2	How did Disney lie to you? how RP always talks about how Disney lied to them Where exactly? That's not somethink I see on RP subs. I only ever saw claims that Disney has harmful messages for women, because it contributes to female entitlement to Chad. Complaints about promoting beta behaviour are usually about teen movies and sitcoms, not Disney animated films.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/19 08:08 AM
1	Having Children Makes Women Less Equal I'd say it's even deeper than that. Saudi Arabia and Iran care a lot about religion and tradition, yet their birth rates are horrible. I suspect that industrialized urban capitalist civilization in general is not suitable for raising children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/19 12:23 PM
1	How many women out there actually crave being treated poorly? Certainly there are nice guys who are not so nice, who are actually entitled/egotistical, and that's why they fail with women. Nah. They fail with women because they don't have good looks or a cool dominant personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/19 12:18 PM
2	Men and entitlement to sex Why not both?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/19 02:06 PM
1	Men who come after women instead of other men are dangerous. that they're entitled It seems to me that "entitled" is now often a code word for "wants something I don't want them to have".	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/19 12:11 PM
3	CMV: Asking for women to lower their standards means you have failed to 'Be The Prize' High-N men are out there searching for low-N women I think it's more of an RP ideal than reality. I don't see this happening much in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/19 06:57 AM
2	Why doesn't TRP advocate a political solution for what they perceive as society's decline? Any political solution would necessarily include rolling back women's rights to a certain extent. That's not gonna happen in a democratic society where women can vote. Under a more authoritarian regime though? Maybe. See the recent decriminalization of wife beating in Russia (not that I agree with this move). The traditional center-left and center-right parties are struggling mightily in the developed world in many cases that political vacuum is being filled by ascendant far-right parties. True.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/19 10:38 AM
1	To Men Who Think Women are "causing the decline", how SHOULD they select for partners? The good old natural selection will probably lead to a population consisting mostly of poor people and religious fundamentalists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/19 07:01 AM
11	Why women make “relationship material” guys wait, but not Chad. It's largely due to to the respect she has for the potential relationship guy that she wants to take it slow. Thanks, I needed a good laugh today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/19 07:15 AM
1	Erotic plasticity, sociosexual orientation, female sexual strategies and conclusions As I said, they fantasize about sex with men in the same league as their current botfriends. Lol. Like Christian Grey, a billionaire who is literally described as "the epitome of male beauty"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/19 07:03 AM
11	This is something that's really baffled me about female sexuality women can have high sex drives too To the extent of desiring to fuck every guy in the classroom? I doubt it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/19 07:27 AM
21	This is something that's really baffled me about female sexuality I'd want to fuck everything. No you wouldn't. Because if you were a woman you would have female hormones and your sex drive would be much weaker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/19 06:54 AM
2	Why is the statement "Dating is on a even playing field because men and women are 50/50 as far as population numbers go", false? It would only be true if people were somehow forced to pair up and stay together until death. In real life monogamy is not enforced, so it is possible for women to rotate through a small number of highly desirable male partners, while a large number of undesirable men remains single. Also, female sex drive is weaker than male, so a lot of women would rather stay single for a while than enter relationships with unattractive men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/19 07:47 AM
1	US finally catches up to Japan: around 27% of men under age 30 are virgins the average number of male sexual partners a woman has What about men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/19 04:26 PM
2	Many manosphere men think marriage is a bad deal, so why do they simultaneously shame and mock women who stay single and collect cats? Shouldn’t they be glad there’s one fewer woman on the market looking for marriage? Do they not realize that many of those ladies are single by choice? These are not the ladies who get mocked. They mock post-wall women and single moms who whine because they can't get commitment from any Chad and have ridiculous standards. Have a look at r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen. It's not about women who are single by choice and content with their lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/19 07:12 AM
1	Looking for organ donor err date Come on, this is obviously a joke.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	27/03/19 01:52 PM
2	RP only “works” because it says to lift and exercise to get hotter Yep. Quite a bit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/19 01:59 PM
9	RP only “works” because it says to lift and exercise to get hotter But everyone knows that right? No. For instance, I was raised to believe that women don't care about men's looks AT ALL. And that those few who do are shallow outliers not worthy of attention, while normal girls go for guys with kind, supportive personalities. If you already knew how female attraction works at an early age, then good for you, but let's not pretend that this stuff is obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/19 11:30 AM
26	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? That's because they're not looking just for sex, they're looking for relationships. And not just for relationships, but for relationships with men they find attractive (which is a very small minority of men). Your gf's friends feel that competition for men like these is too fierce. No doubt they could easily get boyfriends who are average, but they would rather stay single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 07:31 AM
2	Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman. And please leave out "because I already think she will not be into me because I'm shorter" But that's exactly the reason. Most men don't filter out taller women because they are physically repulsed by them (the way most women are repulsed by short men). They do this because it is generally known that women are attracted to men who are taller than them. Short men really just assume that they are out of those women's league, and that it's not even worth a try.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/19 08:12 PM
5	If there are so many nice and good guys out there that women are ignoring for assholes, why is getting a good man so competitive? If you really just want a man who makes good money, works out and is a virgin, then finding one shouldn't be a problem. There's plenty of men like this out there. Just get Tinder and focus on guys in IT and engineering. But I suspect that your standards for looks are actually way higher than you claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/19 05:11 AM
16	The dating gap: why the odds are stacked against female graduates finding a like-minded man Poor girls. They are used to dating hot guys who outearn them, but now they'll have to settle for guys who are "just" very hot. What a tragedy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/19 07:19 AM
3	Would you want to have been born the opposite sex of what you are now Yep. I would actually be able to "be myself" socially. Now I have to fake being way more extroverted and agressive to achieve my goals, and it's draining as fuck. Plus my facial features are kinda feminine and I've literally been told that I would've made a cute girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/19 07:52 AM
6	Dating and Relationships: Things you wish were true but aren't; and things you wish were untrue but aren't I wish male and female sex drives were of equal strength. This difference in levels of sexual desire between sexes is the root of almost all misery in the SMP. Alternatively, I wish humans actually were a monogamous species, like swans, wolves or voles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/19 05:11 PM
1	CMV: If you are a middle class man in a first world country, you are a high value man. However, first world men are mostly interacting with first world women, who take many things for granted, which gives the perception to most first world men that they are low value. But I don't see how you can be anything but high value when you live better than over 80% of the world. So... your point is that lonely men should just get mail order brides?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/19 09:53 AM
6	How does logic for "Don't take fishing advice from a fish" work when women DO want to be caught, unlike fish They don't want to get caught by someboby who as an adult needs to be taught how to fish. They want a natural-born fisherman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/19 08:59 AM
-2	Did losing your v card to a professional help your comfort with dating, harm your prospects, or was it neutral? A guy who is completely unable to get casual sex won't get a relationship either, I think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/19 12:17 PM
8	Dating can be expensive for both genders There would probably be no incels if it were possible for men to develop sexual attraction to their own sex just by making a conscious decision to become gay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/19 08:16 AM
1	Why do some women exclusively date men way older than them, but men don't? There were five girls in our group. Three were dating older men, one was with her high school bf and one was pretty shy and conservative and remained single as far as I know. But yeah, I agree that large age difference is the exception rather than the rule. That one girl with her 27-y.o. man was a bit of a weirdo. The other two students, plus several others I knew outside our group, had boyfriends who were only about 3-5 years older.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/19 11:13 AM
1	Why do some women exclusively date men way older than them, but men don't? Yeah I feel like the people who keep hitting those talking points ("women want power and money, men not boys" etc) are really basing it on the past generations Not so sure about that. When I was at the university three years ago, most of my fellow students dated men several years older than them who already had established careers. One girl in my group started dating a 27-year old when she was just 17 (not illegal where I live).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/19 07:02 AM
4	A common expressive around here is, "Boys were lied to their entire lives" in reference to their mothers, teachers, caregivers and other women in their lives. What are some examples of this? Ever-present strong female characters in movies, shows and books I enjoyed as a kid. Stuff like this made me massively underestimate how much real life women desire to be led by dominant men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/19 08:16 AM
5	A common expressive around here is, "Boys were lied to their entire lives" in reference to their mothers, teachers, caregivers and other women in their lives. What are some examples of this? Well, speaking from my experience, as a kid I was always told that women don't care at all about men's looks. I used to hear it from my mother and from many other older women, plus there are several common sayings in my country with the same meaning. Like "Men love with eyes, women love with ears" or "A man must be just a bit prettier than an ape".	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/19 07:25 AM
1	Men who strike out with women are fat or weird. But refuse to date chicks who are also fat or weird I am not talking about top SMV pretty boys. The point is that a weird fat woman most likely would not date a weird fat guy, because by virtue of being female she can date above her league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/19 07:53 AM
6	Men who strike out with women are fat or weird. But refuse to date chicks who are also fat or weird Lol. Are you implying that "fat or weird" women are willing to date fat, weird guys? Even an overweight girl would still be flooded with messages on Tinder, both from fat and non-fat guys. Why would she date on her level when she has every opportunity to date up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/19 06:58 AM
3	CMV: Most disagreements with TRP philosophy stem from thinking about it in a void Most disagreements with The Red Pill exist because it is 100% anecdotal, I am new to Pills (and to Reddit in general), but so far this hasn't been my impression at all. Redpillers constantly cite all kinds of studies to back up their claims, while their opponents usually prefer arguments like "NAWALT", "I am not like this", "My boyfriend/husband is not like this", "Just go outside and look at normal people, you basement dweller" etc. I may be wrong though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/19 09:42 AM
2	CMV: Women have no sympathy for men. If a guy dates a broke girl for a while and then dumps her because she has no future Wut? Do you really think a guy would dump a girl because her career is not promising enough? Looks like a MAJOR case of projection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/19 08:09 AM
45	Why do women like to highlight their non-interest more than men? Very few times I've seen men boasting about how they rejected a woman, or sharing his "funny" rejection on social media. That's because to reject a woman you need to get approached by a woman in the first place. Very few men experience this with any frequency.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/19 08:42 AM
3	Slut walks are as stupid as if men had virgin walks They probably won't be able to find enough volcels for a march like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/19 10:56 AM
1	Why do people pretend they don't know why couples don't want to be raising multiple kids? Why should a man do that? Women are not attracted to stay-at-home dads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/19 10:36 AM
3	Why is hypergamy bad? Stop putting sex and looks on a high priority. "Just get rid of your most basic instincts, bro!" Okay. Why don't you try marrying a broke, unattractive guy? See for yourself how fun it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 09:40 AM
1	Why is hypergamy bad? Many men have and they're now in happy relationships. They are indeed, except for the "happy" part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 09:21 AM
1	Do you consider MtF trans women to be women? Nah. Maybe it wasn't French. It was set in the future, and there were farma companies advertising their doping by making drugged up fighters fight on TV.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/19 08:26 AM
1	Anyone else grew up thinking shared interests were a major cause of attraction? Women rarely select for ONS's -- when they meet dudes, they're less thinking about your dick and more thinking about what else there is to do with you aside from fucking. Are you for real?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 02:17 PM
3	Being "nice" and being nice and how it relates to attraction. When some men are being "nice" to women, as in doing tasks for her, being there for her, and other stuff like that they think that somehow it will increase her attraction to him. Well, it's not like they believe this for no reason at all. It's women themselves who constantly say how they want a kind, attentive, caring guy if asked about traits they desire in a boyfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 12:49 PM
3	Why do some men think niceness is supposed to illicit a sexual response? Because they falsely assume that the old 'Treat others as you would like to be treated' rule applies to sexual relationships with women and they had noone to teach them better in their youth. Common advice like "be yourself" or "just open up and let yourself be vulnerable" doesn't help either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/19 07:15 AM
2	Do you consider MtF trans women to be women? I recall watching a French sci-fi action movie with exactly this premise. Don't remember the title, unfortunately. The movie was mediocre anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/19 08:46 AM
5	guys, would you rather have people attracted to your looks or personality? Looks. Good enough looks automatically improve your personality in the eyes of others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/19 08:30 AM
4	CMV: Lots of posters are trying to find the cheat codes for life when there aren't any cheat codes. Why would anyone even want to date a woman if they're so superficial like this? Because this is how women work. For evolutionary reasons women are sexually attracted to partners with certain traits. Those who aren't are anomalies and outliers. Good like finding one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/19 08:21 AM
5	What's up with how sexual frustation not taken seriously at all unless it happens in a relationship? Women can't relate because they have unlimited access to sex. Most men can't relate because they're wired to compete with other men, not pity them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/19 03:03 PM
1	Making men fall in love - Your moves? What I did was picked a guy who was charismatic, funny, and intelligent, despite being really ugly and fat. How tall is he?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/19 02:44 PM
1	[Q4A] You're going down the street. What's the percentage of people you find attractive? Maybe 4 out 5 women who are around my age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/19 11:19 AM
12	People take the nice guys bullshit too far. Traits of genuine nice men are appreciated by women and do help. But they can't be your only traits. Yet good looks can be your only positive trait, and they will get you laid just fine. Same for an extraverted, dominant personality. Or social status. Why not just cut the bullshit and admit that being nice has no relation whatsoever to sexual attractiveness?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/19 11:40 AM
10	People take the nice guys bullshit too far. Actual nice, lonely, yet frustrated guys do get a lot of sympathy. [citation needed]	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/19 11:31 AM
5	Do women care more about looks then men now ? yet you don't really see a drastic collapse of the 'institution of marriage'. We do see a steady decline though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/19 11:01 AM
1	Why do women deserve to be treated badly after making ‘mistakes’? At what point does a woman ‘deserve’ what happened to her? I'd say, at the point where she chooses the guy while being perfectly aware of his red flags. Like when she goes after a handsome and charismatic dude who is also a gang member with drug problems. That's not some strawman I made up btw, that's what happened in real life to a woman I know well. If a ‘good guy’ shows his true self and starts being abusive, is she still deserving of bad treatment? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/19 09:46 AM
1	CMV: The concept of female attraction is the hardest pill to swallow It would still be a problem, but not one of a similar magnitude. A woman who is "overweight, older, or not conventionally attractive" would still be regularly approached by men, unless she is a complete shut-in who doesn't use social media or go out ever. Many, many men would still be attracted her both for sex and LTR simply by virtue of her being female. Just not top 20% men. There is no way in hell she will be "ignored entirely".	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/19 07:12 PM
1	CMV Women are more shallow than men now a days. Thank you. Very well put. I believe, the primary reason for all this disgusting shit is that female sex drive is so much lower than male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/19 06:10 PM
1	CMV: "Nice guys" should be labelled desperate guys because it fits them better and is less confusing. "But it's my belief that it's just the type of conflict between explicit and implicit attitudes that leads many feminists to vilify and impute malicious intent on Nice GuysTM - because a feminist's explicit attitude is that she likes, desires and respects men who are nice, respectful, supportive, even submissive and always agreeable with her. Well, I'm betting that that attitude frequently does not agree with her implicit and unconscious attitude that men who supplicate, beg, wait respectfully, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/19 10:50 AM
4	[discussion] Danny DeVito is reportedly very successful with women Mate, this was in the friggin 1950s! The cultural landscape was completely different back then. Obviously, being confident and extroverted is still very helpful, but you can't deny that dating was a very different game before sexual revolution and the Internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/19 02:58 PM