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1

They dislike nice guys for the same reason you're dismissive of the salesman who is really nice to you lol
/r/seduction29/03/25 01:48 PM
2

If we're getting caught up on something like that, I think we've missed the metaphorical boat somewhere
/r/seduction14/01/25 08:34 PM
1

Not if she also likes you
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:15 PM
5

That I'm not made of glass and it's not the the of the world
/r/seduction09/05/24 09:27 PM
1

If her energy isn't fuck yes, it's no. If you don't feel like she would move her schedule around a bit to excitedly see you, stop talking to her
/r/seduction21/03/24 06:26 PM
1

Feed the ducks at the park. Not interested in a woman not interested in the wholesome act of feeding ducks at the park.
/r/seduction05/02/24 01:07 AM
1

I have, personally, never had any luck with online dating. Admittedly I've only tried lukewarm at best but it just never worked for me. The best thing you can do is find a hobby or something to do outside of the house that kind of makes you mingle with other people. Dancing, yoga, martial arts, art galleries, concerts. Maybe work towards a nice friend group that you can go out to bars or hang out with kind of regularly.
/r/seduction03/11/22 04:27 AM
23

Man pretty much all of our first experiences weren't great. It's just the first. You have to find a girl your energy really meshes with and it will be better.
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:53 AM
4

I noticed most improvement after studying a lot of game, keeping it somewhere in the brain, and then stepping away from it all. I noticed that when I obsessively studied everything involving game I got into my head too often when approaching or talking to a woman.
/r/seduction22/09/22 07:54 PM
2

If you pretend you're like Ted Bundy and you're only seducing them to take them somewhere else and kill them it helps you not be so in your head about the seduction process and detach from the outcome. Actually killing them is not advised.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:56 AM
1

It becomes needy behavior when your energy isn't reciprocated and you keep going.
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:49 PM
1

Actual god tier advice
/r/seduction08/09/22 08:34 AM
2

I would address fashion and fitness. I don't know where you're at here, but making sure that you're out in properly fitting clothes and then losing weight if it's excessive or toning up a bit. You don't have to do anything crazy. Basic grooming, stay on top of your hair cut, things like that. Practice holding good posture and confident stride as you walk, don't be afraid to make eye contact with people as they pass you. Understand that women generally don't approach men very often but they do gi…
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:16 PM
2

You'll need to be out a lot going to social locations to meet women. Women who have to see you frequently will be less likely to have casual sex with you but if you meet a woman a couple of cities over at a bar or club or what have you she'll be more likely to be cool with it.
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:00 PM
6

Yeah dance has to be like S Tier hobby
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:48 AM
55

Yeah, unironically though. It's crazy what's just being in your element and detached from the outcome will do for you
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:17 PM
366

Hobbies can make you attractive in the sense that they get you out of your house and give you something to pursue and when she tells her friends that she met a new guy she has something to tell them other than "Well he's cute and nice". Circa 2015 I played Yugioh competitively and got to travel the east coast a bit and that was some of the most sexually active I've ever been. You wouldn't think the hobby itself is attractive but just being out and around and hanging out with friends and doing fu…
/r/seduction02/09/22 08:04 AM
3

Stop watching porn and masturbating so much. Did wonders for me.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:09 AM
1

I learned I like the feeling of knowing that I could get laid. Rarely went through with it.
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:06 PM
2

You good. I wouldn't risk trying too hard.
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:28 AM
34

Centered, non needy, some sort of plan or direction in life. It really doesn't even need to be a good plan, just having one that you pursue really helps.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:28 PM
3

Eye contact
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:35 AM
1

Audible -> Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:54 AM
1

Fashion and fitness. Diet and exercise and then start looking into a proper outfit closet when you get there.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:38 PM
2

Lol it's not like every girl who is an 8 is shooting me choosing signals but it happens. And after some self improvement and working on my confidence and "game" over the last few years I would make an approach and sometimes make things happen. I'm not the most alpha of dudes. I'm in a committed relationship now but I like to keep an eye out for choosing signals now to make sure I've still got it.
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:16 AM
2

7 or 8. Something up in there. Side note but does anybody else find it kind of hot when a woman is really thick and curvy but her face isn't as hot as the rest of her body? Something about the miss match between her face and body does it for me.
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:06 AM
19

That's fine. I don't need to smash all of them. I'll take an 8 that giggles to her friends when she looks over her shoulder at me or something lol
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:12 AM
1

Half of the planet has a vagina. If she isn't "f*** yes" just treat her as a no and move on. You may be projecting your interest in her onto her and fantasizing about her having that same interest in you.
/r/seduction30/04/22 05:40 AM
7

Yeah for me it was def a porn problem.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:37 PM
2

A mild amount of alcohol
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:35 PM
1

Could be coming off as too much of a nice guy/friendly type. Which can work, but it's not really going to turn her on right off the rip like a guy who leaves her in suspense.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:50 AM
13

Better to be cringe than to be boring and forgettable.
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:33 AM
1

21 and up is my thing(29 atm). If she's old enough to make mistakes with alcohol she's old enough to make mistakes with me.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:14 PM
7

Bro what? Just fuck her.
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:25 AM
1

Before covid I got lean, I dare say, mildly shredded. On a couple of occasions I posted a picture of myself shirtless on social media stories. Not a single woman ever interacted with these photos BUT I did get hella gay dudes in my inbox so if you're into that, I can say that's probably a viable attack plan. Instead might I suggest you wear trim fitted clothing so that you are still advertising your physique without having to take shirtless photos. Confidence boost from a good physique is a real…
/r/seduction27/03/22 03:30 AM
1

Stay on your purpose. Keep hanging out with your guys. Stay in the gym, keep working. Have a fulfilling life where she is a nice addition and not a center piece. Women hate it when your relationship falls into a predictable routine and you've lost all of your mystery.
/r/seduction26/03/22 10:22 PM
1

Yeah I'd just let her reach out. Something something about you can't chase a cat you just have to let it come to you. Be cool
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:15 PM
1

Who is normally reaching out to who? I would wait until she initiates contact
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:12 PM
4

Man toooooons of women will give their phone numbers out(real or otherwise) because they don't want to come off as rude. Not every guy handles rejection well. As soon as you're gone though she has no interest in ever actually talking to you. You need to gauge her level of interest in you when you're talking to her. If she isn't in the "F*** yes!!" Category of interested just assume she's a no.
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:36 AM
3

If you're getting up and doing big things like playing shows then yeah you're on your mission, purpose, drive and success grind.
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:47 PM
1

If it's not a hard yes, or a no with clear interest in rescheduling, it might as well be a no.
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:19 AM
1

Bitches, as they say, crazy
/r/seduction17/02/22 03:33 PM
4

That "preserving honor" or whatever is just what we tell ourselves to not have to admit that we're just too nervous to actually make a move a lot of times.
/r/seduction07/02/22 08:45 PM
1

Flirting is just effectively fielding for the women who are 8/10 or higher interested in you. It's not about raising your attraction towards us.
/r/seduction01/02/22 05:56 AM
4

You need to learn to be non-needy and confident. Read Mark Manson's Models
/r/seduction22/01/22 06:35 AM
1

Women "approach men" by giving us pretty on the nose choosing signals. We still gotta make the approach usually. Every now an then you'll get one to come up to you first.
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:33 AM
1

Very sigma post
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:41 AM
1

Ask a girl out knowing she will say no. Like when you're playing a scary games so you charge forward to let it kill you so it's not as scary.
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:32 PM
1

Pretend she's not available to you, like she's dating your best friend.
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:15 PM
1

I think you're going to find that when you start focusing your energy on things you enjoy and bettering yourself(and not just to impress women) you'll have a lot more success with women.
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:08 PM
2

Your two F's, fashion and fitness (you could argue Fashion, Fitness and Finances). At the start of 2019 when I decided I wanted to work on my well being and get in the game I had to have an honest talk with myself about these two. Neither of them have to be anything crazy. You don't have to be a gym rat(but bonus points if you do) but something to give a little shape to otherwise skinny-fat helps.
/r/seduction08/11/21 04:32 PM
5

After a good, reciprocated response to a joke or opener just confidently hit her with a "Hey, let me get your snap". A lot of advice says to get her phone number which is what it is but there are a lot of women in their 20's that legit just don't use texting as a means of communication and asking for a phone number just sounds kind of archaic. But you can play it by ear.
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:44 AM
7

Just like everything else in life, one day you'll be 30(or 35, or 50) and wonder why you didn't start at 25
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:00 AM
2

I still struggle with this. Always working to improve though
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:57 AM
2

It's alright to be that weird guy that likes anime and Warhammer, at least you're not the painfully inoffensive, bland guy that curates everything he says around her to not step on any toes.
/r/seduction04/11/21 11:50 PM
0

No, you have to leave them unopened in your inbox for 24 hours or they won't sleep with you lol. Women are odd creatures
/r/seduction27/04/21 03:46 PM
1

We've all got a dozen of em. Learn from it, it's all you can do. Luckily, some half of the population is female so there's always a next time even if we don't feel like it sometimes.
/r/seduction23/04/21 06:12 AM
3

She sounds like a heretic and you should only procreate with the faithful
/r/seduction14/04/21 08:42 PM
0

3% Man by Corey Wayne. It's pretty much the foundation and blue print for everything I know about attracting women and keeping them attracted in the relationship. Models by Mark Manson. A lot of resources have told me that needy behavior is bad but this book made it make sense and showed me what my needy behavior was and how to fix it by detailing why being vulnerable and honest is attractive. Edit: I wrote this comment before scrolling through the comments myself and it's cool that others have …
/r/seduction05/04/21 03:51 PM
2

Even if this is true it's still cringe.
/r/seduction04/04/21 10:10 PM
1

I try to see it as "women have to prove themselves to me" and if I get tested too much I'll just assume it's not worth it in a planet that's half female, plenty more to go around.
/r/seduction30/03/21 04:19 AM
-1

Sometimes I do. But more than sex I like the game anymore. When I get her to the point she is asking me for sex that's set match.
/r/seduction25/03/21 08:02 AM
33

Yeah, I just want validation. Sometimes she snaps me some thing like "come over" holding a bottle of vodka and I know I got what I came for and just ghost her.
/r/seduction25/03/21 04:19 AM
3

3% Man by Corey Wayne. Available in audio book as well. He has a wealth of content on his YouTube channel as well. While not much in the area of pick up artistry(which is what this sub seems to lean into), his content is great at teaching the building blocks of dating and success with women, including handling rejection. Can't recommended him enough 💪
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:49 PM
1

If I had to take a wild guess, and I am no expert, you probably broke through the barrier of being too cold with women. We all go through it when we realize being needy doesn't work we pull back too much. That works better, but not enough. Women are like the Gears of War active reload mechanic, you have to hit it just right.
/r/seduction26/02/21 11:57 PM
2

Now hold on lol. The downside to me coming out of a comfort zone and talking to a girl or asking her out is some normal rejection. Happens to the best of us. The potential bad outcome of me starting a company is bankruptcy. Not that that is an excuse to be paralyzed by fear, but it's a lot worse.
/r/seduction21/02/21 06:24 AM
4

I try. I've been trying to do more and more to "work on myself". Got into the gym and hiking. Probably in the best shape of my life. I got to travel playing Yu-Gi-Oh before Covid. I do music on youtube. But this constant need for validation from attractive women always lingers. Always watching my phone. And even when I get that validation it just makes me want more.
/r/seduction16/02/21 08:47 PM
25

That doesn't get my dick sucked. Women never bothered to text back or meet up when I was just myself. Have to pretend that I'm way too cool to text her back or ghost her for a few days to get her interested. But that's not who I am. I want to be a little needy and seek validation sometimes. I want to be able to post her on my social media without her interest dropping like 20%. But that's seemingly just the way it is. So I'm just sitting here super excited that a woman snapped me but I'm not goi…
/r/seduction16/02/21 08:09 PM
179

I am DEFINITELY pretending to be high value and it just creates a feedback loop of anxiety.
/r/seduction16/02/21 07:08 AM
1

Needed this homie
/r/seduction15/02/21 04:38 AM
3

Yes. Keep your eyes eye level with other people when standing/walking.
/r/seduction11/02/21 08:45 PM
2

People on their death beds don't regret the things they tried and failed but the things they never tried.
/r/seduction08/02/21 08:00 PM
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