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That is exactly what he did. lol he even described how he did it.
/r/seduction14/01/24 06:10 PM
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One thing that helped me is that I stopped forcing myself to have such linear conversations. If a certain conversational thread dies down just jump into another one. Tell stories, ask for opinions on scenarios, and be enthusiastic. It keeps people engaged. If I ever run out of something to say I’ll transition into an unrelated topic by saying “The other day I was __” or “On the way over here I was listening to _ and it reminded me of _____” Just use those type of transitional phrases to jumó int…
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:02 PM
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Sometimes I’ve kissed within the first 15 minutes and sometimes not until the second date. It all depends on the energy between us and if they are hinting at wanting to be kissed. I do advise to go for the kiss on the first date, worst case is you get rejected but play it off cool. Don’t be awkward about it.
/r/seduction24/08/22 08:59 PM
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Look up conversation skills on YouTube and practice. You can’t just go in without a plan, some people can sure but if you are having trouble you need a plan. When I go out on dates I have a list of a few topics to start out. I have a list of deeper questions I can ask. I have a list of stories I can delve into and ask them if they have any interesting, funny, scary stories they like to share. Always try to focus on a word that they say to explore more topics or ask more questions about. I like t…
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:34 PM
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I usually have a drink before my dates. Then usually just one during the date. Just be conscious that you aren’t getting wasted or too reliant on it for every social interaction.
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:11 PM
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I wear a turtleneck if that ever happens. It’s cold where I live so no issues there and I only go on dates at night. It all works out 😂
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:18 PM
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Just delete their phone number and start talking to other people. It just wasn’t meant to be, you were incompatible. The more you double text, the needier you look, the less attractive you will be to them. I was literally talking to a girl the other day and she was saying how she purposely doesn’t respond to guys to see how they will act. I always figured girls did that but it was just confirmation.
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:22 PM
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Ruin me.
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:36 AM
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Hold strong sensual eye contact, briefly look at their lips, touch their arm, and smile. Maybe this is borderline signs to be receptive for a kiss as well. I know I look for these signs when I’m out on dates. Most often than not, these are all signs that they are flirting and possibly receptive to a kiss/make out. Also if a girl gets close to me or if I get close to her and she doesn’t step back, I’m talking like 6-8 inches away face to face, then that can create strong sexual/flirty tension.
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:25 PM
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You can’t rush the healing.
/r/seduction08/03/22 01:58 AM
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I dated a girl exactly like this. One day when we were hanging out and kind of drinking she disclosed to me how she wishes I would text her quicker. I kind of played it off like “oh I do sometimes” but in reality I was only mirroring her response time. But I was not going to tell her that. Honestly in my experience is that there is nothing you can do, it’s out of your control, I wouldn’t bring it up because it would sound kind of needy (especially if you aren’t in a relationship). If it bothers …
/r/seduction28/01/22 01:13 AM
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The only reason someone would have a problem with it is if they were insecure about their own drinking and deep down feel like you are going to judge them for drinking. When in reality, they are the ones doing the judging. I stopped drinking for a few years and I noticed only the mature and confident people didn’t care if I drank or not around them. It also weeded out who my real friends and prospective partners were at the time. Don’t light yourself on fire just to keep others warm. Cheers.
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:02 PM
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Around 10 the last couple years and significantly less the previous years. I am 30 year old male.
/r/seduction27/12/21 04:08 AM
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Not sure what you mean by that, but alright. I’m just providing information that has helped me in my experience.
/r/seduction16/12/21 06:49 PM
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How do you dress? how do you smell? How do you talk? Do you speak with assertiveness and respect or do you sound like you are unsure of yourself. Do you hold eye contact with women? Do you walk with confidence? Are you engaging when you tell stories? These are all small things that can help your “sexual vibe”, but also you have to believe you can bring that energy. If you don’t believe it, it will not happen. Also just because you’ve studied body language doesn’t mean you are doing it right. Yea…
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:11 PM
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Honestly great questions are important but don’t just focus on questions, focus on telling emotionally evoking stories. This usually opens up a can of worms and leads to other conversational threads that the date can bite on. Think about stories as a child, teenager, etc. Stories that you think are funny or intense. Then just follow up by saying has anything like that happened to you? Or do you have any stories you like to tell? Something along those lines. Good luck cheers.
/r/seduction19/11/21 01:28 AM
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Get ghosted once, fine by me. Get ghosted twice, a loss for you. Number deleted and move on.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:26 PM
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Completely agree. One time something similar happened to me and I caught her off guard in person and asked her to pay and other things came up. She was fumbling over her words and didn’t say much, just sat there quiet. Don’t get me wrong, I didn’t particularly enjoy it because I did like the girl but at the same time I respect myself too much to be strung along like that. But I have a feeling that moment will stick with her. That was the last time I ever saw her. I don’t regret it and it taught …
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:33 PM
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Yeah my friend, she is definitely banging someone else. You have become the side guy she meets up with when the main guy can’t meet up, only you don’t get to have sex anymore. She is taking advantage of you and you are letting it happen. I speak from past experience, it’s not going to end well, so cut your losses and move on. If you really want to know, just ask her to pay and if she gets all weird, there is your answer. Cheers 🍻
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:26 PM
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This is a very narrow minded view of coaching/mentors in the dating sphere. Sure there are toxic d-bags out there that manipúlate guys, but there are also some genuine guys who are just looking to help out others.
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:23 PM
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Love this. Sometimes I also just say “fuck it” and go out alone. I’ll have a couple drinks and play a game of pool and try to spark conversation with anyone. Worst case scenario is you don’t make any connections and you just had some drinks.
/r/seduction09/06/21 06:56 PM
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Cheers mate. You don’t have to be great to get started, but you have to get started to be great. 🤙🏾
/r/seduction10/12/20 02:53 AM
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This is exactly how I got laid twice in Vegas earlier this year before Covid. Just approached, talked for a bit, grabbed her number and texted her the next night and she was down for extracurricular activities. Don’t really understand all the negativity on here. Keep it up man.🤙🏾
/r/seduction19/11/20 06:11 AM
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Stop being afraid of rejection and just ask for the number and call/text them first. If they say no, okay that’s fine, just move on. It’s not that complicated— it’s part of the process.
/r/seduction21/10/20 04:41 PM
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You’ll get there man. Something that has helped me is to go on dates even if they aren’t EXACTLY my type. It is good practice and also I have connected with some really cool people and became friends.
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:38 PM
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Yeah this is a main reason. I have been dating a girl for several dates and hooking up and then she disappears. Come to find out she now has a boyfriend. I think it’s partially my fault because I don’t want exclusivity right away and if that’s what they want they will find someone who will. Just my experience.
/r/seduction30/09/20 05:46 PM
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The worst that can happen is she was just being friendly. The other day I was working out at the gym and I look over and this beautiful woman maintains eye contact with me and smiles. After my set, I simply when over and asked her “where do I know you from?” And she says, “ I don’t think you do” and I respond with “well let’s change that”. We continue talking and I get her number. She literally told me that she was hoping I got her hint that she was interested. Moral of the story is JUST FUCKING…
/r/seduction13/09/20 04:29 PM
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I was going to write something similar but I’m glad someone already wrote it. It’s like that saying, “put yourself in others shoes”. Many people forget to not only put themselves in others shoes, but also realize that they may not have the same resources, status, and physical attractiveness. So simply saying “be yourself” is only a part of the equation for guys who aren’t as attractive. They have to develop other areas as well to create attraction with someone. I do appreciate the OP sharing his…
/r/seduction30/06/20 03:26 PM
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This is common sense to me but I appreciate the post because there are others who could really benefit from it.
/r/seduction26/06/20 09:19 PM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy by psychotherapist Robert Glover tackles a lot of the issues with being a nice guy aka the nice guy syndrome. He takes you on a journey on how to be a recovering nice guy. It can be life changing for some people. Just be to clear, the book is not about how not to be nice, it’s about how to balance being a nice guy and still get what you want in life.
/r/seduction21/05/20 08:11 PM
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I agree, I never understood people who ask why do people study or learn how to be good at attracting women. They act like all men are just supposed to be naturals at it. Yeah sure some men might naturally have it down but a lot of guys don’t and want to improve their dating/romantic life. In every other aspect of life, if we want to get better at something so we study, learn, and practice. This does not make men cringey or creepy, they are just trying to improve their life.
/r/seduction20/05/20 02:01 PM
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Knowing what you want and being clear about it. I have had girls tell me they notice this about me and it attracted them.
/r/seduction03/05/20 12:04 AM
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I enjoyed reading your experience. I went out solo on Wednesday for the first time and it was a bit nerve wrecking but I just made it a point to talk to everyone and anyone as soon as I walked in to the bars. I got ignored a couple times right off the bat but I attribute that to them missing out on me. Their loss, not mine. I approached 4 women and got 2 numbers. I think going out solo is really challenging but rewarding.
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:41 PM
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I’m always skeptical about approaching women at work because I literally see them all the time. So it’s taking a huge risk in being direct and then getting rejected because you have to see them still.
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:31 PM
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You got this man. Worst thing that can happen is she rejects your move, and all you have to say is “sorry I got the impression that you were interested” and that’s it. At least you will know, rejection is always better than regret because at least you know you took your shot. Easier said than done, I know, but it’s worth it in the end.
/r/seduction09/06/19 05:26 PM
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