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Gotta have that feel for it. Obviously you want in her panties. Jumping right into something sexual will give away quick. A major turn off. So unless she's throwing sexual comments your way keep it simple and interesting.
/r/seduction12/01/17 05:17 AM
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Don't have to be funny. Be yourself. Forcing any conversation especially to be funny can come off weird. But inquire a lot. Questions after questions but make sure they are open ended. That way if she opens up you can genuinely begin to see a way to make a joke, pun or something sarcastic. Practice practice practice buddy. It's a start.
/r/seduction12/01/17 05:14 AM
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Yeah don't be a creep. That's creep status. To flirt be funny that's directed to her. The sexual stuff comes later if you feel it's there. Don't force anything too extreme. But at least do something. But please don't do that.
/r/seduction12/01/17 03:34 AM
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Huh?
/r/seduction12/01/17 03:27 AM
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I think alpha is a confidence level within yourself. Reach a high level of that then you'll realize that it doesn't matter how many other Alphas are around. You are just a different version of all the personalities around. What woman love is someone comfortable with who they truly are. So just be yourself 110%.
/r/seduction08/09/16 07:10 PM
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I agree with the top post. If you're attached and emotionally involved I think best to move on. But if you can get over that part and just accept the casual aspect of the relationship and just having fun, then hang around. But don't be clingy. And don't go overboard and do way too much for her.
/r/seduction14/08/16 08:43 PM
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Not in the game anymore, married now thanks to it though. But what worked for me after numerous anxious approach scenarios was to finally just say fuck it and stop worrying about outcomes. And soon the rejections were easier to take and before I knew it approach game was second nature. Practice makes perfect I suppose.
/r/seduction24/07/16 11:13 PM
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Great tips. Sometimes doing too much makes it more work than play. Go in having fun and not putting so much pressure on meeting your quota. Just incorporate it with your everyday routine.
/r/seduction24/07/16 04:14 PM
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Yes indeed. This was years ago, married now, but my relationships with hot girls I was always sprung. I put up with a lot of BS. Over time I started to realize wtf and began to put up with less. Felt so powerful. If anything made me more attractive. Anyhow over time started to respect myself much more and woman's attraction level lost its power over me.
/r/seduction24/06/16 05:16 PM
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I agree. Don't rush out and make such a scene. What would be bold and confident is to go to her home, knock on the door and just straight up introduce yourself. That's a statement. But absolutely do not run out there as she's getting into her car. That'll ruin it all. All that's required is a hello my name is so and so, seen you around and wanted to meet you. Done.
/r/seduction18/06/16 03:12 AM
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I like the way you put it, "expanding your comfort zone". It'll require lots of our introvert energy but at least for good use. And as we become comfortable in the once uncomfortable zone, we will have mastered a situation and seem as though we never had an issue before. Probably why some see me as an extrovert in certain settings. It's only because of numerous exposure and over coming the initial fears and challenges. But i'll tell you that once you realize it's all about yourself and embracing…
/r/seduction30/05/16 07:08 PM
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Great post. I am considered an introvert but viewed as an extrovert by my peers. In my alone time I recharge my energy as many introverts do. And when I'm charged up I make sure to use that energy to benefit myself in many settings, not just the social scene. But this is important. You first have to be comfortable with yourself. Once you find out who you really are, your passions and interests, then you surround yourself in those environments. Then you make your mark by being a better you each t…
/r/seduction30/05/16 03:52 PM
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Like everything in life there's a balance. You've progressed far and no need to go back. However there is no need to over do what you've so far mastered. You can maintain Alpha level even with listening skills. Dominate your conversations as you are doing but balance it by listening and answering questions too. That balance will set you on another level. Well done
/r/seduction06/02/15 05:58 AM
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