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as a woman i never played hard to get. men thought i was... i wasn't.. ever. i was quite clear with my intentions but they preferred to be delulu. This is my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:08 AM
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Its more about how they will deal with those insecurities, but in my experience , insecurities based on looks are the worst as they can be very toxic towards their partner and probably will cheat at any given chance. My worst partner was like that, insecure about the looks and the guy that i lowered my standards for (the good guy but not handsome guy) .. ended up being toxic, abusive and a cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:54 AM
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Oh I know its hard for some, but why should I care? Give me some reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:32 PM
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I think I would be ok if my partner would have a better sleep. That's not our case though, we like to spend as much time with each other as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:03 AM
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nope, It was the right choice every time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:28 AM
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My max cap is 2 years up or down, I wouldn't ever date someone outside that. Never liked older men, found them very very creepy showing interest in younger women, But that's my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:46 AM
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similar to yours, if they don't show effort, at the second time I'm gone. I'm not wasting my precious time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:34 AM
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Married female, Bi, 10 years together. I feel like most men here have very distorted views from the world and its quite sad as they will not listen to anything else. A lot love to victimize themselves instead of doing something productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:15 PM
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the conversation here is that no crime is identical to other. Maybe you are a bit lost sweetie. If you want to talk about other stuff more in depth im sure you can find a subreddit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:36 PM
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nah, I had lived in both countries, spaniards are more attractive. More tanned, better smiles and features in general. And I am saying this when my type is blonde or light brunette guys ..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:08 PM
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Sorry to burst your bubble but this has been debunked by himself . He was bored and fabricate stories for funsies during interviews https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SaxyTCYOJDI&t=48s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:00 PM
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No. Not all crimes do an equal amount of damage. And even if two criminals do the same amount of damage, the “guilty state of mind” between two criminals can differ. “Involuntary manslaughter” is the crime of doing something immensely stupid, not really thinking about the fact that it can kill someone, and accidentally killing someone in the process. “Voluntary manslaughter” is the crime of killing someone in a state of emotional distress which meant you weren’t thinking straight. “Second degree…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:41 PM
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I did, and thats how motives are different from person to person. So even doing a crime together, has different backgrounds and motives. Its quite simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:07 PM
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yes there are identical jobs with identical responsibilities. And some people might perform better and maybe receive a plus because of it. Or some people can just have an awful boss who does unfair wages based on gender or even race.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:41 AM
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my point still stands, no identical crimes or motives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:48 AM
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The motive plays a big par in court. Women who kill their children : Accidental killings of children, for instance, are more likely to be the result of neglect among mothers and abuse among fathers and stepfathers. This reflects what we know about gender patterns in childcare responsibility and domestic and family violence. In cases where children are killed intentionally, women are more likely to kill babies and newborns, particularly in circumstances of unwanted pregnancies. Such offenders are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:22 AM
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there is no identical crimes so its impossible to have the same sentence. The judge need to dig about motives, backgrounds etc . This is just a ignorant thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:01 AM
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I do, you cant possibly know what other people have in their head when saying things, so you are just assuming. Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:46 AM
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how do you know? You don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:31 AM
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Yes and not anymore, why? I cant run or play whatever, its uncomfortable with the bouncy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:19 AM
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nah, this depends on the person, but it is true that maybe some unattractive people "gave up" on their appearance and don't care about hygiene, there's also attractive people who is also unhygienic. It depends, when I saw someone giving that advice, they were right as the person was very unkept.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:17 AM
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whats the point of being with someone that doesn't bring you happiness or even want to spend time with you? nah, if someone cares , they will make time, I worked 15 hours a day, and still went to see the person I was dating at the time even though it will mean that I will just sleep 4 hours. If they dont put the effort, not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:03 AM
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not unreasonable to spend time together. if someone cares , they will make time, I worked 15 hours a day, and still went to see the person I was dating at the time even though it will mean that I will just sleep 4 hours. If they dont put the effort, not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:01 AM
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She got rejected a few times and moved on, whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:01 AM
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nah, if someone cares , they will make time, I worked 15 hours a day, and still went to see the person I was dating at the time even though it will mean that I will just sleep 4 hours. If they dont put the effort, not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:57 AM
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maybe you need to choose better if those are your options, plenty of healthy relationships everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:49 AM
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nah, if someone cares , they will make time, I worked 15 hours a day, and still went to see the person I was dating at the time even though it will mean that I will just sleep 4 hours. If they dont put the effort, not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:47 AM
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nah, if someone cares , they will make time, I worked 15 hours a day, and still went to see the person I was dating at the time even though it will mean that I will just sleep 4 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:46 AM
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and thats how you get replaced, in both situations , no one wants someone who you cant trust
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:42 AM
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so why women initiate divorce then? If they are so happy? And its not about that guy, there's studies and statistics all over the world saying the same, happiest demographic is single childfree women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:00 AM
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those are news articles.. that don't cite actual studies hahahaand the first one just says that apparently women are happily married but then you guys say that women initiate divorce a lot, so which one is it?? and the second one just talks about old women in general... did you even read them?? So no source, thank you. Happiest demographic still single women without children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:38 AM
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and where is that research because the last time I checked the happiest demographic is single women , followed by married men. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-so-many-single-women-without-children-are-happy So, where is your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:50 PM
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If I said that they are lonely its because they say it quite often... It wasn't me assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:35 PM
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According to research, single women get unhappier as they age, up to 65. Men get happier as they age. Not in my experience, in nursing homes, the single ladies bond with each other, do a lot of activities whilst older men are very apathetic, lonely, sad and even rude and aggressive. Same for just old people. Female widows seek for connections and have a better life than the male ones. Not all, but that's something that I see very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 08:56 AM
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who stops men from wearing make up? Celebrities and politicians do it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:32 PM
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like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:31 PM
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no one draws a new face, that's such a silly thing to say, make up doesn't do miracles, and a lot of it its clearly visible, plus not all women wear makeup. No need for equivalents, beauty industry is also used by men. Skincare, hygiene, also clothing style is taking care of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:31 PM
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women put a lot more effort into their appearance than men. The beauty industry is a multimillionaire for a reason. No one is stopping you from taking care of your appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:16 AM
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so you are a disrespectful person then? Human rights act says : The Human Rights Act (1998) gives us legal protection of our basic human rights. The legislation ensures that the rights set out in the European Convention on Human Rights (ECHR) are enjoyed by us all, which includes things like dignity, fairness, equality, tolerance, and respect. https://www.freedomfromtorture.org/news-and-stories/the-human-rights-act-1998 SO.. yes, everyone deserves respect, but you do you. Some people just try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:54 PM
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You still didnt answer the question, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:20 PM
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You said: Men don't owe women jobs, equal pay, maternity leave, public benefits, respect, or anything at all, yet the lack of these things is considered women's issues. And I asked why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:09 PM
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Why is not a necessity? Why women shouldnt also have equal pay as a default? or maternity leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:00 PM
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and with opinions like this, no wonder why theres a loneliness epidemic. Men don't owe women jobs, equal pay, maternity leave, public benefits, respect, No respect? Why not? Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:21 AM
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its not xD and women keep saying it but some men seem very obsessed with the bananas
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:57 AM
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You can say whatever you want but statistics say that 96% of violent crimes are committed by men. Including murder. Edit to say : I don’t do violence against women. Do you want a badge or pin or something for not being violent towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:05 PM
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you said : Whole you just scuff at men…for no reason just cuz. I said there is a reason, are you confused or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:40 PM
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theres a global epidemic of violence against women globally. Thats a reason, a big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:34 PM
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<image> around 20% for me , just the heroic ones, I wouldn't settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:06 PM
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many people don't even bring this hahaha the orgasm gap exists
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:57 PM
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and? My point still stands. If a possible partner is not making my life better, why should I bother? Better to stay on my own
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:44 PM
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Never heard of that or seen that situation. but same for men and fat or ugly women, nah, even worse as they treat this women like crap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:43 PM
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I have Well, if you move on those circles, that's on you. Why don't you go the fruit way too since you find women so much prettier? Or are you already fruity (which makes your opinion irrelevant in hetero dynamics)? Im bi so yes, they are absolutely gorgeous as women usually take better care of themselves And my opinion still stands as I like both genders, oopsie! You just said it does Awww you dont know the difference between having better careers and the gender pay gap? Ill explain it easy. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:41 PM
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do women actively tell you that they don't want you around them?? that might be concerning But yes, some elderly do, with dementia, or some aggressive animals too. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:34 PM
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nope , there's a difference. If no one wants you, its because you don't have anything to offer. Otherwise, someone would want you. Its not just about being horrible, that's just a part of not being wanted for whatever reason, could be for nothing to offer or for being horrible or more reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:32 PM
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I don't help people for a benefit for myself. I collaborate with charities, I help animals and elderly because I like to. It wouldn't be supporting someone if you do it just for benefits. And that mentality is why a lot of men are single. Not a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:30 PM
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L-fucking-mao this is coming from the gender who loves to say "my money is mine and his money is ours" ? Never said that or being around anyone who says that. There are good looking men out there too. Much more than women coz we don't apply face paint. Go and get them, who is stopping you. And plenty of men use make up. Every actor, tv presenter, prime ministers, everyone who is on tv and some IRL too. Or they do other things to enhance their beauty, like going to turkey for example for several …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:27 PM
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having a good income doesnt help a household? yes it does having a good looking partner is desired by men? yes well, the gender pay gap still exists in some countries so... the fight isnt over. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:13 PM
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yeah, but there's subtle signs at the beginning too, good and bad ones
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:10 PM
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no problem :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:09 PM
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a lot of women are looking amazing nowadays, overearning men and latest time I check they also have more studies and degrees, so yes. There's not a women loneliness epidemic....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:00 PM
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Men keep thinking they are just competing with other men when in reality they are completing with a woman’s peace and current quality of life. Men have to be a better option than staying single for a woman to give him the time of day unless that woman is mentally ill. And this is it, well frikin said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:40 PM
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or men could be actually step up and become a good partner and actually bring something to the table?? Crazy! right? This seems another fearmongering post to women, women!!! don't have standards or you will end up alone! People, never settle down, did it once and it was the worst partner ever. ~Insecure, toxic etc etc. Its better to stay single that with a person that isnt worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:38 PM
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people is everyone and anyone, my comment wasn't specifically about mediocre women. You seem confused
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:31 PM
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I didnt say women , stop with the obvious lies where everyone can scroll down and check the comment. But Ill post it here too : I see it as a good thing, no more settling for mediocrity. If you want a partner you should have things to offer, if you don't, why you should be picked? Where did I say women? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:28 PM
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he cant because I didnt say it haha This is the comment: I see it as a good thing, no more settling for mediocrity. If you want a partner you should have things to offer, if you don't, why you should be picked? I didn't even say genders, he just assumed and create a fantasy story
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:26 PM
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nope, lies again. My original comment didn't mention genders or mediocre women. Oopsie! we caught you again!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:20 PM
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Where did I said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:11 PM
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There is mediocrity everywhere, never said the opposite. That's what I said in my original comment, no more settling for mediocrity. You sound very confused
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:10 PM
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my comment wasn't gendered. You gendered it. To lie, and fail hahaha as anyone can check it hahaahha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:04 PM
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I'm saying that I didn't put any gender in my comment, you did, and also added the word mediocre before women for no reason, and then tried to claim that I said mediocre women to start with, hahaha clearly in my comment , there's not any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:03 PM
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sweetie!! where did I said that? hahahaha, another lie caught! I said PEOPLE shouldn't settle for mediocrity, the comment is there for people to see. Oopsie, someone got caught red handed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:57 PM
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sweetie!! where did I said that? hahahaha, another lie caught! I said PEOPLE shouldn't settle for mediocrity, the comment is there for people to see. Oopsie, someone got caught red handed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:57 PM
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why not? I absolutely expect them to, otherwise, I void them, ignore them completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:37 PM
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this is a debate sub, you made a claim and I asked for proof or examples and you refuse, so till then, lies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:36 PM
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the question is , what do they bring to the table? nothing? well, then why someone should be with you if you aren't making their life better in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:34 PM
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You are the one making claims so you should prove them. no one should be with anyone they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:32 PM
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not everybody has something to offer, there's horrible people that deserve to be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:30 PM
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if you think its that simple, you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:25 PM
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and what are they saying about misogyny? Again, where is the proof that a woman said I cant get dates just because of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:24 PM
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who said that? do you have examples? Proof? Or is it all in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:42 PM
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I see it as a good thing, no more settling for mediocrity. If you want a partner you should have things to offer, if you don't, why you should be picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:35 PM
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I never did, either I feel a spark or I don't. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:31 PM
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Ill finish the date earlier and bye bye forever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:14 PM
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how are men devaluing themselves according to you? This post is a big nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:04 PM
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I just seen this mechanic in younger or emotionally immature women, and even though, not often at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:50 AM
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I see more men fat shaming, ugly shaming or calling women flat chest etc than women talking about "bananas". I frankly don't give a damn about it, but you guys is all you talk,. specially on this sub, so obsessed with them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:45 AM
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and usually that's 5-8 cm in the canal, pretty much everything can reach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:43 AM
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my point still stands in this topic. When I say small pp energy I talk about ENERGY that the person gives. If its too complicated for you to understand, that's on you darling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:41 AM
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I frankly don't care about random people online throwing tantrums
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:27 PM
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so true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:07 PM
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I can do whatever I want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:07 PM
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there's a difference between don't know and dont care, and I dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:48 PM
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no one is talking about body buy energy, if its difficult for you to understand, not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:41 PM
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It doesnt matter, in my country there is a similar version for women, "fat pussy" to call someone very lazy and other negative traits, no woman cries about it thinking that the actual size of her kitty is what they are talking about...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:08 PM
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its not just about being a jerk, there's more stuff to it, so until we have another word that describes the whole energy thing, I'll use it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:19 AM
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with family present no, otherwise yes if done politely
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:55 AM
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nah, I just talk about energy as obviously have no idea of anyone's size or care at all. If someone cares so much about imaginary sizes oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:52 AM
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nope, as I am not talking about anyone's body. just the energy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:32 AM
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to me it does, I wouldn't think it has anything to do with mine, just the energy that I give
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:03 AM
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nah , I had a partner with a micro once and still don't care about it, at all. Some women do some women dont. So ignorant to think the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:01 AM
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I used "small pp energy" but talking about a stranger being awful. I dont think many of us talk about the actual size and more of the "energy". Theres a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:44 AM
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I never took offence, at all. I never thought its "who I attract". To me was more the case of some men having a big ego and thinking a bit much of themselves. Nothing to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:37 PM
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raising awareness how? on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:42 PM
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answer the question, how do you support male victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:33 AM
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the majority of rapist are men doesn’t mean the majority of men are rapist. No one said the opposite. But knowing this, its logical that people would be scared of men ingeneral as you cant know which ones are which
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:31 AM
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no one said they didn't matter, but its not women's fight, (women aren't creating this violence), If you care so much, you can do things about it. So tell me , what do you do to help this men against violent ones?? How do you support and help them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:14 AM
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nah, majority of my friends are really really attractive, never felt any jealousy, I admire them , that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:25 AM
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Women Who Prefer Longer Penises Are More Likely to Have Vaginal Orgasms (but Not Clitoral Orgasms): Implications for an Evolutionary Theory of Vaginal Orgasm - ScienceDirect
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:47 AM
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nah, the 3 that cared more ended up proposing to me at the end. The ones that were just walk or coffee dates were just short term relationships or just friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:14 AM
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coffee dates are fine by me, it depends on what the "competition" is doing. If another guy is doing more than a coffee date and investing more on the date... well.. Its showing me that he cares more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:50 PM
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not always, latest's statistics say that just 1% of rapists are actually convicted in UK for example https://www.citystgeorges.ac.uk/news-and-events/news/2022/04/new-scorecards-show-under-1-of-reported-rapes-lead-to-conviction-criminologist-explains-why-englands-justice-system-continues-to-fail And you avoided the question, so I will assume that no, you don't hold them accountable at all. And that's the problem, some men think that they are good because they dont commit the "crime" but they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:33 AM
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no one said they are, but clearly one gender commits way more than the other, do you hold other men accountable for their actions? Do you stand up against them? Doing nothing is also part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:02 AM
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they aren't , 96% of violent crimes globally are committed by men. You can check it for yourself. No one talked about rape or murder, I said violent crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:13 PM
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no its not, its global on violent crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:01 PM
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but it was men who didn't let women join wars.. women didn't forced the draft either, so where are your sources to prove your claim? Again, define misandry: what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:40 PM
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why is the draft misandrist exactly? what makes it misandrist? The draft was created by men, so what does misandry have to do here exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:10 PM
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No, I dont see the lie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:09 PM
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yeah... I had similar situations too. Very awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:40 PM
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why and how? Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:39 PM
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I think you are thinking way too much about it. I help people in need because they need help. That's it. It makes me feel good to help others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:37 PM
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I don't know why other women might do this. In my case I don't do it on purpose, if I have something heavy Obviously I struggle and I usually get help without asking, but if I don't get help its fine. I keep trying. I don't ask for help because I'm shy and because I don't want to bother anyone. So maybe point 1. Point 2 I don't need or want attention , in fact I prefer to be invisible. Point 3, I never felt entitled to get help. If it comes good, if it doesn't good too. Point 4, WTF, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:42 AM
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so on medieval times they got voting polls ? and the peasants who didn't knew hot to read voted ? ahahahahhahahahaha where is your source? I said give examples. Not even one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:41 AM
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in which country? because a lot have different rules? Which one are you talking about? Give an example. Plus you didnt answer the question: are you saying that most kings were voted for or elected?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:23 AM
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not just that, it was just painful and uncomfortable, there's nothing that he could do to make it better. Even if he was good, the pain will not go away magically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:19 AM
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are you saying that most kings were voted for or elected?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:17 AM
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I did, more than above average, hated it. All the above average ones that I had been, never made me finish. just discomfort and pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:16 AM
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G spot is at around 6-12cm .. you don't need a big one. I would never prefer a bigger one, they are uncomfortable in a lot of positions and painful. I never had an orgasm with an above average size.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:10 AM
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because women are still oppressed BY MEN because theres a global epidemic of violence against women BY MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:52 AM
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which one exactly, can you quote it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:47 AM
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I never needed dating apps, I always had plenty of options IRL. But I think times have changed, so depends on the situation. For example you are new on town, you work from home, this can add some difficulty to create social connections. My bestie is a gorgeous woman and when she moved town, she went on the apps to meet people or whatever. Another friend, very beautiful too went on the apps because she works crazy hours so its really difficult for her to create new connections, she found her SO t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:38 AM
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nah, to me it doesn't matter , in fact, I really dislike bigger dudes, its just painful and unpleasant, not only that, they tend to rely on size and didn't even know how to use it. Plus, there's not many women who finish with just penetration. Its fascinating how men are obsessed with size and women usually don't care as much, at all. Its way more important to know how to use it than the size
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:30 AM
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Its not irrelevant because men created the draft, plus in old times there was no voting someone, the king was there not voted for... so you are very wrong. how is it misandry? define misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:26 AM
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when one side commits rape and murder and is the culprit of 96% of violent crime... well... its not a question of : ugh we should get along together, its the case of holding them accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:22 AM
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statistically men have started way more wars than women, so its them who sent other ones to war. Which woman have started a draft as a ruler? Your point is just false and makes no sense, and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:38 AM
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nah, I wouldn't date someone who isnt chivalrous and kind. The only ones saying chivalry is dead, weren't ever chivalrous in the first place. Chivalry is not just done to get into someone's bed... Some men forget this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:36 AM
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96%of violent crimes committed by men... statistics say... too many men doing this, many countries with whatsapp group up to 70k of men sharing stories on how to rape and abuse women including pictures... too many men. oh and you jknow what, the silent ones, are also the bad guys.. the ones who doent stop abuse or the ones who look away... yeah... too many men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:14 PM
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men commit 96% of SA and 95% of violent crimes including murder according to the latest statistics.... with 96% who do you think is the main audience? if it was the other way around I would think its logic to target it to the 96% of committers... I thought men were the logical ones, not the emotional ones...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:41 AM
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A number of SA and R*pe cases popped up and caused an uproar in my country. Schools, the media and even religious organizations quite literally shamed guys over this. HE complained about it, at any point he condone the SA, at all. Just complained about the movement. Maybe you missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:37 AM
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A number of SA and R*pe cases popped up and caused an uproar in my country. Schools, the media and even religious organizations quite literally shamed guys over this. HE complained about it, at any point he condone the SA, at all. Just complained about the movement. Maybe you missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:37 AM
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yeah, they rush this chores so I can imagine the end result... In my experience men that say this , live in not a very clean house and the nutrition is also not great... of course there can be exceptions, but a job well done is time consuming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:59 PM
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good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:57 PM
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so yeah, half work done and boring repetitive meals
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:09 PM
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but braces are changing your natural appearance, same for what??? plastic surgery! so... a lie? Make up is also used to protect your skin, kohl have been used since ancient Egypt to protect your eyes, see? I can do it too Hair doesn't change how a man looks?? tell that to bald men , tell them, that their insecurities are nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:54 AM
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so michelin star chefs that spend hours creating a dish are inefficient, right hahaha 3 hours per week of cleaning and cooking is just lazy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:48 AM
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then the quality of that cleaning and cooking must be very questionable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:30 AM
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and hats or toupees, and even braces then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:24 AM
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as my first statement says, its easy for the people who have worked on themselves and are interesting possible partners. If you aren't a good partner , you can raise your odds by improving and it would be easier
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:00 AM
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you should want to become better first for all , for yourself, and then the rest. Of course its difficult, life isnt easy. And some people have it easier than others. So? 2 choices, be better or stay mediocre
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:47 AM
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its not a contradiction, you forgot the part where I explained : if you don't get dates... (work on yourself) to raise your chances, and if you don't , well, love is not in the cards for everyone. I thought it was quite simple to understand... maybe it wasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:32 AM
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who asked you? who cares? That's irrelevant for this debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:58 AM
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if that's what you understand of the conversation, well, good luck hahaha. quite boring with the victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:52 AM
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where is the contradiction exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:50 AM
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its just a lie if you hide it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:49 AM
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then tell men to not be so desperate and things might change
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:48 AM
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if you are ugly, there's plastic surgery or other attributes that you can enhance (personality, career...). If you do nothing to become a better partner , that's on you. People shouldn't settle for mediocrity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:39 AM
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how do you know that those men are nice to women? are you a woman? are they approaching you? No, then you dont know and you dont have that experience to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:37 AM
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it is, and if you don't get them, you must ask yourself why. Some people don't have love in their cards, and that's fine. It's life. No one owes you a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:32 AM
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nope, I just said that if the shoe doesn't fit...(no need to force it) if you feel called out that's on you. As we say in my country: quien se pica ajos come.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:29 AM
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teaching about SA and feeling called out about it... well , if the shoe fits... if it doesn't... Simple. I had bullying talks and I didn't feel called out because I never bullied anyone, I didn't feel lumped in even though they were generalizing about teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:17 AM
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nope, I had plenty of respectful good men approaching me and handling rejection as a gentleman, funny enough its the creepy ones who cry about metoo the ones causing trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:15 AM
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If you have problems with the metoo movement and women having a voice against SA, yeah, you should not approach women. Good men that approach and treat women with respect don't feel called out by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:54 AM
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there is no one in the world that I would choose over my husband. NO ONE. And I work in the celebrity industry and I have been asked out by a few, always said no, always will. I found my soulmate already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:28 PM
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nah I always found it weird and creepy, I had a lot of older men trying to flirt with me, and this men were business successful, rich and a lot of them good looking as I was working in a yacht club.. still found it very gross. And I will go even farther, some of this men confess to me several times that the reason as to why they choose younger barely legal girls is because they have way less boundaries and they are more "blind" to some situations when they want to be "naughty" compared to women …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:43 AM
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I have seen this situation 3 times, just one marriage survived it but to be honest.. they arent the same anymore. In this situation the men accused the wives for whatever reason, one was because the girl was a bit blonder (the wife is blonde too, just darker).... All of them took the tests, pass them but 2 divorce immediately. I wouldn't have a problem doing a test but its the lack of trust. Wouldn't it be easier to do one of those heritage tests than also confirms family ties?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:32 AM
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murders are always reported and are around 95% committed by men.. Statistics and facts over feelings.. so yes,. men are the enemy of everyone including men as you just said earlier hahaha shooting yourself in the foot I see
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:36 PM
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and who is the attacker of this men in the majority? Ill answer, don't worry, 90% of violent crimes are done by men. try again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:10 PM
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with a global epidemic of violence against women its a bit difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:34 PM
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never heard of this terms before and I never thought about it. The ones obsessed with size are men most of the time, not us...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:59 AM
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yeah, never understood this, to me 2 years is the maximum gap
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:42 AM
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feminists haven't stopped or criticize it, do you have sources for your claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:06 AM
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I guess same as men going on making new friends apps looking for dates... Quite annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:09 AM
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So both are idiots.. IF you dont want kids, protect yourself. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:25 AM
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To be attracted I need to know the person at least a bit, so very very rare. I can admire someone's beauty but that doesnt make me attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:23 AM
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so your case study is a AITAH post ? How can we do a serious debate like this? If my partner doesn't want to support a business for whatever beliefs, Ill do it. Not a big deal. There is more pharmacies. Well, then please join MGTOW and stay away from women. No problem with that. in fact , I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:18 AM
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nah, big age gaps always give me the eek. No matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:37 AM
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men make women get abortions or get pregnant all the time too. its not just one party, its shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:36 AM
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get a snip snip, problem solved. If you don't want the consequences, do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:51 AM
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two of my great aunts were childfree, they had an amazing luxury lifestyle, travelling with their husbands. Subs like regretfulparents exist for a reason. There hasnt been a situation in my life that I thought, you know what , a kid will make this situation better. Why does people always put the nose around childfree people? why do they care so much about others life choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:58 PM
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for everyone? ah, for equality. feminism doesn't stop others to fight for themselves. AS i suspected, you do nothing but complain so others will fix it for you... well tough shit.. that's not how the world works. Im a feminist and I dont give a damn about what you do or dont do. The word despise is meaningless because I dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:37 AM
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he faked all this niceness and beliefs at the beginning and then showed his true colors later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:22 AM
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statistics say men commit 90% of violent crimes,. actual statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:03 AM
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why do feminists need to fight your fights? If you care so much, do something about it, there's associations, protests, you can also donate to help the cause. so tell me , what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:07 PM
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yep, same role, position and responsibility. Still happens. And there is a global epidemic of violence against women... feminism stands against that too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:56 PM
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even though "civil equality" is "achieved" in some countries .. that doesn't mean that people do it.. I still see cases of gender pay gap and stuff like this even though is illegal..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:15 PM
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where are your sources of that? trust me bro? as I've said , murders cant be not recorded, so what excuse are you going to give? Statistics and facts over feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:49 PM
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there is an easy solution called snip snip, protect yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:17 PM
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around 90% of violent crimes including murder are done by men.. that's just an example
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:15 PM
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some eastern european countries might disagree, and russia
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:40 PM
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there is several countries already that include it, and still... big numbers on men...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:34 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:15 AM
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depends on the country too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:57 AM
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in my case and most of my friends, we dont expect him to pay, but obviously gives points as shows a nice gesture
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:33 PM
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but its my experience and I will talk about it if I want too. And maybe you are treating people like shit but I'm not. And I didnt say anything like it, so I assume that you are projecting quite a lot here. I'm just saying my experience, sorry if you don't like it. Its the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:10 PM
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then tell them to stop being shitty partners. Its not a generalization, its my experience and the experience of many women that agreed aa they also experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:48 PM
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because I rather have a prince than kiss many frogs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:21 PM
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who is asking or forcing you to be a provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:18 PM
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nah, I had paid everything if I had a lovely time and wanted to treat the person, other times we split , and others they paid. I feel bad for the people who care so so so so much about the price of one meal, they must be having a really tough economic time...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:18 PM
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and for men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:42 PM
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ugly people are usually insecure which can lead to be toxic partners, simple, attractive people can be insecure too and have the same outcome but is less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:00 PM
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I would never EVER share. I find it pathetic unless you are into poly. Side chicks need to value themselves and don't do this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:15 AM
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not in my case
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:26 AM
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I never said he is ugly, just average and a self proclaimed nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:25 AM
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Where did I said the word repulsive? You clearly didn't understand my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:21 AM
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no, but the nice guy cheated and abused me physically and verbally, the good looking ones never lay a finger on me or insulted me or even raise their voice... so..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:39 PM
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can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:38 PM
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understood, but not in my case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:37 PM
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I dont know what that is or how it affects this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:15 PM
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another post of give the ugly good guys a chance, well when I did that was the worst partner I ever had. Manipulative, toxic, aggressive etc. What I didn't know is that many many women had the same experience, the guy that they gave a chance, the "nice guy" was the absolute worst. Attractive partners didn't manipulate me or treat me like crap, "self proclaimed nice guys" did. Also, just my experience but I never had a problem with attractive guys committing to me. This posts is just fearmongerin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:41 AM
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yes you do need skills, or it will look like clown makeup ... countour? looks good on pictures or videos, real life it doesn't ... you can see it , you see the shadows and it looks like you have dirt on your face, no matter how skilled you are, its visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:28 AM
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yes, no problem with that if I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:49 AM
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yes we do understand, we just disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:24 PM
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My relationship with my husband. We are best friends and do everything together and we shared hobbies like gaming. I love to cook so that's how I spend a lot of my time, cooking from scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:21 PM
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about my ex? probably I will do the same, he is awful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:47 PM
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I have seen the opposite here, most women that talk about their partners speak amazing things about them, myself included
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:05 PM
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how do you know what I am worried about? My point still stands, DNA tests for everyone, you have nothing to hide, you should be ok with it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:50 PM
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I would do DNA tests on everyone. Dads not taking care of their children? well you cant deny its yours, take responsibility. Rape?, murder? easier to solve with DNA and having everyone on file.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:28 PM
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not mine, I love history and he doesn't care at all, same for wars etc , he says its incredibly boring
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:51 AM
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coffee, museum, public spaces. I wouldn't go for a dinner date for the first one, or to the cinema or somewhere without people around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:38 AM
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NAh, Ill complain about whatever I want, and there's nothing you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:01 PM
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sure buddy, sure you do. So you do nothing.. No surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:55 PM
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"Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" Yes, its one of the reasons. Men nowadays need to be actually likable to get picked, in the past this was easy for them as women needed the to have a house etc, today this doesn't happen, so if you want to get picked, be likable and have something to offer. "but women choose bad boys" Yes, emotionally immature and unstable women, not the majority.. There are a lot of single men here who talked horribly about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:21 PM
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this! why they keep complaining and hating without leaving us alone? When I don't want something, ill stay away.. simple, it doesn't even cross my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:39 AM
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You can be concerned about several things at the same time, its not difficult if you are emotionally mature. But if you are so concerned about kids? what do you do against pedophiles? because I will assume that you do something, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:32 AM
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why are you concernec about how women reject and no about how many men react horribly to rejection? Getting aggressive, violent, and in some cases even murdering them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:30 AM
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are the protectors in the room with us? because there's a global crisis of violence against women, so this protectors are doing a really shitty work, not only that, statistics say that the most dangerous man for a woman is her husband, or a family member. Provide? Most women work, the woman provide too, and sadly also does most work around the house as a lot of men are toddlers that need to be taken care of. So I will ask you... what do men even offer? What do I offer? Well , my husband treats m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:43 AM
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no, I'm talking about how it was when I was dating, or also how could it be in a hypothetical situation. There is nothing wrong with ghosting if you don't feel safe. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:27 AM
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In my country nearly every man is intact and still, big orgasm gap, why? because it has nothing to do with it... and the not intact man, is the one that gave me most pleasure, totally the opposite to what you said. I think you need to read a bit more as to why the orgasm gap happens... Ill give you a clue, selfish lovers...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:23 AM
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I'm married already, and I my husband made me feel safe since minute 1, thats why I chose him, no reason to ghost him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:16 AM
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we aren't talking about minorities here but about half the population and the perpetrators of around 90% of all violent crimes including murder and SA
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:15 AM
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You aren't a victim if you're simply on a fucking date with a man lol no one said the opposite, this just sounds like contentless rhetoric that has nothing to do with my post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:52 PM
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omg yes , I didnt even realized...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:50 PM
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ah yes, victim blaming, nothing new, just boring
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:43 PM
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yeah.. because some men cant handle a no for an answer An example https://amp.sacbee.com/news/nation-world/national/article299725374.html other one : Man attempts to kidnap ex-coworker who refused his advances. Mom saves her. https://nypost.com/2024/03/24/us-news/fearless-nyc-mom-adriana-alvarez-fights-teen-daughters-hulking-alleged-kidnapper-down-four-flights-of-stairs-in-insane-video/?utm_campaign=iphone_nyp&utm_source=pasteboard_app another one https://www.gmanetwork.com/news/topstories/regio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:24 PM
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There is no realistic threat to your safety for simply saying "I don't want to date you There is, as I've said, a few guys were violent after I rejected them, one tried to SA me. Its you the one without empathy as I am saying I had horrible and dangerous experiences in the past and the only thing that you care is men's feelings instead of women safety. Where is your empathy? I don't buy this at all. If all men magically became good at being rejected tomorrow, women wouldn't magically stop ghosti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:14 PM
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not close to 0 on my experience, as I've said just 2 men out of all the ones I rejected, quite a lot, have acted like a man and handle rejection normally, the rest have been pissy, throwing insults or a few acting violent. So again, ill do whatever I can to ensure my safety. I don't owe them nothing. When men handle rejection properly , ghosting will not be common. Till then, safety first
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:55 PM
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close to zero? wish that were true, there's a subreddit called whenwomenrefuse , lots of stories there to prove why sometimes ghosting is the safest bet. Ill repeat it : when men can take a no for an answer like a man instead of like a toddler throwing a tantrum, maybe less ghosting will happen. go on and call men out when they cant handle rejection, why are you just coming to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:30 PM
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I do go out yes, and I will try and avoid unnecessary conflicts that can lead to bad situations. Same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:23 PM
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It does, I'm not risking SA, or worse to protect someone's feelings. Of all the guys that I rejected, just 2 took it like a real man, the rest? insults, violent etc... nope, not doing it. My safety comes first. Tell men to handle rejection and this will not happen. Go on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:17 PM
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nope, I had many instances that a "nice friendly guy" got aggressive at rejection, they usually don't show you this side till rejection happens, not taking any chances... when men can take a no for an answer like a man instead of like a toddler throwing a tantrum, maybe less ghosting will happen. Till then, booo (ghostly sounds)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:58 PM
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it shouldn't be a lot of trust, its quite basic.... again, if you cant trust your partner, there's something wrong and that relationship will fail
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:55 PM
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the fact that when I got most compliments and catcalling was around 12-18 is disgusting....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:43 PM
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it does, as no one is forcing you to not use it, or are they forcing you? its your choice isnt it? plus, if you cant trust your partner... maybe its time to change them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:40 PM
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how is feminism at fault? just use a condom or get a snip snip, simple. Plus, men can also take out the condom without their partner knowing...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:33 PM
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You can think whatever you want buddy, it did happen. There is also plenty of videos and posts online of men giving advice to other men confirming this. Quite boring way to debate when you dont have any counter arguments to just say: lies!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:59 PM
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Said by multiple men to me, even passport bros : They are just easy and malleable , the ones with my age are too smart and find out really quick when I'm trying to do "naughty" things. This ones will just believe everything I say, they are dumber. You will be surprised how many things men confessed to me working at a club when they are drunk. So yeah, that's the problem, the intention behind it a lot of times...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:02 AM
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2 up or 2 down that's my max, never lied
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:51 PM
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perfect, I wouldn't date someone with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:50 PM
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not a plus, don't usualy like em, uncomfortable and painful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:31 PM
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I disagree, but please do it. I used to work in a yacht club where I've met a lot of sugar daddies and passport bros. They usually got women from russia, phillipines and thailand. And I had talk to these women... several times, love? hahaha sure, for money and a better life, but generally they are disgusted by this men. Majority claimed that they treat them like crap and they were already looking for a way out. Others just laughed whilst spending all the money of this men, and one, just one, was…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:22 PM
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Because taking their rights away, not letting them access to education, having a bank account among other things, like murder, rape etc isnt hate and forms of hate? right... Name one country in the world where men don't have the right to an education for being a man, or when they cant choose what to wear, or where they cant work , vote or just talking to other men... Ill wait
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:43 PM
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its way more important how to use it and foreplay, way more. Not important for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:17 AM
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my experience is the opposite, the ones with the big ones don't put much effort thinking that size is everything, very bad lovers and very selfish. Also uncomfortable and painful, nah, don't like them. Nothing good
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:14 AM
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to me it is body shaming, yes. Now, I don't give a damn about sizes, the ones that talk more about sizes are men in my experience. Women care more about how its "used" than the actual size. Just size will not make a woman have an orgasm...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:54 PM
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this is it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:50 PM
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men are often ridiculed for not meeting unrealistic expectations. Making a woman orgasm is unrealistic?? A satisfyer can do it in just 15 seconds, its not rocket science... communication is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:21 PM
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If its done politely, not in a sexual way and can take a no for an answer without throwing a tantrum, I would be ok with it. Location depends , don't do it at night on an empty street for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:45 AM
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same for me with my husband, totally agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:13 AM
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Lies, a lot just inflate everything going on in their lives, or just lie. I met this guy saying that in his country he had a huge house, an Audi , horses and some more nonsense, then I found out that his job was a toilet cleaner. Nothing wrong with that, but the lies were too much and too easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:51 PM
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then you never personally experience your claim. My experience is the opposite. I had a couple partners that earned less than I did. Problems started there, when I started earning more than them and the insecurities began. Most of my friends had the same experience, men feeling emasculated (their own words) and starting to be bitter out of nowhere. Just a minority didn't mind or they took it as a challenge to earn more themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:53 PM
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have you dated women who make more than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:50 AM
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My husband does all of this things in the list and much more, its my husband for a reason.. I didnt expect this things but its nice to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:20 PM
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And why in the fuck should I mutilate my body WITH PREGNANCY AND THEN A CHILD FOR LIFE because you won't take responsibility for yours? Explain that one there we go. Answer that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:21 AM
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same for men, keep it in the pants. or get a snip snip, simple. Same for everyone. You just said its hypocrite when your own advice is aimed at you hahahaha and you just fell for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:50 AM
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When pussypassdenied was full of videos of women physically assaulting men, and men retaliating the feminist position wasn’t that these are 2 adults, one instigator and one who defended themselves. No, it was that man is using disproportionate force cause he’s too powerful. You wouldn’t hit a child who hit you… No one should hit each other, regardless of gender. Violence is never the answer Feminists aren’t insisting that since the gender wage gap for the same job and level is nearly identical (…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:28 AM
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You cant get another acting career, what a weird thing to say. some men are, some are gay and need to hide it for example, others were also SA for a role
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:57 AM
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so , studying to be an actor for years and then because of a man , you changed your whole life and career and start over again, sure. Plus, forcing someone like that its illegal, why aren't you questioning that? the men taking advantage of their positions? Why victim blaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:47 PM
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Do you work in the entertainment industry? I don't think so, a lot of times women aren't comfortable with being sexualized, clothing etc... and they pushed them to do it, otherwise they threaten them with: you will never be big in the industry, you are impossible to work with and I will tell everyone about it etc etc The metoo movement started for a reason... Men taking advantage of women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:46 AM
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3rd women that confirms that men in UK don't give up their seats, but other women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:42 AM
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I dislike them, maybe when I was a teenager I was a bit interested till I met one and I was like, emm no, horrible and disgusting attitude bye. The whole vibe gives me a big eek
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:36 AM
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because its men who impregnate women, if they don't want the consequences, do something about it instead of passing the problem around. Men expecting women to fix all the problems that they bring, nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:19 AM
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I never said I was immune, thats silly. Yeah, pushy doesn't work for me on sales, however, its the opposite on a relationship, if you don't show me interest, bye bye, not chasing. If you show me competition, bye bye, go with them. Not interested. If my partner isnt available for me 24/7 , I don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:35 PM
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I cant predict the future but I can act according to the results, is my life easier and better with a person? yes, continue, no, move on. I was manipulated in the past, everyone can be, but I learned from it, so now I can recognise those patterns and avoid them. Of course marketing works, I'm talking specifically about sellers, try to sell me something and its going to go the opposite way. Push me and it will be way worse. I've worked in sales, I know the tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:43 PM
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not false for me. Never bought anything that someone tried to sell, in fact, when they push me , ill just tear whatever they are trying to sell me apart, (not literally) I don't like to be pushed and as I've said, it just makes me want to do the opposite. not just believe, if its not doing it, I'm not wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:09 PM
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I never used any advice from anywhere, I just act how I think is right. I don't expect for a man to pay, but if he does it, I'm grateful, I don't have a problem with paying either. The 50/50 .. if its not just financially. 50/50 on house chores too. If he doesn't want that, well then he can pay and Ill take care of the house. What I'm not doing is 50/50 and everything on the house... f that Shaming people for their appearance its classless and I wouldn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:54 PM
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No , they just need to make you feel like it will. it will what? what do you mean? I always react negatively to sales tactics, try to sell me something and it will do the opposite. I have friends in sales and they always say they don't want me as a client xD
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:46 PM
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but it doesn't, if a guy doesn't put a LOT of effort, not interested, why should I? The interested person needs to show me that my life will become better by choosing them. If they don't, there's the door. Not playing silly games.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:09 PM
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Regardless of how interested I might be, I don't play games or chase. So if someone tries, I just disappear, I don't need that nonsense. People need to respect themselves and don't fall for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:04 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:57 PM
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I would assume that the idea of a long distance relationship is that is not like that forever. Mine started like that, and in 5 months, he moved countries to be together. On those months , we visited often. It can be possible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:58 PM
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I did paid for dates, if the other person was worth it, I wanted to treat them too. Not a big deal. I also paid for my friends. Not a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:03 PM
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agreed, as soon a guy started doing this nonsense , I just disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:44 AM
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Why not? I had one, and it turned out amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:36 AM
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Men still winning in the who cheats more. Statistics says so. No one leaves a happy marriage, if they leave, theres a reason. And the biggest one is Lack of Commitment Marriage comes with its set of challenges. That’s why both partners need to invest in building their union. This doesn’t always happen. Sometimes, your partner might not be fully invested in the relationship. Alarmingly, 75% of respondents in a long-term study cited the lack of commitment as the leading cause of divorce. This can …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:39 AM
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Who is the primary attacker of women? Men. Who is the primary attacker of men? Men. Who rape the most? Men Most serial killers? Men Child SA? Men So the answer to this question men defend women from who? who is usually the attacker??? Its men. Cars, machinery , don't attack by itselves hahahahahah the mental gymnastics to avoid saying men hahaha But statistics says it, even if you try to avoid it. Men commit 90% of violent crimes in total, not lesbians hahaha , MEN Among known risk factors for b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:01 AM
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you just proved that you don't know how stats work. https://www.unodc.org/documents/data-and-analysis/gsh/Booklet_5.pdf Here. Do the math yourself. Where are yours? Again, at least two thirds of them male. And who are killing them in the majority? Which gender??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:56 AM
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ask them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:26 AM
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that says a lot about men, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:21 AM
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Why must it be solely for women? No one said it should but you said : WE help women. You put yourself the medal, so what do you do to HELP WOMEN. Your examples are helping your family and people, no women specifically. So ill ask again, what do you do personally to help women?? Or isnt your medal to have?? You keep going around in circles but im still waiting for the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:51 PM
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what it really counts is what do you do for a complete stranger. Obviously people usually help their family. And your other examples are not directed specifically to women. So... you do nothing? Because you said WE . And you cant give one example, and just by seeing how you talk about women.. I highly doubt that you do, no need to act. But just proved the point that men nowadays dont protect much at all. Otherwise we wouldn't have a global epidemic of violence against women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:47 PM
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and you just help women? no, I want to know how you specifically help women. Family is family and it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:01 PM
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Actually the global statistic is 1.3% , and this is just counting by a spouse or family member. Add 1.1% by a stranger and your total is 2.4%. Its quite dishonest to just invent numbers without checking the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:19 PM
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what do you do to defend women? because you conveniently used the word WE, so let's see how you do it, tell us!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:10 PM
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men defend women from who? who is usually the attacker???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:07 PM
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A good partner will try. If this was the other way around , I would try and make my partners life easier as much as I could. But I am aware that there's not many great partners... comments proved it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:58 PM
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If you don't want the responsibility, be celibate or get a snip snip, easy peasy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:55 PM
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I would be proud of him but also worried for his safety
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:44 AM
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nah, not interested at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:43 AM
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aaaah another post to excuse bad behavior and being toxic : I'm just like this because this is what women want. Nope, thats not what the majority want. Prioritize them from the start... ah yes because 18 year olds know a lot about life and relationships.... After this people learn and change , the majority do, the minority will chase toxicity, usually because they are also toxic themselves. So, no excuses Im afraid, if you want to be toxic, thats on you, but deal with the consequences. Majority …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:34 AM
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So , are you being toxic on purpose? Wow. Not a good trait I am afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:19 AM
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I don't have to, the comments proved me right. Also I was talking outside of Reddit anyway. Try again LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:22 AM
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I used to had celebrity crushes till I met my husband, never had one after him. He is everything I want. Also working in the celeb industry makes me have a different perspective. To me they are just people, some quite awful TBH...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:57 PM
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agreed with all this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:16 PM
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not my experience, at all. When I needed to be defended , majority of times were women who did it. When I see some videos of something horrible happened. When its a man who did it, majority of comments are other men, joking about the situation, victim blaming or giving every excuse possible and very very few actually condoning it. Now when the perpetrator is a woman, I see other women calling her out and saying how horrible it is most of the time. And very very few looking for excuses. In my cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:01 AM
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awww , bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:44 PM
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it didn't made me stop talking to men. Men are the only reason I would stop talking to them. Not taking a no for an answer, pushing boundaries .. etc I will cut contact with those
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:16 AM
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this is not just about depression but mental illness in general. maybe find sources on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:52 AM
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not around me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:42 PM
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not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:41 PM
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Not my reality. you can do both, everyone should
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:46 AM
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If that makes you feel better about yourself, have a good day!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:30 PM
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what a weird impression to have based on a few sentences, sounds very judgmental
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:12 PM
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same, this people are deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:06 PM
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to me being attractive goes in the pack with husband material , 100% , I don't know why separate it, I wouldn't marry someone I'm not extremely attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:52 PM
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I dont have that experience, all LTR I had wanted to marry me and even got me a ring. Hard to relate to what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:50 PM
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Thank you, I am not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:26 PM
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nope. not at all, the hookup is just to have fun when you don't have anything BETTER to do. The husband material gets all that you said and more. In my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:22 PM
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this happened in Spain, I dont live there anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:41 PM
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of course , pretty privileged exists. I used to had a work in a Yacht club, many rich people around. And I will always remember this man. He was loaded and even though he was in his 50s he still very attractive. He was also very kind, and one night he waited for me to finish my shift so I will not go alone at night to my car around the port. He was talking about how to be successful in life, and he said: Here is the ugly truth, always surround yourself with beautiful people, always. Your life wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:40 PM
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or beauty, or laughs, or love , anything good is good in big quantities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:26 PM
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some, childfree people is on the rise. And men do that too, thats why so many "hate" their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:24 PM
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Same, Its not my first language. And I am not sure how to explain it xD If yours is spanish, amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:19 PM
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Not always, I was bullied for being "pretty" to the point that a group of girls locked me out in the high school bathroom , and tried to cut my face with scissors so no boys would look at me anymore... Thank god a teacher knew about the bullying and decided to follow us and intervene before anything happened. Unwanted attention? yeah, like 5 stalkers and 4 SA situations, one of them with a woman and I was a minor. Plus 6 flashers playing with themselves. 2 bosses trying to take SA advantage of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:14 PM
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I'm sorry but I have no idea what you just said. English isnt my first language. Would you mind giving me the easy version?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:59 PM
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Because one you say something, the other one you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:57 PM
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Because she meant that she is serious about him, he isnt just a fling, something to use and discard
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:56 PM
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I don't, I wouldn't EVER date a single dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:53 PM
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You can do whatever you want, but he is the envy at the office. Must be itchy to see others happiness but don't be so salty, its quite classless. Be better and maybe you will find someone, or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:51 PM
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why yes? yours isnt communicating, mine is. that's why. Different problems
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:48 PM
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"Firstly, I want to explain my point of view and what I meant by that compliment. I wanted to tell him that I wouldn’t let him go with just a hookup or FWB relationship. I wanted more with him basically but I understand my wording with that compliment was terrible. I find him attractive so much. " Nope, you misunderstood , like the guy at the beginning. Probably insecure, that's why he did it. A normal man wouldn't have that reaction. My husband didn't when I said it to him. He loved it and say,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:45 PM
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yes, but how it applies to what I've said? Its the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:34 PM
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how is it the same? they aren't comparable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:33 PM
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You can think whatever you want. AS i said, never seen it, so I doubt is the norm or very often. Even the girl in the post said that she is very attracted to the guy. Proving that a lot of men misunderstood it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:29 PM
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on my experience , the most attractive the better partners, the less attractive , worse partners, by a mile... maybe insecurities play a big role.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:19 PM
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Same for men, people can be shitty, not a gender thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:17 PM
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There's none , 99% are crap
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:03 PM
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I heard so very few times that a guy that is husband material.. because lets be real, most aren't... so every time I heard a woman saying it she really meant it, and this was very few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:52 PM
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but this isnt a gender thing, right? it happens to women too, you are such a good girl, so pure bla bla although never heard the husband or wife material to reject... just the good person thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:50 PM
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no they weren't, I copied her exact line and its this : "he is not someone who I would hookup or be a fwb with but marry. " Translation is: someone who I would take seriously, NOT just a fling, or a hookup. Why are you spreading lies when the post is there for everyone to check? Quite immature
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:39 PM
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we aren't in the 50s anymore, most women are financially independent... Its better to be alone that with a mediocre man. I thought women have very high even impossible standards and just date the top 20% ... so which one is it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:32 PM
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As the man in the post you misunderstood what she meant. he is not someone who I would hookup or be a fwb with but marry. Translation is someone who I would take seriously, not just a fling, or a hookup. I mean.. its not rocket science....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:30 PM
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Or any other of my friends, or other women here that have already said the same in other posts... Its just you guys who say this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:25 PM
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a hookup isnt enough for husband material, is just something to use and discard ... I dont know where you guys get this thing that women are more attracted to guys that are just hookups, no. Those ones will never be promoted to husbands, is just something to use and discard. Respectfully, obviously. Husbands will always have more attraction than hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:23 PM
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Its him who misunderstood and played victim.. She dodged a bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:17 PM
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Never heard someone calling a guy husband material as a rejection , sounds really dumb. My husband was very flattered when I said it to him first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:16 PM
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That what you said is probably not going to hold true for you in the long run why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:13 PM
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how do you know? A lot of cases that some of my friends tell their BF they are husband material, ended up married , at 20s . Same for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:12 PM
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No it doesnt, its a different way to say : I will spend my life with you , I wouldn't just use you for a night , im serious about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:10 PM
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I have no idea whats your point here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:08 PM
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Never seen that, not dismissing it either. But even my friends when they say husband material to a guy , they are crazy for that guy... and they mean they want a life with him. Even the example in this post is a couple... she didn't say that it was a random guy ...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:07 PM
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Should be common sense...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:05 PM
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where? because my friends are the same as me. When they said omg he is husband material, they were crazy attracted to them and all lovey dovey. I dont think its the norm, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:03 PM
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Agreed, to me husband material needs to have everything to want me to spend my life with that person. Including sex and attraction obviously, why would I marry someone that im not extremely attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:00 PM
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how do you know that didn't happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:59 PM
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nah, husband material is the perfect guy for me. With a lot of good qualities that would made me want to spend my life and do everything for him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:57 PM
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I will never say someone is husband material if there's no romantic and sexual desire. Why would I want to marry someone I don't have lust and desire for? That's dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:55 PM
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If I say someone is husband material and throws a tantrum, don't you worry, you aren't husband material anymore , not even friendzoned, they go to the void, where nothing ever leaves. So dumb. To me husband material is the perfect man to spend your life with, in all aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:51 PM
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I want to be viewed as the passionate first choice. That's husband material to me among other qualities. I will never say someone is husband material if theres no romantic and sexual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:49 PM
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nope, not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:21 PM
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No women I know would share , at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:21 PM
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Thats its not going to change anything. If you are "bad" at it , she wuill not orgasm, no matter if she has sleep around a lot , or not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:57 PM
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Thats its not going to change anything. If you are "bad" at it , she wuill not orgasm, no matter if she has sleep around a lot , or not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:57 PM
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gender of those strangers in the majority? Come on, you klnow why you are avoiding it hahaha and I know why too. Because its men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:48 PM
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but men aren't an ethnic minority, are half the population. Not talking about ethnicity here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:46 PM
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by who? experiencesd it in majority by who?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:45 PM
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obviously you want your partner's life to be compatible , if not, move on with someone that is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:28 PM
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with this neurotic mentality its better to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:26 PM
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I think legal ties should be severed, yes. Then its his choice to continue with the emotional ones or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:23 PM
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Source for your numbers? Or is just what you think it happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:10 PM
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I dont know if it would be the case but for me I don't like if people is too pushy about meeting in person. First I need to decide if the other person is a psycho or not by talking a few weeks, after that sure, lets meet, but if its too much pushing on meeting, Ill leave. Specially if I see that my boundaries are unheard. Example , hey lets grab a coffee mm I dont feel comfortable just yet why not, come on , its just a coffee Instead of : Its fine I understand, maybe in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:09 PM
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and? Im detailing it even more. Your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:01 PM
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people at the beginning usually just show or even exaggerate their best traits and after a while, the truth comes out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:59 PM
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then you wonder why theres so many divorces, with this mentality of me me me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:57 PM
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Why do you specify women? I met vegan men way more obnoxious than women... There's a lot doing live videos on tiktok. Same for red pillers ... very loud people... I don't think is a gender thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:36 PM
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Its so funny to me than when men talk about this dudes, they all have the same caricature of the dude, the thug, the drug dealer, the hot bad boy. When in reality , the abusers are more likely to just be your common average dude. The one that his friends know about and ignore it or act completely surprised saying but he is such a NICE GUY! This is impossible!! Usually they are completely clueless as to how this men act in relationships, and when the abuse is uncovered they act really surprised. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:01 AM
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I totally agree, he is my favorite person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:46 AM
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well you were quite wrong about a lot of things xD that's what happens when you talk about a subject that you have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:16 PM
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its a multi million industry where many men get rich, no one is going to listen to you... quite a pointless conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:09 PM
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color based imperfections like redness or uneven tones , not creases. I wish if they do, it will made my job a million times easier. Would you paint over a crack in the wall and hope that it will fill it up? nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:08 PM
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WRONG , make up or foundation cant cover any creases at all, in fact , it will look even worse. Nothing can cover them and look good IRL, for pictures sure, but looks awful in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:35 PM
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good quality make up doesn't damage anything, quite the opposite if it has active ingredients. Kohl was used to protecting your eyes in the dessert. Beards and hats too 3 . and? who cares that someone else look better, are we also banning good looking people? 4 . depends where, italy has the biggest and most famous factories and they are amazing. 5 just shallow people, and they will do that regardless 6 leave women do whatever the f they want. Sexism is dictating what we can or cant do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:33 PM
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This is quite dumb, abusive people comes with a huge variety of IQ. Including geniuses. Many serial killers had a high IQ for example. Gisele Pelicot case, many rapists were doctors, police officers, lawyers etc... Hollywood industry, a lot of abuse there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:34 AM
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That's just an article with summarized points but theres forums, youtube comments etc that said the same basically. IF you don't want to smear anything, well, be careful with what people say... they did it themselves sweetie. Do you have links to prove it wrong? to prove that they dont spread any hate and its just peace and love?? Ill wait :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:54 AM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:07 PM
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even if its easier doesn't mean that they will... My female friends don't sleep around usually, but my male friends did it a lot. Like, every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:44 PM
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Why not possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:41 PM
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I admire you, honestly, enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:43 PM
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nope, a slut is a slut, who wants an overused pencil that no one promoted to husband?? No one wanted him!! Why would I want the leftovers that no one wanted . Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:25 PM
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nope. I have seen plenty of women with a history of hookups having long term relationships with really nice men, they are married now. PLENTY Your projection has no power here I am afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:23 PM
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for you maybe, and for some women too, they can also decide not to be with a slutty man. Its exactly the same. No one forces you to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:19 PM
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Actually, divorce lawyers agree that a lot of men don't put enough effort on the relationships, that's why divorces happen. ME? Demonstrated what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:43 PM
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WRONG. All parties involved need to put effort. Maintaining a relationship is the hardest part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:34 PM
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No, I don't need to understand your dating preferences. Why should I?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:32 PM
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Yes I will define what is important to ME in a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:29 PM
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No I dont. Who wants a tiny overused pencil that no one wanted to promote? ewwwwww (see, we can do it too)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:26 PM
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sounds like you never had a healthy relationship... sounds a very sad way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:22 PM
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nah, not all men are so insecure to care so much about it. The only one who get a pass would be for religious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:19 PM
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this guys .. omg
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:12 PM
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no, I don't want an overused pencil that no one wanted to promote to husband. I dont want my man to be a whore. I can do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:11 PM
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they aren't wrong things. Every person has different priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:05 PM
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No sweetie, I don't give a damn about what some men want. Everyone has different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:04 PM
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Good for you, I wouldn't date single dads either, or dads in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:52 PM
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they never make sense, they just want to blame women for absolutely everything to avoid any sort of accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:03 PM
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For both sides, yes. Some men bring nothing but house work in a relationship, why bother with those. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:52 PM
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I do know. And I do not give a damn about what some men's preferences are. I do not care at all in the slightest. Yo can have all the preferences that you want. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:49 PM
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I see your point and I kinda agree. But my SO is my best friend and we do everything together because we want to. I prefer his company than others and he is the same with me. We have friends in common, and we do go out with them, but we prefer just each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:27 PM
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no, because natural selection. Just the good ones will continue. Not the mediocre ones that no one wants. Read a book. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:23 PM
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sure buddy, fearmongering wont work here my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:17 PM
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how is bad for society? then tell men to keep up with those standards and not be mediocre
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:16 PM
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no its not, who wants an overused pencil, also it would tell me that it doesn't want to commit, maybe cheats or no one wanted him enough to be promoted to husband. See? we can do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:08 PM
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well, that's their problem, how does it affect you? It shouldn't. If they are happy single, good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:03 PM
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yup, this is it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:58 PM
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the fearmongering again. "oh you better lower your standards because High value men will never commit to you" Nonsense, my standards went higher and higher with each relationship. And I had no problem with committed men. Ever. Ladies, never settle for mediocrity, its better to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:52 PM
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ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:26 PM
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yes it is, exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:25 PM
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no one is stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:12 PM
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It can also be the other way around. Its usually men who have the higher body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:06 PM
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Well the people I dated weren't insecure or care about it. I wouldn't had dated them otherwise. People who cares so much about others past are a red flag for me. I wouldn't even gave them a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:14 PM
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Everyone should. Some people think that once you have one, work is done, its not, maintaining it is where you need to put the most effort
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:37 AM
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some women should have higher standards and don't settle for mediocrity , yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:27 AM
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I am realistic as I meet all of my standards. I expect to be treated like a queen as I treat my partner like a king, I love to treat them and pamper them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:12 AM
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What did I misunderstood?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:10 AM
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My high standards are not just physical, I care more about personality. where do I need to put effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:10 AM
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nah , not my strategy, if I see competition I don't care anymore. I don't chase or play games. If he doesn't put effort, bye bye. When a guy says lower your standards usually mean that themselves don't meet those standards.. and want a way to meet them. Same when they try to humble women, they try to lower their self esteem down to have a chance or feel better about themselves. I have incredibly high standards and I am not lowering them. Thank you. I'm not settling up for mediocrity. Did it once…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:49 AM
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a hookup is a hookup, no promotions to boyfriend. There is a reason that they will stay as a hookup. I will not put much effort into it more than respect and having fun. That's it. Now , boyfriend material gets all the perks. I like to treat my partners as a king. I had 4 LTR, and all 4 got me a ring, and even years later I still got messages of oohh you are the one that got away. I guess I did my job well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:01 AM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:16 AM
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in reality , a lot of men don't think that. You are projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:57 AM
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even if its true, its not women's fault that some men have no standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:52 AM
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My experience is the opposite, women have a hard time with beauty standards, perfect body, aging etc Instagram can be hurtful with all the models and comparing themselves to them. Their self esteem can be damaged. And I have seen men below average with a huge ego thinking they are a catch. Lets remember all the ones scoring Margot robbie as a "mid"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:12 AM
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we are talking about violence, murder, rape... not just oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:52 AM
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it does affect more as a tantrum is not the same as throwing punches, the difference is how its expressed... and women don't express it destroying things or getting into fights as often as men. My point still stands. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:51 AM
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Never had to. I have always been approached IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:03 PM
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Its not, it sounds manipulative and a guilt trip, even if I was attracted to this person this would make my attraction disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:18 PM
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some tried, and it backfired. An example, a guy "pretending" to have lots of attention from other women to show me that I had to "compete". Told him if I liked competition, I would have tried at the olympics. Another one, the hard to get . This one disappears for long periods of time and then appears again saying it was busy. So I disappeared completely. I don't play silly games.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:07 PM
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I didn't started that conversation, not sure why you are telling me.. I just corrected some information that was wrong. Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:56 PM
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I just need to google search a bit to see that that movement spreads a lot of hate instead of positivity amongst men, which is a shame as its not helpful at all, they spread hate and bitterness instead of doing positive things for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:24 PM
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the men complaining about not being chosen here , have proven to be quite horrible towards women with their comments. Self proclaimed nice guys are the worst. I value more personality than looks. Does this mean that Ill just go for personality? No. I have incredibly high standards when it comes to dating. And I don't hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:35 AM
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It happened to me a few times and we ended up dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:13 AM
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if close to 50% have been arrested? well that's a huge number, don't you think? Why aren't you addressing that? That between 40-50% of men could be criminals? Why taking the victim route? Its pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:10 AM
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sooo, men are the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:51 AM
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wonder why, could be the global violence against women? Every woman I know has had some sort of abuse from men. Every single one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:49 AM
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which groups of women? Show me your source for that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:47 AM
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there is evidence When women find it hard to talk about difficult feelings, they tend to internalise them. This can lead to depression, eating disorders and self-harm. Men are more likely to act out their feelings through disruptive or anti-social behaviour. On the other hand, some factors protect women’s mental health: they tend to have better social networks than men, find it easier to confide in their friends and are more likely to have been treated for a mental health problem. https://www.me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:39 AM
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for that or for spreading hate and misogyny ? Lets see what internet says : In 2014, Elliot Rodger went on a shooting and stabbing spree, killing six and injuring 14 at the University of California, Santa Barbara. Rodger was a self-proclaimed “incel” (short for involuntary celibate)—a group of young men who feel furious at their perceived rejection by women and meet online to discuss and spread their ideology. Their toxic misogyny fuels a hatred for women that has led to several recent incidents…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:34 AM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:28 AM
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well no shit, women weren't allowed to have an education or careers for a large portion of history and even nowadays in some country they aren't allowed. You guys didn't let us play and then laugh when we couldnt play? Its dumb. Latest data says that women are more educated each generation, and surpassing men lately as a lot of young men don't want to study. About queens : Female rule was sometimes virulently opposed on exactly the grounds that women made for weak leaders, who were incapable of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:16 AM
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But I was right as I had said the consequences are less. See violent crime... which gender does it most, murder? rape? if you guys want to treat each other like crap, do it, but don't include people who doesn't want to be included into it. Men are often their worst enemies.. No wonder why mental health is bad and violent crime up between them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:58 AM
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No, but men throw more tantrums and get aggressive and with worst consequences way more than women. Specially at work. I've seen it so many times. Very unprofessional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:28 AM
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Anything about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:19 AM
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Of course because anger is a feeling 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:19 AM
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Nope, they get diagnosed more because they actually care to seek for help instead of doing something stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:17 AM
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Tell that to men here then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:16 AM
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The leabian thing that has been debunked ? Becayse they sidnt specify gender or time of the abuse meaning lifetime? And murder? Rapes? Because men do 98% of those
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:15 AM
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There's a men's mental health crisis... and the numbers of suicide are quite high on men compared to women... i don't think you guys are resolving much... sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:41 PM
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Anger is a feeling. I don't see many women punching holes in the wall because sports...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:16 PM
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eww no , not aggressive, yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:24 AM
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How was I rude? I just asked you to elaborate your question. Where is the problem? How many languages do you speak? Its usually people who just speak English the ones who mock others. You made a question missing some words, we were talking about nonconventional attractive people and you forgot to put the word "non" making the whole question weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:46 AM
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I am so happy for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:24 AM
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her experience matches up with a lot of ladies here, what's the problem,?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:17 AM
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well, its obviously different to each person , what I find attractive other people might not. No point in answering that. Plus English isnt my first language. No need to be rude about it, you could have been more specific instead of talking in a very basic level. And, I am pretty sure you missed a couple words in your question that made it strange
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:12 AM
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maybe, makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:57 AM
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It might come from not having as many insecurities, I don't know . But it is interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:04 PM
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I can't as I don't understand your question. Use your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 01:59 PM
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what type of differences are we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:11 PM
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On my experience I had non conventionally attractive guys being horrible partners, insecure, jealous, cheaters , manipulative etc.. and very attractive guys being really good partners, I have no idea why , but I also think it depends on the person more than the looks. I assume that not being insecure is a big plus on how someone acts in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:57 AM
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this has to be a troll... the chase is off, good, I don't chase or play stupid games, If I want to play games Ill just turn my xbox on. Not having competition gives me peace of mind, I love that. Im sorry but sometimes ending up in a dead bedroom is the mans fault, could be because the woman needs to mother him as he doesn't do anything around the house more than eat and sleep or he is just bad at sex, or selfish. If you are good at it, chances are, your partner will engage often. If you are cra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:46 AM
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and don't care about their partners happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:15 PM
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oh Im ok with those, delicious xD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:51 PM
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stoooop T__T
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:07 PM
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my first trauma, next, lion king
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:50 PM
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I thought this was going to be a cute story... T__T
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:31 PM
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its not, if you love someone you wouldn't stalk them, its hurtful, you don't hurt the people you really love. You wouldn't do anything to harm them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:02 PM
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are you saying that stalking is good?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:02 PM
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so we have crap or doble crap, yeah no thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:49 AM
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this might ruffle some feathers but every passport bro that I've met was quite a horrible person that no one wanted to be around. I used to work in a luxury port area so I had met a few. All the same type, horrible to be around, old and ugly bringing this young ladies as an arm candy. Some girls looked genuinely scared , others were spending their money like there's no tomorrow. Never seen a happy , normal relationship. Im not saying they don't exist, but I don't think is often. This men treated…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:43 AM
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both are crap, one fakes and lies and the other one is bad. Its so funny to me when men say nice guys, how do you know that they are nice in a relationship? did you had one with them? no? then you don't know. Plus self proclaimed nice guys are usually the worst...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:44 AM
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most men cant fix their own car, otherwise mechanics will have very little work to do if that's what the case... mechanics don't exist just for women... And you are comparing not having enough strength to carry heavy stuff to not wanting to clean properly, which is a basic basic hygiene skill that even kids do...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:56 AM
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I don't care at all, good for him for spicing things up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:12 AM
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Of course, you need to know what your partner likes and dislikes and plan accordingly, I think a lot of men are mistaking this (planning accordingly to your partner ) with doing something over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:19 AM
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waiting for their response here with my coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:59 AM
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what a waste of time, effort, thats why divorce exist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:53 PM
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no one is forcing you to marry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:39 PM
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we can see that, which is why your dating life prob suck.. you should stay away from women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:05 PM
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what a sad life, I hope you heal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:43 PM
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I mean.. men commit more crimes than women, if we talk about murders is 98% committed by men , men are their own worse enemies. I dont think misandry is worse than that...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:36 PM
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so.. men are horrible? is that what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:25 PM
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what are you going to cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:51 PM
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Amazing! Ill try and remember
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:43 PM
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I don't consider myself romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:41 PM
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talk about empathy but your advice is to treat people badly and being vengeful instead of leaving, right...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:26 PM
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it does.. that's why you are so pressed about it.. hit a nerve huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:42 PM
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yeah it does, home wreckers are also at fault,not as much, but also and that's what you are, a side chick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:36 PM
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My statement stays , regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:25 PM
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that says a lot about you too, nnot respect for your fellow men? where is the bro code?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:49 AM
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Never liked the bad boy type, I prefer the good guy so I don't think I changed much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:07 AM
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It's wrong if you hurt others ..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:09 PM
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it would be crappy people, why would you want to be around crappy people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:20 PM
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oh no , they were quite attractive lots of times, but became ugly because of the crappy personality. No one wants to be around people full of themselves, so boring
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:01 AM
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nice doesn't mean weak, hope this helps Every time the "alpha" came to flirt with me with his ego and his asshole behavior , I laughed, put him and his ego to the ground and left. Its good because they filter themselves out so keep doing it, its good for the ones around you to be a walking red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:31 AM
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another delulu post thinking that young women will just melt for their bald heads, beer bellies and limp dick.. the only reason of younger women could be choosing this is "money" Men peak at 50?? hahaha sure buddy, if that makes you sleep better at night. Most men age way worse, they don't take care of themselves, gym, skin care etc... nothing, genetics is a thing but that's a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:24 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:57 PM
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I meant in this conversation.. but anyway Women give that advice ? Or is it other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:35 PM
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I domt know which post is that , can you give an example of what you considered low class ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:34 PM
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No one says fake it..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:28 PM
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Examples of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:50 PM
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Then date men. Easy peasy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:14 PM
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Skin care, gym , style are also ways to improve, and personality of course
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:13 PM
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Another post shaming women instead of mediocrity. IF someone likes you just because of your money or what you provide, that's on you. IF you were nice, fun etc people will also be attracted to that. What else do you bring to the table? Looks, personality? If you have none of that and you just have money or resources, what do you expect? Work on your personality or looks to be likable on those areas too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:55 AM
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what laws exactly? because when a murderer gets caught , it gets caught regardless of gender. Lets see the latest news , in Congo around 150 women were raped and burned alive by men from the same prison ,instead of escaping they decided that is better to do that. Is there a women equivalent? no. Gisele Pelicot case, husband drugs her and let strangers rape his wife for years. Which women has done something similar? OR how the majority of serial killers are men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:41 PM
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they usually do, and either get ignored or the other person gets very defensive and nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:41 PM
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W- .... Where do you think statistics come from? 70% is the statistic. No, its a study done on a bunch of couples that participated in said study, but not statistics of yearly victims done by the police ... That's wildly, wildly incorrect. To the point I'm surprised you would even believe that figure. Its not, that is the total figure in general. Of all victims, not just DV. All violence is wrong regardless of gender, im fact men are their own worst enemies ... by statistics we proved which gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:39 PM
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because its old and it doesn't specify which type of violence. It says : Regarding injury, men were more likely to inflict injury than were women. Not only that, this is just a study, not statistics. Give me statistics. And speaking of violence, which gender commits murder of their spouse more? Rape? Injuries? Last time I checked 98% of rape and murder is done by men. 98!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:30 PM
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24 years ago??? emmm not relevant for today?? things change so much in 24 years, ill wait for the new one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:12 PM
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good for you, if your partner doesn't care about you, get rid of them. Not every relationship is the same, next time you will see the red flags earlier on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:10 PM
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sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:43 PM
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70% ?? where is your source? because a quick google search says very different In the year ending March 2023, data supplied from 28 police forces showed that the victim was female in 73.5% of domestic abuse-related crimes recorded by the police, compared with 26.5% of domestic abuse-related crimes where the victim was male (ONS, 2023a). Over 80% (83%) of high frequency victims (more than 10 crimes) are women. (From a study of data from the Crime Survey for England and Wales, a nationally represe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:53 AM
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or therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:40 AM
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and women do the same for men, in fact, there's many videos of women making Christmas happen and not receiving anything in return... same for birthdays... some men don't put any effort and wonder why get dumped. Why wouldnt want to make your partner happy and treat them, with that mentality, stay single, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:04 AM
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people usually stop for a reason, lets be real, many bad lovers or selfish, of course people will not be interested. If people don't want intimacy, there's usually a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:08 AM
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sounds like excuses to be lazy to be honest... it doesn't have to be expensive or even cost money if you are creative. I love to treat my SO as much as I can and do things for him. It baffles me how many people in this sub don't want to do nice things for their partner and treat relationships like a business or just to get something in return. Well, I guess that's why there's many single ones..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:34 AM
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nah, if the personality is meh, it doesn't matter , its a bye bye for me, and I am someone working in the celebrity industry..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:07 PM
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I was dating this guy for over 4 months and one night he had a meltdown over a family member. I listened to him, cry with him, we hugged and we fell asleep. This made me feel so much more close to him and I was very happy that he could feel vulnerable with me and that I was his safe space. I married this man and I would give my life for him. I didn't lose any respect for him, quite the opposite, made me appreciate him even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:17 PM
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yes, constantly, not just online, IRL too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:52 AM
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very funny thing to me is that out of all abusers that I had met, all of them had a group of men friends where some knew that he was an abuser and didn't care at all, no one called them out, ever , OR they had no idea because apparently "its a nice guy". And this is the problem with men today, some are sympathizers to abusers, others ignore the red flags (but to women they will tell us that red flags are always obvious) and the minority, the group of men who actually do something about it. Prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:06 AM
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Its implied, I do, I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:41 AM
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And who has the highest murder rate? Which is also DV? Plus the lesbian thing has been debunked anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:08 PM
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I never ever had a pleasant experience with a cold approach. The majority can't take a no thank you , for an answer and get very pissy and even aggressive with rejection. To me its not rocket science. Read the room. If she isn't looking at you or smiling or something, leave her alone . I have been approached when i was clearly working, busy... hell i have even seen men approaching eomen at funerals... glad that is dying out. The cold approach i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:45 PM
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they are obsessed, but most of them are singletons, which is the funniest part
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:40 PM
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I dont need to guide anyone, they are already responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:40 PM
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You can visit the sub whenwomenrefuse to see what happens sometimes when women reject men, I dont see men having the same problems when rejecting women... How many men have been killed by a rejection compared to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:27 PM
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The first 3 times I said no thank you politely, they always insist, I'm sorry but number 4 isnt going to be pretty. I was never rude to someone who didn't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:23 PM
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I had seen it here too, that's why people associate it with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:11 PM
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but a lot are, so he is making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:53 PM
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a lot are obsessed, there's a redpill podcaster that its super obsessed with it and most of his guests are the same, saying they want min 5 kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:52 PM
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nah, I want my SO to be able to be comfortable enough to be himself and let out this silly , sensitive or whatever side.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:05 AM
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If men are so good at spotting red flags in other men, why aren't you calling them out? There's a international emergency of violence against women and I don't see you guys spotting this guys who are abusers, rapists and worse.... 1 in 3 women had some form of abuse, that's a lot of men commiting them. But let me tell you something, its usually one of 2 cases. One, the friends of the abusers have no idea and they act shocked when the truth is revealed, or they don't care , at all. Very few littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:53 AM
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A lot of times men don't even realize that they are being creepy. I had some experiences where I called them out and after explaining they were like ohh I see, Yeah I came across creepy. Of course if there is no reason its bad, but most of the time that I thought someone is creepy they were genuinely acting creepy or dodgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:41 AM
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It's not shallow, and the ones who complain don't even want a family yet and are usually broke, so bitterness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:50 AM
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I mean, those are pretty obvious ones that are very easy to see, and if they are ignored, the person ignoring them must be quite immature with not much experience. Thank you for the examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:46 AM
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Can you mention some examples of this red flags that you see?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:12 PM
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I never seen it happened, specially if they weren't attracted already. In my case I will loose interest immediately. I don't play games nor will I compete over a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:04 AM
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Horrible parenting and probably in big need of therapy to do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:38 PM
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I specify saying toxic ones. Maybe you didn't read it . If someone feels called out... oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:02 PM
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I did all that and most women I know too. Maybe you are choosing bad ones.. skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:56 PM
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That's not how relationships work. Somedays is 50 50 other days are 30 70 for one or the other. Not everything can be equal always That's silly. Certainly I'm not taking advice on how relationships work from the singletons here than no one wants because of their toxicity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:33 PM
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A compliment is ok, what i dislike is how so many men can't handle rejection after the compliment and start being nasty and even aggressive. I prefer when women compliment me, it feels more genuine and makes me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:15 PM
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Yeah. Because treating your partner nicely is bad because? Hahaha then you guys complained about the loneliness epidemic but I can see a lot of crappy partners here. A lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:08 PM
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Stalky vibes... or Huge ego thinking they are super duper amazing as they were a God or something , also sexual comments just as we started talking or alpha nonsense talk. And yes , the ones that I'm talking about were quite handsome and had good physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:28 AM
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Some people discover their sexuality later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:25 AM
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No. You do everything for the person you love. Real love doesn't have authority, submission or any of that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:22 AM
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Yes we can. There's normal men out there that appreciate their partners and care for them. Thank you for outing yourself out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:04 AM
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Nah. Anyone can be creepy. Met a lot of creepy good looking guys .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:08 PM
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Nah, I don't like to be stared. Doesn't matter the looks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:06 PM
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Yup 😅 I can see it coming
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:49 PM
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I'm projecting what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:58 PM
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Or yours mine . But there's statistics that prove mine where most couples share expenses nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:22 PM
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Sounds like you are projecting tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:21 PM
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Or the woman . If you choose to be with someone like that it's on you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:19 PM
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Alpha makes me puke. I will never date one of those. Not worth it even for one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:19 PM
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So according to you there's a lot of weak men? Well then maybe they shouldn't be on power positions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:53 PM
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Then don't get married . Easy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:50 PM
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Yeah.. but the ones more worried about gold diggers are the ones without gold to dig..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:49 PM
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joint savings account? I dont think is that difficult..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:15 AM
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a lot of couples split expenses, the majority that I know, do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:13 AM
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so you don't value coming home and not needing to clean, cook or make decisions around the house like what to cook, grocery list, laundry and not even counting kids etc so you can focus just on enjoying life and work? Then you wonder why people get divorced, for this among other things. For not valuing what your partner does for you and taking it for granted. Men can focus on their careers because the mental load and work at home its usually done by women. No one forces you to marry. Don't do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:12 AM
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Not a minority though as statistics say
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:06 AM
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hahahahahaha that's all I can say, jesus, what a horrible mentality to have. No one leaves happy marriages or loose the respect without any reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:05 AM
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"prenup"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:52 AM
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built to fail? just if people don't put effort, relationships need to be taken care of. No one leaves happy marriages. If you don't want to marry, then don't, no one is forcing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:37 AM
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how do you know, are you in the mind of everyone that says it? because every time in real life that I asked, they finally confess that they just wanted to bang someone. So.. there's variety, but why arent they honest? say you want romance, or sex, or company, but dont play victim just saying loneliness when you mean other things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:24 AM
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when did I said that? what a boring conversation twisting words. Well, Some people really deserve to be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:30 PM
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oh so you collaborate with nursing houses? right.. before you said you didn't do anything for lonely people more than talk online, now apparently you do ... I mean... not interested in debating with people that will lie to prove a point, so boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:28 PM
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this is the difference. well said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:22 PM
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it can be terrible and a problem yes. many people have said this already, now what
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:20 PM
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so... you do nothing... at all , you don't care about lonely people then. There a lot of elderly people who are lonely, probably the most lonely.... do you help them??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:40 PM
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it matters as its a lie? Just saying im lonely instead of I want intimacy and that makes me feel lonely. Big difference. You just proved my point, its horniness more than loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:39 PM
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so .. nothing? because admitting that there is a problem isnt making these people less lonely, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:51 PM
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because a big chunk of people say loneliness when they mean horniness... so have a go at those
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:31 PM
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so what do you do to help this lonely people? what do you do personally? You care so much, you must do quite a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:28 PM
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nope, you need someone qualified, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:17 PM
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if people is alone, there is usually something going on, nice people have always people around, friends , relationships, if people don't want to be around someone, I'm sorry, there is usually a reason. Every time that I saw someone complained about loneliness, that person was crappy and unpleasant to be around, every time, but that's just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:02 PM
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targets of violence by who? who is committing this violence in majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:56 PM
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then don't complain when others are lazy about your problems who are way less severe. You cant ask for sympathy and empathy when you arent giving anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:11 PM
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sources on those claims? Ill wait
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:09 PM
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not as rare or "always reasonable" as women make them out to be. Whether women like it or not, this influences men largely. And men killing and raping women doesn't influence women? There's a global emergency of violence against women in a lot of countries and men keep saying but what about me? You want us to care so much about you yet a huge amount of men do nothing to stop this violence against women. They are the perpetrators of this violence, or the witnesses that do nothing but very very fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:02 PM
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you don't die without it. not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:50 PM
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sure, because you know it, but dont want to admit it. The reality is there for you to see and you tried to hold into science. There is average couples EVERYWHERE, that's why they are called average. And people usually date within their looks. Come on, what type of couples do you see daily?? dont be shy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:57 PM
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Don't you see them? so what type of couples do you see daily? In the supermarket?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:44 PM
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this is based on first glance, you cant know someone on speed dating, so looks will be the first glance.. onviously, it doesnt mean that when they get to know them better will choose just based on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:08 PM
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You can see it IRL , everywhere, your average couples
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:06 PM
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I did clicked and I didn't see ages, and one that did was on quite young people. No need to be so emotional because people is telling you that you are wrong. Many women in here did tell you their experiences that proved you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:55 AM
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I haven't seen any debunks at all. Most of the links say that physical attraction is important AT FIRST GLANCE. And the water is wet! Also where are the ages of this studies? Because if you ask a 18 year old and a 40 year old, their preferences would be different. So sweetie, your studies make no sense at all. If you cant understand the simple concept of personality over looks, that's on you, keep living in your little world where you think that you know everything about others people preference…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:31 AM
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Its not, I don't need it, I want it , but I don't need it. This just fuels entitlement to be honest... Its not a necessity, its a reward. You deserve it, you get it, you don't? well, be better then and work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:19 AM
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I had trouble with both, but the problems with men were way bigger. With women it was a few nasty looks and comments and talking behind the back and men also did this but adding sexual harassment, or being awfully nasty, condescending and vindictive once rejected. Men tried to sabotage women work and tried to get them fired just for rejection. Also men are usually more unprofessional than woman in my experience, and this creates conflict too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:05 AM
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Haven't you read them? there's lots, you even debated with them, why are you acting surprised? My proof is my experience, I don't need anything else. Answer the question why are you here talking about what women want? So weird.. shouldn't you be doing something better with your time for your partner? Seems like a big waste of time. No one in a happy relationship will do this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:57 AM
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I dont understand your question
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:22 AM
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the actual research doesn't prove much as other commenters said already. So I will stay with my opinion and the opinions of the women I know. I wasn't talking about YOU BTW . Then if you aren't , why are you here talking about what women want? So weird.. shouldn't you be doing something better with your time for your partner? Seems like a big waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:20 AM
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There we go again... a bunch of men saying that women lie because they aren't chosen by who they want. It's funny that the majority eho said this are a bunch of single dudes. Single dudes giving advice on how to get kitty cat 🤣 but the worst are the ones who listens to them. To me personality is more important than looks , ehat does it mean? I prefer an average guy with a nice personality than a hot guy with crappy personality. A hot guy can be turned down for being boring or whatever and a very…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:11 PM
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who said anything about skin color? I said through history. Maybe read next time. again comparing the lack of freedom to not getting pussy, is insane and so out of touch. "I dong get pussy!! this is what lack of freedom feels like!! poor me" what a joke the ones who don't get kitty cat, they don't deserve it, thats why they dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:41 PM
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I did introduced people and a few even got married. But I must say I am very selective with friendships, so if I introduced them, its because both are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:22 PM
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that isnt a source wtf Slaves suffered extremely high mortality. Half of all slave infants died during their first year of life, twice the rate of white babies. And while the death rate declined for those who survived their first year, it remained twice the white rate through age 14. https://www.digitalhistory.uh.edu/disp\_textbook.cfm?smtid=2&psid=3040#:\~:text=Slaves%20suffered%20extremely%20high%20mortality,white%20rate%20through%20age%2014. Come on . Millions died because of it through histo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:10 PM
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source that says that the majority of slaves lived long lives? Anyway, comparing freedom to not getting pussy its quite dumb as it cannot be compared.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:44 PM
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it is relevant as you said that slaves in rome were well treated, they weren't, link to prove it. And the original conversation is comparing freedom to not having pussy which is the whole post. continuing with slavery or freedom is shifting the conversation. You aren't bringing anything interesting to the debate. Just boring nonsense that is not even true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:26 PM
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first of, wrong https://www.pbs.org/empires/romans/empire/slaves\_freemen.html#:\~:text=Most%20slaves%20during%20the%20Roman,slaves%20bought%20outside%20Roman%20territory. slaves well treated hahahahahahahhahaha or you mean well treated in comparison and? it doesn't matter, my point still stands Not having freedom isnt comparable to not having pussy, its a really stupid comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:14 PM
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It can be, malnourishment, exhaustion etc so many roads that lead to it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:45 PM
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why does it need to be the opposite? Its an example
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:44 PM
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this is how it should be, relationships should be like this, when both sides are there to make each other or life's better. I wish you happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:42 PM
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slavery says the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:45 AM
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even his kids don't want anything to do with him and some have even changed their surnames, yeaaah such a good man ... NOT!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:35 AM
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to me he is not handsome anymore, he looks ok for his age, that's it. Plus he is an alleged abuser so it makes him uglier. I didn't say everyone thinks the same as me, but I dont find him attractive. And im sure there's more people who agree, and others that don't. The only one projecting here is you about the looks of the oldies. And yes, that's what I had witnessed. And I had seen a lot. And to me every person taking advantage of someone younger should be shamed, no matter the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:26 AM
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he isnt handsome , he is old , only ones that will approach those men are people wanting their resources, not the man. It will not be love. There is a reason as to why people around the same age, dont want this people, they are quite immature themselves. Every relationship that Ive witnessed with an age gap, has been like this. The older is immature AF and the young just wants to use them. Quite sad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:07 AM
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if you are alone, its on you, be more likable and respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:03 AM
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who wants an old baldy beer belly dude? not many young girls, keep being delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:52 AM
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not always, attraction can be build overtime, If I dont know the person for a few weeks I cannot be attracted as I am more attracted to the mind than the body
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:40 AM
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you cant compare sickness to not getting kitty cat, its pathetic and desperate tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:32 AM
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born in a conservative family, I would never date tories or hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:31 PM
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omg this comments... so selfish, why wouldn't you want to do something that makes your partner happy, why wouldn't want you to show them how thankful you are for them. No wonder why there's so many singletons here...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:36 PM
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I don't care much about it, you need to teach them anyway what you like. It doesn't matter how experience he is if he isnt doing what it works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:48 PM
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sorry to hear that, I have the opposite experience, men aren't good friends for me. They just want one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:01 PM
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I had one once, they knew about it, I was always very clear about my feelings. they stayed and competed until I made my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:57 PM
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look at the difference on international womens day vs international mens day. All year around I see men complaining about why womens day exist and saying what about men. Half of them dont even know that it already exists. Not only that, on mens day , no one gives a damn, specially men. This year I did nice things for the hubby and he went to work saying happy mens day, women celebrated with him whilst men basically laughed at him...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:48 PM
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so what do you do to help your fellow men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:43 PM
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nope, but you sound a bit triggered taking this so personal, wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:25 PM
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quite different, as some men give their attention to animals, babies, pies and even dead bodies... anything with a hole
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:11 PM
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never saw a woman whose husband is really good at sex and have a connection have a dead bedroom. 100% his fault that she doesn't want to sleep with him. If she doesn't want to, there's a problem. Who would reject someone good?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:01 PM
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horrible husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:20 PM
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You are the one who seems to hate them . As you don't care for male victims of other men. What do you do to help them? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:55 PM
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in my country is recognized, and still, 99% of perpetrators men, and they do this to other men too. Why don't you care about those men that are victims of other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:43 PM
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nah, just one cared a lot and it was toxic AF , immature and abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:10 PM
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nonsense, its what I did and I found an amazing one that treats me like a queen. Ladies, don't give up and don't date men obsessed with this. Its a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:48 AM
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if they get what they want , what is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:15 AM
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I don't care at all about size. It's how they use it. Men seem too care more about it. Never heard a woman just wanting a huge one. In fact I heard complaints about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:16 PM
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Because the times that I did i made sure that I read the room so the person wanted to be approached. They smiled , or gave me other clues . It's pretty easy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:48 PM
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oh I wasn't subtle, they knew , not to worry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 05:59 PM
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why not? its the same subject
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 05:57 PM
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no its not, as it happens a lot that men become aggressive. I have encounter this several times in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:55 PM
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I can have high standards on my town too, or the neighboring ones, or university... lots of places
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:45 PM
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attractive guys are sometimes worse, as they have this huge ego aura around them that is just ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:42 PM
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theres a sub called when women refuse where a lot of them have been killed for just saying no, show me how many men have been killed for the same reason in comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:03 AM
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nah, looks fade whilst personality stays, just wanting looks is very immature
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:01 AM
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It was the same when I was single. If I wanted to be approached, I will let them know or I will approach myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:21 AM
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wish that you will find a person someday that makes you feel like this, that you don't have eyes for anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:36 AM
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As a woman. a big part of me not wanting to be approached by anyone is not having to deal with rejection. A lot of men become nasty, aggressive and some can be even dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:32 AM
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wrong, I don't want to be approached by anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:09 AM
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not screen taps, but women still had high standards, why is that a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:17 PM
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Nope, I said exactly what I meant, but the only thing that you do is to change the subject, I guess no arguments to counter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:44 PM
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yeah, a few tried, my next move is to look at them up and down, they usually stop, if they continue.. I dont even reply back
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:56 PM
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no , I mean to not change the subject, quite a rude thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:54 PM
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that's the discussion here too, men complaining how easy was to flirt in the 80s and 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:53 PM
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You sound jealous of this other men, that's why you are trying to bring them down. Because they have something that you don't. Very toxic mentality against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:00 PM
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Most couples I see they are, source?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:53 AM
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nah, it has always been the case. Years ago too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:28 AM
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this is why I stopped being nice to them. Without failure they all try something else and some even throw a tantrum when I reject them. I'm a bitch you say ? sure, Ill show you one. I had no problems since. Resting bitch face for the win
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:20 AM
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I mean, if you care so much, why don't you open a debate post instead of trying to change the subject here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:12 AM
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nope, a dated a few, not just one, and it didn't worked because he cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:01 AM
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not necessarily, I have dated people that they weren't my type by the looks but they had an amazing personality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:11 AM
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You dont know if this good men are good in a relationship if you didnt have one with them. You are just assuming. Men arent going to act the same with you, than with their romantic partners. Obvously. In fact a lot of abusers , even murderers ! are called "good men " by society. Typical tv news, a murderer killed someone and the neighbors saying omg I cant believe it! he was just so nice! This happens with your average abusers too, their friends don't even know a lot of times. So there's no way …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:17 PM
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for you maybe its important, for me its not. I prefer personality over looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:12 PM
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you are assuming people behave in the same way with you , and their possible partners, which is a big mistake. Ill repeat the questions Have you been in an abusive relationship as a woman? How do you know that what you called a good guy was a good guy in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:21 PM
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wrong, most cases start as a normal loving relationship. And then when theres feelings involved, they start showing a little the true colors. You dont need to be a master manipulator to do this. Its very easy. Not many people will enter a relationship with someone horrible. Its not the majority, at all. Also what you said about brilliant or good looking, this a very common in narcisissists, they are well groomed, good jobs... Have you been in an abusive relationship as a woman? How do you know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:02 PM
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then dont surround yourself with shallow people? I prefer the good personality. Looks fade anyway, personality dont
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:05 PM
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its quite a big number though, men commit around 98% of all rapes and murders for example
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:02 PM
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how do you know that they are decent as partners? did you date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:00 PM
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just men online say this nonsense, real life proofs different
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:59 PM
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I dont see this a lot in women but in men. Women complaints are more about personality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:16 PM
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so men are the problem. thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:27 PM
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then men should be actually likable and decent to be chosen. Not many of those, thats the prolem, so go and tell men to be decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:25 PM
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thats the case for all human beings. If here is no attraction... not much to do. Now, people are attracted to different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:23 PM
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I don't think they need to be high maintenance or cat ladies, I think bitter and sad people like to bring others down to feel better about themselves, regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:38 PM
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not necessarily if they dont find what they want , they arent dating anyone. They are looking, but still single.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:35 PM
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and how is this your problem? why do you care so much about what women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:34 PM
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You sound confused... the bar being in hell its not about men xD its about women having a low bar, in hell. luckily a lot of women are rising that bar, having higher standards than the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:27 PM
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what potential? Having cats doesnt stop you from having an amazing career. And a solution to what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:21 PM
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How do you know? Do you know them all?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:55 PM
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sorry I meant they joined and move on with their lives, its not like they are constanly shouting through the roofs telling the world. They just talk about it if the conversation comes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:25 PM
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you aren't answering the question. I also see examples on this studies daily in real life with for example the elderly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:19 PM
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mediocrity is a big chunk of the dating market. No one made it their identity, they just agreed with it and move on with their lifes in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:17 PM
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it should be , thats why we keep saying that the bar is in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:10 PM
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then why men on here are complaining so much about it? about not getting dates, about women having too high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:07 PM
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how being a cat lady harms women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:04 PM
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do you have any proof to counter it? or is just your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:02 PM
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thats what you tell to yourself? I have a few friends who joined, all really good looking. A few live with their bestie and have a lovely life. Their reason? not settling again for mediocrity. good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:59 PM
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I have seen more and more lately. A few friends of mine decided to join 4b and started living with their bestie. And they are loving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:56 PM
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I prefer personality over looks, what does this mean? Obviously at first glance you are just attracted to appearances, and then after that its when personality comes, here it can be a total failure or not ( attractive guy with good personality) good, (attractive guy with crap personality) bye bye. 2nd scenario, someone who is not your first choice at first glance (not your usual type) but personality shines, then why not, lets try. Personality sucks, bye bye. Appearances are just a little extra …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:18 PM
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AGAIN, mediocrity doesnt equal average, no one talked about average, why are you offended
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:32 AM
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mediocrity doesn't equal to average (and I can assume that you are talking about looks). mediocrity is crap partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:18 AM
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you tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:17 AM
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did I say that? maybe you got confused. You see I said people, meaning everyone...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:16 AM
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well women didn't had access to education and important roles, imagine if instead of banning them , we would have worked together, we would be so much advanced now. The fact that they decided to ban half the population is horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:15 AM
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you do "looses" it but theres benefits to it as you dont pay taxes in donations. They dont care about loosing it, they are rich already
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:13 AM
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So many men will do this jobs anyway then. No problem at all. If one throws a tantrum because he can't get kitty cat, a smarter one will take the job. At the end the weaker ones will dissappear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:18 PM
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By not choosing mediocrity? Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:16 PM
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Women weren't allowed to do a lot of "men's jobs" big difference. Men excluded women. Today, women do those jobs too. And if men don't want to do them, they will need to raise salaries in order to bring more workers. And for sure they will find people who wants to earn money instead of not working because they can't get kitty cat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:53 PM
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Then they better step up their game or they will not be chosen. People shouldn't settle for mediocrity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:46 PM
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So men can't live without women? They are desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:42 PM
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Do you need to pay tax on donations?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:41 PM
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Do you need to pay tax on donations?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:41 PM
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And? What will happen to them? To this men? No jobs? Or what
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:07 PM
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Not in my country . Plus, you dont seem to understand the reason as to why they do it to DEDUCT taxes. You don't pay taxes in what you donate. "Donate" because a lot of times they donate to charities that are owned by friends etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:53 PM
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No idea, but I wish men were more like women. At least we wouldnt have so many horrible crimes going on. Why men do this? Can you answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:24 PM
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1 mill its nothing for this people xD thats the difference. You cant calculate it with a mill , thats breadcrumbs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:23 PM
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for us, no, for rich people , big advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:20 PM
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morals, dont feel the need to do horrible things. you tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:39 PM
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its to not pay as much taxes. You deduct it. Almost every country does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:38 PM
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yes it does, it deducts a big chunk from your yearly taxes, almost every country does it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:37 PM
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Regarding crime, women are less likely to have to resort to street crime to provide for their families, since they aren’t usually the breadwinners. Very convenient that you talk about just street crime to provide bla bla, instead of talking about murders, rape, serial killers, torture.... which the big majority are men Women dont commit those acts at the same rate, at all, and there is a huge difference. Men commit 99% of those last time I checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:56 PM
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lets be honest here, a lot of rich people donate to avoid a chunk of taxes. Where you can see who really cares is with charity unpaid labour, which surprise surprise , numbers are bigger on women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:45 PM
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there is a difference between being blamed and being given advice to avoid a similar situation in the future. I think when people communicate need to know when to just listen and support and when to give advice. Unsolicited advice is quite frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:37 PM
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if he did everything perfect, which I doubt because no one is, maybe there wasn't attraction. And you can always improve, why is that bad advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:24 PM
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so according to you men cant do anything wrong? they do everything perfect and somehow dont get dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:12 PM
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you just said it, out of a dozen, one had sex. That's not the majority, at all, its a tiny percentage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:42 PM
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there is plenty of videos of men online complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:34 PM
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I am, very happy with my hubby because he is one of the good ones, no one could pay me enough to leave him. No one leaves a happy loving marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:19 PM
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I never met a woman telling lies about it. In fact I know every detail of every fling that my friends had. This post screams insecurity to me, why BC matters so much, jesus, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:46 PM
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nope, no one leaves a happy marriage. End of
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:20 PM
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and who commits this violent crimes in majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:45 PM
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there is a national emergency in uk of violence against women... is that funny for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:06 AM
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another fearmongering post that is just nonsense. The game that you talk about is the same always, there has always been successful men not wanting to commit and banging whatever that has a hole. This ones usually end up in care homes with no one visiting them , ever, just a few settled down with a family and even though, they might end up alone. I am a feminist and I had never had trouble finding love.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:31 AM
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have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:23 PM
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no, I said than anger is ALSO an emotion, which makes a lot of men very emotional. So you think being violent is ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:53 PM
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yeah I understand but when you say the word often... What I see often is women putting boundaries with this men and they dont respecting them. The other one , I haven't seen it, ever, with this I am not saying it doesn't happen, there's always someone who will take advantage of people, scammers for example, but I don't think they are the norm. And of course, people who take advantage of others are horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:04 PM
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in my experience I was always very clear when I rejected someone, but some kept trying doing things for me and when I made myself clear again they laugh it off saying oh no its just friendship I know, I wasn't trying... . And it was bull, because they kept waiting like vultures for a moment of weakness, so who was trying to manipulate who? who was gaslighting who? Hell sometimes I was even rude about it, hurtfully clear about it, and still, some were there , waiting. That's why now if someone te…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:04 PM
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It wasn't a bad idea for me, they always waited and didn't put pressure on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:38 PM
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I do nice things for my friends, I invite them to have dinner, got them gifts, its pretty normal in friendships, or it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:25 PM
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nope, I wouldn't want anyone to put themselves in danger
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:44 PM
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yup, they are very delulu , I was grossed out too. But according to them is just older women being bitter saying this things hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:10 PM
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plenty of women that have met their SO young and still together. Majority that I know eben younger preferred to be in a LTR with someone good than having "fun". In fact, never met a woman that just wanted fun and freedom. Which is different than settling up for someone who is not worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:02 PM
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nah, as you just proved, a lot don't bring anything positive or interesting. Why would I want a bad friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:24 AM
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nope I wouldn't, if it happens natural, ok, but planning it like getting a doctors appointment, nah, no way . takes away the spontaneity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:11 AM
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I don't know if its a trend.. I just know one woman dating younger, 10 years. And its because she still quite immature herself so my assumption is that people her age don't want to party every weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:48 AM
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I met one, he was weirded out about it and did not want to engage with women if they were virgins. He rejected a few because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:26 PM
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To be honest now when a man tell me about feelings and aren't mutual, they don't even go to the friendzone anymore, they go to the void zone . I cut contact completely. Because in my experience, they just wait in the friendzone like vultures , for a moment of weakness and try again. I don't need that, welcome to the void zone, where nothing ever leaves. Also this men usually aren't even good friends... so... nothing to loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:27 PM
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That's a conclusion that a kid would say . Such an immature response. No one said that. Of course they do. But there's a gender that commits more crimes and do more evil things, and it's not women. That doesn't mean that there's no bad women. But men commit around 87% of all crimes last time I checked .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:28 AM
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emotional abuse, financial abuse, toxic behaviour, power abuse , all those are examples of manipulation.. yeah ... we know who does it more , men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:36 PM
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Not according to Google. Who manipulates more, men or women? men Previous research has established sex differences in emotional manipulation; specifically, men are more likely than women to engage in emotional manipulation. And there's quite a lot of studies proving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:41 PM
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for me was at work, at a park, coffee shops, and videogames
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:09 AM
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anger is an emotion, I dont see as many women punching walls or doing road rage or being physically violent in general
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:44 AM
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This has been the case for me. Every male friends that I had , has tried something. Every single one of them. But I don't think that's the norm , because I have seen friendships... I'm just unlucky I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:24 PM
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its not the same one, now you are just spiting lies. And then every doctor should resign because its a common practice in a lot of places. They even go to training courses about it. So you saying it doesn't happen, doesn't change anything , it does happen, and you have hundreds of stories online
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:48 PM
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Sounds very toxic and unhealthy for both sides, wish you the best mate, there's nothing better than to have a partner that allows you to be always yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:43 PM
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I can say the same then, you were patronizing before with the "some", it doesnt help as everyone knows , unnecessary and just an excuse to avoid the conversation, because clearly, didn't bring anything to the discussion. Which proves my point anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:37 PM
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I have seen multiple non conventionally attractive people have them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:35 PM
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you have sources on that article to check, and its common knoledge amongst hospitals. If you dont want to see it , thats on you, but it happens, you have many many online stories of it. Another one https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:50 AM
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theres many many many cases , like this one https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/mar/30/the-men-who-give-up-on-their-spouses-when-they-have-cancer Obviously asking for just sources is cheeky because not many people will be so ballsy to say, yeah I'm leaving because of this. So not a lot of data on it but Its doctors who had notice everywhere this pattern. My mum is a nurse and she has seen it several times and its a standard procedure that they do a lot. And of course the doctors warned…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:48 AM
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so your advice doesnt work very good... maybe its time for a different approach
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:39 AM
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I was trying to help!! So you dont need to be bitter about normal things! Hope this helps
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:38 AM
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It's clear. Cats are cute. This doesn't mean that all cats in the world are cute. Easy. It's not rocket science sweetie . School taught us this .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:13 PM
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And how did that advice work for you ? Are you happily married ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:10 PM
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This is why the majority don't do it.. what a pain and headache ... one is too much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:50 PM
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There has been several in different countries. Not just one . And doctors keep warning women , are you saying that they are dumb or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:48 PM
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Some men and some women. Obviously. And the sky is blue , sometimes there's no need to state obvious things whilst talking. Well with kids you might so they understand
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:47 PM
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Like this ? Among study participants, the divorce rate was 21 percent for seriously ill women and 3 percent for seriously ill men. A control group divorced at a rate of 12 percent, suggesting that if disease makes husbands more likely to split, it makes wives more likely to stay. https://www.oprah.com/relationships/why-men-leave-sick-wives-facing-illness-alone-couples-and-cancer/all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:43 PM
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because its not always the case. Unattractive people can have situation ships too, it doesn't matter the gender. And thats not even the point of the conversation, the point is, people do this, no matter the gender
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:38 PM
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not just nurses, doctors too, depends on the diagnosis of course , and male doctors too . they prepare them for the possibility that the husband can leave. If you think this is funny... oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:35 PM
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except when the wife is sick, then a lot of husbands leave, so much taht nurses prepare wives whilst giving them the diagnose. You can check the statistics yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:58 PM
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and we can say the same about men.. I' ve met many with even more than 3 situationships around... and don't give me the nonsense of chad crap, no, some weren't even a bit attractive, they must had other qualities for sure, but not looks. what's your point exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:43 PM
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again with the caricature of the "bad boy" . Your most common abuser is not the druggie or the criminal, is your average man. The one that you don't suspect. An example is the Giselle Pelicot case. The men who did it weren't criminals, they were married men, some with families and good jobs. If you haven't been in an abusive relationship and had experience it , you shouldn't have an opinion about it. Saying that women are aroused by this its incredibly disrespectful. This is not the got you that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:33 AM
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because young people is careless as a lot of them haven't experienced danger yet. And about female spaces, theres a popular party that goes around Europe and its just women allowed, they are always full and sold out. Same for a couple night clubs in my city, when they do just ladies night, full.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:37 AM
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This happened to me, I forgot who I was and everything for a man until I found myself again, its a 2 way street. I will say it usually happens more to women due to having children as its usually them who puts their careers and life on hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:23 AM
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Both can do it. What is your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:19 PM
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Gisele pelicot case... majority were married men with very normal lifes . That's it . Of course the druggies can be abusers but also your average man. Which is more common as there are more average men than druggies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:27 PM
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It has a very easy solution. Now men need to be actually likable and decent to be chosen. Be it. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:53 PM
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what a good one! looking for an excuse to not be decent! I'm not even surprised anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:48 PM
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they are legal in my country, men don't go much either. Every time I pass one, doesnt have a lot of cars parked.. some trucks but that's about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:20 PM
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I cant wait for this robots to come, so yes, some will finally leave us alone. I couldnt care less of what are they going to do with them. None of my women friends have complained about it, in fact, they have the same opinion as me, so I guess majority of people don't give a damn as to what some men do with robots. Why do you think I should care about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:58 AM
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yeah, but most of the time the first one is not free, thats what a lot of people is discussing. That to women is always the choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:15 AM
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and you have the same with men and horrible woman, like the japanese girl, I dont remember her name. Men thirsting all over her. People is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:53 PM
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I never had too but If I did, I wouldn't have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:42 AM
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so you don't have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:16 AM
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same for men right? men who loose everything in divorces , passport bros who get scammed... males victims of DV , suicide.... they should have chosen better. right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:25 AM
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so? dumb people exist. what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:22 AM
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so men are uncivilized animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:08 AM
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this is quite wrong, abusers are more likely to be the regular man than the one that you described. People have this caricatures in their head of what an abuser, rapist or killer is when in reality , chances are is just a regular person. That's why they always say on the news : he killed his family?? cant believe it! he was a normal guy!! Look at the Gisele Pelicot case, no tattoed druggies, majority were married men with normal lifes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:00 AM
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yes there are. Usually men. I see it daily, not just on the internet but in real life. They keep shifting the blame into the victim by saying choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:49 AM
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there is also people that feel that they missed out on their youth so they cheat a lot in their marriages, whilst people with high body counts had experience it already and are more down to settle, it depends. To what I have seen in my group of friends, the ones that had crazy youth found their partner and are super settled down, and the ones that just had one man their whole life are looking for something different now, as they are bored, some left , some cheat. of course there are exemptions ,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:10 PM
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well, atheist people have morals to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:05 PM
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No. I love biology and the animal kingdom. It's what you say that is boring. Nothing interesting. No interesting data at all And half the time repeating what I said. Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:39 PM
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Animals aren't humans. Simple. Negating that is just a call for attention. It doesn't matter what you say. Animals aren't from the homo family . I'm sorry but this is a very boring conversation. Bye !
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:27 PM
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Oh yeah. They aren't friends anymore. I don't like that people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:55 PM
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Not like humans. Because guess what. They aren't humans . They don't go for the same reasons as humans and call it war is incorrect. Specially in th modern times . I haven't sen any chimps using tanks and nukes . That's what I meant by non natural. Modern war , nothing of its is natural, guns etc .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:49 PM
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Nope. Not war like humans do. Protecting their territory is not war. It's survival. They don't greed .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:01 PM
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who is limiting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:08 PM
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No one said it should, but sometimes it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:04 PM
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he is encouraging men, I'm encouraging women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:01 PM
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War isn't natural, love is. Love exists in nature. Several animals choose a partner for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:02 PM
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I have a lot of female friends, from a pretty conservative and religious country . They all identify as traditional and religious.. well, all except one have cheated several times , all their partners. And its funny because to their partners they are submissive little angels... And there are too many to say is just a couple of rotten apples... But this is just my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:59 PM
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biggest cheaters I've met go to church on sundays , I don't know what to tell you...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:55 PM
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the biggest cheaters that I've seen go to church on Sundays , also they are very kinky...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:53 PM
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I've seen the opposite, feminists usually don't cheat, they have one man, their man and that's it, no interested in anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:52 PM
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I don't think they care being dead
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:45 PM
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and women should do the same! lets catch all those daddies abandoning their families and not paying child support, just secretly do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:44 PM
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It doesn't matter, everyone should do it, government or not, so they will have DNA stored in case someone decides to commit crimes, they can be easily solved. Also a lot of daddies that disappear and don't take care of their children, those ones too, with the DNA test they cant escape anymore. This is not just a got you for women, also for men and people who do crimes, which is good!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:22 PM
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But it would be good , right? Because its what you want but mandatory
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:13 PM
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According to what I've seen and witness, yes. But its just my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:12 PM
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Everyone can do it but on my experience , conservatives and traditional ones. Big time. This comes from friends and also I was a bartender for a few years, so I was someone that people told their biggest secrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:56 PM
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Well, a good thing that can come out of this is that everyone has to do Dna tests right? So that will solve also a lot of crimes, murders etc.. We already experience it thanks to sites like myheritage etc.. a lot of cold cases have been solved thanks to DNA. So having the DNA of everyone will help. So men! do it! please!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:52 PM
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This comment sound low quality and a red flag. This is the type of thing that I heard from abusive men, victim blaming (she deserves it) . Just my opinion . People who talk like this about others should stay away from relationships. Sounds super toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:45 PM
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You can't control feelings or attraction for other people. This sounds like you are quite young and have very little experience on relationships .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:18 PM
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Because that's what happen most of the time. Confirmed by a few male friends. Of course not always , but a lot. Which is quite sad because it happened to me a few times. And it feels like a betrayal, someone faking a friendship to obtain something .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:45 PM
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No, but when feelings are involved, people tend to overlook things. It's simple
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:59 AM
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No , its not, its yours, I haven't been rude and disrespectful to other people, much less because they have a different opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:10 PM
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You don't need to be a genius to pretend to be nice . It's quite an easy thing to do. Everyone can just act nice, polite, loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:15 PM
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Again. It's not about what you said its how . But I'm bored now as apparently is quite difficult for you to understand a simple one. Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:12 PM
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Nah .nothing one wants a lazy lover , doesn't matter the looks . Can't imagine anything worse to be honest. Better to use a vibration thing , at least it lasts more than 2 min and will be actually useful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:10 PM
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You didn't understand the comment clearly. It's the words that you use to talk about women, not the fact that you don't want to do it . Quite simple to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:45 PM
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Yeah but you didn't mention that in your previous comment. Plus taking into account that some women need to teach the man what will work on her, it can take a few times
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:43 PM
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I dont understand why men care so much about this tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:41 PM
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Maybe the problem is that you are forcing yourself to like something you dont, maybe you prefer something else. If you are that disgusted by it, dont force it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:24 PM
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the problem is how you talk about it, so disrespectful. You can respectfully say that is something that you don't enjoy and that's it, but no, you need to degrade... Then you guys ask for respect after talking like this... Maybe the problem is that you are forcing yourself to like something you dont, maybe you prefer something else
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:23 PM
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there are studies about this.. When women are little something we hear a lot is : ohhh that boy is nasty to you because he likes you and he doesnt know how to express it. So we are raised with the mentality that even if they treat us badly, they love us. Its very toxic and I hop that the new generations dont have to deal with this. Anyway, thats one of the reason, other one is people is dumb and like the "bad boy" until they get burned and learned their lesson, or not, depends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:17 PM
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so, sounds selfish.. A lot of effort? Its usually quite easy .. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:14 PM
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and what is the problem? is that affecting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:10 PM
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I didn't know that women can know beforehand if they are going to come or not just by seeing the guy. Oh look a meh guy that for sure will make me come.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:09 PM
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have you been with many men to have experience to know if they are selfish or not? How do you know? My experience its also that a lot of them are selfish, handsome or not that handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:04 PM
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last time I checked it was around that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:38 PM
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Sounds like it.. so you have no problem with wo.wn having high standards. Good, we are on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:59 PM
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But you are complaining about it, why then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:54 PM
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and women having high standards is your problem because...?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:53 PM
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it still happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:51 PM
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satisfied and content with your life , the people around you and who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:28 PM
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Not happy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:17 PM
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how is leaving an unhappy relationship irrational?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:52 PM
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why, they are unhappy already, why stay unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:53 AM
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how is this gaslighting? theres always room for self improvement. What do you want us to do as women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:55 AM
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That's toxic people. Don't date those. Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:00 AM
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Prevent that situation. Get a snip snip if you don't want kids. Or have a healthy happy marriage and no one leaves . And obviously choose the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:59 AM
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It's quite simple really. Unhappy leaves, happy stays
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:51 AM
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Nah, as soon as the sex word appear ... poof I dissappear!! Magic 🎩
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:53 PM
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Not a threat but obviously if someone is unhappy they should leave. If it's a joke for you , easy, don't get married
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:40 PM
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Yeah. Crappy people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:14 PM
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Of course no one wants to be in a relationship with someone that isn't investing. What a waste of time. This sounds like a you problem if you can't find a loyal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:09 PM
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Good for you? Call them instead of wasting time here. I'm sure you have the queue of them waiting already at the front door , in fact , I can see the queue from here! It's magnificent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:03 PM
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No one leaves happy marriages. Hope this helps
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:53 PM
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For you maybe. But no one leaves happy relationships.. that's the point. The post is encouraging to leave unhappy ones. Where is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:51 PM
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People can lie at the beginning and have a mask. Masking themselves as amazing and a few months later , Masking falls and reality hits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:42 PM
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Sure buddy. Good for you. In spain we say fantasmon in this occasions , and it's beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:32 PM
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And men. Aren't they the biggest group in the apps ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:55 PM
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I have quite high standards, thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:54 PM
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there's dumb people everywhere, if I meet a guy like him I would ran away and never look back
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:31 PM
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Well, seeing how you insulted me and other women in here... and seeing how horribly you have talked about women... who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:57 PM
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isn't this what a lot of men do? having a really high body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:46 PM
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there is , men and women aren't the same at all. How many serial killers are per gender? How many groups of chats of 70.000 women have they been found where they talk about raping their family members etc? How many women have done the same to their husbands like the husband of Gisele Pelicot did? Men commit approx 90% of all crimes. Yeah we aren't the same .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:31 PM
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so? it doesnt make it better, it makes it even worse as the consequences are worse when men do it, they should control themselves more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:16 PM
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Yeah, I have seen many men do this, leaving a nice girl for someone else and got burned. Usually women tend to stay and not risk much. Some will of course
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:01 PM
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but the OP talked about forcing attraction, which no one should do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:52 PM
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today and things that never happened hahaha 50%, next time make it a bit more believable mate , jesus , people lie and troll so much on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:43 PM
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maybe it wasnt the perfect match, if it was, thats silly of them, but if you have a perfect match, you dont wander around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:38 PM
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then you should know , that in comparison its not even a 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:10 PM
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no, settling up for a person that you aren't attracted will make you unhappy . Big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:49 PM
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you left out conveniently the forced attraction part, which is very important. Why anyone would be with someone who aren't attracted anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:44 PM
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Of course I dont get to choose im just stating the fact that I highly doubt that you do, not even one call out to men for that yet you claim to do it.. lies have short legs. Of course you are more than welcome to prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:41 PM
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Sure you do . There's plenty of examples in this sub and never seen you calling them out . What a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:33 PM
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Could have been a lot of reasons . A lot of people fake their personality and then the truth comes out. That's their fault, not the one that leaves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:32 PM
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No one said that a perfect relationship exist. But your fear mongering makes no sense. No one should settle id they are unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:24 PM
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I kill zombies in videogames, do I want to be in a zombie apocalypse in real life? no. whats your point. I watch true crime, do I want to be a detective? No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:05 PM
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it is, its saying not to settle and force yourself. I didnt settle and I found a guy that checks every box, every one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:02 PM
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what decline?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:54 PM
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but you cant force your kids to continue this lineage. They can end it too. Your kids might not have your ideologies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:39 PM
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sad to hear that you had bad experiences, sometimes we need to choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:34 PM
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examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:29 PM
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happy people dont leave marriages, maybe if they didnt made their spouse unhappy, no one would be leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:28 PM
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no, if its making you unhappy you should definitely leave
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:27 PM
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better to be alone that settled with someone that makes you unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:19 PM
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the attitude of no settling down for something that makes you unhappy? Weird take
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:07 PM
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another nonsense, I don't know any woman who wants drama in their relationship. In fact a lot of them broke up with their partners because of unnecessary drama and arguments, we love our peace. And if someone comes to disturb that peace, bye bye! I cut ties immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:01 PM
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good, no one should settle if they are unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:55 PM
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this is it, but they don't want to understand. Quite simple minded they are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:54 PM
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My point is that you cant possibly know the experience on my end, can you? And what if they are easy to spot, of course they are. It doesn't matter. I stay away from flashy people, not my style. And no, when I started dating my LTR I had no idea bout their financial situation until a few months later. Its weird that I will knot that at the beginning of the dating phase. I also wasn't interested in digging about any of that. I was more interested in knowing the person and enjoying time with them,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:18 PM
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I didn't said that its something wrong, but that's new rich, old rich don't show off, in fact they are quite simple. And its quite often that men lie about their jobs and life , inflating it. Do you date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:53 AM
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and it all can be a lie, you never know. the ones that flash the most brands . logos etc are the most broke ones. Real rich people are "quiet"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:04 AM
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I never knew the bank balance or assets of any of my partners
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:40 AM
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do you also call it out when men put themselves medals about other men's achievements? Like the : " men build the world?" But not all men right? I will assume that you will also say no i actually didn't build the world, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:49 AM
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Sometimes I had chosen, sometimes I met someone that I didn't choose at first but personality came out and then I gave them a chance. Now that I think about it , none of my LTR were the chosen ones at the beginning. I guess it means I don't give a damn about looks and it's about personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:08 AM
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And we saw the news about police and firemen exchanging pictures of bodies . Quite a scandal in UK
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:45 AM
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Who did you saved ? Men love to put others medals but then they scream not all men to avoid any accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:40 AM
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Totally agree. It's a peaceful life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:10 AM
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Do you have a source for that claim ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:29 PM
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Knifes, funny that you mention that. I was with my ex, 3 men came to rob us with knifes in a park at night. He left me there and ran ... the 3 men laughed and in that moment i ran away. I also saw some news that a woman saved someone against a knife attacker . Don't remember where but I'll look. I think the hero thing is quite outdated as nowadays is just people who help and people who doesn't. What can a man do about an earthquake that i can't do myself or another women? Or an accident if he is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:25 PM
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Yup, learned this the hard way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:07 PM
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On my experience it depends on the partner. My ex would tell you I'm jealous. Because I monitored him yes , but he cheated several times . Now my husband will tell you that I'm not jealous at all and I don't monitor anything as I fully trust him 100% thanks to his behaviour. He proved me that he can be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:07 PM
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Nope. I wasn't expecting anything to be honest and I was quite surprised than women jumped to help me. This was in a club, plenty of men around. They did nothing. And I would help if someone needs help regardless of gender or whatever. Thats nonsense. In fact, im half deaf because i stood up against a kid that was bullying a male friend of mine. Poor guy was always a sick kid and this bully decided to torture him, so I stopped him but he hit me with his backpack in my head damaging my right ear.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:03 PM
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Anecdotal but when i had trouble with men being violent the ones defending me where women whilst the other men looked away .. a lot of men wouldn't move a finger. They were even studies about it , about how people help less and less . Like that girl that was attacked in the sub I think by a guy with a brick. No man helped her . And in big emergencies I'm sorry but as a woman I will avoid groups of men.. and I'm sure other women will agree. Just check what happened with the katrina and the shelte…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:42 PM
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Nah. 3rd option where we are equal and discuss things like a proper couple and make choices TOGETHER. If I dont have that, I'll start collecting cats
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:34 PM
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Who said they aren't. I have plenty of empathy for the good ones. The ones that care and the ones who deserve it. And surprise none of them care about women being wary because they understand. BTW your. Numbers are wrong, if you want to give numbers provide actual sources and statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:31 PM
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As long as he respects me , I don't care who he follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:27 PM
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Empathy, maybe try to understand how it feels to be in our shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:58 PM
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I didn't say to answer for other men. Obviously is about your opinion in the matter . I don't think is tough to understand but seeing how your first comment was just a personal attack on a deceased parent ... says a lot ... no interest in talking with this type of people Bye . Have a good day !
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:28 PM
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Why are you changing subjects in a debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:09 PM
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I didn't said you said it, but a lot of men do and its relevant to your comment. My dad died In a car crashed before I was born. Quite a horrible thing to say , really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:28 PM
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l 63 % que corresponde a 38 de ellos, afirman que si existe diferencia en los niveles de empatía entre hombres y mujeres , yes it does. By 63% of the total amount. I dont think you understood the translation. You can find more yourself. But Ill leave this too : El estudio de Cambridge fue el más grande hasta la fecha sobre el tema. Los participantes totalizaron alrededor de 306.000 hombres y mujeres de 57 países, incluidos Egipto, India, Croacia y Arabia Saudita. En promedio, las mujeres mostrar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:18 PM
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that doesnt make him a sex symbol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:39 PM
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Im just bored whilst my rice is cooking , so I have time to debate. And no sweetie, you can worry as much as you want, no one is stopping you. I mean... worrying so much about being falsely accused.... says a lot... I just agreed with the original comment and you got all upset!! I mean ...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:32 PM
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Thats not what I meant, I didnt meant I had already linked this specific studies. I meant that everytime I link something, the other person dissapears. But dont you worry Im feeling generous whilst waiting for my match to start . https://repository.ucc.edu.co/server/api/core/bitstreams/f6d1e5bb-391e-4603-9b39-26c7cb6b7450/content Colombia!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:27 PM
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the only one not understanding is you as I will repeat myself, never said its not possible, this is so boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:18 PM
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I never saids its impossible, but I will worry more about the danger with bigger chances than the one with less chances. But you do you, worry about whatever you want, I dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:04 PM
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I didnt say its not possible, but obiusly you should worry about the danger of the bigger numbers, which is... other men. But you do you boo, worry about whatever you want :D If you worry about women so much, stay away from them. Dont expose yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:02 PM
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you can google it yourself if you are that interested, I am certainly not as I already read it. Im sorry but im not wasting time anymore because its always the same, men run to say link it! then when i do it and prove them wrong they disappear, so im sorry , do it yourself. Or you link the ones that prove the opposite of what I said, ill wait
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:00 PM
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The original comment meant by other men, which is what the link shows. If you don't have reading comprehension is not my problem. And it matters to male victims of sexual assault, don't be disrespectful to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:42 PM
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but the danger of being raped by other men is 200 times higher than to be falsely accused. So men should be more worried about that than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:39 PM
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because we are talking about men being raped by other men, not women. Those are the shared statistics. A man has 200 more possibilities to be raped by other MAN, than falsely accused by a woman. Thats the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:30 PM
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I had several male friends actually complaining about this dynamic and how unhealthy it is, and how they feel pressured by other men. but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:27 PM
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and your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:56 PM
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https://teamkinetic.co.uk/blog/2019/07/women-volunteer-more-than-men/#:\~:text=Women%2C%20on%20average%2C%20spent%2015.7,a%20total%20of%20100%2C000%20volunteers. one example and more https://www.bls.gov/opub/ted/2024/more-than-11-million-people-volunteered-on-an-average-day-in-2022.htm#:\~:text=Volunteer%20rates%20tended%20to%20increase,with%203.2%20percent%20of%20men. I also collaborate with several charities and its mostly women. Do you have any numbers? Something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:54 PM
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several countries have done it and its always the same. There hasnt been any country that I have seen that men are more empathetic. Maybe you can find it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:24 PM
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but men say women are the hormonal and illogical ones... right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:35 PM
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MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:48 PM
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which comment? And you are wrong as I collaborate with a SA shelter, and women are very empathetic towards male victims whilst even other male victims joke abut it. You can also see it in comment sections, its usually men joking about it. So that's on you guys. I am a feminist and I am not against male shelters. What I do know is that it has been done in the past and they kept raping each other... Look at what happened all over the shelters that helped with the Katrina. Men were raping everythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:02 PM
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its not society its usually other men who think that. And again, statistics are there. 92.1% of sexual abuse offenders were men. facts over feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:55 PM
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statistics say the opposite, as 92.1% of sexual abuse offenders were men. You can google it, easy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:50 PM
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If you have the mentality of replacing your partner its better than you don't get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:50 AM
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attraction and objectifying are different things, what part you don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:43 AM
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yeah but this doesnt fit their narrative so they just ignore it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:41 AM
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last time I checked false allegations were at 0.1% , and statistically a man has 200 more chances of being raped by other man than to be falsely accused. But i dont see you talking about that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:40 AM
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it is global news. In uk theres a national emergency of violence against women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:39 AM
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I totally agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:32 AM
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Crimes are more severe, so yes, I will look at that as it has worse consequences. Men arent getting killed by women at the same rate that women are killed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:24 AM
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Doubt it. Its not the same to be objectified and not treated as a human than feeling attractive thanks to compliments. When is dehumanizing, the other one isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:22 AM
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and men wonder why there's not enough mental health support amongst men... I don't think you know what a friendship is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:11 AM
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She didnt say anything hinting that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:05 AM
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he has a very kind face, lovely couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:04 AM
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I think is more about how they act, then money, then looks. Anecdotical I know but There's a bachelor where I used to live. His family owns 70% of the whole village, lots of money, he is tall, blonde, blue eyes, great shape. But he is a misogynistic douche and an Andrew Tate wannabe. No one wants him. When he was younger he had more success but now in his 40s everyone knows his crap personality. Also quite high body count so women dont trust him for LTR, So he just hangs out with prostitutes. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:57 AM
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I didn't declare the national emergency, the authorities did, maybe complain at them? And you are totally wrong. In the year ending March 2023, data supplied from 28 police forces showed that the victim was female in 73.5% of domestic abuse-related crimes recorded by the police, compared with 26.5% of domestic abuse-related crimes where the victim was male (ONS, 2023a). Over 80% (83%) of high frequency victims (more than 10 crimes) are women. (From a study of data from the Crime Survey for Engla…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:21 AM
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I didn't delete anything sweetie, you are confusing me with someone else. Come on, go to the supposed conversation that I deleted and tag me, the other replies should be there. Ill wait , chop chop
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:57 AM
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everyone does, people do this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:38 AM
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good for you , find your one then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:21 AM
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people lie, but that's not the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 08:21 AM
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I totally agree. Just sus people are worried
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:52 AM
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https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-023-47747-9 just one example. You can Google yourself too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:40 AM
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They respect themselves and women. Imagine having such a fragile ego that shatters just because someone is wary because statistically men commit 90% of crimes so women are obviously wary. Dads tell their daughters don't trust men. Boyfriends say I trust you but not the men around you. Men don't trust men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:34 AM
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No one is talking about lies. Stay on the conversation if you want to debate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:31 AM
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Everyone is able to do it and majority of women work. Not only that, I'm usually talking about retired people who aren't providing anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:30 AM
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Not talking about trips. Just your regular old ladies working on charity shops for example
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:27 AM
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I think men dehumanise women even more Which is why there's a national emergency about DV against women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:26 AM
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Being wary is not an insult is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:01 PM
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Yes they are. As they understand that if the shoe doesn't fit...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:59 PM
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No one is talking about donators. So you clearly didn't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:58 PM
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I didn't write that. Tell that to the person that post it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:41 PM
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Google it yourself. Don't be lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:41 PM
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No one generalised psychos here . I don't know what are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:29 PM
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Facts over feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:28 PM
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Not a valid example . At all. As no one is telling men to plead guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:27 PM
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It doesn't matter. Women have more empathy and studies says so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:26 PM
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No one talked about donation amounts. As a lot of ruch people do it just to pay less taxes . See how I said charity WORK? Unpaid work? It seems that you got confused and didn't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:25 PM
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None of my male friends get upset about it . They understand that women are wary and don't take it personal. The only offended ones weren't decent, so they aren't on my circle anymore .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:42 PM
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The title literally says empathetic. And it doesn't matter because on both women lead
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:40 PM
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I'm talking about empathy too. I didn't mention conpassion at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:34 PM
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They are. Numbers also tell us this as the majority of charity work is done by women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:33 PM
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Decent men aren't worried about this as their conscious is clean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:32 PM
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Yup, majority of divorces around me has been this or the man cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:30 PM
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And with this mentality it's why you had bad experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:18 PM
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And decent men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:13 PM
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Same for men. Exactly the same comment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:13 PM
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Studies says that women have more empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:11 PM
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Statistics and studies prove that women have more empathy. Facts over feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:09 PM
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You. But not all men want it. Same for women. You just proved my point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:53 PM
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Attributes? Do they have any ? Being boring and husband material aren't the same . There's also boring bad boys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:55 PM
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so disrespectful to other men using those terms...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:02 PM
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turned on? hahahaha If that was true Elon Musk would be a sex symbol and he is not. I never seen a woman thirsting over him. Quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:58 PM
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Why wouldn't be true, I dislike bad boys, nothing attractive about them at all. It just makes me laugh those attempts at being bad boys... not classy at all, yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:57 PM
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Nope. He is not a sex symbol . Never seen a woman thirsting over him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:23 PM
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But women aren't thirsting over him. Which is the whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:09 PM
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hobosexuals exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:34 PM
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I dont think you know the difference between being objectified and feeling attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:34 PM
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Thats why Elon Musk have all women thirsting over... oh wait, no he doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:31 PM
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how do you know you are the safe choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:10 PM
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that's obvious, of course just being a nice isn't enough, that's just the BARE minimum . That's just being a decent human being. No need to lie about that. In the other hand men complain about women having standards too high.. Are they spreading lies too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:11 PM
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what's an uncomfortable truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:47 AM
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And the proof of that? where is it? because I know very well what I want and I pursue that and nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:38 AM
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thank you for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:24 AM
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thank you for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:24 AM
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Quasimodo or the soldier guy, I will choose Quasi, maybe this example its easier for simple minds that take everything literally
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:34 AM
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I will choose Danny Devito over Chris yes , your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:33 AM
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its just an example... I dont think is that difficult to understand of muscles vs charisma or personality . Ok quasimodo, or the hot soldier, I choose quasi as he is a good one, sweet, caring etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:19 AM
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for some young ones maybe, same for some men, they don't want the worm book, they want the wild one, because the prude is boring and will wait or do nothing interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:58 AM
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take the six pack away, make him fat, uglier, ill still choose him over Chris because of charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:56 AM
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it doesn't matter as is just an example with people that everyone knows. Ill make it easy .. Same example with anonymous people, (because apparently is so difficult for you guys) muscle guy no charisma vs charisma no muscle, I pick the charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:55 AM
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oh so you couldn't understand a simple example between Muscle guy no charisma vs charisma guy no muscle that doesn't even need to be exactly them LMAO aaaah the simple minds
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:53 AM
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early 20s when I realize that "bad boys" are usually quite toxic, no need for the drama that they bring
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:51 AM
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yeah but the hipothetical question is , muscles no charisva vs no muscles and charisma. Which again, im picking charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:14 PM
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I dont know if jack black has charisma, but I prefer my husband over chris a billion times. He has charisma and he is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:12 PM
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I see it the opposite, the safer I feel the less I would even think of cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:54 PM
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they aren't. And I do .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:51 PM
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for you maybe. Not for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:50 PM
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that just if you choose a crappy partner
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:47 PM
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it doesnt matter, lets talk about just a muscle guy vs a charisma guy with no muscles, i prefer that one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:50 PM
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its a simple example of muscle guy vs charisma guy. its quite simple to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:47 PM
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it doesnt matter , I think its not difficult to understand the example of big muscle guy vs charisma guy. Its quite simple
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:44 PM
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well, im not talking about strangers... and considering I feel safe around 95% of women I know.. Big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:52 PM
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this! as soon as I sniff them, I would run away opposite direction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:17 PM
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This is like the Thor or Loki question. Men were saying that women prefer Thor, and a lot of women were saying no, actually I prefer Loki. And men didn't believe them. Men have no idea what women want and they refuse to listen to us
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:12 PM
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nah , I prefer a salad then or nothing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:09 PM
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Of all the ones that I had met in my life, I just feel 100% safe with 3 , its my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:08 PM
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safe would absolutely be my first choice, why would I want a risky one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:31 PM
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of course they are, And I meet all of them, so my partner should too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:42 PM
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I can not be happy with someone that doesn't improve my life, simple. I'm not lowering my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:33 PM
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of course, I would want someone minimum equal or better otherwise why do I need to do charity work? If a relationship isn't going to improve my life, why should I do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:04 PM
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maybe they are good options for you, not for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:00 PM
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no one said the opposite. But the amount of decent men is little
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:55 PM
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Yeah I would, easily. I couldn't ever be with someone that I don't love completely . Better to be single, why bother
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:42 PM
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beauty cant be measured so... yes you can.. but you are deciding not want to because of course your answer would be yes, proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:30 AM
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answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:54 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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