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as a woman i never played hard to get. men thought i was... i wasn't.. ever. i was quite clear with my intentions but they preferred to be delulu. This is my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:08 AM
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and doesnt mean they dont
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:17 PM
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same for men and horrible women, they do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:04 PM
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Its more about how they will deal with those insecurities, but in my experience , insecurities based on looks are the worst as they can be very toxic towards their partner and probably will cheat at any given chance. My worst partner was like that, insecure about the looks and the guy that i lowered my standards for (the good guy but not handsome guy) .. ended up being toxic, abusive and a cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:54 AM
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Oh I know its hard for some, but why should I care? Give me some reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:32 PM
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I think I would be ok if my partner would have a better sleep. That's not our case though, we like to spend as much time with each other as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:03 AM
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nope, It was the right choice every time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:28 AM
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My max cap is 2 years up or down, I wouldn't ever date someone outside that. Never liked older men, found them very very creepy showing interest in younger women, But that's my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:46 AM
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similar to yours, if they don't show effort, at the second time I'm gone. I'm not wasting my precious time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:34 AM
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Married female, Bi, 10 years together. I feel like most men here have very distorted views from the world and its quite sad as they will not listen to anything else. A lot love to victimize themselves instead of doing something productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:15 PM
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no one is talking about demographics or statistics, you sound confused. conversation is 2 crimes cant be identical in circumstances, motives , background etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:06 PM
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I already presented a source. Where is yours ? Prove that crimes are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:18 PM
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talk to any lawyer, they will tell you the same. Quite simple. Crimes cant be the same due to circumstances, motives etc etc . I already presented a source. Where is yours ? Prove that crimes are the same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:53 PM
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the conversation here is that no crime is identical to other. Maybe you are a bit lost sweetie. If you want to talk about other stuff more in depth im sure you can find a subreddit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:36 PM
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nah, I had lived in both countries, spaniards are more attractive. More tanned, better smiles and features in general. And I am saying this when my type is blonde or light brunette guys ..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:08 PM
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Sorry to burst your bubble but this has been debunked by himself . He was bored and fabricate stories for funsies during interviews https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SaxyTCYOJDI&t=48s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:00 PM
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No. Not all crimes do an equal amount of damage. And even if two criminals do the same amount of damage, the “guilty state of mind” between two criminals can differ. “Involuntary manslaughter” is the crime of doing something immensely stupid, not really thinking about the fact that it can kill someone, and accidentally killing someone in the process. “Voluntary manslaughter” is the crime of killing someone in a state of emotional distress which meant you weren’t thinking straight. “Second degree…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:41 PM
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you cant fire me I quit!!! aahh comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:46 PM
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its not, my statistics are global xDD Not just from 1 or 2 countries, that would be inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:26 PM
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I did, and thats how motives are different from person to person. So even doing a crime together, has different backgrounds and motives. Its quite simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:07 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ptm57uvo7rze1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=18e3d53cc464ccab5cd841696fd2527dfefbcfb2 thats very simple, not many good men. Lets see at crime statistics. 96 % of Violent crimes are committed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:58 PM
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In US, not in my country though. And it doesn't even mean much as women are getting better careers and jobs regardless of weight. I don't even know why bring that up, such a weird thing to do. So yeah, men don't bring anything to the table that a woman cant bring by herself. I don't know who are you talking about that cant keep men, finding and keeping a man is the easiest thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:43 PM
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maybe to you, not to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:28 PM
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Well , google says this : the prevalence of overweight (including obesity) was higher among men (69.2%) than women (58.6%) Men are much better at house work and maintenance So nothing because as you said, a woman can just pay someone to do it if she didn't do it by herself. And this is just if something breaks, not a day to day task. And my point still stands... Who would have thought that today a man needs to be actually likable and good to be chosen. Women don't need men anymore to have a bank…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:17 PM
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yes there are identical jobs with identical responsibilities. And some people might perform better and maybe receive a plus because of it. Or some people can just have an awful boss who does unfair wages based on gender or even race.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:41 AM
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Sounds like a lot of excuses as to why someone isnt getting picked. Plus, I wasnt even talking about specifically you, I meant you as you people. we live in an era where women got lazy Source for this ? because last time I checked Women are studying more and having better jobs lately whilst some men are not pursuing careers at all. Also, not an excuse to not need a man. What a man can bring to the table that a woman cant bring by herself? Ill wait. The reality is some women are becoming better ,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:20 AM
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my point still stands, no identical crimes or motives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:48 AM
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its a simple question : if you have nothing to offer, why should a partner choose you? No answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:27 AM
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The motive plays a big par in court. Women who kill their children : Accidental killings of children, for instance, are more likely to be the result of neglect among mothers and abuse among fathers and stepfathers. This reflects what we know about gender patterns in childcare responsibility and domestic and family violence. In cases where children are killed intentionally, women are more likely to kill babies and newborns, particularly in circumstances of unwanted pregnancies. Such offenders are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:22 AM
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awww , nothing else to say huh? My point still stands, if you have nothing to offer, why should a partner choose you? This bitter people bring nothing to the table, just toxicity, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:20 AM
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there is no identical crimes so its impossible to have the same sentence. The judge need to dig about motives, backgrounds etc . This is just a ignorant thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 09:01 AM
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yup, never had problem finding love, in fact , 3 of them even proposed, just accepted the last one. But I didn't know I didn't wanted kids until a few years ago, so they didn't know. I was just unsure before. My point still stands, if you have nothing to offer, why should a partner choose you? This bitter people bring nothing to the table, just toxicity, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 08:40 AM
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no sweety. I was never miserable or struggling in my love life. Too many candidates always so I could choose the best one. That's what happens when you have good qualities, people want to date you. If no one wants to date some people, there's always a reason. I also surrounded myself with nice people and stay away of toxic ones that have nothing to offer except their bitterness. I have also friends that started dating in the past years or months and they have no trouble finding women, why? becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 08:17 AM
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Happily married men don't talk like this. Simple. Plenty of happily married men around me that do everything for their wives and same the other way around. Bitter ones cant have it. Who wants to be around those. Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:07 AM
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what a sad and distorted view. The thing is , men who vomit this nonsense are single for a reason. Happily married men don't talk like this. People should listen to their advice, not to the bitter single ones online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:42 AM
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how are they going to have a backup plan if according to you there's a lot of single men xD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:35 PM
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how its ungrateful or unreliable applicable in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:13 PM
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I do, you cant possibly know what other people have in their head when saying things, so you are just assuming. Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:46 AM
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how do you know? You don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:31 AM
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Yes and not anymore, why? I cant run or play whatever, its uncomfortable with the bouncy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:19 AM
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nah, this depends on the person, but it is true that maybe some unattractive people "gave up" on their appearance and don't care about hygiene, there's also attractive people who is also unhygienic. It depends, when I saw someone giving that advice, they were right as the person was very unkept.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:17 AM
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whats the point of being with someone that doesn't bring you happiness or even want to spend time with you? nah, if someone cares , they will make time, I worked 15 hours a day, and still went to see the person I was dating at the time even though it will mean that I will just sleep 4 hours. If they dont put the effort, not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:03 AM
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not unreasonable to spend time together. if someone cares , they will make time, I worked 15 hours a day, and still went to see the person I was dating at the time even though it will mean that I will just sleep 4 hours. If they dont put the effort, not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:01 AM
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She got rejected a few times and moved on, whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:01 AM
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nah, if someone cares , they will make time, I worked 15 hours a day, and still went to see the person I was dating at the time even though it will mean that I will just sleep 4 hours. If they dont put the effort, not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:57 AM
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maybe you need to choose better if those are your options, plenty of healthy relationships everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:49 AM
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nah, if someone cares , they will make time, I worked 15 hours a day, and still went to see the person I was dating at the time even though it will mean that I will just sleep 4 hours. If they dont put the effort, not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:47 AM
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nah, if someone cares , they will make time, I worked 15 hours a day, and still went to see the person I was dating at the time even though it will mean that I will just sleep 4 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:46 AM
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and thats how you get replaced, in both situations , no one wants someone who you cant trust
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:42 AM
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It seems that you couldnt understand what it mean so I will give you examples: Loss of physical intimacy or connection. 2. Lack of communication or effort to improve the relationship. 3. Increased criticism and negative comments. 4. Avoidance of spending time together. 5. Withdrawal from shared activities or interests. 6. Increased focus on individual activities and goals. You see? It wasn't that difficult wasn't it???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:25 PM
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nah It has been proven the misoginy in doctors where they give antidepressants instead f diagnose properly, seen many cases that women have endometriosis and the doctor gives antidepressants, my auntie was given antidepressants to treat her migraines... Apart from that women go more to the doctor when a health issue arises, mend not as often, specially for mental health which is why theres so many suicides. Financial reasons? nah, last time I checked the list of causes of divorce are infidelity …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:50 AM
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so why women initiate divorce then? If they are so happy? And its not about that guy, there's studies and statistics all over the world saying the same, happiest demographic is single childfree women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:00 AM
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those are news articles.. that don't cite actual studies hahahaand the first one just says that apparently women are happily married but then you guys say that women initiate divorce a lot, so which one is it?? and the second one just talks about old women in general... did you even read them?? So no source, thank you. Happiest demographic still single women without children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:38 AM
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and where is that research because the last time I checked the happiest demographic is single women , followed by married men. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-so-many-single-women-without-children-are-happy So, where is your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:50 PM
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If I said that they are lonely its because they say it quite often... It wasn't me assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:35 PM
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According to research, single women get unhappier as they age, up to 65. Men get happier as they age. Not in my experience, in nursing homes, the single ladies bond with each other, do a lot of activities whilst older men are very apathetic, lonely, sad and even rude and aggressive. Same for just old people. Female widows seek for connections and have a better life than the male ones. Not all, but that's something that I see very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 08:56 AM
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who stops men from wearing make up? Celebrities and politicians do it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:32 PM
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like?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:31 PM
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no one draws a new face, that's such a silly thing to say, make up doesn't do miracles, and a lot of it its clearly visible, plus not all women wear makeup. No need for equivalents, beauty industry is also used by men. Skincare, hygiene, also clothing style is taking care of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:31 PM
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women put a lot more effort into their appearance than men. The beauty industry is a multimillionaire for a reason. No one is stopping you from taking care of your appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:16 AM
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but you don't disrespect strangers, so you respect them at first instance, so you oew or give respect until they disrespect you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:05 PM
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all of this to say that in fact yes. you respect people (till someone disrespect which is understandable) , thank you for agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:38 PM
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And how does this apply to random strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:42 PM
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that doesn't interfere with being respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:36 PM
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so you are a disrespectful person then? Human rights act says : The Human Rights Act (1998) gives us legal protection of our basic human rights. The legislation ensures that the rights set out in the European Convention on Human Rights (ECHR) are enjoyed by us all, which includes things like dignity, fairness, equality, tolerance, and respect. https://www.freedomfromtorture.org/news-and-stories/the-human-rights-act-1998 SO.. yes, everyone deserves respect, but you do you. Some people just try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:54 PM
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You still didnt answer the question, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:20 PM
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You said: Men don't owe women jobs, equal pay, maternity leave, public benefits, respect, or anything at all, yet the lack of these things is considered women's issues. And I asked why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:09 PM
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Why is not a necessity? Why women shouldnt also have equal pay as a default? or maternity leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:00 PM
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and with opinions like this, no wonder why theres a loneliness epidemic. Men don't owe women jobs, equal pay, maternity leave, public benefits, respect, No respect? Why not? Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 11:21 AM
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its not xD and women keep saying it but some men seem very obsessed with the bananas
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:57 AM
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obviously , I am not going to give attention to every person I see, what a silly thing to say. If we don't share beliefs , hobbies etc, I am not going to give them attention, what's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:14 AM
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Ill repeat : you said : Whole you just scuff at men…for no reason just cuz. I said there is a reason, and proceed to give an example. So how women are part of the problem of men committing 96% of violent crimes? The only one without self awareness here its you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:58 PM
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You can say whatever you want but statistics say that 96% of violent crimes are committed by men. Including murder. Edit to say : I don’t do violence against women. Do you want a badge or pin or something for not being violent towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:05 PM
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you said : Whole you just scuff at men…for no reason just cuz. I said there is a reason, are you confused or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:40 PM
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no you didnt. You just lie, so boooooring. But best part is, we all saw it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:40 PM
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no one is talking about rules, you sound confused as to how a debate works
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:39 PM
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nope I said taking better care of themselves in general. Not all men work in dangerous jobs. what do men bring to the table that women cant get by themselves? Simple question. So sad that you cant even think of one thing, but that obviously checks out with the loneliness epidemic, a lot don't bring anything to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:37 PM
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theres a global epidemic of violence against women globally. Thats a reason, a big one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:34 PM
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You didn't quote which comment I said that? More lies, you know that people can read right? Quote my comment. Il wait
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:55 PM
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You don't have to, but obviously when you claim something but you fail to prove it, you loose. So yeah, you lost, big time, and everyone saw the lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:53 PM
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take better care in general health related, that's why the life expectancy is longer. Why are you avoiding my question? Is it because you don't have an answer?? yeah I can see that. what do men bring to the table that women cant get by themselves? IS it nothing? nothing at all? You cant even think of one thing??? Thats why you avoid the question???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:52 PM
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sure sweetie, but that doesn't change the fact that many people saw your lies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:49 PM
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I never talked about make up, you did. Now what do men bring to the table that women cant get by themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:40 PM
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that wasnt your first question, I asked mine before you asked this one, so before answering that one, you must answer mine first. what do men bring to the table that women cant get by themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:36 PM
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but same for men and fat or ugly women, nah, even worse as they treat this women like crap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:31 PM
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You mean the general female population? Sources say that most households are 50/ 50 https://yougov.co.uk/society/articles/50381-what-is-the-fairest-way-for-couples-to-split-household-bills So where is the source for your claim? You're literally faking being someone you're not. Again, a lot of men use make up too, and no, they aren't gay. Men are disadvantaged. They arent, who is stopping them? Some just don't want to have a career. And I did answer your question with my opinion, but its the 3rd …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:30 PM
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nope, didnt say that. Where did I said that? Source? quote it then. If you dont, its proof that you are just telling lies. Come on Quote it, ill wait
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:12 PM
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how a debate works in the adult world. You claim something, you prove it. also wheres the apology for your lies? specifically the one about you gendering a neutral gender comment that I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:11 PM
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the only one with lies here is you, and a lot of people saw it hahaha so ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:10 PM
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and men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:10 PM
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<image> around 20% for me , just the heroic ones, I wouldn't settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:06 PM
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many people don't even bring this hahaha the orgasm gap exists
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:57 PM
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and? My point still stands. If a possible partner is not making my life better, why should I bother? Better to stay on my own
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:44 PM
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Never heard of that or seen that situation. but same for men and fat or ugly women, nah, even worse as they treat this women like crap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:43 PM
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I have Well, if you move on those circles, that's on you. Why don't you go the fruit way too since you find women so much prettier? Or are you already fruity (which makes your opinion irrelevant in hetero dynamics)? Im bi so yes, they are absolutely gorgeous as women usually take better care of themselves And my opinion still stands as I like both genders, oopsie! You just said it does Awww you dont know the difference between having better careers and the gender pay gap? Ill explain it easy. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:41 PM
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do women actively tell you that they don't want you around them?? that might be concerning But yes, some elderly do, with dementia, or some aggressive animals too. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:34 PM
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nope , there's a difference. If no one wants you, its because you don't have anything to offer. Otherwise, someone would want you. Its not just about being horrible, that's just a part of not being wanted for whatever reason, could be for nothing to offer or for being horrible or more reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:32 PM
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I don't help people for a benefit for myself. I collaborate with charities, I help animals and elderly because I like to. It wouldn't be supporting someone if you do it just for benefits. And that mentality is why a lot of men are single. Not a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:30 PM
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L-fucking-mao this is coming from the gender who loves to say "my money is mine and his money is ours" ? Never said that or being around anyone who says that. There are good looking men out there too. Much more than women coz we don't apply face paint. Go and get them, who is stopping you. And plenty of men use make up. Every actor, tv presenter, prime ministers, everyone who is on tv and some IRL too. Or they do other things to enhance their beauty, like going to turkey for example for several …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:27 PM
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having a good income doesnt help a household? yes it does having a good looking partner is desired by men? yes well, the gender pay gap still exists in some countries so... the fight isnt over. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:13 PM
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yeah, but there's subtle signs at the beginning too, good and bad ones
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:10 PM
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no problem :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:09 PM
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a lot of women are looking amazing nowadays, overearning men and latest time I check they also have more studies and degrees, so yes. There's not a women loneliness epidemic....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:00 PM
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Men keep thinking they are just competing with other men when in reality they are completing with a woman’s peace and current quality of life. Men have to be a better option than staying single for a woman to give him the time of day unless that woman is mentally ill. And this is it, well frikin said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:40 PM
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or men could be actually step up and become a good partner and actually bring something to the table?? Crazy! right? This seems another fearmongering post to women, women!!! don't have standards or you will end up alone! People, never settle down, did it once and it was the worst partner ever. ~Insecure, toxic etc etc. Its better to stay single that with a person that isnt worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:38 PM
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nope, didnt say that. Where did I said that? Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:33 PM
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how a debate works in the adult world. You claim something, you prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:33 PM
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She didnt, maybe you are talking about other video. Lies and more lies so boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:32 PM
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people is everyone and anyone, my comment wasn't specifically about mediocre women. You seem confused
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:31 PM
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people is everyone and anyone , you seem confused
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:30 PM
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nope, didnt say that. Where did I said that? Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:30 PM
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how a debate works in the adult world. You claim something, you prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:29 PM
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still, she didn't complained about not getting dates due to misogyny hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:29 PM
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I didnt say women , stop with the obvious lies where everyone can scroll down and check the comment. But Ill post it here too : I see it as a good thing, no more settling for mediocrity. If you want a partner you should have things to offer, if you don't, why you should be picked? Where did I say women? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:28 PM
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he cant because I didnt say it haha This is the comment: I see it as a good thing, no more settling for mediocrity. If you want a partner you should have things to offer, if you don't, why you should be picked? I didn't even say genders, he just assumed and create a fantasy story
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:26 PM
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nope, lies again. My original comment didn't mention genders or mediocre women. Oopsie! we caught you again!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:20 PM
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nope, didnt said that. You seem very confused
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:19 PM
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I didn't say that there is a rule hahahaha, but thats how a debate works in the adult world. You claim something, you prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:18 PM
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Its not. An example. A woman sacrifices her body during pregnancy, a man doesn't. Some women sacrifice their career for motherhood whilst so many men don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:13 PM
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Where did I said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:11 PM
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There is mediocrity everywhere, never said the opposite. That's what I said in my original comment, no more settling for mediocrity. You sound very confused
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:10 PM
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that's how a debate works, you claim something, you prove it, with sources etc.. maybe its a difficult concept to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:09 PM
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sure buddy. another lie , surprise surprise, such a boring conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:05 PM
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my comment wasn't gendered. You gendered it. To lie, and fail hahaha as anyone can check it hahaahha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:04 PM
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I'm saying that I didn't put any gender in my comment, you did, and also added the word mediocre before women for no reason, and then tried to claim that I said mediocre women to start with, hahaha clearly in my comment , there's not any gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:03 PM
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its not a rule, its common sense. You claim something, people can question it so you should be able to prove it, or are we suppose to just believe you blindly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:01 PM
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she didn't blame misogyny for not finding dates like you said hahahaha nothing to do with this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:00 PM
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sweetie!! where did I said that? hahahaha, another lie caught! I said PEOPLE shouldn't settle for mediocrity, the comment is there for people to see. Oopsie, someone got caught red handed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:57 PM
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sweetie!! where did I said that? hahahaha, another lie caught! I said PEOPLE shouldn't settle for mediocrity, the comment is there for people to see. Oopsie, someone got caught red handed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:57 PM
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you are the one claiming something, source? this is a debate sub, if you want to debate you must provide sources to your claims
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:44 PM
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why not? I absolutely expect them to, otherwise, I void them, ignore them completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:37 PM
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this is a debate sub, you made a claim and I asked for proof or examples and you refuse, so till then, lies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:36 PM
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the question is , what do they bring to the table? nothing? well, then why someone should be with you if you aren't making their life better in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:34 PM
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You are the one making claims so you should prove them. no one should be with anyone they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:32 PM
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not everybody has something to offer, there's horrible people that deserve to be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:30 PM
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if you think its that simple, you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:25 PM
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and what are they saying about misogyny? Again, where is the proof that a woman said I cant get dates just because of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:24 PM
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who said that? do you have examples? Proof? Or is it all in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:42 PM
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I see it as a good thing, no more settling for mediocrity. If you want a partner you should have things to offer, if you don't, why you should be picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:35 PM
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I never did, either I feel a spark or I don't. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:31 PM
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Ill finish the date earlier and bye bye forever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:14 PM
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how are men devaluing themselves according to you? This post is a big nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:04 PM
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do you understand basic language? I said that YOU aren't debating in a debate sub hahahahahahaha . Lying about what exactly sweetie?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:06 AM
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I know, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:27 AM
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This is not a debate I expressed my opinion and you said basically: well you are wrong. Is that what you called a debate? You made this conversation just boring, so I'm not investing my energy here. Accountability for what hahahaha for thinking that a guy being a douche is a douche? hahahahahahha Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:27 AM
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I didn't respond disingenuously, at all. Its my opinion. If you disagree fine by me. My point still stands and if I see someone acting horribly and I see it fit I will think : oh, small pp ENERGY. And I will be talking about his ENERGY, nothing else. Its a free world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:04 AM
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in a perfect world yeah, but its not a perfect world and for sure you have done similar things and continue to do so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:50 AM
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I just seen this mechanic in younger or emotionally immature women, and even though, not often at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:50 AM
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I see more men fat shaming, ugly shaming or calling women flat chest etc than women talking about "bananas". I frankly don't give a damn about it, but you guys is all you talk,. specially on this sub, so obsessed with them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:45 AM
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and usually that's 5-8 cm in the canal, pretty much everything can reach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:43 AM
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my point still stands in this topic. When I say small pp energy I talk about ENERGY that the person gives. If its too complicated for you to understand, that's on you darling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:41 AM
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same! thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:54 PM
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I frankly don't care about random people online throwing tantrums
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:27 PM
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the only one talking about hate is you, you seem very confused
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:15 PM
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LGBTQ arent half of the population, quite an ignorant comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:08 PM
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so true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:07 PM
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I can do whatever I want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:07 PM
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there's a difference between don't know and dont care, and I dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:48 PM
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who is talking about hate? Such a nonsense comment, and oh my, what a boring conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:42 PM
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no one is talking about body buy energy, if its difficult for you to understand, not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:41 PM
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50% of the population is not a minority, not comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:37 PM
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96% of violent crimes are done by men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:17 PM
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another one without official numbers, so boring. and keep shifting the conversation. 96% of violent crimes are done by men, including murder. Original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:03 PM
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It doesnt matter, in my country there is a similar version for women, "fat pussy" to call someone very lazy and other negative traits, no woman cries about it thinking that the actual size of her kitty is what they are talking about...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:08 PM
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its not just about being a jerk, there's more stuff to it, so until we have another word that describes the whole energy thing, I'll use it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:19 AM
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with family present no, otherwise yes if done politely
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:55 AM
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nah, I just talk about energy as obviously have no idea of anyone's size or care at all. If someone cares so much about imaginary sizes oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:52 AM
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again an article without any real numbers , so boring. You must dislike male victims very much trying to erase them like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:34 AM
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nope, as I am not talking about anyone's body. just the energy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:32 AM
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you didn't provide that. Plus, who are the rapists of those men in majority? Other men as statistics say
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:04 AM
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to me it does, I wouldn't think it has anything to do with mine, just the energy that I give
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:03 AM
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nah , I had a partner with a micro once and still don't care about it, at all. Some women do some women dont. So ignorant to think the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:01 AM
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I used "small pp energy" but talking about a stranger being awful. I dont think many of us talk about the actual size and more of the "energy". Theres a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:44 AM
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its not official , at all. its unofficial, maybe read the dictionary. ?And again in the charities that I work we have also the unofficial numbers and still. Perpetrators are men most of the time, doing this to other men. But you don't care about male victims at all, as you are trying to hide them away. Shameful behavior for this poor men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:41 AM
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it cant be official numbers if they cant come forward.. you just lie and lie, so boring
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:39 PM
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they do, in our charity they do. and still, numbers speak volumes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:36 PM
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such a silly thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:23 AM
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you didn't provide those at all from the official websites, you are providing articles. I have the numbers from my charity and many others. Which are closer to reality as we also have unreported cases. You are just lieing and avoiding the violent crimes conversation. Ill repeat it just in case you forgot. 96% of violent crimes are committed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:34 AM
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no sweetie the conversation started with violent crimes, you derailed and failed at it as you are clearly wrong and not providing any official numbers at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:33 AM
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I never took offence, at all. I never thought its "who I attract". To me was more the case of some men having a big ego and thinking a bit much of themselves. Nothing to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:37 PM
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and where are your numbers? Because I collaborate with a charity of victims of SA, and around 95% of victims are women. And now is when you give the excuse of unreported, ok, what about murders? those cant go unreported and 98% of murders are done by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:42 PM
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so you do nothing except about complaining about women online, just as I thought. Because if the only time when you bring men up is to shit on women... you dont really care about them, quite sad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:10 AM
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debating or posting on reddit isnt raising awareness or helping the cause...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:09 PM
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raising awareness how? on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:42 PM
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answer the question, how do you support male victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:33 AM
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the majority of rapist are men doesn’t mean the majority of men are rapist. No one said the opposite. But knowing this, its logical that people would be scared of men ingeneral as you cant know which ones are which
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:31 AM
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no one said they didn't matter, but its not women's fight, (women aren't creating this violence), If you care so much, you can do things about it. So tell me , what do you do to help this men against violent ones?? How do you support and help them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:14 AM
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nah, majority of my friends are really really attractive, never felt any jealousy, I admire them , that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:25 AM
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Women Who Prefer Longer Penises Are More Likely to Have Vaginal Orgasms (but Not Clitoral Orgasms): Implications for an Evolutionary Theory of Vaginal Orgasm - ScienceDirect
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:47 AM
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nah, the 3 that cared more ended up proposing to me at the end. The ones that were just walk or coffee dates were just short term relationships or just friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:14 AM
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coffee dates are fine by me, it depends on what the "competition" is doing. If another guy is doing more than a coffee date and investing more on the date... well.. Its showing me that he cares more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:50 PM
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not always, latest's statistics say that just 1% of rapists are actually convicted in UK for example https://www.citystgeorges.ac.uk/news-and-events/news/2022/04/new-scorecards-show-under-1-of-reported-rapes-lead-to-conviction-criminologist-explains-why-englands-justice-system-continues-to-fail And you avoided the question, so I will assume that no, you don't hold them accountable at all. And that's the problem, some men think that they are good because they dont commit the "crime" but they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:33 AM
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it doesn't fix anything, it might cover a bit, but that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:03 AM
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no one said they are, but clearly one gender commits way more than the other, do you hold other men accountable for their actions? Do you stand up against them? Doing nothing is also part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:02 AM
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so you hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:01 AM
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so you hate them, oh well. Very sad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:58 PM
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so you hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:24 PM
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the systemic discrimination was against women , as they didn't allow them to join. Sounds like you are very confused. You avoided the question, what do you do to help men against the draft? I guess nothing, what a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:33 PM
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they aren't , 96% of violent crimes globally are committed by men. You can check it for yourself. No one talked about rape or murder, I said violent crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:13 PM
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I am a feminist and I don't think is misandrist , as the draft wasn't done for the hatred of men. Its men who did it and denied the access to women, so its misogyny. The draft wasn't done based on hate, they did it because men are violent and love to play war and who has bigger balls. Thats why they started so many wars compared to women. So what do you do to stop the draft if you care so much? How do you help this poor men being drafted???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:04 PM
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no its not, its global on violent crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:01 PM
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but it was men who didn't let women join wars.. women didn't forced the draft either, so where are your sources to prove your claim? Again, define misandry: what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:40 PM
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why is the draft misandrist exactly? what makes it misandrist? The draft was created by men, so what does misandry have to do here exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:10 PM
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No, I dont see the lie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:09 PM
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yeah... I had similar situations too. Very awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:40 PM
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why and how? Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:39 PM
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I think you are thinking way too much about it. I help people in need because they need help. That's it. It makes me feel good to help others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:37 PM
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I don't know why other women might do this. In my case I don't do it on purpose, if I have something heavy Obviously I struggle and I usually get help without asking, but if I don't get help its fine. I keep trying. I don't ask for help because I'm shy and because I don't want to bother anyone. So maybe point 1. Point 2 I don't need or want attention , in fact I prefer to be invisible. Point 3, I never felt entitled to get help. If it comes good, if it doesn't good too. Point 4, WTF, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:42 AM
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roman empire didn't have kings as they were overthrown and becoming a republic. And why do you think the revolution happened? Answer the question : are you saying that most kings were voted for or elected? Or did they pass the crown to their own lineage? usually sons?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:00 AM
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so on medieval times they got voting polls ? and the peasants who didn't knew hot to read voted ? ahahahahhahahahaha where is your source? I said give examples. Not even one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:41 AM
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in which country? because a lot have different rules? Which one are you talking about? Give an example. Plus you didnt answer the question: are you saying that most kings were voted for or elected?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:23 AM
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not just that, it was just painful and uncomfortable, there's nothing that he could do to make it better. Even if he was good, the pain will not go away magically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:19 AM
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are you saying that most kings were voted for or elected?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:17 AM
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I did, more than above average, hated it. All the above average ones that I had been, never made me finish. just discomfort and pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:16 AM
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G spot is at around 6-12cm .. you don't need a big one. I would never prefer a bigger one, they are uncomfortable in a lot of positions and painful. I never had an orgasm with an above average size.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:10 AM
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because women are still oppressed BY MEN because theres a global epidemic of violence against women BY MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:52 AM
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which one exactly, can you quote it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:47 AM
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You know that its usually closed and no liquids enter right? or do you think that we inflate like a balloon full of water absorbing the whole swimming pool? Not only that, The ph there helps against infections
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:44 AM
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I never needed dating apps, I always had plenty of options IRL. But I think times have changed, so depends on the situation. For example you are new on town, you work from home, this can add some difficulty to create social connections. My bestie is a gorgeous woman and when she moved town, she went on the apps to meet people or whatever. Another friend, very beautiful too went on the apps because she works crazy hours so its really difficult for her to create new connections, she found her SO t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:38 AM
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nah, to me it doesn't matter , in fact, I really dislike bigger dudes, its just painful and unpleasant, not only that, they tend to rely on size and didn't even know how to use it. Plus, there's not many women who finish with just penetration. Its fascinating how men are obsessed with size and women usually don't care as much, at all. Its way more important to know how to use it than the size
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:30 AM
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Its not irrelevant because men created the draft, plus in old times there was no voting someone, the king was there not voted for... so you are very wrong. how is it misandry? define misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:26 AM
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when one side commits rape and murder and is the culprit of 96% of violent crime... well... its not a question of : ugh we should get along together, its the case of holding them accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:22 AM
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statistically men have started way more wars than women, so its them who sent other ones to war. Which woman have started a draft as a ruler? Your point is just false and makes no sense, and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:38 AM
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safety, we need to rule out psychos
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:49 AM
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the times that I gave the ugly a chance were the worst relationships that I had due to their insecurities, most toxic ones too. Never date a "project" .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:45 AM
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nah, I wouldn't date someone who isnt chivalrous and kind. The only ones saying chivalry is dead, weren't ever chivalrous in the first place. Chivalry is not just done to get into someone's bed... Some men forget this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:36 AM
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and your average people rarely fixes the whole face
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:56 AM
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96%of violent crimes committed by men... statistics say... too many men doing this, many countries with whatsapp group up to 70k of men sharing stories on how to rape and abuse women including pictures... too many men. oh and you jknow what, the silent ones, are also the bad guys.. the ones who doent stop abuse or the ones who look away... yeah... too many men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:14 PM
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men commit 96% of SA and 95% of violent crimes including murder according to the latest statistics.... with 96% who do you think is the main audience? if it was the other way around I would think its logic to target it to the 96% of committers... I thought men were the logical ones, not the emotional ones...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:41 AM
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A number of SA and R*pe cases popped up and caused an uproar in my country. Schools, the media and even religious organizations quite literally shamed guys over this. HE complained about it, at any point he condone the SA, at all. Just complained about the movement. Maybe you missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:37 AM
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A number of SA and R*pe cases popped up and caused an uproar in my country. Schools, the media and even religious organizations quite literally shamed guys over this. HE complained about it, at any point he condone the SA, at all. Just complained about the movement. Maybe you missed it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:37 AM
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I said some, not the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:24 PM
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yeah, they rush this chores so I can imagine the end result... In my experience men that say this , live in not a very clean house and the nutrition is also not great... of course there can be exceptions, but a job well done is time consuming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:59 PM
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good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:57 PM
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so yeah, half work done and boring repetitive meals
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:09 PM
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most people with braces , use them because og genetics, jesus the mental gymnastics hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:07 PM
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but braces are changing your natural appearance, same for what??? plastic surgery! so... a lie? Make up is also used to protect your skin, kohl have been used since ancient Egypt to protect your eyes, see? I can do it too Hair doesn't change how a man looks?? tell that to bald men , tell them, that their insecurities are nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:54 AM
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and some men are like that, they don't need to put much effort becasue they are already a good partner and have good odds, EASY
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:50 AM
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so michelin star chefs that spend hours creating a dish are inefficient, right hahaha 3 hours per week of cleaning and cooking is just lazy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:48 AM
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then the quality of that cleaning and cooking must be very questionable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:30 AM
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and hats or toupees, and even braces then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:24 AM
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as my first statement says, its easy for the people who have worked on themselves and are interesting possible partners. If you aren't a good partner , you can raise your odds by improving and it would be easier
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:00 AM
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you should want to become better first for all , for yourself, and then the rest. Of course its difficult, life isnt easy. And some people have it easier than others. So? 2 choices, be better or stay mediocre
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:47 AM
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its not a contradiction, you forgot the part where I explained : if you don't get dates... (work on yourself) to raise your chances, and if you don't , well, love is not in the cards for everyone. I thought it was quite simple to understand... maybe it wasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:32 AM
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still not answering a very simple question
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:30 AM
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because it doesn't make any sense or has anything to do with the debate, at all. Seems like since the beginning you didn't understood anything at all, its ok, sometimes things are complicated for us. Answer the question, who asked you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:06 AM
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who asked you? who cares? That's irrelevant for this debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:58 AM
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if that's what you understand of the conversation, well, good luck hahaha. quite boring with the victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:52 AM
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where is the contradiction exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:50 AM
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its just a lie if you hide it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:49 AM
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then tell men to not be so desperate and things might change
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:48 AM
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if you are ugly, there's plastic surgery or other attributes that you can enhance (personality, career...). If you do nothing to become a better partner , that's on you. People shouldn't settle for mediocrity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:39 AM
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how do you know that those men are nice to women? are you a woman? are they approaching you? No, then you dont know and you dont have that experience to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:37 AM
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it is, and if you don't get them, you must ask yourself why. Some people don't have love in their cards, and that's fine. It's life. No one owes you a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:32 AM
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nope, I just said that if the shoe doesn't fit...(no need to force it) if you feel called out that's on you. As we say in my country: quien se pica ajos come.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:29 AM
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teaching about SA and feeling called out about it... well , if the shoe fits... if it doesn't... Simple. I had bullying talks and I didn't feel called out because I never bullied anyone, I didn't feel lumped in even though they were generalizing about teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:17 AM
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nope, I had plenty of respectful good men approaching me and handling rejection as a gentleman, funny enough its the creepy ones who cry about metoo the ones causing trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:15 AM
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If you have problems with the metoo movement and women having a voice against SA, yeah, you should not approach women. Good men that approach and treat women with respect don't feel called out by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:54 AM
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why would feminists say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:02 AM
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there is no one in the world that I would choose over my husband. NO ONE. And I work in the celebrity industry and I have been asked out by a few, always said no, always will. I found my soulmate already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:28 PM
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nah I always found it weird and creepy, I had a lot of older men trying to flirt with me, and this men were business successful, rich and a lot of them good looking as I was working in a yacht club.. still found it very gross. And I will go even farther, some of this men confess to me several times that the reason as to why they choose younger barely legal girls is because they have way less boundaries and they are more "blind" to some situations when they want to be "naughty" compared to women …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:43 AM
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I have seen this situation 3 times, just one marriage survived it but to be honest.. they arent the same anymore. In this situation the men accused the wives for whatever reason, one was because the girl was a bit blonder (the wife is blonde too, just darker).... All of them took the tests, pass them but 2 divorce immediately. I wouldn't have a problem doing a test but its the lack of trust. Wouldn't it be easier to do one of those heritage tests than also confirms family ties?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:32 AM
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nope , I try to avoid conversation as much as I can
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:10 AM
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murders are always reported and are around 95% committed by men.. Statistics and facts over feelings.. so yes,. men are the enemy of everyone including men as you just said earlier hahaha shooting yourself in the foot I see
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:36 PM
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and who is the attacker of this men in the majority? Ill answer, don't worry, 90% of violent crimes are done by men. try again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:10 PM
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with a global epidemic of violence against women its a bit difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:34 PM
2

never heard of this terms before and I never thought about it. The ones obsessed with size are men most of the time, not us...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:59 AM
1

yeah, never understood this, to me 2 years is the maximum gap
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:42 AM
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feminists haven't stopped or criticize it, do you have sources for your claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:06 AM
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its also part of the problem, there's so many problems
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:16 PM
1

I guess same as men going on making new friends apps looking for dates... Quite annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:09 AM
1

same for mine, apparently everyone knows how good I cook
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:45 AM
1

teenage years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:43 AM
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there is an epidemic of violence against women in the UK, women arent doing it... men are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:38 AM
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So both are idiots.. IF you dont want kids, protect yourself. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:25 AM
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To be attracted I need to know the person at least a bit, so very very rare. I can admire someone's beauty but that doesnt make me attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:23 AM
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so your case study is a AITAH post ? How can we do a serious debate like this? If my partner doesn't want to support a business for whatever beliefs, Ill do it. Not a big deal. There is more pharmacies. Well, then please join MGTOW and stay away from women. No problem with that. in fact , I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:18 AM
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nah, big age gaps always give me the eek. No matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:37 AM
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men make women get abortions or get pregnant all the time too. its not just one party, its shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:36 AM
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get a snip snip, problem solved. If you don't want the consequences, do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:51 AM
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two of my great aunts were childfree, they had an amazing luxury lifestyle, travelling with their husbands. Subs like regretfulparents exist for a reason. There hasnt been a situation in my life that I thought, you know what , a kid will make this situation better. Why does people always put the nose around childfree people? why do they care so much about others life choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:58 PM
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for everyone? ah, for equality. feminism doesn't stop others to fight for themselves. AS i suspected, you do nothing but complain so others will fix it for you... well tough shit.. that's not how the world works. Im a feminist and I dont give a damn about what you do or dont do. The word despise is meaningless because I dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:37 AM
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he faked all this niceness and beliefs at the beginning and then showed his true colors later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:22 AM
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statistics say men commit 90% of violent crimes,. actual statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:03 AM
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why do feminists need to fight your fights? If you care so much, do something about it, there's associations, protests, you can also donate to help the cause. so tell me , what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:07 PM
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yep, same role, position and responsibility. Still happens. And there is a global epidemic of violence against women... feminism stands against that too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:56 PM
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Last time I checked men are by far the most victims of homicide. and who is killing this men? or assaulting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:54 PM
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there's a global epidemic of violence against women... that's just one of many reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:25 PM
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even though "civil equality" is "achieved" in some countries .. that doesn't mean that people do it.. I still see cases of gender pay gap and stuff like this even though is illegal..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:15 PM
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where are your sources of that? trust me bro? as I've said , murders cant be not recorded, so what excuse are you going to give? Statistics and facts over feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:49 PM
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there is an easy solution called snip snip, protect yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:17 PM
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around 90% of violent crimes including murder are done by men.. that's just an example
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:15 PM
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some eastern european countries might disagree, and russia
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:40 PM
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there is several countries already that include it, and still... big numbers on men...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:34 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:15 AM
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depends on the country too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:57 AM
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I didn't generalized, i said my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:44 PM
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in my case and most of my friends, we dont expect him to pay, but obviously gives points as shows a nice gesture
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:33 PM
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telling my experience is tresting people like shit how? if you dont want people to have this experiences , go and tell men. why arent you telling them? why are you not calling out their bad behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:32 PM
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but its my experience and I will talk about it if I want too. And maybe you are treating people like shit but I'm not. And I didnt say anything like it, so I assume that you are projecting quite a lot here. I'm just saying my experience, sorry if you don't like it. Its the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:10 PM
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then tell them to stop being shitty partners. Its not a generalization, its my experience and the experience of many women that agreed aa they also experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:48 PM
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because I rather have a prince than kiss many frogs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:21 PM
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who is asking or forcing you to be a provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:18 PM
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nah, I had paid everything if I had a lovely time and wanted to treat the person, other times we split , and others they paid. I feel bad for the people who care so so so so much about the price of one meal, they must be having a really tough economic time...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:18 PM
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and for men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:42 PM
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ugly people are usually insecure which can lead to be toxic partners, simple, attractive people can be insecure too and have the same outcome but is less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:00 PM
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I would never EVER share. I find it pathetic unless you are into poly. Side chicks need to value themselves and don't do this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:15 AM
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not in my case
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:26 AM
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I never said he is ugly, just average and a self proclaimed nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:25 AM
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Where did I said the word repulsive? You clearly didn't understand my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:21 AM
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no, but the nice guy cheated and abused me physically and verbally, the good looking ones never lay a finger on me or insulted me or even raise their voice... so..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:39 PM
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can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:38 PM
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understood, but not in my case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:37 PM
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I dont know what that is or how it affects this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:15 PM
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another post of give the ugly good guys a chance, well when I did that was the worst partner I ever had. Manipulative, toxic, aggressive etc. What I didn't know is that many many women had the same experience, the guy that they gave a chance, the "nice guy" was the absolute worst. Attractive partners didn't manipulate me or treat me like crap, "self proclaimed nice guys" did. Also, just my experience but I never had a problem with attractive guys committing to me. This posts is just fearmongerin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:41 AM
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yes you do need skills, or it will look like clown makeup ... countour? looks good on pictures or videos, real life it doesn't ... you can see it , you see the shadows and it looks like you have dirt on your face, no matter how skilled you are, its visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:28 AM
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yes, no problem with that if I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:49 AM
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yes we do understand, we just disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:24 PM
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My relationship with my husband. We are best friends and do everything together and we shared hobbies like gaming. I love to cook so that's how I spend a lot of my time, cooking from scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:21 PM
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about my ex? probably I will do the same, he is awful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:47 PM
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I have seen the opposite here, most women that talk about their partners speak amazing things about them, myself included
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:05 PM
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how do you know what I am worried about? My point still stands, DNA tests for everyone, you have nothing to hide, you should be ok with it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:50 PM
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I would do DNA tests on everyone. Dads not taking care of their children? well you cant deny its yours, take responsibility. Rape?, murder? easier to solve with DNA and having everyone on file.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:28 PM
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not mine, I love history and he doesn't care at all, same for wars etc , he says its incredibly boring
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:51 AM
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coffee, museum, public spaces. I wouldn't go for a dinner date for the first one, or to the cinema or somewhere without people around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:38 AM
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not as much as now , now women understand this better. On those years the boys will be boys nonsense was still strong. Not only that also the mentality of don't throw your marriage away ,9even if its toxic) work on it. Over the years I have seen the complaints of men on social media saying : older generations fixed broken things instead of getting a new one. Well, some things aren't fixable, so yes, women were expected to pull up with a lot of shit on those decades too . Do you think that everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:38 AM
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and what this have to do with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:21 PM
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how do you know they arent shitty? do you know all of them? did you date them to know if they are shitty partners? no, that's why, pointless conversation. And I am specifically talking about the ones that talk crap about women and wonder why they are single, that's it. If the shoe fits..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:45 PM
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I wasn't talking about those and pretty sure that the post says shitty behavior... If you want to talk about those, you can make your own post or comment instead of derailing the conversation. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:26 PM
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NAh, Ill complain about whatever I want, and there's nothing you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:01 PM
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no one was talking about the ones who aren't horrible people... But I must say, self proclaimed good guys tend to be the worst. A lot of men don't even realize that in fact, they are horrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:59 PM
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sure buddy, sure you do. So you do nothing.. No surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:55 PM
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"Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" Yes, its one of the reasons. Men nowadays need to be actually likable to get picked, in the past this was easy for them as women needed the to have a house etc, today this doesn't happen, so if you want to get picked, be likable and have something to offer. "but women choose bad boys" Yes, emotionally immature and unstable women, not the majority.. There are a lot of single men here who talked horribly about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:21 PM
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this! why they keep complaining and hating without leaving us alone? When I don't want something, ill stay away.. simple, it doesn't even cross my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:39 AM
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You can be concerned about several things at the same time, its not difficult if you are emotionally mature. But if you are so concerned about kids? what do you do against pedophiles? because I will assume that you do something, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:32 AM
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why are you concernec about how women reject and no about how many men react horribly to rejection? Getting aggressive, violent, and in some cases even murdering them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:30 AM
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are the protectors in the room with us? because there's a global crisis of violence against women, so this protectors are doing a really shitty work, not only that, statistics say that the most dangerous man for a woman is her husband, or a family member. Provide? Most women work, the woman provide too, and sadly also does most work around the house as a lot of men are toddlers that need to be taken care of. So I will ask you... what do men even offer? What do I offer? Well , my husband treats m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:43 AM
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no, I'm talking about how it was when I was dating, or also how could it be in a hypothetical situation. There is nothing wrong with ghosting if you don't feel safe. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:27 AM
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In my country nearly every man is intact and still, big orgasm gap, why? because it has nothing to do with it... and the not intact man, is the one that gave me most pleasure, totally the opposite to what you said. I think you need to read a bit more as to why the orgasm gap happens... Ill give you a clue, selfish lovers...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:23 AM
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I'm married already, and I my husband made me feel safe since minute 1, thats why I chose him, no reason to ghost him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:16 AM
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we aren't talking about minorities here but about half the population and the perpetrators of around 90% of all violent crimes including murder and SA
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:15 AM
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because when men get rejected they can be aggressive and violent, so you never know. Hence why the examples on the links.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:10 PM
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no one said that, again, more contentless rhetoric. No one talked about what to do on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:08 PM
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nope, people don't have a crystal ball that will let them know how people would react, so, safety first. Not a big deal. Ghosting is a form of rejection at the end of the day, and something tells me that someone cant handle it very good... People should stop taking everything so personal and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:58 PM
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this is shitty behaviour An example https://amp.sacbee.com/news/nation-world/national/article299725374.html other one : Man attempts to kidnap ex-coworker who refused his advances. Mom saves her. https://nypost.com/2024/03/24/us-news/fearless-nyc-mom-adriana-alvarez-fights-teen-daughters-hulking-alleged-kidnapper-down-four-flights-of-stairs-in-insane-video/?utm_campaign=iphone_nyp&utm_source=pasteboard_app another one https://www.gmanetwork.com/news/topstories/regions/901756/taekwondo-newbie-inj…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:55 PM
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You aren't a victim if you're simply on a fucking date with a man lol no one said the opposite, this just sounds like contentless rhetoric that has nothing to do with my post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:52 PM
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omg yes , I didnt even realized...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:50 PM
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it doesn't make it better that there is a "small" percentage. The risk can be too big. And my safety comes first, always. Sounds like all those women that you talk about have one common denominator.. maybe thats something to check on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:49 PM
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ah yes, victim blaming, nothing new, just boring
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:43 PM
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my shitty behavior? I haven't ghosted anyone but I would If I see it necessary and I understand why some women do it. Of course there is also just rude people who do it and I disagree with those. But I don't think is the norm. Rejecting men can be dangerous and its pretty annoying when they cant take a no for an answer and ask 1000 times more. at what rate? Quite high as the majority of men that I rejected didn't act nicely. I would say around 98% reacted badly or didn't take a no for an answer.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:30 PM
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yeah.. because some men cant handle a no for an answer An example https://amp.sacbee.com/news/nation-world/national/article299725374.html other one : Man attempts to kidnap ex-coworker who refused his advances. Mom saves her. https://nypost.com/2024/03/24/us-news/fearless-nyc-mom-adriana-alvarez-fights-teen-daughters-hulking-alleged-kidnapper-down-four-flights-of-stairs-in-insane-video/?utm_campaign=iphone_nyp&utm_source=pasteboard_app another one https://www.gmanetwork.com/news/topstories/regio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:24 PM
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There is no realistic threat to your safety for simply saying "I don't want to date you There is, as I've said, a few guys were violent after I rejected them, one tried to SA me. Its you the one without empathy as I am saying I had horrible and dangerous experiences in the past and the only thing that you care is men's feelings instead of women safety. Where is your empathy? I don't buy this at all. If all men magically became good at being rejected tomorrow, women wouldn't magically stop ghosti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:14 PM
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omg I was going to work in the lighthouse! but my boss declined the film because he couldnt be bothered with the travelling... ( I work in the film industry)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:08 PM
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well now I want to know what do you think of the end, update please?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:56 PM
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not close to 0 on my experience, as I've said just 2 men out of all the ones I rejected, quite a lot, have acted like a man and handle rejection normally, the rest have been pissy, throwing insults or a few acting violent. So again, ill do whatever I can to ensure my safety. I don't owe them nothing. When men handle rejection properly , ghosting will not be common. Till then, safety first
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:55 PM
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loved the visual aspect of the film, but I didn't like the end
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:44 PM
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close to zero? wish that were true, there's a subreddit called whenwomenrefuse , lots of stories there to prove why sometimes ghosting is the safest bet. Ill repeat it : when men can take a no for an answer like a man instead of like a toddler throwing a tantrum, maybe less ghosting will happen. go on and call men out when they cant handle rejection, why are you just coming to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:30 PM
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I do go out yes, and I will try and avoid unnecessary conflicts that can lead to bad situations. Same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:23 PM
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It does, I'm not risking SA, or worse to protect someone's feelings. Of all the guys that I rejected, just 2 took it like a real man, the rest? insults, violent etc... nope, not doing it. My safety comes first. Tell men to handle rejection and this will not happen. Go on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:17 PM
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nope, I had many instances that a "nice friendly guy" got aggressive at rejection, they usually don't show you this side till rejection happens, not taking any chances... when men can take a no for an answer like a man instead of like a toddler throwing a tantrum, maybe less ghosting will happen. Till then, booo (ghostly sounds)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:58 PM
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it shouldn't be a lot of trust, its quite basic.... again, if you cant trust your partner, there's something wrong and that relationship will fail
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:55 PM
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the fact that when I got most compliments and catcalling was around 12-18 is disgusting....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:43 PM
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it does, as no one is forcing you to not use it, or are they forcing you? its your choice isnt it? plus, if you cant trust your partner... maybe its time to change them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:40 PM
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how is feminism at fault? just use a condom or get a snip snip, simple. Plus, men can also take out the condom without their partner knowing...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:33 PM
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not everyone can comprehend complexity, some people are just "simple"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:01 PM
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You can think whatever you want buddy, it did happen. There is also plenty of videos and posts online of men giving advice to other men confirming this. Quite boring way to debate when you dont have any counter arguments to just say: lies!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:59 PM
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1st!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:02 AM
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Said by multiple men to me, even passport bros : They are just easy and malleable , the ones with my age are too smart and find out really quick when I'm trying to do "naughty" things. This ones will just believe everything I say, they are dumber. You will be surprised how many things men confessed to me working at a club when they are drunk. So yeah, that's the problem, the intention behind it a lot of times...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:02 AM
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not just size if they don't use it properly, ill repeat it : Just size will not make a woman have an orgasm...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:23 AM
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and why is that based on what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:24 AM
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2 up or 2 down that's my max, never lied
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:51 PM
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perfect, I wouldn't date someone with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:50 PM
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dead by daylight and league of legends type of day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:51 AM
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never played it, I will play Dead by daylight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:50 AM
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Gaming day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:48 AM
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sounds like projecting to me, the decent men in my life are loved and have partners and families ,maybe the men that you thought decent , arent decent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:41 AM
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I didn't just say its important , I said Its MORE important, there is a difference...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:17 PM
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and women are the emotional ones .. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:47 PM
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not a plus, don't usualy like em, uncomfortable and painful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:31 PM
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I disagree, but please do it. I used to work in a yacht club where I've met a lot of sugar daddies and passport bros. They usually got women from russia, phillipines and thailand. And I had talk to these women... several times, love? hahaha sure, for money and a better life, but generally they are disgusted by this men. Majority claimed that they treat them like crap and they were already looking for a way out. Others just laughed whilst spending all the money of this men, and one, just one, was…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:22 PM
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Because taking their rights away, not letting them access to education, having a bank account among other things, like murder, rape etc isnt hate and forms of hate? right... Name one country in the world where men don't have the right to an education for being a man, or when they cant choose what to wear, or where they cant work , vote or just talking to other men... Ill wait
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:43 PM
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its way more important how to use it and foreplay, way more. Not important for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:17 AM
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my experience is the opposite, the ones with the big ones don't put much effort thinking that size is everything, very bad lovers and very selfish. Also uncomfortable and painful, nah, don't like them. Nothing good
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:14 AM
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to me it is body shaming, yes. Now, I don't give a damn about sizes, the ones that talk more about sizes are men in my experience. Women care more about how its "used" than the actual size. Just size will not make a woman have an orgasm...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:54 PM
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this is it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:50 PM
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men are often ridiculed for not meeting unrealistic expectations. Making a woman orgasm is unrealistic?? A satisfyer can do it in just 15 seconds, its not rocket science... communication is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:21 PM
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agreed, I never find it difficult, at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:44 AM
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because he also contributed to the situation, if you don't want responsibility, keep it in your pants, simple. And yes, women can have it both ways because it happens in her body, if the man doesn't want the risk of pregnancy, keep in the pants or snip snip or other methods. Simple I'm bored of this hypothetic situation and boring conversation, do what you want with your life, ill do what I want with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:13 AM
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I never felt that way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:41 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:17 PM
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If its done politely, not in a sexual way and can take a no for an answer without throwing a tantrum, I would be ok with it. Location depends , don't do it at night on an empty street for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:45 AM
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same for me with my husband, totally agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:13 AM
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Lies, a lot just inflate everything going on in their lives, or just lie. I met this guy saying that in his country he had a huge house, an Audi , horses and some more nonsense, then I found out that his job was a toilet cleaner. Nothing wrong with that, but the lies were too much and too easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:51 PM
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then you never personally experience your claim. My experience is the opposite. I had a couple partners that earned less than I did. Problems started there, when I started earning more than them and the insecurities began. Most of my friends had the same experience, men feeling emasculated (their own words) and starting to be bitter out of nowhere. Just a minority didn't mind or they took it as a challenge to earn more themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:53 PM
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have you dated women who make more than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:50 AM
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then , good luck in court hahahaha men wanting to avoid responsibilities, leaders they say hahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:11 AM
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My husband does all of this things in the list and much more, its my husband for a reason.. I didnt expect this things but its nice to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 05:20 PM
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then keep it in your pants, simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:07 AM
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same for men but adding snip snip , takes 2 to tango, is a responsability 50 50
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:15 AM
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And why in the fuck should I mutilate my body WITH PREGNANCY AND THEN A CHILD FOR LIFE because you won't take responsibility for yours? Explain that one there we go. Answer that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:21 AM
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same for men, keep it in the pants. or get a snip snip, simple. Same for everyone. You just said its hypocrite when your own advice is aimed at you hahahaha and you just fell for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:50 AM
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When pussypassdenied was full of videos of women physically assaulting men, and men retaliating the feminist position wasn’t that these are 2 adults, one instigator and one who defended themselves. No, it was that man is using disproportionate force cause he’s too powerful. You wouldn’t hit a child who hit you… No one should hit each other, regardless of gender. Violence is never the answer Feminists aren’t insisting that since the gender wage gap for the same job and level is nearly identical (…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:28 AM
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You cant get another acting career, what a weird thing to say. some men are, some are gay and need to hide it for example, others were also SA for a role
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:57 AM
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as others had proved, your wording is quite wrong.. Maybe use better wording next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:50 PM
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so , studying to be an actor for years and then because of a man , you changed your whole life and career and start over again, sure. Plus, forcing someone like that its illegal, why aren't you questioning that? the men taking advantage of their positions? Why victim blaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:47 PM
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Do you work in the entertainment industry? I don't think so, a lot of times women aren't comfortable with being sexualized, clothing etc... and they pushed them to do it, otherwise they threaten them with: you will never be big in the industry, you are impossible to work with and I will tell everyone about it etc etc The metoo movement started for a reason... Men taking advantage of women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:46 AM
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3rd women that confirms that men in UK don't give up their seats, but other women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:42 AM
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I dislike them, maybe when I was a teenager I was a bit interested till I met one and I was like, emm no, horrible and disgusting attitude bye. The whole vibe gives me a big eek
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:36 AM
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because its men who impregnate women, if they don't want the consequences, do something about it instead of passing the problem around. Men expecting women to fix all the problems that they bring, nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:19 AM
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potential interest need to show me a lot of interest anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:46 PM
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I never said I was immune, thats silly. Yeah, pushy doesn't work for me on sales, however, its the opposite on a relationship, if you don't show me interest, bye bye, not chasing. If you show me competition, bye bye, go with them. Not interested. If my partner isnt available for me 24/7 , I don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:35 PM
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I cant predict the future but I can act according to the results, is my life easier and better with a person? yes, continue, no, move on. I was manipulated in the past, everyone can be, but I learned from it, so now I can recognise those patterns and avoid them. Of course marketing works, I'm talking specifically about sellers, try to sell me something and its going to go the opposite way. Push me and it will be way worse. I've worked in sales, I know the tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:43 PM
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right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:13 PM
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not false for me. Never bought anything that someone tried to sell, in fact, when they push me , ill just tear whatever they are trying to sell me apart, (not literally) I don't like to be pushed and as I've said, it just makes me want to do the opposite. not just believe, if its not doing it, I'm not wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:09 PM
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I never used any advice from anywhere, I just act how I think is right. I don't expect for a man to pay, but if he does it, I'm grateful, I don't have a problem with paying either. The 50/50 .. if its not just financially. 50/50 on house chores too. If he doesn't want that, well then he can pay and Ill take care of the house. What I'm not doing is 50/50 and everything on the house... f that Shaming people for their appearance its classless and I wouldn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:54 PM
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No , they just need to make you feel like it will. it will what? what do you mean? I always react negatively to sales tactics, try to sell me something and it will do the opposite. I have friends in sales and they always say they don't want me as a client xD
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:46 PM
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but it doesn't, if a guy doesn't put a LOT of effort, not interested, why should I? The interested person needs to show me that my life will become better by choosing them. If they don't, there's the door. Not playing silly games.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:09 PM
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Regardless of how interested I might be, I don't play games or chase. So if someone tries, I just disappear, I don't need that nonsense. People need to respect themselves and don't fall for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:04 PM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:57 PM
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I don't want to say yes but most of the time it was like that... They ended up flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:25 PM
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because if that its true, your reason was to help people, not specifically women. That's why. So, no, you aren't helping specifically women, just people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:59 PM
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so nothing to help JUST women, as I've said... nothing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:02 PM
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Loyalty also means not cheating... Maybe next time , elaborate a bit more. USA 6. Almost 50 percent of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce or separation. 7. Researchers estimate that 41 percent of all first marriages end in divorce. Not your 60% either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:00 PM
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I would assume that the idea of a long distance relationship is that is not like that forever. Mine started like that, and in 5 months, he moved countries to be together. On those months , we visited often. It can be possible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:58 PM
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I did paid for dates, if the other person was worth it, I wanted to treat them too. Not a big deal. I also paid for my friends. Not a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:03 PM
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You can critize, but when you are giving the wrong information, you will have people who disagree. So where is the HONEST debate? Where is your source for your claim on women about cheating? This is what I have found General Cheating Statistics 2025 || || | 20% of men and 13% of women • reported having had sex with someone other than their spouse while married| And for divorces Divorces were most likely to occur between the 4th and 8th wedding anniversary. UK divorce rate reveals that approximat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:54 AM
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agreed, as soon a guy started doing this nonsense , I just disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:44 AM
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Why not? I had one, and it turned out amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:36 AM
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But you are generalizing a lot, that's not speak nicely.. You weren't talking about an individual. Women are far less likely to remain loyal to a man in 2025. And this is a very mild example, I read other things that weren't nice at all. My point is, if people have this distorted and bad views about women, would this interfere on how they act towards them? I've seen it happen already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:30 AM
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huh? Dont understand your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:44 AM
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Its not a personal attack, just my opinion based on your own comments. You said horrible things about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:43 AM
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Men still winning in the who cheats more. Statistics says so. No one leaves a happy marriage, if they leave, theres a reason. And the biggest one is Lack of Commitment Marriage comes with its set of challenges. That’s why both partners need to invest in building their union. This doesn’t always happen. Sometimes, your partner might not be fully invested in the relationship. Alarmingly, 75% of respondents in a long-term study cited the lack of commitment as the leading cause of divorce. This can …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:39 AM
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I mean .. seeing your views on women and how you talk about them... you wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:36 AM
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I complimented men a few times and every time they thought I was flirting ( I wasn't ) and then the rejection and then the tantrum with the : but you were flirting!!!! No , sir, I just said nice eye color or nice hair whilst doing your hair... So I don't do it anymore. Just to my husband. He gets like 20 compliments per day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:16 AM
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hookup material VS husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:09 AM
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sounds like there is a common denominator here...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:08 AM
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Who is the primary attacker of women? Men. Who is the primary attacker of men? Men. Who rape the most? Men Most serial killers? Men Child SA? Men So the answer to this question men defend women from who? who is usually the attacker??? Its men. Cars, machinery , don't attack by itselves hahahahahah the mental gymnastics to avoid saying men hahaha But statistics says it, even if you try to avoid it. Men commit 90% of violent crimes in total, not lesbians hahaha , MEN Among known risk factors for b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:01 AM
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you just proved that you don't know how stats work. https://www.unodc.org/documents/data-and-analysis/gsh/Booklet_5.pdf Here. Do the math yourself. Where are yours? Again, at least two thirds of them male. And who are killing them in the majority? Which gender??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:56 AM
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Incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:46 AM
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ask them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:26 AM
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Because you said WE help women, you didnt say WE help people, so Im asking, what is this help towards specifically to women?? Ill answer it, NONE. You just put yourself a medal that isnt yours. Men do this a lot. WE build the world (the ones saying it specifically didn't) and in the same breath NOT ALL MEN, to avoid accountability. You don't even need to answer, everything is cristal clear, thats why yolu avoid the question. But avoiding it , you proved the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:25 AM
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that says a lot about men, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:21 AM
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oh they are good looking, as themselves are also good looking. How do you know they didnt enjoy anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:21 AM
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but its not a fact, its just your interpretation of it. And I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:14 AM
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So, you didn't read it and she didn't said it , its your own conclusions or opinions...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:23 PM
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I didnt read that at all. This is what she posted: I wanted to tell him that I wouldn’t let him go with just a hookup or FWB relationship. I wanted more with him basically but I understand my wording with that compliment was terrible. I find him attractive so much. Where did you read what you said? Becasue I have the post history here and I cant find it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:06 PM
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Why must it be solely for women? No one said it should but you said : WE help women. You put yourself the medal, so what do you do to HELP WOMEN. Your examples are helping your family and people, no women specifically. So ill ask again, what do you do personally to help women?? Or isnt your medal to have?? You keep going around in circles but im still waiting for the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:51 PM
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and that woman admitted that she was extremely attracted to him and thats what she meant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:47 PM
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what it really counts is what do you do for a complete stranger. Obviously people usually help their family. And your other examples are not directed specifically to women. So... you do nothing? Because you said WE . And you cant give one example, and just by seeing how you talk about women.. I highly doubt that you do, no need to act. But just proved the point that men nowadays dont protect much at all. Otherwise we wouldn't have a global epidemic of violence against women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:47 PM
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so you are assuming... No source , nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:44 PM
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and you just help women? no, I want to know how you specifically help women. Family is family and it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:01 PM
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Did you ask them all? Or are you assuming?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:41 PM
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then nope. Because to me the full package includes to have a huge attraction and desire. Otherwise its not husband material, its nothing material.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:51 PM
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it says very different things, so can you explain the differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:24 PM
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Actually the global statistic is 1.3% , and this is just counting by a spouse or family member. Add 1.1% by a stranger and your total is 2.4%. Its quite dishonest to just invent numbers without checking the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:19 PM
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what do you do to defend women? because you conveniently used the word WE, so let's see how you do it, tell us!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:10 PM
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men defend women from who? who is usually the attacker???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:07 PM
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A good partner will try. If this was the other way around , I would try and make my partners life easier as much as I could. But I am aware that there's not many great partners... comments proved it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:58 PM
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If you don't want the responsibility, be celibate or get a snip snip, easy peasy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:55 PM
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And what is a beta male provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:44 PM
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which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:00 PM
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nah, alpha bad boys are usually awful at sex and selfish on my experience and most of my friends say the same, its a recurrent joke how disappointing they are. . Husband material is the full package also for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:31 AM
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I would be proud of him but also worried for his safety
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:44 AM
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nah, not interested at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:43 AM
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aaaah another post to excuse bad behavior and being toxic : I'm just like this because this is what women want. Nope, thats not what the majority want. Prioritize them from the start... ah yes because 18 year olds know a lot about life and relationships.... After this people learn and change , the majority do, the minority will chase toxicity, usually because they are also toxic themselves. So, no excuses Im afraid, if you want to be toxic, thats on you, but deal with the consequences. Majority …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:34 AM
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So , are you being toxic on purpose? Wow. Not a good trait I am afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:19 AM
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I don't have to, the comments proved me right. Also I was talking outside of Reddit anyway. Try again LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:22 AM
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I used to had celebrity crushes till I met my husband, never had one after him. He is everything I want. Also working in the celeb industry makes me have a different perspective. To me they are just people, some quite awful TBH...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:57 PM
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agreed with all this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:16 PM
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not my experience, at all. When I needed to be defended , majority of times were women who did it. When I see some videos of something horrible happened. When its a man who did it, majority of comments are other men, joking about the situation, victim blaming or giving every excuse possible and very very few actually condoning it. Now when the perpetrator is a woman, I see other women calling her out and saying how horrible it is most of the time. And very very few looking for excuses. In my cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:01 AM
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awww , bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:44 PM
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it didn't made me stop talking to men. Men are the only reason I would stop talking to them. Not taking a no for an answer, pushing boundaries .. etc I will cut contact with those
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:16 AM
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this is not just about depression but mental illness in general. maybe find sources on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:52 AM
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not around me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:42 PM
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not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:41 PM
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Not my reality. you can do both, everyone should
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:46 AM
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well.. to me its the opposite. If someone is taken or I see "competition" Bye Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:46 PM
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confused and sad that he thinks he need to do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:39 PM
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is that your personal experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:38 PM
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Sounds like projecting again. Good day!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:33 PM
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If that makes you feel better about yourself, have a good day!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:30 PM
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what a weird impression to have based on a few sentences, sounds very judgmental
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:12 PM
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same, this people are deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:06 PM
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to me being attractive goes in the pack with husband material , 100% , I don't know why separate it, I wouldn't marry someone I'm not extremely attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:52 PM
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I dont have that experience, all LTR I had wanted to marry me and even got me a ring. Hard to relate to what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:50 PM
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Thank you, I am not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:26 PM
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nope. not at all, the hookup is just to have fun when you don't have anything BETTER to do. The husband material gets all that you said and more. In my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:22 PM
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or cryspy roasties? mmm now I don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:54 PM
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I want one, badly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:51 PM
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Steak and fries for the hubby tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:49 PM
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this happened in Spain, I dont live there anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:41 PM
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of course , pretty privileged exists. I used to had a work in a Yacht club, many rich people around. And I will always remember this man. He was loaded and even though he was in his 50s he still very attractive. He was also very kind, and one night he waited for me to finish my shift so I will not go alone at night to my car around the port. He was talking about how to be successful in life, and he said: Here is the ugly truth, always surround yourself with beautiful people, always. Your life wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:40 PM
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or beauty, or laughs, or love , anything good is good in big quantities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:26 PM
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some, childfree people is on the rise. And men do that too, thats why so many "hate" their wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:24 PM
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Same, Its not my first language. And I am not sure how to explain it xD If yours is spanish, amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:19 PM
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They really are, and kittens and every animal except birds, those are scary but I dont know if we are allowed to just move the topic like this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:16 PM
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Not always, I was bullied for being "pretty" to the point that a group of girls locked me out in the high school bathroom , and tried to cut my face with scissors so no boys would look at me anymore... Thank god a teacher knew about the bullying and decided to follow us and intervene before anything happened. Unwanted attention? yeah, like 5 stalkers and 4 SA situations, one of them with a woman and I was a minor. Plus 6 flashers playing with themselves. 2 bosses trying to take SA advantage of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:14 PM
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She is amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:07 PM
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Despise? to despise you have to care, and I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:01 PM
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I'm sorry but I have no idea what you just said. English isnt my first language. Would you mind giving me the easy version?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:59 PM
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Because one you say something, the other one you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:57 PM
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Because she meant that she is serious about him, he isnt just a fling, something to use and discard
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:56 PM
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I don't, I wouldn't EVER date a single dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:53 PM
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You can do whatever you want, but he is the envy at the office. Must be itchy to see others happiness but don't be so salty, its quite classless. Be better and maybe you will find someone, or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:51 PM
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why yes? yours isnt communicating, mine is. that's why. Different problems
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:48 PM
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Its not separated, but we werent talking about just oppresion, also other things that surrounds oppresion. Now, are you gonna add something interesting to the debate or you just want to talk about grammar? Because I think that goes against the rules...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:47 PM
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"Firstly, I want to explain my point of view and what I meant by that compliment. I wanted to tell him that I wouldn’t let him go with just a hookup or FWB relationship. I wanted more with him basically but I understand my wording with that compliment was terrible. I find him attractive so much. " Nope, you misunderstood , like the guy at the beginning. Probably insecure, that's why he did it. A normal man wouldn't have that reaction. My husband didn't when I said it to him. He loved it and say,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:45 PM
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yes, but how it applies to what I've said? Its the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:34 PM
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how is it the same? they aren't comparable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:33 PM
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You can think whatever you want. AS i said, never seen it, so I doubt is the norm or very often. Even the girl in the post said that she is very attracted to the guy. Proving that a lot of men misunderstood it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:29 PM
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on my experience , the most attractive the better partners, the less attractive , worse partners, by a mile... maybe insecurities play a big role.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:19 PM
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Same for men, people can be shitty, not a gender thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:17 PM
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There's none , 99% are crap
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:03 PM
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This guy sounds like a very bitter person... Probably no one wants to pull up with his nonsense. Also quite immature...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:03 PM
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I heard so very few times that a guy that is husband material.. because lets be real, most aren't... so every time I heard a woman saying it she really meant it, and this was very few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:52 PM
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but this isnt a gender thing, right? it happens to women too, you are such a good girl, so pure bla bla although never heard the husband or wife material to reject... just the good person thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:50 PM
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it was very clear from the beginning... she never said he wasnt attractive enough, thats his own insecurities, and the same for the ones in the comments. Projection is called. I proved you wrong, BYE!!! Have a good day!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:47 PM
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She said this in the update. Firstly, I want to explain my point of view and what I meant by that compliment. I wanted to tell him that I wouldn’t let him go with just a hookup or FWB relationship. I wanted more with him basically but I understand my wording with that compliment was terrible. I find him attractive so much. You were WRONG sweetie, its ok, it happens. Maybe you need to take an english class.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:44 PM
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no they weren't, I copied her exact line and its this : "he is not someone who I would hookup or be a fwb with but marry. " Translation is: someone who I would take seriously, NOT just a fling, or a hookup. Why are you spreading lies when the post is there for everyone to check? Quite immature
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:39 PM
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we aren't in the 50s anymore, most women are financially independent... Its better to be alone that with a mediocre man. I thought women have very high even impossible standards and just date the top 20% ... so which one is it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:32 PM
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As the man in the post you misunderstood what she meant. he is not someone who I would hookup or be a fwb with but marry. Translation is someone who I would take seriously, not just a fling, or a hookup. I mean.. its not rocket science....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:30 PM
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Or any other of my friends, or other women here that have already said the same in other posts... Its just you guys who say this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:25 PM
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a hookup isnt enough for husband material, is just something to use and discard ... I dont know where you guys get this thing that women are more attracted to guys that are just hookups, no. Those ones will never be promoted to husbands, is just something to use and discard. Respectfully, obviously. Husbands will always have more attraction than hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:23 PM
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Its him who misunderstood and played victim.. She dodged a bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:17 PM
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Never heard someone calling a guy husband material as a rejection , sounds really dumb. My husband was very flattered when I said it to him first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:16 PM
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That what you said is probably not going to hold true for you in the long run why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:13 PM
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how do you know? A lot of cases that some of my friends tell their BF they are husband material, ended up married , at 20s . Same for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:12 PM
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No it doesnt, its a different way to say : I will spend my life with you , I wouldn't just use you for a night , im serious about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:10 PM
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I have no idea whats your point here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:08 PM
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Never seen that, not dismissing it either. But even my friends when they say husband material to a guy , they are crazy for that guy... and they mean they want a life with him. Even the example in this post is a couple... she didn't say that it was a random guy ...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:07 PM
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Should be common sense...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:05 PM
0

where? because my friends are the same as me. When they said omg he is husband material, they were crazy attracted to them and all lovey dovey. I dont think its the norm, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:03 PM
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Agreed, to me husband material needs to have everything to want me to spend my life with that person. Including sex and attraction obviously, why would I marry someone that im not extremely attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:00 PM
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how do you know that didn't happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:59 PM
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nah, husband material is the perfect guy for me. With a lot of good qualities that would made me want to spend my life and do everything for him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:57 PM
1

I will never say someone is husband material if there's no romantic and sexual desire. Why would I want to marry someone I don't have lust and desire for? That's dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:55 PM
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If I say someone is husband material and throws a tantrum, don't you worry, you aren't husband material anymore , not even friendzoned, they go to the void, where nothing ever leaves. So dumb. To me husband material is the perfect man to spend your life with, in all aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:51 PM
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I want to be viewed as the passionate first choice. That's husband material to me among other qualities. I will never say someone is husband material if theres no romantic and sexual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:49 PM
2

nope, not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:21 PM
0

No women I know would share , at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:21 PM
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Thats its not going to change anything. If you are "bad" at it , she wuill not orgasm, no matter if she has sleep around a lot , or not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:57 PM
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Thats its not going to change anything. If you are "bad" at it , she wuill not orgasm, no matter if she has sleep around a lot , or not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:57 PM
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but that's not the conversation here. Not talking about ethnicity. Don't change the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:50 PM
1

gender of those strangers in the majority? Come on, you klnow why you are avoiding it hahaha and I know why too. Because its men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:48 PM
1

but men aren't an ethnic minority, are half the population. Not talking about ethnicity here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:46 PM
1

by who? experiencesd it in majority by who?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:45 PM
1

obviously you want your partner's life to be compatible , if not, move on with someone that is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:28 PM
2

with this neurotic mentality its better to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:26 PM
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I think legal ties should be severed, yes. Then its his choice to continue with the emotional ones or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:23 PM
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Source for your numbers? Or is just what you think it happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:10 PM
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I dont know if it would be the case but for me I don't like if people is too pushy about meeting in person. First I need to decide if the other person is a psycho or not by talking a few weeks, after that sure, lets meet, but if its too much pushing on meeting, Ill leave. Specially if I see that my boundaries are unheard. Example , hey lets grab a coffee mm I dont feel comfortable just yet why not, come on , its just a coffee Instead of : Its fine I understand, maybe in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:09 PM
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and? Im detailing it even more. Your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:01 PM
2

people at the beginning usually just show or even exaggerate their best traits and after a while, the truth comes out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:59 PM
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then you wonder why theres so many divorces, with this mentality of me me me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:57 PM
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Why do you specify women? I met vegan men way more obnoxious than women... There's a lot doing live videos on tiktok. Same for red pillers ... very loud people... I don't think is a gender thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:36 PM
1

ooooh so you don't say the same to men?? why?? they are lies too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:20 AM
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wrinkles? no, It doesnt cover them, as even your AI said it, it will look worse. This is just for very thin lines and even though, it will show. Make up is not magical xDD I wish, would be easier for me. And I do special effects make up, which means mine is even stronger than your average shop foundation... It doesn't cover wrinkles, they still visible. Just with a even tone. I have done several of those articles too buddy. Where I gave make up tips hahaha. You are at a big loss here. No match f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:36 AM
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mature skin doesn't mean wrinkles hahahaha we are talking about a face full of them, 70 or 80 years old, no foundation covers that. And BTW you still very ignorant as this articles are paid for the make up brands to promote their products xDDD See how they said fine lines? The ignorance is showing. SOOO much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:08 AM
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Its so funny to me than when men talk about this dudes, they all have the same caricature of the dude, the thug, the drug dealer, the hot bad boy. When in reality , the abusers are more likely to just be your common average dude. The one that his friends know about and ignore it or act completely surprised saying but he is such a NICE GUY! This is impossible!! Usually they are completely clueless as to how this men act in relationships, and when the abuse is uncovered they act really surprised. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:01 AM
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Oh I can, been in the celeb industry for 25 years in the make up field. You see, talking about something that you never did comes across very ignorant, I wouldn't talk about plumbing as I never did it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:53 AM
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that contradicts itself hahaha light is the opposite of rich hahahahha ITS AI , half of it doesn't make sense hahahahaha but look at this mans ego, trusting AI more than a person working in the make up industry for 25 years. Sure buddy, AI knows more than me hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:51 AM
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Do you use make up? no? Then you don't have the experience and pulling some AI because you couldnt even find anything else to support your claims is quite pathetic..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:48 AM
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I totally agree, he is my favorite person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:46 AM
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I can say the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:46 AM
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go and tell them then, not just to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:45 AM
1

do you say the same to men that wear those wig things? or the ones with the special shoes to appear taller?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:31 PM
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do you say the same to men that wear those wig things? or the ones with the special shoes to appear taller?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:31 PM
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sure, why not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:27 PM
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its a meh for me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:24 PM
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NO way!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:23 PM
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Again, where is your source? If you dont post one, well, you were wrong, nothing else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:21 PM
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same, when I was a kid I had one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:20 PM
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it doesnt matter , where is your source for your claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:58 PM
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AI ahahahahahah same AI that draws people with 2 heads hahahahah even there says it makes it look worse hahahahaahhaa
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:58 PM
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AI generated xDDD mineral powder hahahahahaha this is such nonsense, even there it says that liquid foundation makes them look deeper, you really thought you did something here hahahahahahaha the ego
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:57 PM
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Its not the same conversation. What is my favourite horse? I like friessian , they are very affectionate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:27 PM
1

where is your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:15 PM
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Where is your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:58 PM
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not relevant when we aren't taking about dating. A recently widowed person isnt looking for date. Why would you talk about widows like that? Quite creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:53 PM
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acne isnt the same as wrinkles hahahahaha WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:46 PM
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a spot xDDD not wrinkles hahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:45 PM
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sure buddy, and the sky isnt blue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:43 PM
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you said it first so prove it , source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:42 PM
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Its common sense and I work in the industry, its my field of expertise, unlike you, that you clearly dont know anything about it. do you also need a source to tell you that the water is wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:34 PM
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nothing of what you are saying its true. Where are your sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:31 PM
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Her husband deserved to passed away? Wow who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:29 PM
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not big cracks though, also, who wants to do a horrible job, maybe that's your standard... And it wouldn't work with make up, so you are WRONG
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:23 PM
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I don't need a source to tell me what foundation can or cant do xDD Do you use it? No? well then ssshhhhhh Speak about topics that you know, its quite ignorant otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:21 PM
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but not to fill cracks xDD you use plaster or similar not paint .. jesus, what a horrible handyperson.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:17 PM
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well you were quite wrong about a lot of things xD that's what happens when you talk about a subject that you have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:16 PM
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Check on your elderly relatives or neighbors. I was coming home from the market and the lady next door started to talk to me. Her husband passed a few months back and she felt lonely. I spend 3 hours with her. I want to do something nice for her next week. I cant imagine the pain of loosing your soulmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:15 PM
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what a distorted view of the world that you are projecting. No sweetie, not everyone is like you. People get chosen because they are worth it. If people is alone and no one wants them, there is a reason. Probably they deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:08 PM
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and ? they are happy, unlike bitter people online that no one wants
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:26 PM
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its a multi million industry where many men get rich, no one is going to listen to you... quite a pointless conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:09 PM
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color based imperfections like redness or uneven tones , not creases. I wish if they do, it will made my job a million times easier. Would you paint over a crack in the wall and hope that it will fill it up? nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:08 PM
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WRONG , make up or foundation cant cover any creases at all, in fact , it will look even worse. Nothing can cover them and look good IRL, for pictures sure, but looks awful in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:35 PM
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good quality make up doesn't damage anything, quite the opposite if it has active ingredients. Kohl was used to protecting your eyes in the dessert. Beards and hats too 3 . and? who cares that someone else look better, are we also banning good looking people? 4 . depends where, italy has the biggest and most famous factories and they are amazing. 5 just shallow people, and they will do that regardless 6 leave women do whatever the f they want. Sexism is dictating what we can or cant do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:33 PM
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so women date average men instead the top 20% ?? Interesting ..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:30 AM
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I agree with them. For what I see in different social circles. A lot just bring more work to the relationship, nothing else. A relationship should improve your life, not making it worse. But for what I see, a lot of lazy men around expecting the wife to do everything around the house whilst she also work and split 50/50, not only that, birthdays? meh , dates, nah. This men are not worth it. The good ones are a rarity. Its my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:17 AM
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I agree with her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:43 AM
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This is quite dumb, abusive people comes with a huge variety of IQ. Including geniuses. Many serial killers had a high IQ for example. Gisele Pelicot case, many rapists were doctors, police officers, lawyers etc... Hollywood industry, a lot of abuse there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:34 AM
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They are in happy relationships, you are projecting. Again , its very obvious that you never had one, very sad for you. Bitterness is an awful companion to have. You aren't a Chad, so you are clearly projecting.. Trying to smear others down to feel better about you not being chosen, by anyone, feel bad for you. Therapy might help
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:57 AM
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That's just an article with summarized points but theres forums, youtube comments etc that said the same basically. IF you don't want to smear anything, well, be careful with what people say... they did it themselves sweetie. Do you have links to prove it wrong? to prove that they dont spread any hate and its just peace and love?? Ill wait :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:54 AM
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anime, gameplays and cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:39 PM
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sounds like you are projecting just to feel better about yourself TBH
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:36 PM
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there is, but theres not many likable ones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:27 PM
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Stephen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:13 PM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:07 PM
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nope, those are happily married. Sad that you never had a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:06 PM
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they are getting used for money hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:29 PM
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well, you can believe whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:25 PM
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We used to live in a big house as students. I have seen it with my own eyes..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:24 PM
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she is doing hypopressive techniques
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:08 PM
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do you think they are exaggerating? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:54 PM
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even if its easier doesn't mean that they will... My female friends don't sleep around usually, but my male friends did it a lot. Like, every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:44 PM
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Why not possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:41 PM
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they were in their early 20s and even 30s , now they are past the wall at 40, single and no one wants them. Thats the future for this slutty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:40 PM
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I need inspiration, what to cook for dinner tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:18 PM
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probably laugh like a Hyena
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:56 PM
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they are celebrities, they can date whoever they want xD they didn't settle. Stop projecting your preferences into the rest of men. Its so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:49 PM
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they are, crying about the loneliness epidemic. They pop up on my FB every now and then complaining about how lonely they are now that their looks have faded and no one wants them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:48 PM
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I admire you, honestly, enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:43 PM
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yeah using him like the slut he is, just for sex. Nothing else. No one will take him seriously. I had met a few of those, slutting everywhere in their 20s , now they are 40 and no one wants them as they have the fame of a slutty guy. High value women don't want those.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:39 PM
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oh they did had PLENTY of options, I worked in the celebrity industry and this men don't care about the past as the majority have liberal and healthy views of sex. Sounds like you are projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:36 PM
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so a slut. Yeah, don't want those. No one promoted him to husband. Not worth it. Who wants a overused pencil? Probably just a slut and a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:34 PM
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nope, a slut is a slut, who wants an overused pencil that no one promoted to husband?? No one wanted him!! Why would I want the leftovers that no one wanted . Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:25 PM
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nope. I have seen plenty of women with a history of hookups having long term relationships with really nice men, they are married now. PLENTY Your projection has no power here I am afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:23 PM
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for you maybe, and for some women too, they can also decide not to be with a slutty man. Its exactly the same. No one forces you to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:19 PM
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You are spamming as I needed to repeat my question several times waiting for a simple answer and nothing.. Still waiting for it. I guess the answer is : No, women shouldn't care about random men preferences in dating, as they don't need validation from them. There you go, done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:45 PM
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Actually, divorce lawyers agree that a lot of men don't put enough effort on the relationships, that's why divorces happen. ME? Demonstrated what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:43 PM
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I don't want to understand your dating preferences. You are a rude stranger online. I don't care at all about you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:40 PM
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To understand I should care enough, but I don't, why should I care about random men dating preferences. Answer the question. Yes, its English, and quite basic to be honest.. Do you have perhaps a more extended vocabulary than just 2 short basic sentences with no important data at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:37 PM
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WRONG. All parties involved need to put effort. Maintaining a relationship is the hardest part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:34 PM
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No, I don't need to understand your dating preferences. Why should I?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:32 PM
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Yes I will define what is important to ME in a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:29 PM
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No I dont. Who wants a tiny overused pencil that no one wanted to promote? ewwwwww (see, we can do it too)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:26 PM
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Why should I care? answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:25 PM
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sounds like you never had a healthy relationship... sounds a very sad way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:22 PM
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nah, not all men are so insecure to care so much about it. The only one who get a pass would be for religious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:19 PM
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this guys .. omg
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:12 PM
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no, I don't want an overused pencil that no one wanted to promote to husband. I dont want my man to be a whore. I can do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:11 PM
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they aren't wrong things. Every person has different priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:05 PM
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Oh I know the preferences of some men but no, I don't need to care about men's preferences in dating. Men aren't the center of the universe. There are so many interesting things to care about. I don't give a damn if RP men prefer virgins or women with low body count. I don't give a damn. Why should I care? answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:32 PM
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Yes, it is difficult. But how proud and happy would you be with yourself once you've done it? Come on :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:22 PM
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It is not. Thank you for telling me, I will try and be more aware. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:18 PM
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Not all men have your preferences you know that right?? Everyone has their own different list with things that they care and things that they dont. I don't care about some men's preferences, no. Why should I?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:16 PM
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I would say depending on the health... Sometimes health is more important than money
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:11 PM
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no, I get car sick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:10 PM
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No sweetie, I don't give a damn about what some men want. Everyone has different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:04 PM
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the person defending itself doesn't need to apologize, specially after not only rude comments, but threats too. Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:02 PM
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Good for you, I wouldn't date single dads either, or dads in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:52 PM
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Yes as I was proving my point, but what I am not going to do , is move on to the next subject like nothing happened without an apology. If you want to be civil, you know what to do, if not, Have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:50 PM
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I'm sorry but I am not interested in a debate with a person that has been rude to me and didn't apologize. I prefer people who brings positivity. Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:43 PM
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you started it sweetie, not me, I matched your energy. If you wouldn't had started, nothing would have happened. Next time , don't be rude. Be a better person and don't make snarky comments if you don't want people to bite back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:34 PM
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You started to be rude sweetie, with the read a book being condescending etc, I matched your energy, next time, don't start. Easy. If you give me respect I will respect you but If you play dirty, I will too. But thank you for saying that men are violent. Although we knew that. You implied that for just a little taunting men can be dangerous and not control themselves and probably be violent. First thing that you did is threatening so.. Thanks for proving a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:25 PM
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or what? come on, , or what?? what are you going to do?? Taunt how? By saying that women shouldn't settle for mediocrity? Someone its very salty. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:14 PM
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advising me from what exactly? ohhh someone is backpedaling now hahaha someone got spooked!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:07 PM
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or what? come on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:04 PM
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they never make sense, they just want to blame women for absolutely everything to avoid any sort of accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:03 PM
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Are you threatening me? hahahaha awww little one got a bruised ego, so yes, it is because the not chosen, I mean I can see why...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:02 PM
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For both sides, yes. Some men bring nothing but house work in a relationship, why bother with those. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:52 PM
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awww someone is upset because it doesn't get chosen, thats why it needs that women lower their standards LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:51 PM
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I do know. And I do not give a damn about what some men's preferences are. I do not care at all in the slightest. Yo can have all the preferences that you want. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:49 PM
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I see your point and I kinda agree. But my SO is my best friend and we do everything together because we want to. I prefer his company than others and he is the same with me. We have friends in common, and we do go out with them, but we prefer just each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:27 PM
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no, because natural selection. Just the good ones will continue. Not the mediocre ones that no one wants. Read a book. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:23 PM
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sure buddy, fearmongering wont work here my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:17 PM
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how is bad for society? then tell men to keep up with those standards and not be mediocre
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:16 PM
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no its not, who wants an overused pencil, also it would tell me that it doesn't want to commit, maybe cheats or no one wanted him enough to be promoted to husband. See? we can do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:08 PM
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well, that's their problem, how does it affect you? It shouldn't. If they are happy single, good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:03 PM
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yup, this is it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:58 PM
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the fearmongering again. "oh you better lower your standards because High value men will never commit to you" Nonsense, my standards went higher and higher with each relationship. And I had no problem with committed men. Ever. Ladies, never settle for mediocrity, its better to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:52 PM
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ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:26 PM
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yes it is, exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:25 PM
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no one is stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:12 PM
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It can also be the other way around. Its usually men who have the higher body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:06 PM
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Well the people I dated weren't insecure or care about it. I wouldn't had dated them otherwise. People who cares so much about others past are a red flag for me. I wouldn't even gave them a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:14 PM
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Everyone should. Some people think that once you have one, work is done, its not, maintaining it is where you need to put the most effort
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:37 AM
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some women should have higher standards and don't settle for mediocrity , yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:27 AM
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I am realistic as I meet all of my standards. I expect to be treated like a queen as I treat my partner like a king, I love to treat them and pamper them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:12 AM
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What did I misunderstood?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:10 AM
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My high standards are not just physical, I care more about personality. where do I need to put effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:10 AM
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nah , not my strategy, if I see competition I don't care anymore. I don't chase or play games. If he doesn't put effort, bye bye. When a guy says lower your standards usually mean that themselves don't meet those standards.. and want a way to meet them. Same when they try to humble women, they try to lower their self esteem down to have a chance or feel better about themselves. I have incredibly high standards and I am not lowering them. Thank you. I'm not settling up for mediocrity. Did it once…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:49 AM
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a hookup is a hookup, no promotions to boyfriend. There is a reason that they will stay as a hookup. I will not put much effort into it more than respect and having fun. That's it. Now , boyfriend material gets all the perks. I like to treat my partners as a king. I had 4 LTR, and all 4 got me a ring, and even years later I still got messages of oohh you are the one that got away. I guess I did my job well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:01 AM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:16 AM
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in reality , a lot of men don't think that. You are projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:57 AM
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even if its true, its not women's fault that some men have no standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:52 AM
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My experience is the opposite, women have a hard time with beauty standards, perfect body, aging etc Instagram can be hurtful with all the models and comparing themselves to them. Their self esteem can be damaged. And I have seen men below average with a huge ego thinking they are a catch. Lets remember all the ones scoring Margot robbie as a "mid"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:12 AM
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we are talking about violence, murder, rape... not just oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:52 AM
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it does affect more as a tantrum is not the same as throwing punches, the difference is how its expressed... and women don't express it destroying things or getting into fights as often as men. My point still stands. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:51 AM
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Never had to. I have always been approached IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:03 PM
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Its not, it sounds manipulative and a guilt trip, even if I was attracted to this person this would make my attraction disappear
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:18 PM
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I thought he was good looking but I wasn't attracted, in fact I didn't like him much at first, quite the opposite , until we talked more a few days later and I started to know him better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:44 PM
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damage your soul how? sounds like a very very thin skin..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:40 PM
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meh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:32 PM
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yup, we always tell each other and laugh together about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:27 PM
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some tried, and it backfired. An example, a guy "pretending" to have lots of attention from other women to show me that I had to "compete". Told him if I liked competition, I would have tried at the olympics. Another one, the hard to get . This one disappears for long periods of time and then appears again saying it was busy. So I disappeared completely. I don't play silly games.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:07 PM
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I didn't started that conversation, not sure why you are telling me.. I just corrected some information that was wrong. Have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:56 PM
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by excluding half the population and taking their rights away? what a way to do things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:50 PM
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I just need to google search a bit to see that that movement spreads a lot of hate instead of positivity amongst men, which is a shame as its not helpful at all, they spread hate and bitterness instead of doing positive things for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:24 PM
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pure exaggeration? right , so the doctor that was raped by several men whilst working? From your own source : So it doesn't distinguish between cases dropped because it was clear the woman was lying and those where a woman was put under pressure to withdraw her claim - or where there was simply insufficient evidence to build a strong case. Forensic evidence is rarely used in Indian rape cases, so it's often just his word against hers. You took the word of a lawyer that defends rapists and tried …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:52 PM
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then why are you talking about US? Whats the point Why would I focus on something that happens 0.3% instead of the 99.97% ? Its dumb, theres no epidemic on false accusations but there is of violence against women. Again, just dodgy people are scared of being falsely accused, good men aren't worried about this. False accusations are not just rape, you know that right? Are you saying men never lie? xDDDD This is so dumb. You see my arguments are men killing and raping in huge numbers and commit 98…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:17 PM
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Its not my law xD not my fault that your country does corrupt stuff. This claim is also bullshit There is data, that's how they got the numbers. False accusations are around 0.3% last time I checked, Im more concerned of the 99.97% and you should be too. Or don't you care about women's safety? Men do false accusations too. The only people concerned about false allegations have always been quite dodgy in my experience, why are you so afraid of? No one does it for fun, find a source that says that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:35 PM
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You have no idea how law works and it shows, a murder is a murder yes, but there are aggravating circumstances which give more years in prison. Not that difficult to understand. There's not 2 exact crimes, there's too many things to take into account. Over 91% of sexual violence is perpetrated by men. Men and Boys are 230X more likely to be raped than falsely accused of rape. https://www.rsacc-thecentre.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/False-Reports-The-Facts.pdf Oh false reports in general are…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:25 AM
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the men complaining about not being chosen here , have proven to be quite horrible towards women with their comments. Self proclaimed nice guys are the worst. I value more personality than looks. Does this mean that Ill just go for personality? No. I have incredibly high standards when it comes to dating. And I don't hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:35 AM
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compared to the ratio? No, it doesn't matter, plus no crimes are the same, if they get a shorter sentence there is a reason. An easy example: Murder a : 25 stabs and dismemberment . gets 80 years of jail as a lot of malice was involved Murder b: 1 stab . gets 30 years , less malice. See? Its not that difficult right? Answer the question. Which gender murder their spouse more?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:22 AM
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It happened to me a few times and we ended up dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:13 AM
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if close to 50% have been arrested? well that's a huge number, don't you think? Why aren't you addressing that? That between 40-50% of men could be criminals? Why taking the victim route? Its pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:10 AM
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sooo, men are the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:51 AM
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wonder why, could be the global violence against women? Every woman I know has had some sort of abuse from men. Every single one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:49 AM
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which groups of women? Show me your source for that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:47 AM
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it doesnt matter about shorter sentences, the ratio is crazy 90 to 10. BTW your link proves how big are numbers of abuse of men to women, way higher than lesbians.. you shot urself in the foot with that one. Thats why theres a national emergency of violence of men against women, not lesbians .. Which gender murder their spouse more?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:46 AM
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there is evidence When women find it hard to talk about difficult feelings, they tend to internalise them. This can lead to depression, eating disorders and self-harm. Men are more likely to act out their feelings through disruptive or anti-social behaviour. On the other hand, some factors protect women’s mental health: they tend to have better social networks than men, find it easier to confide in their friends and are more likely to have been treated for a mental health problem. https://www.me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:39 AM
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for that or for spreading hate and misogyny ? Lets see what internet says : In 2014, Elliot Rodger went on a shooting and stabbing spree, killing six and injuring 14 at the University of California, Santa Barbara. Rodger was a self-proclaimed “incel” (short for involuntary celibate)—a group of young men who feel furious at their perceived rejection by women and meet online to discuss and spread their ideology. Their toxic misogyny fuels a hatred for women that has led to several recent incidents…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:34 AM
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Same argument for the crime too then isn't it? How? care to explain? No excuses, its from your own source xDD This doesn't prove anything , men commit more violent crimes than women, always had, always will. I'm not blaming males for everything, don't be so emotional. I said that anger is an emotion and men commit more violent crimes than women. Is that right? Yes. Statistics prove this. Check murder and rape statistics. For example. The lesbian has been debunked several times as the study didnt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:00 AM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:28 AM
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well no shit, women weren't allowed to have an education or careers for a large portion of history and even nowadays in some country they aren't allowed. You guys didn't let us play and then laugh when we couldnt play? Its dumb. Latest data says that women are more educated each generation, and surpassing men lately as a lot of young men don't want to study. About queens : Female rule was sometimes virulently opposed on exactly the grounds that women made for weak leaders, who were incapable of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:16 AM
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you are commenting on my post sweetie, its you the one who needs to leave, but here you are , starved for attention, I think that's what happened here, because the low IQ comments cant be real. people cant be that dumb right? Poor thing cant even see his mistake now hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:05 AM
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too difficult for the little one I see, now makes sense. Brain hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:59 AM
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But I was right as I had said the consequences are less. See violent crime... which gender does it most, murder? rape? if you guys want to treat each other like crap, do it, but don't include people who doesn't want to be included into it. Men are often their worst enemies.. No wonder why mental health is bad and violent crime up between them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:58 AM
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and as I have said, then when the other person intervene saying I think that's what he meant... he added the word "non" to your question, and you said yes, so either you made your mistake in your question, or you made the mistake by saying yes this is what I meant to the other person, so is the second one where you made the mistake? Because the other person added the word NON to your question, which changes everything about it.... You see, the mistake is only yours... not mine. Can you see it ? …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:54 AM
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No, but men throw more tantrums and get aggressive and with worst consequences way more than women. Specially at work. I've seen it so many times. Very unprofessional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:28 AM
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Sure little one . Says the guy that couldn't see the point of the conversation... awww the one that doesn't understand that when you put the word non you change the context. What can we expect 🤔 imagine speaking just one language and bkt doing it right 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:25 AM
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Anything about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:19 AM
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Of course because anger is a feeling 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:19 AM
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Nope, they get diagnosed more because they actually care to seek for help instead of doing something stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:17 AM
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Tell that to men here then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:16 AM
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The leabian thing that has been debunked ? Becayse they sidnt specify gender or time of the abuse meaning lifetime? And murder? Rapes? Because men do 98% of those
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:15 AM
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There's a men's mental health crisis... and the numbers of suicide are quite high on men compared to women... i don't think you guys are resolving much... sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:41 PM
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Anger is a feeling. I don't see many women punching holes in the wall because sports...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:16 PM
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You certainly sound like one. As thud could have been avoided just by repeating the question with more context. But I guess it was too difficult for you... not everyone has an extended vocabulary. Honestly.. this was a very low iq conversation... a toddler would understand and speak better English
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:07 PM
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At least I can ask a simple question. You clearly can't. Your English is broken it seems as you don't know the difference that the word NON makes in a sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:35 PM
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So you made a mistake with the other person then.. because they specify NON. There is a big difference between conventionally attractive and NON conventionally attractive. But it's ok, everyone makes mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:28 PM
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You asked differences between conventionally attractive and very attractive. I asked for clarification as I wasn't sure if we were just talking about physical attributes, and also i was a bit confused as in my post is talked about NON conventionally attractive vs very attractive. Then someone else said that you meant NON conventionally attractive vs very attractive, and you said yes. That's what you meant Do you notice the difference? The difference is the word NON . I don't think is difficult..…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:12 PM
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eww no , not aggressive, yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:24 AM
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someone isnt using his brain I see... You can re read and find your mistake , I am bored of pointing it out and you aren't even listening.. Such a boring conversation, is like talking to a wall. Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:07 AM
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then you lied to the person that corrected you, which one is it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:56 AM
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Well next time check what you wrote as there were some words missing. avoiding the question I see, its the response that I knew anyway, have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:50 AM
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How was I rude? I just asked you to elaborate your question. Where is the problem? How many languages do you speak? Its usually people who just speak English the ones who mock others. You made a question missing some words, we were talking about nonconventional attractive people and you forgot to put the word "non" making the whole question weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:46 AM
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I am so happy for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:24 AM
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her experience matches up with a lot of ladies here, what's the problem,?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:17 AM
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well, its obviously different to each person , what I find attractive other people might not. No point in answering that. Plus English isnt my first language. No need to be rude about it, you could have been more specific instead of talking in a very basic level. And, I am pretty sure you missed a couple words in your question that made it strange
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:12 AM
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maybe, makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:57 AM
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It might come from not having as many insecurities, I don't know . But it is interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:04 PM
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I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:11 PM
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You keep bringing size constantly... a bit obsessed. I mean it's ok If you prefer big. No judging. I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:10 PM
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Only guys with super tiny thingies think that size matters so much. Nobody else think this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:03 PM
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I can't as I don't understand your question. Use your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 01:59 PM
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what type of differences are we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:11 PM
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On my experience I had non conventionally attractive guys being horrible partners, insecure, jealous, cheaters , manipulative etc.. and very attractive guys being really good partners, I have no idea why , but I also think it depends on the person more than the looks. I assume that not being insecure is a big plus on how someone acts in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:57 AM
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this has to be a troll... the chase is off, good, I don't chase or play stupid games, If I want to play games Ill just turn my xbox on. Not having competition gives me peace of mind, I love that. Im sorry but sometimes ending up in a dead bedroom is the mans fault, could be because the woman needs to mother him as he doesn't do anything around the house more than eat and sleep or he is just bad at sex, or selfish. If you are good at it, chances are, your partner will engage often. If you are cra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:46 AM
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and don't care about their partners happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:15 PM
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oh Im ok with those, delicious xD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:51 PM
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stoooop T__T
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:07 PM
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as someone working in the celebrity industry ... nah , as the other ladies said, it doesnt work like that... looks aren't enough, personality matters. I have seen really attractive handsome men open their mouth and turning into an orc in my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:06 PM
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my first trauma, next, lion king
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:50 PM
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I thought this was going to be a cute story... T__T
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:31 PM
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its not, if you love someone you wouldn't stalk them, its hurtful, you don't hurt the people you really love. You wouldn't do anything to harm them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:02 PM
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are you saying that stalking is good?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:02 PM
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so we have crap or doble crap, yeah no thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:49 AM
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then explain what you mean about standards so maybe I can understand your point better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:46 AM
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this might ruffle some feathers but every passport bro that I've met was quite a horrible person that no one wanted to be around. I used to work in a luxury port area so I had met a few. All the same type, horrible to be around, old and ugly bringing this young ladies as an arm candy. Some girls looked genuinely scared , others were spending their money like there's no tomorrow. Never seen a happy , normal relationship. Im not saying they don't exist, but I don't think is often. This men treated…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:43 AM
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both are crap, one fakes and lies and the other one is bad. Its so funny to me when men say nice guys, how do you know that they are nice in a relationship? did you had one with them? no? then you don't know. Plus self proclaimed nice guys are usually the worst...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:44 AM
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cleaning after yourself its a basic life skill like cooking and everyone should learn it... without excuses... reading comments like this makes me understand why some men dont even clean their own ass properly, ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:02 AM
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most men cant fix their own car, otherwise mechanics will have very little work to do if that's what the case... mechanics don't exist just for women... And you are comparing not having enough strength to carry heavy stuff to not wanting to clean properly, which is a basic basic hygiene skill that even kids do...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:56 AM
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I don't care at all, good for him for spicing things up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:12 AM
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Of course, you need to know what your partner likes and dislikes and plan accordingly, I think a lot of men are mistaking this (planning accordingly to your partner ) with doing something over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:19 AM
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waiting for their response here with my coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:59 AM
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what a waste of time, effort, thats why divorce exist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:53 PM
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no one is forcing you to marry
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:39 PM
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we can see that, which is why your dating life prob suck.. you should stay away from women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:05 PM
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9 but I have very long hair, needs extra care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:44 PM
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what a sad life, I hope you heal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:43 PM
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But half of this don't apply in history like for example academic ones, women didn't went to school for a very big chunk of history... and still.. also women also face child abuse and more SA... and still... women didn't had any rights again for a big chunk of history and they didn't turned as violent as men, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:20 PM
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why exactly men commit more crime because of misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:54 PM
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I mean.. men commit more crimes than women, if we talk about murders is 98% committed by men , men are their own worse enemies. I dont think misandry is worse than that...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:36 PM
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so.. men are horrible? is that what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:25 PM
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Where did I bully someone? You said you are a cheater and a homewrecker, I said I dislike people who do those things... is that bullying for you? The only bully here is you, you are the one insulting and being fatphobic as you use the word obese to try and insult people online... Its so sad to see a person this bitter. Hope you heal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:06 PM
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Yes I was, for a few years. Physical and financial abuse too. He did cheat, but my conscience is clean as I didn't take the easy route. Got my strength up and left. Don't blame DV on you being a cheater and a homewrecker. That's pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:32 PM
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You said this things not me, you said you cheated and you also said you have been with married people, and got pissy when people didn't gave you a star? Cheating saved my life he says hahaha and its me the insane one , right hahaha so pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:25 PM
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so not only a homewrecker but also a cheater hahaha cute Answer the question. Are cheaters and homewreckers viewed positively in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:20 PM
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No one talks about your diagnosis, (weirdly you keep bringing it up I dont know why as is not even related to the debate) unlike you, I don't get personal or insult,,, I'm not classless but you said that they were in abusive marriages ... so you knew ... lies have short legs hahaha Answer the question. Are cheaters and homewreckers viewed positively in society? I didn't asked for your opinion about it , just answer the question. Because this is why you got pissy and hysterical, because you thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:58 PM
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Thats what happens when you post online, people will give their opinion. You said you have been with married people, expect people talking about it in return as it is disgusting behavior. Answer the question. Are cheaters and homewreckers viewed positively in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:48 PM
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just now for example , you keep insulting like a little kid with nothing else to say, no arguments, nothing, that's why you insult, because you cant say anything, people dislike cheaters and homewreckers as I've said, and you know this, that's why you are throwing insults, because you cant combat it. Simple question: Are cheaters and homewreckers viewed positively in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:40 PM
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yes loser because you resort to insults and throwing tantrums... quite immature
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:32 PM
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you are sweetie, as you are the only one insulting and getting personal... When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. You are the only one here loosing your temper .. a bit hysterical I see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:25 PM
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Projecting what exactly hahaha someone doesn't know what it means. I can say the same, the only thing that you say is immature responses like "cry about it " when someone pointed out your crappy behavior. And throw a tantrum that its still going now ... But what can we expect of a person who does this things. Its ok if you are a proud side chick, dont need to be salty, but you arent, thats why this tantrum
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:11 PM
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Like you? Do you tell everyone in real life that you are a side chick? or just here? I think you are very upset because this didn't go according to your plan, you thought people will think oh so cool, but people are just disgusted by cheaters and homewreckers, that's why you are throwing this tantrum. Its very funny xD Just own it, be a proud side chick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:56 PM
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what are you going to cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:51 PM
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Amazing! Ill try and remember
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:43 PM
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I don't consider myself romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:41 PM
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who asked you any of this? who cares? own it, you are a homewrecker
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:37 PM
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none, ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:35 PM
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outrage? those are big words, again, someone is starting to sound a bit hysterical... So you seek emotionally vulnerable women in situations of abuse... Things keep getting worse... That's what preds do... I stated a fact, people dislike cheaters and homewreckers, sorry that you are one...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:24 PM
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Clearly you don't care as you keep replying xD IT doesn't matter if its here or not, cheaters and homewreckers are also disliked outside the internet... They are disliked everywhere... Hard pill to swallow for you I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:13 PM
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Who said reddit is real life? Just you. I just gave my opinion as this is a debate sub. But you got a but emotional by it I see. I mean... If you dont want to people to comment on your experiences , maybe keep them to yourself next time if you cant handle a bit of criticism. Very thin skin I see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:58 PM
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I guess you think that SLIGHTLY above average means MASSIVE , HUMONGOUS hahahaha Women who gave birth cant have an opinion? Why is this funny? I am still waiting for your links. Come on. Im sure you have some giving the obsession with big things that you have .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:44 PM
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why would I be butthurt? I just gave my opinion of people who are cheaters or homewreckers. Simple. I don't know this people to be upset. Makes no sense and sounds like projection. But here you are going all personal about it. Keep repeating that you don't care, maybe at the end you will believe it hahaha caring enough to keep replying huh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:37 PM
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talk about empathy but your advice is to treat people badly and being vengeful instead of leaving, right...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:26 PM
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so where is yours to counter it? There's many more that prove what I say : In one study, 77% of females who completed a questionnaire said penis length was unimportant or totally unimportant https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/271647#do-partners-care Again, the most obsessed ones are men. As we can see here...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:07 PM
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no need to be salty, it is what it is. You shouldn't trust home wreckers or cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:53 PM
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Shitty?? of a research that says that women don't care much about size??? Jesus someone its a bit hysterical, calm down mate , this really struck a nerve huh . Its ok if you are obsessed about size, but as many women said already, we prioritize other things. You do you, obsess over it if you want. You sound very emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:51 PM
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it does.. that's why you are so pressed about it.. hit a nerve huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:42 PM
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Yeah I can see your obsession with "Big" ones.. now makes sense, its called projection. Enjoy thinking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:38 PM
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yeah it does, home wreckers are also at fault,not as much, but also and that's what you are, a side chick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:36 PM
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sure buddy, go and think a bit more about big ones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:32 PM
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sure buddy hahaha keep telling that to yourself. go and think about big ones a bit more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:31 PM
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awww touch a nerve huh? its so funny that is men obsessed with size telling us that we obsess over it and when we say its not that important for us, there other more important things, they don't believe us xD well, keep obsessing over sizes then, keep thinking about them.. constantly hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:29 PM
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do you think that you know better than researchers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:27 PM
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My statement stays , regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:25 PM
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another one that doesn't know how female anatomy works The famous sex researchers Masters and Johnson [1,2] have concluded that size of the male penis can have no true physiological effect on female sexual satisfaction. They base this conclusion on their physiological studies that show that the vagina adapts to fit the size of the penis. Because of this vaginal adaptation, they refer to the vagina as a potential space rather than an actual space. Thus, despite the worries of many males about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:23 PM
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agreed, of course they are, there's people for everything, but I don't think there's many...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:54 AM
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why would men do that? it is already linked..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:28 AM
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is that the only thing that you could think of when someone proves you wrong? I mean, there are even studies on it, the kitty adapts to the size, maybe you dont have much experience to know this, nothing to be ashamed of
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:23 AM
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to know how to use it, foreplay etc.. The famous sex researchers Masters and Johnson [1,2] have concluded that size of the male penis can have no true physiological effect on female sexual satisfaction. They base this conclusion on their physiological studies that show that the vagina adapts to fit the size of the penis. Because of this vaginal adaptation, they refer to the vagina as a potential space rather than an actual space. Thus, despite the worries of many males about the size of their pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:18 AM
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the fact that he has an option doesn't mean that it happens a lot. Still, its a minority of people who do that. Majority of women that I met dont like big ones. And size its low on the list, they have other preferences that come first, again, the ones obsessed over size are usually men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:08 AM
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and you know this... how? because I know personally a few pornstars, and they don't get any attention, in fact , they have trouble to find anyone who isnt on the industry. Its sad as some are quite lonely. They get paid for their work , but not from women... Men are the biggest consumers of porn, and women usually prefer lesbian porn to hetero... It seems to me that this is what you think it happens..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:03 AM
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I don't think many women do that, I don't even know who those guys are xD Again, big its painful, it doesn't matter how its used, its painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:57 AM
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that says a lot about you too, nnot respect for your fellow men? where is the bro code?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:49 AM
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You will see that some men give quite a lot of importance to that... But I never met a woman obsessed with that size... in fact , they usually say that too big its horrible, and I had work in the adult film industry (as crew) and they always hated big ones and complained a lot about them... ITs way more important how to use it, more than the size. Size doesn't matter if you dont know how to use it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:43 AM
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the only people I see obsessing over it its men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:35 AM
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Never liked the bad boy type, I prefer the good guy so I don't think I changed much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:07 AM
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It's wrong if you hurt others ..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:09 PM
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it would be crappy people, why would you want to be around crappy people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:20 PM
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oh no , they were quite attractive lots of times, but became ugly because of the crappy personality. No one wants to be around people full of themselves, so boring
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:01 AM
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nice doesn't mean weak, hope this helps Every time the "alpha" came to flirt with me with his ego and his asshole behavior , I laughed, put him and his ego to the ground and left. Its good because they filter themselves out so keep doing it, its good for the ones around you to be a walking red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:31 AM
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another delulu post thinking that young women will just melt for their bald heads, beer bellies and limp dick.. the only reason of younger women could be choosing this is "money" Men peak at 50?? hahaha sure buddy, if that makes you sleep better at night. Most men age way worse, they don't take care of themselves, gym, skin care etc... nothing, genetics is a thing but that's a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:24 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:57 PM
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yup, horrible advice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:56 PM
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Men and their ego.. thinking everything revolves around them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:38 PM
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I meant in this conversation.. but anyway Women give that advice ? Or is it other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:35 PM
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I domt know which post is that , can you give an example of what you considered low class ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:34 PM
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No one says fake it..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:28 PM
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Examples of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:50 PM
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Then date men. Easy peasy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:14 PM
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Skin care, gym , style are also ways to improve, and personality of course
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:13 PM
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Another post shaming women instead of mediocrity. IF someone likes you just because of your money or what you provide, that's on you. IF you were nice, fun etc people will also be attracted to that. What else do you bring to the table? Looks, personality? If you have none of that and you just have money or resources, what do you expect? Work on your personality or looks to be likable on those areas too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:55 AM
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it is included... Its SA including everything, still done by 98% ... sorry to burst your bubble. Maybe put this energy into helping men victims instead of hating women. As you said, you do nothing to help male victims of SA. Shameful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:44 AM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:10 PM
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No one is saying that is just men. But is the huge majority. 98% of rapes are done by men. And i do help as I collaborate on a charity. As you say you do nothing. Nothing helpful or useful, just hate women online . Quite sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:41 PM
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they look at the appropriate search terms, because as soon as they air some questions, help is there. Its not difficult to understand... the only one with any type of bias going on is you. Ill ask again, what do you do to help men victims???? Because you seem to care so much... yet you haven't said how you help them. Obviously not much as you aren't familiar with any of the process surrounding a charity... My assumption is , you just care to shit on women and put the attention on them by saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:50 AM
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Online, when you search for certain words , questions , help appears etc same for addiction etc nope, at all, as we help whoever needs it, without judging
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:14 PM
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Of the victims that are referred to them and the ones that come seeking for help. Same definition as the law says.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:50 PM
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what laws exactly? because when a murderer gets caught , it gets caught regardless of gender. Lets see the latest news , in Congo around 150 women were raped and burned alive by men from the same prison ,instead of escaping they decided that is better to do that. Is there a women equivalent? no. Gisele Pelicot case, husband drugs her and let strangers rape his wife for years. Which women has done something similar? OR how the majority of serial killers are men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:41 PM
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You're the one disrespecting rape victims by denying they exist. You denied them , not me. I gave statistics, 18%. Maybe you cant do basic math. The numbers are shared among different associations... not just the one that I collaborate with. And these are the figures from last year. Ill do more for men victims that you do at least. You dont care about them, or do you also help them? You just care to try and shift the blame into women somehow to avoid any accountability of your own gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:36 PM
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I know rape isnt at the same rate as I collaborate with a charity against SA, and 98% of perpetrators are men, 82% of victims are women. You do the math. What you say its really disrespectful to male victims of SA by men as you are basically denying them. Incredibly disrespectful to those men,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:08 PM
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they usually do, and either get ignored or the other person gets very defensive and nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:41 PM
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W- .... Where do you think statistics come from? 70% is the statistic. No, its a study done on a bunch of couples that participated in said study, but not statistics of yearly victims done by the police ... That's wildly, wildly incorrect. To the point I'm surprised you would even believe that figure. Its not, that is the total figure in general. Of all victims, not just DV. All violence is wrong regardless of gender, im fact men are their own worst enemies ... by statistics we proved which gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:39 PM
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because its old and it doesn't specify which type of violence. It says : Regarding injury, men were more likely to inflict injury than were women. Not only that, this is just a study, not statistics. Give me statistics. And speaking of violence, which gender commits murder of their spouse more? Rape? Injuries? Last time I checked 98% of rape and murder is done by men. 98!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:30 PM
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24 years ago??? emmm not relevant for today?? things change so much in 24 years, ill wait for the new one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:12 PM
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good for you, if your partner doesn't care about you, get rid of them. Not every relationship is the same, next time you will see the red flags earlier on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:10 PM
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projection about what exactly? how its unrelated? we are discussing domestic violence, domestic violence ends with murder and has rape. Answer the question please which gender murders their spouse more???"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:01 PM
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sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:43 PM
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70% ?? where is your source? because a quick google search says very different In the year ending March 2023, data supplied from 28 police forces showed that the victim was female in 73.5% of domestic abuse-related crimes recorded by the police, compared with 26.5% of domestic abuse-related crimes where the victim was male (ONS, 2023a). Over 80% (83%) of high frequency victims (more than 10 crimes) are women. (From a study of data from the Crime Survey for England and Wales, a nationally represe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:53 AM
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or therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:40 AM
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and women do the same for men, in fact, there's many videos of women making Christmas happen and not receiving anything in return... same for birthdays... some men don't put any effort and wonder why get dumped. Why wouldnt want to make your partner happy and treat them, with that mentality, stay single, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:04 AM
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people usually stop for a reason, lets be real, many bad lovers or selfish, of course people will not be interested. If people don't want intimacy, there's usually a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:08 AM
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sounds like excuses to be lazy to be honest... it doesn't have to be expensive or even cost money if you are creative. I love to treat my SO as much as I can and do things for him. It baffles me how many people in this sub don't want to do nice things for their partner and treat relationships like a business or just to get something in return. Well, I guess that's why there's many single ones..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:34 AM
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a simple question and you cant answer it... wonder why we talked about abusive relationships , this question is related , which gender murders their spouse more??? which gender rapes more?? is it lesbians?? the ones that you seem to hate so much? NO, there it is , its men. the answer that you don't want to give. men commit 98% of murders and rapes, not lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:14 AM
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the one you linked says that its men who abuse more xDD you didn't even checked ? You literally copy paste the first google page that appears and didn't even read it hahaha if there's studies, there is a reason behind it, I will listen more to professionals than a random dude online... You have proof in the studies, there is several more links to that one with different methods, but for sure you didn't checked. I'm bored of this conversation to be honest... a guy that thinks that hetero women go…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:38 PM
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nah, if the personality is meh, it doesn't matter , its a bye bye for me, and I am someone working in the celebrity industry..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:07 PM
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bad for other women? they are taking the trash out... the lazy cheap guys.. I feel bad for them though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:51 AM
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maybe for young ones, in my case I don't do it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:30 AM
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I had this situation and we both cry at the airport, not an ick at all, made me feel loved
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:21 AM
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some people discover their sexuality later in life, or they repressed it till they come out, its called coming out for a reason. Its not that difficult to understand. Happens to gay men too, they start with women to realize its not what they like or they try to force themselves. I mean... its common sense.... Previous research has established sex differences in emotional manipulation; specifically, men are more likely than women to engage in emotional manipulation. And the source https://www.sci…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:14 AM
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Hetero women don't have relationships with lesbians 🤣🤣🤣🤣 it can't be dv .. Go and find the numbers then . And yes. There's actually studies that say that men lie and manipulate more. Scams are an example . Google it . I'm bored of this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:50 PM
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I was dating this guy for over 4 months and one night he had a meltdown over a family member. I listened to him, cry with him, we hugged and we fell asleep. This made me feel so much more close to him and I was very happy that he could feel vulnerable with me and that I was his safe space. I married this man and I would give my life for him. I didn't lose any respect for him, quite the opposite, made me appreciate him even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:17 PM
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to debate: argue about (a subject), especially in a formal manner. being judgemental :tending to form opinions too quickly, esp. when disapproving of someone or something It is not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:39 PM
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no one said women don't abuse, but certainly they don't at the same rates as men, at all. Good for you, very happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:24 PM
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or people can use their eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:49 PM
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it doesnt matter, it has the same effect sometimes , to hide things or enhace
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:43 AM
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same, we cant find any
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:28 AM
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so are beards and hats
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:42 AM
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yes, constantly, not just online, IRL too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:52 AM
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very funny thing to me is that out of all abusers that I had met, all of them had a group of men friends where some knew that he was an abuser and didn't care at all, no one called them out, ever , OR they had no idea because apparently "its a nice guy". And this is the problem with men today, some are sympathizers to abusers, others ignore the red flags (but to women they will tell us that red flags are always obvious) and the minority, the group of men who actually do something about it. Prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:06 AM
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Its implied, I do, I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:41 AM
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44% of lesbian women have experienced rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime. in their lifetime genius, no where said it was by a woman. That's why this studies aren't reliable because many had relationships with men. Find where the study says that the abuse was done by women. Guess what, you cant, you didnt proved anything. But answer my question, who murders their spouse more? Its DV as well, lets talk about the one with the worst outcome. And I am happil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:40 AM
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so married people cant debate here? what nonsense is that. ooooh maybe you cant understand the difference between debating or being a judgmental rude person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:34 AM
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And who has the highest murder rate? Which is also DV? Plus the lesbian thing has been debunked anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:08 PM
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You said " a lot of women" that's what I mean. What you said . And you edited that part out. That study has been debunked as it didn't specify the gender of the aggressor , just lifetime situations. Feel free to find one that specifies it if you want to debate and make claims , prove them. Not only that , how many lesbians kill their partners in comparison to husbands?? I'll wait. Also prove how many mums encourage kids to steal... statistics... come on... what a weird excuse to give to excuse m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:45 PM
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I never ever had a pleasant experience with a cold approach. The majority can't take a no thank you , for an answer and get very pissy and even aggressive with rejection. To me its not rocket science. Read the room. If she isn't looking at you or smiling or something, leave her alone . I have been approached when i was clearly working, busy... hell i have even seen men approaching eomen at funerals... glad that is dying out. The cold approach i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:45 PM
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And that says a lot about you. Putting your nose into others business like a gossiping judgemental grandma 👵
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:35 PM
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you edited it out xD you said " a lot" , everyone can see that your post is edited. No one is discussing that we shouldn't choose better, of course eveyone should, but guess what , sometimes people make mistakes. Do you put the same energy on call this bad people out ? the abusive ones or the ones who lie? or you just say choose better to victims? In reality theres a lot of crappy men out there. Men commit more than women of nearly every crime, of course they are going to abuse, lie more.. are y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:23 PM
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nope, I'm not judging strangers based on their relationships, you are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:41 PM
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nah I don't care because Im married to an amazing man and I am in a happy and healthy relationship so I have better things to do that judge people based on their relationships. I dont give a damn what people do with their lives as long as they dont hurt others
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:53 PM
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they are obsessed, but most of them are singletons, which is the funniest part
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:40 PM
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I dont need to guide anyone, they are already responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:40 PM
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You can visit the sub whenwomenrefuse to see what happens sometimes when women reject men, I dont see men having the same problems when rejecting women... How many men have been killed by a rejection compared to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:27 PM
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The first 3 times I said no thank you politely, they always insist, I'm sorry but number 4 isnt going to be pretty. I was never rude to someone who didn't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:23 PM
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I had seen it here too, that's why people associate it with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:11 PM
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I do, a lot, I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:06 PM
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but a lot are, so he is making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:53 PM
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a lot are obsessed, there's a redpill podcaster that its super obsessed with it and most of his guests are the same, saying they want min 5 kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:52 PM
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not for the majority of people, majority doesn't choose the wrong ones on purpose, majority are deceived by lies and manipulation. men love to say choose better to feel better about themselves and to avoid any accountability. People who say choose better like this are just crappy. Instead of giving them empathy and support you prefer to victim blame. SO yeah, this people are shit. Imagine how boring they are if they apply the same all the time. Oh you are sick? next time dont go out. car crash? …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:50 PM
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nooo, the back pain is not worth it T__T and you don't look cute in nearly every outfit, you look slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:24 AM
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My rules are the same to everyone. I don't like to be approached, leave me alone. And attractive guys sometimes are worse, as they arent used to rejection and get pissy and sometimes aggressive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:20 AM
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what! hahaha this is so silly. going down doesn't make women lose respect, that's so dumb and just an excuse to be honest. If you don't like doing it, fine, but don't give excuses. Answering your question, yeah I would date someone who don't want / enjoy to do it, as it is not important for me, it doesn't do much, BUT if its because they say I will loose respect? hahaha thats a bye bye for me, I will loose respect but because they said this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:10 AM
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nah, I want my SO to be able to be comfortable enough to be himself and let out this silly , sensitive or whatever side.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:05 AM
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If men are so good at spotting red flags in other men, why aren't you calling them out? There's a international emergency of violence against women and I don't see you guys spotting this guys who are abusers, rapists and worse.... 1 in 3 women had some form of abuse, that's a lot of men commiting them. But let me tell you something, its usually one of 2 cases. One, the friends of the abusers have no idea and they act shocked when the truth is revealed, or they don't care , at all. Very few littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:53 AM
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A lot of times men don't even realize that they are being creepy. I had some experiences where I called them out and after explaining they were like ohh I see, Yeah I came across creepy. Of course if there is no reason its bad, but most of the time that I thought someone is creepy they were genuinely acting creepy or dodgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:41 AM
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how do you know that they are good guys in a relationship? Did you date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:31 AM
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can you prove this? how did you check this exactly? Did you make a study or something? Did you ask a bunch of men if they lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:30 AM
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well that's why older women know this tricks and spot them instantly, then men say the excuse of ahhh they are old and bitter, no sweetie, experience makes this lies easy to spot. That's why this men go for younger ones without that experience. Many men have said this to me in confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:28 AM
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A lot of men that I met had inflated everything around him (money, property etc.. ), some too much where it was clearly obvious and some not so much so it took longer to spot. But the majority lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:24 AM
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tell the same to men complaining about getting broke after a divorce then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:20 AM
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sadly , there's not many real good men, and that's a reality, majority are mediocre
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:19 AM
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sounds jealousy to me as you care so much. I dont care at all how many relationships people had, I have better things to do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:18 AM
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people isnt complaining saying choosing better is bad, is the victim blaming and lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:05 AM
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no accountability, they prefer to blame the victim.. No empathy at al,, well at least they show their true colors. Funny enough some are the ones who complain about not getting dates... wonder why.. their red flags don't exist for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:30 AM
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It's not shallow, and the ones who complain don't even want a family yet and are usually broke, so bitterness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:50 AM
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I mean, those are pretty obvious ones that are very easy to see, and if they are ignored, the person ignoring them must be quite immature with not much experience. Thank you for the examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:46 AM
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Can you mention some examples of this red flags that you see?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:12 PM
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So it's men's fault for not having standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:31 PM
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I never seen it happened, specially if they weren't attracted already. In my case I will loose interest immediately. I don't play games nor will I compete over a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:04 AM
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Most women have something interesting for men to offer... so they get picked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:45 AM
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But you aren't specifying either, so which ones exactly? Any source to prove your claim? Or is just your bitter opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:43 AM
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Nah you are assuming . Not all men, I mean women. Oops
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:18 PM
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I don't know them so I don't know. Do you know them and know for certain ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:49 PM
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Horrible parenting and probably in big need of therapy to do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:38 PM
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My friends and I, yes . Some of them even give too much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:35 PM
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That's what I said and women I know. I don't know where you guys meet the other ones that you talk about. It seems more of a fairytale
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:10 PM
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Looks like lack of social skills and not having anything interesting to offer. I'm sure there's other reasons but that's what I can see more often
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:08 PM
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I specify saying toxic ones. Maybe you didn't read it . If someone feels called out... oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:02 PM
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I did all that and most women I know too. Maybe you are choosing bad ones.. skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:56 PM
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That's not how relationships work. Somedays is 50 50 other days are 30 70 for one or the other. Not everything can be equal always That's silly. Certainly I'm not taking advice on how relationships work from the singletons here than no one wants because of their toxicity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:33 PM
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A compliment is ok, what i dislike is how so many men can't handle rejection after the compliment and start being nasty and even aggressive. I prefer when women compliment me, it feels more genuine and makes me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:15 PM
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Yeah. Because treating your partner nicely is bad because? Hahaha then you guys complained about the loneliness epidemic but I can see a lot of crappy partners here. A lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:08 PM
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Stalky vibes... or Huge ego thinking they are super duper amazing as they were a God or something , also sexual comments just as we started talking or alpha nonsense talk. And yes , the ones that I'm talking about were quite handsome and had good physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:28 AM
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Some people discover their sexuality later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:25 AM
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No. You do everything for the person you love. Real love doesn't have authority, submission or any of that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 09:22 AM
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Yes we can. There's normal men out there that appreciate their partners and care for them. Thank you for outing yourself out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:04 AM
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Nah. Anyone can be creepy. Met a lot of creepy good looking guys .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:08 PM
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Nah, I don't like to be stared. Doesn't matter the looks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:06 PM
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Yup 😅 I can see it coming
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:49 PM
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I'm projecting what ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:58 PM
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Or yours mine . But there's statistics that prove mine where most couples share expenses nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:22 PM
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Sounds like you are projecting tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:21 PM
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Or the woman . If you choose to be with someone like that it's on you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:19 PM
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Alpha makes me puke. I will never date one of those. Not worth it even for one night stand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:19 PM
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So according to you there's a lot of weak men? Well then maybe they shouldn't be on power positions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:53 PM
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Then don't get married . Easy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:50 PM
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Yeah.. but the ones more worried about gold diggers are the ones without gold to dig..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:49 PM
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joint savings account? I dont think is that difficult..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:15 AM
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a lot of couples split expenses, the majority that I know, do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:13 AM
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so you don't value coming home and not needing to clean, cook or make decisions around the house like what to cook, grocery list, laundry and not even counting kids etc so you can focus just on enjoying life and work? Then you wonder why people get divorced, for this among other things. For not valuing what your partner does for you and taking it for granted. Men can focus on their careers because the mental load and work at home its usually done by women. No one forces you to marry. Don't do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:12 AM
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Not a minority though as statistics say
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:06 AM
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hahahahahaha that's all I can say, jesus, what a horrible mentality to have. No one leaves happy marriages or loose the respect without any reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:05 AM
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"prenup"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:52 AM
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built to fail? just if people don't put effort, relationships need to be taken care of. No one leaves happy marriages. If you don't want to marry, then don't, no one is forcing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:37 AM
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how do you know, are you in the mind of everyone that says it? because every time in real life that I asked, they finally confess that they just wanted to bang someone. So.. there's variety, but why arent they honest? say you want romance, or sex, or company, but dont play victim just saying loneliness when you mean other things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:24 AM
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so how can the women choose based on sincere in 4 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:11 PM
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because they care more about looks, women don't, that's why they couldnt form an opinion based on personality on a speed date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:57 PM
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well , again , they cant make a choice based in fun, sincere, ambitious without knowing the person, so obviously in speed dating , it would be more based on looks. That doesnt prove anything at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:44 PM
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you didn't specify young. Old people can be healthy? why are you so against old people? didn't you help them? sounds to me that you dont care much about them ... as you dont want to even talk about them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:40 PM
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the only one not arguing in good faith is you, as we caught you in your lies... you talked about loneliness, you didn't specify age, are you saying that old people don't want romance, company??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:35 PM
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to predict what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:32 PM
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when did I said that? what a boring conversation twisting words. Well, Some people really deserve to be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:30 PM
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oh so you collaborate with nursing houses? right.. before you said you didn't do anything for lonely people more than talk online, now apparently you do ... I mean... not interested in debating with people that will lie to prove a point, so boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:28 PM
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this is the difference. well said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:22 PM
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it can be terrible and a problem yes. many people have said this already, now what
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:20 PM
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so... you do nothing... at all , you don't care about lonely people then. There a lot of elderly people who are lonely, probably the most lonely.... do you help them??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:40 PM
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it matters as its a lie? Just saying im lonely instead of I want intimacy and that makes me feel lonely. Big difference. You just proved my point, its horniness more than loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:39 PM
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so .. nothing? because admitting that there is a problem isnt making these people less lonely, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:51 PM
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because a big chunk of people say loneliness when they mean horniness... so have a go at those
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:31 PM
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so what do you do to help this lonely people? what do you do personally? You care so much, you must do quite a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:28 PM
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nope, you need someone qualified, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:17 PM
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if people is alone, there is usually something going on, nice people have always people around, friends , relationships, if people don't want to be around someone, I'm sorry, there is usually a reason. Every time that I saw someone complained about loneliness, that person was crappy and unpleasant to be around, every time, but that's just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:02 PM
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targets of violence by who? who is committing this violence in majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:56 PM
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then don't complain when others are lazy about your problems who are way less severe. You cant ask for sympathy and empathy when you arent giving anything
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:11 PM
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sources on those claims? Ill wait
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:09 PM
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not as rare or "always reasonable" as women make them out to be. Whether women like it or not, this influences men largely. And men killing and raping women doesn't influence women? There's a global emergency of violence against women in a lot of countries and men keep saying but what about me? You want us to care so much about you yet a huge amount of men do nothing to stop this violence against women. They are the perpetrators of this violence, or the witnesses that do nothing but very very fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:02 PM
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you don't die without it. not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:50 PM
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and you need a study to tell you that? hahaha, sure buddy, we know why you cant reply a simple question. Because you need the excuse of women are shallow and just date based on looks among other excuses. But in reality, average couples are together all the time. ugly dudes have dates and marriages. The ones that don't , have usually crappy personalities or nothing to give. No one wants to be around a bitter person that plays victim. Hard pill to swallow buddy. That's why you don't want to answer…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:48 PM
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is there studies on the water being wet? answer the question, its not that difficult. Come on. Its a very simple question. What type of couples do you see more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:03 PM
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sure, because you know it, but dont want to admit it. The reality is there for you to see and you tried to hold into science. There is average couples EVERYWHERE, that's why they are called average. And people usually date within their looks. Come on, what type of couples do you see daily?? dont be shy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:57 PM
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Don't you see them? so what type of couples do you see daily? In the supermarket?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:44 PM
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why is the advice to not wait? this is just my experience but when someone ask for a date quick, it pushes me away. Quick to me is less than 10 days more or less. I need to know the person better before going on a date. Let's remember that dates could be a dangerous situation for women. So I need to be sure. But this is me. If i feel pressured I go bye bye if I feel that my boundaries are being broken. Again, this is me. And I do agree with you, cancelling a plan just because someone might be ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:42 PM
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and if that's the case, by looking at possible mistakes and improving yourself, you will have better chances in the future. What is for sure is that just complaining and doing nothing isnt going to make things better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:37 PM
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Did you give your best? or could you have improved something? that's how. Turn this into a learning lesson and stay possitive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:27 PM
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this is based on first glance, you cant know someone on speed dating, so looks will be the first glance.. onviously, it doesnt mean that when they get to know them better will choose just based on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:08 PM
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You can see it IRL , everywhere, your average couples
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:06 PM
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I didn't say its your fault but it might be, instead of playing victim, try to find the answer. Ask yourself Was I the best choice? Yes? well, she wasn't worth it then. Was I not? Ok, how can I improve for next time? I mean if someone is replying with short messages... isnt the message clear? Specially after the first cancellation... I never ghosted people as I don't like to do things to others that I wouldn't like for me, but sometimes I wish I did as some men cannot handle rejection and become…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:03 PM
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I don't condone ghosting as I personally think its bad but I do understand it as men are known for handling rejection quite badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:57 AM
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I did clicked and I didn't see ages, and one that did was on quite young people. No need to be so emotional because people is telling you that you are wrong. Many women in here did tell you their experiences that proved you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:55 AM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:51 AM
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I think You are mistaking friendly and excited with desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:50 AM
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pro choice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:37 AM
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Did you try hard enough? What did you do to stand out? Because the people that I see complaining about it usually dont do much like having interesting conversations prior or be fun..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:36 AM
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for choosing a "better" offer? You would do the same, be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:35 AM
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I haven't seen any debunks at all. Most of the links say that physical attraction is important AT FIRST GLANCE. And the water is wet! Also where are the ages of this studies? Because if you ask a 18 year old and a 40 year old, their preferences would be different. So sweetie, your studies make no sense at all. If you cant understand the simple concept of personality over looks, that's on you, keep living in your little world where you think that you know everything about others people preference…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:31 AM
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Its not, I don't need it, I want it , but I don't need it. This just fuels entitlement to be honest... Its not a necessity, its a reward. You deserve it, you get it, you don't? well, be better then and work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:19 AM
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I had trouble with both, but the problems with men were way bigger. With women it was a few nasty looks and comments and talking behind the back and men also did this but adding sexual harassment, or being awfully nasty, condescending and vindictive once rejected. Men tried to sabotage women work and tried to get them fired just for rejection. Also men are usually more unprofessional than woman in my experience, and this creates conflict too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:05 AM
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Haven't you read them? there's lots, you even debated with them, why are you acting surprised? My proof is my experience, I don't need anything else. Answer the question why are you here talking about what women want? So weird.. shouldn't you be doing something better with your time for your partner? Seems like a big waste of time. No one in a happy relationship will do this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:57 AM
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I dont understand your question
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:22 AM
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the actual research doesn't prove much as other commenters said already. So I will stay with my opinion and the opinions of the women I know. I wasn't talking about YOU BTW . Then if you aren't , why are you here talking about what women want? So weird.. shouldn't you be doing something better with your time for your partner? Seems like a big waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:20 AM
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There we go again... a bunch of men saying that women lie because they aren't chosen by who they want. It's funny that the majority eho said this are a bunch of single dudes. Single dudes giving advice on how to get kitty cat 🤣 but the worst are the ones who listens to them. To me personality is more important than looks , ehat does it mean? I prefer an average guy with a nice personality than a hot guy with crappy personality. A hot guy can be turned down for being boring or whatever and a very…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:11 PM
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who said anything about skin color? I said through history. Maybe read next time. again comparing the lack of freedom to not getting pussy, is insane and so out of touch. "I dong get pussy!! this is what lack of freedom feels like!! poor me" what a joke the ones who don't get kitty cat, they don't deserve it, thats why they dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:41 PM
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I did introduced people and a few even got married. But I must say I am very selective with friendships, so if I introduced them, its because both are amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:22 PM
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that isnt a source wtf Slaves suffered extremely high mortality. Half of all slave infants died during their first year of life, twice the rate of white babies. And while the death rate declined for those who survived their first year, it remained twice the white rate through age 14. https://www.digitalhistory.uh.edu/disp\_textbook.cfm?smtid=2&psid=3040#:\~:text=Slaves%20suffered%20extremely%20high%20mortality,white%20rate%20through%20age%2014. Come on . Millions died because of it through histo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:10 PM
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source that says that the majority of slaves lived long lives? Anyway, comparing freedom to not getting pussy its quite dumb as it cannot be compared.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:44 PM
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it is relevant as you said that slaves in rome were well treated, they weren't, link to prove it. And the original conversation is comparing freedom to not having pussy which is the whole post. continuing with slavery or freedom is shifting the conversation. You aren't bringing anything interesting to the debate. Just boring nonsense that is not even true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:26 PM
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