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I feel the same way about some of my female friends. You can be attractive, without ME finding them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:07 PM
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I’m a man and my past promiscuity ruined my proper relationships. I suspect it would be a lot worse for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:22 PM
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Absolutely correct. However I was told she was using birth control. Imagine my shock when it turns out she wasn’t. The day I was going to break up with her, she told me she was pregnant. I stayed around, which was a terrible idea. We broke up when my little one was 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:21 PM

I know many single mums, including my own. All of them chose losers. My own mum had another baby with my dad (she was adopted out, fortunately for her) despite the fact he wasn’t around and when he was, he was abusive. If you choose a man who isn’t responsible, don’t be surprised when he doesn’t behave responsibly around your kid. This is part of the reason when me and my ex broke up, I fought tooth and nail to be in my daughters life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:39 AM
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I wouldn’t say I was into plus sized women, but she is very attractive and I definitely would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:07 AM
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Not at all, we all have different preferences for casual partners over long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:06 PM
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Of course it does. I don’t like blondes, never have. Guess what? I’ve both slept with and had a short relationship with a blonde. Just cos someone has a type, doesn’t mean they always go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:09 AM
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And let me guess, that isn’t what you look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:28 PM
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Any need for the snarky question? People are allowed a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:11 PM
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A tomboy is totally different to being masculine. My gf dresses like a tomboy, jeans, trainers etc. but she’s feminine, and let’s me lead. She also carries off a dress amazingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:26 PM
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Wouldn’t have dated one if I didn’t have a kid. Too much hassle. Love my new mrs dearly, her kid can be pain. Wouldn’t change things now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:54 PM
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That hasn’t happened in most people’s lifetime, especially in the west. You’re deliberately making an unfair comparison. For reference, I’m an average looking guy who has always done ok, both in terms of sex and dating. Confidence is the main issue with men today. They lap up woe is me posts like this, rather than approach or work on social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:58 PM
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I tend to agree, especially seeing as as men, we can be heavy handed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:51 PM
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I totally agree on it being rare. Also very dangerous. Too much pressure on the windpipe and shit gets serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:03 PM
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I’m a jiu-jitsu guy, I know the difference between an air and a blood choke. I always assumed it was that, but I’ve encountered at least one women who wanted her airway blocked. Too kinky for me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:02 PM
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The family thing I just don’t get. It seemed to crop up out of nowhere too. I don’t like teen girls either for the record.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:50 PM
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I’m not into choking, but I’ve been asked by many women to do it. Although, I must admit that ‘choking’ ranges from a hand on the neck, to them wanting to be choked like Homer chokes Bart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:48 PM
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Red pill dudes spout this shit, when the real issue is their own confidence and not wanting to hear no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:24 PM
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I know several below average women who bang guys much more attractive than them. Anecdotal I suppose. Men fuck it up for themselves with lack of confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:40 PM
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Gaydar exists for a reason. Although straight looking was a big thing gay guys were into. That was the best part of 20 years ago though, so lots could have changed. One thing is for sure, gay bars are still great to meet women, bloke i work with pulled a girl well out of his league a couple of weeks back in the gay village.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:28 PM
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To be fair, it wasn’t a ploy to get women. I was out with my gay mates. Just so happened it worked out for the best. For good reason, they obviously don’t want trouble or too many straights or it’s not a gay bar! A club I used to go to would gay test you. After a while they just said “don’t act too straight in there” and let me in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:59 PM
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The best bit is you can start chatting, and their guard was down, so you can have a nice, relaxed convo. The question would always come “are you gay or straight?” To which I would say “I’m not talking to you cos I like your shoes” we have a laugh and it becomes flirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:48 PM
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I’m a fat guy now, I can still pull women, but I have to work so much harder than when I was young. I’m in an ltr now so talking more before we were together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:48 PM
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Confidence plays a huge part in these things. When I first broke up with my daughters mum, I had no confidence - I’d lost my mojo (I’m not a cheater, and cold approaching is a skill you need to keep on top of) so I got nowhere with women on nights out, or online dating. You soon get back in the habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:56 PM
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I’m middle aged and fat, and before I met my current gf I hooked up with 8 different women in 2 months. Albeit that was from online dating, but similar situation. I have 2 friends, Kev is classically good looking and before he got with his gf he would sleep with a different girl Thurs, Fri, Sat. Some he would know. Leon, is good looking, but short and I saw him hook up every time we went out. I defo don’t think I could hook up on a night out now, but I’m older, like older women (less likely to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:51 PM
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When I was a younger man, I did it maybe 2 weekends out of 4? I don’t think it’s a looks thing, it’s a confidence and being able to seal the deal thing. Had lots of sex in toilets too. Tbf, I worked out that going to tbs gay village as a straight man (I lived with 2 gay guys, so went out with them) meant that there were lots of women out, and hardly any straight guys. Puts the odds in your favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:28 PM
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Most fat girls I know are more in demand than the fit ones. Us men are strange creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:50 PM
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That’s because they see ugly women still get hit on and don’t make the connection that it generally doesn’t work the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:49 PM
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I get why it works for women, but, maybe I’m in the minority, I don’t like strip clubs. Don’t see the point in seeing someone naked if you’re not having sex. By the time you’ve paid for dances, may as well go to an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:18 PM
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I’d quite happily have a fling with an OF girl, but not a relationship. I want exclusivity with all things sexual and the thought of dating a ‘normal’ influencer repulses me, never mind a sexual influencer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:56 PM
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I honestly wouldn’t even dream of paying for porn. I’m middle aged, and just couldn’t fathom why people pay. Apparently, it’s lonely guys, looking for girlfriend experience. That’s a damning indictment on society these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:54 PM
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I’d expect that from a woman twice her age. Jesus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/23 05:24 PM
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You’re answering your own question, rather than accepting the answers you’re given?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:49 AM
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Tbf, I also saw some prisoners getting short shrift, but suicide always got the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/22 04:39 PM
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I’m not saying you’re wrong, but I’ve seen it from the inside. It’s worth giving a schemer an extra phone call, rather than risk investigation for a suicide. I’d also say that almost all prison officers are good people, well there were a few people at the open prison I got moved to that weren’t, but they were young and didn’t appreciate the advice I gave them about going to a category a prison.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/22 04:37 PM
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Also, you find a lot of people threaten to do it cos they know that will get them extra phone calls and privileges. The prison service bends over backwards in relation to mental health and suicide. You’re dealing with people who are schemers! I have seen a couple of genuine attempts, including one that was successful.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/22 04:18 PM
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Yeah she did, then had the audacity to be crying about it and play the victim. I wouldn’t encourage my worst fucking enemy to kill themselves.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/22 04:10 PM
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A lot of people also leave their job so they don’t have to pay solicitors! I was working in finance shortly before I went to prison, so it affected me in that respect, but I’ve never declared my record (it’s spent now, so don’t have to anyway) and it’s never had a hold of me. Although I have had jobs where as part of the referencing process, people get googled etc. that would certainly fuck her over. The male suicide thing is a strange one. I saw many a life sentencer be fine, but someone in for…
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/22 04:09 PM
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Nice little Stratford joke there! Lots of women go gay in the prison system in the uk, so you’re probably right
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/22 04:06 PM
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A criminal record isn’t a big deal in the uk like it is in America. You need to be working in particular fields to be criminal record checked. I say this as someone who has been to prison. Also, uk jails aren’t that bad. Although the female prison system in the uk does have a huge rate of suicide.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/22 04:04 PM
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I’m sure that was a while ago, but I remember it. Both quite young, he was suicidal and she basically said “you may as well just do it, you’re always talking about it, you’re not happy and what will you ever contribute”.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/22 04:02 PM
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There are elements of truth in this, but mostly it’s a one way street to attracting cranks and women with dependency issues.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/22 05:01 PM
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