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Look at the outfit she's wearing. She wanted more than to just hear some music. She's dressed like a single lady at the club hoping for a hookup
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/25 04:20 PM
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One time..... I wouldn't mention this.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/24 02:07 PM
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You can't tell if your standards are too high and can't get any interest from the guys you're attracted too. Sounds like you figured it out
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 09:40 PM
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I don't think you should mention it in case he perceives it as you enjoying the attention
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/24 01:32 AM
7

Well said. There's a lot of weasels out there obsessed with being "the leader"
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 12:18 AM
3

You could exercise together even if doing different exercises, just same time. That's what my partner and I do. I work out more but they often join and it makes a huge difference
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/24 12:25 AM
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Do some research on building pectoral muscles and how it affects women's breasts I did a quick scan and some benefits are making them look bigger and perkier Push ups and bench press may be the answer See the link below chest gains will help
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 08:23 PM
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Porn is clearly the problem but things that can still spice things up if he's open to it would be introducing a vibrator into the game Hold it on your clit and request doggy style same time, also make sounds ...if you're enjoying it let him know
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/24 12:52 AM
6

At 30, 10 or less is pretty good imo
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 09:38 PM
139

Of the men that care only a fraction will ask, the rest just make assumptions by observing behavior or waiting for women to tell on themselves and then silently decide not to commit long term
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 09:30 PM
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Like you say we don't have the full story and without it this sounds fishy. I would be very suspicious of men that hide behind trauma as an excuse to not commit. The reality is if he wants to he will full stop trauma or no trauma. Not saying it's him because I don't know the full story but just be aware men will string women along with hopes and dreams of committment when they have no intention of following through I hope this isn't the case for you and wish you the best
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/23 03:24 AM
7

How is it that not being vulnerable is a dealbreaker? Men and women can be different and neither needs to be right or wrong...
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 04:20 PM
1

I'm in the same situation, I work from home full time and my girlfriend is here 2-3 days per week plus on the weekends we're usually together all day Sat & Sun So it's a lot of time together but even if we both worked out of the house I still think just living together is enough to kill the urgency and excitement I used to feel when we lived apart. After going a couple days without seeing each other back then there was just more passion when we met. Not sure I have any real solutions for you on …
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 10:50 PM
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This is completely normal so don't let toxic thoughts of him cheating creep in.... less sex is not a red flag. That you're together 24/7 is part of it imo and turning him down from time to time won't improve things I would just tell him you're in the mood when you are and that if he's not then you're going for a solo session...the sound of his woman in ecstasy can get the juices flowing so let him know he's welcome to join but no pressure...if he doesn't and you get in a huff it will just make t…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 03:26 PM
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I don't think its smart to divulge trauma to potential partners until you're well into the relationship if at all. Are you in therapy to put it behind you so it needn't be discussed at all?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 10:33 PM
1

So anyone close to your age that's "good with the ladies" is probably just running through numbers right now. There will be tons of guys a bit older, think late 20'ish that maybe weren't total studs but have done some dating, had some relationships and want nothing more than to be in a stable relationship with a loving partner. Men get tired of the bar scene and OLD also For guys your age, the exception from what I mentioned above are the guys who are so focused on their purpose they literally d…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 10:56 PM
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If he's super religious maybe but everyone else is probably a no way. Especially if you're talking about someone who's physically attractive
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/23 11:16 PM
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You can still find someone but I would not mention the emotional abuse part of your previous relationship to your future partners. It's not the future's guy's fault, he can't change what happened and you don't need to advertise past poor decisions
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 12:35 AM
2

What are some examples of wife privileges?
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/23 10:14 PM
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I don't think many men are lining up to marry someone with this attitude. You make it sound transactional like a business deal. You gave the example of being in a relationship and acting single at the bar. 95% of those men want to hit it, quit it and laugh about it with their friends so if you have a loving partner and want to throw it away for that then I don't know why you're thinking about marriage but I can guarantee that any man worth marrying will not be thinking about marriage with you
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/23 02:11 AM
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From a guy's perspective if you're second guessing his very reasonable requests you could just drive him away. Men want peace and it sounds like you're running "girl game" on him which will get annoying When a guy hits on you and it sounds like he's "running game" you likely get the "ick" and walk away. I think it's smart to just act natural and forget what you're reading about on the internet You want him to take the lead? He just did, he's being a leader and delegating tasks to those best to p…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 09:17 PM
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Yeah used to be worst that could happen approaching in a big city was you got embarrassed around some strangers and moved on with your day Now if a girl pulls out her phone the guy could go viral for "being a creep"and his life is over Honestly if you see attractive men just go talk to them and try to flirt. Fortune favours the bold and if you do this 10-15 times without getting any kind of date I would try some guys that are less likely to have girls chasing them in hopes that you'll be treated…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/23 05:39 PM
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If guys don't want to stick around are you sure you're batting within your own league? If they're also sleeping with other more attractive girls there's pretty much no chance of committment
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 08:20 PM
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For your figure it is not complicated. Intermittent fasting burns fat, slimes the waistline and keeps you young as well. Booty workouts. There's 3 parts to the glute muscle. Research exercises that hit each one and do 3 sets of each twice a week This greatly improves you hip waist ratio and you just leveled up
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 01:28 AM
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This girl is probably annoying him. Nothing to worry about
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 12:34 PM
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You sound incredibly childish. If you have your own money you should happily contribute and offer to pay once in a while so it's not awkward. Instead of somehow being jealous of people who are worse off than you, you could know that he appreciates your ability to do so when others were more of a drain on him financially
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/23 02:08 AM
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Its basically the best advertisement you could have for being healthy, having your weight on point and a strong booty...every guy notices this
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/23 10:47 PM
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I met my current girlfriend of 7 months this way, just out downtown meeting girls. I was the guy that didn't want a relationship but she changed my mind by being feminine & cooperative with no red flags. It was a breath of fresh air
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 02:54 PM
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If men only see you as a hookup they don't care. If they want to take you seriously then it matters a lot. In any area of life, past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior so a promiscuous past just means to the man he has too much to worry about to make a big investment in this person when they can just find someone else that has no/less history of this undesirable behavior
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 02:34 PM
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In my experience intermittent fasting is the best way to lose weight. The body will Refuse to burn fat if it has access to carbs so the longer you go without eating to start the day the more fat you'll burn If you can keep it to a six hour eating window you will shed those last few pounds and for bonus points in addition to walking for exercise I suggest body weight squats at least 3 times a week to burn way more calories & give a more flattering shape If you do these 2 things for a few months y…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 05:00 PM
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It can't be avoided altogether imo but there's lots you can do as others mentioned like healthy eating habits, cutting out alcohol...etc For those who've never been in amazing shape if you put in the work to get your body fat % reasonably low and have a solid workout routine to sculpt the right areas you might find you get more attention than you did in your younger days Most are unwilling to do this work so take advantage of that and set yourself apart from the crowd
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 02:33 PM
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You haven't explained how the post is unhealthy
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 08:53 PM
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Yes when people compliment me for looking good I run from that toxicity 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 01:19 PM
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The other replies are correct and this will just piss him off. The op wants to not piss him off
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/23 12:48 AM
2

Just be upfront that you're looking for friendship since if there's no sex involved that's how the man will see it The only other way I could see this working would be if you were okay with your partner having sexual relationships outside of your relationship Agree with most of the comments here about sticking to therapy and or switching therapists
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 06:05 PM
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Preach!
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 03:10 AM
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Women don't realize how terrifying it can be to approach them in public, I know because I went from not being able to do it to getting over the fear to meeting my girlfriend on the street It's an irrational fear that makes no sense and comes from caveman days evolution where men would fight sometimes to the death over mates. Hit on the wrong cavewomen and get hit in the back of the head with a rock This applies less so in today's society, there are still bar fights though and yes people can die …
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/22 04:42 PM
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Kevin Samuels is the goat imo and fitness really is the biggest factor I'm trying to get my mom doing body weight squats and it's like herding cats sometimes but we're slowly making progress
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/22 04:29 PM
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In this day and age if you can find someone that wants something long term and treats you well you're ahead of the game This notion that marriage is more important than that can scare a lot of men off since the best part of marriage, happily sharing your life with someone, doesn't actually require marriage and if the ring, the dress, having your day and the financial obligations upon divorce...if those things are more important to you then you likely would be in the lucky % of marriages that act…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/22 04:09 PM
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I'm a guy that's red pilled and even I think the OP's chances of being happy are better with a guy who's never heard of r.p
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 03:55 AM
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There really is no diet that works except intermittent fasting and your workouts need to target muscle growth or you won't lose weight so do something like deadlifts/squats 3 times a week, doing cardio is great but this is just extra Strong legs and glutes are a really attractive feature so you've got nothing to lose with this approach If you do what you've always done you will get the results you've always gotten
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/22 05:31 PM
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When you show no interest in a man and that supposedly gets the result that you want then where are those guys now? If you're not in a committed relationship then I would say it didn't work
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/22 05:18 PM
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Plastic surgery will not guarantee anything. You can do that if you want but temper expectations imo
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 03:46 PM
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Changing what you want in life and acting accordingly is as normal as it gets
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 02:54 AM
1

No but you do get to nap
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/22 07:33 PM
1

Strike up conversations with attractive men in public. You can work you're way up to it by asking for directions etc. But this is the biggest thing you can do to meet men. You really can't rely on them making the first move and wouldn't it be soul crushing if that cute guy liked you back but didn't want 'to seem creepy/desperate etc
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/22 09:20 PM
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Have you considered the possibility that he does in fact have feelings for you but yet couldn't get time off?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 01:51 AM
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With a number of 8 I think you have nothing to worry about but just imo
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/22 12:07 AM
1

AYE
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/22 01:15 AM
3

If you stay in shape, eat healthy and live a healthy lifestyle you will look good in your 30's and maybe early 40's but at those ages it's hard to compete with a 25 yo version of your former self. Not that much different for guys who don't stay in shape or aren't successful tbh edit: I'm just a guy not trying to offend anyone, just an honest take
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 03:46 AM
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Intermittent fasting + resistance training like squats. Cardio does almost nothing. You need to lift heavy weights to trigger a metabolism boost so you're burning calories even while you rest
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/22 02:26 AM
1

This whole plus size model thing is getting out of control. She's plus sized all right but...
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/22 01:54 AM
1

Get new friends
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/22 11:10 PM
8

Who fucking cares. When a man murders his family you don't say 'oh he must have been going through truama'... this is reverse sexism
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/22 02:45 AM
3

Only the top 10% of men I'd say
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 01:28 AM
3

Everyone deals with trauma in different ways - Some feminist
/r/PussyPassDenied12/03/22 02:29 AM
3

Intermittent fasting and weight training are the only way. You can't eat as much as you normally would and think I'll just exercise....the calories burned are half of what you would eat but if you shorten your eating window to say 6 hours a day like I do and weight train hard enough to build muscle you will be burning calories at rest because your metabolism will go up
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/22 03:39 AM
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6 hours? If you have time for that you're not chasing excellence properly...
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/22 01:25 PM
5

Please tell me no one did this whale!!
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/22 12:26 AM
7

You sound like a clown
/r/PussyPassDenied11/02/22 03:00 AM
16

White knight virgin
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/22 11:28 PM
2

Women's form of violence is usually reputational damage while is why social media is nightmare for girls getting picked on
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/22 12:26 AM
29

Go woke go broke
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/22 12:02 AM
1

In theory could the girl live with you for two years, pay her debt off with credit cards you don't know about then bounce and stick you with the bill plus alimony?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/02/22 01:41 PM
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For every story like yours there's 50 guys getting thrown into the financial woodchipper that is family court. Glad it worked out for you but advising men to get married is lunacy. Any particular reason you and yours couldn't have stayed together without getting married?
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/22 07:37 PM
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Ah yes the backup guy women like to keep around...you know just in case
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/22 07:25 PM
12

Yes and the way to identify this is does she pursue sex with you often and passionately? 2 things women need from men: genetics and provisioning so if she's not interested or barely interested in sex she only cares about your money. Someone else is banging her
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/22 02:56 PM
126

Not veting properly...watch out for those red flags guys. Also don't get married
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/22 02:53 PM
2

Can he sue her for damages I wonder
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/22 03:41 PM
2

Lmao no makeup filters she a gremlin haha
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/22 03:40 PM
12

I can't take responsibility for being an insufferable c*nt driving anyone who might want me away by arguing over things that don't matter so this all needs to be someone else's fault... the modern woman
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/22 01:19 PM
8

Yeah the wall is coming ladies
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/22 09:25 PM
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The wall is undefeated
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/22 08:58 PM
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Not an issue to call people "white" though is it?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/21 06:45 PM
13

Don't let feminists hear you say that. That's hate speech victim blaming
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/21 03:20 PM
4

You can tell bu the posts no one there is young and attractive
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/21 01:34 PM
1

I'm not defending what he did. I'm responding to the previous comment about the girls pursuing him which they would have done for literally any famous musician. You're being a pussy
/r/PussyPassDenied26/10/21 02:01 AM
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In any interaction between two people one usually operates within the other's frame. The mentally stronger, not necessarily smarter, of the two sets the frame. Often the frame is set by the individual that needs the other the least. If a woman has high interest in a man she will accept his frame though she may challenge it from time to time because woman at all times need to assure themselves they've found their optimal partner, one strong enough to not let her control the frame. If you lose fra…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/10/21 01:55 AM
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She straight up tried to steal the frame. They do it constantly but you gotta dunk on em like this boss
/r/PussyPassDenied24/10/21 07:12 PM
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R.E.S.P.E.C.T
/r/PussyPassDenied24/10/21 07:09 PM
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believeallwomen
/r/PussyPassDenied12/10/21 02:45 AM
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Which they likely did, hes famous they're girls. They'd take anyone thats famous but in this particular instance the famous person they had access to had no self control
/r/PussyPassDenied08/10/21 01:44 AM
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