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She did a TV interview awhile ago and she doesn't seem reclusive in a hermit-like way, she just seems like an amiable but introverted person very capable of entertaining herself by exploring her own interests and talents, with enough coin to be ordering in rather than faffing around at supermarkets. She's a musical genius and can do whatever tf she wants, and media want to make her a 'crazy cat lady' because OMG NO HUSBAND
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:24 PM
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Pickmes really out there thinking their gross, pitiable sex lives make them interesting or sophisticated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:15 PM
9

This always makes me laugh. I’m also made from the same star dust as Ryan Gosling sooooo...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:41 AM
5

Pickmes, ‘spiritual’ types, people with poor boundaries who don’t realise they compound their victimhood by constantly speaking of it indiscreetly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:40 AM
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This is why we don’t share traumas. I mean, it’s poor manners when you first meet someone, anyone, to dump heavy stuff on them. Also not a terribly productive line of conversation unless you’re, yknow, in a therapist’s office. A decent person will be troubled by your lack of appropriate boundaries, an exploitative person will eat it all up with a spoon, storing the info away to be used to manipulate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:39 AM
9

I know Lisa had a nose job before the did friends but apart from that heard nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:34 AM
3

This is who I immediately thought of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:44 AM
-1

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:15 PM
90

Honestly the woman is a goddess I’d believe her capable of birthing an entire nation via agamogenesis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:09 AM
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Yes. I don't know when it became feminist to ape the practices and attitudes of the WORST, most unhappy men, but libfems are determined to be their equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:55 AM
24

Eugh. I am so sorry men are like this. But you need to divest from this group. None of them are safe. Sounds like a great time to start a women-only kayaking group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:46 AM
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Hey I’m agnostic but I’ve always said if men followed Jesus’ example instead of it being OLD LADIES filling the pews, the world would be a better place. Good on that group of church dudes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:16 AM
46

Demand for what? A sub where men TALK and TYPE about community? Like I said they are DOING THE THINGS in existing communities, organisations and families. Reddit is for male shut-ins. Men who are capable of forming good relationships and have locked down a good partner, are building their career and didn’t need a reddit community to do so. They have self awareness and seek real growth in real spaces.. Male redditors in the communities you speak of have little connection, they are desperate and p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:50 AM
1

Can I say, if you’re a woman making more per hour than you could pay someone to clean— Hell, even if your leisure time means more to you than cleaning, which it should— please consider hiring a WOMAN to clean for you. You free up your valuable time and the wage you can pay is a come-up for a woman who does not have a foothold in another industry, is in life transition etc or just prefers the work/hours for whatever reason. And you know she’s got a good boss for the couple hours she works for you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:41 AM
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I think the men capable of forming community and devoting to family are out there doing it, having little time for dead-end connections with losers on a site such as reddit. Active, high value men are not on chairs typing screeds into an echo-chamber of resentment and cheeto dust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:32 AM
4

I’m disinterested in/disquieted by this tawny frogmouth owl-looking dude since he hit the news wayback when so I’ve scrolled on by most news about his divorce. But yes. Why would he feature in this sub with any positive framing (women in here saying they’re disappointed, they looked up to the Gates’ as a powerful HV couple? Like rly sis?), it’s been known for over a decade he’s got shady associations AT BEST with known pedos and before THAT he was known as a LVM who had a post-nup stipulating he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:25 AM
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Shittt men have no idea what they're attracted to, it's all just a complex system of laziness and status chasing This. Shit men holler about who they’re attracted to an make a big deal out of letting everyone know, and it’s performative. Decent men see a woman they like and make some moves without consulting a passel of buddies first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:30 PM
9

True!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:50 AM
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It’s in the linked article. It’s apparently what triggered Melinda to hire the divorce lawyer. I’m kinda 🤨on Melinda crying foul at that point, though— Epstein’s conviction happened in 2011. Eight years is a long time to mull over the ethics of associating with a known felon. I know he got a sweetheart deal that obfuscated the extent of his crimes but what he was convicted of was bad enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:12 AM
4

They aren’t planning your surprise birthday party
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:03 AM
10

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:26 AM
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Modern Love? Modern emotional exploitation 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:59 AM
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I hope you ARE never satisfied and keep on attaining everything that calls to you after your PhD!! This guys sounds awful glad you curved at the first sign
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:35 AM
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E~un nnözq is exactly who I though of too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:50 PM
1

You feel it, it’s not a vibe any more. That’s the only sign you need, drift from her in peaceful knowing❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:57 AM
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How is she even calling this a relationship? This guy sees her as a sometimes-interesting option for company or sex, not a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:35 PM
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See this is a great example of how a cluster of low-value people coalesces and solidifies around a LVM. It’s just a miasma of dense, murky energy, and little gems like this bully-with-pics-of-him-on-her-phone will crop up like herpes every year or so... a female coworker it turns out he was fucking back in the day... a visiting friend from the ‘old days’ who’ll have too much to drink and get blabby about what the husband used to get up to... a trip to [name of regional city] with buddies that tu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:45 PM
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Sooooo many of them in corporate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:25 PM
2

Can I suggest not continuing to talk to or see anyone who you feel you need to explain this to. It’s not a difficult intellectual concept, it’s one they won’t incorporate into their understanding because they lack empathy. People who lack empathy are dangerous eventually, and sometimes sooner than later. If you have to explain, you’ve found a potentially dangerous man, and you need to exit their company ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:09 PM
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Wrong word, as another poster pointed out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:54 AM
1

All good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:07 PM
3

OF escalation works in an insidious way. There is so much on there that increasingly debased acts are what is required to keep subscribers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:45 PM
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Didn’t know about any of this. Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:43 PM
70

Of course they must, I’m so naive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:32 PM
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look out, talk like that too much and you’ll invent them a new porn category
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:25 PM
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Yeh they chase but they’re still not gonna be good for you. You’re a game animal and they’re looking for the sport of bringing you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:17 PM
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Correct. Hence the spongebob font. There’s a real campaign across social media platforms attempting to normalise sex work to younger and younger people. It’s my belief that it should be visibly called out and critiqued.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:12 PM
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This. It’s pretty insulting. It’s an orientation, not something you can turn on for convenience. It’s not a lifestyle ‘choice’ or mere option, which hey, homosexual people have only been trying to make people understand and be okay with for decades, and STILL face stigma for in many, many environments and contexts 🙄 NOT a solution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:27 PM
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I know, and I would bet anything that one of the wives does not, that her husband has slept with at least one prostitute. Another is married to a man who has brutalised two women. Listen VERY hard about what men will defend and excuse in other men, and in male TV and movie characters, because deadass they’ve done it themselves, and will get around to doing it to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:07 PM
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The intention there is that the man is providing materially. Scrotes today are living off pickmes material provision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:04 PM
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Not on Twitter, TikTok and many spaces online, where the eMpOwErMeNt rhetoric of the sex trade is gaining a toehold and where younger people spend increasing amounts of their time and are ever more influenced by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:21 PM
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This is true. And dialogue with these people is not likely to produce change in their behaviour, and the fighting just has scrotes rubbing their hands together in glee. But I do think counter-narrative is important. There’s not enough of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:10 PM
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Isn’t that literally production of child sexual exploitation material? The women is having the kid taken off her by child protection if she goes through with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:04 PM
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Abjectness is part of the draw for their customers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:01 PM
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We assume it’s ‘her page’. The women or girl in the videos may not be running it, is it more likely being run by one of the men in the videos or the men behind the camera?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:54 PM
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Thankyou!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:48 PM
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They steal valor AND don’t want to contribute taxes like other working people do. What part of their ‘work’ are they demanding respect for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:38 PM
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Both women I mentioned were from very wealthy families, (CEO dad and surgeon dad). Really brought home to me that no girl child or teen is safe from being the target of a pedophile or from a teen boy or boys who decide to rape them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:11 PM
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Their customers are men who are obsessed with ‘the wall’ so yeah, 30 is pushing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:42 PM
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I had a look at the profiles of the sex workers responding, and none of them were more attractive than anyone I’ve sat next to on public transportation. They’re just wearing fetish gear and are tweeting every hour on the hour that they are dtf for dollars 🙄 Men. Don’t. Care. They’ll. Fuck. Anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:39 PM
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This is true of the two sex workers I know/knew (one is dead). Serious, sustained abuse from a young age. They would tell you they grew up fast. I would say they were developmentally arrested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:36 PM
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Men will fuck fruit and animals is really the only comeback needed, eh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:26 PM
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😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:25 PM
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‘Somethings wrong with the women, they’re not responding the way the 35 year old guy with the receding hairline and DISS FATTIES BANG HOTTIES on his tshirt told me and 50 other guys in the bottom-tier hotel seminar room they’re sposed to!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:22 PM
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mY wiTtY mEsSaGeS gO uNAnSwErEd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:16 PM
1

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:14 PM
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😂🤣❤️❤️❤️ we’re here to help eachother do better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:10 PM
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Yikes that’s dreadful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:35 AM
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In RUSSIA. we’re always told it’s a low-trust, dog-eat-dog individualist culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:51 AM
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you’re welcome ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:25 AM
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I cannot fault you AT ALL for making your consideration of your own ability to withstand the stress of pursuing a case against this man your first priority ❤️❤️❤️ A good lawyer will give you an indication of the likelihood of success and what toll the process may take on you based on similar cases they have taken. Worth an initial consultation at least. You might decide it’d be too much for you and that’s okay. But you also might surprise yourself, and you might be put in touch with supports tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:20 AM
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The guy who picks a pickme emasculates himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:12 AM
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That’s lovely. I’m going to think of my grandmas more often and see what they pop up to teach me. Thankyou.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:08 AM
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The women who peddle ‘trauma informed kink’ (I kid you not) have this Pussy Saves! delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:58 AM
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It really didn’t take long for patriarchal capitalism to appropriate and weaponise the concept of victim blaming, in order to defend the abuse of women via prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:52 AM
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I would date a HW widower but look at what it has come to— another woman having to DIE 😂🤣 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:49 AM
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I am out here wondering for years why Franco just seems to skate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:46 AM
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The minimally adult and self-aware thing for these men to do is seek professional supports for help with tackling their shortcomings. Seeking help themselves, paying for and following through with support programs are the only effective means of change. Anyone capable of googling can determine why they are unmotivated, incapable of achieving the basic skills of self-care and have inadequate vocational attainment. If they are interested. Anyone with a phone can locate and book an appointment with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:43 AM
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Seconding this, you didn’t ruin his life by him choosing to victimise you. Let the chickens come back to roost. And hey, letting people experience the consequences of their behaviours is love in action 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:34 AM
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Nothing sexier than a ‘girl’ who has no frame of reference for how she ought to be treated and whom she ought to value the company and opinion of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:33 AM
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Horrible, but also convenient that they’re effectively wearing SCROTE nametags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:29 AM
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Why dont people understand you’ll never see the tears of a clown?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:17 AM
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Actors and models are some of the worst scrotes. Their skill is faking, and being a substrate for someone else’s vision. When the superstructure of professional production is removed I’m surprised these flabby, broken middle-aged toddlers don’t look worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:14 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:19 AM
9

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:00 AM
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Many selfish, privileged, white women sex workers have severe internalised misogyny and most often a history of trauma and fawning that leaves them unable to thrive in other forms of work, despite the fact they might be very clever- verbally intelligent and abstractly intellectual enough to do the mental gymnastics required to defend the men you mentioned, and fucked up enough to have highly-developed fawning, appeasing instincts towards such men. You’ll find the odd sex worker defending the ind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:44 AM
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I was pleasantly suprised NOT to find dating-obsession on this sub. There's less of it than literally any other forum I've ever participated in, including one on dogs with hypothyroidism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:31 AM
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No, noone (no woman, anyway) really believes in the silver forever-bachelor. Only LVM, because they are convinced they ARE silver bachelors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:30 AM
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'We will always pick the lowest-hanging fruit. We will neg and use women like her, always. You will NEVER know what that feels like."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:22 AM
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Unhappy women and LVM are the only people hurling this insult so both may be immediately ignored
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:19 AM
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Dump his ass and/or stop OLD, watch and speak to HVW about anything but men, watch your world open up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:15 AM
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None of the guys I let go in my 20s, or even 30s, have gone on to grow into HVM, though they HAVE married. I never assume marriage is a beneficial partnership. With all the evidence we see daily to the contrary, how can anyone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:00 AM
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I've never seen it happen. And women I know who were steadfast in their belief that their LVM would suddenly become willing and capable of transforming himself once a screaming infant entered their home, had never seen it happen but were using their imagination against themselves Fueled by television and movies. Knocked Up and a hundred other ridiculous premises.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:38 AM
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Only cops I know who are good people are those that left the force to work in social services instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:08 AM
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This is horrible, and makes me wonder, to whom would anyone report this? She has a string of text, could photograph this man in his cop car outside her house... I'm typing this and realising my naivete, there probably is no such entity within the police force for reporting misconduct, only a code of protection among cops, hence all the murders they get away with. This woman is still probably not safe, as soon as she changes he address on her drivers licence this guy will be able to to look her u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:07 AM
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Ladies, we all have better things to do than visit LVM subs. Give your brain a better hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:00 AM
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I just finished the Hunting Ghislaine podcast and that woman is both irredeemably, inexcusably, unforgivably depraved AND was utterly fucked up by her sadomasochistic father. Handmaid is the word they used in the podcast, and you’re absolutely spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:17 AM
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I’m so sorry to read all this. This shouldn’t have happened, none of it. I am so happy you made it through it all. PTSD is no joke and it takes the joy out of life. I didn’t know I was wandering about in a PTSD haze for over two decades. I have healed, developed protective boundaries (wasn’t taught really even basic ones growing up, and was punished for even basic pushback) and have oriented myself toward better people and environments. It has taken years but as I found more resources on neuropl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:55 AM
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Yeh. Frankly, women need to start enjoying their own company more. Don’t entertain men who are less interesting than a Netflix sitcom, just because all they have going for them is that... they’re men. Dump friends who stay with men they constantly complain about. If this is you, stop it. You’re a pain at brunch. Learn to knit. Or learn a language. Walk someone’s dog. Watch the entire season of the Netflix sitcom. Anything but spend time with a man who brings you down so that the stink of dissati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:23 PM
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These are the End Times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:16 PM
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This is really worrying. I’ve never had surgery but if this behaviour flies and is smoothed over with mere apology, I am not reassured and it makes me wary of surgery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:19 AM
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They’re not, yet. But they likely anticipate charges to be laid or a suit. Bill has not been up to good things. It’ll be related to his charity or something to do with Epstein.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:40 PM
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Every (female) poly person I’ve met has been a loudmouth who won’t shut up about it and brings it up at completely inappropriate times 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:38 PM
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Does it actually transpire that you have a conversation where you say ‘I’m demisexual’ out loud, to a person when you’re dating? Or does it go in OLD profiles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:37 PM
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Huh!!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:31 AM
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Nah, I don’t buy it. It was known around 2011 about Epstein and the ‘black book’ was published back then with Bill Gates and all the rest— it was on sites like the Daily Mail etc, that was around the time Epstein got the first ‘solicitation’ charge. She didn’t JUST find out in 2019. This is a protective asset split in anticipation of litigation. Divorce is one of the only legal ways to do so and protect assets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:26 AM
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They’re perfectly capable of making the necessary updates. They just don’t want to 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:40 AM
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Oh no, plenty of men are willing to blame their female relatives for being raped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:01 PM
5

Yup 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:47 PM
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Kinkshame early, kinkshame often!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:00 PM
12

SO many of these labels don’t need to exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:50 PM
8

I know two women who say they were born kinky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:50 PM
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Libfems are white pickmeishas named Lauren or Vanessa who have liberal arts degrees and put professional boudoir photography shots of themselves as their fb profile pic AND background and if you’re ever sat next to one at a group dinner, find a way to change seats asap or you’re gonna be hearing about her ‘polycule’ til you wanna polypuke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:35 PM
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We’ve always been what we’ve been and they’ve always had their feet on our necks. They’re not going to finally ‘get it’ because of environmental and/or social and/or financial catastrophe. If anything as resources constrict they’ll double down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:19 PM
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I can’t even be around, let alone date, people with a codependent vibe anymore. I know I’m healed because of the mild feeling of disgust I get/sensation of skin crawling, where it used to be I was drawn to fix/comfort/attend. 🤢🤢🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:18 PM
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This is SUPER spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:57 PM
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As soon as you realise the impassioned attention of a devastated/insecure woman is their kink... 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:39 PM
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I saw (what I believe was?) the original TikTok and it was sung BY the bi wife and had the feel that the energy was something she’d noticed was a vibe among men with bi wives and decided to do a parodic but appreciative song and video about him with clips of her hubby... She’s a comedian and it seemed cute? And she mentions in the lyrics he’s a good ally? It’s sad people are appropriating it. Pickmes and scrotes ruin everything 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:27 PM
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Don’t call them out Never answer their calls again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:03 PM
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Libfems are cringe. I can’t with them 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:29 AM
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It’s very hard to make trusted connections and connections OUTSIDE of other army families if you’re continually moved from housing to housing. It means you don’t have people to turn to to make plans for leaving. If you even HAVE squirrelled the money to leave— there’s seldom any spare cash, many military families qualify for WIC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:34 PM
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❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:30 PM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:44 PM
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Imagine coveting the attention of 🤮gamers🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:35 PM
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And their pooping conversations Gee thanks for keeping us apprised, Fiona 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:38 AM
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Wow they buried the lede We can have full on conversations while the other one is pooping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:37 AM
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They should all just get those silicon rubber sex dolls and trick them out to impress eachother. Put little wheels on the heels so they can roll them out to the car and then into da club and show off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:59 PM
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Absolutely see why this was on substack- mainstream press outlets could NEVER dispense this much truth. The kind of ‘lifestyle copy’ that passes for cultural analysis on the big sites is 🤮 They can hardly do otherwise, their big ad revenues come from industries that want us to remain sold on the marshmallow dream of having a family for women, rather than realise that it is frequently a nightmare to enter into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:55 PM
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Indeed. Abusive enforcement of hierarchy is baked into the military and it ceases to function if the abuse does 🤷🏼‍♀️ The idea of reforming a system that was CONCEIVED for meteing out coordinated violence is ludicrous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:47 PM
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Army wife message boards are indeed a Hellscape of their own 😬 Army wives have it hard enough parenting by themselves when their husbands are deployed, and frequently say it’s harder WHEN THEY COME HOME. No help with enforcing discipline, to OVERdiscipline of children, overnight. Women left at home are often extremely isolated, impoverished and addiction is rife. ‘Military brat’ became a cliche for a reason - inconsistent parenting, prolonged parental absence, constant moves, interrupted schooli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:23 PM
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Bottom-feeders look for the weakened to prey on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:11 PM
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So many women view what is actually just co-ruminating as ‘bonding’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:58 AM
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Link me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:38 AM
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It’s never made sense to spend our limited time on scrotes, imminent global environmental catastrophe changes nothing. If anything I should probably be working on my plan for how to get my girlfriends and all their babies to the highest topographical points at the shortest notice when the critical Antarctic ice shelf finally calves it’s last and the tsunami starts rolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:37 AM
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Social science can miss me with ALL its porn takes, frankly, because they focus entirely on harms to men and NONE WHATSOEVER ON THE SOUL DESTROYING HUMAN RIGHTS ABUSE IT IS ON WOMEN. Like it’s never so much as even ALLUDED to in an introduction that porn is horribly exploitative on the labour side. Like, really PhD Paul, shrinking hippocampal volumes, diminishing career prospects and increases in metabolic risk factors that accompany porn use MIGHT JUST be nature’s way of PUNISHING APPALLING MEN…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:21 AM
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Cool, but I’ll be happy to curve them when I hear the language. To me it’s the reddest of flags. People tend to talk the talk OR walk the walk, seldom both. When you walk the walk, there’s no need to talk. Youre not creating a picture that doesn’t exist. I do my self work in silence and make my moves in the dark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:35 AM
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Lose expectations. Learn your REQUIREMENTS and boot anyone who can’t/won’t meet them. Giving scrotes abstracted language to dance around with and getting women to adopt and believe in it is some pernicious, mass hypnosis. He trots out the right lines and mouthsounds ABOUT relationships, using concepts from a book? People can and really do just SAY ANYTHING, you know?. Talk is cheap. Where have women been warned about this before 🤔 Watch their behaviour when they don’t know you’re watching. A rel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:25 AM
8

HOPIUM 😳 in six letters, you SAID IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:08 AM
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Woohooo!!! Who cares if he needs closure! You closed the door, there it is. Byeeeeeee 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:39 AM
4

They’re responsible for their behaviour or are they not is what it comes down to for me. And I hold all adults responsible for their behaviour toward others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:28 AM
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I guess I’m looking for someone secure enough that they express preferences more or less explicitly as I get to know them over time, and also that a lot of no-brainer interpersonal respect stuff is implicit if you’ve been raised well and have a functioning hippocampus. People who rely on these abstractions a lot tend to NOT have great relationships, I notice. I know my requirements on a deep, languageless and embodied level, I trust them, and it’s my responsibility to myself to select OUT those …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:44 AM
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My love language is feminist truthbombs ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:12 AM
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THIS. OMFG when did everyone lose the ability to actually relate to and get to know people as unique individuals and instead start thinking dating was about peddling around their proforma ‘love language’, ‘attachment style’ and ‘erotic blueprint’? I dunno, Mike, I like making pumpkin gnocchi from scratch, travel, a couple different Netflix shows and live theatre, let’s see where that takes us conversationally? I mean... tell me you’re on the autism spectrum without telling me you’re on the autis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:05 AM
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yOu’Re oVeRrEaCtiNg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:37 PM
81

Never saw the bunny face videos. And yes any enemy of the musk rat is a friend of mine 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:54 PM
395

Envelope adhesive and bacon bits 😂🤣 I won’t have people call Azaelia crazy, she’s fucking ACCURATE is what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:54 AM
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My relationships with women that were forged over talking about men...dissolved when those women got into relationships. Now I prefer to make friends with women where we talk about everything but men with the occasional update about our personal lives. But for me, I’m pretty active and really enjoy bonding with people through activities that are light on emotional talk (for newer friendships). THIS. ALLA THISSSSS. I wanna BE, and be friends with, the kind of women who have good partnerships- one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:09 AM
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College years and the first forays of adult relationships are where the rubber meets the road in terms of your friends showing their childhood attachment injuries and beginning to bump up against their neediness and inability to identify and navigate away from men who aren’t good for them. You’re ahead of them developmentally. I say this as someone who was like your friends during college years. The girls I knew who were like you, and are women now? Have good careers. Satisfying marriages within…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:03 AM
5

You sound like a super interesting person, and more than a bit out of your former friends’ league of understanding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:12 AM
5

How bout If he can’t or won’t do it, and you need it, you need to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:27 AM
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The number of women who don’t clock or care that the man they are interested in treats their best friend poorly is... sad. And if you have a best friend like this it’s time to realise she’s no friend at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:30 PM
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The woman he preferred to spend time with wasn’t getting any kind of a prize in him, remember that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:28 PM
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NONE OF THEM would have got so much as my number Wait the CRAZIEST one would have gotten to date 3 or 4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:23 PM
16

brb going to the tattoo parlour for a full back piece of Trump nude then to church followed by a detour to the gun show for a no-ID-required AK-47 purchase with Kasey Musgraves playing in my earbuds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:09 PM
8

😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:03 PM
35

It’s the tax he pays to be allowed to hang
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:53 AM
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He’s low on the totem pole of his scrotey friend group if he’s doing this 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:27 AM
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Yikes what a beta. Loser who doesn’t hold his own esteem, tries to feel impressive by sharing nudes with da boys, figuring he’ll get someone ‘respectable’ later on, his other prospects are nil and a ‘respectable’ woman is not forthcoming, ponders the dilemma of locking it down with the girl who’ll have him... there’s a cautionary Greek myth about this isn’t there? Wait no there isn’t because WHO IS THIS FUCKING STUPID and I think if the Greeks came across anybody this dumb they’d chop his dick o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:00 AM
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You can’t ingratiate yourself with people who have a prior commitment to your inferiority, and when you try you just end up alienating your peeps from you too 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:05 AM
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I’m fairly certain this was written by a female LARPer. Gender Guesser says there’s a 70% chance I’m right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:55 PM
8

100%, wokeishness is a mere branding opportunity. https://www.inquiremore.com/p/why-power-is-getting-woke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:03 AM
1

Give yourself the birthday present of blocking and deleting both of these gutter punks. You already know they’re both low value, what else do you need to hear from us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:13 AM
6

Spot on sis. HV people are (often reflexively and not even at the conscious level, if they had validating and secure childhoods 🤣) adept at curving LV people at the first signal. They sense an offness and it’s like a bad smell- they simply stop breathing it in and move away, no further questions necessary. If they sense your standards are low, their instinct (and their busy schedule) moves them out of your orbit. Are we the sum of the five people we spend the most time with? It’s arguable either…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:07 AM
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What makes me 🤨 is when she says that the ‘something’ happened ‘in his own home’. CP images on a computer possibly. I’m tryna map the silences and ‘don’t go there’s’ in the little story she’s weaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:06 AM
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Groomed a teen while acting in some kind of coaching capacity I’d imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:36 AM
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Reading between these already pretty obvious lines, she won’t say what he did because she knows it’s not anything deserving of excuse or sympathy. His only champions are family, and that institution notorious for excusing, allowing and abetting abuse: the church. Get him out of that nursery, STAT. It should be illegal for anyone with a history of sexual offences to be around children. But it’s not illegal in church communities. So that sounds like a great incentive for pedos to join churches doe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:47 PM
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Pods of pickmes are borrrrrrrring and the same stories all get lived and repeated ad nauseum You may not have that many friends now but at least your crew won’t be making you repellent to HVW anymore. It takes time. And a couple good friends are actually a LOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:36 PM
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❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:44 AM
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You kept your cards by your chest and you blocked and deleted,right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:05 AM
3

NEONATAL DOCTOR HIS EXWIFE OFFERED TO HOUSE HIM WHILE HE AWAITS TRIAL THE FUCK DID I JUST READ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:42 AM
7

😬😬😬😬 Sasha is a dumpsterfire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:35 AM
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Don’t respond to criticism at all 🤷🏼‍♀️ Left, right, woke- every scrote’s a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:25 AM
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Say it louder for those in the back 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:58 AM
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Sorry, removed when I say your note 2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:16 AM
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I think it might be mentioned in the FDS handbook. Which is fair enough, it’s exploiting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:07 AM
7

yikes and why is it always belgians
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:54 PM
8

Because the world turns on our labour and men would rather shout as us from a couch than get up and do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:19 PM
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He didn’t make out like a bandit. He. Has. No. Life. Skills. He has nothing to show for his life. YOU took care of all of that because of your hyper-competence and ability to over-function. Until now, your intellectual and energetic resources were diffused by having to do for this grotesque child bumbling around in the body of an adult. The toddler has returned to the parents who failed to raise him, and now your resources are all your own, to direct and hone and focus as you choose. Sounds like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:49 PM
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Wait, there’s scrotes out here bothering to marry? The ones I known of are content to ruin women’s lives by pregging them up and then bailing and/or bouncing back in and out of their lives sporadically. MARRIAGE to a scrote begins to sound almost quaint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:41 PM
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I do get the bit caring too much, esp as I get older. If it’s not a vibe it’s so much easier for me now to just not engage further with someone and let it drift. I hear you on the needing me time. However with a possible romantic relationship, that’s gotta get some brain juices flowing in a different way and commend more attention and be a priority. I wouldn’t allow a man to circle back after 48 hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:37 PM
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You’d think they’d get off on the ‘attack’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:22 PM
2

Would love a link to any research you’ve got on this. Trauma is ramping up generation by generation and I think that’s why we’ve got the porn epodemic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:02 AM
3

My mom-friends are ALL single and they rock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:48 AM
6

Lookup crappy Childhood Fairy on YouTube
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:39 AM
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Precisely. But I’d also add that someone who needs to regularly create fantasies and scenarios of dominance is one or both of two things- an actual sadist, or some guy who is such a no-account loser in his daily life that he needs to squeeze out the last vestiges of dopamine and testosterone from his beta braincells so he can eke out a semi, by scaring the kind of women with no better options than to spend time with him. A ‘dOm’ is a scrote 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:35 AM
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All men who participate in kink are preying on women. That’s just how it is. No well-adjusted man needs to get his yah-yahs out by brutalising or humiliating women. Wiring your sexual response to needing a woman to be in this overpowered position is unconscionable. There are no exceptions to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:28 AM
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It’s a yikes from me. The kind of men who would ‘help’ your friend would not be starting with her welfare in mind- they’d be targeting a traumatised woman. And he wouldn’t be in the minority in that. Predatory men TARGET abused women and it’s time we risked being called kinkshamers and risked pissing kinkmeishas off by daring to posit that their aGencY and ChOiCes are leading them into further disempowerment and harm. People make up all kinds of deluded post-rationalisations to avoid facing the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:21 AM
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❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:18 PM
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True, but the single mom-friends I have don’t fob me off via other means either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:16 PM
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I ended a friendship like this. People wanna know ‘whyyyyyyy???‽ cos we were ‘suuuuch good frieeeends’ for 20 years but the thing is people age out of compatibility for friendship and truthfully we’d grown apart a decade AGO but just kept up contact due to a mutual activity. I left the activity too because I realised I was only doing it to keep in contact with her and another few women in the group who... I had no reason, other than this ‘leisure’ activity that was now very boring to me. I used …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:00 PM
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I’m angry for you!!! Stuff like this has happened to me more times than I should have let it. The hunches that things weren’t gonna go as planned, grinning-and-bearing-it to suppress that insight, and pre-empting flakitude by creating contingencies to Make Sure It Happens with someone I knew deep down was wishy-washy and didn’t respect my time. But I heard something that really turned things around for me: ‘if you have to ask yourself if you trust someone, it means you ALREADY DON’T’. The anxiet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:19 PM
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My ONLY mom-friends are single moms. They are better stewards of their own time and are able to value their friends more than married women. Makes you realise the care and maintenance of husband can be more work than a child...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:04 PM
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That’s what I thought, and I couldnt believe I was seeing it here 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:31 PM
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Uh what’s with the triple parentheses tho 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:37 PM
5

Norman Mailer gives Ernest a run for his money Have only seen State and Main and shit, really was pissed off by Sarah Jessica Parker's character. The had a low-maintenance cool-nerdgirl character for Philip Seymour Hoffman to bumble his way into the pants of, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:06 AM
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Chilling Adventures of Sabrina there is a postmodern examination of the original Sabrina sitcom Norman Mailer gives Ernest a run for his money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:04 AM
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Yup. Your pickme-free circle of friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:19 AM
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Again, the hot AF women got no time for the coterie of scrotery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:13 AM
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Seen it happened, had it happen. Mrs Olsen’s on the money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:07 AM
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True!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:43 AM
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😬 it’s tough eh. Do a search in the sub for ‘pickme friend’ ‘LVW friends’ etc there’s quite a knowledgebase on dealing with the situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:57 PM
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Yup! I am consciously preferencing consuming media and literature made by women and I cannot tell you the change it has made to my mental health and just fun overall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:55 PM
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Your family are being horrible. You’ve got some good suggestions here on grey rock etc but I would like to make an additional, fun suggestion you might like. The pervasive advertising culture we’re constantly bombarded with is still mostly suppressing all the shapes, colors, and sizes beautiful women appear in every day. They just serve up the same image over and over and have done a good job of distracting us from the fact that actual, OMG, 🤩😍 BEAUTY exists in abundance outside those parameters…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:15 PM
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Scrotes really out here making these statements, fully telegraphing ‘Hi, I’m neither a provider, nor a protector! Can I put my dick in you?’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:01 PM
16

Ok where do we get these blankets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:59 PM
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I’ve said this before but it’s all hot AF girls too so you know it’s over for these scrotes. Used to was, being a babe was your ticket to marrying a rich guy. We can make our own money now so the girls born with the most cake won’t waste their time convincing themselves a LVM is HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:57 PM
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I liked it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:53 PM
12

Need to happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:42 PM
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A dude of my acquaintance used this as a dating strategy.... thus he was dateless for yeeeeeears but he did eventually find a very argumentative, opinionated and brittle woman to take the bait, and now they bob at the edges of our social circles together, occasionally teaming up on edgelord campaigns, but most often bickering and sniping between themselves. Sometimes SHE makes a solo foray, bailing up an unfortunate to complain about HIM 😂 There’s a pickme lid for every scrotey pot. Don’t be tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:36 PM
1

Maybe holding astrology at the same level of contempt as economics ruffled feathers? Which I guess I can understand, some people really love it and build their lives around it. I find astrology a fairly tiresome modality and it’s because i’ve mostly encountered people who seem to use it to make reductive and dismissive pronouncements (‘it’s because she’s a Virgo!’) so I just don’t engage but I also bristle when I hear astrology summarily dismissed as ‘womens prattle’. It CAN be done in a way tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:15 PM
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I can’t believe you’re getting so downvoted... the prognostications of male economists that start from fucked up assumptions taken as truths, and eurocentric/androcentric first-principles have caused so much damage to humanity. Astrology could never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:07 AM
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Compelled conversation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:41 AM
21

Kurt Cobain was a wonderful musician and a genuinely troubled soul but he spawned an era of thousands of fixmeeeeee-sadboi imitators caterwauling in their leafy suburbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 12:14 AM
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If only Alex were this charming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:54 PM
3

Truth. The guy I’m talking about is the only widower I know of to raise his kids on his own, besides on sitcoms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:41 PM
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Nah, he’s great. Loves the kids. He’s not looking for a new partner because his kids need him. He’s doing the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:50 PM
11

I know exactly ONE single (widower) dad focusing on raising his kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:29 AM
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This. Quality man I know through family went from full time lawyer to part time when his wife got sick, she died after a couple years and he’s devoted himself to his three kids since. There were women at his kids school THROWING themselves at him with a disgusting quickness after his wife’s death including one of her single mom FRIENDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:28 AM
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This. Women will do ANYTHING to keep a relationship together, to their detriment and beyond reason, so you KNOW if she divorced him he is TRASH 🗑🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:23 AM
15

and that upper lip is daaaaaaaaamp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:51 PM
23

The editors commissioning/publishing these... articles? Tracts? are taking advantage of vulnerable women for click$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:04 AM
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Oh god this man is a self-described ‘shaman’, isn’t he? I don’t even have to click thru to the article
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:33 AM
1

Please have a look at YouTube’ videos about what happens when you confront a narcissist/reveal that you’re onto them. It doesn’t improve things, to say the least. Please ensure you are able to get somewhere safe. Women are in the most danger from abusive partners when the scales fall from. Their eyes and they try to leave. The abusive partner will often choose to amp up the abuse to physical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:29 AM
1

Oh EW!! And can we talk about the 'reclamation' of the word 'pussy' by so-called feminists? Its a fucking SLUR. My YOGA TEACHER TRAINING teacher who was otherwise sex-positive in the best sense, even used this word. I get not wanting to use the word vagina, that's the internal space, but why not use the word VULVA. Or making up a new word. Referring to one's 'pussy' isn't reclaiming anything, its capitulation to misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:41 PM
1

Oh my good I remember reading about this. Women show up to have their bean flicked by strangers. https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p08xzk5h/episodes/downloads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:27 PM
7

Thankyou for this new language: misapplication of contingency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:06 PM
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Nobody attracts scrotes. They’re throwing out tries indiscriminately. If you don’t have FDS mindset, you entertain them where other women won’t and they stick to you. They then wear you down chip by subtle chip. Which most women not raised/au fait with FDS principles won’t pick up on, and they will be drawn further into the trap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:30 AM
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Yikes. Illuminating. Couldn't stay friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:40 AM
1

Shan boodram YES to a series. Look into Adina Rivers. She seems at first blush like a lovely woman, a lot of her focus on female sexual pleasure seems like it would be FDS-approved and yet... she recently blew up her perfect polyamorous life by getting jealous of a woman her partner was texting, deciding to secretly sleep with an other guy, falling pregnant to him, her partner finding out, and finding herself a suddenly-single mother. GOALS, AMIRITE???!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:01 AM
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I had a vague half-thought when she came out with her cannibaliusm = ok if someone's dick is hard take... "I wonder what her quals even are? like what teritary providers are pushing this line in their education, and why hasn't anyone made a fuss about it?" And now I have my answer. And color me gobsmacked that anything useful came outta the Call Her Daddy podcast. I guess a stopped clock really is right twice a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:50 AM
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‘Non-consensual BDSM’ is a phrase that needs not to used. It is assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:03 PM
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These boys were hiphop fans. White suburban boys loved/probably still love tracks within that genre that feature expletives and misogynistic slurs, because they in turn love to rap along and shout expletives and misogynistic slurs, and of course, the n-word. As I said we did not HAVE any actual black people around even! They regarded black women as 'sluts', 'hoes', 'easy lays'. They speculated about particular acts that they were 'dirty' enough to participate in. Many of these men I knew as high…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:26 AM
3

Whhhhaaaaaat?‽! I’m gonna try this. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:17 PM
2

There’s no way to add sufficient resistance to your facial muscles to cause them to grow, so no. The exception is your jaw muscles, you can buy those jaw exercisers that are a rubber ball-type of thing that you chew. But they will make your jaw bulkier which doesn’t sound like your goal. Contour babe. Check contour makeup videos on YouTube and buy a couple good cream-to-powder contour sticks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:10 PM
2

Seriously. I went to a concert with my nephew and at the bar afterward men wouldn’t leave me alone. I was older than most of them by fifteen years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:03 PM
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That tracks. I feel like women in their twenties are only aspirational to other women in their twenties maybe. Women in their thirties are aspirational to a broader age range.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:02 PM
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I didn’t know if anyone would catch the reference. Maybe from Sandra Bullock mentioning it in Speed 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:31 AM
9

lip filler migrates out of your lipline and it starts looking like you have a dogs muzzle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:01 AM
5

I've had good results drinking marine collagen; my skin feels plumper when I'm using it. As far as preventing future wrinkles, who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:00 AM
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Yup you’re spot on. Fat loss and muscle loss reduce facial volume. Guess what reduces muscle.... Botox-induced paralysis!! No judgment or admonition you should stop. My friends with Botox look great 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:41 AM
8

Search ‘why I stopped filling faces’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:37 AM
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Hey boy, are you a Pinto? Cos letting you into my life sounds like it stands a good chance of ending in a fireball
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:00 AM
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Shallon Lester just did a youtube video on how to help a friend in an abusive situation. She sparked off of Evan Rachel Wood's recent revelations but the info is for regular women. It was very good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:58 AM
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Men who know their worth and are high value hit me with their vibe way before their looks even register.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:34 AM
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OMG Maria is exquisite in every way. She had a history of very LVM and traumatic experiences and I hope that her increased beauty/serene vibe is a reflection of the man she now shares her life with being wonderful. She certainly has an ease about her and about motherhood that would suggest that she is being well supported and appreciated, I pray this is the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:32 AM
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Even on superficial grounds, the notion women are hotter in their twenties than thirties (or older) doesn't hold water. I saw a youtube of a plastic surgeon who was like I don't get why everyone's filling their faces, slimmer faces are judged more attractive and they slim with age, why look 'young' when you can look 'better', which comes with age. He showed a bunch of pictures supporting his contention, and refuses to do fillers in his practice. Like damn, Madonna, leave yourself alone. I would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:16 AM
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LVMs would rather denigrate than upgrade themselves to deservingness. You hate to see it. LOVE seeing strong women, women proud of their their hard work and abilities. I’m cryin a little thinking of myself in a dress like that but they’re happy-for-you tears 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:59 PM
10

I'm recminded of another post where someone commented they respected red pillers more than male faux femininsts (see: Joss Whedon) because at RPer were upfront. I would never respect EITHER but strategically and logistically its less trouble to avoid the misogynists I can see coming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:28 AM
1

Cleaning is a bloody hard job. And I’m sorta against anyone having to do it for others— if you reach the point that you can’t deal with your own effluent, you’re consuming/using/discarding too many resources. People who hire others to clean up just make me think they’re horribly dirty. I know that’s not actually the case, if cleaners were paid well I’d have more charitable feelings toward those who hire them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:44 PM
2

A lot of things can produce the hormonal feeling of power in the body, but feelings are ineffectual at bringing about change in actual power relations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:40 PM
2

Yeah why collect STDs and spend all that cab/Uber fare getting home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:37 PM
2

They also see Tv and movie depictions of women at each others throats and in competition over superficial things. The depiction of women’s friendship, supporting and cheering eachother on,bigging eachother up and validating eachother for our strengths is way more common in the media women make for themselves about themselves. Which men don’t watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:31 PM
4

There was very little levity in this video despite all the ingredients for a funny situation.. the other two participants barely even registered anything being amiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:26 PM
33

Don't do it. You might as well wire it to a Nigerian prince
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:50 AM
8

Quickies are for lovers of yeast infections and bacterial vaginosis 😬😬😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:03 PM
7

It was very trendy to be the sort of person who ‘got’ him, it was a sign of how much more intelligent you were than the dopey plebs who wrote him off as.... exactly what he appears to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:41 PM
6

That interviewer is Tom Green who was once married to Drew Barrymore. He’d been pretty high in my estimation because of that but this interview made me lose all respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:40 PM
13

Dita’s in a pretty weird position, that she didn’t put herself in. I can see why she would want to make the statement she did— avoiding backlash from Manson fandom. We’ve seen the caliber of friends he attracts (Johnny Depp, Doug Stanhope), can you imagine how gross his anonymous supporters and champions would be online? Dita doesn’t need that energy directed at her just for marrying a cheating scrote back in the day. She might also be ambivalent about full-throatedly supporting Evan, whom Manso…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:25 PM
6

Manson throws around the word ‘dichotomy’, which has four syllables and that he probably found hard to spell at one time so he thinks it takes discourse to galaxybrain-level. That’s the extent of his intellect. It’s a fancy way of saying things are black and white, which is NOT the way intelligent people engage with the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 10:36 AM
10

Long term drug use will also fuck with impulse control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:57 AM
38

None of us running a Scrote School
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:24 AM
8

Oh I’m an Old, I remember his first appearance on the Phil Donahue show 🤣😂 He’s NEVER looked good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:58 AM
3

You’re probably right. Herman was a mensch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:49 PM
18

Loma Vista Recordings said it would no longer be working with Manson and would cease promoting his latest album "effective immediately". Manson has denied the allegations, saying they were "horrible distortions of reality". His guest appearance in Starz drama American Gods will also be removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:18 PM
33

Guy LOOKS like Herman Munster’s nutsack imagine his ACTUAL BALLS 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:59 AM
29

I know it’s the most insufferable thing a person can say: hE’s So DeRiVaTiVe... but fuck me if he isn’t the most derivative, ignorable ‘artist’ of the last 20 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:28 AM
22

Omg track down Fred Durst’s midlife juice-fast promo blog and WEEEEEP 🤣😂😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:21 AM
38

Hell, read his ACTUAL autobiography!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:18 AM
85

I read this as goth TRUMP and it’s hilarious and true both ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:10 AM
154

I’m always surprised to learn he’s still alive. Every time he pops back up it’s with another chin. Wish I had his luck though, looks like he swung by the thrift store where Karl Lagerfeld’s shirts got donated at just the right time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:08 AM
29

This, this, this, a thousand times. Shut up and be listening for him trying out gambits like ‘I’ve been hurt before...’ ‘I want someone I can be kind to’ etc. If you hear them remain silent and you BETTER not agree to a subsequent date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 01:36 AM
16

They’ve been negging us since the flood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:05 PM
0

Well, I mean you can EITHER fuck over the billionaires by making no stock available to them to cover their short OR sell them back your stock to fuck over the nerd army and make your coin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:03 PM
54

A lot of very, very smart people are woefully underconfident and a tad codependent. Men can be pickmes with eachother. If a charismatic, fairly-smart person with capital behind him* can corral them into a company and play on their eagerness to please and willingness to jockey to position themselves in the hierarchy, he can make a lot of money. * Musk inherited and invested, he didn't create his first successful company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:34 AM
2

Are individual retail investors likely to be able to time a short themselves, or get shafted?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:48 AM
2

... would other large hedge funds be poised and better-placed to also do that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:44 AM
5

IMAGINE a world where men could self-soothe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:26 AM
-2

My understanding is there will be lulz OR a bag, not both. Am I right? I am not asking for financial advice, and you would not be providing it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:00 AM
6

How do you think you’ll predict the wave before it crashes and the value evaporates? Not being sassy, genuinely trying to learn. Not that I’m asking for financial advice or that you’d be giving it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:56 PM
24

I like this campaign of weaponised autism so much better than Gamergate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:51 PM
8

Oh so the plan is to hope the nerds keep pushing it even higher and you’ll sell before the fund collapses and the whole bubble bursts and it’s worth nothing. This is not financial advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:44 PM
7

My understanding is the stock will be worth nothing once the nerd army that pumped it sky-high and are holding it to bankrupt the hedge funds succeeds. This is not financial advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:36 PM
1

Are you expecting to make money on GME or are you in it for the lulz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:32 PM
80

Nobody really ‘missed out’ on this stock rise, male or female. The brigade of autists (I mean no disrespect with this term in this instance, and they use it in reference to themselves, though less often than they refer to themselves as the r-word) are pumping it up in hopes of bankrupting hedge funds that had bet on the price staying low. This is a grudge match for them, not a wealth-building strategy. They’re spending on GME what they can afford and expect to lose, for the lulz. They’re all in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:03 PM
6

And when I say squired as a trophy I don’t mean taken out on the town wined and dined and shown off, I mean, he shows your nudes to all the boys in his chat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:24 PM
11

If you gotta shout about it, it prolly ain’t so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:23 PM
8

That sounds really gorgeous! Can we get a pic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:01 AM
18

What a lovely-looking woman. Don't come to this Goddess without offerings!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:00 AM
23

This speaks to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:07 AM
68

Yiup. To guys like this women exist only in relation to how they can be used to reflect or enhance a man's status, either by putting them down or squiring them as a trophy. Neither serves women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:14 AM
9

Where is the signup sheet for the CCWGG posse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:13 AM
2

a man if her life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:15 PM
12

Turntables!!! I see what you did there!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:33 AM
180

I just look at this scenario and think... well what was the clincher that made the scrote think yup, guess this one’s worth it? Did he look at his 401k, realise it wasn’t close to being able to support him in old age, and think he better lock in that free live-in nurse? CynicismSavesLives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:15 AM
19

Rude. What a scrote. He won’t bring ingredients either. He’ll show up saying the store was closed and use YOUR UberEats to order dinner which you will of course pay for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 10:15 PM
80

I was ashamed to realise that until reading this thread my unexamined assumption was that teen pregnancies occurred due to the scenario you described.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:29 PM
58

I’m gobsmacked that I’m gobsmacked that this is the case. The media stereotype of teen pregnancy is teen couples having naive contraception fuckups. OF. FUCKING. COURSE. ITS PREDATION!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:26 PM
2

These people are EXQUISITELY SENSITIVE... to their own feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:01 PM
2

Yyyyyyup. People who have high trait empathy plus maturity and STRONG BOUNDARIES are able to use their insights to create great relationships, avoid people who would harm them or those around them, and use this trait to their advantage in their careers. They make great friends and lovers and they choose great friends and lovers. The boundariless, emotionally-leaky doormats wallowing on the floor and telling everyone they keep getting taken advantage of because they’re an EMMMMMMPAAAAAAAATTHHHHHH…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:57 PM
46

Welp, nothing to talk about indeed. He showed you his big round shining ass and no more needs to be said. What to think? NOTHING bad about yourself, that's for sure. I am sorry for the hurt this has caused you, which you do not deserve. But I do know the Goddess was looking out for you that night, putting him square in your line of sight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:24 AM
6

This. They don;t know any better, but its an ego-saving self-conceptualisation, positioning themselves as blameless and agencyless against the powerful narcissists. And truly, noone IS to blame for being abused, only the abuser. But the conflation of the idea of blame with the notion one COULD learn to behave/vet differently is what really makes empaths a danger to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:19 AM
20

I thought they meant the abuser was frequently drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:08 AM
6

You are a damned good egg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:57 AM
210

This is the most embarrassing TikTok I’ve ever seen, and the last one I saw was the spraytan girl dancing to the threesome song in front of her man in their beige tract house, begging for a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:32 AM
1

This woman’s professional association should expel her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:18 AM
23

Lol nah. The Montreal lawsuit has them tryna show they’re some kind of iMpOrTaNt ReSoUrCe. The ‘Freeze Peach’ card is getting harder to play, thank goodness. Their ‘user verification process’ would also seem woefully inadequate to establish identity and I hope the legal team filing the suit is able to argue that PornHub itself is deemed to be the supplier of child pornography, and that those at the company’s helm can be jailed 😃 That would make my 2021. 👏🏻👀🍿🍿🍿 Here’s a radical suggestion for the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:56 PM
7

A man with good boundaries won’t lay an abuse story, if true, on a woman until he gets to know her. He will be appropriately circumspect about whom he reveals this information to. Having zero apprehension about revealing such information is a tell. Another tell is if it is ‘revealed’ when there is conflict in the relationship in order to give him an out for poor behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:47 PM
2

I agree, as a former smoker. Cigs reward the dopamine pathway in a way that feels like ‘work’ or an achievement. In the workplace, it’s the laziest, most disagreeable people who always seem to be on smoke break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:37 AM
1

If he’s driving OTHERS around in his CAR whom he cannot direct not to smoke per his wishes you got urself a beta 😬😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:34 AM
12

It’ll happen. Can’t control the husband so will attempt to mold the son. I pray she develops self awareness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:11 AM
60

The mirror imagery of this is perfect. This man’s parents neither taught nor allowed him to develop his adulthood and agency. So he was attracted to quite a forthright, outspoken woman... whom he no doubt hides behind and expects to advocate for him in a number of situations. Sounds tiring for her, what with having to battle his mother also. Get. Away. From. Them. All.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:46 PM
62

Whoa. Leave the man and the mom right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:40 PM
30

True. Low value men lower the value of everything around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:33 AM
5

They’ll make the effort to appear to change for one woman. But he’ll revert back to type 🤷🏼‍♀️They allllllllllllways do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:24 AM
51

Throw the whole perv away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:01 PM
7

You did so good!! BPD is tough. But look at your values coming through for you!! You followed them. Even through the panic and the hurt. Your self protection came through. Your therapist will be high-fiving you when they hear this 🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:14 PM
24

In the right circles these basic boundaries don’t have to be stated let alone reinforced. We’ll remove ourselves and throw the scrotes to the pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:33 PM
6

Now that kids would be out of the question for me, I really struggle to see what a man would bring to my life. I am starting to see my friends with kids, in their mid-40s, also wonder what their man is bringing to their life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:49 AM
15

Recognise that it wasn't really even your full decision to stoop so low- you had a set of beliefs about men, and about yourself, that were not true and that did not serve you. You did not even consciously choose those beliefs. They were drip-fed by culture. You now literally have a higher consciousness of what is going on. And self-compassion and self-forgiveness expands your consciousness further. You are on your own side now, pop this back on 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:46 AM
18

Ugh. Men are abused in overwhelming majority by OTHER MEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:35 AM
1

‘years’ ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:34 AM
5

This is a REAL AD they think is gonna make their site look appealing? I thought this was a FDS meme* 😂🤣😂🤣😂 *well I guess it is now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:32 AM
143

It wasn’t a fair fight sis- you had a whole Millenias-old cultural and economic system militating against you knowing your worth. But still, you did beat it. Wear the 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:57 PM
14

Beauty & the Beast Lady & the Tramp Pickme & the Scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:51 PM
7

This. The codependence helps no one. You just end up keeping people in a holding pattern by allowing them to vent and off-gas their frustrations while wasting your own time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:56 AM
12

Stealing your first line 💋👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:49 AM
35

Unfamiliar with Lo & Stitch, googled and was UTTERLY familiar with what the image search produced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 08:54 AM
43

COULD look like!!!?⸮ 😂🤣😂 THIS IS A PHOTOGRAPH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:35 PM
4

Yyyyyyyyup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:16 AM
23

Yes. I dated a guy who seemed to think that conversations had winners and losers. He’d describe conversations he’d had, telling me things like ‘And he had NO COMEBACK!’ as though stumping someone conversationally or having them edge away uncomfortably made him a boss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:16 PM
27

YES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:11 PM
188

‘I like to do the gentlemen thing’ cos he opened a door for me. OOOOOH, YOU SURE ARE A CUT ABOVE THE REST, BOOOOOOOOIIIIEEEE - fancy gentleman 🧐 didn’t pay for my coffee 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:07 PM
153

Eeeesh. If you’ve gotta leverage Dadgrumpery on an adult... you’ve got yourself a grotesquely overgrown child 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:42 PM
11

Just think of the sucking sinkhole that is the collective energy of women diverting their labors to scrub men and those men not even doing anything with it. YOU ARE NO LONGER ENABLING THE DRAINING FORCE. YOUR POWER IS NOW ALL YOUR OWN!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:48 AM
8

He’s using her, she’s using you. Both people can’t attend to themselves so they create dramatic scenarios to command attention from others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:55 PM
18

Aaaaaaaand this is why we don’t spend time trying to convince lvw to level up. The more you point out their ridiculousness, the more they defensively double down on their devotion to their struggle lover. After I simply stopped responding to a good friends recounting of her man’s continued shenanigans (I just looked at her evenly, mouth closed, and she’d trail off and change the subject herself)... she left him within two months. I don’t make new friends who are like this. Women who have scrub b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:48 PM
21

Aw I’m sorry about your doggo but so lovely that you two had that time together. Seriously the worse they are somehow the harder they are to get away from. They get ya stunned and operating from crisis-mode. So glad you shook that off and are making headway on your own now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:27 AM
16

Men be rapin 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:41 AM
24

He respects women who are IN SERVICE TO him. Which I wouldn’t call respect. I’d call it calculation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:39 AM
12

MY diagnosis: SCRUB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:17 PM
3

The vast majority of men lead lives of quiet desperation, treading water till death claims them and will keep themselves from boredom by offering minimal effort to sleep with and be catered to by women to the extent women will allow them to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:30 AM
27

Mmmmm can still do a lot of damage with no balls, half of them out there doing just that amiriiiiite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:23 AM
73

Some people should get the vaccine, and others like this asshole should get lethal injection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:22 AM
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