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Right, except for the oral sex part.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 02:41 PM
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it's a good comparison, but comparison isn't really the point: the point is to highlight how problematic the original logic is by applying to a topic that makes it much easier to see how wrong it is. obviously, no one should have to live with being raped every day, and in the same way, no one should have to live with being single every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:06 PM
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irrelevant, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:56 PM
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They are comparable things, they can be compared just like you can compare $1 to $100.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:52 PM
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I don't think you understand what "comparable" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:41 PM
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what if it happens over and over?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:31 PM
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Since you don't seem to get it: the hypocrisy is that they think it is okay to tell men to live without, but believe the opposite when it affects them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:33 PM
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We're trying to get people to willing to date me, that's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:22 PM
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That's what we're trying to get. Do you know any single women? Honestly, I might be able to compromise somewhat on the "single" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:20 PM
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Eh...why? Other people don't have to abstain from things you don't have in order to appease to you. Fine, then I shouldn't have to abstain either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:15 PM
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I know, right? They're so hypocritical. It's like they can't hear themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:14 PM
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Women of PPD: People have to learn to live without things they want. Also women of PPD: No one should have to put up with being raped!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:55 PM
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People have to learn to live without things they want. That's a part of adulting really. Great! Then all the married people can live without their partners too. You're not being realistic: we don't all have to go without everything we want. This is one situation where I don't have to settle for not getting what I want. so we learn to accept our current financial situation and we try to improve it. By your logic, rape victims should just learn to accept being raped. I'm already trying to improve …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:54 PM
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Be Civil/No Personal Attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:01 PM
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"Cope" is blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:53 PM
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Learning to cope with a lack of something you want doesn't really mean stopping wanting that. I see, so you want me to be tortured, got it. You haven't made things better. We all have things we can't get right now or won't be able to get ever...we have to live with it. Okay, great, then all the married people can live without those things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:51 PM
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which one?
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 07:03 AM
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When has there ever been a time where the Internet took a deep look into a life of an incel and didn’t find some massive red flags? Anyone can "find" "massive red flags" if they try hard enough. You being intellectually dishonest doesn't make you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:32 AM
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How many people really advise to "stop wanting things"? Many, like the people you describe here: I've seen people saying that learning to cope with your current situation and find joy that is available to you is a better strategy than hating people and stopping any efforts because "you're doomed". That's code for "stop wanting things." I want the joy that I want, and if that means getting more joy than is available to me, then I need to expand the amount of joy available to me? .. I've done the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:19 AM
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You are also not mistreated nor neglected just because you are being "raped," so stop quoting that African proverb. It does not apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:14 AM
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You're going to get raped. Get over it. There you go, just as vaild.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:04 AM
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If “sweet nice guys” are lashing out at people who clearly arent being terrible to them Your default treatment of them is terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:03 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thought-terminating_clich%C3%A9 A thought-terminating cliché (also known as a semantic stop-sign, a thought-stopper, bumper sticker logic, or cliché thinking) is a form of loaded language, often passing as folk wisdom, intended to end an argument and quell cognitive dissonance.[1][2][3] Its function is to stop an argument from proceeding further, ending the debate with a cliché rather than a point.[1] Some such clichés are not inherently terminating; they only becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:59 AM
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Told me that sex and feeling appreciated is actually very important for our mental health. That i should be supported and encouraged in finding ways to get it. .. only, that "support and encouragement for finding it" will never actually get you it, and your mental health will suffer, i.e., you will have significantly less joy in your life. Do you want "validation" or do you want to get what you actually want?
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 02:50 AM
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"You have to stop wanting it before you can get it" is such bad faith. They assume that simply having normal human desires is equivalent to "desperate." It's unscientific, it's an unfalsifiable hypothesis. As long as you still want it that is proof that you're not doing it right; essentially victim blaming. If you ever achieve not wanting it, which isn't even realistic, then you don't want it any more, so there is no unmet desire, so there is no problem, so you wouldn't even want it if it were a…
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 05:37 PM
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This pretty much explains everything wrong with dating: https://www.npr.org/2018/10/14/657238859/sperm-donor-families-45-children-and-counting When women can pick a man, like ordering from a catalog, many of them choose the same few men. They choose men with the kind of characteristics you'd guess they have. As much as the sperm banks did the wrong thing by not limiting the number of children any one man could father, the sperm bank "cheating" is driven by demand from women: if you "retire" sper…
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 05:22 PM
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wow, you have a bizarre imagination.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 06:38 PM
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there are a number of dudes on the manosphere who think serial killers get all the chicks There is objective evidence of fan mail for serial killer from women. "Dating" in the broad sense is almost never the worthiest goal to act upon regardless of results measured by that yardstick. k? Welp, good thing it isn't, and good thing no one cares about your opinion. If men weren't on the web complaining, we might not mind them strategizing for a worthy goal. You seriously over estimate the amount of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:04 AM
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Strawman argument, we're obviously not talking about Serial killers have results, too. That's not all that counts. Steroids produce results, yeah. What aren't you getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:13 AM
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No, I meant meaningful in that it actually helps anyone get what they want. Who the fuck cares what you consider "commendable"? I and everyone else only care about results, Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:04 AM
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Were you trying to say something meaningful there? Because you didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:53 AM
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A guy who wastes all of his time worrying about dating in an unproductive way is literally wasting his time in an overbearing way. k? I'm talking about trying to get what you want out of life, not "worrying."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:48 AM
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No one tells struggling men not to CARE about relationships. Many, many people do, but usually dating or casual sex comes before a relationship, so they tell them to do those things. We tell them not to spend a bunch of their time on it when the time is not producing positive results for them. There is no guaranteed "you will never get results," but also, when it is what they want, no amount of "just stop wanting what you want" helps them. Even for you, if your spouse is important, don't spend a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:38 AM
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Eh, a good -relationship- would most likely be with only one person and would not involve a majority of life focus. Yeah, no: people's spouses are very important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:31 AM
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No, I'm also talking about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:13 AM
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Don't focus on dating, just try to make a good life for yourself, and focus on the things you enjoy ... yes, that is why I "focus" on dating: I enjoy it, and it's part of a good life for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:41 PM
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let's see if all these circle jerk comments actually get deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:56 PM
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Also PPD men: "What do you mean, I have to actually talk to her and do stuff with her? I'm not a dancing monkey!" PPD man here, where do I sign up to talk and do stuff with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:50 PM
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Telling people to stop wanting what they want is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:43 PM
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It's for the suicidal thoughts you fool. Go get therapy. Now. Seriously. I have actually tried therapy and it didn't help. It made my life a lot worse off, actually. Therapy won't help me because it won't get me a wife. The way to stop me being suicidal is to get me a wife. All therapy will do is get their attention, and then they'll take away my ability to suicide, take away my freedom. That's a bad thing because suicide is better than living, and even worse than my current life is having zero …
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 07:57 PM
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Good thing I didn't do that then.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 07:40 PM
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Fine, then I'll just suicide.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 12:58 PM
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Okay, great, you have no empathy. You are a terrible person.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 12:57 PM
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I mean, it sounds like merely continuing to exist is such great torture that you want to die immediately anyway. Without a (good) wife? Yes. With one, no. Compared to that, trying a few things out sounds like small potatoes. I already did that and it didn't work. I could understand why a person who intends to go on with life would have an interest in conserving their resources and sparing themselves more pain they'd have to live with. But you're basically playing with house money. I already trie…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 12:57 PM
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It isn't a premise, it is a fact. What's in it for her? I'd make an awesome partner.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 12:55 PM
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I already tried that, read my post. Therapy isn't a substitute for a wife. Therapy is not designed to get people a spouse either.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 12:54 PM
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Obviously there's no such thing as universal advice to give to total strangers that will get them a good wife, or even laid. No. That's not the situation here. You won't even try. You're a coward. If there were, this sub wouldn't exist. Okay, so you're saying I should immediately suicide. Anything less than giving me something better than immediate suicide is you encouraging me to immediately suicide. All you're doing is telling me I'm an idiot for not killing myself already, and that I should i…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:51 AM
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That doesn't help me. All you are saying is that I should immediately suicide.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:22 AM
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If the alternative is death anyway, why be concerned about scammers at all? Because I would have been better off being dead rather than suffering through that torture. You got big plans for that money in the afterlife? The whole point is being in this world is worse than death. I am literally better off dead. Give me something better than death and maybe I'll consider not immediate suicide. No? Then you're a shitty person.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:20 AM
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Arranged marriage. SEAmaxx. No, it is on you to tell me exactly who. Give me this woman's name or you are encouraging immediate suicide. What's more: I ALREADY TRIED THAT, and it didn't work.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:19 AM
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u/blebbyroo, I ask for help and you don't help me. If you say so. You didn't help me! Don't act like you gave me the perfect solution, but I'm just too stubborn to try to have a good life. I did it. I TRIED. I asked you to give me something better than immediate death, and you respond with "lol, fuck you, loser." If you say so. That is not the "own" you think it is. That is you saying your the worst piece of shit ever.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 05:17 AM
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As a fellow human I wish you well and hope you find happiness but that’s it. u/blebbyroo, That's a cute way of saying fuck you, loser, die!
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 04:28 AM
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You're splitting hairs. GIVE ME SOMETHING BETTER THAN SUICIDE OR I WILL IMMEDIATELY SUICIDE.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 04:12 AM
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No, that you accepted the relationship There wasn't any. You are just a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:01 AM
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this person never "bitched" at you or really did anything except ask you questions. What? What about this part: I’m sure it was you though under a different username. The post and even these responses based on my memory are nearly verbatim. That was u/blebbyroo making a statement, not asking a question.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:59 AM
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I didn’t yell at you. I didn’t even use caps or bolds. Splitting hairs, tone policing. Doing the work isn’t something that you do and then that’s it. So by definition, no one can ever suicide? I see, you aren't someone to be taken seriously. Of course I did it for a long fucking time! It wasn't once and "oh well, didn't work the first time, I guess I'll kill myself." It’s an ongoing Process it never stops, that’s the reality for all of us. "ongoing Process it never stops": No, it isn't. It stops…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:57 AM
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The goal is "have a good wife." How do I get that? I've tried everything so suicide is now the best thing for me. If you don't want me to immediately suicide, then it is on you to give me a good wife. Qualifying with "good" because people will bitch at me about how "relationships aren't perfect, and sometimes can be worse than being single." Of course they can! The goal is to have a good one not a bad one. So, what do you have for me, or do you leave me with immediate suicide being the only rati…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:39 AM
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Accepting a relationship with someone because they are the first available option Welp, there you go putting on extra conditions, so now I don't care about your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:34 AM
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hey u/blebbyroo, I’m sure it was you though under a different username. The post and even these responses based on my memory are nearly verbatim. I also didn’t specifically say not to do anything or to do anything I’ve asked questions. k? Your life is your own, If you are continuing to be disingenuous and say it’s on anyone but your own responsibility to do things such as research matchmakers, pay for their services, or move countries then you clearly don’t actually care about the situation you …
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:33 AM
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All you've done u/blebbyroo, is convince me that the I have no option but suicide. It isn't a choice at all. Instant death is undeniably the best thing for me. You’ve posted this for more than a year. ... I haven't. Maybe you have me confused with someone else? What have you been doing besides posting this? I don't owe you a comprehensive accounting. But, I've been doing everything available to me. What job do you have? A well paying office job, I'm not going to dox myself for you, sorry. Have y…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:21 AM
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and if I fuck up guess what? I can go get an abortion if needed. don't bitch about not being able to get an abortion then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:58 AM
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So you can have relationships with females, right? No, not even bad ones.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 02:57 AM
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Okay, great, reasonable desperation. We agree that desperation can be reasonable. We have no disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:36 AM
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Why do you care about "men who bitch about being baby trapped"? Take personal responsibility, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:30 AM
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Wanting something to the point of being willing to hurt yourself or others to get it is desperation. Go three days without water. Tell me how unreasonable desperation is then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:29 AM
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Sure, but then physical attractiveness is the biggest factor, not location, proving you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:05 AM
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No need to talk about men. Just don't fuck if you don't want a baby. Easy. There you go, you have a perfect solution regardless of whatever any nasty men think. Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:01 AM
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No one actually says that stuff to the women they're trying to date.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 01:24 AM
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Women, if facing the consequences of having sex is too scary, then don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:20 AM
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Women: if you don't want a baby then just don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:09 AM
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Can someone please explain the difference between "I desire something in a normal way," and "I am desperate"? it seems like way too many people want to characterize normal "I want nice things" as being "desperate."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:08 AM
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No, it's just that normal desire is often mischaracterized as "desperate."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:07 AM
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but rather that they usually make their love interest the focus of their life. They don't, it's just that the squeaky wheel gets the grease: when everything except a woman is mostly squared, it is natural to get the most value-ad from satisfying the "woman" need.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:05 AM
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But what if my value is nothing something that can be ‘shown’ or ‘presented’ but instead ‘experienced’. Then your value does not exist. "Value" is only the value others see in something. If other people see you as low value then you are. If they see you as high value then you are. If you are low value until someone says yes, then you are low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:01 AM
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But then location isn't the biggest factor, physical attractiveness is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:49 AM
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I want to actually get laid/girlfriend/relationship/whatever. I don't want them to say anything. I want results.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:46 AM
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Physical attractiveness is the biggest factor in success in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:25 PM
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No, so why would what anyone says anonymously on the internet matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:17 PM
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It is on the person claiming that I should stop to show that it is going to help me. They weren't going to want me regardless of what I said or not anonymously on the internet, so it makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:11 PM
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No, because no amount of not "expressing how hard it's to be single" is going to get me a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:01 PM
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