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| 44 | Men who give you a number/large number of children they want before discussing commitment just want to use your body.Even pre FDS this was one of my litmus tests when vetting. I’m firmly in the CF camp but I’ve had LVM / NVM attempt to steamroll me by telling me that “oh you could change your mind” and then tell me they want 3-5 kids without having the means to support them. Ummm no thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Story about my friend which ultimately led me hereThis one should be tagged Queen Shit cuz your friend is exactly that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:15 AM |
| 7 | Kind reminder for you to never trust a man if he claims to be infertile. This woman was impregnated and ripped off financially by a psychopath. Always take care of contraception yourself.My goddess . . . Queens protect your wombs & never stop vetting. Remember that abusers of all stripes often have others who are complicit in their schemes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:33 PM |
| 11 | Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge:I’m learning as an adult that being parentified is incredibly common. I went through high school toting my youngest two siblings around. I realized then how difficult raising a child actually is, especially if one of the parents is checked out either emotionally or physically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 07:22 PM |
| 130 | Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge:As someone who’s been determined to be CF since before the CF movement I can sympathize with your points. I watched my mom have miscarriage after miscarriage, then have debilitating post partum depression after each of my siblings. Being parentified at a young age clarified my CF stance. I’m very comfortable being the rich aunty / godmother but I wouldn’t want the responsibility of a child full time even if it was a step child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 03:30 AM |
| 18 | The Fantasy vs The Reality ✨I heard that first line in Angela Lansburys voice and that made me incredibly happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 11:08 PM |
| 62 | Evan Rachel Wood alleges Marilyn Manson "essentially raped" her on music video shootI always thought Marilyn Manson was a professional creep but now we know he’s also a pedo rapist. Sources say they met at a Hollywood party when Woods was only 18. This video was filmed when Evan Rachel Woods was 19/20 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 06:25 PM |
| 35 | Another reason why we don’t do coffee datesThis is definitely a great way to vet men right away. A man who is truly interested in a woman should want to impress her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 07:23 PM |
| 15 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteThis is societal conditioning at work . . . Making this woman doubt her instincts. I’d get copies / screenshots of all his conversations with this girl, get a shark of a divorce lawyer, inform the relevant authorities, get this pedo scrote on a sex offender registry then ride off into the sunset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 11:44 PM |
| 49 | The Inverse Relationship Between Financial Maturity and Marriage DesirabilityI started out by reading Suze Ormans Women & Money, plus listening to her podcast. I’d also recommend Young, Fabulous & Broke, Clever Girl Finance: Ditch debt, save money & build real wealth by Bola Sokunbi, anything by Tiffany “the Budgetnista” Aliche, On My Own Two Feet: A Modern Girl's Guide to Personal Finance by Manisha Thakur & Sharon Kendra, Broke Millennial: Stop Scraping By and Get Your Financial Life Together by Erin Lowry, You Are a Badass at Making Money: Master the Mindset of Wealth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 44 | The Inverse Relationship Between Financial Maturity and Marriage DesirabilityPreach! Amen sis! I’m 41, CF & in the best financial shape of my life. That makes “living together separately” very appealing because I don’t want to jeopardize my hard won progress. It also informs my very specific red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Interpreting a scrote's sad taleSeriously, I need “Hobosexuals be scrotin’ printed on a T shirt or embroidered on a pillow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 05:29 AM |
| 11 | While I try to support our sisters, this… idk how I feel about this…. Like why can’t we protest woman’s rights.This reads like a free invite for scrotes to come ogle women under the guise of supporting those same women. I’d bet anything there will be scrotes there posing for pics with whatever scantily clad woman that shows up then saving those pics for their spank bank. Or worse posting those pics on their socials. SMH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 05:33 PM |
| 16 | FDS haikus for your entertainment and viewing pleasureBars | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 01:52 AM |
| 22 | FDS haikus for your entertainment and viewing pleasureStories on FDS Like a mirror of my dating life Dumb scrotes have no new tricks \ Scrotes claim they want a ride or die but will hate the one they’re with Make it make sense \ Ghosts of my pickmeisha past No longer haunt me FDS Queen ascendant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 01:51 AM |
| 105 | Sometimes a woman is single BECAUSE she settled not because she was too picky.Sometimes a woman is single BECAUSE she settled not because she was too picky. “Or are they discerning about incompatibilities but talked out of their instincts because being single is stigmatized and weaponized as a measurement of a woman’s desirability?” This, my goddess, this. My last relationship was with a single dad who would normally fall on my personal spectrum of undateables. I had a slew of acquaintances encourage me to date him, even though I was on the fence. They said things to the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 11:16 PM |
| 4 | Sons of single mothers = a huge red flagWow this post makes me think you’ve met my Dad . . . He fits all the above characteristics and then some. He literally put my mother through hell while simultaneously worshipping the ground that his own mother walked on. I’d add another point that he used to taunt my mother about often. My father was super fixated on not being like his own father, telling his kids how much better we had it because he choose to “stay with my family”. The unfortunate reality is things would have been better if he’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:11 AM |
| 115 | Why you shouldn’t live together before marriage: 2 real-life examplesThis! Ladies never, ever forget that men know exactly what they are doing when they seek to take advantage of us! I live in the NYC metro area and the high cost of living means many people I know are willing to jump into cohabitation just to be able to save $$$ on their rent / mortgage. Unfortunately we know that type of situation rarely benefits the woman involved whereas the man gets in house pussy, a live in maid, cook, etc. One thing I’ve learned is to be wary of a certain gleam in the eye f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 06:57 PM |
| 31 | We're not doing it anymoreThe delusion and depravity . . . Makes me shudder to think what that “anything” might entail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 02:19 AM |
| 2 | How Are You Treating Yourself this Holiday Season?I’m celebrating completing several steps on my level up journey (paying off my consumer debt, dropping 20lbs, and dropping my LVM ex) I treated myself to a couple of pairs of pants from my favorite brand to replace ones that no longer fit, booked a mani, pedi, reflexology massage spa day and bought a cute embroidered sweater from a local woman owned brand that has my new life motto on it. That and I just might jump into the fray for Lush’s annual Boxing Day Sale to snag some goodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 10:46 PM |
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