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| 1 | Just seperatedI joined this group for comfort but if deep inside you, you want reconciliation. Please dun get advice from people who Failed to reconcile. Talk to people who actually successfully reconcile. We dun learn to play a sport from people who failed the sport right. We learn from those who’s good at it right. All the best, regardless what path you take, all ❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/24 01:20 AM |
| -3 | Just seperatedPrime example, everything your ex wife whom use to love you came to you with tough truth, this was your internal and possible external response. Then if she divorce or cheat on you, you’re all surprise and blindsided. To make this worst, you build your argument on some out of no where make up assumption or guess that I am some ex wife making stuff up. How certain are you that I am not a real husband going thru divorce but trying my best to reconcile because I know I neglect my wife for years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/24 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Just seperatedMany high value men will crucify us because we are pussies. But I believe it takes a bigger man to understand and listen to our partner who hurt us versus the ones that condemn them. Heck, if I made a mistake and my partner will condemn me, it tells me everything I need to know about them and why I had to cheat or divorce them to begin with | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/24 01:00 AM |
| -2 | Just seperatedYou sound like someone with a victim mindset. Which mean you’re hurt due to someone or some situation that is outside your control. I didn’t say it was All his fault, there is fault on both side. Also, in every divorce, the husband and wife both loses, no one goes into a wedding vow wanting their dream outcome to be a divorce. Just be open to idea other than the one you have, at least consider it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/24 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Just seperatedMay I ask, this fundamental principle you base one of your biggest life decision on, it takes two to tango. Why do you believe in this core value so much. For example, I use to believe that couple should never go to bed mad. I live by this principle and all I did was rush argument, resolution and acquire relationship debt because not issues can be resolved in one night. I look back and wonder, wtf do i live my life based on this principle, I literally had no reason. I realize some stuff I learn … | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/24 12:52 AM |
| -8 | Just seperatedI am a husband myself and my perspective won’t be please but do you think that if you made your wife feel safe and loved during your marriage, she would cheat on you? I think it’s easy to have a victim mindset and just blame it on your wife character. Most ppl are not cheaters, they just felt so unhappy due to a lack of safety. For example, when your wife told you about the cheating, did you blame her or did you try to understand why she felt the need to cheat. What did she not get from you that… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/24 10:54 PM |
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