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2	Why You're Not Actually Flirting When You Think You Are "They constantly think sex is shameful, that girls won't want it, that girls are going to be uncomfortable with them. They second guess themselves constantly and never push it forward because of anxiety." That's not gut, in my opinion, that's societal conditioning. From talking to your regular Joe, yes, I'd say your wording is probably the best thing to get them to understand that concept without confusing them, but from a psychological standpoint I think my point stands pretty well. More people…	/r/seduction	22/05/13 02:21 PM
2	Why You're Not Actually Flirting When You Think You Are It's all good. Literally lol. It's good to hear someone else say that too.	/r/seduction	22/05/13 12:22 PM
1	Why You're Not Actually Flirting When You Think You Are Um, all well and good, but keep in mind that some girls may not feel comfortable telling you to buzz off, that she's not interested. Don't get lost in that whole "no means not yet". I doubt there's much more of a confidence killer than a restraining order. These are guidelines, not rules. Go with your gut/heart, not your other head, and make sure what you think and feel matches up with the way she's acting. And as much as (at least in my experience) you don't want to "have the talk" if you're no…	/r/seduction	22/05/13 11:24 AM
0	Why You're Not Actually Flirting When You Think You Are I find this offensive. Well, the language and stereotypes and generalizations I find offensive. At the end of it, I do believe in a strong man and I want him to take control, but I can't speak for most or all women since my experience in having to BE that strong person that takes care of everything leads me to want at least an equal partner so I don't have to shoulder all of the burden. But at the same token, I do find it hot to take control sometimes and make him do what I want. Men can be so d…	/r/seduction	22/05/13 11:19 AM
5	Why You're Not Actually Flirting When You Think You Are I've had personal experience where both parties felt they were pretty clearly "showing" but neither actually SAID anything and it was one of those, "I can't believe you couldn't tell" situations, on BOTH sides.	/r/seduction	22/05/13 11:12 AM
0	Why You're Not Actually Flirting When You Think You Are anyone else see the potential for a short video about all the ways this can go wrong? It popped out at me with the manly chest voice, I imagined some scrawny timid guy suddenly busting out with a manly chest voice lol. On a serious note, I am a true believer in "be yourself". If they're not attracted to you the way you are then you'll probably wind up getting hurt eventually anyway, unless you're only in it for sex. And kudos to the author for putting in there that honesty is the best policy. At…	/r/seduction	22/05/13 11:10 AM

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