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Most women are happy so no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:36 PM
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The reason I went in a relationship was for companionship and maybe kids later and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:54 PM
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I think thats just venting and complaining in general, none of this business of demanding the other gender does something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:49 PM
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Haha ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:25 PM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:25 PM
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They aren't demanding men fix their problems
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:16 PM
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This sounds like it falls into the category of being free counsellors. It's not women's responsibility to do or say anything really
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:48 AM
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I mean sure but with dating there's nothing to vote on to improve things for men? And it's not women's responsibility to be free counsellors to every guy that has dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:03 AM
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That seems more like a job for the prison and law system. It's not men's individual responsibility to do anything about that. Just like it's not individual women's responsibility to do anything about men's dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:49 AM
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Which issues exactly? I don't see women on here acting like their issues are suddenly men's problem just because they complain to men about it. Your issues are your own personal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:43 AM
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Well the thing is, your issues aren't actually women's problem. So men should stop acting like they are. If you have issues dating Ok sure. That's not women's problem and complaining to women sbout it doesn't make it their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:07 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:10 AM
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Your definition of a relationship is incorrect fyi. Either way my past 'relations' were great
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:01 PM
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Romantic relationship means marriage or a relationship between individuals involving casual or serious dating, sexual contact, intimacy, or any other conduct typically associated with a romantic or sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:53 PM
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You said relationship not 'relations'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:46 PM
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Low self esteem only causes mental issues and depression. Far better to be narcissistic ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:45 PM
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Just be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:42 PM
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Relationships = each man who stuck their dick in your pussy; men you've sucked off; Sorry to break it to you but that's not a relationship, that's sex 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:30 PM
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Ideally 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:32 AM
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The toxicity bringing me down is incels tbh 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:08 PM
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What toxicity? What are you talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:46 PM
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Well women aren't going to drop their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:35 PM
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Well thats nothing against what I said. Basically agreed with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:32 PM
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Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:26 PM
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7+
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:02 AM
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I like bi men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:36 AM
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Tall, strong jaw line, no beard, muscly, broad muscly build, 6.5"+🍆 Kinky as me, bi, dominant, higher libido than me but not crazy level Honest, thoughtful, intelligent, respectful, sense of humor, similar interests
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:36 AM
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If I really wanted I could of had a first date a week but I didn't want that. I'd prefer to spend longer talking online to find out more about them first. Like 7 years back I went on about 3 first dates in a few months. 1 had a second date. And the third ended up being my bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:26 AM
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You aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:51 AM
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Thats about if hes lgbqt not n count
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:44 AM
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It's fine if you are just not dating them. But if you want to like try to stop hookup culture etc that's misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:56 PM
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That's fine but judging others you aren't even involved with or wanting to stop them from having hookups etc is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:54 PM
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Yes it's misogynistic because what women do is none of your business
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:50 PM
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Sure atheists can be misogynistic as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:44 PM
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It's still misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:41 PM
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Well I'd avoid you like the plague. I don't even have high N count. I just find misogynistic views repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:40 PM
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Sounds religious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:38 PM
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Well youd know then you don't make the cut, for me anyway 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:37 PM
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Ok well women can have preferences for men with better N count preferences. Ie not misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:36 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:35 PM
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And religious people of which I have zero interest in
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:28 PM
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Oh strange. Has no effect on mine, I have a really strong immune system. People around me get smashed by illnesses and I'm just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:27 PM
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3 times
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:26 PM
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I don't remember asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:25 PM
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To know if they're gooners of course
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:21 PM
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No it's allergy. I'm quite allergic to cats and get seasonal allergies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:21 PM
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Wouldn't want to be involved with a misogynist incel gooner 😭 like not even as friends haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:20 PM
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Try allergy nose spray, works great
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:19 PM
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So far the cats part has come to fruition for me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:17 PM
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I think from now on I'll be asking guys what they think about women's N counts, how many times they jerk off each week and their own N count. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:14 PM
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Yeah from now on I'll be asking what they think about N count and how many time they jerk off each week and their own N count 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:10 PM
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Yeah I don't mind people wanting people with similar experience. What I do care about is this misogynistic mindset that women suddenly become used up and disgusting after X number of sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:04 PM
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How do you know, it's not like you were there watching her fuck every guy she's ever fucked, or supervised her 24x7. Lol honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:00 PM
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Low n count male gooners aren't even for recreational use 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:56 PM
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I was talking about men 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:55 PM
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There's no such thing as having too much experience. There is such thing as having not enough experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:47 PM
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No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:43 PM
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No theyre insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:43 PM
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Women only care that men aren't virgins so that's not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:38 PM
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And insecure men* Forgot that one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:37 PM
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Where you located? I think only bettas care tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:36 PM
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It's true. Incels, religious folk or men with jealousy issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:18 PM
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They can't be normal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:17 PM
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Well being a virgin is also disgusting in men and being a gooner so I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:16 PM
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Sure and women can ask men how many times he has jerked off and his N count and reject him if hees a gooner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:15 PM
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Another type that cares about N count are the jealous insecure type that can't handle that the woman has had sex before with X number of guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:09 PM
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Lie because it's none of the man's business. It's like asking a man how many times he's jerked off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:06 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:03 PM
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I mean more likely to lie and then ghost the guy because he's unhinged. I don't have high N count but I wouldn't date a guy that cares about N count because it's misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:03 PM
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What's the difference? Tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:55 PM
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They could just lie. Man that's so unhinged to ask N count 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:55 PM
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Very bizzare. Find it funny though women don't tend to go aroung announcing how many men they sleep with. So realistically you really have no way of knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:49 PM
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Do you identify as an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:44 PM
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True. I don't know if N counts are associated with infidelity though. "Normal" men don't care about N counts and if a guy does he's not normal and likely an incel or religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:37 PM
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I think the only people who care about N counts are incels or religious folk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:25 PM
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Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:20 AM
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I already have a bf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:08 AM
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Whys she saying this stuff when she's in a relationship. I feel bad for the guy. She should just leave and stop stringing him along if she is going to talk about him like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:10 PM
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UV exposure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:07 PM
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Tastes like flat lemonaide kinda lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:02 PM
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They should be. But deliberately going to another country for the women when they may be being forced into sex work is kinda ick
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:54 PM
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If they have been human/sex trafficked yes. Which is more common in poor countries. Atleast if they pay for a hooker in the west it's less likely they have been forced into the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:49 PM
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A good portion are paying for hookers. Either way not against it as long as no ones getting hurt or taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:45 PM
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Exactly and this is why if I was single I'd never first message guys on dating apps or go on dates with guys that didn't seem keen asf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:26 PM
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Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:31 PM
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Roe v wade was overturned. Also I'm not in USA
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:14 PM
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Outside of this sub there isn't a whole lot of slut shaming going on. The more progressive the country the less of it there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:01 PM
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"Give up some market place value" Does not compute in the real world. We won't suddenly be attracted to men we aren't attracted to. This isn't some sort of game or bartering where you can talk the person into a good deal for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:42 PM
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He should ask what they will be doing then. Not sure why that's hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:38 PM
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Probably less sympathetic to males and been some sort of femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:11 PM
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Well it's wrong if they insulted first
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:20 AM
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Generally women only insult if they already got insulted so it's justified
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:18 AM
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Males are usually primarily motivated for the sex itself and not so much the fathering part. But the mate gaurding and jealousy is still prominent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:30 PM
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If they publicly displayed that they are an incel is it really highly personal? I'd say if anything it's less personal, since you don't even need to go on their profile and dig for any other weaknesses. so is it acceptable to use racial or ableist or homophobic slurs Being an incel isn't a disability or race
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:28 PM
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It's a biologically evolved psychological instict. Since the males who were more jealous would of mate gaurded and prevented their female/s from mating with other males. So more offspring were that males. Psychological instict that was passed on due to increased reproductive sucess. Evolutionary psychology stuff https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mysteries-love/201609/the-true-nature-jealousy%3famp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:24 PM
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I believe dopamine is mostly involved in the male sexual response as well as oxytocin to a lesser degree. Dopamine is that of addiction, keeps them coming back for more. The oxytocin is love and bonding. So some innate brain chemistry has men programed to want a regular romantic mate. Also we evolved to have jealousy, since those who had jealousy must of had more offspring and gaurded their mate. So that evolved psychological response will make a man not want to share his mate and want to keep h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:08 PM
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Men have more testosterone and as a result higher sex drive. That means higher motivation to find a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:51 PM
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It's not really an insult to shame women for being able to get loads of men 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:50 PM
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Men will insult whatever weakness or issue they know women have, be it weight, mental illness etc etc. Women just reciprocate it. Not that complex. The difference is male virginity is seen as more universally shameful I think?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:39 PM
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It's shameful but men are only shamed about it if they incite it by insulting women first
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:27 PM
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Because It is shameful 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:18 PM
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You talk about it like something that has been conditioned and forced onto men. When it's not. Human's are just social by nature. We aren't conditioned to want a partner. It's instinctual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:49 PM
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It's done because it's a weakspot you already know about them so it's easy to use
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:48 PM
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People in general sometimes cling to a partner like their lives depend on it. Even though theres many issues in the relationship or blatant incompatibility. But also seen the opposite where people just throw others away like they are trash and go through partners like toilet paper 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:45 PM
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I think it's more of a case of poor behaviour from males and then the insult that is used is shaming them for being a virgin. It's not so much just outright shaming them in general. It's instigated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:42 PM
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Can you please explain more I'm not quite sure what you mean? What's an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:27 PM
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Yes sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 02:01 PM
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There are some good communities but also bad ones
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:58 PM
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They hang out in weird places and start to get some strange ideas in their head and develop a sense of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:55 PM
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I think it's probably best in this situation to tell any man you are going to see that you are waiting for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:53 PM
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They'd just be like prettier peacock males
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:30 PM
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Biologically speaking, males are the gender that persues the female. That's just how it is. Nothing to do with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:56 PM
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Not true. Both need to add things to a relationship that the other wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:14 AM
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No it's a bad idea. The only purpose of this would be so shafted men can leave bad reviews on women who rejected them. The only kind of reviews men that were rejected would give, are bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:12 AM
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Men using porn is their own choice and their own "problem". Women play no part in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:55 PM
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A certain level of communication is needed. Doesn't have to be verbal all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:52 PM
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What women's sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:48 PM
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Just stop trying to go round convincing people you don't have the optionality. Never did?? Making sure you don't engage with people you aren't going to be considered by is better and more efficient, not worse. Not really a way to know that without actually talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:35 PM
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Well if there are a lot of options it's easier to be more selective. Depends on what the misunderstanding was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:24 PM
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It is. They don't want a push over
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:21 PM
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A relationship goes both ways. It's not 1 sided
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:13 PM
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leave a review on a Hinge date No this would just lead to harassment from men whoshe was uninterested in
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:58 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:43 PM
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Nooo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:07 PM
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Women have made it clear that men are just annoying them. How? What
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:25 PM
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I don't get this. Women have to add something to men's lifes too so hypergamy really doesn't exist or not as much as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:12 PM
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Na I have met good looking guys that turn out to have bad personalities or are boring
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:52 AM
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Why choose one? I'd see both and decide which I like better down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:06 AM
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If it can depend on something else then objectovely she isn't taking it seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:19 AM
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She's obviously not really taking the safety threat seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:10 AM
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Na your friend just sounds trashy. I don't think she speaks for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:59 AM
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Nah it's more like no super local guys going to the same places were interested. I didn't get as much as a smile or hello from random men. Still don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:34 AM
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When I was single no men approached me 🤷‍♀️ It's just how people are. They'd prefer to use dating apps pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:08 PM
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It should be banned. It harms infants. Why not just get it done later if it's actually needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:00 PM
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I think the consensus is more that having friends reduces isolation and feelings of loneliness. By all means still try to get dates as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:58 PM
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I dunno, I think they still would care but just a bit less
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:55 PM
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Ye that is true. Women have to do a lot more vetting of men to make sure they are safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:04 PM
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I never said I speak for all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:02 PM
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I would have to like the guys personality to want to have sex with him. Doesn't matter how attractive he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:15 PM
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