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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | If he wants to, he will!Seems to be the same for me and my friends! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Hashimotos & fibro here 🙃 gosh it’s tough, I’m also trying super hard- PT and gym sessions, diet and looking after myself so I don’t flare up.. I think for me, it’s just about putting yourself first.. don’t feel bad if you have to cancel a date/look after yourself, I think If anything that makes you come across as more desirable as you’re not after their every beck and call like a lost puppy.. putting yourself first and being busy with life and things other than them seems like HVW traits too, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 29 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!Took a weekend from hell away from him- we were in a cabin in the woods and he wanted to watch wrestling all weekend, left me stranded in a supermarket (in a different country) because I wouldn’t stick to his list (I was “just like his mother”, who he despises), tons more happened which made me confront him- he did the “I’m sorry you feel that way but you’re wrong” which made me cry in frustration.. turns out me crying gave him a boner! That weekend I slept in a different room to him browsing th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:10 PM |
| 18 | A Big Sister Guide.I have recently learned my gut is never wrong, felt bad when I met this guy but I felt guilty for not giving him a chance. Turned out to be extremely manipulative - never feel bad for trusting your guy! You are your top priority! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 01:05 PM |
| 23 | Hope they get picked!Deleted bumble yesterday after having a guy I matched with reply to my initial message “fuck off sketty Betty” - who did these scrotes think they are? Instantly blocked and reported.. online dating is awful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:35 PM |
| 13 | For those of us who were in abusive relationships:Recently broke up with a lvm after months of gaslighting and manipulation, I wanted to do it months ago but felt bad as his dad had terminal cancer. It took for him showing his true colours in the grief, making me feel terrible for not doing enough to help him, for refusing to drop my (new) dream job to go see him, asking me if I’d taken my meds because my “insensitive responses were just not me” (I take pain relief for sciatica 🙄) etc and I just couldn’t take it any more, I’ve never felt so muc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 04:05 AM |
| 17 | BDSM is not feminism! Viewing women as sexual objects to inflict pain on is not feminism!The guy I was dating for the most part of this year would get turned on whenever I would cry, for some reason thought this was “just a kink” and stayed with him because I was blind. Turned out he was emotionally manipulative and gaslit me all the time, so the crying happened a lot (I cry when I’m angry) which made me wonder whether he did it intentionally just to get off. Left him this week and felt better instantly 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:33 AM |
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