Scary-Froyo-908 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	Wife doesn’t know what she wants	Rant	Scary-Froyo-908	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/24 02:59 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	What did your Ex do that made you stop caring? She filed in May but I was still at the house to put the kids down, do chores, etc. We were actually getting closer until mid August when she filed an out of the blue TRO. From that day on I’ve cared so little for her that I don’t even know how I found her attractive. I know I have and probably still do. But her actions this year has opened my eyes to the shit she’s had me believing all this time	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/24 06:11 PM
10	Social media My wife has always been big into social media. But it wasn’t until she really got on TikTok and the weird sides of instagram that I started seeing her use phrases like gaslighting, emotional abuse, etc. when discussing anything with me. I’m not saying those were the causes, but they definitely helped shape the narrative she wanted to believe in.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/24 02:41 AM
5	Wife doesn’t know what she wants yeah, i kept listening to our friends at the church who kept saying to give her time, work on myself, and then wait. But as things kept getting worse, they were only there to remind me to work on myself without actually talking to her or trying to help me. It was one of those "We're totally here for you and for yall!" UNTIL the shit got serious then they were absent.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/24 03:05 PM
1	Wife doesn’t know what she wants I, as well as her friends, have begged her to get mental help for 7 years. We have two kids (Almost 4 and almost 3) and she never did quite get through PPD. But good luck telling her that. It's all my fault according to her. Granted, I have done my share for sure.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/24 12:08 PM
1	Wife doesn’t know what she wants Ha! Lord forbid she do some work, huh?	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/24 03:36 AM
8	Wife doesn’t know what she wants Even our joint friends have told her she’s making a huge mistake and will tear apart a young family simply because she refuses to accept that she needs help. She’s dug her heels in and buried her head in the sand	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/24 03:29 AM
11	Wife doesn’t know what she wants I have a lawyer who laughed when I told him about the conversations and what not. He said, “she’s being fed some big lies by her lawyer about all of this. No judge in this county or this state will believe her once they see the messages.” While that’s really hopeful, it’s still a gut punch that she’s going at me like this when I was more than willing to go to mediation.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/24 03:22 AM