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Where I live, most women are liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:30 PM
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I don't even understand how that would work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:36 PM
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Ok, how does this change the fact that the left parties are inviting in millions from african and middle east that look at women as property?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:27 PM
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Oh youve never called someone a bitch before? Youre such a silly goose with this framing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:25 PM
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THey do like me as myself. If they didn't like me as myself, how would we date and have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:13 PM
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Cuckhold is like THE definition of an emasculating fetish... you don't understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:02 PM
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Interracial. Would be black on white, white on black. ect. What are the stats for those?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:01 PM
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I'm not a cuck, this thread is just about humiliation and emasculation, cuckhold is a big one for that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:00 PM
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Maybe your just obsessed with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:49 PM
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What about interracial rape and murders? What are the stats on those?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:49 PM
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Its funny that a female wants to identify as a male but then keep acting like a typical sexually submissive female
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:48 PM
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Uh, because I have a deep understanding of transgenderism and the various subgroups that occupy these labels. Shes a transtrender, not a trannsexual. Well to be more specific, she has autism, which makes her have these weirdo identities instead of just living in reality. Most autistic people are not real transgenders, they just lack strong identities nd are easily persuaded by niche online subcultures
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:47 PM
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Well its just funny that she identifies as a boy but is one of the most submissive women I have ever met
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:44 PM
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Cuckholding is emasculating. Its like you don't understand men or their insecurities at all, despite being a "dom"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:43 PM
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Who cares if someone else finds them delusional. Spoken like someone who has had an endless conga line of men sniffing after them her entire life. Who has never in her life had challenges with stumbling into relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:40 PM
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Theres lot of things that women like that don't turn me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:38 PM
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How is what I said personal bigotry. No, most illegal immigrants are brown, not black.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:37 PM
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Not all conservatives are anti-gay, anti-lgbt. So none of what you wrote applies to any sort of conflict I would have, besides the children thing which again has nothing to do with politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:36 PM
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What does humiliating a man for having a small penis and wanting to fuck a hung bull instead have to do with being compared to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:27 PM
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Uh no? Shes not a real trans person anyway and does not face discrimination like you are describing. I have sympathy for actual trans people, one of my good friends is trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:26 PM
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I'm not lying about my values. I share the same values as these women. I only date nice kind people who are empathetic and caring, cause thats how I am and not bitches and evil cunts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:24 PM
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When you are not in a position of power, its ok to lie. If things are equal, then sure no lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:21 PM
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Like what important decision? What decisions in family life would be impacted by federal politics and geopolitical policy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:18 PM
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I am acting in my own interests. Being my own man, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:17 PM
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Well its pretty relevant. When you remove black people, then illegal immigrants commit more violent crime for sure. Just pointing this out for the audience, so they are fully informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:11 PM
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So you expect him to cater to your needs that he gets nothing out of, but not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:10 PM
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Its more that women like No_Teacher have created a lemming culture amongst women, so that even women who do not care about politics feel the need to virtue signal and show they are a part of the "in crowd" the "good people" and then try to "vet" politics. Women have a herd mentality. So they themselves are not mentally ill, but just lemmings. But people like No_teacher, the ring leaders who give women anxiety about politics, they are the mentally ill ones
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:09 PM
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Well the ones I dated were not mentally ill so much. They just wanted to feel like they weren't dating a trumper or whatever, once that was out of the way they never talked about politics again. It was all for esthetics, they didn't actually even know anything about politics. Thats women for ya, shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:07 PM
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so a woman lying over whether she's seeing something else is fine Ya...? Women lie about that shit all the time. They tell men "its none of your business, I'm an independent woman, I can do what I want and sleep with who I want".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:04 PM
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Oh ya, my favorite is my FWB genderqueer, I call her "he" because she identifies as a boy. Shes been coming over for over a year now. She does whatever I want, very submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:03 PM
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Well you seem focused on whether or not they were foreign, so how did you know they weren't foreign?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:02 PM
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Most of your positions do not allow me to maintain enough friction on my dick to keep it hard
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:01 PM
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Like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:00 PM
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Thats not true at all. Someone can be leftist and evil and someone can be conservative and an amazing person, or vice versa. For example I am not awful, I am good to everyone in my life. Its mentally ill lefty women like yourself that would call me "awful" because of basic ass politics, honestly ppl like you sicken me with your attitudes towards people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:58 PM
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Its ok to lie over inconsequential things. Women do it during dating all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:56 PM
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I know multiple gays who voted for trump
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:55 PM
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I had shit stain central american migrants catcall two girls I was walking with in my city and almost start a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:54 PM
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Thats only if you include black people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:52 PM
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Its easy, done it multiple times. Well I was forced to, because women like you who are obsessed with politics are mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:49 PM
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Its easy, done it many times. Well I was forced to, because women like you who are obsessed with politics are mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:49 PM
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Its fun to sniff women like you out and tell you what you want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:33 PM
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so it's like, oral/oral, missionary, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, doggy, c*m shot, right? a lot of the positions keep the performers somewhat at a distance for camera angles, etc. Thats literally just basic sex that the vast majority of people have. How is that "porn sex"? i'm looking for something more organic, close, and personal. i want to look in each other's eyes, make out passionately, hold each other, focus on what the other person seems to really respond to, not just mimicking something i'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:19 PM
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But most women are soft spoken. They all have social anxiety?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:16 PM
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Uh, so who are these liberal lefty women going to date then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:13 PM
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What does this have to do with putting down women? We are talking about humiliating men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:11 PM
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If you get dicked down, you don't have a "purely" dominant sexuality. Or even primarily dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:34 PM
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Oh, so you don't get fucked by penises, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:31 PM
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Women don't have domination kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:07 PM
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As I said, you fit the stereotype of a childfree woman. Carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:45 PM
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Not die alone, you will have lots of kinky sex with many men. Thats what women like you do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:43 PM
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Like men valuing each other over how many women they sleep with Thats not how men value each other. Thats how women value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:10 PM
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men Women police its boundaries. Women decide who real men are and reward them with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:07 PM
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Ya why discuss anything. Its all just fairy dust and individuals. No trends to see, nuh uh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:06 PM
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If you have a kink from porn, it already consumed you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:03 PM
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Nearly all male kinks are derived from porn. So youre out of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:00 PM
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Ah you never met a woman who enjoys sex with large dicked men who take control in the bedroom. Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:58 PM
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Ya? They choose other "industry" people to "collaborate" with. They literally message each other on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:56 PM
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Thats been my experience with child-free women. Sex obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:55 PM
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Huh? Are you asking why I am uncomfortable seeing my race of women being sexually dominated by another race of man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:49 PM
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Ya women only choose certain men to film having sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:45 PM
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I'm a man so whatever I do is masculine Thats pretty silly and untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:44 PM
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You think porn represents the average woman's sex life so much so that women are doing even crazier shit behind closed doors? Not crazier shit, the same shit. You will have to tell me why women like being dominated by hung men and be within their sexual power. I can't explained that, I am not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:43 PM
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My question was what if your boyfriend admitted to you. My question was not would you participate. I am sensing you would dump him even if he did not want to participate in anything humiliating or submissive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:33 PM
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"they aren't REALLY interested in that, they're just attracted to it because they're told to!" Lots of things. Race for example. Prudishness and sluttiness, they take cues from their friends about how to organize their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:28 PM
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I highly doubt they would never have developed those kinks on their own without the internet. Why? Its weird how you framing your statements as coming from a place of logic when they are super illogical. Humans are a social species and there sexuality is influenced by other members of the group. Evo-psych validates the idea that kinks are social contagions and viral re-wirings of brain pathways that DID NOT need to occur but once it occurred continues to propagate itself within the mind of the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:26 PM
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Why do you judge men negatively who like this dynamic? I don't. I'm asking women about it. Its women who are judging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:24 PM
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they usually don’t give us orgasms except when they do, then those men are superior
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:22 PM
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Women never understand kinks from the male perspective, you live in la la land
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:22 PM
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She fetishes your age. Your her "daddy"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:59 PM
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Having a sissy bitch as a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:54 PM
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Take chastity. It’s about control. Letting someone else be in control of your sexuality, your ability to orgasm. No, that kink is primarily about your penis being worthless and cannot pleasure a woman because its too small. The men who told you it was about control just lied to you about their true feelings of why they found it erotic and humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:54 PM
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You want an exciting man to use and dominate you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:52 PM
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It also leads to them (women) all liking the same things sexually. Herd mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:51 PM
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who?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:44 PM
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I think everyone reading this conversation will make their own judgements about who is making more reasonable statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:44 PM
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Wouldn't it be more productive to build up his self esteem so he doesn't feel the need to humiliate himself because he feels less than? Than to reinforce his humiliating feelings and make them more and more real?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:43 PM
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You indulge in them all the time, they are just playing in his head in background as you have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:41 PM
-2

doesn’t effect our daily lives You don't think sex effects peoples daily lives? Their self esteem and ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:34 PM
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Its the same thing. In both scenarios the man is humiliated. It doesn't matter if its "roleplay". Humiliation in "roleplay" is still humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:33 PM
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Wow, life must be simple in your little world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:32 PM
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Oh, are you turned off by a man who feels emasculated?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:31 PM
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What about your husband, father of your children?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:17 PM
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No, I think watching your wife get fucked by another man is more humiliating than acting the scene out in a movie where there is no sex and its not your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:15 PM
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Ah so its just about consent. As long as everything is consented to, you are fine with your man being into everything and anything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:14 PM
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All you have to do is sleep with another man and then tell the guy his dick was bigger and felt better to humiliate a man. It can be completely divorced from "domination"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:09 PM
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Why would a woman only film with black men if she doesn't prefer black men? Or only do anal if she doesn't prefer anal? Only do exhibitionist outdoor sex if she doesn't find that exciting? Especially when there are so many ways to make money selling porn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:07 PM
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Well, sex role play works exactly the same You believe men who cum from feeling humiliated.... don't feel humiliated...?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:05 PM
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Bringing women into your sexual control and dominating them has nothing to do with rape. Because its what the women want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:04 PM
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disgusting You just said emasculation kinks are cool. And now you are saying they are disgusting....? Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:04 PM
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humiliated - submissive So all women are humiliated in sex then? When did vanilla sex become humiliating for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:32 PM
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Emasculation and humiliation kinks are separate from feeling "bad" or "good", its simply arousal. there's nothing really emasculating of any kink How can you say that with a straight face? So if your man wanted to wear a chastity cage while you are fucked by another man thats not emasculating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:30 PM
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Great response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:27 PM
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You’re telling me I get to dominate my big beefy meaty man? Probably not. I said emasculation and humiliation, not being submissive towards a woman (that is even more common)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:23 PM
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Thats incorrect. Humans are social creatures and pick up sexualities, ideas, and emotions through social contagion and exposure all the time. Many people have kinks these days that would be impossible to have 50 years ago, because there was no exposure, now they cum to it when they are 10 years old and then it becomes a facet of their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:21 PM
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Instead you will live your life devoted to kinky sex. Men love women like you, without those other things, your only devotion will be to which ever men give you dopamine and get your little brain all excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:17 PM
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All the men you've ever slept with watched porn while dating you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:11 PM
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like any habit it only takes a few months to get out of anyway Hahahaha. YOu realize all your exes watched porn and just hid it from you right? You think they kick SEXUAL habits they developed at 8 years old in a few months or because they found a new shiny object (you)?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:03 PM
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many don't even like rough sex of any kind. They still want to be under male sexual power, regardless of how they want to experience that power. They want to be used and taken and treated like a sexual doll by men they deem attractive. You're just fantasizing that women as a group want to be treated poorly in the way that turns you on. Full stop. I don't get hard from degradation. I RESENT women for NEEDING to be degraded by a man and for GIVING themselves WILLINGLY to men who degrade them. Then…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:52 PM
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You still did it with them because they pushed for it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:47 PM
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Agreed, in the end you have to come with the attitude of taking the pussy. Women don't respect meek men, they want a man who wants to take them forcefully "overcome with desire". Thats what porn shows us as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:45 PM
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Because ya'll prefer to see women and not men? The fuck kind of weird ass reasoning is this? You just ignored my statement. If porn is only for male gaze then why do all the women porn creators never choose asian men to fuck them for example? But you're fucking delusional if you think porn made primarily for men has fuck all to do with women's actual desires. Women love getting dominated by men with big dicks. THats womens actual desires. Women film their desires and film the men they like havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:41 PM
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I am pretty sure the porn agency invites the male and female actors, not that a female actor will bring her own guest. Most porn is not through an agency. You think all the OF hoes use agencies? Porn is different "content creators" who look for other "Creators" to "collaborate with". It just so happens that the men women collaborate with all appear to be very similar to each other. Also, I saw many reddit posts from men participating in BDSM too. And? Whats your point? Mine is that porn shows th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:38 PM
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Why do women like you always represent the only way to be "good" at sex is giving you oral sex? Do you only sleep with men whose penises don't feel good inside you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:35 PM
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Older fathers are definitely a cause for autism Thats not correct. THey do not know the factors that go into autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:34 PM
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Slamming a penis into a vagina is inherently violent. No. Most women are choosing to have sex with hung dominant alphas because it makes their pussies wet, not because of money, or any other incentive beyond sex. Women film themselves having fun sex that they love, all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:29 AM
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Huh? Whats it like being this ignorant of history but jabbing into a discussion to spray your opinion "as a brit"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:27 AM
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So do women go to sex parties to make money?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:23 AM
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Porn is made for the male gaze Using imagery of female sexuality. Its women having sex. You can't hand waive that away. We have thousands of visual examples of women having sex, choosing to have this sex, and choosing to film themselves doing it. You can't have thousands of women filming themselves doing a sexual act and then say it has nothing to do with female sexuality. We also have candid and amateur and homemade porn to see women having sex how they want to have sex and who they feel PROUD …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:20 AM
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And by the same logic the men acting in those same videos show men don’t like to be nice Yes men like to be worshiped and told they have big powerful cocks, did you not know this? They are not doing it because that’s their personal preference. They certainly seem to have preferences for the type of men they choose to film having sex with. It shows that women are willing to degrade themselves for the right man in the right context. We can also go read all the reddit posts of women who enjoy being…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:18 AM
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How are POC at risk of losing personal freedoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:08 AM
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Cause its low value
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:06 AM
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Do you do raceplay?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:04 AM
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Slaves picked cotton and fueled the cash for crop economy of the Southern states. While the more populous Northern states adopted Britains industrial revolution and went onto create the modern American economy. So in your opinion, the real work in America was picking cotton? Not driving the industrial revolution? The industrial revolution was just some side show to picking cotton? America became what it is... because of cotton? Is that your analysis?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:59 AM
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soooo, what? I used to be a bit of femboy, maybe you'll grow out of it like I did ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:46 AM
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It shows good manners and being nice have nothing to do with getting women to have crazy sex with you. Just the visual of a woman consenting to being degraded, choked, humiliated, dominated, and coming back for more, breaks the spell that womens sexuality is morality based. In fact its the opposite, women are turned on by confident sexual abuse and domination of themselves, which are not so nice of qualities to vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:43 AM
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You don't think white people built America....? This is what we are dealing with in this country folks.... ignorance. So you are racially proud and this clouds your perspective, ok carry on racially proud woman. Ya your race is da best!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:39 AM
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So when will they have enough power to warrant receiving criticism? Seems pretty toxic to be free from criticism, isn't that how you raise spoiled children?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:39 AM
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Lots of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:37 AM
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Doesn't matter if they are paid. They are broadcasting examples of female sexuality to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:36 AM
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If its for the male gaze then why are not all males represented equally in porn? The sad reality is that both female and male gaze take from each other and feed from one another. Porn shows women enjoying male sexual power, which all women everywhere also say they enjoy. Is male sexual power not part of female gaze? Don't lie to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:34 AM
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It can't because it's FICTION. No. Those are real women doing those things in real life. It's called ACTING. All sex is acting. even going as far as to learn from fiction No. They are learning by watching WHAT WOMEN DO in real life. Watching the actions of women and seeing what women do with men they are sexually attracted to. Women have the power to choose who to have sex with, and through porn we can see who they have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:30 AM
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That wasn’t the case all over the U.S So where was it the case and where was it not the case. Shouldn't you try to be more specific and clear instead of making broad sweeping generalizations about an entire country?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:24 AM
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Yes but porn shows exactly what you are talking about. Women are literally filming themselves getting choked, spit on, racially degraded. And that is just women who film themselves, what about all the women who have the same fantasies but don't film themselves? Huge numbers. Watching porn helps a man understand female nature, and that women will basically act like sexual slaves for the right man if you push her buttons the right way. And none of those buttons have a label that says "kindness".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:22 AM
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My mom is 70 years old and has always had a bank account. Who are all these brain dead women that did not know how to open bank accounts in the 70s and 80s? I think yall are telling on yourself that your families are full of ignorant, dumb women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:16 AM
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This entire country was built of the backs of my ancestors No, America was built by many groups of people, your ancestors were just one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:13 AM
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When the Left starts criticizing the behavior of women and all those other minority groups you listed, then maybe I will give them another look.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:12 AM
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I think with modern pornography most men realize this now. After watching women not only consenting to but being turned on by being degraded and dominated by male sexual power, how can anyone keep a straight face and say women are SEXUALLY attracted to kindness. In the past womens sexual desire was largely hidden from the public behind closed doors, in marriages. Now hundreds of thousands of women broadcast their sexuality to the entire world to watch, and we can clearly see it has nothing to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:05 AM
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Its pretty lame that you think of oral sex as some gift for him. If you don't like sucking his dick and don't find it erotic than just don't do it. There are plenty of women that do actually enjoy sucking dick and the erotic energy it brings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:15 AM
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They're now linking all of those findings to man's sperm quality which gets worse with age. No they aren't. Where did you pick up this misinformation? Womens age is directly correlated to down syndrome risk. I have seen this repeated by reddit women and I was going to make a thread about women peddling medical misinformation to each other to feel better about their biology. You are a perfect example. You can't accept your own biology so now you are left with making up fantasies about mens age be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:09 AM
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this is giving men's sexuality way too much credit/power. No, I am giving it the correct amount of power. Nothing is more powerful than the sexuality of a top man that women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:48 AM
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Cause ghetto girls are also trash and give it up at the drop of a hat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:43 AM
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we were in a porn film What does that even mean. He wanted you to passionately suck his dick and you didn't want to? I will tell you and other women, that reading womens thoughts on sex online has utterly destroyed my sexual confidence. Knowing that women hate so much of basic sex and find basic sexual positions "porn sex", find a million different things to criticize about mens sexual performance. I now go into sex just assuming she will not have a good time, because if the average man is appar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:36 AM
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So you'd rather he be a meek man and asked you how he should make you feel good and force you to communicate about sex? Or would you have just dumped him for some other "confident" guy who talked a big game and told you he knows what to do with you. Me thinks the later.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:32 AM
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They choose the men, often times when society told them those men were bad choices, but they didn't care, they just followed their pussy tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:30 AM
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Only if its true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:29 AM
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Ghetto kids have sex in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:29 PM
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Most men are bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:13 PM
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Women think men don't pay attention to them in sex and can't observe how she reacts and what she behaves like in bed. Newsflash, not all men aren't idiots. Maybe enough are though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:10 PM
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Womens sexual templates and appetites are defined by the men they sleep with. Men literally imprint their sexuality onto women. Women have reactive sexuality, they follow men and men define sex for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:09 PM
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nah, they just tell you that so you will stop bothering them about it. Most men could barely last a week, even with sex with their GFs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:25 PM
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I'm talking about hypotheticals. But regarding your question, it could easily be either, or
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:24 PM
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then most men are porn addicts. Framing something as good until your an "addict" and then its bad, misses the nuance of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:22 PM
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You talk about sex and past lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:16 PM
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Once shes had better then you don't measure up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:11 PM
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it's their choice Sure like heroin is a choice. Everythings a choice when you are reductive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:52 PM
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so some women end up choosing men with power even if attraction is thin, or men with looks and social clout even if there’s no depth. In what system would women not choose powerful physically attractive men over others? The problem is that playing along doesn’t lead to real connection. What is "real connection"? building a life, values and relationships So... the treadmill. Then women evaluate the life I build, the values I have, and the people I associate with and decide if I am worthy of her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:32 PM
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You don't get to choose to watch and complain that you're watching it. Its not a choice, again youre totally ignorant of the male libido. Maybe you'll find out one day when you seriously date a man and realize hes still going to watch other women all the time, because its a compulsion You can then try out your strategy of hitting him with "just stop watching babe"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:24 PM
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Just saying its more ignorance coming from you, you can't even understand why a man would struggle to avoid watching porn because you have such a poor understanding of male sexuality despite fucking so many. I guess thats part of the female experience, not having to know whats going on around you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:20 PM
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You know you can just not have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:16 PM
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Women choose men to have sex and relationships with, no? Are you saying this system does not benefit women? Why would women want the system to change? It’s framed as biology or women’s choices, It is womens choices. You seem to be well versed in avoiding uncomfortable truths in favor of blaming the mysterious evil billionaire behind the curtain
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:09 PM
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Its a fair grievance. If you really want to decenter sexual validation from women from your life, than redpill concepts are not important
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:07 PM
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As a westerner myself, a lot of westerners believe whole heartedly in ego death when it comes to sex and relationships, its pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:59 PM
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My very first boyfriend “led” in the bedroom, Jfc, that guy was bad in bed. He had lots of experience, he was quite confident, he thought he knew what he was doing and that poor bastard was highly mistaken. Do you believe there are women out there that will orgasm with him and enjoy his style of sex? There is a possibility that you are in a minority. I have a hard time believing that he is doing radically different things with his mouth, hand, penis than other men. Yet you categorize his perform…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:55 PM
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Newsflash, "not talking/thinking about it" is not a sufficient coping mechanism for knowing you don't measure up to other men in your womans mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:50 PM
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I prefer a girlfriend who has been with men similar to me in sexual skill and appearance. Virgin would also be just fine as long as she was enjoying sex with me. I don't believe women who have spectacular sex with spectacular men can really enjoy sex when its with an "average" guy. The comparison is very destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:49 PM
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I would be much healthier sexually if porn and sex work was banned. My only sexual template would be women I meet IRL, instead of all the sluts doing their crazy attention grabbing behavior online that is impossible to look away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:15 PM
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Men have the burden of performance, so of course women are required to be empathetic towards the pressures men face. Women basically just exist to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:12 PM
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Its low on the totem pole. Most women don't want a man who seems "Weak". But considering most women are incredibly frail, out of shape, and just smaller and lighter than most men... most men do not appear scrawny with them. You will never catch a super athletic women with some scrawny weak guy (unless hes making up for it in other ways) for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:10 PM
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If shes not showing interest its because shes not interested. Women will never be sexually attracted to money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:45 PM
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I see going on dates as a kind of mating dance I have to perform to attract women. It is extremely mentally exhausting and degrading to a mens self esteem. I have to be funny/entertain her/carry the conversation. I have to make the plans. I have generate sexual chemistry (ie. a spark) in her. I have to somehow touch her to break the touch barrier even when theres no real pretext for touching strangers I have to somehow move things from friendly get to know you talk to grabbing her body and stick…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:40 PM
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What about a man who looks like your father
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:33 PM
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Ok. But that requires criticizing women and their choices of who to have sex with. Even just a tad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:17 PM
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both being mid looking Nah. Pete is better looking. Aziz has a feminine dough face he hides with a beard. Sounds like you’re just mad people aren’t ignoring how white obsessed women tend to be anymore Feel free to try to mateguard your women. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:12 PM
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He did fine. Hes definitely a "professional boxer". There are many levels of professional boxers. Very few people in the world have any realistic chance of hanging with AJ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:10 PM
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All guys kiss differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:08 PM
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If you were a man its so obvious you would be the type of see prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:07 PM
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Losing some hope would be appropriate though. We know women value sex just as much as men and unlike men, for women, a mans sexual experience is directly tied to his value as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:06 PM
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lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:03 PM
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He shows zero signs of any interest Such as? If its such a simple concept, surely you can describe it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:59 PM
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If you are worried about white guys then you should be more worried about black guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:52 PM
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Yes, most monks have low self esteem, thats why they are monks. Only if they live in a society that values being a monk will they have high self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:51 PM
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It sounds like you shouldn't be fucking those women No. Its her who shouldn't be fucking me. Women are the choosers, remember? I care about it enough to criticize it, which is more than free love types like you who want us all to go to the hell that unchecked female hypergamy eventually leads to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:39 PM
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Good observation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:36 PM
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They don't. Most women stick to their own race, group, tribe. If you want to hedge your bets, then raise your family in a country where your tribe is the majority and stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:34 PM
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Having no flirt is not common. Its very common. Most men cannot walk up to a girl at a bar and "flirt" with her. As per usual you are basing your worldview on sexually successful men, ignoring the hordes of unsuccessful men. Example: "Why are all men such fuckbois teehee!!!".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:33 PM
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That stuff comes from inside yourself. Non-sensical. Self esteem is derived from feelings, which are influenced by those around you. Humans are social creatures. In your silly world view the pasted out homeless drug addict on the side of the road can have the same self esteem as a COE. Please lead with a more nuanced framework than woo woo astrology bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:31 PM
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It doesn't effect MY self esteem, it effects the next guy. Shes now going to compare him to me, when clearly the type of man who would COMMIT to her, does not look like me. He looks more like her. Fucking fat plain janes with minimal effort helps my self esteem, it tells me, I can do better than her. If I put in the right effort I can get a girl who is actually my looksmatch. Unlike you, I care a bit about men at large, not just my own selfish desires. Because this type of behavior effects all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:21 PM
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Why does the self esteem come from the women they are with? Whats the thing? Why does self esteem come from jobs we have, friends we make, experiences we do? Please try better. I am sure you can come up with a more nuanced discussion than gaslighting men that sex, dating, and attraction should be divorced from self esteem. JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:11 PM
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Asocial is carrying your entire insulting point. If you want to go around spam posting that men who don't socialize at all will be alone, go for it, pretty boring ass discussion when that doesn't describe the majority of men in this sub or IRL who have grievances with modern women and modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:09 PM
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You just tacked that on the end of a list of completely pedestrian personality qualities. If you want to have an actual discussion try not listing 6 different things, with one of them being completely different than the others. Thanks for playing eye roll
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:04 PM
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Would the people that are miffed want to be with fat, plain janes? Yes! Because they are ALSO fat, plain dudes. Now they get chads sloppy seconds. Surely you've giggled at "sloppy second" jokes in moives and TV in the past, right girly? You think those jokes are just made up fairy dust? You think mens SELF ESTEEM is some made up thing with no consequence? Wrong. Its a real thing. It needs to be nourished, and its abosolutely vulnerable to injury from selfish, lizard-brained, lack of foresight wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:03 PM
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Actually what made a successful man in the past is no longer necessarily what makes a successful man in the generation of millenial and gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:00 PM
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How likely is that? Which is why the best strategy for normal boring men is too pump and dump and play the string along game. "Follow the rule" until you get sex and then decide if shes worth keeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:57 PM
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Why you making this a race thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:56 PM
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Goofy looking? Hes tall, apparently hung, hyper-charismatic, and has huge status. He has everything that makes a man attractive, wtf are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:56 PM
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Their unique suffering is likely because of their neurotic high-inhib asocial edgelordy brains tbh. Actually their suffering is because of women punishing these characteristics instead of seeing them as qualities that make a responsible human, able to love and take care of a family, make good financial decisions, PLAN fun, and also understanding that if they are boring neurotic women then why do they look for the opposite in men. In Asian and many non-western societies women are not so obsessed …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:54 PM
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If he is conventionally attracted she is just fucking Chad and doesnt know what her league is If she is also conventionally attractive then its the world working as intended. People are a bit miffed at fat, plain janes who romp around with non-committal "chads" before settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:51 PM
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So men who aren't good at flirting will never find women attracted to them? How did all these boring guys start families in the past? Literally only 20% of men I know have any "flirt" to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:49 PM
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Do you have the same criticism for women who do not bother to reign in their biological imperatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:48 PM
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I do agree that the quitterism framing and making everything about "looks" are among the most wrong-headed takes perpetuated here, its not surprising that those who want to talk about those sorts of things appear to be very young men, teens ect. I prefer to criticize women for how they are distorting the dating market, destroying the self esteem of men who ARE trying, and who DO want meaningful things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:47 PM
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Don't forget social status. A lot of women feel left out of the type of social scene and expectations they have for themselves if they are perpetually single or getting pumped and dumped, eventually they look around to their friends relationships and all the couples activities say to themselves "I need a boyfriend".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:44 PM
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Yep. But for some reason we as a society only talk about the toxic ideas infiltrating the minds of boys. Why is their an "adolescent" miniseries but not a miniseries on how your daughter becomes a onlyfans sloot? Where is the discussion about the poison infecting the minds of girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:54 PM
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Incels lack the confidence to pursue women in a thoughtful strategic manner. That same confidence is required to go fuck a hooker. Most guys who use hookers are not incels, usually they are just guys who are lazy to jump through the dating hoops. Many are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:50 PM
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Fair response, given the need to tiptoe and generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:40 PM
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TBF there were plenty of Russian douche bags living it up in Bangkok last time I was there while their cannon fodder were getting mowed down in Ukraine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:38 PM
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Don't sluts only like big dicked hung men who are skilled in bed? So what does it matter who sluts like, they will only select a certain kind of man, not "most" men. A woman who loves men and fawns over men does not have slut around, I don't see how the two NEED to be correlated if a woman has proper values and principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:36 PM
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White people don't have children anymore. What are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:56 PM
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He flamed you because you rejected him, simple as. Nothing to do with drinks or cost or any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:52 PM
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Do shrooms make you horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:06 AM
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Hes fairly handsome. This is just an awful picture of him. And terrible haircut obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:06 AM
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Literally sounds exhausting. I'd rather just pay a hooker, bang her out and move on. Or spend time going after a girl I would actually want to spend time with outside of having sex. 4 dates in one day?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:04 AM
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Its sad but this is kind of true. Especially white women, there are just no badie poor white girls, its kind of just not a thing. LAtinas and blacks, sure plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:01 AM
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I wish I could find a woman who finds the funny parts of smiling friends funny, maybe while we do shrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:58 AM
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Nope. Women are asexual half the time. Not the case for men. We have different hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:55 AM
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Why should men thrive without women, how is that even possible? Males have libidos. Sexual needs. And being sexually successful is inherent to the male identity. All a man "thriving without women" leads to is the other men having sex with more of the left over women...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:39 AM
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Being autistic is insulting. Not every guy who is frustrated with women is some nerdy autistic who likes star wars and table top gaming or whatever the fuck. Some of us are literally dealing with bitches who fuck above their league so often their head is spinning and they no longer know what guys are on their level anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:33 AM
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Lot of people are out of a school and can't date at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:28 AM
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How would an app be worse than a club, where a guy can lie about anything to get her drunk ass home at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:26 AM
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they're flooded woth creepy guys who are weird or demanding but typically both Are you saying that there is not a woman out there for those guys, there is no "match"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:24 AM
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met their partners in college finance bros, influencers, soundcloud rappers, criminals, You think these things are incompatible? College girls are just like any girls and they only want SEXY MEN, not "normal" (boring) men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:16 AM
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They all want to be slapped around a bit by their man, at least metaphorically and sometimes physically
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:12 AM
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You forgot the part where women keep hooking up with big dick studs in hook up harems while more and more average guys drop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:11 AM
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Thats bullshit. Lots of nice and kind men complain about women. Are you claiming that nice and kind women never complain about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:10 AM
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Lashing out at being rejected through some text, does not seem like a big deal. Does that mean when I ghost women when I can sniff out their lack of interest, that I am a "nice guy"? Which is worse, an angry response or no response. Everyone feels bad, gets angry and/or frustrated when they are rejected. You are even gaslighting this guy in this post. No its not that you BOTH weren't compatible, its that you felt that YOU were not compatible with him, so YOU rejected him. It was not a mutual rej…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:09 AM
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Why do you need to view a man as a sex object early on to consider sex with him? What about strangers is sexy vs friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:03 AM
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So how does one be an angry asshole towards women and NOT be a nice guy? Based on your definition. You are saying all angry assholes are 'nice guys'?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:00 AM
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In the end women want to be penetrated by a masculine phallus. Nothing about having a phallic object shoved into you over and over is "nice". Sex will never have anything to do with "kindness". The very act is not kind. Sex is aggressive, even at its most gentle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:58 AM
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Thank you. Womens woo woo bullshit about men and "reading" people is the ultimate example of solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:50 AM
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You definitely aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:21 PM
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But you are a sex toy, for a man who invokes in you the desire to be a sex toy. So don't claim you don't have it in you to be a sex toy, don't lie to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:20 PM
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If she likes you why would she not become invested?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:17 PM
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Performance anxiety effects a mans erection which directly correlates to how a woman sees him sexually and how "good" he is in bed, because men who are "good" in bed maintain and get erections when women want him to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:16 PM
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Lying for sex is not selfish. Sex doesn't mean anything, it does not have any inherent value (according to feminist women). So lying for it is no problem. Same with buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:13 PM
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Thats literally why most men struggle in bed, how can you be this ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:12 PM
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I mean men have a LOT of pressure on them these days. You can do everything your father did and still completely fail at life (ie. not find a woman and start a family) because of superficial dopamine characteristics. So men have a lot to feel shame for these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:31 AM
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Because otherwise men are bad lovers. They have to sleep with lots of women to be good lovers. Lying to women to have sex with them is like a gift for your future wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:25 AM
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Theres many ways to be a bad lover that have nothing to do with being "selfish". Calling someone selfish is a moral accusation. For example some people have performance anxiety, that has nothing to do with being "selfish"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:21 AM
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No, they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:44 PM
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bf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:42 PM
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Thats just what you want to believe because you are married and can no longer pursue other women. Cope more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:01 PM
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Do you have wild enthusiastic kinky sex with certain men and not others?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:00 PM
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what are you going to do when the next is smaller than the others?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:59 PM
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what are the vibes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:59 PM
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Because its humiliating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:59 PM
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Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:52 PM
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I care about every aspect of my partners lives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:51 PM
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They enjoyed being humiliated
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:50 PM
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So all men have big dicks now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:49 PM
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Men severely under estimate the value of big dick. Ask any gay guy, its hard to find good dick. Women also struggle to find it. When they find it, if the guy isn't a total dweeb, shes going to treat him different than she would you, 80% of the time, all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:35 AM
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I don't even understand how you feel any attraction to her knowing that shes uninterested in you sexually. Like while you are fucking her, you will know shes not even into it and just doing it for you, and you are ok with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:33 AM
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Decent looking tall white guys coasting on their privilege and settling for short usually pretty ugly mystery meat brown/asian girls, tale as old as time. I have more self respect for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:31 AM
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Do you realize how delusional you sound, how do you think men "learn things" in sex when all men at some points were n-count ZERO? Its so sad that you don't believe two people can learn how to turn each other on and slowly explore each others fantasies and erotic thoughts. Meanwhile you want to be a piece of meat for men and think you learning about sex from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:26 AM
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You should tell him about the biggest dick you ever took, that will really get him going.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:24 AM
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Bad lovers aren't necessarily selfish lovers. Thats you assigning moral failures to men who struggle to act sexy in front of women for whatever reason (many reasons exist). Its gross to assign moral failings to things that have nothing to do with morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:23 AM
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So you've been meat to a lot of guys. How romantic and humanistically fulfilling... is that what you dreamed about when you were an adolescent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:21 AM
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My ex bought his former wife an expensive house in expensive England. Was I butt hurt about it? Sorry but thats kind of pathetic and shows you lack self respect. And frankly are uncurious about this man that you supposedly loved
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:19 AM
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bisexual men have homosexuality - attracted to the same sex/gender. Anyone reading your comments can read between the lines about your little hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:03 AM
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Why is that not realistic? Is sex really that different from man to man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:03 AM
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How do we stop women from making porn and selling sex and being hook-up culture whores though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:04 AM
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Women need to feel inferior to the man to see him as impressive. Women don't care about being impressive to the man, they just care that he is slavishly sexually attracted to her (over other women)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:03 AM
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Lots of things can and should be nationalized. What things should be owned by the government that aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:40 AM
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How doesn't the right benefit the average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:38 AM
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You are just conflating a bunch of things. A man can be "attractive" to a woman on paper and not turn her on sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:30 AM
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Which man? Your comment doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:29 AM
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Including bi men, fuck homophobic assholes like you btw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:25 AM
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Most Americans under 35 do not attend church. I say that as someone who does enjoy going under the right circumstances. Its not common unless you are mormon or in some evangelical preacher shit cult culture
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:16 AM
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Posted in another sub "I'm not sure if other women share this sentiment, but my GOD has this been a problem lately with the men I've been seeing casually. This happens whenever I mention I'm on birth control + have plan B on hand. I have them in place in case something goes wrong and to keep my body safe, not for men to take advantage of my body and get free pleasure off me. They'll try convincing or guilt tripping me that it's so unlikely I'd get pregnant and that I'd be doing them a huge favor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:14 AM
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Who goes to church anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:11 AM
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The fact that you care enough to post and think about it. Sounds like you been fucking with lots of guys in the past that knew you'd do all the work for them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:11 AM
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No one in the US likes Sedans, there is no room for anything. Sedans are for poor folks in 3rd world countries that restrict freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:09 AM
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You can use that logic to justify any kind of behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:08 AM
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Cultures can create very vapid and shallow people population wide. Its western egotism to assume that all cultures are the same and produce masses of people who "think about the world" as deeply as westerners do. Many people live much more shallow existences en mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:06 AM
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Dont you get tired of all that ugly asian pussy. How does it feel that that is the ONLY type you get? I prefer tasting the rainbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:04 AM
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IDk, seems like he struggles to project his true masculine nature for fear of judgement by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:03 AM
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Who cares about whores. If women ostracized these girls everyone would be better off. Instead women love having 'Edgy" friends who are sex workers. Badge of honor now for women to have a friend who does OF or goes to sex clubs or whatever the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:01 AM
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Most people do this, you aren't special. Its basic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:59 AM
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Because you are a man and we are talking about women. Men can objectify the female body in ways that women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:50 AM
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Because dumb women are under the impression that there are "tops' who never take dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:34 AM
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Thats fine just don't throw a fit when people generalize other groups like for example women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:31 AM
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My pussy dries up because now I have to worry about this guy cheating on me with both men and women. No its because you support the patriarchy and want men to stay in their masculine gender roles, of which having sex with other men shatters. Stop gaslighting. So annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:23 AM
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Especially receptive gay men. EVERY SINGLE MAN WHO LIKES DICK IN ANY WAY HAS DESIRED IT IN HIS ASS AT SOME POINT. Get it through your heads. The ignorance women have for male sexuality is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:22 AM
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Participating in these grooming activities would mean that they are lowering themselves to the level of gay men and women. No its that women are TURNED OFF by male HOMOSEXUALITY. And men are COMPETING for HIGH STATUS women. Get it through your heads. Stop gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:20 AM
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No, they don't want him at all because being gay is emasculating and women (most, normal) like masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:16 AM
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Thats because you date genderqueer bluehairs. Try dating a normal girl who is hot and hangs out with other normal straight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:15 AM
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She doesn't desire him. Shes just protecting her (and his ego) while relaying the tale to the public. Why would a woman have desire for a man who is in her eyes "bad" in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:09 AM
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It doesn't really matter what you plan for the date. Anyway my main criticism of her is that shes spent the last week spamming all over this sub that its easy to be a good lover as a man, I find that insulting and not in line with my experiences whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:07 AM
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s SUPER popular with straight women so idk Not with normal women who aren't terminally online or genderqueer blue hairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:06 AM
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Women hate homosexuality in men, except when they can use them as silly clowns for their entertainment. It dries their pussies right up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:06 AM
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Good dates. Whats the point of planning one when shes already done it before with guys with more charisma than you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:01 AM
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Manhood is a constant struggle to prove oneself worthy. Sperm is cheap. Only studs are really worth much in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:45 AM
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Being a good and planning fun dates is difficult. Why else would women say they can't find anyone to make them orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:41 AM
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Why do women enjoy being sex toys then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:25 AM
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Don't you want to be desired?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:20 AM
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This is EXTREMELY common. Its what happens when women fuck many men and role the 'hung amazing devilish lower' role a few times. They will compare every man after to this experience. And don't think for a SECOND that means they will dump men for not meeting this bar, they will just quietly suppress it like this woman doesn, the vast majority will be like her because they know how rare it is to find a truly sexually impressive man (I would pit put it at 10-20% of men).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:18 AM
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Being in touch with femininity is not the same thing as behaving weak and like a woman behaves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:15 AM
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don't want to be good lovers, don't want to plan dates, don't care about a woman's career/degree These are all difficult things. What do women have to do appeal to men? A man can try and fail at all those things and they don't lead to success, rather they are bare minimums to avoid rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:08 AM
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There are still enough patriarchal standards at the moment. If men get too feminine then it will happen on masse as women "choose" a less feminine group of men to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:05 AM
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Who would have done that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:01 AM
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If patriarchy is torn down, do other patriarchal men from other countries come and take the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:58 PM
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Most political disagreements boil down to biological imperative. Which is why men and womens politics differ in America. There is no other explanation for why a man and a woman would perceive the world as having such different threats (women seem to not be threatened by the things that threaten men for example... for some reason, warriors defending the tribe, and women are not warriors?? Men see themselves as leaders of their tribe, women just as 'participators' with someone else making the fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:55 PM
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yes yes we all know how women feel. A man has to be obsessed with them yada yada
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:57 PM
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Maybe for women. I can love someone romantically and not lust for them, and the reverse. Its best when they align though, but doesn't happened a ton for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:49 PM
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I told this to the last woman I broke up with that I don't understand why shes crying because we had plenty of good times together and she got to experience me for a couple months. But I guess it didn't help much with how she was feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:57 PM
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I wonder how many women live their lives by this logic, like this is their code, their north star. It must be huge numbers, its so solipsistic and passive, logic like this suits them perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:56 PM
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Why not just get a husband and a bull for sex? You can get a hung man and just have sexual adventures with him occasionally while you live with your emotionally compatible husband
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:54 PM
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At least with a hot dude you get to experience mutual attraction, enjoyment... And when he cheats or you breakup or the relationship breaks up in anyway you can look back to when you had fun with him and enjoyed his company. Is this really how women think about relationships? It sounds like you all DESERVE to be used and emotionally abused. I should make a thread about that. Attractive men using and abusing women are doing women a favor because at least they give them a brief experience of mutua…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:52 PM
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Youre partner is very passive. Its not a virtue. It means he will take what he will get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:49 PM
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Thats a tall order. Also you are conflating love with lust. You should have said you feel they don't lust after you enough. Love is a different emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:46 PM
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can't relate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:58 AM
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I don't get aroused by the stuff, so I wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:53 AM
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Getting aroused is fun even if it doesn't lead to orgasm. Women should know this. But thats not the point of my question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:38 AM
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Do women want a man who gets hard/aroused for them from simple things like hugging them, touching their arm, brief kissing ect?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:25 AM
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Indian and asians are even less likely to cold approach than whites. Only blacks have certain members that appear to make a habit of cold approaching every bitch in the bar. Maybe thats what you mean by "minority". Must have something to do with being one race and being surrounded constantly by women of different races.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:21 AM
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Men should resent modern sexual performance standards of women. Especially when they line up with porn standards. You've already managed to categorize men plenty, no need to bring me into it, if you stand by what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:30 AM
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Sure, but I'm not actually going to commit to a girl unless she is similar to me in looks. So I will date, and leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:21 AM
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what difference does this makes when she feels (rightly or not) that she is better off woithout him? Thats not whats happening. She doesn't feel better off without "a man" she feels she IS better THAN her looksmatch and wants someone even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:19 AM
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I don’t know what porn girls sound like when they are interviewed about having sex and I don’t care They sound like you. I'm guessing youre a size queen too. You just want to maximize all those special things about men, consume as much of the best as possible. Who cares about values.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:16 AM
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Sex is a challenge. Sometimes you aren't even aroused but she expects you to be. Sometimes you cum too fast. Sometimes you can't get it up. Sometimes she kills your self esteem in the middle of it. Yes as a woman, you just show up and judge. But as a man you must perform. Thats why you love men so much, because they do more than you, which makes them more impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:12 AM
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Most women I know will barely confirm if they slept with a guy. In my circle's, It would hurt HER reputation to be sexually mocking someone. Mostly because that is private, and I did not consent to hear about her sex life. And secondly, she should have sought a little more information before "going there"... because if you know a guy has weird kinks, and you still sleep with him? You only have yourself to blame if you have a disgusting time... you signed up for it lady! All the women I ever met …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:10 AM
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he made everything about himself and was cruel Noone means that when they say dominant. Its in the word, he dominated YOU, being dominant is the opposite of making it about himself. Cruel? No one implies cruelty when they talk about men being dominant. Ok they put you in your place and you enjoyed it. You sound like porn girls when they interview them about what they like about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:08 AM
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7 wasn't a whole lot more than me, so maybe that could work, but it's honestly negligible and if he didn't know what he was doing he'd hit her cervix which would be painful for her. Is that part of your sexual identity? Telling yourself that you have the perfect dick? That anyone bigger than you runs into "issues" and "hits cervixes". Lmao. I get self confidence, but its kind of pathetic to build up these delusional constructs. 7 isn't a whole lot more than you, ya your BASICALLY 7, infact you m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:56 AM
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Sex isn't easy for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:37 PM
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but that actually is not as bad as trying really hard to convince a quality stranger, to pick you out of the sea of their options. I don't agree, I think its better to be rejected by people I don't care about than get rejected by people I actually share a lot in common with and should match with naturally. Its also very very difficult for many men to turn "platonic" friendships with women into romantic. How is there any trust there, just because youre friends or in a friend group? What happens w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:36 PM
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A lot of people start dating because they have a shared interest. No, its because the guy makes a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:29 PM
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I get matches. Usually you have to date down on the apps as a man though. So I jut accept I'm going to be better looking than the type of woman I attract
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:29 PM
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So slowly poison the whole community and group with sexual/romantic failures and rejections until you associate it with negativity. What a great way to ruin something you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:12 PM
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I'm saying rejected by a woman you pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:10 PM
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Or I could just meet women on dating apps. Then there is no risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:03 PM
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I think you should have an active and thriving social life and a position in one or more communities that mean you naturally meet some amount of women and know them at a surface level and then if one strikes your fancy, you get to know her and consider dating. What happens when you are rejected in those communities that you are so established in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:59 PM
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if its working for you then who cares. TBF thats how all those blue collar guys got their fat unnattractive wives, by "going with the flow" and "taking what comes your way". Some men prefer to be more strategic and thoughtful about their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:57 PM
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so why would you intentionally decide that you should avoid people you know in exchange for strangers? Because a stranger rejecting you has no impact on your life....? This type of perspective I only see from women, who know if they start cozying up to any guy they meet that there is a 90% chance things end up moving forward
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:55 PM
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Always reminds me of a girl I dated in college who very thoroughly enjoyed our sex, and one day asked how big I was. I told her the real number, and she furrowed her brow and said 'but that doesn't make sense. My ex said he was 7" and you're way bigger than he is!" That is comforting cope, but happens when she does meet a man truly 7-8 in hung, then once again, you are put in the mediocre bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:52 PM
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That is the reality. For many successful people sex is the one thing that they are not successful at.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:34 PM
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Sounds like you aren't very introspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:32 PM
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Most are. Its not hard to be relationship material for an average woman. Its not a high bar. Just having a reasonable social life, not being broke, getting along with her friends. Not a high bar. Impressing her with sex after she been with a bunch of men is a much higher bar
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:50 AM
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Its definitely a bullshit narrative propagated by loser men online. But women deserve it for fostering victim worship culture. So now men want to be victims too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:23 AM
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Why would crazy men be better at sex? They were more dominant?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:19 AM
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Those women are sexually broken. They do not put any value into sex, beyond dopamine. You wouldn't want to be in relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:16 AM
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Most men already meet the bar for relationship material if they are sexually attractive to the woman. Your mindset is not reality. Mens number 1 insecurity is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:15 AM
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I don't find one woman to be particularly different than another when it comes to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:15 AM
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Not really, I just want to have decent sex and not have to think my woman has been with better men which ruins it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:07 AM
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yall are ruining yourself and its way so many of you are single
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:33 PM
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youre queer, you don't go for any type of guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:15 PM
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And theres nothing men can do to stop women from obtaining casual variety with topmen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:09 PM
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No you probably settled. You even said that it was natural and normal for women to settle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:08 PM
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Well trans issues will always be on some level impossible to overcome because you are fighting your own natural bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:40 AM
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the one where they all want to fuck black guys because of sports and music. And because blacks are more masculine and extroverted than whites on average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:36 AM
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They should be afraid. A woman like you will just end up alone after not finding "perfect sexy funny chemistry guy" so they will not have to deal with you. They will have to deal with others though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:35 AM
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No, I want the ego boost of making a woman orgasm. Sadly many seem to really need a top man way above their league to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:33 AM
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Have you tried it? Yes, it was super fun. It was very erotic. It pleased me, it made my dick hard. No 69 necessary (though I do enjoy 69 more)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:27 AM
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a lot of average men have ex with women much more attractive than them too No they don't. Your lying and gaslighting. Thats bewildering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:24 AM
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pretty difficult act Oh really, you mean to tell me that men you know catered to you because youre a woman!?!? Gay guys being nice to women!?!? Shocking. Its literally super easy unless its some monster porn dick. The only thing that makes it terrible is if theres still shit up there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:24 AM
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That would be very unusual actually. I just went to a party like that two weeks ago. It was all couples and 1 single woman. Why would you say that is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:21 AM
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So youre an enby ftm type? Having a dick is not that great because most women are exactly like b8585b, they don't lust after dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:19 AM
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I would love for society to crack down onlyfanshoes. Make that shit illegal and watch all those cows cry and whine. Western society needs more collectivism when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:28 PM
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A slut phase they may only fuck 5 men. And those 5 men will be the 20% of men that gobble up the majority of casual sex. Multiple women in this thread have already said that most men will struggle with casual sex because there are always more men after it than women, so only the best men will win
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:26 PM
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Women did not try as many dicks to find the big ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:24 PM
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Going up to a horny drunk girl and getting her home is something any man could do. No. Its not. You have a totally delusional idea about men and casual sex because you only think about the men that you know have done casual sex in the past and completely ignore all the ones who haven't, they are invisible to you. I must insist, men want casual sex to mean something about them it just doesn't It doesn't to you because you only had casual sex with men who have casual sex. Not men who can't have ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:14 PM
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No, its not so great. A submissive women will suck your dick because you ask her too not spontaneously because she wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:58 PM
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Its white guys who are getting cucked the most because of white female hypergamy and hypersexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:53 PM
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and this is why none of you can fuck. you dont drink, you dont dance, you dotn go to dive bars, youre too neurotic to fuck in your social circle Lots of men do all of that and don't fuck. Men can go sit in a dive bar all night and never interact with a woman. Where as you go there and theres always some extroverted asshole coming to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:50 PM
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Its easy for you because you just wait for a man to flirt with you and then respond to what hes saying and his energy. You don't generate anything or initiate. And he thinks of all the flirty things to say
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:49 PM
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Single men don't get invited to parties by "extremely social friends" unless they are only "single" like constantly in out and of relationships single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:47 PM
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If you’d rather women only hook up or have relationships with men who they feel an immediate sexual and chemistry spark with They already do! God talk about ignorant. I don't want to be your fucking beta, f off with that shit. I am already going to dump this current girl because she said she likes my "type" meaning some nice guy bullshit, fk women like you who categorize men, just stay single and save us all the trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:41 PM
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Oooooh you are being so disingenuous. I'm going to tear this apart. It’s the female equivalent of when a woman says she wants her man to think she’s the most beautiful girl in the world No. Its not. Having your women fuck a guy who "instantly" made her want sex with him is not at all equivalent to a man seeing a hot woman on the street and looking at her. How can you even think these two things are equivalent. Ever seen!? YOU FUCKED THE GUY. YOU DIDN"T LOOK AT HIM, YOU FUCKED HIM. If you need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:32 PM
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No its not. Its the reality that the modern man has to deal with that his father did not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:27 PM
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I just don't lust for my husband. If I actually lusted for my husband Ya. You don't. I've also sucked dick when I wasn't lusting after it, and its a different experience. Just admit you don't lust after the dick. If I was just hotter and more exciting (ie more toys? more positions? more crazy stuff? more threesomes? more bondage?) he wouldn't be asking me to do anal. No its literally just stuff like smiling at him and telling him how hot you think his body his and how hes a king to you and you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:03 PM
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Thats why sex sucks for men. I am not going to be excited to have her suck my dick if she is not excited to suck my dick. I am not going to want to fuck her either if she is not turned on by me fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:59 PM
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Learn what your lady likes, ask her what the guy did that was so awesome, and then do that. Don't be a prude. Thats not how it works. Often times the guy who was the "best" was the best for reasons outside your control. Body control, dick size, sexual charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:50 PM
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How do you feel about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:49 PM
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Because she has lust for me. And its exciting to have my dick in her mouth or pussy. If it was especially big, then she would love it because she knows its big and rare, so she found something "special".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:48 PM
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I see you ignored my post about your whining about sex acts from a womans POV. Typical. Your little "gotcha" didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:43 PM
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Nah, the problem is you don't love dick at all. Unless its special
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:38 PM
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women becoming more prudish Nope. If that was the case we would see less women making porn not more. Less sex parties/clubs, not more, Less "swinger pages", not more. Less "polycules", not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:31 PM
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Its more and more the norm. Women learn from each other and copy each others behavior. Lemmings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:29 PM
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Only with slut culture western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:25 PM
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People have casual sex with top men all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:23 PM
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To say its not about competence just shows you view a huge chunk of men as not even men at all. You know a guy actually has to have the balls the make a sexual move on you in the first place and that already screens out like 50% of men? You play with a narrow subsection of men. A minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:15 PM
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Plenty of women initiate conversations with other people - myself included It doesn't matter who "initiates" the conversation. The man still has to carry the conversation. In a big city very few women initiate conversations with strange men unless your dogs bump into each other or there is some specific thing that they can benefit from the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:12 PM
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Because I read your stupid thread about how you are so offended that men want you to be attracted to their penises
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:10 PM
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Women are having more casual sex than men these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:09 PM
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Hes going to get FOMO hard. Guess hes able to cope with porn though. I would have mad resentment if I was him. You are an example of how women are having more casual sex than men these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:09 PM
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Some men will make some women want to fuck then immediately Average Men don't want to marry some girl who met other guy that made her "want to fuck immediately". Can you not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:07 PM
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the majority of women who are more sexually reserved Are they always sexually reserved or do they have "slut phases"? If 75% of women have slut phases than those small percentage of men who "win" the casual sex game get to sample a huge percentage of women compared to men who fail at casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:05 PM
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mad chemistry and I wanted to have sex asap regardless. So you wait longer when you don't feel chemistry. Why don't you just say that. The right man can make you a slut, the "wrong" one has to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:03 PM
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It is about the men. How silly to say that who you choose to have sex with isn't about who you choose to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:02 PM
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Why is it so hard for you to love a mans dick
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:58 PM
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No its happening all around us
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:56 PM
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They don't lead conversations. They interject and contribute but they do not lead. Nor they try particularly hard to be funny. They rely on the men to be funny and entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:55 PM
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Nah most women don't love those things i mentioned, maybe their family. But some don't even love their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:34 PM
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Sex can be a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:05 PM
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So... learn to be a better conversationalist. You live up to your username. ANd you'll never understand because youre a woman who just reacts to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:04 PM
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its really not something absurd nor impossible Its very difficult. Most peoples personalities are fixed and immutable. I guess most people must be unpleasant to you then, because most people are pretty damn boring. You are a woman, being extroverted to you is just waiting for an extroverted guy or girl to come up to you and starting to you because of women wonderful effect and then you react to the conversation. I as a man, have to lead the conversation and generate humor. Its like dancing, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:01 PM
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So basically boring men have to find (uglier) boring women to date. Because hot boring women will not date boring men. Its just 80/20 hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:58 PM
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I've never had boring awkward silences because I can have a conversation with someone. I'd have them all the time on first dates or else am forced to talk about boring topics like jobs, tv shows, which I can tell does not make the womens pussy twitch or give her a sparkle in the eyes. Tbh it gets even worse on second and third dates when you've already got the generic stuff out of the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:56 PM
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Its not short but its definitely not "tall" amongst white and black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:54 PM
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ugly and unpleasant to be around Most people are not "ugly and unpleasant". MANY people are "boring". Which will get you rejected just as fast by any women who has tasted the dopamine that a highly extroverted entertaining man can provide her. Personality is really no different than anything else in the hypergamy universe. Women always want better, want more. And they compare brutally. Personality is 80/20 too. Only 20% of guys have amazing personalities that women crave. Most are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:53 PM
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But there is the thing of approaching women who would be a better match for your personality Music is not personality. How exactly are men suppose to know which women match their personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:41 PM
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It's not hard to have a fun personality. It is hard for people who naturally do not have fun playful personalities. Whining isn't fun No one whines in social situations, figment of your imagination. Unless you think a group chatting at bar sounds like a reddit thread... silly. But a conversation between two people should be fun. Often times its very boring, with awkward silences and desperation to choose some sort of topic that is not boring that both people can speak to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:40 PM
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Most people can't magically adjust their personalities to meet womens standards for flirting and "fun". Its like telling men "just become funny, women like funny guys". Like its something men choose. Delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:31 PM
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Girls telling me I'm cute/handsome. Being compared to being a model. A girl in college (not dating) told me I have the "perfect jawline". And ya matches on dating apps. Also once you are old enough its not that hard to objectively look at people and compare features, symmetry, and harmony to know about where you fall. I'm only 5'9", if I was tall... I'd pretty much be perfect (in the eyes of woman). Its all good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:29 PM
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She can just cheat on him then and probably does
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:26 PM
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You would judge him even if he wasn't married. Thats what makes you a hypocrite. Obviously cheating is morally wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:14 PM
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It doesn't really matter. Peoples mental states are contextual and relative. Even if she would prefer not to make money through sex, I may be an attractive clean man that she enjoys over other clients and in our little world its a win for her and thats how she feels in the moment, positive. Also frankly you can do things that your gf can say no to, and sex workers can too but because they are sex workers they tend to be more open to kinkier sex and requests. There are pretty girls out there that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:11 PM
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Well I'm just encapsulating a trend within one sentence as pointed as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:07 PM
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I didn’t even pretend to enjoy it after a while This is suppose to be a brag? You realize you sound like a psychopath right? "My stupid husband didn't even realize I didn't want him anymore, what an IDIOT" Though to be fair, he is an idiot. I would have kicked you to the curb the second I got wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:53 PM
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When you pay for sex, its the opposite, you have power over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:50 PM
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What happened to loving your family, your ancestors, your reputation, your culture, your community, your nation. Now we just love ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:50 PM
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They resent the idea they can’t behave in the same way and still get sex No personally I resent the idea that my potential soul mate was taken off the market by some stud dick that I can't compare to when in decades past she could have been the love of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:49 PM
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They go hand in hand!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:48 PM
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interracial competition is a thing. Just ask black women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:47 PM
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Clearly his wife doesn't care. Do you also judge women that hook up with exotic men on dating apps? We all see more and more interracial couples and white women walking around with black men for example
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:43 PM
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Asians in the US do. In Asia itself, its only a small minority of women who would "date out" so most men just ignore it. In the US 40% of Asian women are married to non-asian men. And Asian men definitely notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:37 PM
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I personally know a passport bro, he goes to Thailand once a year with his mates, takes lots of cash and nobody’s allowed to talk to him about it. He’s married and his wife isn’t allowed to go. It’s shit like that where people are going to judge Damn. I need to marry a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:32 PM
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You can't make threads like this and talk about race. Or have the rules changed? But its only been up an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:30 PM
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Also, I got introduced to this a long time ago by an older woman. I "followed" her for quite a while. Uh most mens sex lives do not involve getting "taught" by older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:14 PM
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Clits not feeling much is an insane thing to me, I can’t relate to that I said its hard to feel for it as a man, its hard to feel, its literally a small little lump amongst a bunch of labia. I do actually have a woman that hates having her clit touched, and I have another who is the opposite recently and it is what it is. But don't try to say women are easy to get off. If I assumed all women were liked the first one, I would never touch their clits. Try stuffing a dick in your mouth or in your a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:02 AM
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You are welcome. I won't disagree that "commodification" is a big part of the problem with many negative things in our sexual culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:25 AM
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Thats how you think about it. Other people actually find dicks visually appealing and want certain ones in their mouths. You think of sex as transactional. Other people actually enjoy each others bodies for what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:14 AM
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nd he doesn't want to know my past in detail either. He does. Hes just afraid of the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:11 AM
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I find it insane for men to claim the pressure to rub the clit during sex How am I suppose to rub the clit when I'm literally moving my whole body in a full body motion. Then I have to focus on finding the clit, most womens clits barely feel like anything and its tough to feel for unless you are focusing on it (which then you can't focus on fucking). Its like you women have never ever considered sex from the mans perspective because it "just happens" to you and youre along for ride. claim men fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:06 AM
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I don't think being raped is the equivalent to hating someone. Something like that happens and there is not time to process that you "hate them", you would be in full flight or fight mode. Maybe even "fawn effect". I don't think women want to have sex or feel strong attraction with men they hate or even dislike strongly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:55 AM
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Because prostitutes give something back to men. Onlyfans porn sluts prey on desperate men and suck money out of them. Its grotesque. Prostitutes also teach men sex, and sexual confidence and could help a man be better with women he loves. Onlyfans porn sluts rob men of their sexual strength and fuck up their sexual templates, ruining marriages and potential relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:48 AM
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Maybe as a man your ass is bigger and that’s why you find it so easy. Lmao, most mens asses are skinny and boney compared to womens. What is with women and your obsession with anal sex? Is that really the only way you think you can make a man feel happy and excited in the bedroom? Anal sex? You want me to throw on a fucking cock ring when I take a woman home on the third date for sex? Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:44 AM
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If you think it's simple to deep throat, have you actually tried it? I have and I found it enjoyable. It was exciting and "shocking". Maybe if you actually approached it with lust it would be enjoyable for you. If you think it is simple to perform anal, have you actually tried it? Its only gross if you don't clean yourself out. Its really only painful in the beginning until you relax. Again I've tried it. Also who gives a fuck about anal. Most men don't even care about anal. The only reason they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:40 AM
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Its not that hard to process. Its just adrenalin. Shock. Men are equally susceptible. At the extreme end its why some men and women like to feel high either by cutting off airflow or drugs, it produces an adrenaline rush that "loving sex" may not, even if sex is still very pleasurable by itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:33 AM
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what the fuck are these "skills" that women vaguely talk about all over reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:14 AM
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So youre telling me that all you have to do as a woman to be a mans best is give into his fantasies and play along? That sounds simple as fuck. I can't grow my penis longer or completely change my personality or sexual stamina.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:09 AM
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This can happen in any relationship to either gender. But its women who have the power over relationships. They pick and choose and reject. Primarily. So its not "even odds".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:04 AM
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Why would a woman enjoy sex while being raped but then not enjoy sex with her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:03 AM
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And normally lots of practice with communication even when it’s awkward No it doesn't. Men need to practice, not women. Women just follow the mans lead. So a man just has to know how to have "fun sex". Women follow, the men lead. No need for "emotional vulnerability"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:01 AM
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Wow your comments make perfect sense. Maybe you should stop giving commentary on normal people relationships when you are abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:53 AM
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I actually have to consider my husband's feelings, too. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:47 AM
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Why would you endorse her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:45 AM
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Oh really, how many did you have to go through to find the 5% that have 8 inch dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:43 AM
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wrong-o
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:40 AM
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they deserve or think they deserve Thats literally all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:40 AM
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Lust makes men want to suck dick. And lots of women talk about wanting to do that with their man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:37 AM
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Thats pretty fucking lame. Gay guys love sucking dick just for the sake of it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:37 AM
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Sure, my point is that if this type of man struggles, then there are many many more men struggling, who are worse off than them. And I think this follows because all the women I've recently been dating have just a shit ton of single friends. Its like they are all waiting for men who don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:10 PM
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Granted, I'm kid-free Opinion ---> trash
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:00 PM
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I didn't excuse violence. I said that young leftist women do not care about policing violence. They are ACAB and the like. women’s sexuality is vilified As women act out more and more it will be more vilified by men with a backbone. The whole world already looks at western white women as complete whores because of all the porn they pump out every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:59 PM
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If you are involuntarily celibate - meaning you struggle with women Thats not what incel means. Incel means you cannot get women. You know autism is a spectrum, right? I’d bet you’re somewhere closer to the neurodivergent side versus neurotypical. Oh does that mean everyones a little autistic? Afterall its a spectrum. You sound incredibly dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:56 PM
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I don’t give one tin shit who my friends are dating as long as they are happy I care about who my bros are dating and I'll tell them if they are making a mistake. Guess you just like not giving a shit about most things in life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:54 PM
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Ya it is. Thats lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:52 PM
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I live in a big city. You must not know many career oriented women who are picky about marriage and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:52 PM
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Its that thing that makes a woman want to suck a mans dick, instead of just doing it to make him happy (lame)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:11 PM
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Not as many. Especially from middle class college kids with decent jobs, who played sports, went to parties ect ect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:11 PM
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Poor sexual behavior for one. Who cares about crime. Women defend the criminals through their leftist politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:02 PM
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Ya thats totally what I meant eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:01 PM
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Sounds like someone doesn't have primal lust for her husband
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:00 PM
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Personally I am just enjoying watching all these aging millenial western women realize they are never going to have the kids they planned for as they scramble for husbands in their late fertility years. It warms the heart seeing people face consequences for their poor life philosophies and lack of principles beyond "make my pussy feel good and give me dopamine"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:58 PM
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Where is your critique for womens poor behavior on a societal level?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:56 PM
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Getting married to friends is not normal, thats completely weirdo behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:54 PM
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are all doing fine with women No one even knows what you mean by this. "Doing fine". Means nothing. Are they dating their looksmatch, their league? Or trash diving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:54 PM
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Men who are NOT autistic are not struggling to interact with women and get dates or have sex. Its far more complicated than that, I'm not autistic. Neither are my friends, they all have had sex, and casual sex. More partners than you considering youre some kind of high school preggo marriage type Struggling with women is not the same thing as being an incel virgin, you are so ignorant its astounding. I don't particularly have any struggles beyond my disgust for female nature, which many of the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:51 PM
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At least you are consistent when it comes to sexual solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:46 PM
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Who the fuck do you think autists are? You fucking think 1/4 of men are autists or something? Get the fuck outside. I am actually super pissed off that you are implying anyone who struggles with women is an autist, like if you said that to me IRL i'd go off on you. Who the fuck do you think you are None of them use "redpill guide" or whatever the fuck brainworms are in your head about men who struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:37 PM
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And why do you say that? I'll be waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:36 PM
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Thats what happens when you get with women obsessed with sex. They always want something better. And its rarely just you. Like most of these issues, if the man and the woman are intelligent and really want to be together they will work towards satisfying both of their egos and curiosities. When people are ignorant and dumb, things like this fester.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:35 PM
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I know lots of neurotypical men with good jobs who struggle with women. They certainly would not have in 1960.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:51 PM
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socially democratic market economies where the tax burden for lower income workers is extremely high, the unemployment rate is really low and the college degree rate is super high. This requires a lot of social trust and shared culture which is incompatible with a lot this immigration Thats why people are upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:49 PM
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How can that possibly be ok with you? They don’t think you’re attractive. Thats not necessarily true at all. Lots of attractive men use sex workers, or have a few times. But imagine you have a daughter. And think about her being a sex worker. Is that a good thought? Its just as bad of a thought as thinking about her with a man I don't approve of but all the PPD women here tell me I am crazy and oppressive for caring about who my daughter dates. It seems they don't have any standards but their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:42 PM
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I respect prostitutes far more than onlyfans sluts and pornhoes. Online sex workers should receive more stigma and IRL ones should receive less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:39 PM
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Oh sorry you feel exposed. When you get with some hung guy that you like thats the first thing youll compliment him about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:36 PM
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Why can't you just date your league
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:32 PM
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You can't make threads about race. Why is mods leaving this up when I will get banned in 5 seconds for making a few comments about racial preferences and racial competition. Either set some rules and allow it or don't, fucking hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:29 PM
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Healthy women wouldn’t take a man that’s done that seriously as a dating prospect. Do you think healthy men should take slutty women as serious dating prospects?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:23 PM
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Nah, one is hypothetical, one is a real in your body feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:22 PM
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Women mostly prefer girth over length anyway. T Either way. Your just lying caue you know you probably will never have a hung boyfriend, so you have to come to terms with average being good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:15 PM
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When you know you've had much better than the one your with, it has consequences for the soul, long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:48 AM
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Just put another baby in her, stake your claim. No big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:42 AM
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Thats why you date a woman uglier than you. Then you don't have to worry as much about her irrational standards, she knows shes batting above her league and will treat you accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:40 AM
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I find it very hard to objectify people like that. Except when you consume porn of them. Then you objectify to your hearts content.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:36 AM
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yikes someones fragile, i'm just describing a womans experience with sex. How do you survive in real life being such a fragile person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:31 AM
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I relate to how you think, but its not so bad to compartamentalize sex as a man. I am guessing you already do that when you bust your load to porn. Seeing some trash in person while not super satisfying, can still be healthy, or at least as healthy as porn (so maybe not so healthy, but better than a sexless loser afraid of sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:30 AM
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You can't actually. Thats like saying you can have confidence that your a good basketball player without playing basketball. WHat a juvenile view of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:25 AM
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Same could be said for the pretty girl you go on a tinder date with. You don't know what dicks have been in her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:23 AM
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It would help you a lot lmao. Youre clearly afraid of sex rather than desiring it. Enjoy your gooning then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:21 AM
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The fact that women enjoy being the dragon shows how delusional they are about their places in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:19 AM
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But losing your virginity doesn’t make you suddenly more likely to sleep with other people?? Yes it does. It gives men sexual confidence. How is a man basing his confidence on sexual skills dumb, when all women do is obsess about mens sexual skills and constantly tell us on this sub that sex skills are the most important thing for men to have
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:18 AM
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Lots of women respect me and I've paid for sex. Its not a big deal. It actually takes balls to pay for sex with a stranger tbh, and women are attracted to men who live by their own rules not obsess about womens opinions of them, that is weak bitch shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:17 AM
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Because then the women settle and the men resent them for it overtime once they realize they have been settled for and shes had much better in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:05 AM
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Then why do they only make porn with large penises. And why do they talk about large penises with so much admiration? How can women be attracted to penises and not care about how nice it looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:03 AM
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If shes new to it, shes not even enjoying it. Its all in your head and her (fake) performance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:02 AM
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I know my parents had less sex than I do. Boomers didn't grow up in porn culture like modern day youths do. Boomers didn't think polyamory and group sex are normal like youth do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:02 AM
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Most men care about and appreciate a womans accomplishments, but not if it comes at the cost of sexual validation for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:15 PM
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i'm just a sex toy. Maybe youre on to something there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:13 PM
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You do you. You'll probably get your raw desire fix from somewhere else like porn then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:12 PM
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It is, but you will not be happy or very turned on if your women is a cold fish with no desires and she wants you to do 100% of the work of building the sexlife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:10 PM
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She said HE doesn't try anything new. Why doesn't SHE try something new. Because she doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:09 PM
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I would say its because he knows that shes not attracted to him anymore so he doesn't feel creative inspiration. Probably he thinks that whatever he suggests she will not be into and will just do it "for him". We don't even know if shes capable of enjoying sex with him. Like why can't she be naughty and devious when it comes to sex. Nope, always has to be him. Women don't understand that men and women should inspire each other, not just take take take from the mans "sexual skills and desires" li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:03 PM
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Self report on what? dick size? Mines bigger than average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:58 PM
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I'm pretty sure if you asked alot of men they would think it's very hot for a woman to approach. I meant its not hot for women to have to approach. THey want to be the object of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:58 PM
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Not really in my experience they all feel about the same. I've even been in transsexual neo vaginas and it feels not so different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:37 PM
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I see no problem with lying to hypocritical women. But I don't condone secretly cheating on them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:36 PM
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Because they sterilized themselves. Its also a marker of narcissistic extremist thinking. Rational thinkers keep their options open
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:28 PM
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no. I prefer being virile. Men who get vesectomies are also pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:24 PM
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Big ones feel much different than little ones, MUCH different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:22 PM
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Her "bf" is a ftm trans. So a hairy little gremlin with no dick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:21 PM
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If you’re a bisexual man why would you want to date homophobic women? A bisexual man wants less women to be homophobic, can you not grasp this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:20 PM
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Wow you explained what so many women on this sub deny. 80/20
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:13 PM
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There are plenty of uggos out there dating each other, I see them every day while out and about But the point is that that uggo woman at some point fucked with a guy who's more attractive than her uggo current man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:09 PM
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Shouldn't we as a society punish women for going to far after glitter considering how it fucks up relationship dynamics later in life and makes men insecure and unhappy. Or is women fuckin hot guys a dynamic society should be protecting at all costs and externalities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:07 PM
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Why do young guys spend so much time and energy on gorgeous women who are unstable and sometimes cruel to them? Women they'll never really have? Young guys don't do that in high numbers. At least nowhere near as high as women chase unattainable men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:06 PM
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Its not hot for women to approach. They want to be desired. Women get turned on by men desiring them, not desiring men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:02 PM
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pussys feel like pussys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:55 PM
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Ya ok, but the whole reason this sub exists is because men can only change so much about themselves to fit womens preconceived notions of who a "real" man is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:00 AM
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What I don't understand is how women masturbate thinking about nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:50 AM
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TBF those men all have sisters that are also not particularly appealing to the masses
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:47 AM
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This is a false road because women treat men very differently based on how they value them. A woman may value a nice husband who helps her raise a beautiful family more than that one fling that all she wanted from was sex, but they will receive different treatment because they are valued for different aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:44 AM
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Top 10 what? Well USA demographics have changed a lot in the last 50 years. Interesting how demographics matter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:36 AM
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and we were involved for eight years While you were fucking other dick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:33 AM
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Rich places are smarter than poor places
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:32 AM
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Well thats the reality that most men deal with today with our pornified culture. I mean theres men with like 3.5 in penises, and men with 8 inch penises. Thats says it all really. Theres so many men that are SO much better than other men. All shes has to do experience one of those and then youre nothing in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:27 AM
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Uh, no. My previous statement was saying that you don't have consistent sexual principles or anything really. Which is why you do one thing one day, and a different thing a different day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:25 AM
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The switch to being a slut. Theres clearly a cultural switch, something happens in their life to trigger it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:23 AM
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No, I just find it disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:23 AM
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I can answer you, its not very enjoyable. Its why men have cuckhold fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:17 AM
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Personally I know people that don't like indians because you all are one of the MOST tribal groups that hire (and promote) your own and form little purely indian companies. Like how the fuck are there entire companies with 100s of employees and they are all indian? Thats not even family nepotism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:16 AM
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Ya lots of stupid idiots in the richest country in the world. Definitely makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:14 AM
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Who does slut culture attract? Do 12 year old girls want to be sluts? When does the switch go off?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:11 AM
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Venezuela would be better off with a regime change. Too bad for them, people feel thats "mean" these days so they will suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:10 AM
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I also said that i didn’t give a fuck about him. Who cares about that. Were talking about you fucking him in 10 minutes. No one cares what you thought of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:09 AM
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We have culture to guide us on how to express our moods and desires instead of "doing whatever I want"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:07 AM
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I'm talking about women posting in this very thread....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:06 AM
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why guys are placing such importance on how quickly a woman Probably because they read stories online from women bragging about banging a guy in 10 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:42 AM
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Women do not like mens natural sexuality. They usually prefer a performative sexuality. I am going through this right now with a girl who says "what I want is for you to feel good, no matter the method". But shes lying. Even to herself maybe. Still shes better then women who don't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:38 AM
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Than our parents. Also were 2% of women porn creators in the 90s like they are now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:30 AM
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I mean its shocking to have sex with someone within 10 minutes of meeting them. I don't know anyone who's done that. Did you ever think about if you would have enjoyed the porn industry?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:20 AM
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Like many woman, I would primarily care about how good he is at sex and how nice his penis is and how he uses it. My personal experience is men don't have similar features that women can be attracted to. Women are attracted to large penises, and height, that is similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:19 AM
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Thats stupid that you abandoned logic and rational simply because you found a woman who fed your security and self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:16 AM
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People have been having less sex and fewer partners overall when compared to the last few decades. Thats not true. People are having many more partners than in the past. They are also having sex with people they would have never met in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:13 AM
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Not to mention, he hooked up with someone just as quickly. Uh, so thats why. Not the other stuff you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:12 AM
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Why would they date men they have no passion for? Are you saying the sex is bad? What about the ones that like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:59 AM
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Nope, and you'll never have those experiences. Maybe your daughters will
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:52 AM
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Tindr has the same people on it as all the other apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:50 AM
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only for him to admit to me that he doesn't care about it at all You clearly do not care about it that much or you wouldn't have had sex with a man 10 minutes after meeting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:48 AM
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Did you tell your husband you had sex with a guy 10 minutes after meeting him? I'd like to see how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:47 AM
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What does a woman who's not that into me but has sex with me look like vs a woman who's very into me and has sex with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:46 AM
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they just wanted to hook-up Why would anyone have sex with a stranger in an hour unless they were extremely "primally" attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:43 AM
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Women do compare men to past lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:42 AM
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Or just find a girl on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:41 AM
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I don't think a slut would ever be compatible with me, I don't see how I could be compatible with a slut. Or a virgin. I would want a girl who has been with guys like me and is sexually attracted to guys like me. Sluts wouldn't be into me, they would have been with better more exciting hotter men than me, so we wouldn't be compatible. I cannot feel sexually validated with a slut because I am not hung, nor am I amazing in bed, how can I feel validated by someone who has had significantly better?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:38 AM
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They are having more partners. What are you implying?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:33 AM
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they aren’t getting laid as easily as a pornstar on set. Including you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:00 PM
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Yeah cause NRIs aren't representative of India. What are they representative of then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:57 PM
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Diminishing gains. Women don't care much about being "super" fit. Its all about building a package. Women like men like they are gift baskets "oh hes got this and this, and oh this ones different than what was in my last package, ooh nice, guess I don't see this but oh well, look at all these great things I have in my package" Thats how they think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:55 PM
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This is your average non obese South Indian woman. I see indian women all the time, very few of them look like that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:54 PM
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Its not about sex, its about sexual validation. Men are desperate for sexual validation. Women are definitely overvaluing sex which is why the feel so bad after having sex with a guy who doesn't want more from them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:52 PM
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Because even if shes happy with yours, yours is not a status symbol. The girl I am seeing compliments my dick, but it will never be the same as truly hung guys. Its similar to being told your adequate, not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:03 AM
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What are you talking about? You want to be settled for? I want to be in full love and trust with my partner. The only way that can occur is security in honest attraction and mutual symmetrical VALUE. When both people feel they have won, that is what is lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:01 AM
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She has much better facial harmony than 80% of the women on the street. Yall are smoking crack. It seems like you are trying to front
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:57 AM
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I don't think those two are very pretty. Its more they just lack obvious ugly features.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:56 AM
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Lol, bro, I'm not even indian and I seen enough indian women to know shes more attractive than most. And shes very light skin, don't yall like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:53 AM
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it certainly helps a bit. You also don't have to get "super" anything, just fit is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:51 AM
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They do this far more often than men. The only thing a man can do is see some attractive prostitutes. Men cannot consistently fuck above their league, women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:40 AM
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Or one that I've run into is my ex telling me she likes huge dicks when I'm not exact a pornstar here lol I mean that was just rude. The sad part is that shes just being honest. Most women are too afraid to say. Even if they don't like how it feels, they like the status symbol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:39 AM
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Well women who would have sex with you in a relationship would have sex with you in a hook up, if you had the right attitude. I assume a woman who wants to have sex with me in a relationship would hook up with me if only I had the sexual charisma that draws women to have casual sex, I believe it is like 50% physical, 50% personality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:32 AM
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It also gives women the ability to fuck around with whatever type of guy they want, making them less likely to want you. But we can't control women, we can only play the game
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:41 AM
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Women like it. They love the confidence that an abusive man exudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:36 AM
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If you mean friends or anyone I know close enough to know that about them or be told. Nope. All the abusers I know about were told to me by women. My theory is that kind men tend to group together, and women don't value kindness at all, so they fuck a lot of abusers and complain to kind men about it. Meanwhile kind men are like "where the fuck are these guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:35 AM
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We are talking about what most people do and trying to suss it out. Don't be a boring pedant. Having a conversation with you must be really boring "what do you think of Jess's new guy". "Idk hes a person, were all different people, doing different things, I'm sure he does people things like other people do!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:32 AM
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Men should be dishonest, honesty only benefits the woman, because women over-value sex. When you set such a high value for something, people will naturally adjust the truth to obtain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:21 AM
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People will always have different standards for casual vs relationships.... that's the kinda the whole point. Thats not true at all. You are just describing yourself. YOU have different standards for casual vs relationships. Not people in general. In fact most people prefer to date people they have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:19 AM
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you are default always being settled for Not really, because you are having sex, so youre accomplishing that, shes not going to have sex with just anyone. Attraction is not negotiable anyway, the important thing is too see through a womans lying ways about how she REALLY feels about you sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:18 AM
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Finally, if a woman would only have sex with a man if he gives her companionship in return, then that means she's not really attracted to him anyway. If I have sex with her, I can always dump her later if I find out shes finds me "just ok" or "good enough". The important part is to have sex with the girl, and that she wants to be with you, then you have the power. She only has the power before sex. So hook up vs. relationship don't really matter if you are a discerning man, either way sex was ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:18 AM
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Thats cause you don't deserve a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:59 AM
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Thats sad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:53 AM
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Why wouldn't someone deserve an exciting life? Uh, because they are boring? Why would boring people deserve an exciting life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:48 AM
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I wonder if you are friends with any boys who are "losers" because they aren't good at "getting pussy"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:47 AM
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Probably another childfree woman chiming in. Opinion - trash
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:42 AM
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So you think everyone deserves an exciting life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:38 AM
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Its very enjoyable seeing delusional women realize that they ran out of time, and have other delusional women hit them with "oh I have a friend that had a kid at 40, its totes possible!".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:37 AM
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A lot of men already have satisfying jobs and life situations. What would be examples of things that make a man feel "validated" besides attention and praise from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:31 AM
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Thats what porn has always been
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:28 AM
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Idk, I would say this is a troll post. Women definitely don't care much what you do if your pulling in cash. What do you live in a dump and dress like a bump?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:26 AM
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I only use dating apps these days. I feel I have more control over the situation. If the date is awkward or she thinks I am lame, I like that she also bears part of the blame and wastes her night. Personally I don't find it awkward. I actually am far more stressed out talking to a random girl at a bar, than I am a random girl I met on an app. It helps that I am physically attractive and get matches. I suppose men who have bad dating profiles really are shooting themselves in the foot by using th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:20 AM
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Wait until you are excited about your life, and are looking for a partner to share it with as an equal. All men already feel this way. What a silly thing to say. Juvenile
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:07 AM
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Its fine if the woman is just waiting for the one, because women are passive followers when it comes to sex and relationships. The man needs to know how to turn a woman on, he needs practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:33 AM
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Right so the dad has to know if his kid is having sex otherwise he has failed as a parent? Yes. And I'm guessing it's the exact opposite for women, isn't it? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:16 AM
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Ya a lot of people love assholes. I am more interested in finding a partner in crime, someone to enjoy life with, not manipulate some poor girl. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:07 AM
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You just said you don't care if they socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:01 AM
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Being a virgin is failing at life, as a man. Unless you live in a culture that respects virginity in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:56 AM
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Love how no women respond to your completely rational and obvious comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:53 AM
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which is fine!! How is that fine? Being a single sexless male sucks. And its low status. Its not "fine".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:52 AM
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Why invest in something that’s already yours with no work? Why would you fall in love with a man with him doing no work towards you? Oh ya I forgot, you women are only invested in his "personality" and sex game. Then of course, why the fuck would he put in any work when you don't care about work, just how funny he is, and good he is in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:50 AM
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Youre just going to hide this whole persona from someone that you will be sharing years of your life with....?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:48 AM
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he says he’s not going to Why would he say hes not going to. It sounds like you believe relationships are typically between stupid pigheaded people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:47 AM
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Women dont do any domestic labor in cohabitating relatonships. Its very close to 50/50. Its only when children are involved that women do more labor. Childless women saying this are actually just delulu. Maybe if you had children you would have a point. The whole argument is irrational. I am living alone. How exactly is a woman doing domestic labor for me when I do not live with a woman. And why would my lifestyle suddenly change with a woman living with me..?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:21 AM
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Thats pretty pathetic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:18 AM
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Oh should I be? You just said it doesn't matter, connection does. Learn to debate unless you just enjoy being an irrational hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:18 AM
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Because he cares about his kids and making sure they are on the proper paths to life success. I bet your going to raise a porn addict boy who sits inside gooning all day lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:17 AM
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And you wouldn't care if they never lost it and ended up unsocialized gooner incel. Sounds like you would make a great parent... "who cares what the kids are up to"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:15 AM
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But anyone with a really good connection can have hot extremely hot sex. How does that follow? Sex is a skill. It has nothing to do with connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:10 AM
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Shouldn't she talk to him and negotiate and complain to him before randomly breaking up....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:00 AM
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I said fucked, not dated. Yes, yes chase the stereotypes, make sure to ignore the puny asian men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:58 AM
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When a white women injects into a conversation about racialized sex, to joke about it, we all know you had your "experience"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:44 AM
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The more sex women have the more picky they get about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:40 AM
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So you want to settle down with a man uglier than the ones who fucked you once or twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:37 AM
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youre the racist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:36 AM
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Ya anti-white fools are annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:36 AM
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Why wouldn't you wonder about it anyway. You know there are men way better than your current boy who would blow you away sexually compared to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:01 AM
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So what happens when you have "the best" sex and then you don't experience that again. All the other "different people different dynamics" then become worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:59 AM
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What exactly does having your cake and eating it look like to you? You seem so confident in your little sex quest, yet use vague euphemisms instead of spelling it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:53 AM
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Nowadays men compete with the quality of life of being single. No, they compete with whatever attractive man meets her threshold that she throws in with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:51 AM
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Ah so you are extra racist and resentful against whites, how special of you (not)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:48 AM
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I would definitely be ok with more immigration if it was only women. The idea of millions of men from African, Middle asia coming to the west to hunt for (w)estern women gives me the hibbie jibbies and thats exactly what is happening. It feels like we are being conquered. They even say this and make videos about how they will find their western slut when they get here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:57 PM
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If thats the case then why are more young women making porn then ever before
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:49 PM
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He did. How can you deny that. 95% of the time, sexual chemistry is what the man creates for the woman. Its a woman buying what a man is selling situation. Almost every time. How is that mutual? Do you think a the relationship between a car dealer and a customer is a mutual situation and when the sale is made, we say "oh they just had amazing chemistry". Lmao. Ya right. He sold, she bought.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:24 PM
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I listen to women talk about men and what makes them want men. And I am not a good flirt and its definitely hindered me. I am not even autistic, I'm just a regular joe who is not good at flirting and ratcheting up sexual tension with words. A woman would rather go to McDonalds with a man that makes her laugh and makes her feel naughty, than a man giving her a nicer experience that seems "boring" or "sterile"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:57 PM
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I don't think its hypocrisy. But I think if woman are not the initiators then they don't deserve the same outcomes as men. And people instinctively believe and know this, which is why women will never be as respected as men on a one for one level, a direct comparison level, in society, in life. This pisses (some) women off, but they should think about why this is the case. It would be hypocrisy if women said "we don't want to work as hard as men, but we want the same material outcomes as men!". …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:53 PM
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Its related to the hierarchy of masculine assertive qualities that the woman perceives from the man. In the womens mind, the bolder man "deserves" to have sex earlier. He pushed her buttons and behaved the right way to unlock sex. He is closer to chaos and farther from stability. Stability is often EXTREMELY desirable, but its never a sexual turn on, its never a fetish, its never rulebreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:49 PM
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Uh, the gender pay gap is real. So you are slightly less rich than your rich western male peers, and this feels like oppression to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:33 PM
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monetarily disadvantage How are you, a young presumably western women living in one of the richest countries on the planet (likely American) monetarily disadvantaged? Why is it that typically its white women from rich western countries that seem to be so good at "exploiting men" through sex compared with poor 3rd world woman? To me you are applauding privileged white women using their sex appeal for money, when they could make a very comfortable living doing something else. And I am not surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:30 PM
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I do court women but I find that they do not value being courted all they care about is flirting skills and "chemistry" (which is really just a way of evaluating a mans value and masculine boldness, its not holistic at all like they pretend)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:27 PM
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Women can wear whatever they want, they’re still not asking to be sexually objectified. And taking money from porn brained men is just good business sense. Do you really not realize how disgusting this attitude comes off to men. Like when we get married and have a daughter are you going to teach our daughter that And taking money from porn brained men is just good business sense. Like gross. Just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:21 PM
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I really can't relate to simp culture. Half your examples are charicatures. Like imagine a guy saying "I'm into E-girls". How pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:20 PM
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Meanwhile bad sex is better than no sex for men Its not bad sex to have sex with a woman below your league. In fact it can be very relaxing, less pressure, and more enjoyable depending on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:11 PM
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I disagree with this. I do in fact see a lot of studs with very plain janes. I see a lot of (not fat) men walking around with fat women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:58 PM
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And I don’t know where we’re getting this belief that men don’t also fuck around in their youth and then try to settle down later in life Men generally fuck around with women in their league, not above their league like women often do. Women never go "dumpster diving" for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:56 PM
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Are you just calling every man who argues with you here "conservative"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:00 AM
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You don't mind that hes watching more arousing, shocking and exhilarating things than you do for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:19 PM
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I specifically try to avoid porn to give her my sexual energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:18 PM
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Theres only so much a man can do. Society is taking more and more avenues away from him to be successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:01 PM
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Yes, its bad when people are not rewarded for hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:34 PM
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Women choose. Women are not forcefully taken in 2025. They simply make choices. Therefore mens rape tendencies are irrelevant whereas womens warbride tendencies are still very relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:33 PM
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Weve already established mens capacity for fucking things up including women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:45 PM
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keep fronting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:36 PM
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Look up asian war brides from Vietname, japan. French women with german soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:35 PM
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There women who do femdom to make money, if thats what you mean lol. There aren't women who actually enjoy femdom as the main facet of their sexuality in any real sense. Regardless, irrelevant to 99% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:21 PM
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They aren't leaders in the bedroom, and they don't want to be. Go hang out in a mixed gender social group and see who the instigators and initiators are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:12 PM
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They're usually competetive no lifers that enjoy the thrill of being a basement dweller as long as they win. LMAO. Funny and correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:07 PM
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Wow bro, your straightest man I have ever interacted with. Definitely your not a fag. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:05 PM
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It takes two to tango. In the end yes its men who let societies crumble. When the invading tribe comes and destroys everything, it is mens fault in the end. But women can choose to lay with invaders. They have agency as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:03 PM
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Depends on how the information is being disseminated and who it reaches and what they do with it. I believe even high value men are starting to consistently get angry about women and their choices even if its only in particular contexts they don't encounter much. Male capacity for feeling emasculated and insecure is quite deep and can effect even high status men who generally get what they want, the more women test and trigger men with their choices and actions (ie. who they choose for what) the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:01 PM
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Not, mad I said your fronting is annoying and I cannot even quickly skip over your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:48 PM
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Women follow men. Men dictate society. Even the strongest, most valuable women instinctively follows (not all) men, WANTS to follow men. If enough males are angry, the females have to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:46 PM
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You got it. And you really need both to attract attractive women. Looks without charisma = date down for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:38 PM
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All his posts are just fronting his online persona as "sex god that women only want to use for sex". Its pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:10 PM
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Money is no longer a concrete statement of social status in America. A large portion, significant enough to have radical consequences for society, of Women basically just care about sex now and which men can make them feel sexy, not which men are "good on paper". Western culture is pornified.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:08 PM
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Like if you go to Harvard, and socialize with women who also went to Harvard... it's not going to impress them as much as it would impress someone who went to state college elsewhere. Money doesn't impress poor ghetto women, they'd rather have men they are "comfortable" with. Girls just want to have fun. High social class women fuck down all the time if the guy is sexually charismatic. Very few casual sex or even early relations start with income statements and display of economic status. Some f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:00 PM
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Ya I make a lot of money. For casual sex or even early relationship tingles, you think any women care about this ? Nope. Even looks, for women who are spoiled by availability of men, a "good looking" man is just one facet of what they are after. They want "the total package". You think women enjoy some boring good looking man, nope, BORING. Like you said VERY FEW men my age (late twenties early 30s) have true flash money. Most yuppie American women don't care about money. They literally seem to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:57 PM
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Ya true. The only impact it has though is demographics, race, culture. Which is more about what kinds of men women in that "scene' may be exposed to and influenced by.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:35 PM
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Why is it that PPD would ban me for saying a woman sounds like a whore but not for saying a man sounds like an incel. When they are both simply insults about ones sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:34 PM
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Why do you care if a man is hypocritical about sex and dating. Especially when men and women are extremely different when it comes to sex dating and double standards are literally written into our biology. Do you want men to start acting like women, is that what you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:31 PM
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Why are you defensive about girls and being virgins or having some kind of sexual self control. Some women are virgins its not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:20 AM
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They love that. There is even a moving about it called "The Graduate." You really think its easy to find an older woman who wants to have sex with a younger man? You women really live in la la land
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:25 AM
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Or you live in a society that values intelligence and community instead of thugness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:24 AM
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Just like how women get a kick out of big dicks and other unrealistic examples of masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:23 AM
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People with strong personalities and sense for humor don't need to be drunk to entertain. I needed to be drunk though because I am not a naturally charismatic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:28 AM
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Charlie is a good representation of the average blue piller dude. funny character
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:26 AM
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Ugly men don't deserve to get their foot in the door with attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:21 AM
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Its called speaking with intention until it becomes instinct. Yes being able to manipulate others is also a sign of social competence. Neither of these things have anything to do with being a doormat. I am just pushing back your ghetto view of asserting social power.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:48 PM
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No, its called being socially competent. You are probably a working class low educated type
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:36 PM
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The slav girls from south eastern european families I know were more conservative sexually. I don't know why that offends you. The girl I am seeing sister literally never had a boyfriend at age 24, despite having active social life. Her parents make her come home to them every night she can't randomly stay over at a mans home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:33 PM
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Its not communication that makes women feel the sex shes having is "bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:31 PM
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Guess he'll just have to deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:29 PM
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Kelly Brook Bikini Is not overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:28 PM
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Why do you deserve what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:10 PM
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How can we do that if we dont have bwc/bbcs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:09 PM
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Shouldnt you be mad at those women making all that fucked up content that is messing up your mans head and causing him to have fucked up standards for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:08 PM
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Yes porn inhibits pair bonding. Its literally mentally getting off to another human who is outside of your "pair"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:03 PM
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What if he doesn't like flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:01 PM
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Many men are selfish and lazy lovers who have no idea how to please a woman Its not because they are lazy and selfish. Its because it is very difficult to please a woman sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:00 PM
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IF thats the case then why do you women freak the fuck out when a man doesn't want to have sex with you every minute of the day. Or needs a little help and time getting hard. Fucking hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:54 PM
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So only a small percentage of men are worth having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:52 PM
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You don't worry at all that having sex with hot men will make you see your future husband as less than in comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:39 PM
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Again, thats not being a doormat. Thats being boring. Most who don't share their opinion often, just don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:37 PM
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Does that include sex too? I should just do whatever I want to her. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:35 PM
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Haha, well thats just my speculation. I didn't say they valued being virgins, I said their family culture lead them to be this way. One of them just found some guy on halloween and has started to have sex, it could be that they have sky high standards and just haven't liked any of the men enough who have approached them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:34 PM
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it can feel like a very empty relationship. That has nothing to do with being a doormat. What you are talking abut is charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:06 AM
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What is an example of doormate behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:05 AM
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Women are used by casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:03 AM
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Men do understand how women value men, thats why men date down and settle. Because women are psychos with a laundry list of requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:02 AM
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That is my instinct. But I also know knock outs that were virgins until 23/24. Like these serbian twins with legit modelling careers. But its cultural. These girls were from cultures that valued things like that, not you typical slut pornified American girl. THese girls were from immigrant families and they cared about what their families thought of them. PDD girls don't give no shits about what their parents think of them, they are just looking to get their rocks off and stroke their egos
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:00 AM
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I can complain about women being stupid egotistical and delusional all I want. Men can't afford to be like that because we end up alone without self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:54 AM
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Hot women don't offer up sex for free like hot men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:52 AM
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Sounds like he doesn’t have much self respect. No. He sounds like a smart man that understands women are bitches and hard to please and only want "the best". Hence all the single lonely 30+ women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:44 PM
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Youre definitely splitting hairs. Lots of men will try out a woman for a few months
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:32 PM
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Women are having way more partners than boomers. Higher n-counts. They are truly sampling the rainbow. Because apparently all they are looking for is "compatibility" (ie. giving them tingles). Plus the learn from their sluty friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:31 PM
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The market already assorts by itself. No its doesn't. Millions of middle aged women are alone. If a man’s self esteem is so low that he feels he has to “stoop”, and a woman’s self esteem is so low that she feels she needs to put up with certain treatment, then they are probably more alike than he’d prefer. Nope. You don't understand men at all. Dating down has NOTHING to do with self esteem as a man. Its a matter of skill and inborn traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:25 PM
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Average men are with twig women because they cannot attract women with curves and proportions that are similar to porn stars. Living women with big fat asses and compromising on dating overweight women to get this fix is exactly what it looks like, a compromise. Attractive men don't want to be with some woman with a huge gut,fupa, flappy arms and neck fat. Most fat women do not even have nice asses which is 90% of why a man would consider a fat woman for sex. These are facts. The funniest thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:02 PM
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Looks only gets you scraps as a man. It gets you easy sexual access to women below your league, IE. women who are uglier than you. Getting attractive women (as a physically attractive man) is far more complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:57 PM
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So you see betas everywhere and just a few alphas. What a lovely view of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:54 PM
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But after the honeymoon hormones wore off I do feel like we’re in the same general “league.” Sometimes I feel like I’m the catch and other times I feel like he actually is, lol. That just means he has a beta personality and you were focused on his superficial shell. I think it’s because they’re actually compatible in some way No its because hes not valuable enough to attract his looksmatch. Its a sad existence. I live it everyday. Its called being good looking without charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:49 PM
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Were definitely going out on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:47 PM
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Yes. Everyone knows what their sexuality is and what gets them going and knows when it will PREVENT you from having any kind of relationship with an attractive woman. Thats why submissive male porn fetishes are everywhere online, yet never admitted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:46 PM
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As a woman you can just seek those out at will, its called casual sex/hook up culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:44 PM
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So you want men to treat you like people they don't have sex with? Like just a regular ol' joe?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:00 PM
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Sounds like you know a lot of dumb poorly educated men. We are the ones constantly carrying the mental load and trying to keep the relationship running smoothly The man leads during all aspects of the relationship, yet YOU are the ones keeping it running smoothly lmao? Sure. All I hear from you is emotions. Why don't you date women and eat pussy if you want an emotional woman as a partner. You can't handle mens emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:55 AM
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Men often hook up below their league, but rarely date (for a relationship) below their league unless something is wrong. I am dating below my league as we speak. Its very common. Dating just means consistent sex. "Hook ups" are rare and difficult to achieve consistently outside of college ages, because most women have responsive sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:47 AM
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would u really turn down a 10 if she asked ? Yes I would turn her down depending on how she asked or what she was seeking, I would not want to date a woman who isn't very attracted to me but just wants to give me a go to try me out cause shes bored or in between better guys or something. That to me is demeaning and an assault on my ego. I want to be the prize. To me its not an opportunity or fun experience to be with someone obviously more attractive than you, its an opportunity for humiliation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:42 AM
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Having sex doesn't give someone sexual charisma. I've been with 25-30ish people sexually and know I lack sexual charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:42 AM
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. So I have to form a deep emotional connection with some one. Youre describing the vast majority of women. safe sex is practiced with my pleasure in mind What about their pleasure, ever considered that? polyamorous communities. Ugly degenerates. I know plenty of gays that do not respect such types. Just to be clear you don't hang out with "queer communities" you hang out with a very specific niche, a slice of queer people, who have the same esthetic bent as you. There are far more types of LGBT…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:29 AM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:23 AM
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Women with mindsets like yours are needed for superior men to practice on them, use them for sex, relationship experience and the like before moving on to what they really want. You are a perfect placeholder girlfriend. Few months of meet and greet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:21 AM
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A better question is would you be with a man lacking in sexual charisma. Which is most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:19 AM
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Why would you only date queer males. Thats equally strange. Are you conventionally attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:16 AM
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You'd sweep it under the rug.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:15 AM
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Working out doesn't give you a huge ass regardless. Youre born with it. Finally, men always liked asses, they've been fucking them for millions of years. Just because white people weren't crude enough to make a song slobbering over big asses, doesn't mean they lacked an interest in ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:12 AM
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You didn't answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:10 AM
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Just lies, misdirection, obfuscation. Just say you don't find homosexuality in men masculine. And that its icky for you. So sad to see you twist yourself up over this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:08 AM
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Most bi guy aren't in denial, they just know women are bitches who would not expect them or see them as masculine studs anymore. They instantly become "not real men" in the eyes of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:03 AM
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What are you going to do when you find your hubby looking up some tranny porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:02 AM
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Thats retarded. Men with small dicks love fat asses just as much as hung men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 05:00 AM
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How does this logic follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:58 AM
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No its complete bullshit. Indians make the most per capita in the US, blacks make the least. Look who does better with white women on the street. Sure it helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:57 AM
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Because shes white and hasn't went all in on the crazy leftist libtard feminazi narrative that all hollywood actresses must swallow to be praised by terminally online feminizai losers like the type that popular r/ popularculture and other celeb stalking corners of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:56 AM
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Ya it is. You are most likely indoctrinated. Teenagers can't process politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:53 AM
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But I think it’s one of those things where if you go without it long enough you start to not miss it as much That just means you have an extremely reactive sexuality, basically low libido. Which is common with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:52 AM
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So are you saying I'm "paying" the girl I am seeing when we went to a magic show last week? Shes just a prostitute sugar baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:51 AM
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Get to what point? What behavior changes? More vague stuff. Are you saying your behavior never changes in a relationship? You are static? I think you need to admit you aren't that great and those guys didn't think you were worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:50 AM
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Well millions of them are alone. Failures. Maybe if they were hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:48 AM
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And you have to keep flirting, wooing and making us feel desirable. Seems like its easier to just date down as a man. Than you don't have to worry about that as much because youre the best shes going to do. You just have to make her know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:47 AM
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Right, cause they didn't like her that much. She was just good enough. When men do not court they get zero, nothing, zilch. Courting is bare minimum. Yet you crazy birds call this 'lying" lmao. What a crazy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:44 AM
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Right so youre a failure. You can't secure a man that makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:43 AM
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Thats sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:42 AM
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Sounds like you have a clear eyed view of human motivation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:41 AM
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Uh no. There are men that are too good for you. That would not choose you because they know they can do better. Are you really this narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:41 AM
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Ya, I'd say so. He was probably just going to use you for sex but his heart would not have been in it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:40 AM
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Lets stop the black and white thinking. A 40 year old going after a 20 year old is messed up. On both their ends. Talk about desperate.... A 25 year old? Starting to be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:04 PM
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Most of the time shes not being paid, hes just doing the same things he'd be doing for some wrinkly hag. Dating stuff. Fun dates. Gifts. And in the end they still can't pull hotties if they aren't moderately attractive at least. Some thug at a club as a better chance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:02 PM
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it made me think either these 35-40 year olds were full of shit or very stunted and immature themselves if they're able to see a high schooler as their equal in maturity. They were. But it works on stupid girls unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:00 PM
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Not to mention, the frequency in which rich men do actively seek out younger women who can be bought to be his arm candy. As opposed to an wrinkled hag as his arm candy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:59 PM
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No one I know IRL is bothered by age gap couples once you get beyond a certain age. Everyone knows a significant portion of women like older men. The cradle snatchers, Jeff Epstein "I like 16 year olds" are another story. No one is bothered by a 25 year old dating a 40 year old, except maybe her dad. But I do find womens attraction to older men disturbing. Even though its socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:58 PM
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Thats just so vague. It sounds like they just decided they did not like you, but you are framing it as them lying to you.... lmao. Strange. Sounds like incel logic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:55 PM
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lol so dudes just stopped caring about you months into the relationship? Interest? Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:52 PM
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Why is a college aged young women concerning herself with politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:51 PM
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Women love sexually performative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:50 PM
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Why aren't the mods release new topics. They only approve like 2 posts everyday. Are they trying to kill this place and end any discussion? They are really fucking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:48 PM
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So you are fine never having sex again if you don't meet the perfect man. Or will you start doing the hook up, choose a bull from the stable, kind of lifestyle that single middle aged women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:46 PM
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Thats because you are fucking out of your league and/or have a uninteresting personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:44 PM
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As a man with tons of money, comfort, luxury and career pride, I don't understand women who have these things and do not want a man, it boggles my mind. So you want to succeed in every facet of your life and then utterly fail in relationships and be an aging cat lady? Does not compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:42 PM
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Why don't you give a few examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:40 PM
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Its weird that you don't desire a partner for sex. Maybe you don't have a high sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:39 PM
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My city is is literally 1/4 black, 1/4 mexican, 1/4 white and 1/4 mystery meat. you don't now what your talking about when it comes to American demographics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:36 PM
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And the rat race continues
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:59 PM
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Women definitely tease men en mass in society. Its part of the power they hold "ha ha I give sex and you can't have any". Or even "I could be a slut for you, but I'm going to be vanilla instead sorry boo". Meanwhile men pretty much do whatever they asked to sexually, provided they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:42 PM
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Not when you want a madonna and a whore at the same time after experiencing both. Settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:39 PM
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some average man What if youre not average. But to answer your question women love getting attention from strangers. Its egoism. Women love the balls, the boldness of the approach, the "stranger" trying to charm her. Most men just do not have those skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:34 PM
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Thats the case for most these days. too many options
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:32 PM
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Dating is finding someone who values you, not someone who is the best person for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:06 PM
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Theres nothing wrong with how I feel. You can keep your feelings to, idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:19 PM
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It's a mutual building of sexual tension. Thats how the woman may feel, not the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:10 PM
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What if the content is PDD women and their dehumanizing opinions of men and sexual/romantic value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:05 PM
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Someone's low self esteem isn't mine to fix by having sex immediately. I don't care what you do. I'm telling you what makes men feel alive and sexy. Not that you care. So the longer the tension builds, the hotter the sex. Unfortunately, no. Maybe if shes talking dirty during the days, weeks of build up. Theres ways she could make it not be lame, but most of the time it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:03 PM
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So all dick is desperate? Uh ok. Enjoy being alone if you hate dick so much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:01 PM
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It is paint by numbers for men. The timing of when a woman chooses to have sex with you is a major factor in how hot the sex is. Thats my experience. I've had different timings. The longer the build up, the less validation I receive. And I feel less sexy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:55 PM
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Promiscuity isn't defined by how quickly someone has sex. Then what would you call someone who has sex quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:41 PM
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Theres all types of dick
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:40 PM
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Because he fucks her and establishes the energy in the relationship. Without setting the tone of the relationship, none of that other stuff you mentioned matters in a womans mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:26 PM
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Thats cause your dating a passive man. I don't like having to choose and plan everything but its part of being a man. Saying "idk you pick" is forcing you to cater to him. Hes feeling like a little princess in those times.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:18 PM
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Yet women in the West harp about being victims more than their grandmothers ever did. Somethings wrong with their brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:16 PM
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Woman in another sub posting about finding most casual sex she had boring or unsatisfying. Says this That was the other big problem. The "great sex" guys turned out to be awful people. I couldn't continue seeing them, even though they blew my mind. Does this track with you ladies? The men who gave you the most exciting pleasurable sex were "bad" guys? How does someone "blow your mind" if you don't like them as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:13 PM
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I like the gossip they spin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 01:59 PM
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Women can order up dick on the apps or in the club for free. Men pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 01:54 PM
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I don't even know what this means. Same day you met them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:57 AM
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Sounds like you have had sex very quickly. What a boring posting style, maybe if you were more honest it would be interesting, but your ego is too big.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:05 AM
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Everyday its changing. America is a better test case than brazil by far. In the porn world the interracial competition is already over. Most groups lost. Sports and music, whites are on the back foot in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:57 AM
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Semantics. Splitting hairs. Even playing video games 2 hours a day means you are a turbo nerd with very little social life. I know multiple men who play too many video games, are very fit, own their own property, and certainly have not been able to find a similar built young woman who wants to do the same. Because she does not exist. Youre premise was silly because you assumed everyone who plays too many video games or lacks a social life is ugly. You ignored my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:31 PM
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"Be charismatic, have a great dick, be tall, be a good flirter". Oh ya great "advice". All performance based metrics that rely on someones natural disposition and genetics. Super helpful.... Also, if you’re a socially awkward guy that spends 10 hours playing video games, your best bet is to try to find a socially awkward girl who also spends a lot of times playing video games. Just keep in mind she’s most likely not gonna look like an IG model and is probably a weirdo herself. Why would she not …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:10 PM
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Sure I guess, if its honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:02 PM
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If you divorced would you date a woman that had 20 sexual partners before you. Given that you've only had 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:49 PM
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Men who receive pure and honest sexual validation are happy at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:48 PM
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I think your title should be 4 types of unmarried men over 30. In that case, yours is not a terrible summary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:47 PM
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I don't like crazy women. I like hot women who have similar thoughts on hot sex as me. Why is it that women says that only crazy women are good in bed? I always see women saying this. If you are crazy, the second I cum, I want to be away from you. I can't even enjoy sex if you are crazy, I am just thinking of all your bs and walking on eggshells.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:37 PM
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ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:33 AM
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The type of people shes fucked, the type of thoughts she has about people shes fuckd.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:31 AM
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social status and social skills go hand in hand
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:30 AM
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enough do to ruin mens feelings on women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:28 AM
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America is. All kinds here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:50 AM
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You deny that a blonde white woman is not a status symbol around the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:32 PM
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They are divorcing because of lack of sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:31 PM
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Women dump men all the time because of their dicks and seek out men based on racial dick stereotypes and rumors. Just ask any black guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:30 PM
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see lots of people fetishise it Little girls talking about adolescent crushes is not predictive of who they have sex with AND fetishize as mature adults. And isn’t the most commune type of girl on porn, anime and Asian? No? Shes white. Fucking a white guy or black guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:54 PM
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Hahaha. Just go look at whose walking on whose arms in major American cities. Its not "k-pop" couples. Whatever you don't care. Head in sand. You know every non-white man around the world watches porn every day of white girl, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:46 PM
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No its harder for asian men as well. I think only black men came out on top. It doesn't help that all non-white men around the world fetishize white women as sexual status symbols, increasing the competition for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:40 PM
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I had FBWs with a woman who dated a transman (actually at the same time b/c shes poly) and she definitely still cared about penis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:19 PM
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I’d rather a little freak who knows what he’s doing and isn’t full of himself. Still will select for a big penis. The fact that women have so much sluty sex that they find the average man to be "bad" at sex, says it all really.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:13 PM
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Women love sexually experimenting with exciting, tall hung charismatic "red flags".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:51 PM
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Its definitely harder for men to date now that they have to compete against men of different races.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:49 PM
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In the past you would not have been allowed to be a slut and develop your disparaging views against 'average' men as a result of copulating with above average men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:45 PM
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women couldn't open a bank account or get a mortgage until 1974 This not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:43 PM
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Just as many ended up liking their spouse, raising beautiful families because they hadn't experienced chad/tyrone thundercock to compare against.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:42 PM
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Women haven't grown tired of guys in general. They are more and more often the exotic bird collectors that men were in the past. The guard rails have been removed from women in terms of their sexual behavior unless they come from particularly robust family backgrounds. Just look at how many of them choose to go into porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:36 PM
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