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Where I live, most women are liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:30 PM
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I don't even understand how that would work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:36 PM
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Casual sex and casual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:32 PM
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Ok, how does this change the fact that the left parties are inviting in millions from african and middle east that look at women as property?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:27 PM
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Oh youve never called someone a bitch before? Youre such a silly goose with this framing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:25 PM
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I don't control a womans desires I just observe them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:14 PM
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THey do like me as myself. If they didn't like me as myself, how would we date and have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:13 PM
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No, its more like an analysis of reality. I have been dealing with this stuff for over a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:12 PM
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If he didn't want that desire or fetish anymore he could try therapy or abstaining from the fetish till he doesn't want to do it. The whole point of a fetish is that its a compulsion you come back to even when you don't want to. Its like you don't understand this stuff at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:09 PM
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Yea. Autism. Autogynephilia. Late stage identification. These are all elements of a type of trans identity that is different from true trans people who imbibe a stronger identity of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:07 PM
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But more and more white women are doing it every year. 15 years ago this context did not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:03 PM
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Cuckhold is like THE definition of an emasculating fetish... you don't understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:02 PM
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Interracial. Would be black on white, white on black. ect. What are the stats for those?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:01 PM
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I'm not a cuck, this thread is just about humiliation and emasculation, cuckhold is a big one for that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:00 PM
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Yes, for casual sex its conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:51 PM
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Because its destroying young white boys self esteem when they stumble upon this garbage and it gets etched into their brains seeing a giant black cock go into a white ass with a tattoo saying black owned on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:50 PM
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Maybe your just obsessed with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:49 PM
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What about interracial rape and murders? What are the stats on those?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:49 PM
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Its funny that a female wants to identify as a male but then keep acting like a typical sexually submissive female
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:48 PM
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Uh, because I have a deep understanding of transgenderism and the various subgroups that occupy these labels. Shes a transtrender, not a trannsexual. Well to be more specific, she has autism, which makes her have these weirdo identities instead of just living in reality. Most autistic people are not real transgenders, they just lack strong identities nd are easily persuaded by niche online subcultures
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:47 PM
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Well its just funny that she identifies as a boy but is one of the most submissive women I have ever met
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:44 PM
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I have high integrity, just not for casual sex and relationships, just like how women operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:44 PM
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Cuckholding is emasculating. Its like you don't understand men or their insecurities at all, despite being a "dom"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:43 PM
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Who cares if someone else finds them delusional. Spoken like someone who has had an endless conga line of men sniffing after them her entire life. Who has never in her life had challenges with stumbling into relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:40 PM
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Theres lot of things that women like that don't turn me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:38 PM
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How is what I said personal bigotry. No, most illegal immigrants are brown, not black.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:37 PM
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Not all conservatives are anti-gay, anti-lgbt. So none of what you wrote applies to any sort of conflict I would have, besides the children thing which again has nothing to do with politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:36 PM
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What does humiliating a man for having a small penis and wanting to fuck a hung bull instead have to do with being compared to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:27 PM
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Uh no? Shes not a real trans person anyway and does not face discrimination like you are describing. I have sympathy for actual trans people, one of my good friends is trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:26 PM
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I'm not lying about my values. I share the same values as these women. I only date nice kind people who are empathetic and caring, cause thats how I am and not bitches and evil cunts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:24 PM
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I don't know if they are or arent They aren't. THeres no black women making porn saying they are owned by white men and obsessed by white dick. But let's be real what you're mad about here. White women dating black men No, I am mad about queen of spades white women who act like sexual slaves for black men and get PERMENANT TATTOOS showing their fetish for black men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:22 PM
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When you are not in a position of power, its ok to lie. If things are equal, then sure no lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:21 PM
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Like what important decision? What decisions in family life would be impacted by federal politics and geopolitical policy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:18 PM
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I am acting in my own interests. Being my own man, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:17 PM
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Why aren't black women doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:16 PM
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Well its pretty relevant. When you remove black people, then illegal immigrants commit more violent crime for sure. Just pointing this out for the audience, so they are fully informed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:11 PM
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So you expect him to cater to your needs that he gets nothing out of, but not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:10 PM
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Its more that women like No_Teacher have created a lemming culture amongst women, so that even women who do not care about politics feel the need to virtue signal and show they are a part of the "in crowd" the "good people" and then try to "vet" politics. Women have a herd mentality. So they themselves are not mentally ill, but just lemmings. But people like No_teacher, the ring leaders who give women anxiety about politics, they are the mentally ill ones
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:09 PM
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Well the ones I dated were not mentally ill so much. They just wanted to feel like they weren't dating a trumper or whatever, once that was out of the way they never talked about politics again. It was all for esthetics, they didn't actually even know anything about politics. Thats women for ya, shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:07 PM
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so a woman lying over whether she's seeing something else is fine Ya...? Women lie about that shit all the time. They tell men "its none of your business, I'm an independent woman, I can do what I want and sleep with who I want".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:04 PM
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Oh ya, my favorite is my FWB genderqueer, I call her "he" because she identifies as a boy. Shes been coming over for over a year now. She does whatever I want, very submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:03 PM
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Well you seem focused on whether or not they were foreign, so how did you know they weren't foreign?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:02 PM
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Most of your positions do not allow me to maintain enough friction on my dick to keep it hard
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:01 PM
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Like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:00 PM
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Thats not true at all. Someone can be leftist and evil and someone can be conservative and an amazing person, or vice versa. For example I am not awful, I am good to everyone in my life. Its mentally ill lefty women like yourself that would call me "awful" because of basic ass politics, honestly ppl like you sicken me with your attitudes towards people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:58 PM
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Its ok to lie over inconsequential things. Women do it during dating all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:56 PM
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I know multiple gays who voted for trump
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:55 PM
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I had shit stain central american migrants catcall two girls I was walking with in my city and almost start a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:54 PM
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Thats only if you include black people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:52 PM
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Oh, you think men like having humiliating emasculating fetishes that make you feel worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:50 PM
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Its easy, done it multiple times. Well I was forced to, because women like you who are obsessed with politics are mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:49 PM
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Its easy, done it many times. Well I was forced to, because women like you who are obsessed with politics are mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:49 PM
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Its fun to sniff women like you out and tell you what you want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:33 PM
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MOST women are not out there doing stuff like that. Why are so many white women doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:22 PM
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so it's like, oral/oral, missionary, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, doggy, c*m shot, right? a lot of the positions keep the performers somewhat at a distance for camera angles, etc. Thats literally just basic sex that the vast majority of people have. How is that "porn sex"? i'm looking for something more organic, close, and personal. i want to look in each other's eyes, make out passionately, hold each other, focus on what the other person seems to really respond to, not just mimicking something i'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:19 PM
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But most women are soft spoken. They all have social anxiety?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:16 PM
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Uh, so who are these liberal lefty women going to date then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:13 PM
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What does this have to do with putting down women? We are talking about humiliating men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:11 PM
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Men with emsaculating kinks posts there stuff all over the internet and tell everyone who will listen what they think of their kinks. You don't have to be a detective. Somehow women STILL mistinterpret what is going on in a mans sexual mind
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:09 PM
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Nope. If you are taking dick, you are the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:07 PM
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If you get dicked down, you don't have a "purely" dominant sexuality. Or even primarily dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:34 PM
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Oh, so you don't get fucked by penises, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:31 PM
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False. Many of those women are not making much money. They only released a couple videos in their whole life. How are they making money from 4 videos released for 14.99$? But they desperately wanted to release videos with black men for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:28 PM
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The reality is those women having sex with those men. Women don't even have to show their identity anymore, they make porn of themselves with their faces blurred, so they can do all that kinky fucked up shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:13 PM
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Porn is facts. Its a factual account of who women are fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:09 PM
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Women don't have domination kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:07 PM
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She said submission is kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:06 PM
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As I said, you fit the stereotype of a childfree woman. Carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:45 PM
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Not die alone, you will have lots of kinky sex with many men. Thats what women like you do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:43 PM
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Do you think white women will ever make big asian dick porn, or do you think for the rest of my life white women will just stick to bbc?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:11 PM
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Like men valuing each other over how many women they sleep with Thats not how men value each other. Thats how women value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:10 PM
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Oh, would you be ok if your daughter wanted to be "black owned" and fetishized black men? Do you think those black men who dominate white women sexually are racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:09 PM
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men Women police its boundaries. Women decide who real men are and reward them with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:07 PM
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Ya why discuss anything. Its all just fairy dust and individuals. No trends to see, nuh uh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:06 PM
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How am I racist? Its the white women tattoing themselves and saying they only like bbc and want to be owned by black men...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:04 PM
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If you have a kink from porn, it already consumed you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:03 PM
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Nearly all male kinks are derived from porn. So youre out of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:00 PM
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Its all the white porn actresses making bbc race play porn. They wear tattoos on their asses saying they are sexually owned by black men, then they film themselves having sex with black men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:59 PM
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Ah you never met a woman who enjoys sex with large dicked men who take control in the bedroom. Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:58 PM
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What about when the woman has a "black owned queen of spades" tattoo on her ass? Do they block that out too?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:57 PM
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Ya? They choose other "industry" people to "collaborate" with. They literally message each other on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:56 PM
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Thats been my experience with child-free women. Sex obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:55 PM
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humongous dick Not humongous, you just want a big, large dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:53 PM
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Its sad that you think humiliating men is freeing for them instead of just locking them in a mental cage of their own sexual dysfunction
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:50 PM
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Most women don't want a massive dick either Ah most women. But you want one. Got it. More doublespeak gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:50 PM
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Huh? Are you asking why I am uncomfortable seeing my race of women being sexually dominated by another race of man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:49 PM
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It’s just a sexual response A sexual response caused by women. Its womens sexuality that damages mens sexuality and creates these kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:46 PM
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Ya women only choose certain men to film having sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:45 PM
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I'm a man so whatever I do is masculine Thats pretty silly and untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:44 PM
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You think porn represents the average woman's sex life so much so that women are doing even crazier shit behind closed doors? Not crazier shit, the same shit. You will have to tell me why women like being dominated by hung men and be within their sexual power. I can't explained that, I am not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:43 PM
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You’re judging them. Not me. No, its women who judge them. Thats why men develop humiliation kinks, because of female sexuality, hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:35 PM
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My question was what if your boyfriend admitted to you. My question was not would you participate. I am sensing you would dump him even if he did not want to participate in anything humiliating or submissive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:33 PM
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Anyone who looks at your profile can see that you are an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:29 PM
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"they aren't REALLY interested in that, they're just attracted to it because they're told to!" Lots of things. Race for example. Prudishness and sluttiness, they take cues from their friends about how to organize their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:28 PM
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I highly doubt they would never have developed those kinks on their own without the internet. Why? Its weird how you framing your statements as coming from a place of logic when they are super illogical. Humans are a social species and there sexuality is influenced by other members of the group. Evo-psych validates the idea that kinks are social contagions and viral re-wirings of brain pathways that DID NOT need to occur but once it occurred continues to propagate itself within the mind of the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:26 PM
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Why do you judge men negatively who like this dynamic? I don't. I'm asking women about it. Its women who are judging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:24 PM
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they usually don’t give us orgasms except when they do, then those men are superior
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:22 PM
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Women never understand kinks from the male perspective, you live in la la land
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:22 PM
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She fetishes your age. Your her "daddy"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:59 PM
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Having a sissy bitch as a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:54 PM
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Take chastity. It’s about control. Letting someone else be in control of your sexuality, your ability to orgasm. No, that kink is primarily about your penis being worthless and cannot pleasure a woman because its too small. The men who told you it was about control just lied to you about their true feelings of why they found it erotic and humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:54 PM
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You want an exciting man to use and dominate you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:52 PM
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It also leads to them (women) all liking the same things sexually. Herd mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:51 PM
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who?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:44 PM
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I think everyone reading this conversation will make their own judgements about who is making more reasonable statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:44 PM
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Wouldn't it be more productive to build up his self esteem so he doesn't feel the need to humiliate himself because he feels less than? Than to reinforce his humiliating feelings and make them more and more real?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:43 PM
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You indulge in them all the time, they are just playing in his head in background as you have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:41 PM
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doesn’t effect our daily lives You don't think sex effects peoples daily lives? Their self esteem and ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:34 PM
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Its the same thing. In both scenarios the man is humiliated. It doesn't matter if its "roleplay". Humiliation in "roleplay" is still humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:33 PM
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Wow, life must be simple in your little world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:32 PM
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Oh, are you turned off by a man who feels emasculated?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:31 PM
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What about your husband, father of your children?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:17 PM
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No, I think watching your wife get fucked by another man is more humiliating than acting the scene out in a movie where there is no sex and its not your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:15 PM
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Ah so its just about consent. As long as everything is consented to, you are fine with your man being into everything and anything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:14 PM
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All you have to do is sleep with another man and then tell the guy his dick was bigger and felt better to humiliate a man. It can be completely divorced from "domination"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:09 PM
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Why would a woman only film with black men if she doesn't prefer black men? Or only do anal if she doesn't prefer anal? Only do exhibitionist outdoor sex if she doesn't find that exciting? Especially when there are so many ways to make money selling porn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:07 PM
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Well, sex role play works exactly the same You believe men who cum from feeling humiliated.... don't feel humiliated...?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:05 PM
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Bringing women into your sexual control and dominating them has nothing to do with rape. Because its what the women want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:04 PM
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disgusting You just said emasculation kinks are cool. And now you are saying they are disgusting....? Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:04 PM
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humiliated - submissive So all women are humiliated in sex then? When did vanilla sex become humiliating for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:32 PM
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Emasculation and humiliation kinks are separate from feeling "bad" or "good", its simply arousal. there's nothing really emasculating of any kink How can you say that with a straight face? So if your man wanted to wear a chastity cage while you are fucked by another man thats not emasculating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:30 PM
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Great response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:27 PM
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You’re telling me I get to dominate my big beefy meaty man? Probably not. I said emasculation and humiliation, not being submissive towards a woman (that is even more common)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:23 PM
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Thats incorrect. Humans are social creatures and pick up sexualities, ideas, and emotions through social contagion and exposure all the time. Many people have kinks these days that would be impossible to have 50 years ago, because there was no exposure, now they cum to it when they are 10 years old and then it becomes a facet of their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:21 PM
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Instead you will live your life devoted to kinky sex. Men love women like you, without those other things, your only devotion will be to which ever men give you dopamine and get your little brain all excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:17 PM
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I can guarantee you that you're not being rejected by most women because you won't degrade them. Women reject men for not putting them in their place sexually. They are submissive. Ok so stop looking up what makes other men hard to get mad at women. I won't stop analyzing the behavior of women and which men they choose to submit to their sexual power.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:13 PM
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All the men you've ever slept with watched porn while dating you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:11 PM
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like any habit it only takes a few months to get out of anyway Hahahaha. YOu realize all your exes watched porn and just hid it from you right? You think they kick SEXUAL habits they developed at 8 years old in a few months or because they found a new shiny object (you)?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:03 PM
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many don't even like rough sex of any kind. They still want to be under male sexual power, regardless of how they want to experience that power. They want to be used and taken and treated like a sexual doll by men they deem attractive. You're just fantasizing that women as a group want to be treated poorly in the way that turns you on. Full stop. I don't get hard from degradation. I RESENT women for NEEDING to be degraded by a man and for GIVING themselves WILLINGLY to men who degrade them. Then…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:52 PM
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You still did it with them because they pushed for it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:47 PM
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Agreed, in the end you have to come with the attitude of taking the pussy. Women don't respect meek men, they want a man who wants to take them forcefully "overcome with desire". Thats what porn shows us as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:45 PM
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Because ya'll prefer to see women and not men? The fuck kind of weird ass reasoning is this? You just ignored my statement. If porn is only for male gaze then why do all the women porn creators never choose asian men to fuck them for example? But you're fucking delusional if you think porn made primarily for men has fuck all to do with women's actual desires. Women love getting dominated by men with big dicks. THats womens actual desires. Women film their desires and film the men they like havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:41 PM
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I am pretty sure the porn agency invites the male and female actors, not that a female actor will bring her own guest. Most porn is not through an agency. You think all the OF hoes use agencies? Porn is different "content creators" who look for other "Creators" to "collaborate with". It just so happens that the men women collaborate with all appear to be very similar to each other. Also, I saw many reddit posts from men participating in BDSM too. And? Whats your point? Mine is that porn shows th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:38 PM
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Why do women like you always represent the only way to be "good" at sex is giving you oral sex? Do you only sleep with men whose penises don't feel good inside you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:35 PM
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Older fathers are definitely a cause for autism Thats not correct. THey do not know the factors that go into autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:34 PM
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You don't have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:45 AM
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Some No, not some. Only some show themselves being degraded. But all women place themselves in the sexual power of a man in porn, and it has nothing to do with his niceness. It has more to do with his penis size, how he fucks, the naughty things he says to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:44 AM
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So yes, you rim them if they ask and are nice and clean, cool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:42 AM
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So yes, you rim them if they ask and are nice and clean, cool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:41 AM
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No, I am saying porn shows women don't care about kindness or men being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:37 AM
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rim them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:35 AM
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Slamming a penis into a vagina is inherently violent. No. Most women are choosing to have sex with hung dominant alphas because it makes their pussies wet, not because of money, or any other incentive beyond sex. Women film themselves having fun sex that they love, all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:29 AM
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Huh? Whats it like being this ignorant of history but jabbing into a discussion to spray your opinion "as a brit"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:27 AM
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So do women go to sex parties to make money?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:23 AM
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Porn is made for the male gaze Using imagery of female sexuality. Its women having sex. You can't hand waive that away. We have thousands of visual examples of women having sex, choosing to have this sex, and choosing to film themselves doing it. You can't have thousands of women filming themselves doing a sexual act and then say it has nothing to do with female sexuality. We also have candid and amateur and homemade porn to see women having sex how they want to have sex and who they feel PROUD …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:20 AM
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And by the same logic the men acting in those same videos show men don’t like to be nice Yes men like to be worshiped and told they have big powerful cocks, did you not know this? They are not doing it because that’s their personal preference. They certainly seem to have preferences for the type of men they choose to film having sex with. It shows that women are willing to degrade themselves for the right man in the right context. We can also go read all the reddit posts of women who enjoy being…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:18 AM
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But youll piss on them. Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:12 AM
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How are POC at risk of losing personal freedoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:08 AM
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Cause its low value
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:06 AM
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Do you do raceplay?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:04 AM
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Slaves picked cotton and fueled the cash for crop economy of the Southern states. While the more populous Northern states adopted Britains industrial revolution and went onto create the modern American economy. So in your opinion, the real work in America was picking cotton? Not driving the industrial revolution? The industrial revolution was just some side show to picking cotton? America became what it is... because of cotton? Is that your analysis?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:59 AM
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soooo, what? I used to be a bit of femboy, maybe you'll grow out of it like I did ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:46 AM
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It shows good manners and being nice have nothing to do with getting women to have crazy sex with you. Just the visual of a woman consenting to being degraded, choked, humiliated, dominated, and coming back for more, breaks the spell that womens sexuality is morality based. In fact its the opposite, women are turned on by confident sexual abuse and domination of themselves, which are not so nice of qualities to vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:43 AM
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You don't think white people built America....? This is what we are dealing with in this country folks.... ignorance. So you are racially proud and this clouds your perspective, ok carry on racially proud woman. Ya your race is da best!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:39 AM
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So when will they have enough power to warrant receiving criticism? Seems pretty toxic to be free from criticism, isn't that how you raise spoiled children?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:39 AM
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Lots of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:37 AM
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Doesn't matter if they are paid. They are broadcasting examples of female sexuality to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:36 AM
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If its for the male gaze then why are not all males represented equally in porn? The sad reality is that both female and male gaze take from each other and feed from one another. Porn shows women enjoying male sexual power, which all women everywhere also say they enjoy. Is male sexual power not part of female gaze? Don't lie to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:34 AM
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It can't because it's FICTION. No. Those are real women doing those things in real life. It's called ACTING. All sex is acting. even going as far as to learn from fiction No. They are learning by watching WHAT WOMEN DO in real life. Watching the actions of women and seeing what women do with men they are sexually attracted to. Women have the power to choose who to have sex with, and through porn we can see who they have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:30 AM
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That wasn’t the case all over the U.S So where was it the case and where was it not the case. Shouldn't you try to be more specific and clear instead of making broad sweeping generalizations about an entire country?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:24 AM
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Yes but porn shows exactly what you are talking about. Women are literally filming themselves getting choked, spit on, racially degraded. And that is just women who film themselves, what about all the women who have the same fantasies but don't film themselves? Huge numbers. Watching porn helps a man understand female nature, and that women will basically act like sexual slaves for the right man if you push her buttons the right way. And none of those buttons have a label that says "kindness".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:22 AM
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My mom is 70 years old and has always had a bank account. Who are all these brain dead women that did not know how to open bank accounts in the 70s and 80s? I think yall are telling on yourself that your families are full of ignorant, dumb women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:16 AM
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This entire country was built of the backs of my ancestors No, America was built by many groups of people, your ancestors were just one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:13 AM
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When the Left starts criticizing the behavior of women and all those other minority groups you listed, then maybe I will give them another look.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:12 AM
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I think with modern pornography most men realize this now. After watching women not only consenting to but being turned on by being degraded and dominated by male sexual power, how can anyone keep a straight face and say women are SEXUALLY attracted to kindness. In the past womens sexual desire was largely hidden from the public behind closed doors, in marriages. Now hundreds of thousands of women broadcast their sexuality to the entire world to watch, and we can clearly see it has nothing to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:05 AM
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I am talking about guys who take ED meds that SHOULD NOT need ED meds. I am talking about guys who take ED meds that SHOULD NOT need ED meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:17 AM
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Its pretty lame that you think of oral sex as some gift for him. If you don't like sucking his dick and don't find it erotic than just don't do it. There are plenty of women that do actually enjoy sucking dick and the erotic energy it brings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:15 AM
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They're now linking all of those findings to man's sperm quality which gets worse with age. No they aren't. Where did you pick up this misinformation? Womens age is directly correlated to down syndrome risk. I have seen this repeated by reddit women and I was going to make a thread about women peddling medical misinformation to each other to feel better about their biology. You are a perfect example. You can't accept your own biology so now you are left with making up fantasies about mens age be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:09 AM
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this is giving men's sexuality way too much credit/power. No, I am giving it the correct amount of power. Nothing is more powerful than the sexuality of a top man that women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:48 AM
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Men who shouldn’t need ED meds” isn’t a medical category. Huh? This sentence is non-sensical. Btw anyone can become a nurse. Try dental or med school, you wouldn't have made the cut
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:44 AM
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Cause ghetto girls are also trash and give it up at the drop of a hat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:43 AM
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You've never rejected a man because of how they performed in sex? I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:42 AM
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A superior man is one with a bigger penis, more stamina and more sexual charisma. do you think women with high body counts are out there banging johnny sins? They are meeting many more porn dicks than their mothers ever did. THey are also dating outside their race and culture more than their mothers ever did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:40 AM
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we were in a porn film What does that even mean. He wanted you to passionately suck his dick and you didn't want to? I will tell you and other women, that reading womens thoughts on sex online has utterly destroyed my sexual confidence. Knowing that women hate so much of basic sex and find basic sexual positions "porn sex", find a million different things to criticize about mens sexual performance. I now go into sex just assuming she will not have a good time, because if the average man is appar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:36 AM
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So you'd rather he be a meek man and asked you how he should make you feel good and force you to communicate about sex? Or would you have just dumped him for some other "confident" guy who talked a big game and told you he knows what to do with you. Me thinks the later.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:32 AM
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They choose the men, often times when society told them those men were bad choices, but they didn't care, they just followed their pussy tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:30 AM
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Only if its true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:29 AM
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Jfc. I am talking about guys who take ED meds that SHOULD NOT need ED meds. Not 65 year old men whose dicks stop working. I feel I am speaking to an autist so I don't know if I can continue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:50 PM
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ED can be medical issue but its not always a medical issue. How do you not understand this? Hims is targetting who ever will buy the medication and struggles with erections because women place enormous value on a mans erection
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 07:16 PM
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I just told you that there is a rise of men experiencing PIED. Do you think millions of men had PIED in 1970?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:53 PM
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Proof of what? The target demographic of Hims ads? You sound like a child, how am I suppose to have "proof" of any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:47 PM
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I don't know why what I am saying is rubbing you the wrong way or why you think I am "lying" instead of speaking plainly. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:00 PM
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Its not just a medical issue. Sex is psychological. If you don't know about PIED then you don't know much at all about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:45 PM
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So your contradicting yourself. Is it an issue or is it not an issue. I'm not below average in value if thats what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:35 PM
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I would know because I am a man. And I also engage with other men online, and listen to their experiences. And a few in person. I've also talked with prostitutes about men and their erections and heard plenty from them as well about the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:21 PM
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Well is it meaningless to you or not? Its strange to me that you think degrading the value of sex with your partner is a mature thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:20 PM
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I've been with a broad array of people, within a broad array of contexts. I've had good experiences and bad experiences. I wish I had only had good experiences but that is my fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:18 PM
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Oh, how do you feel that you and I view sex differently? To me it seems we have the same views on sex. If what I described is literally what you have, then it sounds like my teenage view of sex is what you wanted all along, and you got it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:15 PM
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How would you know what the average man faces
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:09 PM
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I'm 32. You misunderstood. Sex can be whatever you make it to be. You've decided that its pretty meaningless, just like masturbating. Some people like myself assign for value to it than that. For two people who both feel like they won, sex and MUTUAL orgasm can be the most validating thing in the world. For others they basically just masturbate together, simply transactional. And for others still, one or both barely even enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:08 PM
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Is insecure a buzzword you use to wave away anything that makes you uncomfortable in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:56 PM
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Cause they are fucked up. People are ashamed of things they should be ashamed of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:55 PM
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I’m sorry you’ve never had a partner that feels the same way so you can’t understand. Nah, I just did and dumped her ass. She didn't understand that her catering to me sexually instead of having her own sexuality that I fit into, was a turn off. I want to be the prize, not have you follow along meekly like a cum receptacle. Your attitude towards sex, is lacking so much value. I'm unsure how your husband finds it fulfilling. Where is the sense of accomplishment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:54 PM
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sure....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:49 PM
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I guess all those ED pills are for just imaginary lmao. ED pills still require mental and psychological arousal and all the factors I just mentioned. I use them myself from time to time, why would you have any idea how they work, youre a woman. If your sexual experiences are “lame” Many women would fine having sex with me lame after having sex with superior men. Its part of the burden of performance that men have. And why would I purposely lie about a fake scenario when my husband already knows …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:48 PM
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Whatever you are watching that you are embarrassed to talk to him about. Apparently its interesting enough to stare at and orgasm to but not interesting enough to share with your potential life partner.... make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:41 PM
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How is watching porn the equivalent of having a real sexual encounter? What a dumb thing to try to compare How is it not. Hes literally producing the same pleasure chemicals in his brain as when he cums in you. Its the same response. And if its tailored to a specific kink of his, he probably has a STRONGER orgasm to porn than he does to you. we have built over almost 20 years You are a text book example of WHY men argue for monogamy, suppressing female hypergamy, and maintaining low N count. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:40 PM
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Erectile dysfunction is a treatable medical condition. No, its largely psychological. If something turns a man on he will get erect. Given he is not distressed, anxious, distracted, feeling unconfident. Confidence is required psychologically for a mans erection. Which is why men lie to themselves about how good they are at sex, the alternative is to not even get hard and complete sex. wondering about if she’s had better with others If shes had better with others then why would I be turned on by …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:37 PM
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Ghetto kids have sex in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:29 PM
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Cause he wouldn't measure up. Damn thats so crazy that other men occupy a region of your mind and your sexuality that he will never access, those guys literally live rent free in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:26 PM
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great, enjoy not caring, idgaf. He'd definitely care what your porn habits are. Do you hide that from him? Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:23 PM
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I am in competition with no one so women on a screen are zero threat to my relationship or sexuality. How is that any different than him having a quicky with a real woman? She also would pose zero threat to you, after all its just a ONS casual thing, means nothing compared your long standing relationship. Wouldn't that be the best way to show how strong your relationship is and how little you are threatened by other women, have your husband sleep with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:21 PM
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It doesn't bore guys. It doesn't matter if you cared or not. You'd never get him to quit. Your opinion of porn is irrelevant to him quitting, even if you hated porn he would not quit for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:18 PM
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Why spend time worrying about what someone else did when that person (ex-loved) is not part of the present reality. Because knowing I am giving her a great sexual experience is a major part of what makes my dick hard. Do you think a woman would want to be with a man who struggles with erections? Or does she prefer the consistently erect man? My husband is confident in his ability to be a good lover and please me sexually. And same for me. We are focused on pleasing each other not thinking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:16 PM
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Most men are bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:13 PM
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Women think men don't pay attention to them in sex and can't observe how she reacts and what she behaves like in bed. Newsflash, not all men aren't idiots. Maybe enough are though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:10 PM
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Womens sexual templates and appetites are defined by the men they sleep with. Men literally imprint their sexuality onto women. Women have reactive sexuality, they follow men and men define sex for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:09 PM
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Well we will never know, you don't care to know, keep protecting your ego. "Ya he would definitely choose porn over me, hed stop if I asked!" Keep thinking that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:06 PM
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Why are you threatened by the word cope to bring it up, are you some hall monitor? Did you tattle tale a lot as a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:04 PM
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Haha, he still watches THE EXACT SAME STUFF. Get a grip. You think he gave up his favorite asses, scenes, kinks, and actresses for you??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:03 PM
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So your husband decided to bury his head in the sand when it comes to your sexual past. Not every man enjoys being ignorant of his womans sexual past. Some of us care to know more about our sexual partners beyond the superficial, the mundane. And it would only be hurtful to him if the woman is hiding shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:00 PM
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SHe does care. She just assumes her BF doesn't REALLY like porn, that it has no hold over him. Thats how she buries her head. "Oh ya he would give it up for me if I asked him, I just don't care enough to ask him". That is her logic. Its cope. COPE
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:43 PM
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Its obvious how someone would know. Whats crazy is your line of thinking. Why should men be trained to bury their heads in the sand and avoid talking to women about sex, all to go along to get along, to ignore her past lovers?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:41 PM
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Uh, I have been sexually rejected by women because of my performance. I have been in a relationship where a woman described cumming with one man in a way I was never able to do for her. These are lived experiences of men. Why are you denying the male experience, and dismissing something as "fairy dust" simply because its a hypothetical. It sounds like you don't have much experience with sexual rejection, sexual hierarchy, or what happens to women's brains when they experience many types of men s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:32 PM
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Your bf watches porn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:27 PM
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nah, they just tell you that so you will stop bothering them about it. Most men could barely last a week, even with sex with their GFs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:25 PM
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I'm talking about hypotheticals. But regarding your question, it could easily be either, or
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:24 PM
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then most men are porn addicts. Framing something as good until your an "addict" and then its bad, misses the nuance of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:22 PM
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No, I do not believe that men are dogs because they struggle with porn compulsion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:17 PM
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You talk about sex and past lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:16 PM
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Okay. Maybe you'd have more fun if you had honest discussions instead of making crazy statements like which people should be "restricted". If you want to compare mens addiction to porn to womens addiction to sex and attention from high value men, then there is something to that discussion. Very similar phenomena
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:14 PM
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Once shes had better then you don't measure up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:11 PM
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No, I am simply describing to you how porn effects men. And you are burying your head. Yes porn is like a drug for men. And many many men are addicted
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:57 PM
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it's their choice Sure like heroin is a choice. Everythings a choice when you are reductive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:52 PM
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so some women end up choosing men with power even if attraction is thin, or men with looks and social clout even if there’s no depth. In what system would women not choose powerful physically attractive men over others? The problem is that playing along doesn’t lead to real connection. What is "real connection"? building a life, values and relationships So... the treadmill. Then women evaluate the life I build, the values I have, and the people I associate with and decide if I am worthy of her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:32 PM
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You don't get to choose to watch and complain that you're watching it. Its not a choice, again youre totally ignorant of the male libido. Maybe you'll find out one day when you seriously date a man and realize hes still going to watch other women all the time, because its a compulsion You can then try out your strategy of hitting him with "just stop watching babe"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:24 PM
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Just saying its more ignorance coming from you, you can't even understand why a man would struggle to avoid watching porn because you have such a poor understanding of male sexuality despite fucking so many. I guess thats part of the female experience, not having to know whats going on around you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:20 PM
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You know you can just not have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:16 PM
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Women choose men to have sex and relationships with, no? Are you saying this system does not benefit women? Why would women want the system to change? It’s framed as biology or women’s choices, It is womens choices. You seem to be well versed in avoiding uncomfortable truths in favor of blaming the mysterious evil billionaire behind the curtain
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:09 PM
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Its a fair grievance. If you really want to decenter sexual validation from women from your life, than redpill concepts are not important
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:07 PM
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As a westerner myself, a lot of westerners believe whole heartedly in ego death when it comes to sex and relationships, its pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:59 PM
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My very first boyfriend “led” in the bedroom, Jfc, that guy was bad in bed. He had lots of experience, he was quite confident, he thought he knew what he was doing and that poor bastard was highly mistaken. Do you believe there are women out there that will orgasm with him and enjoy his style of sex? There is a possibility that you are in a minority. I have a hard time believing that he is doing radically different things with his mouth, hand, penis than other men. Yet you categorize his perform…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:55 PM
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Newsflash, "not talking/thinking about it" is not a sufficient coping mechanism for knowing you don't measure up to other men in your womans mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:50 PM
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I prefer a girlfriend who has been with men similar to me in sexual skill and appearance. Virgin would also be just fine as long as she was enjoying sex with me. I don't believe women who have spectacular sex with spectacular men can really enjoy sex when its with an "average" guy. The comparison is very destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:49 PM
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I would be much healthier sexually if porn and sex work was banned. My only sexual template would be women I meet IRL, instead of all the sluts doing their crazy attention grabbing behavior online that is impossible to look away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:15 PM
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Men have the burden of performance, so of course women are required to be empathetic towards the pressures men face. Women basically just exist to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:12 PM
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Its low on the totem pole. Most women don't want a man who seems "Weak". But considering most women are incredibly frail, out of shape, and just smaller and lighter than most men... most men do not appear scrawny with them. You will never catch a super athletic women with some scrawny weak guy (unless hes making up for it in other ways) for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:10 PM
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Considering how much you focus on a mans penis size, how are you finding out a mans penis size before you are naked with him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:48 PM
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If shes not showing interest its because shes not interested. Women will never be sexually attracted to money
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:45 PM
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I see going on dates as a kind of mating dance I have to perform to attract women. It is extremely mentally exhausting and degrading to a mens self esteem. I have to be funny/entertain her/carry the conversation. I have to make the plans. I have generate sexual chemistry (ie. a spark) in her. I have to somehow touch her to break the touch barrier even when theres no real pretext for touching strangers I have to somehow move things from friendly get to know you talk to grabbing her body and stick…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:40 PM
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What about a man who looks like your father
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:33 PM
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youve been married a LONG time but roleplay on here as some kind of promiscuous girl talking about casual sex this, fuck guys that, would fuck would not fuck. You don't fuck anyone but just one person, you have no idea who you'd fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:24 PM
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the girls measure them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:22 PM
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You don't date at all. You've been married 15 years and have the sexual experiences of a teenager college kid, which explains your strange takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:03 PM
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We aren't talking about men. My post is about what women think of themselves in relation to the men they fuck. Women believe their league is any man who wants to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:02 PM
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You are the one talking about "strong" men and "weak" men. You think a man can be strong with a micro dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:00 PM
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Ok. But that requires criticizing women and their choices of who to have sex with. Even just a tad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:17 PM
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Lmao, so you have some darwinian view of sex and dating. Thats both icky and cringe. Do they males with the biggest penises and most charisma win in your world? They are the ones you want for your daughters?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:14 PM
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both being mid looking Nah. Pete is better looking. Aziz has a feminine dough face he hides with a beard. Sounds like you’re just mad people aren’t ignoring how white obsessed women tend to be anymore Feel free to try to mateguard your women. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:12 PM
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I will know if we are if you post yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:10 PM
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He did fine. Hes definitely a "professional boxer". There are many levels of professional boxers. Very few people in the world have any realistic chance of hanging with AJ
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:10 PM
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All guys kiss differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:08 PM
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If you were a man its so obvious you would be the type of see prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:07 PM
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Losing some hope would be appropriate though. We know women value sex just as much as men and unlike men, for women, a mans sexual experience is directly tied to his value as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:06 PM
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lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:03 PM
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Why don't you go first if you care about such nuances. I prefer common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:00 PM
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He shows zero signs of any interest Such as? If its such a simple concept, surely you can describe it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:59 PM
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Oh right, I forgot social standards =property. Do you raise your daughters to be whores, afterall anything else is being "owned like property", yes? Buzz off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:56 PM
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If you are worried about white guys then you should be more worried about black guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:52 PM
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Yes, most monks have low self esteem, thats why they are monks. Only if they live in a society that values being a monk will they have high self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:51 PM
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Use your brain. And go read the rules on the side of the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:44 PM
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So you are agreeing that women in the past had the same capacity for the behavior we see in 2025, they just didn't have the means or access? That society was able to properly regulate their behavior back then in ways it no longer does?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:43 PM
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It sounds like you shouldn't be fucking those women No. Its her who shouldn't be fucking me. Women are the choosers, remember? I care about it enough to criticize it, which is more than free love types like you who want us all to go to the hell that unchecked female hypergamy eventually leads to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:39 PM
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Good observation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:36 PM
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You'll just keep ignoring all my examples, not going to bother further. Yes Lift_and_Lurk, women in 1960 were just the same as women in 2025, yes yes good point! Now run along.....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:36 PM
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They don't. Most women stick to their own race, group, tribe. If you want to hedge your bets, then raise your family in a country where your tribe is the majority and stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:34 PM
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Having no flirt is not common. Its very common. Most men cannot walk up to a girl at a bar and "flirt" with her. As per usual you are basing your worldview on sexually successful men, ignoring the hordes of unsuccessful men. Example: "Why are all men such fuckbois teehee!!!".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:33 PM
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That stuff comes from inside yourself. Non-sensical. Self esteem is derived from feelings, which are influenced by those around you. Humans are social creatures. In your silly world view the pasted out homeless drug addict on the side of the road can have the same self esteem as a COE. Please lead with a more nuanced framework than woo woo astrology bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:31 PM
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Women believe they are on the same "level", looksmatch, league (I am using multiple terms here for the braindead types who are repulsed by comparison and hierarchy except when it confirms something THEY want to be hierarchical about, ie. he was bad in bed, he was good in bed ((then its ok you see because its something they want to create a hierarchy for)).... ....as the very best man they have ever fucked. Just ask them, they will tell you. A man sticking his penis in her, means they are the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:28 PM
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It doesn't effect MY self esteem, it effects the next guy. Shes now going to compare him to me, when clearly the type of man who would COMMIT to her, does not look like me. He looks more like her. Fucking fat plain janes with minimal effort helps my self esteem, it tells me, I can do better than her. If I put in the right effort I can get a girl who is actually my looksmatch. Unlike you, I care a bit about men at large, not just my own selfish desires. Because this type of behavior effects all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:21 PM
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Boomers were naked and dancing in public in the 60s. They were catering to the sexuality of men. And most women did not participate in "Free love hippy mud sex" just bc you watched a few grainy interviews of Woodstock attendees. Please do not be obtuse and misrepresent a sexual comparison (free love is compared to literally 1930,1940s standards which took their morals from the fucking 19th century) to fucking modern whoredom Onlyfans, Wet-ASS-Pussy CARDI B twerk, thong bikinis, rating different …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:18 PM
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Why does the self esteem come from the women they are with? Whats the thing? Why does self esteem come from jobs we have, friends we make, experiences we do? Please try better. I am sure you can come up with a more nuanced discussion than gaslighting men that sex, dating, and attraction should be divorced from self esteem. JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:11 PM
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Asocial is carrying your entire insulting point. If you want to go around spam posting that men who don't socialize at all will be alone, go for it, pretty boring ass discussion when that doesn't describe the majority of men in this sub or IRL who have grievances with modern women and modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:09 PM
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Off the top of my head a couple: Women are more sex-obsessed than their mothers. Women care less about jobs and careers and stability as their mothers Women are sleeping with a larger variety of men then their mothers What 65 year old Dad is going to be able to give advice and mentorship to his son for these shifts. In his day, these were not issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:07 PM
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You just tacked that on the end of a list of completely pedestrian personality qualities. If you want to have an actual discussion try not listing 6 different things, with one of them being completely different than the others. Thanks for playing eye roll
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:04 PM
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Would the people that are miffed want to be with fat, plain janes? Yes! Because they are ALSO fat, plain dudes. Now they get chads sloppy seconds. Surely you've giggled at "sloppy second" jokes in moives and TV in the past, right girly? You think those jokes are just made up fairy dust? You think mens SELF ESTEEM is some made up thing with no consequence? Wrong. Its a real thing. It needs to be nourished, and its abosolutely vulnerable to injury from selfish, lizard-brained, lack of foresight wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:03 PM
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Actually what made a successful man in the past is no longer necessarily what makes a successful man in the generation of millenial and gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:00 PM
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How likely is that? Which is why the best strategy for normal boring men is too pump and dump and play the string along game. "Follow the rule" until you get sex and then decide if shes worth keeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:57 PM
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Why you making this a race thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:56 PM
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Goofy looking? Hes tall, apparently hung, hyper-charismatic, and has huge status. He has everything that makes a man attractive, wtf are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:56 PM
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Their unique suffering is likely because of their neurotic high-inhib asocial edgelordy brains tbh. Actually their suffering is because of women punishing these characteristics instead of seeing them as qualities that make a responsible human, able to love and take care of a family, make good financial decisions, PLAN fun, and also understanding that if they are boring neurotic women then why do they look for the opposite in men. In Asian and many non-western societies women are not so obsessed …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:54 PM
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If he is conventionally attracted she is just fucking Chad and doesnt know what her league is If she is also conventionally attractive then its the world working as intended. People are a bit miffed at fat, plain janes who romp around with non-committal "chads" before settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:51 PM
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So men who aren't good at flirting will never find women attracted to them? How did all these boring guys start families in the past? Literally only 20% of men I know have any "flirt" to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:49 PM
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Do you have the same criticism for women who do not bother to reign in their biological imperatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:48 PM
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I do agree that the quitterism framing and making everything about "looks" are among the most wrong-headed takes perpetuated here, its not surprising that those who want to talk about those sorts of things appear to be very young men, teens ect. I prefer to criticize women for how they are distorting the dating market, destroying the self esteem of men who ARE trying, and who DO want meaningful things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:47 PM
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Don't forget social status. A lot of women feel left out of the type of social scene and expectations they have for themselves if they are perpetually single or getting pumped and dumped, eventually they look around to their friends relationships and all the couples activities say to themselves "I need a boyfriend".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:44 PM
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Yep. But for some reason we as a society only talk about the toxic ideas infiltrating the minds of boys. Why is their an "adolescent" miniseries but not a miniseries on how your daughter becomes a onlyfans sloot? Where is the discussion about the poison infecting the minds of girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:54 PM
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Incels lack the confidence to pursue women in a thoughtful strategic manner. That same confidence is required to go fuck a hooker. Most guys who use hookers are not incels, usually they are just guys who are lazy to jump through the dating hoops. Many are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:50 PM
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Fair response, given the need to tiptoe and generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:40 PM
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TBF there were plenty of Russian douche bags living it up in Bangkok last time I was there while their cannon fodder were getting mowed down in Ukraine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:38 PM
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Lying is not black and white especially when there are covert contracts in play
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:36 PM
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Why do you feel sympathy for those men? No I don't think a woman is a bad person for waiting for a man to ask her out to a date that involves food even if she thinks theres a low chance of it leading anywhere. I think shes a lame person, meaning shes failing in life if thats how she wants to go about things. She is unsuccessful. Not "bad person".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:51 PM
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Ya just sweep it under the rug. Don't ask dont tell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:49 PM
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All men are insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:47 PM
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I'm just telling you to be honest about your sexual experiences and preferences with your man. WHy wouldn't you be?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:40 PM
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Yes the woman has poor values, especially considering shes using her body to.... purchase food, something we can all afford. Its pretty pathetic. Men on the other hand are trying to acquire sex, a much more scarce thing. No I don't feel sympathy for stupid simps who can't read a womans intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:39 PM
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Don't sluts only like big dicked hung men who are skilled in bed? So what does it matter who sluts like, they will only select a certain kind of man, not "most" men. A woman who loves men and fawns over men does not have slut around, I don't see how the two NEED to be correlated if a woman has proper values and principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:36 PM
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Nope. Those stupid simps deserve it. I pay because I decide to pay, not because a woman wants me to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:35 PM
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Delaying is not the same as not cumming. Make sure to tell your current guy he needs to last for ages or hes not as good as those other men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:34 PM
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Anti depressant side effects is the only exception
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:22 PM
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I completely agree about the meals. If I decide to pay for someones meal thats that. Which I always do anyway because I am not a broke boy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:21 PM
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Women make the men in these situations. So I don't think much of the men, they are fairly helpless, they are already struggling with the burden of performance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:21 PM
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ED and lack of orgasm are both markers for lack of sexual attraction or stress (which takes you out of the sexual relaxed zone), IE. being "checked out" from the experience. Its just your woman brain that sees a hard dick that can't come and thinks its much different from a soft dick that can't cum. When its a very similar thing in the mans head.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:11 PM
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My personal experience is irrelevant. Actually its the only thing thats relevant. It's funny how I see men whine on this forum about women using their personal experiences rather than talking about general trends Because its assumed that they are ignoring and withholding information from their "experiences" they share. Many cases. Speaking to women on here you would think they were never in a social circle with a single struggling male in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:10 PM
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So you do not think the average women lies to men about orgasms? Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:08 PM
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Its all from the same stem, you clearly do not understand male sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:07 PM
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They don't fake. Its just understood that she will mostly likely not orgasm. You don't even know if the man is "so insecure" the woman just assumes to protect her fragile bubble. Imaging teaching your children to people please and lie to get what they want, great value system.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:05 PM
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Its women who say they lie. Well my last woman did not lie, its not my personal experience, but its what I read online. That they lie about this all the time, and feel justified because "hes insecure and can't handle it". Maybe this is triggering you because it reflects your own relationships. Women ESPECIALLY will lie when they like a guy on paper and want to please him. Maybe thats you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:04 PM
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But they have to get hard. You know the only reason he did not orgasm is because you did not fit with his actual fantasies of what excites him, yea? Probably porn shit that you don't do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:01 PM
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Spoken like someone who fakes it with men quite often. But a bunch of pathetic lumps. I'd rather pay a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:58 PM
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White people don't have children anymore. What are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:56 PM
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So you would be fine if a man did not get fully erect for you and orgasm? Bigdoubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:56 PM
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So your admitting that you do this, cool. Great job. I just assume women aren't having orgasms because of this rampant shit. Totally ruined sex for me, knowing women are just faking it or barely even know what an orgasm feels like
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:55 PM
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Easier said than done.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:54 PM
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How is that any different than asking someone why they would have sex with someone. Its ok sweetie, run along now, we know you women love to expound on generalities of sex and men but specifics make you feel like a dirty girl, so just leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:53 PM
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He flamed you because you rejected him, simple as. Nothing to do with drinks or cost or any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:52 PM
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Sex is sex. If its consented to, then it doesn't matter what the person thought prior. Its not casual sex. Every time people have sex there is a potential for a relationship, with some there is just less of a chance. EVERYTIME I HAVE SEX WITH A WOMAN SHE COULD REJECT ME THE NEXT DAY BC OF MY PERFORMANCE. So why should I care about her misguided feelings towards "casual sex vs serious sex". I could be having serious relationship motivated sex with her and she can treat me casually based on her wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:51 PM
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I don't lie to my partners about sex. Apparently its standard operating procedure for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:48 PM
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Do shrooms make you horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:06 AM
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Hes fairly handsome. This is just an awful picture of him. And terrible haircut obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:06 AM
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Literally sounds exhausting. I'd rather just pay a hooker, bang her out and move on. Or spend time going after a girl I would actually want to spend time with outside of having sex. 4 dates in one day?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:04 AM
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Its sad but this is kind of true. Especially white women, there are just no badie poor white girls, its kind of just not a thing. LAtinas and blacks, sure plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:01 AM
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I wish I could find a woman who finds the funny parts of smiling friends funny, maybe while we do shrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:58 AM
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Nah, you love arrogant men. Men who think they are better than all the other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:56 AM
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Nope. Women are asexual half the time. Not the case for men. We have different hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:55 AM
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I can fully relate with EVERYTHING you say here! I too fake my orgasms because he gets insecure if I don’t get off. But the truth is I never cum with him. I am already too far doen the rabbithole to ever feel relaxed with him trying me too getvoff. He thinks I can orgasm just by piv contact but I cannot. I fake it. It is really sad and not okay and I know it cause my body tells me to stop with the whole shitshow and with him. This is what we men have to deal with. And then women call us "insecur…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:53 AM
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Why should men thrive without women, how is that even possible? Males have libidos. Sexual needs. And being sexually successful is inherent to the male identity. All a man "thriving without women" leads to is the other men having sex with more of the left over women...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:39 AM
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So you've test driven men before?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:37 AM
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Being autistic is insulting. Not every guy who is frustrated with women is some nerdy autistic who likes star wars and table top gaming or whatever the fuck. Some of us are literally dealing with bitches who fuck above their league so often their head is spinning and they no longer know what guys are on their level anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:33 AM
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Lot of people are out of a school and can't date at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:28 AM
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How would an app be worse than a club, where a guy can lie about anything to get her drunk ass home at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:26 AM
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they're flooded woth creepy guys who are weird or demanding but typically both Are you saying that there is not a woman out there for those guys, there is no "match"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:24 AM
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met their partners in college finance bros, influencers, soundcloud rappers, criminals, You think these things are incompatible? College girls are just like any girls and they only want SEXY MEN, not "normal" (boring) men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:16 AM
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They all want to be slapped around a bit by their man, at least metaphorically and sometimes physically
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:12 AM
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You forgot the part where women keep hooking up with big dick studs in hook up harems while more and more average guys drop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:11 AM
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Thats bullshit. Lots of nice and kind men complain about women. Are you claiming that nice and kind women never complain about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:10 AM
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Lashing out at being rejected through some text, does not seem like a big deal. Does that mean when I ghost women when I can sniff out their lack of interest, that I am a "nice guy"? Which is worse, an angry response or no response. Everyone feels bad, gets angry and/or frustrated when they are rejected. You are even gaslighting this guy in this post. No its not that you BOTH weren't compatible, its that you felt that YOU were not compatible with him, so YOU rejected him. It was not a mutual rej…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:09 AM
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Why do you need to view a man as a sex object early on to consider sex with him? What about strangers is sexy vs friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:03 AM
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So how does one be an angry asshole towards women and NOT be a nice guy? Based on your definition. You are saying all angry assholes are 'nice guys'?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:00 AM
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In the end women want to be penetrated by a masculine phallus. Nothing about having a phallic object shoved into you over and over is "nice". Sex will never have anything to do with "kindness". The very act is not kind. Sex is aggressive, even at its most gentle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:58 AM
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Thank you. Womens woo woo bullshit about men and "reading" people is the ultimate example of solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:50 AM
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Just go find someone who shares the same beliefs as you instead of being malicious to other people. All the women on here say sex isn't a big deal and that men are pathetic and desperate for wanting sex, that men should just be happy being sexless and not receiving sexual validation. If sex is so meaningless then what are women losing by having sex with some guy based on a false impression of him? Either sex is sacred or its not. Stop with the wishy washy gaslighting bullshit. There is a reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:43 AM
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Why would you have sex with someone where theres no potential for investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:39 AM
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Ah so the only challanges for men r those from themselves, you don't contribute one iota. Definitely how things work in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:11 PM
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Oh so you will enjoy sex with or give grace to a man with a limp dick, especially a judgemental social darwinist such as yourself, big doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:22 PM
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You definitely aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:21 PM
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But you are a sex toy, for a man who invokes in you the desire to be a sex toy. So don't claim you don't have it in you to be a sex toy, don't lie to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:20 PM
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If she likes you why would she not become invested?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:17 PM
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Performance anxiety effects a mans erection which directly correlates to how a woman sees him sexually and how "good" he is in bed, because men who are "good" in bed maintain and get erections when women want him to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:16 PM
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Lying for sex is not selfish. Sex doesn't mean anything, it does not have any inherent value (according to feminist women). So lying for it is no problem. Same with buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:13 PM
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Thats literally why most men struggle in bed, how can you be this ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:12 PM
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Thats sad. I don't want a chameleon for a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:11 PM
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I mean men have a LOT of pressure on them these days. You can do everything your father did and still completely fail at life (ie. not find a woman and start a family) because of superficial dopamine characteristics. So men have a lot to feel shame for these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:31 AM
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Because otherwise men are bad lovers. They have to sleep with lots of women to be good lovers. Lying to women to have sex with them is like a gift for your future wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:25 AM
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I mean its cringe that you change your sexual personality like a chameleon depending on the guy you are with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:23 AM
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Theres many ways to be a bad lover that have nothing to do with being "selfish". Calling someone selfish is a moral accusation. For example some people have performance anxiety, that has nothing to do with being "selfish"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:21 AM
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No, they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:44 PM
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Oh thats cringe. So he thinks hes the man but really in the back of your head you want to be turned out like a music video twerk hoe but he can't bring that out in you. How sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:43 PM
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bf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:42 PM
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Thats just what you want to believe because you are married and can no longer pursue other women. Cope more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:01 PM
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Do you have wild enthusiastic kinky sex with certain men and not others?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:00 PM
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what are you going to do when the next is smaller than the others?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:59 PM
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what are the vibes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:59 PM
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Because its humiliating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:59 PM
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Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:52 PM
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I care about every aspect of my partners lives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:51 PM
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They enjoyed being humiliated
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:50 PM
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So all men have big dicks now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:49 PM
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Men severely under estimate the value of big dick. Ask any gay guy, its hard to find good dick. Women also struggle to find it. When they find it, if the guy isn't a total dweeb, shes going to treat him different than she would you, 80% of the time, all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:35 AM
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I don't even understand how you feel any attraction to her knowing that shes uninterested in you sexually. Like while you are fucking her, you will know shes not even into it and just doing it for you, and you are ok with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:33 AM
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Decent looking tall white guys coasting on their privilege and settling for short usually pretty ugly mystery meat brown/asian girls, tale as old as time. I have more self respect for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:31 AM
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Do you realize how delusional you sound, how do you think men "learn things" in sex when all men at some points were n-count ZERO? Its so sad that you don't believe two people can learn how to turn each other on and slowly explore each others fantasies and erotic thoughts. Meanwhile you want to be a piece of meat for men and think you learning about sex from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:26 AM
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You should tell him about the biggest dick you ever took, that will really get him going.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:24 AM
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Bad lovers aren't necessarily selfish lovers. Thats you assigning moral failures to men who struggle to act sexy in front of women for whatever reason (many reasons exist). Its gross to assign moral failings to things that have nothing to do with morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:23 AM
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So you've been meat to a lot of guys. How romantic and humanistically fulfilling... is that what you dreamed about when you were an adolescent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:21 AM
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My ex bought his former wife an expensive house in expensive England. Was I butt hurt about it? Sorry but thats kind of pathetic and shows you lack self respect. And frankly are uncurious about this man that you supposedly loved
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:19 AM
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bisexual men have homosexuality - attracted to the same sex/gender. Anyone reading your comments can read between the lines about your little hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:03 AM
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Why is that not realistic? Is sex really that different from man to man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:03 AM
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How do we stop women from making porn and selling sex and being hook-up culture whores though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:04 AM
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Women need to feel inferior to the man to see him as impressive. Women don't care about being impressive to the man, they just care that he is slavishly sexually attracted to her (over other women)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:03 AM
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Why don't you just follow your role and then everyone can be happier
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:43 AM
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Lots of things can and should be nationalized. What things should be owned by the government that aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:40 AM
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How doesn't the right benefit the average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:38 AM
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Its overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:33 AM
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I can fuck mid asian pinoy girls in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:32 AM
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You are just conflating a bunch of things. A man can be "attractive" to a woman on paper and not turn her on sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:30 AM
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Which man? Your comment doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:29 AM
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Including bi men, fuck homophobic assholes like you btw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:25 AM
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Most Americans under 35 do not attend church. I say that as someone who does enjoy going under the right circumstances. Its not common unless you are mormon or in some evangelical preacher shit cult culture
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:16 AM
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Posted in another sub "I'm not sure if other women share this sentiment, but my GOD has this been a problem lately with the men I've been seeing casually. This happens whenever I mention I'm on birth control + have plan B on hand. I have them in place in case something goes wrong and to keep my body safe, not for men to take advantage of my body and get free pleasure off me. They'll try convincing or guilt tripping me that it's so unlikely I'd get pregnant and that I'd be doing them a huge favor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:14 AM
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Who goes to church anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:11 AM
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The fact that you care enough to post and think about it. Sounds like you been fucking with lots of guys in the past that knew you'd do all the work for them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:11 AM
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No one in the US likes Sedans, there is no room for anything. Sedans are for poor folks in 3rd world countries that restrict freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:09 AM
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You can use that logic to justify any kind of behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:08 AM
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Cultures can create very vapid and shallow people population wide. Its western egotism to assume that all cultures are the same and produce masses of people who "think about the world" as deeply as westerners do. Many people live much more shallow existences en mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:06 AM
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Dont you get tired of all that ugly asian pussy. How does it feel that that is the ONLY type you get? I prefer tasting the rainbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:04 AM
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IDk, seems like he struggles to project his true masculine nature for fear of judgement by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:03 AM
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Who cares about whores. If women ostracized these girls everyone would be better off. Instead women love having 'Edgy" friends who are sex workers. Badge of honor now for women to have a friend who does OF or goes to sex clubs or whatever the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:01 AM
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Most people do this, you aren't special. Its basic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:59 AM
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Because you are a man and we are talking about women. Men can objectify the female body in ways that women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:50 AM
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Why wouldn't non-straight men be angry about how they are perceived and treated in this world? Especially by annoying "bi" women that prance around telling everyone and their sister that they think girls are 'hot'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:06 AM
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Because dumb women are under the impression that there are "tops' who never take dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:34 AM
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Thats fine just don't throw a fit when people generalize other groups like for example women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:31 AM
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Maybe you should go talk to some detransitioners and real trans people, to gain so more perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:24 AM
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My pussy dries up because now I have to worry about this guy cheating on me with both men and women. No its because you support the patriarchy and want men to stay in their masculine gender roles, of which having sex with other men shatters. Stop gaslighting. So annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:23 AM
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Especially receptive gay men. EVERY SINGLE MAN WHO LIKES DICK IN ANY WAY HAS DESIRED IT IN HIS ASS AT SOME POINT. Get it through your heads. The ignorance women have for male sexuality is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:22 AM
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Participating in these grooming activities would mean that they are lowering themselves to the level of gay men and women. No its that women are TURNED OFF by male HOMOSEXUALITY. And men are COMPETING for HIGH STATUS women. Get it through your heads. Stop gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:20 AM
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No, they don't want him at all because being gay is emasculating and women (most, normal) like masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:16 AM
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Thats because you date genderqueer bluehairs. Try dating a normal girl who is hot and hangs out with other normal straight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:15 AM
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Sorry youre talking to someone who actually has a deep insight into transgender individuals and all their hidden issues and pathology
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:13 AM
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history gave me plenty of insight. Haha. No. Cause they all lie about their history to justify their decision to transition "I knew when I was 5, I just suppressed for 30 years!" Especially transbians (the types you dated) So, I have an understanding myself about the body dysphoria and dysmorphia struggles that are faced. No, you only have insight into your struggles, not anyone elses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:10 AM
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She doesn't desire him. Shes just protecting her (and his ego) while relaying the tale to the public. Why would a woman have desire for a man who is in her eyes "bad" in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:09 AM
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It doesn't really matter what you plan for the date. Anyway my main criticism of her is that shes spent the last week spamming all over this sub that its easy to be a good lover as a man, I find that insulting and not in line with my experiences whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:07 AM
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s SUPER popular with straight women so idk Not with normal women who aren't terminally online or genderqueer blue hairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:06 AM
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Women hate homosexuality in men, except when they can use them as silly clowns for their entertainment. It dries their pussies right up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:06 AM
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it would most likely start affecting him by his teens. He will probably bring it up to me by the times 12-16, and it will be something he and I and his father (my husband) can communicate about and see what happens. Nope. Thats not how it works for many trans. You don't even know that people can mistake themselves as trans and ruin their lives? Doesn't sound lik you know much about trans people at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:03 AM
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Good dates. Whats the point of planning one when shes already done it before with guys with more charisma than you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:01 AM
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As long as it doesn't hurt him or anyone else. Thats a completely vapid set of principles. Try reading some philosophy. If he wants to transition into being a woman? Fuck yeah! I support him!! What if he gets convinced to transition by online echo chambers? Full steam ahead!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:12 AM
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master trauma How is sexualizing and fetishizing trauma "mastering trauma"? How would you feel about your son having erotic traumatic emasculation fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:02 AM
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Queer men have some of the most repulsive dysfunctional sexualities, completely obsessed with their shame over not being masculine. You find that entertaining? pleasure they ask for The only reason they find any pleasure in it is do to trauma and feelings of worthlessness. fantasies Not all fantasies are healthy, many are scarring, damaging, suffocating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:58 AM
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Thats pretty gross that you play into mens traumatic erotic emasculation coping fantasies for personal gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:48 AM
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Manhood is a constant struggle to prove oneself worthy. Sperm is cheap. Only studs are really worth much in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:45 AM
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Sure.... you enjoy aggressively thrusting into someone soft and submissive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:43 AM
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Being a good and planning fun dates is difficult. Why else would women say they can't find anyone to make them orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:41 AM
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Its those things that you are attracted to in men that you don't see in your self. Hint hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:34 AM
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Why do women enjoy being sex toys then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:25 AM
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Don't you want to be desired?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:20 AM
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This is EXTREMELY common. Its what happens when women fuck many men and role the 'hung amazing devilish lower' role a few times. They will compare every man after to this experience. And don't think for a SECOND that means they will dump men for not meeting this bar, they will just quietly suppress it like this woman doesn, the vast majority will be like her because they know how rare it is to find a truly sexually impressive man (I would pit put it at 10-20% of men).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:18 AM
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Being in touch with femininity is not the same thing as behaving weak and like a woman behaves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:15 AM
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don't want to be good lovers, don't want to plan dates, don't care about a woman's career/degree These are all difficult things. What do women have to do appeal to men? A man can try and fail at all those things and they don't lead to success, rather they are bare minimums to avoid rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:08 AM
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There are still enough patriarchal standards at the moment. If men get too feminine then it will happen on masse as women "choose" a less feminine group of men to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:05 AM
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Who would have done that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:01 AM
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If patriarchy is torn down, do other patriarchal men from other countries come and take the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:58 PM
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Most political disagreements boil down to biological imperative. Which is why men and womens politics differ in America. There is no other explanation for why a man and a woman would perceive the world as having such different threats (women seem to not be threatened by the things that threaten men for example... for some reason, warriors defending the tribe, and women are not warriors?? Men see themselves as leaders of their tribe, women just as 'participators' with someone else making the fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:55 PM
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yes yes we all know how women feel. A man has to be obsessed with them yada yada
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:57 PM
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Her best is the same as any boring old starfish sex I love boring starfish sex as long as she likes it and doesn't judge my performance. but then if she can’t get wet, it’s also about you, because her not getting wet is a rejection. Is she can't get wet because of obsessing about my dick getting hard or not, then yes its a rejection of me. Their ego doesn’t matter at all It matters a ton. Its why women are obsessed with a man being hard for them, for their egos. You do not give a single shit abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:54 PM
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I'm happy with mine. Relatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:49 PM
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Maybe for women. I can love someone romantically and not lust for them, and the reverse. Its best when they align though, but doesn't happened a ton for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:49 PM
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I told this to the last woman I broke up with that I don't understand why shes crying because we had plenty of good times together and she got to experience me for a couple months. But I guess it didn't help much with how she was feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:57 PM
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I wonder how many women live their lives by this logic, like this is their code, their north star. It must be huge numbers, its so solipsistic and passive, logic like this suits them perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:56 PM
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Why not just get a husband and a bull for sex? You can get a hung man and just have sexual adventures with him occasionally while you live with your emotionally compatible husband
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:54 PM
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At least with a hot dude you get to experience mutual attraction, enjoyment... And when he cheats or you breakup or the relationship breaks up in anyway you can look back to when you had fun with him and enjoyed his company. Is this really how women think about relationships? It sounds like you all DESERVE to be used and emotionally abused. I should make a thread about that. Attractive men using and abusing women are doing women a favor because at least they give them a brief experience of mutua…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:52 PM
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Youre partner is very passive. Its not a virtue. It means he will take what he will get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:49 PM
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Nah, I read you. You've created a whole world centered around your dick and what women want from dick to maintain your ego. Too little. Too big. Oh I am just right! So special am I! Childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:48 PM
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Thats a tall order. Also you are conflating love with lust. You should have said you feel they don't lust after you enough. Love is a different emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:46 PM
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Oh, ok and you said men could easily get a boner for basically anything vaguely female looking anyways No. I did not. Youre misconstruing what I said. I said nothing about borners. I said SEX between different women is not hugely different. Tell me, which is easier: a man getting a boner for whatever, or having to perform so hard you can convince an insecure ordinary guy that he’s a fucking porn star? For me, getting a boner is much harder, because if I do not get a boner then I am automatically…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:43 PM
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You never really know why they want you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:33 PM
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but I’m sorry if you’re having trouble finding a woman. I'm not. we actually typically hate it No, you love it. Porn sex is not "jackhammering". who they really are Clearly they are similar enough to each other or you would speak about them as individuals instead of "the crazy guys". You are the one who automatically assumed that I was referring to some sort of mindless dominant sex God as opposed to a thoughtful and generous lover who actually cares about his partners pleasure in addition to hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:23 AM
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can't relate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:58 AM
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I don't get aroused by the stuff, so I wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:53 AM
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Getting aroused is fun even if it doesn't lead to orgasm. Women should know this. But thats not the point of my question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:38 AM
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ok, not the point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:33 AM
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The best girls cum from dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:26 AM
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Do women want a man who gets hard/aroused for them from simple things like hugging them, touching their arm, brief kissing ect?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:25 AM
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Indian and asians are even less likely to cold approach than whites. Only blacks have certain members that appear to make a habit of cold approaching every bitch in the bar. Maybe thats what you mean by "minority". Must have something to do with being one race and being surrounded constantly by women of different races.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:21 AM
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Some girls don't care about oral or want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:14 AM
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the ability to have any sexual standards at all You mean the sexual standards of preferring crazy uninhibited men. Are those the more traditional sexual performance standards of men that you wish to return to? I'd prefer women don't expect porn sex. it’s melting your brains Seeing how few men meet the standards of a "sexually liberated woman" is mind melting -- correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:02 AM
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Men should resent modern sexual performance standards of women. Especially when they line up with porn standards. You've already managed to categorize men plenty, no need to bring me into it, if you stand by what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:30 AM
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Its not easy. If men had sex in a relaxed way that they prefer you would judge them and the sex. Thats why sex is not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:28 AM
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Sure, but I'm not actually going to commit to a girl unless she is similar to me in looks. So I will date, and leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:21 AM
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what difference does this makes when she feels (rightly or not) that she is better off woithout him? Thats not whats happening. She doesn't feel better off without "a man" she feels she IS better THAN her looksmatch and wants someone even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:19 AM
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I don’t know what porn girls sound like when they are interviewed about having sex and I don’t care They sound like you. I'm guessing youre a size queen too. You just want to maximize all those special things about men, consume as much of the best as possible. Who cares about values.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:16 AM
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Sex is a challenge. Sometimes you aren't even aroused but she expects you to be. Sometimes you cum too fast. Sometimes you can't get it up. Sometimes she kills your self esteem in the middle of it. Yes as a woman, you just show up and judge. But as a man you must perform. Thats why you love men so much, because they do more than you, which makes them more impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:12 AM
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Most women I know will barely confirm if they slept with a guy. In my circle's, It would hurt HER reputation to be sexually mocking someone. Mostly because that is private, and I did not consent to hear about her sex life. And secondly, she should have sought a little more information before "going there"... because if you know a guy has weird kinks, and you still sleep with him? You only have yourself to blame if you have a disgusting time... you signed up for it lady! All the women I ever met …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:10 AM
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he made everything about himself and was cruel Noone means that when they say dominant. Its in the word, he dominated YOU, being dominant is the opposite of making it about himself. Cruel? No one implies cruelty when they talk about men being dominant. Ok they put you in your place and you enjoyed it. You sound like porn girls when they interview them about what they like about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:08 AM
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How can she ever feel like she’s the best you’ve ever had when she just isn’t anything special? Thats not even how male sexualities work. Males can sexualize a wide range of females, for different reasons and different contexts, so there rarelyis "the best", there is simply the one he chooses. And yet you don’t care about the same in return. I don't care in return? Its like you aren't even reading what I am writing. Are you saying she will appreciate a half-hard dick. She won't prefer my best pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:03 AM
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7 wasn't a whole lot more than me, so maybe that could work, but it's honestly negligible and if he didn't know what he was doing he'd hit her cervix which would be painful for her. Is that part of your sexual identity? Telling yourself that you have the perfect dick? That anyone bigger than you runs into "issues" and "hits cervixes". Lmao. I get self confidence, but its kind of pathetic to build up these delusional constructs. 7 isn't a whole lot more than you, ya your BASICALLY 7, infact you m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:56 AM
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Sex isn't easy for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:37 PM
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but that actually is not as bad as trying really hard to convince a quality stranger, to pick you out of the sea of their options. I don't agree, I think its better to be rejected by people I don't care about than get rejected by people I actually share a lot in common with and should match with naturally. Its also very very difficult for many men to turn "platonic" friendships with women into romantic. How is there any trust there, just because youre friends or in a friend group? What happens w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:36 PM
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A lot of people start dating because they have a shared interest. No, its because the guy makes a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:29 PM
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I get matches. Usually you have to date down on the apps as a man though. So I jut accept I'm going to be better looking than the type of woman I attract
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:29 PM
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So slowly poison the whole community and group with sexual/romantic failures and rejections until you associate it with negativity. What a great way to ruin something you love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:12 PM
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Because i even stated that i'm responsible No you didn't. You can't even entertain the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:11 PM
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I'm saying rejected by a woman you pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:10 PM
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No, I am triggered that you emotionally at your core believe you have zero responsibility. Because I know I will keep meeting women like you, theres no way to avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:07 PM
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Or I could just meet women on dating apps. Then there is no risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:03 PM
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i'm willing to hold men responsible. lmao. Willing!? You can't see how in fact you ONLY hold men responsible? Trying to wring every bit of leverage you have out of the interaction? Are you a robot or someone trying to have a human experience with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:01 PM
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I think you should have an active and thriving social life and a position in one or more communities that mean you naturally meet some amount of women and know them at a surface level and then if one strikes your fancy, you get to know her and consider dating. What happens when you are rejected in those communities that you are so established in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:59 PM
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if its working for you then who cares. TBF thats how all those blue collar guys got their fat unnattractive wives, by "going with the flow" and "taking what comes your way". Some men prefer to be more strategic and thoughtful about their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:57 PM
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so why would you intentionally decide that you should avoid people you know in exchange for strangers? Because a stranger rejecting you has no impact on your life....? This type of perspective I only see from women, who know if they start cozying up to any guy they meet that there is a 90% chance things end up moving forward
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:55 PM
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Always reminds me of a girl I dated in college who very thoroughly enjoyed our sex, and one day asked how big I was. I told her the real number, and she furrowed her brow and said 'but that doesn't make sense. My ex said he was 7" and you're way bigger than he is!" That is comforting cope, but happens when she does meet a man truly 7-8 in hung, then once again, you are put in the mediocre bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:52 PM
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But I don’t have the urge to redo this again I can relate. Its because being the initiator is tiring, even when you have all the pieces to be wanted and some "options" so to speak. Deep down, we all want what we want with the least amount of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:47 PM
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I know plenty of happy couples. And I know plenty of desperate single people, I am more concerned about my single friends. Being a productive member of society has nothing to do with generating sexual attraction from a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:45 PM
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Why are you framing it as if you don't orgasm you automatically had "bad sex"? What if you just lose your mood or become too distracted? i leave, and never come back. What happens when you lose your mood with your boyfriend, you will just leave, wtf? You are so extremist when it comes to how you frame sex. Like you are on a gameshow or something. With winners and losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:43 PM
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Usually it would be to live vicariously through the man and the power he seems to have over those women. Women who make porn are not so different from you, they still have hypergamous drives and only want to select "certain" men to work with. Just like women only want to date "certain" men, typically a narrow field.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:40 PM
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If your pleasure in life No, its just on the list of things that have to be done. When you have one then its off the list, leaving you room for other things, very comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:36 PM
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What do women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:35 PM
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That is the reality. For many successful people sex is the one thing that they are not successful at.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:34 PM
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Sounds like you aren't very introspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:32 PM
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Wives and husbands love each other. Girlfriends and boyfriends love each other. Less than ever before. But you seem to think this is ok, and everyone is happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:30 PM
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You’ve failed to explain why a woman should feel sexually confident with a man who doesn’t think she’s much because he’s sampled so many or can just go watch porn of women who really know how to fuck. Ok, I'll explain. All she has to do is wash away his insecurities by being open and accepting of his true nature. Why should she make a guy feel sexually special when he does nothing but make her feel like she’s a sexual mediocrity? Because thats how you get a guy to relax and perform his best. Unl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 02:28 PM
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Not true, many women do things like only make porn with certain types of men even though there is a large audience for other types of men that would want to see themselves in porn. Just look at interracial porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:51 AM
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Most are. Its not hard to be relationship material for an average woman. Its not a high bar. Just having a reasonable social life, not being broke, getting along with her friends. Not a high bar. Impressing her with sex after she been with a bunch of men is a much higher bar
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:50 AM
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Then why are there more single people than ever before?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:33 AM
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Lots of women are making extreme porn now and just hiding their faces. When there is no real threat of doxing, whats to stop more women from jumping in. Especially if they like kinky sex with hung men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:33 AM
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Why dont you just find someone who lives close to you. I think your engaging in sunk cost, you don't feel like starting over with a new woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:30 AM
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Breaking up as a guy is difficult. Unlike women who can mope about on new dates and wait for a spark, I have to get back on the horse and start proving once again to these women that I am right where I want to be and that I want her, when in reality im just grasping for another girl to connect with to get those feelings back. Its a negative experience of loss, not a positive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:27 AM
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Its definitely a bullshit narrative propagated by loser men online. But women deserve it for fostering victim worship culture. So now men want to be victims too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:23 AM
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Why would crazy men be better at sex? They were more dominant?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:19 AM
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Those women are sexually broken. They do not put any value into sex, beyond dopamine. You wouldn't want to be in relationships with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:16 AM
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Most men already meet the bar for relationship material if they are sexually attractive to the woman. Your mindset is not reality. Mens number 1 insecurity is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:15 AM
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Why not? What is he doing wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:00 AM
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then gay bottoms who want to get fucked by dominant men would also be "owned" by said men. Its a different dynamic then men and women. You can use whatever word you want to describe how women feel toward men and its not how gay men feel towards each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:44 AM
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So what do you do when you fail to orgasm then? Do you feel like failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:35 AM
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I don't know my exact number. I think a lot of people if they are with more than 20 individuals will no longer remember their "exact" number. Also time goes by. Its easier to remember numbers when you are 22 than 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:30 AM
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That is female sexuality. I didn't make the rules. Its yall that like getting fucked by dominant men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:28 AM
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If women are all so similar, what difference does it make who you get, anyways? You've failed to explain why a man should feel sexually confident with a modern woman who doesn't think hes much because shes sampled so many or can just go watch porn of guys who really know how to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:25 AM
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Its more that women are inherently submissive where as men are not. Even prissy little princess bottom gays are more masculine than the average women. They choose to submit, but they are still men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:23 AM
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Except most normal women do not do that. Cause its weird to have a daddy fetish. Anyway your just propagating sexual skill myths. People who have a lot of sex know a teenager can rock someones world where as an old man can be a pathetic small dick impotent fool in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 03:22 AM
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I'm not even straight. Gays are way more fucked in the head, trust me. Women keep mens sexuality in check
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:30 AM
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yep, MFM
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:13 AM
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Wait so why are you trying to sleep with 50 year olds, shouldn't they be better than 25 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:13 AM
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No, its that gays are hypersexual sexually gross fetishists half the time. Gays never feel "in the power of" to each other like women do to men. A man fucking you is just a man, your a man too, your both using each other. Meanwhile women basically can't use men for sex but for rare circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:12 AM
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but she’s just any old hole to you. I didn't say that. I just said that sex with women was similar. Its not my fault that men are very different from each other but women are very similar to each other. Thats just how it is. you give her in return How am I suppose to give her my best when I am not her best or close to. How am I suppose to be sexually confident with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:09 AM
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FWB I see a few times a year with my friend got chubby and now has a fat ass, cool development.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:22 AM
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She liked it too, but I agree that the man is the one who "starts" those types of things. Women just follow men sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:19 AM
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Gays are not comparable to straight men and women. Gay males do not "own" each other like men own women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:26 AM
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That makes no sense. Why would a 25 year old be better at sex than a 16 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:23 AM
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I kind of agree with this. Sex is a very natural thing, theres a lot of physiological responsiveness that is difficult to control. I'm never going to be like men who can maintain rock hard erections in a million different positions. Or saying pornographic dirty talk and feeling like its natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:19 AM
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I don't find one woman to be particularly different than another when it comes to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:15 AM
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Friend of the host...?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:09 AM
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Is it cause those other guys had too many beta traits
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:08 AM
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Not really, I just want to have decent sex and not have to think my woman has been with better men which ruins it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:07 AM
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yall are ruining yourself and its way so many of you are single
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:33 PM
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youre queer, you don't go for any type of guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:15 PM
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And theres nothing men can do to stop women from obtaining casual variety with topmen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:09 PM
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No you probably settled. You even said that it was natural and normal for women to settle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:08 PM
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R u sure they weren't trying to set u up with this woman? I was not single at this party
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:44 AM
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Well trans issues will always be on some level impossible to overcome because you are fighting your own natural bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:40 AM
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the one where they all want to fuck black guys because of sports and music. And because blacks are more masculine and extroverted than whites on average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:36 AM
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They should be afraid. A woman like you will just end up alone after not finding "perfect sexy funny chemistry guy" so they will not have to deal with you. They will have to deal with others though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:35 AM
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No, I want the ego boost of making a woman orgasm. Sadly many seem to really need a top man way above their league to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:33 AM
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Sounds like you prefer this to touching clits anyway so maybe you should stick with fucking men. Nah, Ill keep fucking women, homophobic dipshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:30 AM
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Have you tried it? Yes, it was super fun. It was very erotic. It pleased me, it made my dick hard. No 69 necessary (though I do enjoy 69 more)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:27 AM
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a lot of average men have ex with women much more attractive than them too No they don't. Your lying and gaslighting. Thats bewildering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:24 AM
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pretty difficult act Oh really, you mean to tell me that men you know catered to you because youre a woman!?!? Gay guys being nice to women!?!? Shocking. Its literally super easy unless its some monster porn dick. The only thing that makes it terrible is if theres still shit up there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:24 AM
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That would be very unusual actually. I just went to a party like that two weeks ago. It was all couples and 1 single woman. Why would you say that is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:21 AM
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So youre an enby ftm type? Having a dick is not that great because most women are exactly like b8585b, they don't lust after dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:19 AM
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I would love for society to crack down onlyfanshoes. Make that shit illegal and watch all those cows cry and whine. Western society needs more collectivism when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:28 PM
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A slut phase they may only fuck 5 men. And those 5 men will be the 20% of men that gobble up the majority of casual sex. Multiple women in this thread have already said that most men will struggle with casual sex because there are always more men after it than women, so only the best men will win
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:26 PM
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Women did not try as many dicks to find the big ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:24 PM
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Going up to a horny drunk girl and getting her home is something any man could do. No. Its not. You have a totally delusional idea about men and casual sex because you only think about the men that you know have done casual sex in the past and completely ignore all the ones who haven't, they are invisible to you. I must insist, men want casual sex to mean something about them it just doesn't It doesn't to you because you only had casual sex with men who have casual sex. Not men who can't have ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:14 PM
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No, its not so great. A submissive women will suck your dick because you ask her too not spontaneously because she wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:58 PM
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I give my best to people who give me their best
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:55 PM
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Its white guys who are getting cucked the most because of white female hypergamy and hypersexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:53 PM
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and this is why none of you can fuck. you dont drink, you dont dance, you dotn go to dive bars, youre too neurotic to fuck in your social circle Lots of men do all of that and don't fuck. Men can go sit in a dive bar all night and never interact with a woman. Where as you go there and theres always some extroverted asshole coming to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:50 PM
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Its easy for you because you just wait for a man to flirt with you and then respond to what hes saying and his energy. You don't generate anything or initiate. And he thinks of all the flirty things to say
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:49 PM
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Single men don't get invited to parties by "extremely social friends" unless they are only "single" like constantly in out and of relationships single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:47 PM
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If you’d rather women only hook up or have relationships with men who they feel an immediate sexual and chemistry spark with They already do! God talk about ignorant. I don't want to be your fucking beta, f off with that shit. I am already going to dump this current girl because she said she likes my "type" meaning some nice guy bullshit, fk women like you who categorize men, just stay single and save us all the trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:41 PM
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You would definitely prefer those men over me, those men are easy, because I would make you show some lust for me or we'd be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:36 PM
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nope, just reading you. Ad hominen confirms it. You've been read
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:35 PM
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Oooooh you are being so disingenuous. I'm going to tear this apart. It’s the female equivalent of when a woman says she wants her man to think she’s the most beautiful girl in the world No. Its not. Having your women fuck a guy who "instantly" made her want sex with him is not at all equivalent to a man seeing a hot woman on the street and looking at her. How can you even think these two things are equivalent. Ever seen!? YOU FUCKED THE GUY. YOU DIDN"T LOOK AT HIM, YOU FUCKED HIM. If you need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:32 PM
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Lots of women don't like vibrators. While we are at it why doesn't she just touch herself. Whats so great about my touching her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:28 PM
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No its not. Its the reality that the modern man has to deal with that his father did not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:27 PM
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I just don't lust for my husband. If I actually lusted for my husband Ya. You don't. I've also sucked dick when I wasn't lusting after it, and its a different experience. Just admit you don't lust after the dick. If I was just hotter and more exciting (ie more toys? more positions? more crazy stuff? more threesomes? more bondage?) he wouldn't be asking me to do anal. No its literally just stuff like smiling at him and telling him how hot you think his body his and how hes a king to you and you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:03 PM
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Thats why sex sucks for men. I am not going to be excited to have her suck my dick if she is not excited to suck my dick. I am not going to want to fuck her either if she is not turned on by me fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:59 PM
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Learn what your lady likes, ask her what the guy did that was so awesome, and then do that. Don't be a prude. Thats not how it works. Often times the guy who was the "best" was the best for reasons outside your control. Body control, dick size, sexual charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:50 PM
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How do you feel about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:49 PM
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Because she has lust for me. And its exciting to have my dick in her mouth or pussy. If it was especially big, then she would love it because she knows its big and rare, so she found something "special".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:48 PM
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So you did but it smelled. You made my point for me. Big dick guys control you, you know they are special, they know you know they are special, and they have sexual power over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:46 PM
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I see you ignored my post about your whining about sex acts from a womans POV. Typical. Your little "gotcha" didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:43 PM
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Nah hes a boring house husband who hasn't dated in 20 years. He'd be fucked. No matter the height.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:42 PM
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Nah, the problem is you don't love dick at all. Unless its special
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:38 PM
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And those hypersexual women have friends who they also influence to be hypersexual. And there’s much less partying now than there was a decade ago… Amongst the top men there is still plenty of partying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:37 PM
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women becoming more prudish Nope. If that was the case we would see less women making porn not more. Less sex parties/clubs, not more, Less "swinger pages", not more. Less "polycules", not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:31 PM
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Its more and more the norm. Women learn from each other and copy each others behavior. Lemmings
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:29 PM
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Only with slut culture western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:25 PM
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Somehow a man saying, “hey” and “oh yeah me too” is them leading a conversation and keeping it going. No, thats called failing a conversation. That leads to being ghosted on the date. You don't understand because you've been married for a billion years and your husband no longer puts any effort in to the conversations because he doesn't has to. If he had to start dating again hed be fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:25 PM
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People have casual sex with top men all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:23 PM
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To say its not about competence just shows you view a huge chunk of men as not even men at all. You know a guy actually has to have the balls the make a sexual move on you in the first place and that already screens out like 50% of men? You play with a narrow subsection of men. A minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:15 PM
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Plenty of women initiate conversations with other people - myself included It doesn't matter who "initiates" the conversation. The man still has to carry the conversation. In a big city very few women initiate conversations with strange men unless your dogs bump into each other or there is some specific thing that they can benefit from the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:12 PM
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Because I read your stupid thread about how you are so offended that men want you to be attracted to their penises
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:10 PM
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Women are having more casual sex than men these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:09 PM
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Hes going to get FOMO hard. Guess hes able to cope with porn though. I would have mad resentment if I was him. You are an example of how women are having more casual sex than men these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:09 PM
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Some men will make some women want to fuck then immediately Average Men don't want to marry some girl who met other guy that made her "want to fuck immediately". Can you not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:07 PM
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the majority of women who are more sexually reserved Are they always sexually reserved or do they have "slut phases"? If 75% of women have slut phases than those small percentage of men who "win" the casual sex game get to sample a huge percentage of women compared to men who fail at casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:05 PM
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mad chemistry and I wanted to have sex asap regardless. So you wait longer when you don't feel chemistry. Why don't you just say that. The right man can make you a slut, the "wrong" one has to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:03 PM
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It is about the men. How silly to say that who you choose to have sex with isn't about who you choose to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:02 PM
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Why is it so hard for you to love a mans dick
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:58 PM
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No its happening all around us
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:56 PM
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They don't lead conversations. They interject and contribute but they do not lead. Nor they try particularly hard to be funny. They rely on the men to be funny and entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:55 PM
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Nah most women don't love those things i mentioned, maybe their family. But some don't even love their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:34 PM
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Sex can be a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:05 PM
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So... learn to be a better conversationalist. You live up to your username. ANd you'll never understand because youre a woman who just reacts to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:04 PM
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its really not something absurd nor impossible Its very difficult. Most peoples personalities are fixed and immutable. I guess most people must be unpleasant to you then, because most people are pretty damn boring. You are a woman, being extroverted to you is just waiting for an extroverted guy or girl to come up to you and starting to you because of women wonderful effect and then you react to the conversation. I as a man, have to lead the conversation and generate humor. Its like dancing, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:01 PM
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So basically boring men have to find (uglier) boring women to date. Because hot boring women will not date boring men. Its just 80/20 hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:58 PM
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I've never had boring awkward silences because I can have a conversation with someone. I'd have them all the time on first dates or else am forced to talk about boring topics like jobs, tv shows, which I can tell does not make the womens pussy twitch or give her a sparkle in the eyes. Tbh it gets even worse on second and third dates when you've already got the generic stuff out of the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:56 PM
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Its not short but its definitely not "tall" amongst white and black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:54 PM
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ugly and unpleasant to be around Most people are not "ugly and unpleasant". MANY people are "boring". Which will get you rejected just as fast by any women who has tasted the dopamine that a highly extroverted entertaining man can provide her. Personality is really no different than anything else in the hypergamy universe. Women always want better, want more. And they compare brutally. Personality is 80/20 too. Only 20% of guys have amazing personalities that women crave. Most are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:53 PM
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But there is the thing of approaching women who would be a better match for your personality Music is not personality. How exactly are men suppose to know which women match their personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:41 PM
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It's not hard to have a fun personality. It is hard for people who naturally do not have fun playful personalities. Whining isn't fun No one whines in social situations, figment of your imagination. Unless you think a group chatting at bar sounds like a reddit thread... silly. But a conversation between two people should be fun. Often times its very boring, with awkward silences and desperation to choose some sort of topic that is not boring that both people can speak to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:40 PM
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Most people can't magically adjust their personalities to meet womens standards for flirting and "fun". Its like telling men "just become funny, women like funny guys". Like its something men choose. Delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:31 PM
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Girls telling me I'm cute/handsome. Being compared to being a model. A girl in college (not dating) told me I have the "perfect jawline". And ya matches on dating apps. Also once you are old enough its not that hard to objectively look at people and compare features, symmetry, and harmony to know about where you fall. I'm only 5'9", if I was tall... I'd pretty much be perfect (in the eyes of woman). Its all good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:29 PM
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She can just cheat on him then and probably does
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:26 PM
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You would judge him even if he wasn't married. Thats what makes you a hypocrite. Obviously cheating is morally wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:14 PM
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you blame the woman Yea of course. Would you keep fucking a man if you weren't into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:13 PM
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It doesn't really matter. Peoples mental states are contextual and relative. Even if she would prefer not to make money through sex, I may be an attractive clean man that she enjoys over other clients and in our little world its a win for her and thats how she feels in the moment, positive. Also frankly you can do things that your gf can say no to, and sex workers can too but because they are sex workers they tend to be more open to kinkier sex and requests. There are pretty girls out there that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:11 PM
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Thats your reality. Not all women are likeyou
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:08 PM
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Well I'm just encapsulating a trend within one sentence as pointed as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:07 PM
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I didn’t even pretend to enjoy it after a while This is suppose to be a brag? You realize you sound like a psychopath right? "My stupid husband didn't even realize I didn't want him anymore, what an IDIOT" Though to be fair, he is an idiot. I would have kicked you to the curb the second I got wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:53 PM
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When you pay for sex, its the opposite, you have power over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:50 PM
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What happened to loving your family, your ancestors, your reputation, your culture, your community, your nation. Now we just love ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:50 PM
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They resent the idea they can’t behave in the same way and still get sex No personally I resent the idea that my potential soul mate was taken off the market by some stud dick that I can't compare to when in decades past she could have been the love of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:49 PM
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They go hand in hand!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:48 PM
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interracial competition is a thing. Just ask black women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:47 PM
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Clearly his wife doesn't care. Do you also judge women that hook up with exotic men on dating apps? We all see more and more interracial couples and white women walking around with black men for example
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:43 PM
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I bet you got all excited when those large penises came flopping out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:39 PM
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Asians in the US do. In Asia itself, its only a small minority of women who would "date out" so most men just ignore it. In the US 40% of Asian women are married to non-asian men. And Asian men definitely notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:37 PM
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I personally know a passport bro, he goes to Thailand once a year with his mates, takes lots of cash and nobody’s allowed to talk to him about it. He’s married and his wife isn’t allowed to go. It’s shit like that where people are going to judge Damn. I need to marry a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:32 PM
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You can't make threads like this and talk about race. Or have the rules changed? But its only been up an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:30 PM
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Oh uh ya well I am just giving my take. Its a different context than yours
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:16 PM
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Also, I got introduced to this a long time ago by an older woman. I "followed" her for quite a while. Uh most mens sex lives do not involve getting "taught" by older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:14 PM
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No, I am curious about what you think about that. Personally I would prefer if my partner didn't mind if I fantasize about different things sometimes during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:32 AM
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Because most women who are fine with a man watching porn delusionally believe it has no effect on sex with her when it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:21 AM
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I'm poly, so I personally don't care about my man liking other women, but I acknowledge that I am abnormal in that. Do you care that he thinks of other women and fantasies during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:19 AM
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I was too distracted that you draw furry porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:12 AM
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Ya I want to know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:07 AM
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Well you don't respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:06 AM
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Clits not feeling much is an insane thing to me, I can’t relate to that I said its hard to feel for it as a man, its hard to feel, its literally a small little lump amongst a bunch of labia. I do actually have a woman that hates having her clit touched, and I have another who is the opposite recently and it is what it is. But don't try to say women are easy to get off. If I assumed all women were liked the first one, I would never touch their clits. Try stuffing a dick in your mouth or in your a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:02 AM
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Mine did too imo. There is definitely a pandemic of decent looking white men marrying fugly ethnic women because they are easy. Its sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:34 AM
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but she might turn into a woman who doesn’t like her husband Can't that happen anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:33 AM
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Do you actually get turned on by this furry imagery? And the concepts? I agree that men watching porn is basically cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:32 AM
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You are welcome. I won't disagree that "commodification" is a big part of the problem with many negative things in our sexual culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:25 AM
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I think the greatest sex is when two people know what the other wants (not in terms of acts but in terms of basically fantasy and intention) and enjoys giving it to them. Which admittedly is why I find sex hard to fully enjoy often, because I cannot read minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:22 AM
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Thats how you think about it. Other people actually find dicks visually appealing and want certain ones in their mouths. You think of sex as transactional. Other people actually enjoy each others bodies for what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:14 AM
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Sex is its own inherent thing that is not correlated to how you treat a woman Its contextual. Sometimes this is true, sometimes not, depending on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:13 AM
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nd he doesn't want to know my past in detail either. He does. Hes just afraid of the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:11 AM
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I find it insane for men to claim the pressure to rub the clit during sex How am I suppose to rub the clit when I'm literally moving my whole body in a full body motion. Then I have to focus on finding the clit, most womens clits barely feel like anything and its tough to feel for unless you are focusing on it (which then you can't focus on fucking). Its like you women have never ever considered sex from the mans perspective because it "just happens" to you and youre along for ride. claim men fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:06 AM
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I don't think being raped is the equivalent to hating someone. Something like that happens and there is not time to process that you "hate them", you would be in full flight or fight mode. Maybe even "fawn effect". I don't think women want to have sex or feel strong attraction with men they hate or even dislike strongly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:55 AM
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Because prostitutes give something back to men. Onlyfans porn sluts prey on desperate men and suck money out of them. Its grotesque. Prostitutes also teach men sex, and sexual confidence and could help a man be better with women he loves. Onlyfans porn sluts rob men of their sexual strength and fuck up their sexual templates, ruining marriages and potential relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:48 AM
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Asexual lesbian ---> opinion ---> trash
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:44 AM
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Maybe as a man your ass is bigger and that’s why you find it so easy. Lmao, most mens asses are skinny and boney compared to womens. What is with women and your obsession with anal sex? Is that really the only way you think you can make a man feel happy and excited in the bedroom? Anal sex? You want me to throw on a fucking cock ring when I take a woman home on the third date for sex? Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:44 AM
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If you think it's simple to deep throat, have you actually tried it? I have and I found it enjoyable. It was exciting and "shocking". Maybe if you actually approached it with lust it would be enjoyable for you. If you think it is simple to perform anal, have you actually tried it? Its only gross if you don't clean yourself out. Its really only painful in the beginning until you relax. Again I've tried it. Also who gives a fuck about anal. Most men don't even care about anal. The only reason they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:40 AM
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Its not that hard to process. Its just adrenalin. Shock. Men are equally susceptible. At the extreme end its why some men and women like to feel high either by cutting off airflow or drugs, it produces an adrenaline rush that "loving sex" may not, even if sex is still very pleasurable by itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:33 AM
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what the fuck are these "skills" that women vaguely talk about all over reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:14 AM
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So youre telling me that all you have to do as a woman to be a mans best is give into his fantasies and play along? That sounds simple as fuck. I can't grow my penis longer or completely change my personality or sexual stamina.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:09 AM
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This can happen in any relationship to either gender. But its women who have the power over relationships. They pick and choose and reject. Primarily. So its not "even odds".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:04 AM
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Why would a woman enjoy sex while being raped but then not enjoy sex with her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:03 AM
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And normally lots of practice with communication even when it’s awkward No it doesn't. Men need to practice, not women. Women just follow the mans lead. So a man just has to know how to have "fun sex". Women follow, the men lead. No need for "emotional vulnerability"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:01 AM
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Wow your comments make perfect sense. Maybe you should stop giving commentary on normal people relationships when you are abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:53 AM
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And you’re dreaming is you think Asia and Eastern Europe don’t produce porn They don't film bbc gang bangs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:49 AM
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I actually have to consider my husband's feelings, too. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:47 AM
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Why would you endorse her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:45 AM
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Oh really, how many did you have to go through to find the 5% that have 8 inch dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:43 AM
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wrong-o
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:40 AM
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they deserve or think they deserve Thats literally all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:40 AM
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Lust makes men want to suck dick. And lots of women talk about wanting to do that with their man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:37 AM
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Thats pretty fucking lame. Gay guys love sucking dick just for the sake of it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:37 AM
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Sure, my point is that if this type of man struggles, then there are many many more men struggling, who are worse off than them. And I think this follows because all the women I've recently been dating have just a shit ton of single friends. Its like they are all waiting for men who don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:10 PM
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Granted, I'm kid-free Opinion ---> trash
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:00 PM
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I didn't excuse violence. I said that young leftist women do not care about policing violence. They are ACAB and the like. women’s sexuality is vilified As women act out more and more it will be more vilified by men with a backbone. The whole world already looks at western white women as complete whores because of all the porn they pump out every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:59 PM
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If you are involuntarily celibate - meaning you struggle with women Thats not what incel means. Incel means you cannot get women. You know autism is a spectrum, right? I’d bet you’re somewhere closer to the neurodivergent side versus neurotypical. Oh does that mean everyones a little autistic? Afterall its a spectrum. You sound incredibly dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:56 PM
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I don’t give one tin shit who my friends are dating as long as they are happy I care about who my bros are dating and I'll tell them if they are making a mistake. Guess you just like not giving a shit about most things in life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:54 PM
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Ya it is. Thats lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:52 PM
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I live in a big city. You must not know many career oriented women who are picky about marriage and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:52 PM
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Its that thing that makes a woman want to suck a mans dick, instead of just doing it to make him happy (lame)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:11 PM
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Not as many. Especially from middle class college kids with decent jobs, who played sports, went to parties ect ect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:11 PM
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Poor sexual behavior for one. Who cares about crime. Women defend the criminals through their leftist politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:02 PM
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Ya thats totally what I meant eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:01 PM
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Sounds like someone doesn't have primal lust for her husband
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:00 PM
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Personally I am just enjoying watching all these aging millenial western women realize they are never going to have the kids they planned for as they scramble for husbands in their late fertility years. It warms the heart seeing people face consequences for their poor life philosophies and lack of principles beyond "make my pussy feel good and give me dopamine"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:58 PM
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Where is your critique for womens poor behavior on a societal level?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:56 PM
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Getting married to friends is not normal, thats completely weirdo behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:54 PM
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are all doing fine with women No one even knows what you mean by this. "Doing fine". Means nothing. Are they dating their looksmatch, their league? Or trash diving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:54 PM
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Men who are NOT autistic are not struggling to interact with women and get dates or have sex. Its far more complicated than that, I'm not autistic. Neither are my friends, they all have had sex, and casual sex. More partners than you considering youre some kind of high school preggo marriage type Struggling with women is not the same thing as being an incel virgin, you are so ignorant its astounding. I don't particularly have any struggles beyond my disgust for female nature, which many of the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:51 PM
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At least you are consistent when it comes to sexual solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:46 PM
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Yes, there probably are people who are with people they tolerate but don't particularily like You keep saying this. And I keep telling you that you can like someone and still feel like you settled. How is this not getting through to you? If the partnership made my child truly happy why would I be against it. So your child was with a scumbag abuser who uses her for money and sex and shes enamored with him you'd say "good for you sweetie". Why do I feel like I am talking with someone who lives in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:41 PM
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Who the fuck do you think autists are? You fucking think 1/4 of men are autists or something? Get the fuck outside. I am actually super pissed off that you are implying anyone who struggles with women is an autist, like if you said that to me IRL i'd go off on you. Who the fuck do you think you are None of them use "redpill guide" or whatever the fuck brainworms are in your head about men who struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:37 PM
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And why do you say that? I'll be waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:36 PM
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Thats what happens when you get with women obsessed with sex. They always want something better. And its rarely just you. Like most of these issues, if the man and the woman are intelligent and really want to be together they will work towards satisfying both of their egos and curiosities. When people are ignorant and dumb, things like this fester.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:35 PM
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I know lots of neurotypical men with good jobs who struggle with women. They certainly would not have in 1960.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:51 PM
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socially democratic market economies where the tax burden for lower income workers is extremely high, the unemployment rate is really low and the college degree rate is super high. This requires a lot of social trust and shared culture which is incompatible with a lot this immigration Thats why people are upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:49 PM
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How can that possibly be ok with you? They don’t think you’re attractive. Thats not necessarily true at all. Lots of attractive men use sex workers, or have a few times. But imagine you have a daughter. And think about her being a sex worker. Is that a good thought? Its just as bad of a thought as thinking about her with a man I don't approve of but all the PPD women here tell me I am crazy and oppressive for caring about who my daughter dates. It seems they don't have any standards but their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:42 PM
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I respect prostitutes far more than onlyfans sluts and pornhoes. Online sex workers should receive more stigma and IRL ones should receive less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:39 PM
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Oh sorry you feel exposed. When you get with some hung guy that you like thats the first thing youll compliment him about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:36 PM
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Why can't you just date your league
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:32 PM
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You can't make threads about race. Why is mods leaving this up when I will get banned in 5 seconds for making a few comments about racial preferences and racial competition. Either set some rules and allow it or don't, fucking hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:29 PM
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Let alone hentai or ai generated hentai (mostly what i consume). Bruh thats even worse. How are you going to appreciate your gfs body when cartoons make your dick harder than she does
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:26 PM
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I just know about me and what I do and make. I do not know why you would assume im a brokie w/ high school degree when this is reddit which tends to attracted educated types
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:25 PM
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Healthy women wouldn’t take a man that’s done that seriously as a dating prospect. Do you think healthy men should take slutty women as serious dating prospects?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:23 PM
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Nah, one is hypothetical, one is a real in your body feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:22 PM
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but they were the generation of free love and swingers. No they weren't', not compared to todays generation. There are FAR more swingers now then back then. And they do far more kinkier things than back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:21 PM
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You can like someone and still settle for them. Your comment seems very woo woo, feelings based, rather than any sort of analysis. People standards are very similar typically when it comes to men. And I do not believe peoples standards change much over their lives. Therefore all that will matter is if the participants in the relationship are happy with their choice. I don't see how thats all that matters at all. Are you saying if you had a child you wouldn't care about who they chose as a partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:20 PM
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Women mostly prefer girth over length anyway. T Either way. Your just lying caue you know you probably will never have a hung boyfriend, so you have to come to terms with average being good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:15 PM
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When you know you've had much better than the one your with, it has consequences for the soul, long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:48 AM
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I'm actually telling the truth though, maybe if you had said 7 ppl would have believed you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:45 AM
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Just put another baby in her, stake your claim. No big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:42 AM
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Thats why you date a woman uglier than you. Then you don't have to worry as much about her irrational standards, she knows shes batting above her league and will treat you accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:40 AM
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I find it very hard to objectify people like that. Except when you consume porn of them. Then you objectify to your hearts content.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:36 AM
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yikes someones fragile, i'm just describing a womans experience with sex. How do you survive in real life being such a fragile person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:31 AM
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I relate to how you think, but its not so bad to compartamentalize sex as a man. I am guessing you already do that when you bust your load to porn. Seeing some trash in person while not super satisfying, can still be healthy, or at least as healthy as porn (so maybe not so healthy, but better than a sexless loser afraid of sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:30 AM
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Meh, I've been inside many vaginas and they all feel tight around my dick, some tighter than others. You don't have a 9 inch dick. I make more money than you and wore a fancier cap than you. Looks like you lose
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:27 AM
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You can't actually. Thats like saying you can have confidence that your a good basketball player without playing basketball. WHat a juvenile view of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:25 AM
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Same could be said for the pretty girl you go on a tinder date with. You don't know what dicks have been in her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:23 AM
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It would help you a lot lmao. Youre clearly afraid of sex rather than desiring it. Enjoy your gooning then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:21 AM
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The fact that women enjoy being the dragon shows how delusional they are about their places in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:19 AM
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But losing your virginity doesn’t make you suddenly more likely to sleep with other people?? Yes it does. It gives men sexual confidence. How is a man basing his confidence on sexual skills dumb, when all women do is obsess about mens sexual skills and constantly tell us on this sub that sex skills are the most important thing for men to have
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:18 AM
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Lots of women respect me and I've paid for sex. Its not a big deal. It actually takes balls to pay for sex with a stranger tbh, and women are attracted to men who live by their own rules not obsess about womens opinions of them, that is weak bitch shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:17 AM
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They all feel tight to me. Maybe your just small. Sex is emotionally and psychologically complicated, the fact that you view it that way just shows you don't think too much or too hard. Guys like you are very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:12 AM
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Theres some difference in tightness or looseness but its very marginal. Yo I just measured and I'm a cool bit past 6 with good girth. Enjoy little bro. Have you even seen other penises to compare yours too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:07 AM
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Because then the women settle and the men resent them for it overtime once they realize they have been settled for and shes had much better in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:05 AM
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Then why do they only make porn with large penises. And why do they talk about large penises with so much admiration? How can women be attracted to penises and not care about how nice it looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:03 AM
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If shes new to it, shes not even enjoying it. Its all in your head and her (fake) performance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:02 AM
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I know my parents had less sex than I do. Boomers didn't grow up in porn culture like modern day youths do. Boomers didn't think polyamory and group sex are normal like youth do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:02 AM
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Most men care about and appreciate a womans accomplishments, but not if it comes at the cost of sexual validation for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:15 PM
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i'm just a sex toy. Maybe youre on to something there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:13 PM
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You do you. You'll probably get your raw desire fix from somewhere else like porn then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:12 PM
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It is, but you will not be happy or very turned on if your women is a cold fish with no desires and she wants you to do 100% of the work of building the sexlife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:10 PM
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She said HE doesn't try anything new. Why doesn't SHE try something new. Because she doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:09 PM
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I would say its because he knows that shes not attracted to him anymore so he doesn't feel creative inspiration. Probably he thinks that whatever he suggests she will not be into and will just do it "for him". We don't even know if shes capable of enjoying sex with him. Like why can't she be naughty and devious when it comes to sex. Nope, always has to be him. Women don't understand that men and women should inspire each other, not just take take take from the mans "sexual skills and desires" li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:03 PM
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What is your point? If I open grindr I can see lots of freak FTM with freak fetishes, should I generalize FtMs based on those profiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:59 PM
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Self report on what? dick size? Mines bigger than average
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:58 PM
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I'm pretty sure if you asked alot of men they would think it's very hot for a woman to approach. I meant its not hot for women to have to approach. THey want to be the object of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:58 PM
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Not really in my experience they all feel about the same. I've even been in transsexual neo vaginas and it feels not so different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:37 PM
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I see no problem with lying to hypocritical women. But I don't condone secretly cheating on them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:36 PM
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Because they sterilized themselves. Its also a marker of narcissistic extremist thinking. Rational thinkers keep their options open
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:28 PM
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no. I prefer being virile. Men who get vesectomies are also pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:24 PM
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Big ones feel much different than little ones, MUCH different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:22 PM
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Her "bf" is a ftm trans. So a hairy little gremlin with no dick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:21 PM
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If you’re a bisexual man why would you want to date homophobic women? A bisexual man wants less women to be homophobic, can you not grasp this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:20 PM
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Wow you explained what so many women on this sub deny. 80/20
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:13 PM
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There are plenty of uggos out there dating each other, I see them every day while out and about But the point is that that uggo woman at some point fucked with a guy who's more attractive than her uggo current man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:09 PM
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Shouldn't we as a society punish women for going to far after glitter considering how it fucks up relationship dynamics later in life and makes men insecure and unhappy. Or is women fuckin hot guys a dynamic society should be protecting at all costs and externalities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:07 PM
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Why do young guys spend so much time and energy on gorgeous women who are unstable and sometimes cruel to them? Women they'll never really have? Young guys don't do that in high numbers. At least nowhere near as high as women chase unattainable men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:06 PM
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Its not hot for women to approach. They want to be desired. Women get turned on by men desiring them, not desiring men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:02 PM
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pussys feel like pussys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:55 PM
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go look at porn, all of that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:01 AM
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Ya ok, but the whole reason this sub exists is because men can only change so much about themselves to fit womens preconceived notions of who a "real" man is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:00 AM
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I didn't say they were scary, I said they were crazy. Enjoy your rape roleplay because your man don't feel like a big man enough to get hard without thinking hes raping you lmao. sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:53 AM
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What I don't understand is how women masturbate thinking about nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:50 AM
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TBF those men all have sisters that are also not particularly appealing to the masses
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:47 AM
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I have no desire to harm people, I'm guessing your one of those bdsm types that likes being choked, sorry not into that, and neither are most men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:46 AM
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This is a false road because women treat men very differently based on how they value them. A woman may value a nice husband who helps her raise a beautiful family more than that one fling that all she wanted from was sex, but they will receive different treatment because they are valued for different aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:44 AM
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Men have way crazier desires than you will ever will and we keep them in check, because its part of being an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:40 AM
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Top 10 what? Well USA demographics have changed a lot in the last 50 years. Interesting how demographics matter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:36 AM
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I will keep my principles and have all the sex I want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:36 AM
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and we were involved for eight years While you were fucking other dick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:33 AM
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Rich places are smarter than poor places
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:32 AM
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You didn't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:31 AM
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You don't have principles. That’s not how humans should work. You talk like youre an animal. Again, disturbing. So maybe show that judgement up your ass and not on other people who are just living their life away from you? Without judgement, people like you ruin society. Judgement keeps people in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:30 AM
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Ok? You know most people in society agree with me right, youre the weird one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:29 AM
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Well thats the reality that most men deal with today with our pornified culture. I mean theres men with like 3.5 in penises, and men with 8 inch penises. Thats says it all really. Theres so many men that are SO much better than other men. All shes has to do experience one of those and then youre nothing in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:27 AM
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Uh, no. My previous statement was saying that you don't have consistent sexual principles or anything really. Which is why you do one thing one day, and a different thing a different day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:25 AM
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The switch to being a slut. Theres clearly a cultural switch, something happens in their life to trigger it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:23 AM
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No, I just find it disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:23 AM
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I can answer you, its not very enjoyable. Its why men have cuckhold fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:17 AM
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Personally I know people that don't like indians because you all are one of the MOST tribal groups that hire (and promote) your own and form little purely indian companies. Like how the fuck are there entire companies with 100s of employees and they are all indian? Thats not even family nepotism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:16 AM
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Ya lots of stupid idiots in the richest country in the world. Definitely makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:14 AM
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Who does slut culture attract? Do 12 year old girls want to be sluts? When does the switch go off?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:11 AM
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Venezuela would be better off with a regime change. Too bad for them, people feel thats "mean" these days so they will suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:10 AM
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I also said that i didn’t give a fuck about him. Who cares about that. Were talking about you fucking him in 10 minutes. No one cares what you thought of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:09 AM
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We have culture to guide us on how to express our moods and desires instead of "doing whatever I want"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:07 AM
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I'm talking about women posting in this very thread....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:06 AM
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I don't think money is owed either if somone is stupid or refuses to work, but a lot of people disagree with this opinion for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:49 AM
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What is your opinion of Pai?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:43 AM
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cringe. you can love someone and still see the world for it is, its not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:43 AM
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why guys are placing such importance on how quickly a woman Probably because they read stories online from women bragging about banging a guy in 10 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:42 AM
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cheaper cost of living Bangkok is not really very cheap if you are staying in the nice areas. there are elephants here Abused the Buddhism Stupid kind people A lot of them are legit stupid. Like talk to a westernized upper class thai, they will not have much positive things to say about the average underclass Thai healthy living I mean their 2nd largest city Chang Mai people literally flee for months every year because of toxic forest fire air Foods good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:42 AM
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Women do not like mens natural sexuality. They usually prefer a performative sexuality. I am going through this right now with a girl who says "what I want is for you to feel good, no matter the method". But shes lying. Even to herself maybe. Still shes better then women who don't even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:38 AM
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Why do western women even move to Thailand? Whats in it for you? We know why men move/visit there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:33 AM
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Than our parents. Also were 2% of women porn creators in the 90s like they are now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:30 AM
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Your experiences are ridiculous and you pass them off as normal to troll people on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:29 AM
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Being paid for sex sounds awful. Ick. You don't really get paid for it, you just fuck with hot people, and post the videos online and wait for money to come in. is it just drunken millennials in college? I'm a millennial who did plenty of drinking and sports clubs in the big 10, and no one had sex in 10 minutes. End of the night, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:26 AM
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I mean its shocking to have sex with someone within 10 minutes of meeting them. I don't know anyone who's done that. Did you ever think about if you would have enjoyed the porn industry?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:20 AM
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Ok I assumed you were a typical deranged entitled white girl based on how you post and your politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:20 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:19 AM
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Like many woman, I would primarily care about how good he is at sex and how nice his penis is and how he uses it. My personal experience is men don't have similar features that women can be attracted to. Women are attracted to large penises, and height, that is similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:19 AM
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Thats stupid that you abandoned logic and rational simply because you found a woman who fed your security and self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:16 AM
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People have been having less sex and fewer partners overall when compared to the last few decades. Thats not true. People are having many more partners than in the past. They are also having sex with people they would have never met in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:13 AM
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Not to mention, he hooked up with someone just as quickly. Uh, so thats why. Not the other stuff you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:12 AM
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Why would they date men they have no passion for? Are you saying the sex is bad? What about the ones that like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:59 AM
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Nope, and you'll never have those experiences. Maybe your daughters will
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:52 AM
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Tindr has the same people on it as all the other apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:50 AM
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only for him to admit to me that he doesn't care about it at all You clearly do not care about it that much or you wouldn't have had sex with a man 10 minutes after meeting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:48 AM
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Did you tell your husband you had sex with a guy 10 minutes after meeting him? I'd like to see how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:47 AM
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What does a woman who's not that into me but has sex with me look like vs a woman who's very into me and has sex with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:46 AM
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they just wanted to hook-up Why would anyone have sex with a stranger in an hour unless they were extremely "primally" attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:43 AM
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Women do compare men to past lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:42 AM
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Or just find a girl on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:41 AM
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I don't think a slut would ever be compatible with me, I don't see how I could be compatible with a slut. Or a virgin. I would want a girl who has been with guys like me and is sexually attracted to guys like me. Sluts wouldn't be into me, they would have been with better more exciting hotter men than me, so we wouldn't be compatible. I cannot feel sexually validated with a slut because I am not hung, nor am I amazing in bed, how can I feel validated by someone who has had significantly better?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:38 AM
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No, are you indian?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:35 AM
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They are having more partners. What are you implying?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:33 AM
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Too be fair, india has a billion people, and lots going on, its not feasible that everyone wants to leave india or can or even wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:26 PM
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narrow subset of Indians Wouldn't a portion of people all over India be interested in migrating, not just one or two regions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:17 PM
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Charithra Chandran Well I looked up more pictures of her and now I see we were talking from different perspectives. In that tennis picutre or awards or whatever, she looks particularly put together. In her other picture yes I would say she is much closer to pedestrian than top percentile woman. Shes still better looking than most of the indian women I come across where I live. I have no interest in going to India for a woman. Would rather fight it out in the West for a woman who I feel looks lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:14 PM
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they aren’t getting laid as easily as a pornstar on set. Including you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:00 PM
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Many (most?) women don't even orgasm from a penis in going in and out of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:58 PM
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Yeah cause NRIs aren't representative of India. What are they representative of then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:57 PM
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Diminishing gains. Women don't care much about being "super" fit. Its all about building a package. Women like men like they are gift baskets "oh hes got this and this, and oh this ones different than what was in my last package, ooh nice, guess I don't see this but oh well, look at all these great things I have in my package" Thats how they think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:55 PM
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This is your average non obese South Indian woman. I see indian women all the time, very few of them look like that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:54 PM
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Its not about sex, its about sexual validation. Men are desperate for sexual validation. Women are definitely overvaluing sex which is why the feel so bad after having sex with a guy who doesn't want more from them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:52 PM
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Nah he lasts like 20-30 mins before busting even the first time. Cause hes trying hard instead of enjoying himself. When a man is in ecstasy he cums. 30 minutes of fucking is boring. Afterall why not go an hour? Or two? Cause its stupid and boring after a while. That other guy got ED cause you didn't fit his sexual template. You thought just getting naked was exciting enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:15 AM
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Hes just edging for you. You both are performative for each other, lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:08 AM
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Hooking up, dating, its all the same. Go find some sex obsessed man if you want to have porn sex where the man stays hard 24/7 and last for ages
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:04 AM
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Because even if shes happy with yours, yours is not a status symbol. The girl I am seeing compliments my dick, but it will never be the same as truly hung guys. Its similar to being told your adequate, not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:03 AM
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What are you talking about? You want to be settled for? I want to be in full love and trust with my partner. The only way that can occur is security in honest attraction and mutual symmetrical VALUE. When both people feel they have won, that is what is lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:01 AM
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She has much better facial harmony than 80% of the women on the street. Yall are smoking crack. It seems like you are trying to front
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:57 AM
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I don't think those two are very pretty. Its more they just lack obvious ugly features.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:56 AM
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Lol, bro, I'm not even indian and I seen enough indian women to know shes more attractive than most. And shes very light skin, don't yall like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:53 AM
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it certainly helps a bit. You also don't have to get "super" anything, just fit is enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:51 AM
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Sounds like a pattern, the past predicts the future, enjoy your future sex experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:48 AM
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Oh so youre fine with a man with a soft dick doing foreplay with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:46 AM
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All men think of you as a conquest, youre just filtering for men who are good maskers and liars. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:45 AM
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What is the bar for validation then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:44 AM
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Most men are porn sick and suck at sex for this reason lol. Oh and how does that make men bad at sex? And how exactly do you expect him to re-wire his brain that has spent years with porn because he didn't have sex early enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:42 AM
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They do this far more often than men. The only thing a man can do is see some attractive prostitutes. Men cannot consistently fuck above their league, women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:40 AM
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Or one that I've run into is my ex telling me she likes huge dicks when I'm not exact a pornstar here lol I mean that was just rude. The sad part is that shes just being honest. Most women are too afraid to say. Even if they don't like how it feels, they like the status symbol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:39 AM
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lol no. Silly response. maybe you are sexually inexperienced
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:35 AM
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Well women who would have sex with you in a relationship would have sex with you in a hook up, if you had the right attitude. I assume a woman who wants to have sex with me in a relationship would hook up with me if only I had the sexual charisma that draws women to have casual sex, I believe it is like 50% physical, 50% personality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:32 AM
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How is a man suppose to be good at sex without sleeping with different types of women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:29 AM
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It also gives women the ability to fuck around with whatever type of guy they want, making them less likely to want you. But we can't control women, we can only play the game
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:41 AM
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Women like it. They love the confidence that an abusive man exudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:36 AM
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If you mean friends or anyone I know close enough to know that about them or be told. Nope. All the abusers I know about were told to me by women. My theory is that kind men tend to group together, and women don't value kindness at all, so they fuck a lot of abusers and complain to kind men about it. Meanwhile kind men are like "where the fuck are these guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:35 AM
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We are talking about what most people do and trying to suss it out. Don't be a boring pedant. Having a conversation with you must be really boring "what do you think of Jess's new guy". "Idk hes a person, were all different people, doing different things, I'm sure he does people things like other people do!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:32 AM
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Men should be dishonest, honesty only benefits the woman, because women over-value sex. When you set such a high value for something, people will naturally adjust the truth to obtain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:21 AM
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People will always have different standards for casual vs relationships.... that's the kinda the whole point. Thats not true at all. You are just describing yourself. YOU have different standards for casual vs relationships. Not people in general. In fact most people prefer to date people they have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:19 AM
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you are default always being settled for Not really, because you are having sex, so youre accomplishing that, shes not going to have sex with just anyone. Attraction is not negotiable anyway, the important thing is too see through a womans lying ways about how she REALLY feels about you sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:18 AM
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boring response
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:35 AM
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Physical appearance is the least of what you want. Its one part of a constellation. Its all about the dopamineeee
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:19 AM
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Finally, if a woman would only have sex with a man if he gives her companionship in return, then that means she's not really attracted to him anyway. If I have sex with her, I can always dump her later if I find out shes finds me "just ok" or "good enough". The important part is to have sex with the girl, and that she wants to be with you, then you have the power. She only has the power before sex. So hook up vs. relationship don't really matter if you are a discerning man, either way sex was ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:18 AM
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Youre going to end up with a nice guy, he he, its your destiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:15 AM
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"Raw lust" isn't real. "Beta bux" isn't real. Theres lots of feelings that you haven't had, someone of your type would claim them to be not real because you never experienced them. Another person might be curious about what others experience, instead of letting their own limited experiences blind them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:14 AM
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I think getting your balls drained by an enthusiastic partner allows men to be motivated in other areas of life. Werent you talking about accomplishments? Yes people can slave away at many unrewarding tasks. Would you rather have a slave or a worker (rewarded for efforts), who do you think is more productive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:13 AM
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I want a guy that I found hot from day 1 Hes only going to want you for 1 day lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:10 AM
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Wanting things you want is reasonable, wanting things you already have and therefore do not desire, unhinged. Brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:08 AM
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I don't have to, I don't have any sick parents. You really think a man struggling with sexual validation is going to be able to put his all into supporting a family? What you are talking about is being in debt to circumstance, not an "accomplishment"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:07 AM
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Theres nuance to life vs. personality but. Regardless your whiplash of assaulting mens egos here for wanting this and that and then declaring that "everyone deserves x, y, z" when it comes to other things.... man what a mess of an ideology you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:00 AM
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Thats cause you don't deserve a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:59 AM
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Thats sad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:53 AM
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Why wouldn't someone deserve an exciting life? Uh, because they are boring? Why would boring people deserve an exciting life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:48 AM
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I wonder if you are friends with any boys who are "losers" because they aren't good at "getting pussy"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:47 AM
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Probably another childfree woman chiming in. Opinion - trash
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:42 AM
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Ya true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:40 AM
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So you think everyone deserves an exciting life?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:38 AM
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Its very enjoyable seeing delusional women realize that they ran out of time, and have other delusional women hit them with "oh I have a friend that had a kid at 40, its totes possible!".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:37 AM
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if you asked a normal person that they’d probably look at you weird and never speak to you again lool I asked girls things like that all the time after sleeping with them, and they always have an answer. You are delusional thinking you wouldn't share anything about your sex life to a man your trying to date
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:33 AM
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If sex with the average man sucks, then how is the average man suppose to have any confidence when initiating sex with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:32 AM
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being able to support your family and take care of your sick mom Bro, most men, or at least many, can already do that. Do you really think having a job is validating when you can't get the women you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:32 AM
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A lot of men already have satisfying jobs and life situations. What would be examples of things that make a man feel "validated" besides attention and praise from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:31 AM
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Thats what porn has always been
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:28 AM
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Idk, I would say this is a troll post. Women definitely don't care much what you do if your pulling in cash. What do you live in a dump and dress like a bump?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:26 AM
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I only use dating apps these days. I feel I have more control over the situation. If the date is awkward or she thinks I am lame, I like that she also bears part of the blame and wastes her night. Personally I don't find it awkward. I actually am far more stressed out talking to a random girl at a bar, than I am a random girl I met on an app. It helps that I am physically attractive and get matches. I suppose men who have bad dating profiles really are shooting themselves in the foot by using th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:20 AM
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Yes, it hasn't been better, just more stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:08 AM
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Wait until you are excited about your life, and are looking for a partner to share it with as an equal. All men already feel this way. What a silly thing to say. Juvenile
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:07 AM
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Its fine if the woman is just waiting for the one, because women are passive followers when it comes to sex and relationships. The man needs to know how to turn a woman on, he needs practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:33 AM
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Right so the dad has to know if his kid is having sex otherwise he has failed as a parent? Yes. And I'm guessing it's the exact opposite for women, isn't it? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:16 AM
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Ya a lot of people love assholes. I am more interested in finding a partner in crime, someone to enjoy life with, not manipulate some poor girl. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:07 AM
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You just said you don't care if they socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:01 AM
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Being a virgin is failing at life, as a man. Unless you live in a culture that respects virginity in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:56 AM
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Love how no women respond to your completely rational and obvious comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:53 AM
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which is fine!! How is that fine? Being a single sexless male sucks. And its low status. Its not "fine".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:52 AM
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Why invest in something that’s already yours with no work? Why would you fall in love with a man with him doing no work towards you? Oh ya I forgot, you women are only invested in his "personality" and sex game. Then of course, why the fuck would he put in any work when you don't care about work, just how funny he is, and good he is in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:50 AM
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Youre just going to hide this whole persona from someone that you will be sharing years of your life with....?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:48 AM
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he says he’s not going to Why would he say hes not going to. It sounds like you believe relationships are typically between stupid pigheaded people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:47 AM
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Women dont do any domestic labor in cohabitating relatonships. Its very close to 50/50. Its only when children are involved that women do more labor. Childless women saying this are actually just delulu. Maybe if you had children you would have a point. The whole argument is irrational. I am living alone. How exactly is a woman doing domestic labor for me when I do not live with a woman. And why would my lifestyle suddenly change with a woman living with me..?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:21 AM
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Thats pretty pathetic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:18 AM
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Oh should I be? You just said it doesn't matter, connection does. Learn to debate unless you just enjoy being an irrational hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:18 AM
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Because he cares about his kids and making sure they are on the proper paths to life success. I bet your going to raise a porn addict boy who sits inside gooning all day lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:17 AM
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And you wouldn't care if they never lost it and ended up unsocialized gooner incel. Sounds like you would make a great parent... "who cares what the kids are up to"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:15 AM
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But anyone with a really good connection can have hot extremely hot sex. How does that follow? Sex is a skill. It has nothing to do with connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:10 AM
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Whatever, you aren't representative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:09 AM
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Shouldn't she talk to him and negotiate and complain to him before randomly breaking up....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:00 AM
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And no, I'm not saying this is standard female behavior. Sounds like you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:59 AM
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I said fucked, not dated. Yes, yes chase the stereotypes, make sure to ignore the puny asian men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:58 AM
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You seem to think that she shouldn't be judged. That this is standard female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:56 AM
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So how many is enough for you, when you've sampled all the different "types" of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:55 AM
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In contrast, a woman who rarely engages in casual sex may sleep with a mid man the night they meet because she has some shit going on in her life that she wants distracted from. This is like a man going to see a prostitute when he gets some bad news at work and feels horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:51 AM
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Young women these days are rarely the 1st type
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:49 AM
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When a white women injects into a conversation about racialized sex, to joke about it, we all know you had your "experience"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:44 AM
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The more sex women have the more picky they get about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:40 AM
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So you want to settle down with a man uglier than the ones who fucked you once or twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:37 AM
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youre the racist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:36 AM
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Ya anti-white fools are annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:36 AM
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do y'all expect women to stop having sex because you care If enough men care then women will lower their numbers of sexual partners. Social pressure is actually the ONLY thing that reigns in female sexuality. Less male partners will lead to men being more confident in relationships with women. The sex will be better and there will be less ego destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:06 AM
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Why wouldn't you wonder about it anyway. You know there are men way better than your current boy who would blow you away sexually compared to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:01 AM
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So what happens when you have "the best" sex and then you don't experience that again. All the other "different people different dynamics" then become worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:59 AM
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What exactly does having your cake and eating it look like to you? You seem so confident in your little sex quest, yet use vague euphemisms instead of spelling it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:53 AM
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Nowadays men compete with the quality of life of being single. No, they compete with whatever attractive man meets her threshold that she throws in with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:51 AM
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Ah so you are extra racist and resentful against whites, how special of you (not)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:48 AM
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I would definitely be ok with more immigration if it was only women. The idea of millions of men from African, Middle asia coming to the west to hunt for (w)estern women gives me the hibbie jibbies and thats exactly what is happening. It feels like we are being conquered. They even say this and make videos about how they will find their western slut when they get here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:57 PM
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will definitely value men purely sexually? They only value certain men, not the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:51 PM
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If thats the case then why are more young women making porn then ever before
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:49 PM
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Personally its not exciting to me as a man, its just another opportunity for the woman to judge my sexual skills. At least when it happens fast its low stakes, so if she doesn't like sex we don't waste our time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:32 PM
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No its both women and men psychology. Women just hate acknowledging their own for some reason. Ego? Socialization?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:47 PM
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I said I am not insecure about height. Not in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:46 PM
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Duh. This whole sub reddit is about SEXUAL market place. The SEXUAL VALIDATION market where women deal out sexual VALIDATION is what is on mens mind. Otherwise why not just watch porn and wank, its basically just as good as sex for males in terms of the chemicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:05 PM
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He did. How can you deny that. 95% of the time, sexual chemistry is what the man creates for the woman. Its a woman buying what a man is selling situation. Almost every time. How is that mutual? Do you think a the relationship between a car dealer and a customer is a mutual situation and when the sale is made, we say "oh they just had amazing chemistry". Lmao. Ya right. He sold, she bought.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:24 PM
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Would men find “I just want him for sex” offensive or a compliment? You know the answer. Imagine how powerful I would feel if a married woman wanted to have sex with me on the side while her husband "loves" her. Men like feeling powerful. Being desired for sex over love is at the heart of cuckhold anxiety, competition anxiety. All (most) men know they have the capacity to have a woman love them, love is an ethereal quality, its very apparent that humans have HUGE capacities for love. Men are muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:20 PM
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I listen to women talk about men and what makes them want men. And I am not a good flirt and its definitely hindered me. I am not even autistic, I'm just a regular joe who is not good at flirting and ratcheting up sexual tension with words. A woman would rather go to McDonalds with a man that makes her laugh and makes her feel naughty, than a man giving her a nicer experience that seems "boring" or "sterile"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:57 PM
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I don't think its hypocrisy. But I think if woman are not the initiators then they don't deserve the same outcomes as men. And people instinctively believe and know this, which is why women will never be as respected as men on a one for one level, a direct comparison level, in society, in life. This pisses (some) women off, but they should think about why this is the case. It would be hypocrisy if women said "we don't want to work as hard as men, but we want the same material outcomes as men!". …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:53 PM
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Its related to the hierarchy of masculine assertive qualities that the woman perceives from the man. In the womens mind, the bolder man "deserves" to have sex earlier. He pushed her buttons and behaved the right way to unlock sex. He is closer to chaos and farther from stability. Stability is often EXTREMELY desirable, but its never a sexual turn on, its never a fetish, its never rulebreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:49 PM
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I think at the heart of it women like being valued for something other than sex because we are pursued as sex objects so often. Men don’t so being valued for sex is much more important to them. We are talking about how women value sex, not how they are valued FOR sex. One is about how a woman values sex, the other is about how a woman perceives a man to value sex in relation to her. Even if a woman sees very little value in men sexually desiring her, she can still compared how she feels having s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:40 PM
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Uh, the gender pay gap is real. So you are slightly less rich than your rich western male peers, and this feels like oppression to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:33 PM
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monetarily disadvantage How are you, a young presumably western women living in one of the richest countries on the planet (likely American) monetarily disadvantaged? Why is it that typically its white women from rich western countries that seem to be so good at "exploiting men" through sex compared with poor 3rd world woman? To me you are applauding privileged white women using their sex appeal for money, when they could make a very comfortable living doing something else. And I am not surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:30 PM
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I do court women but I find that they do not value being courted all they care about is flirting skills and "chemistry" (which is really just a way of evaluating a mans value and masculine boldness, its not holistic at all like they pretend)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:27 PM
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Women can wear whatever they want, they’re still not asking to be sexually objectified. And taking money from porn brained men is just good business sense. Do you really not realize how disgusting this attitude comes off to men. Like when we get married and have a daughter are you going to teach our daughter that And taking money from porn brained men is just good business sense. Like gross. Just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:21 PM
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I really can't relate to simp culture. Half your examples are charicatures. Like imagine a guy saying "I'm into E-girls". How pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:20 PM
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that you “ruin” a woman by fucking her but you aren’t ruining yourself for the woman you will end up with. Men can ruin themselves through sex. Its called sex and porn addiction and chasing unrealistic highs. Theres just less opportunities for men to have sex with wildly different women unless its through fantasy and porn or prostitution. Women are just very similar, a mans experience with one woman will not be that different to an experience with another woman. Men are very different, relativel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:17 PM
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Meanwhile bad sex is better than no sex for men Its not bad sex to have sex with a woman below your league. In fact it can be very relaxing, less pressure, and more enjoyable depending on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:11 PM
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Oh come on, how can you say the opposite is true. I am not saying women get to pick whatever guy they want regardless of how she looks, I am saying that casual sex with attractive men is easier to come by and it literally just depends on how much she wants it. Even if she doesn't want casual, Theres countless posts of women being lead on by men. And plenty of IRL experiences as well. In all of those cases, nearly all, the women is chasing someone out of her league. Women don't even believe in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:08 PM
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I said nothing about disgust. Nobody asked me Its embarrassing to ask about other men. They would like to know, but its too much social consequence. The girl I am seeing told me about her former guys, turns out they were all 6ft+. I am 5'9". Personally I am not to insecure about height so it didn't make too much of an impact with me but it did make me step back and think "oh shes used to being with a tall guy, theres something about that she likes that I don't have". If it was something else lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:03 PM
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I disagree with this. I do in fact see a lot of studs with very plain janes. I see a lot of (not fat) men walking around with fat women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:58 PM
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And I don’t know where we’re getting this belief that men don’t also fuck around in their youth and then try to settle down later in life Men generally fuck around with women in their league, not above their league like women often do. Women never go "dumpster diving" for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:56 PM
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What consequences? Consequences for their self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:54 PM
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Thats what happens every day, all the time! Thats how female sexuality operates. People naturally compare. Men do it too, we just don't have as much freedom to experiment with "hot women" like its nothing, like women do with "hot men".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:53 PM
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High body count is an implication that you've been with many men better than them in some department and that you may be settling with them or viewing significant parts of them as inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:52 PM
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Were way past college. Actions have consequences. I have my own dirty laundry and baggage, but at least I acknowledge that its baggage unlike you women who never admit to anything or any consequences of actions on your future partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:28 PM
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Nobody cares about who did i fuck People care much more about who you fuck than how many you fuck. But we know that women who fuck a lot tend to taste the rainbow and fuck with many different types of men, just like men flip through porn for variety and many types of women. Women who have a "type" rather than some "sense of adventure" when it comes to men tend not to be hyperpromiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:26 PM
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I'm not miserable, I am looking to protect myself and if I have children I want to look at their mother with love and respect and not resentment. Probably you are another childfree (like most women posters here) so you cannot relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:20 PM
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No. You're ruining every woman with your dick and i think it's unhealthy to think you're that disgusting. No. The women who meet men better than me, I will just be another man. They aren't ruined in that case. Its the opposite, I am attractive so when I sleep with an ugly girl, shes going to keep thinking of me. She will always have me in the back of her mind when she is with worse men who will actually date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:41 AM
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Its more that when I'm fucking a woman below my league I know I am ruining her for some guy that she should and will end up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:24 AM
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Why would being a slut raise a womans standard. Are you saying beautiful women who don't sleep around have low standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:22 AM
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Are you just calling every man who argues with you here "conservative"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:00 AM
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There are things he watches that you dont' do or can't do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:59 AM
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No, shes happy and thinks she's made the right choices. Most women are like her. They want to fuck the hottest guys they can regardless of who they end up in LTRs with. Shes not even slut, shes only been with like 7 men, it just so happens that it only takes one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:52 AM
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You don't mind that hes watching more arousing, shocking and exhilarating things than you do for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:19 PM
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I specifically try to avoid porn to give her my sexual energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:18 PM
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You think its normal for 20% of men to be alone? When does it become abnormal or a problem? 50%?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:06 PM
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Theres only so much a man can do. Society is taking more and more avenues away from him to be successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:01 PM
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Yes, its bad when people are not rewarded for hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:34 PM
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Women choose. Women are not forcefully taken in 2025. They simply make choices. Therefore mens rape tendencies are irrelevant whereas womens warbride tendencies are still very relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:33 PM
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Its insight into female nature. I have to be like those guys she wanted, I don't want to be like her husband. Its very useful. As a youth I was naive about female nature. The idea that I can build a whole life with a woman, have children, and have it all be a lie on her end because she happened to fuck different guys than me earlier in her life, is so disturbing to me. There really is nothing else as disturbing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:32 PM
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Thats pretty boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:29 PM
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Weve already established mens capacity for fucking things up including women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:45 PM
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i value winning
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:44 PM
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Splitting hairs. When you see it, you want it. When you see him, you want him. If you didnt want or care about it, you wouldn't want or even have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:37 PM
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keep fronting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:36 PM
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Look up asian war brides from Vietname, japan. French women with german soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:35 PM
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My girl friend from college married a guy that she told me she isn't as attracted to compared to other guys from her past. Specifically compared him to Russian men who in her words "take what they want". This guy has it all, 5'10" handsome, muscular, relatively rich, amazingly kind. But he as no edge. Thats my most intimate example. I know another girl that ran with "certain type of guy that shall not be named" when she was younger and now hunting for "different type of guy" to marry, and she fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:34 PM
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Splitting hairs. You wanted a certain kind of relationship. You wanted to participate in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:26 PM
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I don’t know why it matters to me what other people think. Because you live in a society with other people, and they matter, even if its just a little bit. But your culture says individualism is all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:25 PM
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Not fantasies when I see it all around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:23 PM
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Because most people see being in good relationship as a goal. If you don't achieve it, you failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:22 PM
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There women who do femdom to make money, if thats what you mean lol. There aren't women who actually enjoy femdom as the main facet of their sexuality in any real sense. Regardless, irrelevant to 99% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:21 PM
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I am talking about women who partner with men. If women want to be single and isolated themselves from men, then have at it. They are failures but lots of people fail, its not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:17 PM
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How about building an esthetically pleasing life that respects the people who came before you. Seeing yourself as part of a community and a web of influencers, where your actions influence others, rather than an orgasmic animal looking to "get off" whenver possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:15 PM
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They aren't leaders in the bedroom, and they don't want to be. Go hang out in a mixed gender social group and see who the instigators and initiators are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:12 PM
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Women who value sex over other qualities men can bring to the table also tend to get abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:11 PM
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They're usually competetive no lifers that enjoy the thrill of being a basement dweller as long as they win. LMAO. Funny and correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:07 PM
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Good for you. Other women need education.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:05 PM
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Wow bro, your straightest man I have ever interacted with. Definitely your not a fag. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:05 PM
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It takes two to tango. In the end yes its men who let societies crumble. When the invading tribe comes and destroys everything, it is mens fault in the end. But women can choose to lay with invaders. They have agency as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:03 PM
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Depends on how the information is being disseminated and who it reaches and what they do with it. I believe even high value men are starting to consistently get angry about women and their choices even if its only in particular contexts they don't encounter much. Male capacity for feeling emasculated and insecure is quite deep and can effect even high status men who generally get what they want, the more women test and trigger men with their choices and actions (ie. who they choose for what) the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:01 PM
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very low self-esteem would put up with. Nope. It happens when women are naive and not properly educated and influenced by their family and friends. Self esteem is secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:59 PM
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Thats because your views are completely dependent on the men you value rather than coming from an internally consistent belief system you have about yourself. Short term sex either is degrading or its not. Same with sexual acts. If you have a completely unrigid sexual code, that twists and turns depending on the man you are with, then you have given them all the power. And in fact you are just giving men incentive to lie to you. "He who lies best, makes wild_squirrel feel comfy about having sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:56 PM
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Getting pregnant and discarded by the immigrant muslim guy youre first year of college because your parents didnt tell you that white women are fetishized and targeted as sexual conquests. Funny things like that which (some) women do who do not have proper guidance from their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:51 PM
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Not, mad I said your fronting is annoying and I cannot even quickly skip over your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:48 PM
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Women follow men. Men dictate society. Even the strongest, most valuable women instinctively follows (not all) men, WANTS to follow men. If enough males are angry, the females have to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:46 PM
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Facepalm. You realize this is so so far away from the type of shit I am talking about, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:43 PM
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Didn't answer why should i do what you say is right Oh, I'm not trying to convince you, I am having a conversation to influence others. We both know your selfish ideas about me me me me, and the best the best the best, and ego driven syle of posting is not something open to criticism. In the end you will settle and then rationalize why you didn't settle. After all what could possible crack your supreme confidence in yourself, youre impregnable!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:42 PM
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You got it. And you really need both to attract attractive women. Looks without charisma = date down for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:38 PM
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Oh you don't understand hierarchy and sexual validation? Big doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:32 PM
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I'll humor you, why did she not like him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:31 PM
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It’s okay to settle as long as she didn’t have sex with a Chad beforehand? YES. Finally someone understand. Thank christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:30 PM
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I agree you should avoid explicit degradation like that. My problem with you women is that you focus on low hanging fruit like criticizing something like that, but then you melt under the sexual pressure from "the right guy" who has what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:28 PM
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I know she adores my husband You are just a poser when it comes to all this stuff. A good girl pretending to be a bad girl. Enjoy your cosplay. You would never have considered bringing home a man she hated, its engrained in you. Its not engrained in all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:25 PM
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Also why do you think i would tolerate people in my life who do not like the way i live? When a teacher correct you in class, you tell them "this is who I am, FUCK YOU, I'm not listening to you". Does that describe you? I never said his opinion is MORE important. You are creating strawmen. I am criticizing that you don't care about his opinion AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:21 PM
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Honey, unfortunately which ever virgin man you choose will have 1000s of hours of porn watching under his belt. I would suggest looking for a good man who has certain good opinions about culture and responsibility. Rather than simply "virginity".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:19 PM
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Adults don't generally give a fuck if their family and friends like who they date Aren't you from a trashy appalachia family? Maybe you should speak for YOUR family and class, and not others. I grew up in a nice suburb and we absolutely care about who other people in our social circles are fucking with, and their parents absolutely care. And all of these people are democrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:16 PM
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All his posts are just fronting his online persona as "sex god that women only want to use for sex". Its pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:10 PM
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Money is no longer a concrete statement of social status in America. A large portion, significant enough to have radical consequences for society, of Women basically just care about sex now and which men can make them feel sexy, not which men are "good on paper". Western culture is pornified.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:08 PM
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I did address your comment. You clearly do not care what your family and friends thinks about the types of men you fuck with. Talk about RED FLAG. Do you even have a relationship with your parents at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:04 PM
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Like if you go to Harvard, and socialize with women who also went to Harvard... it's not going to impress them as much as it would impress someone who went to state college elsewhere. Money doesn't impress poor ghetto women, they'd rather have men they are "comfortable" with. Girls just want to have fun. High social class women fuck down all the time if the guy is sexually charismatic. Very few casual sex or even early relations start with income statements and display of economic status. Some f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:00 PM
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Ya I make a lot of money. For casual sex or even early relationship tingles, you think any women care about this ? Nope. Even looks, for women who are spoiled by availability of men, a "good looking" man is just one facet of what they are after. They want "the total package". You think women enjoy some boring good looking man, nope, BORING. Like you said VERY FEW men my age (late twenties early 30s) have true flash money. Most yuppie American women don't care about money. They literally seem to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:57 PM
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Youre completely missing my point. I am calling out those hypocritical women that enjoy being sexually dehumanized "in the right context". That let men use them and degrade them when they have passed some subjective bar of attractiveness OR 'respectfulness' whatever that means (tingles, creating comfort whatever). Its all fucked up sexual culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:50 PM
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I didn't say he was kinky, I said he slept with a girl who would do things you would not. That you are uncomfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:48 PM
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saying it in purely sexual and consensual context They don't say it in context. They talk about their sex lives online. If they only talked about BDSM with their partners, no one would know about it. They spread their sexuality to other young women who are just maturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:46 PM
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Do you even have an idea of "heaps"? What if hes slept with a woman FAR more sexually "taboo breaking" than you? Would that also bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:42 PM
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You are arguing with some projection of other women They are ALL over the fucking internet honey. Women like you are a minority. You should pick more bones with those women doing those things, and not men like me who are subject to their warping of our culture!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:41 PM
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She shouldn’t like seductive, charismatic, handsome guy and should be toad sexual. She should know her league and what kind of guy would fit with her family and who she is. Not looking to find the most physically attractive man possible to stick his dick in her once. Maybe if you meet some intelligent female friends who actually apply a little bit of strategy to dating beyond "find the hottest guy possible to fuck me", you will understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:38 PM
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Ya true. The only impact it has though is demographics, race, culture. Which is more about what kinds of men women in that "scene' may be exposed to and influenced by.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:35 PM
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Why is it that PPD would ban me for saying a woman sounds like a whore but not for saying a man sounds like an incel. When they are both simply insults about ones sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:34 PM
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Why do you care if a man is hypocritical about sex and dating. Especially when men and women are extremely different when it comes to sex dating and double standards are literally written into our biology. Do you want men to start acting like women, is that what you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:31 PM
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And if shes into BDSM and being dominated by men then its still disrespectful? You sex positive feminists needs to get your facts straight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:29 PM
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How does that follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:21 AM
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Why are you defensive about girls and being virgins or having some kind of sexual self control. Some women are virgins its not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:20 AM
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They love that. There is even a moving about it called "The Graduate." You really think its easy to find an older woman who wants to have sex with a younger man? You women really live in la la land
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:25 AM
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Or you live in a society that values intelligence and community instead of thugness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:24 AM
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Just like how women get a kick out of big dicks and other unrealistic examples of masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:23 AM
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People with strong personalities and sense for humor don't need to be drunk to entertain. I needed to be drunk though because I am not a naturally charismatic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:28 AM
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Charlie is a good representation of the average blue piller dude. funny character
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:26 AM
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Ugly men don't deserve to get their foot in the door with attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:21 AM
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Its called speaking with intention until it becomes instinct. Yes being able to manipulate others is also a sign of social competence. Neither of these things have anything to do with being a doormat. I am just pushing back your ghetto view of asserting social power.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:48 PM
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No, its called being socially competent. You are probably a working class low educated type
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:36 PM
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The slav girls from south eastern european families I know were more conservative sexually. I don't know why that offends you. The girl I am seeing sister literally never had a boyfriend at age 24, despite having active social life. Her parents make her come home to them every night she can't randomly stay over at a mans home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:33 PM
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Its not communication that makes women feel the sex shes having is "bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:31 PM
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Guess he'll just have to deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:29 PM
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Kelly Brook Bikini Is not overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:28 PM
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Why do you deserve what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:10 PM
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How can we do that if we dont have bwc/bbcs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:09 PM
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Shouldnt you be mad at those women making all that fucked up content that is messing up your mans head and causing him to have fucked up standards for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:08 PM
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Yes porn inhibits pair bonding. Its literally mentally getting off to another human who is outside of your "pair"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:03 PM
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What if he doesn't like flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:01 PM
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Many men are selfish and lazy lovers who have no idea how to please a woman Its not because they are lazy and selfish. Its because it is very difficult to please a woman sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:00 PM
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IF thats the case then why do you women freak the fuck out when a man doesn't want to have sex with you every minute of the day. Or needs a little help and time getting hard. Fucking hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:54 PM
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So only a small percentage of men are worth having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:52 PM
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So once you feel safe and respected by a man... then he can focus on using your holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:50 PM
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You don't worry at all that having sex with hot men will make you see your future husband as less than in comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:39 PM
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Again, thats not being a doormat. Thats being boring. Most who don't share their opinion often, just don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:37 PM
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Does that include sex too? I should just do whatever I want to her. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:35 PM
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