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Exhibit A.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:56 PM
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Fab!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:56 AM
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Pretty much as you said. That I would make the perfect wife/mother because I stated on my profile (before i disabled it) that I dont believe in sex before marriage (no shade to those who dont) and that im looking for a ltr. For some reason they think telling me that "you're not like the sluts i have hooked up with you are a keeper" is gonna make me want to pick out wedding dresses. They seem to ignore the fact I also stated I was looking for a fellow virgin. Also the and "Im ready to settle down…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:55 AM
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Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:08 AM
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Very true, I get them a lot on my OLD profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:07 AM
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Im thankful these men bragged about their techniques online because for those of us who dont date or mingle much its great to know the warning signs and avoid them lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:06 AM
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Yes, are you new here (not being mean)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:03 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:03 AM
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This! But as I have stated up thread in the case of virgins a few of us have had a different experience here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:00 AM
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Funny as a Virgin woman I, and a few others here, have not had our preferences respected for wanting virgin men and told that we are being silly or that 'acksuhally, all virgins want a man who's ran through half a continent.' Unapologetically embracing your preferences should also come with respecting your preferences' preferences. Most virgin women want virgin or low count men after all and that should be appcepted, not argued against.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:57 AM
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This also works the other way round too, good girl here and all I get are male sluts wanting to settle down after making a couple of women baby mama's.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:58 PM
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Goals right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:55 PM
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Unironically based.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:51 PM
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Gonna be that person and say as a female virgin never understood why men are made fun of for being virgins, absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:46 PM
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Because, afaik, they listen to male coaches and guys tell others guys that all women want experienced men which isnt true, it really depends on the woman but yeah totally with you on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:21 PM
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100%! Much respect but sadly this message hasnt gotten through to the entitled men who insist its rules for thee but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:29 PM
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"Im looking for wife material now" this is all I get on online dating which is why I dispair, you are very right here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:27 PM
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You deserve a million upvotes for this, thank you! As a virgin waiting for marriage me and two other women the same had an argument a few months back with a guy who had admittendly slept around but wanted a virgin to marry and not a woman who "was used" and said thats its fine because women women like us would be attracted to men like him. Would not listen and said we were lying about being virgins because he could not accept that women who are virgin or low n count want the same in men. You are…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:26 PM
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This. As a woman who is waiting for marriage I get a lot of guys message me like OP wanting to "settle down" after sleeping around and its infuritating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:15 PM
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but no women wants a 40 year old virgin either. Excuse you, speak for yourself only.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:09 PM
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Height: Dont care but prefer guys near my height (im 5'5) Income: Again dont care because I have enough money for 2 but I would hope he has enough to look after himself R: Dont have a preference BT: Attracted to all sorts but prefer huskier looking guys. House: Doesnt matter he can just move into mine. Kids: Absolutely no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:06 PM
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I tend to attract men who "have played the field and ready to settle down." and I have my online profile to blame for that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:36 AM
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Its only happened twice and I was flattered and still would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:32 AM
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Average monogamous guy 100%. I'm only looking for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:32 AM
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I guess when its forced on people who dont want to fill those roles which is fine, each to their own. I think the major problem with it nowadays is that its very one sided practically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 12:30 AM
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Um no she doesnt, she actually spoke out against matt walsh specifically and gave him a dressing down when he attacked Macy Gray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/22 11:25 PM
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One is JK Rowling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/22 05:12 AM
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If that is the proposition, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:39 AM
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Yeah but sadly many men dont think this way and that its only for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:45 AM
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But I dont see the point if Muslim brothers dont also wait which has been my findings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:42 PM
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Not yet. Wasn't sure because I know some peoples flair's are memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:31 AM
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But thats what I mean, Im under the impression not a lot of women are virgins (at least after their 20s) but I could be wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:45 PM
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Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 07:43 PM
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Its because most of the guys on this sub are RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:49 AM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:22 AM
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A lot of feminists are against hook up culture, there is always a certain type of person who likes to blame feminism for everything and anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:22 AM
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Yes! Some of the "logic" on display in this sub is truly baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:19 AM
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TY for the info! But yeah I have also had this convo with another guy who said he was a virgin but had done pretty much everything except PIV, I really dont understand that train of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:18 AM
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LOL you chad you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:15 AM
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Same!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:07 AM
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Just chucking my two cents in here I personally dont see it as a red flag but thats because im also a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:07 AM
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Haha thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:05 AM
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FYI men getting laid don't care that other men are not getting laid. More men on this sub need to understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:05 AM
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The man's own sexual history here is not relevant to whether promiscuous women are treating men collectively fairly or not. Theres a really simple solution here, if men do not want to date promiscuous women, thats fine as long as they practise what they preach. You cant be part of the problem and then complain theres a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:00 AM
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OP isnt talking about in general though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:53 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:53 PM
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As someone in the same boat I would advise you to not rely on this sub for your worldview on that, its pretty skewed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:51 PM
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Expecting most healthy people to not orgasm Who says you need a spouse to orgasm? Most women would actually say self love gets them off better than most men do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:50 PM
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Excuse you dont tar us all with the same brush. This sub has a very skewed look on things in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:49 PM
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This. But as a virgin who is waiting for marriage its a pity the men of my own religion dont think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:48 PM
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Whats a volcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:46 PM
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In a way this is why I regret waiting, as a previously religious woman, many men of my own religion who want virgins are not virgins or messed around themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:46 PM
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Same! Although Im not religious anymore its still something I stick to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:16 PM
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Yes I would, would love to in fact. Of the few men I do attract I tend to get the ones who are much older, have had "their fun" and now want to "settle" and are looking for a woman the total opposite of those they used to fuck. Im inexperienced and want a guy who is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:14 PM
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Aww thank you, really appreciated!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:51 PM
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Hmm I think it was implying they were mad about it? Like personally as a virgin woman who attracts the guys in your OP I do find it annoying, but it doesnt make me mad. Men who cant take no and feel the need to insult make me mad but not this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:51 PM
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Tbh I've yet to meet a guy whos said that, as the majority who approach me dont see it as an issue if hes promiscuous, only if women are (basically hypocrites).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:48 PM
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This 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:54 AM
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No, as I am also waiting for marriage but im a virgin I wouldnt go near a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:54 AM
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I would like to say as someone waiting for marriage I tend to attract guys with that mindset. But I also get berated for wanting a virgin guy when I am myself am a virgin so its irritating coming from the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:45 AM
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Funnily enough this is the "alpha" male talking points. There was this guy who complained about a female porn star getting married because its disgusting etc. When questioned if he felt the same about male porn stars getting married he said "women and men are different" when asked to elaborate he complained of being harassment and blocked everyone. Even he didnt beleiev his own BS lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:40 AM
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FYI pointing out something is hypocritical doesnt mean the person is mad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:29 AM
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Exactly. Also apparently pointing out hypocrisy makes you an angry now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:27 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:26 AM
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Im going to say its overblown. In the media this idea is highly circulated but I really doubt its a common among women as its made out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:19 AM
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NGL as a virgin waiting for marriage I find men with high/med body counts a huge turn off so yeah, its a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:18 AM
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From the few threads I have already seen seems to be the answer is intent. Men may not have high standards because they are more into casual than those women who may be looking for a relationship/long term partner. It would be interesting to see if "dateable" holds the same meaning for men and women if indeed what you say is true. So women are gonna forever dissatisfied and just refuse to date most men? How does this even work? Why is that a problem? People dont have to date and if they want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:14 AM
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You are trying to shame us for something women are shamed for, but because men and women are not equals, that argument doesn't work. Its not really a case of shaming, a lot of virgin women will not want a slutty man, sure there are a few who will overlook it but thats usually because hes offering something else of high value to these women. it doesnt bother you because you dont care about women want, then come on here and complain women are so hard to read lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:24 PM
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This is the point they keep overlooking. Most virgin women are going to be religious and usually will go with religious guys who are low or n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:22 PM
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This. From what the guys here say its usually rich men who have many gfs, and as its noted these women are not usually with the guy for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:19 PM
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Really? I honestly thought they on average have more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:37 AM
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And there are a lot of women who feel this way about men too but they dont want to speak on it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:39 AM
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👏 THIS! It even been discussed here and the guys were in denial lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:35 AM
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This! It just isnt talked about as much for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:34 AM
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I mean there was this one guy here who had slept around but insisted that he wanted a virgin wife (which, ok, fine) but was insistent he wasnt being a hypocrite even though the few virgin ladies here said he was and they wouldnt marry him based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:33 AM
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👏👏👏 exactly, "rules for thee but not for me" crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:29 AM
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Same. But a bit of an argument broke out with a few of us here who said we also wanted virgin men, I guess some people think it shouldnt go both ways 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:28 AM
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Why do so many on this sub shame people who act this way? Sorry i've only seen women shamed this way on here (in regards to body counts) You are free to do what you want, the point of contention is being a hypocrite about it, which afaik from this, you are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:50 AM
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I just want some clarity on this because I feel no matter who you are its hard to accept that you'll be single and childless the rest of your life. I mean google is your friend and there are plenty of articles saying this is based on research. But if you want actual peoples answers theres also other subs like childfree with plenty of female members explaining why they chose to be childfree. Also why is this only aimed at women and not both sexes? Why do you think this only applies to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:46 AM
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Yes, once and it was a bit strange. I was on my bike and he waved at me and I took that to mean he wanted me to stop so I did (I was riding round our nearby park) he said he liked my style and look, and asked for my number so I gave it to him. I would say in regards to physical attractiveness, not really my taste but that didnt matter because I was impressed by his "cold approach". He never called me though 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:34 AM
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[citiation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:58 PM
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Let’s say you’re correct - I mean, I am, but also you have not provided any statistics for your claim. that means women are unhappy married or single. No it doesnt. Any thought on why that might be? Probably because they don’t wanna live in reality and prefer to be treated and live like children The irony of saying this when one of the reasons a lot of women have cited as being the reason for not having men and kids is that the husband/dad is another child is hilarious. Maybe reign in your salti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:01 PM
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I dunno tbh, some same rp and others trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:28 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:26 PM
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The red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:41 AM
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Provide statistics then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:41 AM
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[citation needed] because a quick google search suggests the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:40 AM
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[citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:36 AM
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Hehehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:34 AM
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[citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:30 AM
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Because some of us are not into hookup culture/are waiting for marriage. A minority I know but we exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:22 AM
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That is why men are “bitter” not because they are ugly and no one wants to fuck them. Why do you think looks are the only reason a woman wouldnt fuck a guy? From the female responses I have seen on here its not all about looks with women as it mostly maybe with the guys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:16 AM
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TY for your response!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:37 PM
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MTE.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:06 AM
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Yep! Like I said im fine with rejection thats polite theres no need to be mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:02 AM
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TY for your perspective, very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:01 AM
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Im certainly not asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 07:01 AM
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Where did I say that? Please look at context before replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:19 PM
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Totally, and thank you! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:52 PM
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Exactly! But I think there is a lot of pushback here on our experiences so we dont break the narrative that men are the most oppressed in this area when I think both sides suffer here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:18 PM
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The guy I went for was a geek like me, not sure how I was punching out of my league. This happened when we were teens tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:16 PM
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Exactly, I have no issue with being rejected but theres no need to be nasty about it. Quite a few men here think thats fine though then complain about women not being forward 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:14 PM
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After the guys downthread laughed at me at my horrible experience asking a guy out and the other dismissive posts towards other women who have had horrible experiences I think its now understandable why many women dont do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:12 PM
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I was very young at the time and was so shocked I just walked away. Found out later it was because he doesnt like Asian girls (im mixed but my name gave my heritage away) also thank you for your kind response compared to the other guys laughing about this and saying my real life, its amazing these guys cry about women not wanting them when they show their shitty attitude towards what women have gone through.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:09 PM
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I have had many rejections too, I just pointed out that one because it was the worst. Glad you think its funny though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:05 PM
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I have a lot of sympathy with guys about rejection, would be nice if the sentiment went both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:02 PM
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You are replying that something that happened to me didnt actually happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:01 PM
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Its really funny the idea pushed on this sub that women only really care about money above all else, thats a very RP idea. I would go for the loving husband, doesnt matter how much he earns as I could cover both of us easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:31 AM
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I agree with you OP, I would say my personal issue is that society in general very much supports mens doing this and while it kinda does for women too they still get shamed for it, Im all for people doing what they want to do, where it affects me in my life is that as someone who is a virgin and doesnt want sex until after marriage, its hard to find a man with the same mindset, I tend to attract guys with medium-high n counts who believe in the virgin/whore complex. Even among religious men its …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:27 AM
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I've heard of celebrities like Hugh Grant and Henry Cavill talk about how they like to chase women, but after being on this sub its clear thats not universally felt by guys on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:19 AM
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Oh yeah one guy here laughed when I told him that one guy I approached just spat in my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:16 AM
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Done it a few times, learned my lesson quick, sadly not a good idea would not recommend based on my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:15 AM
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Mine is no sex before marriage, its controversial and old fashioned I know which is why I dont expect it to be widely accepted, epsecially as I learned on this sub a lot of men consider a woman wanting to make them their husband as a bad thing not a good thing which, imo, is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:12 AM
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But also younger women can have more dating experience than older men and leverage that as well to try and get what she wants. So would you be fine with a 40yr old virgin woman dating a 20yr old virgin man? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:10 AM
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I'll address this one as its the one we've discussed before wanting to date pure/virgin women (even though they themselves may not be sexually pure) Me and two other women had an argument with a guy on here who wanted to settle with a virgin despite himself having a high body count and the question was about are virgin women attracted to men who have more experience and we all answered no but acknowledged this is an individual thing so some may be some wont. Having a preference isnt an issue as …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:09 AM
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Aww thank you! :) you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:50 AM
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A) Directly, because im terrible with picking up ques.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:40 PM
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It he wants anything he needs to put a ring on it, so only husband level here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:39 PM
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We all know this study Um no we dont can you please link it? Would be interested to learn. Also if we are going to talk about tolerance how about that okcupid study that showed men were more ageist towards women in regards to looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:36 PM
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Seconded lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:32 PM
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I do wonder how common this OP is because I know of me and at least 2 others here who are virgins who are waiting and dont play these sorts of games at all, is this really a thing or is it just a small group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:29 PM
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A good question, im looking for a guy who has the same principles as me (ive rejected hook up culture, I know men who have done the same are the minority but I only need one after all) you make some good points here OP but I guess all I have left is faith and hope lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:21 PM
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A. Which is why I remember compliments when I get them, they are pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:09 PM
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Funnily enough IRL I used to go for person A but ended up having better conversations and sparks with people like person B because I realised after a while that the most important thing to share with someone is values in regards to relationships, the biggest lesson I learned and it really changed the way I approach dating now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:08 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:04 PM
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I look for what I offer in myself. So it has been a struggle to find someone but thats life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:03 PM
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I have a lot of admiration for people who go through struggles like that and come out the other side!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:02 PM
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Exhibit b.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:27 PM
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She was but she still made the video openly and nothing happened to her at all. Again I still dont see how an anti feminist making that sort of remark is an example of how you cannot criticize feminism, especially as she has built a career attacking feminists and feminism. I cant comment on sean as im unfamilar as I said before. As far modern feminism critiques, I don't want to beat a dead horse but let's just say this wave of feminism helped destroyed the fabric of traditional values and gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:57 AM
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I mean it sounds like your idea of undesirable is physically ugly, but I doubt thats the only thing. If an ugly guy has a good personality and other traits women look for then especially as you say "bottom 90%" if that number of men were really losing out it would be national news.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:34 AM
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This. Not saying its right but you speak the truth, times are changing but it still goes for the majority! Also factor in there are women who have taken themselves out of the dating pool altogether because they realise they are happier on their own!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:31 AM
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Did you miss the part in the first line when I specified this sub? You literally proved my point if men not listening to women on this sum lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:29 AM
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Not an american, but I thought Lahren was a right winger and anti feminist? I dont know who the other people are, please give an example of a critique of modern feminism which is not misogynistic, because tbh its not clear to me what parts of modern feminism you have an issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:28 AM
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Basically, the initiative must come from women instead of him. If this man is as undesirable as you say he is why would women ask him out?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:06 PM
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Its really funny that in at least two of those pics shes clearly wearing makeup (unless her lips really are that shade of postbox red)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:58 PM
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Woah, that is concerning, never thought of it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:54 PM
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This deserves a million upvotes!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:53 PM
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Its interesting that some time ago on this sub there was a question about what height women prefer, and most said they would prefer a man nearer their height (under 6 foot) and only two or three said they only went for men over 6 foot, a lot of the male reddiots called them liars or ignored their point and went after the women talking about the over 6 foot guys. I do feel most men here dont listen to what most of the women say unless it lines up with their world view. Also one message that was b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:51 PM
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Not sure how that relates to the OP question, they do anyway but if they can criticize modern feminism without being misogynistic then sure. Not sure how you can be "gaslighted" as misogynistic, you either are or you are not. Can you give an example of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:39 PM
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But, how does this claim, that women have the ability to "smell misogynist and abusive" men work with the fact that there are countless women who ended up being in an abusive relationship? Even today, unfortunately, a lot of women are in abusive relationships with no help and no hope of escape. A mix of men being manipulative and not all women being savvy to this kinda thing-in fact a lot of us dont pick up on this until later in life. I think there is a book by lundy bancroft that addresses thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:50 PM
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Exactly, as you say, /thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:47 PM
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Im waiting until after marriage, imo its the only safe bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:02 PM
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No, women dislike the manosphere for the misogyny. Remove that and there would be no issue. You should be able to uplift men without putting down women/blaming your faults on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:44 PM
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You consider being told the truth as trash-talking. OK, give me an example of when I have thought this. If I genuinely saw men calling women garbage and trash and the such then I would be the first to call them out. Fantastic, like to link an example of you doing this? But mostly I just see men telling women how the world works and then them just denying it and giving them an anecdote. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:43 PM
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Yes thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:42 PM
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and some women Because its disingenuous, hes not concerned about women. Isn’t it true that some women having dating problems? Yes but they actually dont care about women, only men who go through this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:42 PM
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This. I feel sorry for the good guys here when they are getting labled like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:59 PM
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But as a woman on this sub I’d love for the conversations to not be so toxic to women in general. This is the issue. I see upthread someone said that women need to empathy with men as if thats the issue and not men trash talking women in general on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:56 PM
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Yes thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:53 PM
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That is the issue, not the not having sympathy, you hit the nail on the head there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:53 PM
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Like…why does there need to be some “solution”? Maybe just try and be a decent human being and have some empathy for a problem tons of men (and some women) face? Lol I like how "some women" was thrown in there. God forbid men get in touch with their feelings and actually want women to have some ounce of compassion for their lived experienced oh no the horror! This isnt the actual problem though, women are sympathetic to men who do not trash talk their whole sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:52 PM
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Ok, what has that to do with my point or OP's question? Im not arguing about the ethics of chad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:18 PM
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Wrong but again, how does that disprove OP? If that were really true y'all wouldnt be moaning about chad all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:01 AM
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But those guys all have money, so they do actually have options. Also the veracity of the events in those shows is questionable, a lot of reality tv is fake. So its real but its not according to you. Contradictions aside how does that disprove mine and the OP's point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:54 AM
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Because he's delusional? The 90 day fiancé recaps online alone seem evident of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:12 AM
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From other men. I've only heard this from guys who complain about "chad" and say that good looking men will treat women badly and that its womens fault for wanting chad. The experiences of friends in this shows the opposite irl. I also fell for this meme when I was very young and naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:10 AM
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Sounds about right coming from RP!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:37 AM
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Ty for the link that comic hits hard!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:59 AM
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Because like a lot of men on this sub, they think women lie constantly / also think they know better which is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:54 AM
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Things she mentioned that I could have done were her dishes, cooking, and taking more care of her when was sick Do you think this is somehow high maintenance? If the roles were reversed would you be happy with a partner who ignores you when you are sick? if I was better looking, I don’t think that would’ve been an issue. What do you guys think? Relationship wise no, you would still be cruddy. In most relationships there is a expectation you would be there for each other, from what you've written…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:49 AM
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Women are not a hivemind, some may be like this, others will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:38 AM
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Why? Just look at how difficult is dating for men. And how women would rather stay alone their whole life then lower their standards a little bit. Most men will be left out and single for life. Two things here, would like to know what exactly lowering their standards a little bit looks like here. Secondly women for decades have been told to up their game if they want a man, why arnt these men doing the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:35 AM
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A man who is genuinely nice, does things with no ulterior motive and doesnt need to tell others they are a nice guy as its pretty apparent. What is a "nice guy" and why is it considered a bad thing to be? Being a genuine nice guy is not a bad thing, "nice guy" refers to a specific type of guy (usually online and on dating sites) who claim to be nice guys but offer little evidence, instead using the nice guy mockier to whine about how no woman wants them and insists the reason is because they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:42 PM
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Brendan Frasier. Actually both personality and looks, been a fan for many many years seems like one of the few decent celebrities out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:36 PM
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I know this sub might hate the PUA types but their stats do show one very clear thing, I mean are they trustworthy stats though? Especially when they are selling products (like webinars etc) I highly doubt they are completely honest about their numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 07:27 PM
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Well I mean this isnt new, look at the kind of guys marketed to young girls and women, they tend to be a bit feminine, more masculine men are marketed towards other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:16 AM
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Personally I would think hes perfect because this is exactly what im looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:22 AM
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I've not yet because I havent married yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:17 AM
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Quite a lot but they are mostly at the gym I go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:14 AM
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I mean dont people go on about the reason why men like fit women is because evolution/human instincts etc? Why would it be different for women being into fit men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:15 AM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:22 PM
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This goes double for attractive men, took me a while to unlearn the idea that attractive men are a**holes and ugly guys are actually nice when imo the men who have been the nicest towards me were "chad" types. Of course there are variables and its always best not to judge a book by its cover but I have noticed this pattern personally, which makes me laugh when ugly guys insist in order to get women they need to be a**holes when in fact thats what they are doing and partly the reason women avoid …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:18 PM
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But that person was talking about slut shaming which in general is berating a person (woman) for having too much sex. Clearly you are talking about something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:34 PM
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I thought men were encouraged to be more experienced, not less? Theres been a few male posters on here complaining that most women (even virgins) want a man whos experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:40 PM
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Not quite what I asked but ok buddy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:58 PM
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Is it a common thing women say to men? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:50 PM
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People are pretty critical of sugar daddying too, maybe all you've listed is an American thing but all those are not so black and white over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:58 PM
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So ugly guys with nice bodies can make this work for them, ok But are you looking for just hookups or long term thing? You said you got more attention but have you gotten more dates and stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:22 PM
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So it worked for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:53 PM
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Please dont apologise for writing so much this is the best reply I have had to this question!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:16 PM
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Yeah the amount of guys who say treating women like crap works makes me laugh because it just seems they want to say it enough to be true. The few guys who tried to neg me before I just cut off completely, even after they apologised I decided to not put up with that toxic shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:53 PM
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I've seen many posts on here complain that women only go for chad, and with the first sentence there, I really do think its more about your looks than rp. I would be interested to hear if any ugly guys managed to score using rp tactics. If treating women like shit universally worked without anything else there would be hardly any single guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:51 PM
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Like I say above, personal stories, anedotes, would like to know how its worked for those irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:46 PM
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I wouldnt, as some redpillers are good at manipulation and hiding things (actually was told this by a RP in dms)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:44 PM
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You made the claim, you are expected to back it up. Maybe you should hold off making claims when you can be bothered to back them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:43 PM
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I addressed this point above.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:39 PM
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For some reason my reply didnt load so will repeat here For some reason the article is blocked in my country so I looked up the story online and it appears its about how mens rights activists are trying to get the rape law stopped. If you can quote the relevant parts here it would help. I know the second is not related to india, there is a similar issue being discussed here and to do with how there is an issue with how rape is defined and there are several feminist groups trying to get it change…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:39 PM
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What parts are manipulating men as thats pretty long and i dont want to read the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:51 PM
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Good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:54 PM
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So not only was this not about radical feminism you're pretty much blaming rape victims who want justice (which is really dire in india) with blocking male rape victims getting justice because male led governments dont acknowledge men can also be raped? Ok then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:52 PM
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FDS is explicitly about getting the best outcomes for women by manipulating men. Most of the posts there are about ignoring men and learning to be happy on your own (ironically) i would say its more like MGTOW if MGTOW actually did GTOW RP users come from all groups - incels to married men - and the number one thing they say is "work on yourself." If this was all they said they wouldnt have the reputation they have. Lets not kid ourselves here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:47 PM
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Is that a large group of men? (those who actually do it, not the redditors).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:43 PM
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Why not just post them here? But yeah happy to recieve messages im really interested in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:42 PM
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Imagine the finished product of an RP man. He is in shape. Losing the weight made his face more angular and more handsome. He maintains a beard to hide his weak chin game. You can do this without being a misogynist and blaming all your problems on women. Also the fact you have put "imagine" rather than linking at least one account of a RP guy in reality says all we need to know. And unfortunately modern women have signalled they would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than date or marry a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:42 PM
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Theres been several posts about mens suffering on this sub and they have had a lot of good comments so what they said there isnt accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:02 AM
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This. If it really were about just avoiding toxic women it really wouldnt have the reputation and pushback it has now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:00 AM
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Exactly, place stupid games win stupid prizes. If trp worked like they say there wouldnt be so many of them on here whining that women still dont want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:59 AM
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For example, there are radical feminist groups who are against including men in the legal definition of rape Can you provide links as this is the first time ive heard of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:40 AM
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There was a question on the opposite end in another sub-guy who met this great woman and wanted to marry her found out she was a fds user. Everyone was telling him to dump her because it was a deal breaker. So why would it be any different for someone whos rp?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:36 AM
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Gotta admit this is the first time I have heard it spoken of in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:34 AM
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Women don't like RP men in theory, but fuck them in practice. [citation needed] and im being genuine because a lot of the guys who seem to follow trp on here also complain about women not touching them with a 10 ft poll, so i would like to hear some stories of what worked and how.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:31 AM
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It didnt, and ironic as thats a very "wishy washy" response you gave there. So i'll ask again: What about my initial reply did you have a problem with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:25 PM
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There are benefits?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:45 PM
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Are you really telling me I have to repeat what you say because you have no idea what you said but still stand by it? LOL. Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:36 PM
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So because you havent experienced something it never happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:26 PM
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Whut?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:42 PM
2

Yep, but its sad they make so much money off gullible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:40 PM
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Theres two of them and they are both clowns. One also paid an instathot for her time but pretended he got her through his "alpha charm and charisma". The jig was up when messages revealed she was laughing and rinsing him of his money, theres a lot of yt videos on this if you're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:28 PM
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I mean this-how is a guy acting like an asshole to get into a womans pants any different from a natural asshole (if its not some strange roleplay set up)?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:24 PM
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Ironic as red pillers dont understand most women are not the caricatures they create in their heads which is one of the issues here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:21 PM
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You would be surprised how many MGTOW I've met on dating sites and the strange beliefs they have about women (one guy says gfs/wives need to drink their bf/husbands pee because its in their feminine nature of submission).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:14 PM
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That all of the redpill was a giant shitpost and a meme. Ok seriously if a guy could somehow prove its actually not misogynistic and that theres been a big mistake sure. But when it comes to genuine love and romance, are people willing to set aside some of their views for a chance at love? If your ideology involves looking down on your partner because you believe they are inferior because of their sex then no but tbh a lot of people do set these things aside for love and they do tend to have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:11 PM
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by placing women on a "wholesome" pedestal Sorry, is women being attracted to hot men not "wholesome" or are you referring to something else here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:31 AM
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We already did OP says women here pretend to care about the n count but actually they are lying, they dont. Quite a few of us say we care about n count either because we are virgins waiting for marriage (aka me) or others low n count women saying they are looking for men with similar views on sex and relationships, not because we are trying to trade off one standard for another as OP implies. Because as usual the women here can only talk about themselves and not an issue in a broader sense. OP w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:34 AM
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I know exactly what OP is saying, how about you come back when you stop dodging the valid critique others ahve raised and have more than feeble insults to hurl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:13 PM
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Totally, I assume a lot of those beliefs about young women come from "red pill coaches", theres so many contradictions as you rightfully point out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:09 PM
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I just confirmed what you said again, I dont listen to women but still decide to moan about them because I dont like hearing the truth but rather some lie a guy online said. okie dokie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:39 PM
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All you have to do is link one instance of this happening and you couldnt, so you need to drop the lie. Not in disbelief, just noticing you cannot back up your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:36 PM
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Im not gonna bother actually reading what you say and just link the thread to make it look like I have an argument and confirm I dont listen to any of the women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:26 PM
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Im not taking it as a no, it is a no. If you cant provide evidence than its a no. I was not mad at all, I truly did not want to read the rest of it because I thought it wouldn't be the best use of the rather scarce free time that I have. I only replied to the part that was relevant enough. LOL sure sure ok bro, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:22 PM
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That isnt the point we are disagreeing on or the bulk of whats in OP, please re-read the responses again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:46 PM
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This. So many guys here believe every 20yr old is riding the "cock carousel" that it really should be entered as a conspiracy theory lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:32 PM
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Most of the women replying here understand what was written, just because you disagree with us doesnt mean we're wrong and you're right. Being patronising isnt helping your point either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:31 PM
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Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:29 PM
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Me too, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:27 PM
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Except he doesnt make that case, if he did there wouldnt be such a huge disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:26 PM
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I think the only thing OP's posts actually prove is that there are many men on here who think women are a hivemind, because me and at least 3 other women have had this argument with guys. As a virgin waiting for marriage I am looking for a guy with similar attitude towards relationships and sex and yes while I dont speak for every woman, the fact OP thinks they can is really a joke. It seems you cannot fathom there are some women out there who value the same things men do, if anything that whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:25 PM
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It isn't a no, lol, I am not going to bother myself for your convininnce whenever you want to, although when I do see such a case here and if you come to my mind I will link it to you. Thats a really long winded way of saying no. I am not gonna read the rest of your comment because that is a really old post at this point. Thats also a really long winded way of saying "im mad" lol. Also if you really thought that then why reply at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:38 PM
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Now if a girl is a virgin Can confirm, once I tell this and also tell them im waiting for marriage, men show their hand pretty quick (which is to say, most bolt because its not what they want) and im fine with that. Its good to know what people want and are looking for straight away so no ones times wasted and people dont feel used.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:06 AM
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So many people forget this!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:03 AM
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Aww!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:03 AM
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This is my issue with many of the guys whining on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:01 AM
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Yes, but they so often forget this!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:28 AM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:28 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:28 AM
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Thank you for providing one of the very few decent replies in this thread, especially at the OP threw in bait there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:56 AM
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Pretty amazing because as a woman not only have I managed to dodge this cock carousel you all speak of but am in fact waiting for marriage and I live in the west so....🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:52 AM
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They didnt say they were evil abusive chads, just that certain rp'ers would see them as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:49 AM
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...and are a good partner in return and not just using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:45 AM
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This is a great summary of this very sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:43 AM
1

May I ask how old you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:40 AM
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Yes because im not looking for a man for his money, I make more than enough on my own. My goal is to make enough that I could cover him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:24 PM
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Female sexuality isnt really hyped up in culture unless its of her being sexualised as oppose to her sexual appetite. I know a lot of women with fetishes, they just dont talk about it as openly as the men I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:22 PM
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I think this is slowly changing now however with male grooming becoming more promoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:16 PM
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No, and im not sure why it would be unless you dont think men are human.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:09 PM
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I said that based on what you wrote, and what you described was that, not on what a good woman is, please try some self reflection next time or at least re-read what you write.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:58 AM
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Your reading comprehension is trash, theres really no point in conversing if you wont listen, to say some of this stuff is strawmanning would be too generous, its more like the ramblings of a crazy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:55 AM
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Sadly, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:08 AM
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So a free maid?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:07 AM
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blah blah blah Like I said, opinion disregarded. Ironic you mention dog shit given your replies lol. (also if you are a MGTOW you shouldn't even be having anything to do with women, so you shouldn't even be caring about which ones like/dislike age gaps)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:06 AM
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Okay when I see that next time I will link it to you if I remember about you So thats a no then. I stated that we segregate people by their sexual market values, does that not feel "degrading" to you? You can do that without referring to one sex as objects, i've seen that done many times on here, however if you're going to do it and only to one sex you cant be mad if that sex then looks down on you. In a sun that has to deal with the sciences of the dating market it is perfectly fine to refer to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:23 AM
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Hey no problem, it was the holidays after all! Also thank you for giving me a reply and a discussion rather than a barrage of insults which always seems to be the case on here, I really am interested by your insight! Anyways, if you ever want to have a Convo with another virgin, feel free to DM me! Thanks, offer goes both ways too, feel free to dm me and have a great week!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:15 AM
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Sure, sure. redpill Ah, opinion disregarded, you should have just said that in the first place. All makes sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:13 AM
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Virgin women are not a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:11 AM
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Very true, if you look at guys who are famous and especially those polls which ask women who they find attractive the results are very mixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:12 PM
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Bubble butt, nice muscular thighs and legs. While I cheer on gym bros too many of them be skipping leg day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:10 PM
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I've yet to see men, in any of their history and state reffered to as products on this sub anywhere, if you can link any posts or comments where this is the case I will gladly take your point. Also fyi pointing out something does not mean someone is triggered, there is a great irony here of you taking offense of me "insulting" someone by pointing out exactly what their said, in this instance you shouldnt be dishing out advice you yourself do not follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:05 PM
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whut?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:02 PM
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This. This is the argument that gets brought up here often, promiscuous lamenting women who did they same as them. There are so many that argue that virgin women dont want virgin men but theres a few of us on here who say otherwise. In any case I think you have a good view on this!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:01 PM
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No problem its nice to see a little nuance on here. Anyway have a great weekend!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:00 PM
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As a virgin woman I want a virgin man, so you cant make a blanket statement like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:59 PM
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Vaginas are more likely to contract STDs. They're also a hell of a lot more likely to grow babies. Whos gonna tell OP babies do not grow in the vagina lol. Anyway interesting post OP!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:40 PM
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Its always good to be honest up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:38 PM
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If the guy's is expected to commit for life, the product needs to be new. Same goes for men, virgins for virgins, non-virgins for non-virgins, otherwise theres no balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:36 PM
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I mean, that redditor refers to women as a worse product, do you really need to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:34 PM
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Theres a few videos on youtube about how one of them pays for all the women hes with and even one of the women themselves bragging about getting paid despite him saying hes "got game" and gets women though his own charm and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:07 PM
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The contradiction is you saying you dont care about womens words until it fits you narrative. C'on ya silly billy do you really need to have your own replies explained to you? lmao. For the record I agree with some of the points you made here, but given im saying this as a woman, your response is gonna be a 50/50 I imagine lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 01:06 PM
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In addition what are your opinions on Fresh and Fit’s development? Do you feel that men can learn how to be masculine, secure and strong alpha males from such institutions or do you think these to be a scam? Yes I believe men can, just not by those two insecure assclowns who were exposed. They still have their defenders on youtube which is funny, and quite frankly I believe men deserve better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:01 PM
1

Yes, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:00 PM
5

This post deserves a million upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:59 PM
2

What are you opinions on Jack Murphy and the upcoming Alpha-Con? Laughing and laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:55 PM
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This tbh. Its mostly about how it looks and social views on women dating younger guys. IMO when it comes to actual dating younger men do not seem put off by dating older women (within a range) its just seems to be frowned upon by people at large (not that their opinion should count for anything).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:53 PM
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Cool story bro. If what they say ever matches what they do, I'll let you know. How about you tell me whenever your arguments stop contradicting each other, that would actually be of value as from the looks of it your observations are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:41 PM
1

Interesting how single moms get blamed for the failures of their children and never the fathers that abandon their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:34 AM
1

You You don't speak for all women. Also you Pardon me if I give very little credence to what women think. I would say you have splinters in your ass from fence sitting but this isnt that kind of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:32 AM
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You're wrong, theres a whole load of women who are into catboys/petboys/femboys so short and skinny is optimum to pull off those asthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:03 AM
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You're welcome you've talked a lot of sense throughout this entire thread and have given me hope that there are thoughtful people in this sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:07 PM
1

Sure, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:52 AM
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Pretty much all your replies where you invalidate her experiences. The fact this needs explaining to you, but then you are only focused on yourself here so maybe it shouldnt be a shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:50 AM
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Its not, maybe re-read her post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:12 AM
1

I dont disagree!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:11 AM
3

Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:10 AM
2

Not just millennial women. There is an entire batch of new 2004-born sugar babies that are waiting to get piped by an older man in exchange for tuition and YSL Black Opium. Surely thats just proof thats its all about money and not attraction. You dont see old poor men getting chased by those younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:09 AM
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You pursue older women/girls? Oh how dare you, obviously they want a more mature (5-20 years older) partner. They don't wanna feel like being a mom when in the bedroom. If you're even a year younger it's a drama. Only men say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:06 AM
1

KEK that fucking backtrack after being called out 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:05 AM
2

This is the best response here 10/10 hit it right on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:01 AM
2

I think they are secretly a fan if yours CreekCrystall but too shy to say it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:00 AM
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You must be a feminist. No other type tries to erase the lived experiences of other women that don't fit their narratives. Ironic as this is what you are doing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:57 AM
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You don't speak for all women They dont need to, you dont speak for any so shush.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:56 AM
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Except you don't speak for all women. They speak for most of them though, even you admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:55 AM
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OP im sorry to tell you but I dont think you can date a giraffe, I think the zoo would have an issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:53 AM
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This 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:51 AM
0

I think if older women were not shamed or labeled for doing so (like being called cougars etc) they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:50 AM
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They would get roasted on here for it, but I agree. Whats good for the goose and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:44 AM
1

kek you wish, if you dont want responses stop responding. And watch your language.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:35 AM
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Ah so now you cant refute my point you are making up BS and attempting to shift the goalposts. I dont care about your predictable, flimsy retort kek.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:11 AM
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You literally bitched about me using the term earlier but you dont know what it is? Lol what a brainlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:10 AM
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Sure, jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:25 PM
1

Lol go to bed old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:22 PM
2

Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:21 PM
2

Dont worry, no one does, including them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:57 PM
5

You should be more efficient and use bros for compassion and for fucking. you can do that these days you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:52 PM
1

Tbh Im feeling the same so glad im not alone in this. Thank you to you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:48 PM
1

This. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:48 PM
2

Well, you for a start, but saying that yeah I agree thats actually a great argument to get rid of the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:46 PM
2

This is the truth they dont want to acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:43 PM
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Lol gottem!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:43 PM
5

because that is literally the purpose of PPD Lol is it? If thats the case its a rare occurance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:41 PM
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I mean, theres been women on here who have said they like "short" men/are attracted to personality/like virgins etc and have just been berated and shouted down and told their life is on easy mode, for quite a few of us its like talking to a brick wall. All of what you said could be said for some of the women who have posted here (but I think many have left now).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:40 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:37 PM
0

And most people in general would agree with that PuppyDontCare said, so that makes them right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:37 PM
1

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:36 PM
1

Cool story bro. Maybe dont type out replies if you cannot engage your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:35 PM
1

Now playing dumb after getting triggered by the term? lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:33 PM
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For lack of a better term, also was specifically referring to this sub not in general, but reading comprehension I imagine is one of the many skills you lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:32 PM
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I dont believe in sex before marriage, I am childfree because I cant have kids and wouldnt want them outside of marriage anyway, hating boris johnson is common sense (do you really think being conservative means supporting the tories? fucking LOL), I dont see how socialised healthcare is a bad thing and glancing at your profile you are not only the kind of guy I was referring to, you are the most egregious type, so please, keep proving me right lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:31 PM
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I have nothing against backboards, whoever they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:28 PM
1

Lol yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:27 PM
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I dont believe in sex before marriage so 0. But nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:27 PM
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Clearly you didnt because you still responded, yet nothing of substance to refute the link so clearly you are still choosing the cope and seethe path. Have a great weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:19 AM
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you're not a very good troll are you? Neither are you, citing a persons hair colour as to the reason the contents of an article is somehow wrong is not even something a child would do, very poor debate skills there. Either post a proper refutation or cope harder, the choice is yours my friend. keep practicing you might get an angry reaction out of someone one day Oh I already did (although it wasnt what I wanted, I was making a genuine reply) your emoji use was a dead giveaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:52 AM
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Lol cope and seethe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:42 AM
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Im a conservative women and even i've found some of the male takes distasteful. Seems more like its full of neckbeards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:38 AM
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Not an argument 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:37 AM
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Yeah thats the impression I got which was why I was wondering why a guy who doesnt care about a womans past makes him "weak".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:36 AM
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Women will probably suddenly start being a little nicer when they come out, especially to guys who ridicule it, and go into full blown bitch mode when they realize men are buying them in droves for sex. hehehe https://www.bloomberg.com/opinion/articles/2018-01-04/maybe-sex-robots-will-make-men-not-women-obsolete
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:55 PM
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Yes, I would buy two so my first time would be a dp. try to keep it real, or just say fuck it and go for some fantasy partner? Not sure what you mean by this, i would just make them what i think is attractive if thats what you're asking. But they would both look completely different. customize it's personality into an unicorn to your liking? I just want affection so they would just have the personality of a care bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:52 PM
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Chad so hot even redpillers want his D.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:42 PM
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Fuckboys dont deserve anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:38 PM
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Only guys that don't care about her past are weak insecure men, not the opposite, Interesting could you expand on this? Would like to understand the midnset.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:39 PM
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Exactly. Im a virgin but I feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:38 PM
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You can have your own oponions but that doesn't mean they are right. Same could be said for the guy in your video.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:36 PM
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This is the reason im a virgin wanting to marry another virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:35 PM
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Ty!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 08:23 PM
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Thanks for your reply, can you recommend any resources about this as, like i say, would like to learn more. My experience with non-virgins and flirting is that most have been douchy because they have made assumptions about me after learning I am a virgin. Also the reason I dislike high n count guys. And yeah it is sad that this sub is so aggressive, i'm subbed to quite a few dating style/info subs and I feel like I cant even share my view without my head being bitten off which is a shame because…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:28 AM
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Then basically I'm still at a massive disadvantage compared to you. Male virgins are plenty if stats are anything to go by, but female virgins are scarcer, even more so for female virgins whom only want virgin men. This was why I was asking because I honestly thought virgin anyone was pretty rare when you get into late 20's Then again the issue is the more socially adept a man is the more likeliness he isn't a virgin, so ultimately any virgin you find won't probably come off as charismatic. Shif…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:54 AM
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Maybe women are not attracted to assholes, maybe highly attractive men can simply get away with being an asshole. Highly attractive people get away with being assholes in general, not just in dating and not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:41 PM
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A 6’2”+ guy with a chiseled jawline telling you how his confidence led to to success with women Which is funny because I have yet to see a redpill "coach" be any of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:40 PM
1

Interesting where do you get that percentage?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:22 PM
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I think the redpill is a stumbling block for some guys. Most women who are wise to it and know its teachings tend to stay away from guys who follow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:38 PM
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So you have two accounts? Im dismissing you the same way im dismissing lesbians, you are such a small minority that someone could date for years without encountering anyone who shares your views Im assuming you're a guy, if so I have some sad news for you about lesbians.... I would be interested to see how small a group we are, and surely that does mean theres a chance? But thats fine, like I say if you're going to dismiss those who would have you, no matter how small, you cant really complain a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:36 PM
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Bro im a virgin woman looking for a virgin guy, I know we are rare but we are not extinct. I have spoken several times on this sub about how terrible it is that virginity in men is seen as bad and i have turned down a few "chads" because they were not virgins and dont share what i've been told are my "old fashioned values". Theres also one other woman on here whos like me, so not to be that person but #notallwomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:31 PM
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right, so you have links then? even if there are no scientific studies but just articles on this like you say? please link them would like to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 09:28 PM
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Agree, also funny given heels were originally invented and worn by men before society changed and it became feminine. I've always stated men are naturally more attractive then women (just like in the animal kingdom) and most men do not need to do too much to improve their looks vastly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:47 PM
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I definitely don’t think you’re lying. But your views are so rare that they really don’t matter to us. So you are dismissing the group of women who would see you as a positive, not a negative, and telling them their views dont matter. Thats fab, noted. Like we’re telling you the majority of women we deal with do not like male virgins. Just because you do does not negate our lived experiences. Im not trying to, but given what you just said above this whole thing is, for lack of a better term, iro…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:32 PM
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Yes you do, because #notallwomen dude. Also chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:59 PM
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Sadly can confirm I have had this experience on dating apps, but im sticking to what I want regardless. And im glad you said that, makes me feel theres still hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:57 PM
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I understand why you would feel like that reading this sub, but please dont. Stay true to what you want, this sub isnt the wider world after all <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:55 PM
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The problem is, the tradcon women you speak of are an extreme minority these days because they either exist and shut their mouths I will admit im one of those, I havent been abused by sex positive feminists. I have had some very shitty messages from atheists on dating apps who think its socially acceptable to make fun of people waiting until after marriage (although I have been informed this may have been a form of "negging" but I cant be sure personally).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:52 PM
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Interesting, got any citations for this? Would love to learn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:49 PM
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What most likely happens is, you two are vibing, and then somehow the conversation of bodycount comes up, you tell her you’re a virgin, and the whole dynamic changes for the worse. wrong wrong wrong this would be my ideal senario. I turned down a guy who was a 9/10 because of his n count. Im waiting for marriage, I expect the same from any guy who wants to be my husband. While sure there maybe some women who care, I think in reality most women are indifferent if they like the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:48 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:45 PM
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This depends on the woman, and her n count. Like I have said before I am a virgin specifically looking for a virgin, and there is at least one other user here who feels the same. So maybe you might want to quantify when you talk about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:45 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:41 PM
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Can confirm this is true ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:40 PM
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Good thing women arnt hiveminds. I agree the stigma against male virgins needs to be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:39 PM
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Kinda true, I've been told on online dating sites that im a bit creepy for being a virgin woman looking for a virgin man, its not a big deal to me, i've had mostly mixed responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:39 PM
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Personally I think you both make great points.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:37 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:35 PM
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Its amazing because at least 3 of us women here (2 virgins, one low n count) have said we would prefer either a virgin guy or low n count guy only to be berated. I will say its may not be the most widespread view, but a lot of us are getting tired of saying this only to be told we are lying. I always see self-proclaimed virgin women say they want a "LOW N COUNT" man. They never say a virgin man. They want a guy who's had 2 or 3. Not a guy who can't get fuck all. Well you havent been looking hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:33 PM
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It was a couple of years ago, suffice to say I found out he "hates chi*nks" (Eurasian but not half Chinese) happened at the mall, like I said I wouldnt recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:23 PM
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Do you have any stats on this? This isnt something I know a lot about but would like to. Either way thanks for the empathy /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:20 PM
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What you define as a muscular woman requires a lot of training and we're not talking about it. Interesting you make this assumption when I havent actually defined it. Also the rest of your reply is moot point as its not related to anything I said and you also assumed I disagree with it (if had you read my posts further down the thread, I dont).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:28 AM
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As i've already stated before last time I did this the guy spat in my face, so its understandable that women wouldnt want to do this. It put me off doing it for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:28 PM
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The two guys who had cold approached me I went out on dates with, and although it became obvious we were not suited I thought it was nice and dont have a problem with it. The last time I tried this I got spat in the face by the guy, reason I dont do it so i understand why some dont. Personally I’d rather eat nails than approach a western woman but that’s just me. I mean, good for you? No ones asking you to so you're fine OP. Does this mean you have no issues approaching a non western woman? And …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:26 PM
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So if it works for most people why not apply it to yourself? Whats with the personal question and what does this have to do with the overall statement you made earlier? Unless you’re the < 10% of the population with thyroid problems I am, which is why im on a specialised diet and exercise programme. None of what you have asked disproves what I said, especially as you have seemed to ignore it in a failed attempt at a "gotcha".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:05 PM
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Damn, when you're right you're right!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:39 PM
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Correct. Ignore what the others say I think your sentiments are swell!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:37 PM
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You are far too nice my friend but for the record you are right in everything you said here <3
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:36 PM
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On this it sounds like you are living in a different universe to the rest of us friend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:34 PM
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Ty bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:27 PM
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This. I know first hand lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:26 PM
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Not true. Yes calories in/calories out can work but men are biologically superior when it comes to fat burning/muscle building due to testosterone and cant lie this is where I envy them lol. I am personally working on building muscle but im aware I have to do a lot more than a man to get results anywhere near them (which, lets be honest, wont happen but imma keep trying). eta spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:23 PM
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Idgi if this was true the beauty, diet and plastic surgery industry would not revolve around women (im aware men get this too but they are still mostly focused on women). Also fat fetish is a thing, just because some men are attracted to obesity doesnt mean most men would date/accept an obese woman. I think the examples you use for your argument are pretty off the mark, it would have been better to use. Also: Nobody thinks the physical training and diet by Scarlett Johansson to play Black Widow …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:19 PM
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Ty for the info!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:15 PM
1

Interesting. Again I dont know a lot about it, all I know is that I would never consider doing it no matter the profits but each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:14 PM
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Its funny how you propose this question as if male gold diggers dont exist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:52 AM
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Not sure how true this is but I have heard even the top 1% dont make that much money and that you need to be like in the top 0.2% to make any decent amount of money. Of course I would like to be clarified but if this is true with all other things aside it sounds like a lot of risk for not much literal payoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:49 AM
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Well, obviously you are making assumptions and believe everyone acts in the same way which is obviously wrong. As its apparent you need to be spoonfed and im feeling generous tonight I will oblige: Someone willing to wait did not have a hard time waiting. It's an indication of low sex drive or serious hsngnups Hence the likelihood she's not interested in learning. You get missionary duty sex. While it may be true for some people its not true for everyone who waits, obviously. If this was true yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:47 AM
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No, because that clearly wasnt the bulk of what you were saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:10 AM
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Nah I hear a lot of guys complain they are virgins online, Im sure I can bag one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:02 AM
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Yeah I agree with a lot of this except sexual experience for men-you cant turn a ho into a husband and I doubt many women would find a man who's probably got kids out there with several baby mommas attractive. Chaste men for chaste women. Also its funny you mention attractiveness is important for women but not men yet most posts on here are from bitter guys complaining about "chad" who, afaik being a non american is reference to an attractive man (please correct me if im mistaken).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:01 AM
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Lol what do you have against single people with kids marrying OP. Granted its not something I would not do but if both people are happy with the situation whats the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:50 AM
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The only exception I have is late at night (but thats because I dont like to be approached by anyone for any reason on the rare occurance it happens). I've only ever been approached twice, once on the bus and once in the gym. Both times were a bit awkward but I appreciated them because its not an easy thing to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:47 AM
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As a woman I agree, but then im biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:35 AM
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This 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:33 AM
1

Since when is 5 foot 10 considered short for a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:31 AM
1

Actually thats the reason I would only marry a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:30 AM
2

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:28 AM
3

Congrats on assuming and being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:27 AM
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The problem with many people is that they assume that this virgin woman will for sure turn into their own personal slut and enjoy lots and varied sex Actually more of you assume we wont and the reason we are virgins is because of low sex drives-while that may be true for some its not for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:25 AM
3

Yep, and hes posted this exact post before, a few weeks back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:17 AM
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Yes I agree, but thats the point, theres a lot of mgtow who are on dating sites/wont stop bitching about women/try to persue women etc. Also why did you downvote me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:19 PM
1

Any acts. A sexual act is a sexual act, I dont know why people try to differentiate between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:17 PM
2

Yeah it seems that way!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:16 PM
1

about how the cock carousel doesn't exist It doesnt though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:05 PM
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This. This sub is obsessed with it, not seen so many posts about other subs. What gives? Or maybe its just certain members, idk. I'm subbed to a few of them but this one seems to bring out the salt on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:04 PM
0

This 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:00 PM
1

I've had mgtow guys message me on dating sites and had some very concerning things to say about/expect from women. I would respect mgtow if thats what it actually was.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:00 PM
1

Interesting, can you elaborate? Which points exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:58 PM
1

I disagree, I think dating sites can be great it just depends on which ones you use. Also thats kinda ironic coming from you given your the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:12 PM
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Why are you so obsessed with FDS women? This is PPD, theres women here to discuss this, or are we not good enough to listen to hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:06 PM
1

Do you just use the one app OP? how successful have you been with tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:56 PM
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Abusive guys: not very. Age range between 40-67. I think the insulting messages were attempts at "negging" that came off too aggressive. The hookup guys were far more attractive, the most attractive guy looked like a slightly whiter Jason Momoa and was very polite but as he was only looking for hookups and I dont do that before marriage I had to pass. He said whomever I end up with is gonna be a lucky guy, he has a great attitude, a rarity on online dating apps it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:32 PM
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I'm definitely bias as guy Glad you will admit what a lot of guys on here wont. I would say personally the main one for me was finding guys who want to actually date/have a relationship rather than looking for a one night stand. Also we get a lot of the issues that men complain about on here (matches being picky about looks etc) but also, at least for online dating, just the amount of abusive messages you get (which surprisingly are mostly much older men. Younger men dont seem to be as bad). Was…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:42 PM
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I do, but not much, because so far most guys have been very upfront about their high n counts (given the topic of conversation and information about me they tend to volunteer it) also as argued on this sub before most guys think women dont care about a guys n count, so on this topic im thankful most guys tend to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:43 AM
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Exhibit A.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:39 AM
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Or its that they dont care/dont want to listen to what women have to say (which goes for a lot of guys on this sub sadly, in fact even he does this further down the thread.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:39 AM
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If you actually read the thread there will be no need for elaboration, you are objectively wrong in this specific circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:38 AM
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Moving the goalposts I see, not a great way to make your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:36 AM
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You clearly didnt read the whole thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:59 PM
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My standards are similar to what I offer virgin as I am (but would accept a low n count man) and only sex after marriage monogomous (you cant turn a ho into a husband after all) doesnt have kids and doesnt want them non smoker obviously not a criminal/prior convictions Apart from that I cant think of any real reason to not give a guy a shot!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:57 PM
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Why does OP feel the need to insult the women who were talking in those threads? Also why is it only these two senarios? Why are most of these "question for women" threads like this on here? Are really asking a genuine question or is this yet another bait thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:35 PM
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First you're saying your not generalising, but then do that. But according to couple women who commented before - we are all virgins just creating fantasies in our heads. Yeah women also get this treatment when speaking about our personal experiences, although in most cases we're just accused of lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:23 PM
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I feel the same about a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:15 PM
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Depends on the woman as we're not hiveminded, however I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:15 PM
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Your personal life experience is not necessarily universal and can be applied to everyone, thats why its personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:14 PM
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I agree that its used as an insult against men and always thought that stupid. But again I would say that many virgin women would want a virgin male partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:12 PM
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I think most virgin women would, as this has been discussed before here. So there is no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:10 PM
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This. Had an interesting exchange with a guy on here who had a high n count but said its fine for him to want a virgin wife because blah blah men and women are different blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:09 PM
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Seconded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:08 PM
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This 100%. A lot of hypocrisy around this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:04 PM
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Except some dont (as you say) you see you point actually does make sense if you dont view women as a monolith but as individuals, but thats asking too much for this sub it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:29 PM
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The original intentions were right and correct, but it just devolved into a platform for shaming men, sometimes because a woman was offended. Amazing you say that now but not originally. But I am asking for examples because I genuinely have not seen evidence of your later proclamation. There's a world of difference between Harvey Weinstein and a below average looking guy chatting up a woman in a bar, yet both made it to metoo. Again, examples please.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:39 PM
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examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:37 PM
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Quite a few guys on this sub it appears.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:36 PM
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Your comment is literally a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:35 PM
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Reputations and lives ruined without proof. [citation needed] please give evidence. The purpose of metoo was to call out predatory men like harvey weinstien which it did successfully, if you have an issue with this then this really says more about your attitude and maybe why you are so concerned?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:37 PM
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Wasnt there a thread a few days ago about how fickle women are in getting turned off a guy, even the most "chadly" of ones after they find out certain things about him? But now, conveniently, women are not turned off by even the most disgusting of things, its amazing how we women, who are of course a hivemind, change to suit whatever arguments being made in detriment to us. Arnt we so considerate!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:31 PM
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This sub does have women...and quite a few of us have been talked down to, told we're lying, we dont know what we want for ourselves etc. Just because theres women here doesnt mean the sub as a whole is positive or even balanced in views.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:24 PM
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After being on this sub my feelings have become more negative, but in a way im glad because I feel its given me the confidence to really think about what I want and go after it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:21 PM
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Many male animals in the animal kingdom tend to be more colourful and bright than their female counterparts, and scientists say the reason is that the males needs to be like this to attract females because thats the males main purpose. Kinda strange when it comes to us the expectations are flipped lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:19 PM
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Moving the goalposts there but ok sure, sure. Not that anyone asked lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 11:17 PM
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I wouldnt know, and I feel thats one thing we have in common lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:37 AM
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Because when these laws are implemented, it tends to be the easy targets that get punished [citation needed] also this is happening in the UK, the government and police barely care about when women are raped and killed, theres been a few stories of police knowing about rapists in their own force and laughing about it, I doubt this law will even go into effect. I have visions of it turning into another metoo farce. Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:18 AM
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I think naturally men are better looking than women (and this is reflected in the animal kingdom) but women take better care of themselves and more beauty products have been aimed at women (historically, but that is changing). A lot of guys I see who claim they are ugly actually are not, they just dont put the effort into grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:00 AM
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What happens if I approach a woman in a respectful way, in a bar / mall/ store/ park/ wherever, and I graciously accept the inevitable rejection? Is the fact that she isn't attracted to me grounds to class it as pestering? No, why would it? if this is how you really approach women there is no issue, why are you really worried about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:55 PM
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there's so many grey areas here. Like what? Most laws tend to be pretty strict and as long as you are not catcalling (which is what this law seems to primarily be targeting) or being overly sexual towards random strangers whats the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:52 PM
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Is this only a question for US based women or any woman in the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:50 PM
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To misquote moe from the simpsons "and where does one find this hoard of simps exactly?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:48 PM
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No, from the women I have spoken to on here its to do with aligning moralities. For example im someone waiting for marriage, so I'm looking for someone with a similar mindset (which i know is rare). Your reasoning may be projection, after all i've heard that be a concern for some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:43 PM
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They seem to think they can rationalize and shame reality into aligning with their myopic views. What the bloody hell are you going on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:39 PM
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<3 its amazing theres any of us left on here lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:14 PM
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Though it’s not just about sex and partner number Well its a major factor, especially if you are someone waiting for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:14 PM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:54 PM
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Actually this convo happened before on here, and there are low/no n-count women who avoid high n count men for the same reasons men avoid high n count women. Its not to do with game, a lot of us just dont want a used man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:53 PM
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I feel the same about men, but apparently most men dont want to end up married/in ltr so I guess its not an issue for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:51 PM
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Why do women always insist its megachad or zero attraction? Funnily enough that seems to be the mindset for a lot of guys here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:46 PM
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[citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:43 PM
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It feels like on this sub you cant win if you're a woman-if you go after a attractive guy theres all this shit talk about "chad", if you dont and go for his personality you're also insulting him and/or lying. Damned if you do damned if you dont!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:40 PM
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From the sounds of it women arnt chasing anyone, there was that tweet that went viral of that "relationship coach" who was complaining that more single women are in bed by 8pm and are too comfortable being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:19 PM
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The only correct answer in this entire thread, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:24 PM
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Yep! Get this a lot in my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:15 PM
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For the women on here. Are you nice to men for no reason in your day to day life? Yes, im nice to people in general. However I also work in retail (probably the reason I landed the job in the first place), and have had male customers take my politeness to mean more than it actually is (funny I dont have this issue with female customers who I treat exactly the same). I've had several positive feedbacks to HR about me(although for me this amounts to nothing, we dont get pay rises ar anything like …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:13 PM
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Ah so daddy is a scrub lol. So you're into the niche sub then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:07 PM
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its how its used in general, you never heard of sugar daddies? Have you been living under a rock its discussed on this sub a lot. Even in the bdsm scene its usually seen/accepted that daddies pay for their "littles" and this is how its usually carried out (although with everything, there are of course exceptions)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 12:12 AM
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Uhuh. You said looking, but even so pretty sure thats not the general way its used.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:55 PM
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Isnt that in the realm of sugar daddy ie women looking for men to support them financially? Never seen a woman call a broke guy "daddy".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 11:42 PM
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You would think so but....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:14 PM
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This is the way to go about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:11 PM
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I was concerned the way you used lawful here because it sounded like you meant in reference to the actual law so I thought you were encouraging illegal stuff. But I agree, you should just date who you want to, but you make out like people doing this are somehow oppressed, they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:10 PM
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Interesting that I have heard a lot of complaints about women being gold diggers and berated for wanting a man with money on this sub, but then this comes out showing men will cheat when the woman is earning more. Seems like you cant win either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:38 AM
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Which is why women should give younger men a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:58 AM
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Not sure why anyone trusts HBO their programming is pretty crappy towards women that why I make the rare exception to say if you can and really want to watch anything they produce just pirate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 12:56 AM
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As I stated on a previous thread last time I asked a guy out he spat in my face. I think women are more reluctant to ask out men because of fear of reaction (although I dont think my case is common as its more extreme, but maybe they are worried of a negative reaction).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:31 AM
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I dont agree with everything they say but I like they are against hook up culture which I think is pushed a lot more today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:37 PM
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Honestly, as a woman waiting for marriage, not great. But there are a lot of male virgins out there so hopefully I will find a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:56 PM
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We both having the same values and n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:54 PM
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As long as we have the same values and n count, totally!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:51 PM
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Seconded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:26 PM
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Same, Im also waitin for marriage and hoping to find a guy who shares my values. Congrats btw!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:52 PM
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What if I am a wealthy woman who wants a man for sex? What do I do then?!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:39 PM
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In general I would say no, I guess there maybe some cases where there would be concern but as you say going to therapy is a good thing. I think the comment about not dating while in therapy is a valid one-again this depends on the issue they are going to therapy for and that they may need time and space to deal with that issue before dating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:27 AM
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I’m going to take a gander that you’re in your 30s because that’s when women do start nitpicking and getting picky about random things. c'on bro dont play dumb \<sup>_\</sup>^
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:53 PM
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I would probably have to settle for a high n count or just be forever a single player I really dont understand why you would see that as bad in your case, because at least you would most likely be sexually on a level playing field. Its one of many reasons I would never go for a high n count guy. I'm guessing they're not very happy and a lot of them are involuntarily celebrate ie incels. I'm not saying low n count men is rare I'm saying if you refrain from having sex to basically be an incel just…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:51 PM
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I'm surprised since all women I've spoken to on this subject thus far have claimed they do not care about a man's n count. I think this ie because women tend to view men as a whole, not in seperate bits and also, as its been discussed on other threads here, men with high n counts, or men we would imagine have, would tend to be wealthy, successful, attractive, insert more positive traits here so I think that is one reason. Also it depends on what perspective you are looking at-one night stands/sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:47 PM
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NP! Yeah I agree I think each to their own, I really dont have an issue except when im involved and have had this issue when it comes to dating because most men have moderate to high n counts (or at least, the ones that message me) and I just want to find someone who has the same as me, but apparently im being told its fine for men to have high n counts not women, and as you say its all just very hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:38 PM
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Why do 80% of women go for top 20% of men these days? Because like I said before they probably have resources most men dont have. Why in the past was I able to openly date 5 women at once and be transparent with them about it and they were okay with it? Because as you admitted those women were high n count women (which is fine) and assumed you were a nigh N count man (which is true) The biological reason for it is because instictively they want the genes of X person but then Y person who has pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:38 AM
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So if you know most women are not going to be low n count do you not think you will have trouble finding one? Would you settle for a high n count woman? so if as a man you hold yourself to this standard its going to be pretty miserable. I mean, theres a whole sub called virgin and most of the members there are male and according to this sub men are having less and less sex than ever before so I dont think low n count men are as rare as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:20 AM
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Okay, but just being real Which is fine, but not required in the context of the discussion which is hypocrisy which is why I said what I said. To clarify are you a woman? I'm disagreeing only because it hasn't been my experience IRL Yes Im a woman, to clarify I dont believe in sex before marriage (which I also know is not a widely practised belief so Im not claiming to represent the general opinion) but I do speak to a lot of virgin/low n count women and we all hold very similar beliefs on this.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:18 AM
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I also agree with quityourbitchn (but I also agree with OP) so not complaining about the main post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:14 AM
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Ah the hypocrisy again. You shouldnt complain that being judgy and insulting is bad to then do the same thing back to that person, it doesnt help your argument (just saying).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:12 AM
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Okay, you’re missing the nuance of what I’m saying but that’s fine. The reality though is that as a man you have to build yourself up and I feel in the society men are incentivized to have higher n count (evolutionary and historically it’s also always been this way) whereas women, no. It’s evolutionary biology. One minute you say its society, then biology. No this doesnt make sense why would a woman want a high n count men biologically speaking? Because evolutionary speaking he would have more c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:09 AM
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But I’m a product of my environment. No this just sounds like you are making excuses. But does that mean my standards changed for my life partner? No. What I’ve found is women don’t usually care about the men’s n count. But for men it’s important. You've literally got two low n count (well im a virgin im not sure about the other user) women telling you actually it is important but you seem to want to ignore this. In the context of the OP which is about hypocrisy this is all thats being pointed o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:02 AM
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maybe it’s unreasonable to want that in this day and age 🤷🏻‍♂️😬🔫 Its not if you're not a hypocrite which is the point being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:57 AM
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You’re speaking to a woman who is in your target demographic and I’m telling you that you’re a walking red flag to someone like me. Seconded. HUGE red flag!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:56 AM
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Nope, quiturbitchn is right. I've turned down attractive men because of high n counts for the reasons they state, its a huge turn off. Like OP says its important to find someone with similar values, and you may luck out, but these days people tend to gravitate towards those with similar values despite what modern society likes to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:55 AM
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The thing is as a man, in order to "win" these days you're incentivized to have a high n. [citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:50 AM
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Doesn't stop 2/3 of women from marrying higher earning partners. Well given that men in general earn more than women across the board it seems mostly inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:48 AM
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Which I feel makes up almost half of the arguments in this sub. People tend to dislike hypocrites no matter the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:47 AM
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This too!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:43 AM
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100% this thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:43 AM
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And theres nothing wrong with that. He makes a lot of assumptions about women who wait or dont sleep around, I have similar views to you and im not a prude and quite frankly I get annoyed that people who are virgins are assumed to be this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:40 AM
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Yeah no. Some of us just have self control and are waiting for marriage. You make a lot of assumptions there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:40 AM
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Is it really wrong for a man to demand for a woman who is loyal to him Not at all, the problem is those who are hypocritical (men who have high N counts but demand their women to have low n counts or be virgins because they are "ready to settle down). I have been approached by those type of men and they get offended when I say no saying "its just different for men" I dont see why. As long as you are not just going around randomly "slut shaming" women out of the blue no, I dont see an issue with …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:39 AM
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I assume you meant shouldnt and yes totally agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:51 AM
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Oh I agree, I just mean I think its silly to take any part of a rock stars experience as comparable to the average but some do for convenience to support their exaggerated beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:42 AM
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This. People know musicians dont tend to live the average life, why do they think their sexual histories will be that of the average person?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:35 AM
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Women moving from casual sex to demanding "serious" relationships as they age Isnt this something men in general do too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:34 AM
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Ah ok never heard of em.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:59 AM
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Maybe because hypergamy is exaggerated and *shock* not practised by the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:08 AM
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Whats F&F?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:04 AM
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Aint that the truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 08:09 PM
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YouTube Manosphere and voices don't actually want men to improve. They just want men to continue to seethe. And make their bank balance fat while doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 08:01 PM
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This and its a shame people dont see this given many times these PUA's charge money once they get you on the hook-its clearly a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 08:00 PM
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This 100%. If it wern't for that it would be fine. If TRP was really only about self improvement it wouldnt have the wierd reputation it has. A lot of redpillers skip the self improvement part and just go to the blaming women for everything part which is what people have an issue with. Also sorry what does AWALT mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:57 PM
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Terribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:52 PM
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From personal and social circles? No. There was a comment made that these groups of men(trp) only really notice the very attractive women or women who are going out looking to hookup and not women on the whole and ergo their views are skewed, and I think in that case most people would assume those women are probably getting more than average but even so I doubt its as high as TRP believes. Also when you consider a big portion of their ideology comes from PUA's who apparently also vastly exaggera…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:04 AM
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Actually, had you read my original comment, I wasnt responding to OP, I was responding to a commentor that said this : but you have to acknowledge that none of that media was invented in a vacuum. Also a lot of what you write isnt relevant to the point that was being made and you could have saved yourself the trouble had you, rather than be offended, actually looked at my response. However on the issue I actually brought up you say you agree with me, and on the other subjects not brought up but …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:26 PM
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And thank you for your courteous response too, its a rarity on here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:25 PM
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Not sure where you are getting all that from because I am only responding to someone who was talking about media, I didnt bring the topic up so can we not with the unfounded allegations pls. I think you need to actually read the beginning of the thread. So if women were in charge everything would be super? No but thats not what im repsonding to This isn't a gender issue still. Because you would instead try to change their policies and not their genders. What policies? You stress how they're bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:25 PM
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I always took those trends to show that issues which are considered rare or personal are notsomuch, I never saw them as expecting anything from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:41 AM
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Well no, Men are still mostly in charge at the top even if there is a little more diversity at the bottom which is why theres still disagreements about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:39 AM
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This is the cold hard truth and it goes both ways, I've seen very attractive women get away with bad behaviour because of their looks too. I'm not sure if it was this sub that I first heard the "pretty privilege" thing on, but yeah that's a thing. One thing I will say is if you are of average attractiveness, being nice will make you more attractive like this guy who I used to work with. He was cute in an average way but also considered highly attractive just because of how nice he was and how he…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:57 PM
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👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:56 AM
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Women still want wealth, status and physically attractive men I would argue this varies a little more now-as wealthy women with status will choose two and sometimes one out of three (like that heiress that married that "hot mugshot" guy) Again a minority but it does seem to be growing, as more women become wealthy and independent some dont care about their significant other having all three of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:36 AM
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You know some guys are into that, I believe they like to call themselves "househusbands" Im all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:30 AM
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but you have to acknowledge that none of that media was invented in a vacuum. A lot of media, especially early media, was made by men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:26 AM
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when your own citation is used against you Your idea of my citation being "used against me" is that you dont believe it and you claim its propaganda on the basis it conflicts with your worldview. Thats hardly a winning argument. You took a shitty, indefensible stance Theres that potty mouth again although its evident this is clearly projection after reading your replies. You dont even have a citation or evidence all you have is diatribe. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:44 AM
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At least im providing a source, you will just disagree with anything which doesnt support your own world view which is clearly biased. Both men and women suffer, but you have an issue with people humanising men and not women. I have my issues with the UN, but I would take their knowledge and word over someone who gets so angry with people sympathising with female refugees and victims of war.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:44 AM
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Except Im not defending it, I was questioning it in hopes of an enlightened answer, and even when I agreed with some of your responses i'm still being offensive? Ok. I feel like im walking on eggshells. I already said I thought children were the biggest casualties overall, just trying to understand the viewpoint behind this and why someone would make it. The response you posted had nothing to do with the question I asked which is why I asked again. However I am concerned how you think asking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:38 AM
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No. Personally I've never understood the whole "women are into men who other women show attraction to" and my attraction to certain men dies suddenly if I discovered they are married or in a relationship. But as women are not a hive mind I assume theres going to be varying answers to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:07 AM
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Idk which is why im not saying that. Would you like to answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:37 AM
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First, if you're going to make a point you can do it without being a potty mouth if you want a respectful exchange. Heres some sources which disagree with you: https://www.un.org/press/en/2003/sc7908.doc.htm https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2016/sep/07/war-disproportionately-affects-women-female-peacekeepers-fiona-hodgson I'm not arguing that men dont suffer in war, and I would never, but you seem to be offended at the mere notion that women do. But actually if you read my reply ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:36 AM
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I mean, the whole dad bod thing has been floating around and women have said they like it (and i've seen men brag about having one too!).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:46 AM
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Yeah same, but this sub is known for exaggerating things on both ends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:33 AM
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The OP is slightly misleading as the study was not conducted by FDS but is a link to a study published in the daily mail. Just wanted to clear that up although I personally have never heard of baldness being an issue when it comes to dating, each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:31 AM
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And yeah in those cartoon fred is portly and wilma is very slim and they are in a loving relationship. So again, kinda proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:29 AM
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Good advice!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:17 AM
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That doesnt answer my question though, neither does downvoting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:10 AM
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I dont disagree? I was speaking in general. Do you not think women who are captured and raped are also suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:06 AM
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Isnt that what the mods are for though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:04 AM
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Fast forward to today and most men don't feel the same way. If a man is a loser throughout his younger years and somehow does manage to score a wife later on, even if he checks most of his boxes he is still going to feel like a loser. Which is silly because the world has changed and life has become harder for most of us ie: getting permanent full time work, getting our own home etc there is nothing wrong with accomplishing these things later in life. If he "feels like a loser" than thats on him …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:58 AM
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RP is definitely about personal responsibility. I thought that was bluepill teaching, my bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:51 AM
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I've seen quite a few threads where it does that I thought it was the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:45 AM
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Ok but regarding the point I made?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:44 AM
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Yes, because those husbands are supposed to be unattractive. But dont you notice how these men are still usually shown to be in loving relationships (even the simpsons which is supposed to mock this in the early days shows this, even when marge and homer have their rough patches they still end up showing their love for one another) where as in most comedy films and shows a fat woman is usually the butt of the joke (although thats changing now, its the norm in older shows). And people expect, wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:43 AM
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Well I wouldnt agree (that men are expendable) but I thought this was pretty well known that most civilian casualties are women where as most military ones are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:39 AM
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I sincerely hope so!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:37 AM
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“Women have always been the primary victims of war” Whats wrong with that statement? It sounds like its coming from the historical context of women being taken as "spoils of war" for centuries, although I would assume children were the primary victims I can still see why someone would make that argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:16 PM
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I've seen several body positivity campaigns involve men, but many would argue that its not as needed for men as for example dad bods were spoken about positivly without the movement. While I dont doubt men get judged on their looks they dont get it to the extent women do. Theres plently of representation in the media of less than adonis looking men (theres lots of sitcoms where the husband is overweight and the wife is slim, this is never really seen as an issue) etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:12 PM
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That would be a different argument as thats not what the body positivity movement is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:10 PM
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Or maybe some of us are waiting for marriage/have traditional views but its difficult to find a man who is the same. Please stop with the generalisations, they help no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:49 PM
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Are you new? This happens a lot here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:47 PM
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Same could be said about redpillers/incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:44 PM
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This, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:43 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:42 PM
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Men list completely rational reasons to not want to date single mums, but of course men having preferences is 'outrageous'. You write this in the context of dating single parents, but there was that single father who game seminars about not dating single mothers now of course everyone has the right to preferences but i've yet to see a single mother give seminars and go out of their way to trash and tell other people not to date single fathers. Basically the thrust is it's mean that men have pref…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:41 PM
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Are unattractive men more confident than unattractive women? Yes. In my opinion,it seems to me that an attractive women have it a lot more harder, it’s that inherent mentality we have that women= pretty/ men= successful. While attractive women do have problems like everyone, they do have "pretty privilege" as some call it here so will do better than unattractive women. The post is a bit confusing did you mean to title it attractive women instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:47 PM
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We have a lot in common, and I agree :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:29 PM
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As much as I say each to their own if im honest I view men with with high n-counts negatively. I only really take exception to it when they berate women for the same behaviour or are hypocritical about it. I also take exception to those same men berating other men for being virgins, if a man being a virgin is something to be mocked so should a man who sleeps around be mocked. What would you even consider to be a high n-count? 15 partners at age 30? 30? 50? 100? I want to hear your definitions an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:28 PM
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This happened in the other thread too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 08:43 PM
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You are of course free to do what you feel you need to, but its clear you have a certain opinion and no matter of reality will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 08:35 PM
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I think it doesnt matter what you say some guys dont want to see the truth and if you tell them they just accuse you of gaslighting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 08:34 PM
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First, this isnt gaslighting as im critisizing the source he provided. Second please actually look up what gaslighting means if you actually care what it means which from how freely you throw this accusation at people im guessing not. Third you tried it, better luck next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 08:32 PM
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The funeral story is taken from a comment someone left on this video on youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKinyrp3QIc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:32 PM
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So the video is of women saying its ok for men to be emotional, you are basing this off of the some of the comments from men saying this isnt true. Im not sure why you are asking women if you are not going to believe them and only what a few random comments say. Granted women are not a hivemind so there will be a few who are put off by this-but again context matters. Why were the reasons they were crying? Not much is stated. What were the relationships they had to these women? Again a lot is not…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:30 PM
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Well I mean first, I would not classify crying as a negative emotion, though I get from the perspective of the person crying it would be (although there are people who cry out of relief/happiness) and secondly it would just want to make me hug them. Interesting this comes after the thread asking about what fictional characters you are attracted to and why and the connection between the two I like is that they both show their vunerable sides. Because all these women say it's ok for their boyfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:06 PM
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Well I didnt expect this to happen, but I found myself attracted to will graham in Hannibal. Now granted Hugh Dancy is a handsome fellow, but oddly I dont find him attractive in any of the stuff I've seen him in outside this role. Also Patrick Jane from the mentalist, and I think I figured out why. They both show vunerable sides in the shows their in, and despite some of the messed up stuff they do (esp. will) I think this is what attracted me to them. Theres a few other characters but im not su…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 07:15 AM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:22 PM
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Because the main purpose of the red pill is to blame women for everything it can and wallow in self pity. Also I know I will get downvoted to hell as anyone who speaks negatively of redpill does on here, but I would be all for it rely on blaming the opposite sex for its failing via biases like the one you highlight here. Hypergamy may be practised by some women, but its no where near as widespread as redpill likes to portray and its not the main reason these rp'ers are getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:21 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:23 AM
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1 to 1 but I dont think its the ratio thats the problem, its the quality and suitability of those partnering up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:53 AM
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Hmm I think we know why....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:51 AM
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They both sound great in their own ways but personally option 1 because I like the idea of having someone I can rely on who who will have my back when I need it. Also he sounds adventurous and exciting. I think option 2 plays on what people assume women value but it depends on personality for example, its nice that hes good with children but as I dont have any and dont ever plan to it doesnt mean much to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:47 AM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:37 PM
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And no woman wants to be your learning experience. Well as a woman I disagree, would love to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:20 PM
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You should stop talking on behalf of women as no one asked you to, we all dont feel like that and quite a few women in this thread have said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:10 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:07 PM
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👏👏👏 This is why I unsubscribed from the virgin subreddit soon after joining. Thought it was going to be full of people sharing their stories and just general stuff, turns out every other post is threatening suic*de over being a virgin and how its the worst thing to be and how men are suffering. Any posts I made supporting and saying its alright, theres female virgins too who want you just got downvoted into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:04 PM
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OK I know this isnt aimed at me because im one of the few "wierdos" whos looking for a man who is a virgin but because life is different for everyone and im also waiting for marriage, but this is the reason I dont put an age limit on it or see it at any age being a red flag. I can answer your last question though-I've had a mixed reaction to men knowing my virgin status. On here i've mostly been called a liar, few guys have said actually good on you for waiting until marriage. On dating apps how…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:54 PM
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YES thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:19 AM
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Ok I wanna offer a viewpoint from the other end. I have stated on this sub before that im a virgin waiting for marriage but each to their own, im not going to judge promiscuous people for being promiscuous. What I am going to do is judge men who have slept around who message me on dating apps about wanting to date me because they've "had their fill of sluts" and want to "settle down with a real woman", and then get pissy when I say no and call me weird for only wanting to date a fellow virgin. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:19 AM
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Stop characterizing men and women as if there is no diversity of types among them. This applies to like 96% of all posts on this sub, I hope you write this on all those too if this is truly how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:53 PM
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I really dont think women are turning down men because they are "inexperienced" I think if women are saying that they are using it to try and save your feelings by not telling you the truth. Personally I would love an inexperienced guy as im an inexperienced girl, i dont see a downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:45 PM
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I really dont think women are turning down men because they are "inexperienced" I think if women are saying that they are using it to try and save your feelings by not telling you the truth. Personally I would love an inexperienced guy as im an inexperienced girl, i dont see a downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:45 PM
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I feel the same way about men, but apparently thats unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:06 AM
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This tbh, which is why I found it funny those men complain about some women doing what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:00 AM
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Men who have had many partners/slept around. Never understood why that would be considered attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:22 AM
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Feminist driven policies make it easier for women to have careers than man to support homemakers. I really doubt the many male politicians who dont value women who decide to stay at home and raise children ergo make it easier for them are feminists somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:13 AM
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Maybe you should quantify people because its not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:09 AM
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Especially seeing what they think of women on this very sub! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:11 PM
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No, you are right and should say it. Thank you for this!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:58 PM
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Yes and? I was responding to your claim hence why im replying to you and not OP, didnt realise this sort of stuff needed to be explained on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:29 PM
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I dont doubt some women like that but "most" women? doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:21 PM
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We both know why OP 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:20 PM
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Who says they don't? Many of them do. And you believe them? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:19 PM
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PS: Rarely I have seen a similar behavior from men too. Talking bad about women and claiming that they are in a happy loving relationship. Lol no You should ask the same thing of the men on this sub although fewer of them have wives/gfs there are a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:17 PM
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Expectations of what exactly? And I would say there is a difference between a guy who "looks too good" and one that "looks better than them" as you put it op, but the only reason I can fathom for the previous is that we're told really good looking men are rare so they suspect he sleeps around/unfaithful/untrustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:16 PM
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You wouldnt wish to be more handsome?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:12 PM
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5 foot 6 as its the same height as me. Can a man be too tall? When is a man too short for you? never understood the height facination myself, a man can never be too tall or short because its just not something they can control, but personally I have been told I prefer "short" men Would you rather prefer a 5'9 guy with model tier face or a 6'3 guy with mediocre face? Would date any guy if we hold the same values and have chemistry. Again im biased because I prefer men my height or under. Would yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:11 PM
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Or maybe its just individual tastes and what you're exposed to in childhood. Also its said that some women believe feminine men to be gentler and not so macho (although in reality this isnt the case)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:04 PM
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demanding protection OK while the example you provide is not a reason for aggression I just want to ask is there any situation where you would protect your GF or do you think its never warranted and you would leave her to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:01 PM
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This 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:21 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:20 PM
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Ah ok!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:40 PM
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Im not sure why this is an argument, I agree with you OP but dont men state that looks are the most important thing they look for in a woman? So why is it an issue when the sexes are reversed? Whether its true or not I would like to know what exactly is the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:38 AM
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No idea, as a woman I would have no issues going out with a bi guy, they get too much flack and i dont understand why either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:30 PM
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100% this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:26 PM
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The only alternative (according to this sub) is to bitch and moan which is what most guys do on this sub and it doesnt help them, it only makes them more bitter. I agree life is unfair, but moaning about it wont change it, you gotta adapt and have a realistic view on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:15 PM
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In general maybe but everyone is different, you have women who have high libidos and men lower. Also women have been shamed for having sexual appetites (even today) so I think that plays a part in it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:57 PM
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In my experience a lot of guys who described themselves as nice guys were in fact assholes. I would take passive doormat over asshole any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:07 PM
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Well i've had worse OP, last guy i tried to ask out spat in my face. Would have rather he just said no. Its the reason i dont approach guys anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:39 PM
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And its still a relationship so....?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:36 PM
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Thats still a relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:09 PM
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Arnt you in a relationship though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 03:21 PM
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They both have positives and negatives, so tbh neither. These descriptions also seem to make assumptions about what women like and dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:37 AM
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I mean the second situation doesnt sound like a relationship situation so not sure why you would view it as one given your following argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:26 AM
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I dont think this is a fair test because attraction is subjective you have assumed both these people are average attractive for both their sexes but the many responses prove not everyone agrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:05 PM
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To be fair after this conversation im not sure how reliable your information on either sex is. Have a great week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:19 AM
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Hey im just saying it as its is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:08 AM
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Oh theres been some harsh truths here I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:49 AM
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Not everyone wants that, and it sounds like an excuse for men to be lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:48 AM
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I am being genuine, you speak a lot of truth even though I know this weekend is about memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:45 AM
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Just realised how based you are though this whole thread. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:05 AM
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Which if true is a pity because there is absolutely nothing wrong with a man being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:02 AM
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OP you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:02 AM
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So may I ask does you significant other not have the other qualities, just the ability to give you kids? I assume by tradcon you mean traditional marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:01 AM
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Thats it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:04 PM
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What are the good male traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:13 PM
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How would that work as they are all anonymous and most likely in different countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:13 PM
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How would they know? Does this go for the man too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:30 PM
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How? Have they contacted you or your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:29 PM
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Good...what? In what sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:23 PM
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Tbh I didnt even know about this until 2 days ago, so please dont flatter yourself, im not stalking you, was just curious. Like I already said afaik no one is condemning your relationship, you do you. However im not sure how those women are ruining it for other women when you are the one making charts valuing women and men on a number system, this is clearly projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:22 PM
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This is how low status women try to mate poach. "Your gf sucks, get with me instead". Thats not how the internet works, at least when it comes to lolcows. Like I said many say you both are a great match for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:05 PM
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Thats what I was asking in the first place. Wouldnt he still be stupid though according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:03 PM
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Afaik men dont pay for the abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:37 PM
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So whats the point of a woman being a virgin if the man isnt going to marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:32 PM
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That doesnt answer my question, but even your point is wrong https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/marriage-more-beneficial-men-women-study-finds-10315018.html https://www.forbes.com/sites/averyblank/2019/05/14/mens-careers-benefit-more-than-women-from-marriage-how-to-change-that/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:21 PM
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LOL that response, and I say this with kindness I really doubt anyone is trying to break you and your partner up, from the looks of things they think you both are a perfect match for each other! However can you site the source please I would like to read the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:19 PM
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Oh ok. Did they say how many people were in the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:18 PM
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Based OP is Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:08 AM
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Pretty sure that hills chick said this on some interview a few years ago. So congrats on recycling jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:33 AM
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So no man wants marriage according to you? A wife or a mother to their children? Are you sure you are not just talking about your man?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:16 AM
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I thought they may have exaggerated some things about you but this response has shown you have a higher level of delusion than that thread said you did, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:15 AM
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No they are real, in fact they even have their own lolcow thread (not sure if allowed to post link here) just warning you the content is disturbing to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 09:38 PM
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Why only 2? Seems awful small for a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:38 PM
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Lol I was going to ask if this is some scientific research but clearly its that you have too much time on your hands? Also that doesnt really negate my original point, I see no problems with a man being a virgin. Now granted im biased because im a virgin too but I will admit that. Most of that list appears to be your own biases I mean apart from anything else whats wrong with going to college? Are you against education for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:37 PM
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Because they are shifting the topic to be more about women so they can change the subject to be more about women and make them the victims in the topic. Im pretty sure they were pointing out both sexes are like this, I didnt get the impression they were changing the direction at all. It is the equivalent of men going to a thread about women being mistreated or something like it and saying something like I understand completely I just absolutely do not give a shit as men suffer too. I mean that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:34 PM
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Ah ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:31 PM
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Welp I didnt know that!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:30 PM
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I'll take your word for it, not something I understand but everyones different, ty for the reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:30 PM
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Each to their own, I guess i'll never understand lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:28 PM
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When it comes to money it's not sexual attraction but rather obligation to secure resources. I get this, I even understand it in regards to a relationship, just not casual sex because afaik, you dont pay for that or get a financial benefit from casual unless you are referring to dinner dates or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:51 AM
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Doesnt mean thats all a woman's value is. Would also be interesting to see how many men on this sub agree and if they are the same men complaining about women only valuing men for looks and sex because if so thats pretty hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:49 AM
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More precisely the study that showed that more men aged 18-30 haven't had sex in the last year I know the whole post isnt about that but its mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:36 AM
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You dont speak for all women. Also are you implying a womans only value is sex or have I just misread your reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 03:35 AM
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Why though? Surely if you're gonna have casual sex you gonna do it based on sexual attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:40 AM
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One night stands though? I dont see why. Your comments do seem to be talking about people wanting relationships though? And I thought OP is talking about casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:04 AM
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That doesnt answer anything I asked but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:03 AM
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You both make interesting points.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:46 AM
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Do women looking for casual sex care about how much a man earns? Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:44 AM
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*ding ding ding* winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:43 AM
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More precisely the study that showed that more men aged 18-30 haven't had sex in the last year I mean, covid? But question, are incels a big group or a minority? Also are they all virgins? because i've seen guys refer to themselves as incels when they have had sex before, just not recently. Also I take it this documnetary was talking about a certain countries population and not the world as a whole? Because that would affect the findings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:42 AM
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Im referring to your comments throughout the whole thread, not just here. Hope that clears up the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:37 AM
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This is how it is in Islam, but I think thats because of expectations of family dynamics. Outside of that I got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:08 PM
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What's it with you people latching onto bullshit and thinking it wins arguments. I replied to what you said, and you are denying you said it, thats all. If you think you can argue that people don't lose their looks with age, that's yet another hill you die on. Again the point was you said that but then tried to pass the buck and said someone else did. Why cant you just own your own comments? So you've lost not one but TWO arguments here. Cool story bro. I would say you've lost your cool but you …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:21 PM
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I hold traditional views, finding it hard to find men who share similar values ( I have found men who want to date me/want one night stands but dont hold the no sex until after marriage view, even with religious men its still difficult). I've always stood firm on this and wont be budged, and yes I have gotten shit from men about this, but im not going to sleep around/engage in hook up culture because its the social thing to do. I dont look down on others who do though, each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:12 PM
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You But i's not me who says it so you can't lay it on me. Also you Honestly when you think about it, after 25 women lose their looks So you gonna attempt another walkback or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:05 PM
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Amazing you've gone from women to people, and if you really think that then maybe say it rather than speaking about all women being like this, because we aint.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:58 PM
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Also it really sounds like projection to me much like the marriage argument going on this entire thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:56 PM
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Apparently we dont exist 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:56 PM
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Why do you think women are all the same and talk about them as if they are identical?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:54 PM
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with a chapter for having fun and casual sex, and then a chapter for settling down? I mean, this mentality alone is a problem. Maybe this is the reason some people, and it seems most of the men here, see marriage as a negative thing. Like I said before im waiting until marriage because I dont see marriage as the part where you settle down I see it as the part where you share your life and your body with one person. ​ A man or woman is "marriage material", once they've had their fun, and they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:51 PM
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He also should be a virgin then, virgins should be with virgins, and non virgins with other non virgins, thats the only fair way in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:46 PM
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Only to hypocritical slutty men. Genuine men looking for genuine women its not because those people are looking for the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:43 PM
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So women according to you are screwed up because you think they lose their looks after 25? And this is somehow their fault? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:42 PM
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As someone who doesnt believe in sex before marriage and refuses to have any sexual contact before marriage, what exactly am I doing wrong according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:38 PM
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This. This is the issue and its just weird when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:36 PM
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There is nothing wrong with your comment, this happens on posts criticizing men (well women do it too!) but for some reason its an issue when the post is criticizing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:33 PM
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What you are saying is off-topic and just an attempt to move the goal posts. How? All they are saying is that people of both sexes do this, not sure how thats moving the goalposts its staying on topic and they said its wrong either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:31 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:23 PM
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This sounds like incel logic. If someone is with you, its because they want you. You also assume all women are the same. Did you really leave your GF over this or is this projection and she was your second option but decided to go for your first instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:22 PM
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Really? Welp I learnt something new today, I think everyone has their own preferences which is why I sometimes get annoyed with this sub and its overgeneralisations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:33 PM
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I think your comment highlights the difference between men and women, what you assume would not be attractive to a woman, is (at least in my case).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:32 PM
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I would say a hard 10 but then personal preference talking here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:53 AM
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Huge disagree. I prefer "shorter" men for the reason they tend to look really good when they gain muscle because it seems more evenly spread and they look better overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:53 AM
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OP you make some great points, awaiting the backlash you will get from bitter whiners on this sub for stating facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:14 AM
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The same could be said for men. To make it simple Im a virgin who only goes for other virgins which yes, makes it more difficult but fair. If I really wasnt a virgin there would be no need to limit myself in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:42 PM
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Yeah some guys just never learn, but at least they vocalise their shitty attitudes so you can avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:08 PM
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Thank you very much <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:08 PM
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Thank you for this. Yes it is hard finding someone with similar views in this day and age. Every guy who has tried it on with me runs when I say no sex before marriage and im glad, im not looking for one night stands or fuckboys. And yeah im also looking for a virgin for the reasons you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:21 AM
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Thank you. Not judging people who dont do this just pointing out that there are some who believe everyone of the same sex behaves identical and I think thats rather insulting to all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 11:33 PM
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I tried to find the comment but I dont know how to search in one sub specifically. It was about 3 months ago and it was two users on here. If you know how I can do that would love to link it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 11:31 PM
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Yeah I get that, I was raised religiously (not to say all virgins are religiously raised) and I dont really go out much so there is not much of a social circle. It is a shame that some men dont believe this, mostly because they themselves are most likely whore it about, but I still live in hope that there is a guy who shares my ethics, I cant be the only one. Also a controversial view I have: I think most of these problems brought up here would be avoided if everyone just waited to be married be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:44 PM
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I believe the context of this was to do with trusting men you just met-which is a subject thats been brought up here. Do you think all men are misogynists?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:09 PM
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Except a few do which is why I got berated because apparently all women are exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:05 PM
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Well this is clearly projection, and if you think like that why bitch about it in the first place? You just seem to want an excuse to blame one sex for everything and be bitter about it. Also citation needed for that supposed quote there. I dont think men would lie about being virgins given its seen as shameful (which it really shouldnt be)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:30 PM
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Interesting, thanks for your reply!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:29 PM
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Vet hard right after giving it up easy "epiphany" You assume this, I already stated that I dont believe in sex before marriage, i know im not the only one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:04 PM
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On this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:03 PM
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Seems so. A lot of men on this sub want to believe all women are whores to justify their shitty opinions and attitudes towards them. I got berated for waiting for marriage (and yes that does mean im a virgin) as a woman no matter what you do you cant win.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:54 PM
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Thats true, which is why women tend to vet hard and then many of you guys on this sub wonder why some women are like this 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:52 PM
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Which is a pity, as it should be special, so again I dont disagree on that. But there are a few of us who do see marriage as a lifelong commitment and treat it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:33 PM
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Again, really not hard to see why many women avoid some of you like the plague with this attitude lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:32 PM
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I agree, thats not the aspect im arguing against.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:44 AM
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Women's rewards from marriage are typically front loaded. Men only see the investment pay out over the long term. Ghee I guess loving each other and not seeing relationships as financial transactions is too much to ask, huh. Not hard to see why some of you get avoided like the plague lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:19 AM
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I think its clear you think women see things the way you do, and many women have pointed out here they dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 11:41 PM
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Because as someone who is waiting for marriage and doesnt mess around with fuckboys I wouldnt think a guy who thinks being a fuckboy is better than being married husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:10 PM
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Tell this to the women who say this to you. I sure they will stop as they will no longer see you as husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:03 AM
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I see myself as sensitive and loving and it feels like those traits aren’t important to women This could also be "nice guy" rhetoric, many guys who are like this and see themselves as nice usually are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:14 PM
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And you would be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:48 PM
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Yep, which surprised me as its against the rules apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:47 PM
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Yes, yes it is, even though its against the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 08:46 PM
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LOL, where? I mean this is clearly projection on your part again but i'll bite. Also no need to get your jimmies russeled over me, im not the one making the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:30 PM
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I’m not complaining about anything. I’m just pointing out reality. Which we already established you were wrong about on your first reply. I couldn’t care less if women body shame or height shame. On the contrary, Women are the ones who get super butthurt at body shaming Me thinks you doth protest too much lol. If this were true you wouldnt have complained about it in a reply to me, but you did. And you keep changing your stance. One minute body shaming is bad, next its ok, next its other peoples…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:57 PM
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You are literally the kind of person you are complaining about, so not sure what the whole point of your diatribe was.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:58 PM
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its very hard for women to be sympathetic to you when you are so easy to dismiss or belittle them going though the same thing. Also the fact you use this to justify body shaming women rather than saying its all wrong shows your mentality and the reason women avoid you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:15 PM
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Did you actually read my post? You think this stopped in the 1950's? Ok clearly you're out of touch with reality, if only that were the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:57 PM
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Is the context dating or just in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:47 PM
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While I dont agree with height or penis shaming, womens bodies have been shamed for decades so lets not lie now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:36 PM
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Really? I was unaware that older men were being told they cannot expect them to be treated as, or valued as much as a younger supermodel-esque man and that they need to put up with whatever value women decide they should have. But thanks for correcting me, I learn something new everyday here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:55 PM
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How can someone who is manipulative and toxic catch backlash?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:53 PM
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There are plenty of men who are manipulative and toxic who are not fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:12 PM
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I disagree that its the majority. I also disagree with the terminology as fuckboy has at least 2 different meanings, when men use it and when women use it. I can’t think of a woman Ive met who didn’t Again you are using your own personal experience, or in this case, view for this, which can be debated as not accurate but I do not wish to derail further so will say my main point is not that it doesnt happen, is more that its not as common as some guys on here think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:03 PM
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Thats not proof, thats conjecture. Also please prove this "happens to guys thats below 8/10" and the criteria to be an 8/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:23 AM
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Please prove your experience is the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:05 AM
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Thats the real cold hard truth here! But they dont want to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:59 AM
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Also from what i've heard dont most women only call fuckboys fuckboys after the fact? Like sure, there are some guys who are fuckboys who are upfront about it from the start but most of the time they are manipulative and women who date them think they are getting a relationship. Its kinda like how you say in your OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:52 AM
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tl;dr If you really like a guy and want to keep seeing him, you don't have a fuck him, but throw him a bone and give him a HJ while you make out or something. Why? whats wrong with waiting until after marriage if they are spouse material? You seem to think women do not want to be sexually desired either which isnt true. Surely the fact you are dating is proof they are sexually attracted to you, otherwise you'd just be friends. No one should be pressured to do sexual stuff to keep someone, it sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:50 AM
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That last part, right there, thats it exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:43 AM
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Theres nothing wrong with a man having no experience, doesnt make him less of a man, and this is one social expectation that needs to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:39 AM
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Kek do I need to #notallwomen? Some of us ware waiting for marriage, or have standards considered a bit "old fashioned" so personally there would be no sex until after marriage, and its very hard to find a guy whos similar minded these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:37 AM
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Exactly. What they describe sounds like a fuckboy, not a "high quality" man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:29 AM
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And would this be ok if the roles are flipped and women did this to men? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:20 AM
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Thanks. I have heard of some big age gap relationships but I did not think they would be common and as you say it seems to be smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:45 AM
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Interesting. How much % of cuople in general do you think this is the case, as rich men do not outnumber poor men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:01 AM
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Maybe we should start with adjusting the attitude that there is something wrong with men being virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:15 PM
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I dont see anything wrong with this? Its up to couples how they want to split things (to account for their personal circumstances and wants) but I personally wouldnt have an issue with this arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:53 AM
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Just because something is easy to do doesnt mean people will automatically do it. I do think women tend more towards relationships than one night stands, and also depends on how you were raised. Not all people of the same sex are the same, there could be various factors like the one you mentioned, but I do not think its the only explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:28 PM
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You make some great points here!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:44 AM
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Exactly this thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:43 AM
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OP also said virgin. Generally, yes, if a woman is still a virgin in her mid 20s, it is safe to assume she is not a very sexual person. Im going to politely disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:43 AM
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I find it hard to believe that most women who do not sleep around are non sexual lol. Is there no middle ground. Can there not be a woman who is super sexual with her LTR partner but unwilling to have sex with strangers? Yes, we exist. I think some think like this because we are not overtly sexual means we are not sexual at all. But its mostly because we want to be like that behind closed doors, not all out in the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:41 AM
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Sadly it is seen as being weird by many these days, it really shouldnt be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:34 AM
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women want a bad boy who will be good only for her. Speak for yourself, not all women want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:33 AM
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Indeed, when I have spoken about this on here i've also been called a liar (not sure why, what benefit would it be to me here?) and that there has to be something wrong with me etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:32 AM
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Also that hairline lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:45 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:01 PM
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Ok, I'm not saying that you're lying. I'm saying that in irl it would not be possible to know if they're lying, given the current cultural environemnt. But we're not talking about irl, we're talking about on reddit so moot point. You say you dont think i'm lying here but your previous posts keep suggesting I am lying about this aspect of me and what im looking for. What would be the point in that? Not all women are the same, we dont all have the same upbringing or look for the same things. I ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:52 AM
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Shes not pinning views on anyone shes talking about stuff they've said so? I dont think men and trp are the same, it would be disappointing if they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:09 AM
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Well you/they are "demanding" it, no? I like to call a spade a spade Said its what I was looking for. I take it these terms are interchangable to you? Lmao no I meant irl Yes, and the comment was said on reddit, in "this enviroment" so how exactly does your accusation make any sense in this context? The reputational and community standards that made people knowable are gone. What you get to know is an avatar in the world of rootless strangers. If you spend time with people irl they reveal themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:08 AM
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The ones that do, and expect sex to be tied to a relationship, or marriage, or a goat sacrifice, well, it's incumbent on them to not have sex until they've recieved said relationship/marriage/goat sacrifice. Its amazing even the times I'm agreeing with you you somehow manage to still disagree with me. I give up lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:32 AM
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Wow, "demand" lol bro no need to be so harsh. Sometimes when women really like a guy they tell him what they think he wants to hear. Lol on reddit?! what guy exactly do you think I like on this sub? I've heard of a reach but this is delusional lol. No one's going to fuck me just because I'm a breathing warm body, just as no one will marry you just because you're a breathing warm body. Good thing people develop personalities and humanity and do this thing where they get to know and *gasp* like ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:29 AM
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Lol true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:22 AM
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Pin on who? TRP or men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:22 AM
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You know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:27 AM
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There was nothing wrong with you OP, it was clear you were talking about a specific set of abuses not abuse in general, this feels like an attempt at "whataboutism" to deflect from the (very well put) OP you made. And also you are talking about TRP and was clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:25 AM
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but then you go on to focus only on aspects of abuse that are primarily associated with men Because 1) they are talking about sexual or sexually manipulative abuse, not abuse in general (which covers several different areas) I mean, its right there in the title. 2) they are talking about claims made by TRP which as they say excuses male abuse so yeah, they are going to focus on that because thats the aspect they are refuting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:23 AM
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Turns out a nonzero amount of virgin women expect virgin men. Curious, would that be a surprise to you? Do you think it's literally 100% expect virgins? What do you mean by nonzero? If you mean none then you are obviously wrong because im one. I dont think women are brought up to care as much about this as men are, bit personally yes, im a virgin waiting for marriage, I dont think im out of line looking for a man whos doing the same. Reciprocity. Traditional behavior for traditional relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:18 AM
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Yes, and we do. So I dont see the issue or how this is tied to money paid? When my cousin got married she and her family were expected to foot the whole bill, I personallly think it should have been split as she wasnt marrying herself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:13 AM
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Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:08 AM
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Hmm didnt think of it like that, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:08 AM
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Wow, what a brilliant response, this deserves a million upvotes. I was trying to put my finger on what was niggling me about OP's post. Granted I personally dont believe men should be expected to pay for dates but you really lay out great points here and I respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:56 PM
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I say if you're going to pay before you've slept with a girl because you're worried about "missing out" you might as well pay a hooker because at least then the sex is guaranteed with a hotter girl. So you view all women as transactions? You want a traditional relationship: in current year 🤣 good luck buddy, but at the end of the day what choice do you have but to pay? If you haven't yet concluded that they don't exist, that means you think some do exist, but you're certainly not going to find t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 11:53 PM
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Ah so you blocked me so I cant argue the fallacies of your posts here and you're so sensitive that you got offended by me mentioning things that happen in the real world. Thanks for the block, in this case conversing with you people would say thats a win!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:21 PM
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To the person with average reading comprehension skills thats a blatant no. Then why not just say no? Why are you so incapable of speaking to someone without being so insulting? What the hell did I do to you?! I asked a question about a certain subcategory of women. You failed to answer the question but rather critique the subreddit. Your original question was about the women posted on that subreddit and I answered. I didnt see the amended version until after my inital response. You know this. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 08:32 PM
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How does that disprove my point that you jump to accusations? Have you never heard of soldiers, disease, like....do you get out? Do you realise there are people who do not live to old age because of various factors? Good heavens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:35 PM
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Which describes that sub to a T!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:32 PM
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Im not downvoting you. Its a debate sub and goes against the core message. So is that a yes or a no? Can you not give me a straight answer? Look, you made a vague claim about the subreddit that sounds to me like its completely made up or exaggerated. Surely you can prove it? For the sake of argument? You asked for an opinion, you got one. I dont owe you anything but Im feeling generous, but in future some manners would be nice, is it really hard to say please or even just ask without being so ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:31 PM
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Lol my bad, I cant tell on this sub there are certainly some "characters" to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:26 AM
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Yep! Like I would never date a guy with a kid as many of us childfree women wont, do we make subs beating on single fathers for being single fathers though? No. From the looks of it the reason they are mad is because "chad" got in there and made her preggers and that sub sounds like another type of incel forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:23 AM
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Your original post was asking for women's thoughts on that subreddit. Now you've changed it and are complaining that "Most the responses Im getting are complaints about the subreddit rather than opinions on the type of women listed above."If you want people to keep it on topic how about you practise what you preach, stick to a topic and stop being patronising. Asking about that subreddit which is mostly guys submitting posts of women they have an issue with which, from what I've seen do not fit …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:55 AM
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The title of the reddit is suppoedly about women complaining about where the good men have gone. Most of the posts about pregnant women dont say any of that (which I already said in my OP) so what exactly has your response here to do with that exactly? Did you read it wrong or just wanted to vent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:48 AM
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Pretty much. Real honest ridiculous dating expectations end up on choosing beggars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:56 AM
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The first responses were to do with your questions, the follows on are addressing the points made. I can retrace my steps and find it if you would *so kindly* stop downvoting me even after I answered you and being annoyed that my answer is not one you agree with despite several other posters saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:54 AM
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It goes to poor judgment. Kids of single mothers are MUCH worse off; it also signifies there's something wrong with her ability to keep a relationship. So you assume a woman who is a single mum is always because she couldnt keep a relationship and not because her bf/husband was killed? Good to know you jump to assumptions, must really work out for you there "lateralthinker".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:52 AM
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Yeah I know its a stretch and i've been told my values are rather "traditional" but im sure im not the only one whos like this. Its a big world after all so who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:49 AM
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Why does that not surprise me lol. I wonder what the posters on there look like and if they feel its ok for them to have preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:48 AM
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Avoid the one critique, just throw a wobbly and not answer. Good Job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:45 AM
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Well I would (even though the onus really isnt on my as you asked for an opinion and got it) but you removed the link?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:36 PM
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oh I see, apologies!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:35 PM
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Is this aimed at me? Do I think that single dads should be shamed for online dating and trying to find someone? No I dont, single parents have a right to date as much as anyone else. However I'm not aware of a sub thats tears down single fathers, I would be interested to see whats being said if there was because not sure what they would be insulted for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:24 PM
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I mean even though this is what i'm aiming for (one person for life) like you say its tricky. I wonder if the shoe was on the other foot would these guys complain, after all as commented up thread theres no condemnation aimed at single fathers/the men who are the dads to these single moms kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:21 PM
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—2) No man wants to take care of another man’s child —4) Men don’t have a problem with single mothers of itself. Well theres a contradition, and single mothers are not "its".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:19 PM
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Ah good point I didnt think of it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:18 PM
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Interesting theory! I dont know much on the subject tbh all I know is single mothers get a lot more hate then single dads. Also no one is asking any of these men to date these women and many of them dont even fit the subs title so their whining just looks like they have too much time on their hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:17 PM
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I just glanced at the sub and most of the submissions are bitching about single mothers?! While im very much childfree and dont believe in sex before marriage (yeah controversial I know) I dont see why being a single parent is a reason to tear down someones character? I would understand if the single parents has unreasonably high standards but a lot of submissions are just women stating they have a child which is honest. I have read too many stories of people going out dating, liking the other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 08:38 PM
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Lol no? I get notifications on this thread but if you dont like my responses i'll stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 01:02 AM
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I feel like their aim isnt better dating but rather, an excuse to not improve themselves/be crappy to the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 01:01 AM
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People who are boring losers do not deserve to live a miserable sexless lonely existence, thus they should be given what they need. How about developing a personality and improving themselves? And the people who give this to them? How do we mandate that then? Because following this logic someone is going to be forced to give these people what you believe they are entitled to. The rest of you post is just elaborating on the fact you feel people need to be forced to serve others (oh, but lets not …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:32 PM
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This deserves a thousand upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:44 PM
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A pity this is a controversial fact isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:43 PM
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On the flip side married men work longer hours and generally earn more than any other demographic This is because when it comes to children its expected the wife to give up her career and stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:40 PM
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This is the internet, if you are on an echo chamber sub. Most people in the real world dont react like that, again you said yourself this is an extreme case, so what exactly are you arguing about? Do you want to have the last word? I dont mind, take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:38 PM
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So if they are not common why bring them up in a thread about generalities? Most people in the real world dont think like this, using a rare extreme example does not help your argument, and I mean that in the kindest way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:32 PM
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Arranged marriages are not the same as forced marriages, and I assume you mean forced. They may not be happy with these men, but they wouldnt be miserable. Citation needed. Im not saying the lonely person should get a slave. Just someone who pretends to care about them for a couple of hours a day and have sex with them. How are these two things different? Same with lonely women. In fact, the best case scenario would be to pair the lonely of both genders up. I agree with this but this still doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:29 PM
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I'm not saying people can't disagree with them but throwing out serious accusations without proof is pretty bad. This was my problem with your inital response.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:42 PM
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👏 👏 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:42 PM
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Another response that deserves hundreds of upvotes. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:40 PM
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I dont disagree with your general premise, what I disagree with is you throwing in things that were not said and shifting the goal posts and exaggerating certain things. I hope you can make your point without the need to be so dramatic?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:39 PM
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First because its not made up, secondly I approached you in good faith but I can see now I've wasted my time, thirdly I sincerely hope no woman has to deal with your shitty attitude. Newsflash, the universe does not owe you a girlfriend, and women seeing through your awful petulant whining is not their fault. You are the exact "nice guy" women avoid, and it wouldnt matter if you were attractive your attitude is foul. Dont blame women for calling you a creep, maybe stop acting like one lulll, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:33 PM
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So you believe everyone is entitled to sex? Do you not see the problem with this idea especially given your diatribe about misery?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 11:28 PM
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I agree that ghosting is shitty, i'm not arguing against that. I dont think anyone would see this guy as an abuser, only if he said something along the lines of hes owed something but even then abuser is a stretch. Entitled yeah, but thats it. He still has every right to vent online about his frustrations though I dont recall disagreeing with this either, in fact I dont believe it was even mentioned in your previous responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:06 PM
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We are discussing OP are we not? I'm asking you to calm down because you are clearly heated and wont listen to anything anyone says especially when it challenges your own world view, you do seem mad at "chads." If anything this shows you dont know what women mean when they say nice guys, which isnt a shock because any woman who has said anything that doesnt aline with your own beliefs you blow up at them. You just have this perpetual victim narrative, all I can do is advise therapy. Genuinely ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:35 PM
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Ironic? You can't see the connection between me impersonating a girl twisting a normal circumstance into something bad and a girl twisting a normal circumstance into something bad? If anything it just shows you are being dramatic and understandable why some women wouldnt want to deal with you, sorry but I dont believe you, that whole response senario came across very OTT which you yourself admitted. I really dont think anyone would claim this guy is an abuser or a manipulator. The response I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:30 PM
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you couldn't bullshit harder if you tried. what nice guy is "hitting" on girls and making it apparent he wants to fuck you? Did...did you not read the op? Also calm down ffs. You complain about women but apparently you know all womens lives? kek good to know. ​ thats the complete opposite of what is considered a nice guy holy shit are you kidding me. the standard 'nice guy' is a meek creep who tries to be sneaky to get into your pants with creepy nice acts If thats what a nice guy is to you then…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:06 PM
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What do you mean a jump? I'm staying on topic. We're talking about women who twist things and blow them way out of proportion The irony of you saying this when you posted this: "i [24M] bought this girl dinner and we had a nice date then she ghosted me, it sucks" "well she isn't obligated to give you anything. Your entitled behaviour and clear manipulation is signs of an abuser, sorry 'nice guy' we see through you" No, no one would react like this, you even admitted yourself this is extreme, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:03 PM
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No. The term "nice guy" is used to describe a sort of behaviour, its nothing to do with looks. I have been hit on by attractive guys with the "nice guy" personality which was quickly made apparent when I have said no because i'm rather traditional in my view of not practising sex before marriage so they go from being friendly and nice to ghosting me because they know I dont do casual sex. Alot of your complaining about autistic arguments seems like projection, maybe take a chill pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:31 PM
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"i [24M] bought this girl dinner and we had a nice date then she ghosted me, it sucks" "well she isn't obligated to give you anything. Your entitled behaviour and clear manipulation is signs of an abuser, sorry 'nice guy' we see through you" I mean, with that attitude yes I wouldnt be surprised if someone avoided you, i've heard about a jump but this is rediculous lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:23 PM
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you're more interested in ranting about that ugly nice guy who didn't turn you on Would you look for casual sex with a woman who didnt turn you on? Failing to see your point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:19 PM
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You're not a liar, judging from his previous responses to others, believe me theres nothing wrong with your responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:16 PM
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Exactly all of this, you explain it so well!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:14 PM
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But he was talking about women twisting things to make it seem bad. Well it may be bad depending on what you want and are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:11 PM
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Kek this needs a million upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:08 PM
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I guess this is a controversial point but...no one is entitled to sex. Whether someone is "decent" or not (because this idea seems to vary depending on who you're talking to) this isnt something that can be mandated. IME genuine nice guys do get laid, in fact they get a lot they usually are in relationships. If you're just looking for sex I really dont think its about being "decent" or not, its about finding someone who is also into casual stuff which of course isnt everybody. Hard fact is most …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:01 PM
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Sad she had to preface this with "men are the coolest" like if a guy made a similar statement you know damn well he wouldnt be tactful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:01 AM
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.....the fact that was made in the first place? The hell is wrong with men?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:32 AM
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I saw that thread earlier and some posted pictures of her in an 8yr olds mlp swimsuit so yes, she does. Glad at least most of the replies I saw on twitter called her out for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:19 AM
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Yes, this is why I was baffled that girls like shoe0nhead get sympathy here given how they pull stuff like this and throw other women under the bus at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:18 AM
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This is why i'm kinda grossed out by the karen meme because imo men are far more entitled and there isnt a meme for them (I also have been working in retail 2 years now so I totally empathise). One guy asked for me to pay for his shopping (ofc it was a joke) I wasnt kinda put on the spot and just said i dont make enough to when I should have said he's no where near cute enough to try that with me (he was winking at me the whole time and tbh he was roudy with his friends there i just wanted to ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:15 AM
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I've seen it from the other side. I read a story about a woman who had gotten breast cancer and her husband said if she got her breasts removed he would leave her. Well she did, it was either that or die, and she said when she came home he had cleared out his things and were gone. She broke down and cried. I read this story when I was very young and it was one of my very first wake up calls about how selfish and cruel men can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:41 PM
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Because a lot of mens media/and certain hollywood films reinforce this idea. The worst are weebs who think no matter what their age/looks Asian girls are gonna want their pasty asses. As an Asian lady myself I like giving them the truth especially when they assume i'm going to be one of them (despite being raised in the west lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:21 PM
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Omg read the update on this, guy wanted her to freak out so he could dump her for being a "golddigger". Hes been cheating on her but because hes a pos and everyone loves her he devised this to make her look like a bad guy. NVM scrote strikes again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:05 AM
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So they mad she acting like a typical man? LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:39 AM
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