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Through experience usually, but if you understand the concepts behind attraction you can generally figure it out. You can also ask people on forums like this but you'll usually only get general advice since you can't tell us every single detail.
/r/seduction24/05/15 11:20 PM
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Too many people rote learn lines and expect them to always work. That's why you either do well or bomb out. In reality you need to be able to adapt to the situation, which is why it's much more important to understand why you're told to use certain lines.
/r/seduction22/05/15 06:24 AM
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Practice a half smile. You'll get used to it eventually. And learn how to soften your eyes. Subtle but makes a big difference.
/r/seduction22/05/15 06:15 AM
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That's super creepy and in some circumstances could get you fired. You don't suddenly jump to high level kino. You need to build it up. This is like trying to finger her when you haven't even kissed her yet. I'm assuming you haven't escalated with her at all and thus have very little rapport.
/r/seduction22/05/15 06:12 AM
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No need to go into so much detail. Someone who is in his own element and is having fun will always be more attractive than someone who is trying to realise an ulterior moment (ceteris paribus). Girls can pick up on that desperation. Don't bother with sarging. Go out and have fun. Create opportunities for yourself to meet girls but don't go out because of it. That makes you the pursuer, which automatically makes you more beta. Enjoy yourself, be intrinsically attractive, and girls will pursue you…
/r/seduction22/05/15 06:10 AM
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First, don't chat to girls on Facebook. First of all, chatting idly to a girl is not attractive unless you already have a very very deep rapport with her. Second of all, I hope you're not just chatting to randoms on FB. That's weird and creepy. You're a programmer so you should know certain languages follow certain logic and have methodologies that, depending on variables, lead to different outcomes. Attraction is the same thing. You can learn how to be attractive. If you're not naturally attrac…
/r/seduction22/05/15 06:06 AM
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2 isn't a friendzone. They're just girls you haven't made a move on yet. Also, I disagree with cold approaching being the lowest on the hierarchy. It's the only form of approach where you have unlimited options. You can cold approach literally anyone on the planet. Social game might seem like it has a higher ROI but it really depends what you consider to be an investment. Time? In terms of time it would be one of the lowest ROIs. Nothing against either method, just keeping it real.
/r/seduction22/04/15 04:30 AM
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If you abstain until marriage you're already limiting your market heavily. I know for a fact these aren't the type of people I would want to go out with. If you choose to be abstinent, that's your own prerogative. However, as a person I will question your choice and there are no good answers for why you would make that decision, therefore you are instantly less attractive. I haven't even mentioned the negative effects this would have on relationship dynamics.
/r/seduction22/04/15 04:08 AM
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I would never go and say i like you so lets go on a date. Most people wouldn't say this I think. I'd only say it because I know I'm good looking enough to pull it off and even then I'd have to pick certain girls. The "friends" route leads to girlfriends more than casual sex. Nothing wrong with that, just pointing it out. Also, you're not really friends - it's just flirting under the pretense of being friends. Just so no one gets confused. If you're genuinely a friend it's a bad idea to like the …
/r/seduction22/04/15 04:02 AM
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Have to disagree with this. If she really does see you as a friend you start a position less than 0. You're not a sexual enigma (i.e. stranger), you're a sexual non-entity. Why would you let yourself drop off her sexual radar completely and think of it as a positive thing? Why not just keep some kind of sexual tension active at all times so you never become just a friend? I've known enough girls who have had people they thought were friends suddenly ask them out and it both creeped them out and …
/r/seduction22/04/15 03:57 AM
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As a guy, this was my first reaction. I suspect she might have felt the same way you just described. Still, cold approaching is scary. At least the guy progressed in terms of his own confidence.
/r/seduction21/04/15 04:48 AM
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how they will react to pickup strategies Older women are less nervous to chase what they want. If they like what they see they'll be more forward about it. "Pickup strategies" are just a way to appear more attractive. If you're attractive, girls will follow.
/r/seduction21/04/15 04:46 AM
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Your day game sounds creepy. A stranger jumping off a bike and asking where you're going? =/
/r/seduction21/04/15 04:45 AM
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This isn't his fault at all. Move on and take your attention off the girl. It'll stop hurting when you have someone new to obsess about ...
/r/seduction21/04/15 04:26 AM
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Just clarifying, I don't make it a mission to prove anything. It's just something that comes up eventually. Like they have X impression of you and as they get to know you they find out that you're much more than just X. She studies early childhood education and I'm in banking. Her degree qualifies her to be a director for centres, and I'm always looking for new things to invest in so it works out very well. Not sure about where you live though - there's a shortage around here.
/r/seduction17/04/15 12:13 AM
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Honestly, your sample size will always be tiny unless you manage to approach a few thousand blondes. But as you said, if there's a lot more blondes in the area then that also means there's a lot more not attracted to you. Larger population, same rate of rejection equates to more rejections from blondes.
/r/seduction16/04/15 06:20 AM
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Her saying that basically means you're the best texter ever. She's subtly hinting that she wants more attention and it obviously bothers her enough that she brought it up. But I do agree with those below. You shouldn't have to force yourself to spread it out, it should be natural. The best thing you can do while pulling smooth moves is look natural.
/r/seduction16/04/15 04:11 AM
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The initial approach is both the most terrifying and most exciting experience ever. You'll learn to love it, but it never stops being a little intimidating.
/r/seduction16/04/15 04:10 AM
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let the lust flow through you Hahaha, perfect.
/r/seduction16/04/15 04:09 AM
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If you run out of things to say you need more interests and knowledge so you have some substance to fall back on.
/r/seduction16/04/15 04:03 AM
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Out of curiosity, what do you mean by "enrich your tone of voice"?
/r/seduction16/04/15 04:02 AM
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Small sample size? Confirmation bias? Personal taste?
/r/seduction16/04/15 04:02 AM
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There's a lot of approaches but the one common factor you'll find is everyone will tell you not to text her too much. Your goal when texting her is to set up another face to face interaction. Don't dilly dally and kill your attractiveness with mundane talk. Just make sure your texting is congruent to who you were when you met her. So many people fail to adapt to their situation and just cookie-cutter everything. If you were a nice, genuine guy when you approached her it won't make sense for you …
/r/seduction16/04/15 04:01 AM
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If they're obviously absorbed in what they're doing just leave them alone. But plenty of opportunities because it's a shared activity environment.
/r/seduction16/04/15 03:58 AM
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You should have let her break eye contact first ;) Holding a gaze is a very powerful sexual tool. You can get a girl in the mood just by staring at her the right way.
/r/seduction16/04/15 03:56 AM
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Honestly, I do burn out. It's a constant process of trying to optimise your time and cutting out things that don't benefit you (but are luxuries that are enjoyable). I have to avoid sitting on my sofa in the morning before work because if I do, I'll get comfortable and realise how tired I am, which makes it hard to stand up again. I think what keeps me going is a mixture of things. I'll try not to ramble, but since it's a personal story it's hard for me to cut out parts as I consider them all eq…
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:59 AM
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Considering this is a PUA sub I'll put some effort into explaining. I'm interested in her course because I plan on investing in businesses in that field in the future. Plus it's easier for me to do it than her because frankly, my range of interests is broad enough that I'm better equipped to do it than her. In terms of attraction, this is a subversion of expectations. Because I'm 200lbs at 10% body fat a lot of people instantly assume I'm an idiot. The moment I prove otherwise they are amazed an…
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:21 AM
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5-7 hours but honestly I'm perpetually tired. I wish I could sleep more.
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:17 AM
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Awww yeah!
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:16 AM
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Women unless they are taken, are always looking for mates to put it plainly. Even if they are taken, honestly. A great deal of women love with their head. If they think they can get better in their heads, oftentimes they will try to if presented the opportunity. Or at least be open to it. No one else mentioned it but this also reminded me of why wealth is attractive - it's a provision of resources. So you can be good looking or rich (but ideally be both).
/r/seduction15/04/15 07:28 AM
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You just have to keep escalating sexual tension so you don't end up being just a friend. This time we cuddled and watched a movie. Did you do nothing at all? Perfect opportunity ... you're already cuddling. came back later that day because she said she was hungry and I just cooked. I wouldn't have gone back ... bit too available and eager to please on your end. Don't worry too much about the details though. You ended up cuddling anyway, which is a good opportunity. Just make sure you don't get y…
/r/seduction15/04/15 07:25 AM
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I work 10-12 hours a day. On the side I am performing stock valuations and follow the financial markets on top of my workload (for my own portfolio and because I want to change careers). To that end I'm also doing an Excel VBA course and my RG146 accreditation, and teaching myself some accounting and financial modelling. In addition to this, I do my girlfriend's university assignments. I lift for 2 hours a day, cook all my meals, take my girlfriend on dates, and spend time with her. I will try t…
/r/seduction15/04/15 04:48 AM
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I also noticed I am boring as fuck...once I got to know these girls I didn't have much of anything interesting to say because my life is very mundane, predictable, and routine. Problem is, that's by design. Should I have to do exciting things become interesting to attract women? That's not necessarily me. What? You're self-admittedly boring. Why would anyone want to date you. You don't sound like you would even date yourself. Stop being boring or put up with what you've got; i.e. self improvemen…
/r/seduction15/04/15 02:23 AM
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What is your goal? Not that I participate with the PUA community anymore but originally my goal was to learn skills that I never had a chance to develop due to my own introversion and the fact that I was in a relationship for 4 years as a young guy. Eventually, i was just obsessed with creating the best and most successful version of myself. I loved the idea of inner game and ended up quitting all things PUA related to just focus on being an awesome person. I still remember all my stuff but it's…
/r/seduction15/04/15 02:21 AM
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Unless you're sleeping with one or more of them, or hanging out a lot with them there's absolutely no complication here ... just keep attracting them all.
/r/seduction15/04/15 02:16 AM
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flaked last second (multiple times) She's not interested. At this point I've said fuckit and really don't care about this girl, but I don't want to be a dick either. I would just friend her or put in very minimal effort. That's assuming I don't want to be a "dick" and just stop talking to her.
/r/seduction15/04/15 02:15 AM
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You know you can't just go around always winging it, you know there are things you like to say and do. Yeah but a natural will do these things without ever learning outer game. They just do what they naturally feel is best suited to the situation. I'm not saying the techniques themselves are useless, I'm saying that they come to you naturally once you have inner game. So outer game is a way for people to imitate inner game. Plenty of examples of outer game leading to inner game as well. I just t…
/r/seduction14/04/15 04:57 AM
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Inner game is the only real game ... outer game is just what people try to imitate when they don't have inner game yet. Naturals don't need to run routines.
/r/seduction14/04/15 03:44 AM
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Haha "analytical introvert". I've been calling myself a Social Introvert for a while now. Rote learning PUA is boring, insincere, and inflexible. I like the bit about numbers - never thought of it until now but it's true. The only reason you'd have to churn large numbers is if your strike rate is incredibly low. I dabbled in PUA very early on and quickly found out about "inner game". Once I started improving myself I scrapped all the PUA crap and just focused on being an awesome person in genera…
/r/seduction10/04/15 02:59 AM
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