Scheefgaan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
66	Why 'be yourself' is the best AND worst advice in your dating life.	Fundamentals	Scheefgaan	/r/seduction	29/12/24 11:23 AM
16	How to get over bags you fumbled?	Fundamentals	Scheefgaan	/r/seduction	06/02/24 07:28 PM
1	Where did i screw up? should i continue?		Scheefgaan	/r/seduction	05/10/22 01:54 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Has this sub became full of sh*t? It depends on the situation, a real fighter knows when to quit. When i first started talking to the girl i’m currently dating she always came across as shy and secretive. She responded well to my pursuance but eventually showed signs of being uninterested and stopped putting in effort. That’s when i toned down the effort and treated the situation more nonchalantly. It worked, and we’re dating now several months later. I feel like game should be treated like a volume knob that can be adjusted acc…	/r/seduction	21/05/25 09:13 AM
1	Which girl to choose in class? You’ll need to master the art of being able make flirtatious comments that could be interpreted as being friendly. Establish physical contact next, fist bumps, shoulder taps etc. Text them after school and take it from there	/r/seduction	21/02/25 07:42 AM
2	How to get Laid or find a FWB in a Rural Area? go out to the city bro	/r/seduction	20/02/25 04:47 PM
3	I invited a woman back to my apartment and I did not escalate How were the interactions beforehand? Was there tension? Did you kiss?	/r/seduction	20/02/25 03:01 PM
1	Is it better to leave women on read or un unopened? If you’re gonna do it, do it at the end of a conversation or as another guy noted. Do it when she’s into you and you feel like you have some wiggle room. Otherwise she’s just gonna flock to other options	/r/seduction	25/01/25 05:31 PM
1	On Getting an FWB Back Best chances is probably inviting her to a party, preferably one you are hosting. Then maybe you flirt a bit here and there and get lucky. Don’t be clingy at all here is the key	/r/seduction	06/01/25 04:54 PM
1	Why 'be yourself' is the best AND worst advice in your dating life. My point exactly	/r/seduction	29/12/24 04:51 PM
1	Anyone here quit smoking weed to improve their dating life? honestly It’s fun when you’re at a party and everybody’s getting lit or when you’re chillin with a girl all by yourself. I found it can make conversation more interesting and playful and the za makes me talk slower and more punctual which i imagine could be attractive to many woman. Also, does sex feel better/last longer when you’re high or is that just me? But yeah it does me your more passive when you’re by yourself i’ve found. If anything it makes me want to completely disconnect from the out…	/r/seduction	04/12/24 07:36 AM
6	How to even hold a basic conversation Keep branching off and ask open questions. Let’s say you’re at a party and you cold approach. “Hey my name is OP, what’s your name?” “Stacy? Nice to meet you stacy, that’s a beautiful name. where are you from?” “Anonville? Cool, i’ve never been there, you’d have to show me around. What’s fun to do there?” If the conversation comes to a halt, don’t be afraid to fuck off for a second and come back later. Don’t come across as desperate by clinging to a dead conversation	/r/seduction	03/11/24 07:24 PM
3	How do you go for casuals rather than going for a serious relationship? Just don’t escalate past the hookup part. Most woman control access to sex whilst most men control access to a relationship. Remember that doing this won’t guarantee they’ll stay in contact with you because they might’ve been looking for something more. As far as places to look, i’d say dating apps offer more of these types of woman interested in casual stuff.	/r/seduction	06/07/24 02:41 PM
73	Horny in periods? A real knight has blood on his sword	/r/seduction	09/06/24 07:02 PM
1	Going on a first date with a Sahara desert dry girl. How should I handle it ? And what should I expect ? I’d keep an open mind and consider she might just be a bad texter/shy but i agree with the other comments here that you shouldn’t make the first date too pricey. Also, trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 06:39 PM
2	Those of you who successfully faked it till they made it with confidence. How did you do it? “did i ever tell you the definition of insanity?”	/r/seduction	30/05/24 07:33 PM
2	got a girls snap, what to do next Yeah smoke one up bro	/r/seduction	15/05/24 08:22 AM
4	How do you respond to the common shit test of “Well you (or I) do/did it, why can’t/ don’t you?” 🥺 Bruh just send a picture back	/r/seduction	22/04/24 07:40 AM
2	What's the worst way you've ever fumbled a babe? Made out with my homies sister at a party and everybody found it. Dude said he didn’t care but his gf admitted to me later that week he did. Broke things off so i could reconcile with the homie and stay friends. Years later now i barely even speak to this kid anymore. I see her pictures come by sometimes and she’s so beautiful, great personality too. Now i’m just left wondering why the hell i let this girl slide and why he considered this such a big deal in the first place. Oh well.	/r/seduction	15/04/24 03:01 PM
3	What's the worst way you've ever fumbled a babe? Dude this hits so fucking close to home i can’t even lie	/r/seduction	15/04/24 02:56 PM
5	Anyone try using makeup? No man don’t do this shit. This is your idea of exerting confidence around woman? If you’re having trouble with acne, get a prescription for acutane.	/r/seduction	06/04/24 07:25 AM
17	What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV? I swear, this should be taught to men in grade school. Recently copped Bleu de Chanel EDP and it’s already been worth every penny.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 08:16 PM
65	What’s something money buys that quickly increases SMV? A good cologne. Honest to god. It will do wonders for you. It’s makeup for men.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 07:21 PM
1	How long do I need to wait? Start with your own self image. You can’t expect to be loved by someone if you can’t even love yourself to a certain degree. Apply yourself. Start going to social events like raves, parties, or concerts and just fucking whip up a conversation with strangers, dudes included! You’ll be surprised how easy everything actually ends up being in the end.	/r/seduction	14/03/24 07:29 PM
4	I’m too nervous to dance with cute girls? Don’t overthink it and just go. The more you think about it, the worse you’re gonna feel about it. give yourself a countdown. 3, 2, 1, go.	/r/seduction	09/03/24 08:29 AM
1	Did you get any Complements on your Body odour, if so What deodorant did you use? 1.Dior sauvage elixer 2.Bleu de chanel 3.Jean paul gaurtier ultra men go to for me	/r/seduction	06/03/24 07:38 PM
3	Reaching out to a girl again Nah man, best thing to do in this case is to just take the L and move on. Don’t feel bad though, it happens to the best of us. Remember that the master has failed more times than the apprentice has even tried.	/r/seduction	06/03/24 07:33 PM
1	What was your first cold approach like? How did you feel? For example. I decided to sit down next to a girl during a rave and asked her how she was doing and if she was enjoying the event. somewhere down the road she said “there’s a lot of cute girls here huh?”. I responded by saying “yes i know, i’m actually sitting next to one right now”. ended up making out with her for a while and dating here for a bit afterwards.	/r/seduction	02/03/24 12:28 PM
2	What was your first cold approach like? How did you feel? It depends on where you are. I’ve found that striking up a conversation in places like the gym or on street are less likely to succeed because people are busy and likely not looking to exchange socials with a stranger. Cold approach in parties, raves or outings? go for it. People are there to have fun and your confidence will show.	/r/seduction	02/03/24 12:25 PM
15	How to escalate flirting to sexual questions when I myself am a Virgin? Lmao, seems you’ve been cooked on this side, should i turn you over? In all seriousness, you’re confusing asking sexual questions with creating a sexual atmosphere. DON’T ask these dumbass questions, instead focus on eye contact and teasing the girl with playful lines. It’s like slowly dialling up a volume knob. Leave your comfort zone, but don’t fking leave planet earth.	/r/seduction	14/02/24 10:00 AM
2	How to get over bags you fumbled? No it’s more me being neglectful and letting them slide. They lose interest and move on and years later now i’m pondering why the hell i did these things Seriously good looking girls too man, i let them slide because at the time it didn’t “feel right” such a shame.	/r/seduction	07/02/24 06:37 AM
2	Just want to chat about my first time and How to suck a dick? nope but definitely had some good and bad head before	/r/seduction	25/10/22 02:44 PM
14	Just want to chat about my first time and How to suck a dick? suck it as if it were a popsicle, (don’t suck like a Vacuum.) focus on the tip as it’s the most sensitive. also, try and avoid biting it or using your teeth. if you can, use your tongue as well, it feels good. goodluck.	/r/seduction	25/10/22 10:29 AM
1	How do I approach someone I know? i’d say this is your best shot as well. try to establish a foothold within the group and focus eye contact / slight majority of most interactions with the girl you like. Stay briefly and make it quick. you don’t want to overstay your welcome and make it weird	/r/seduction	18/10/22 06:46 AM
1	Where did i screw up? should i continue? i appreciate that, oh well. Plenty of fish in the sea!	/r/seduction	06/10/22 08:46 PM
1	Is it better to take it slow when approaching a friend, or straight up tell her? if she rejects you you can always back off and see what happens then. at least you put your cards on the table and the confidence will show. remember that absence make the love grow fonder	/r/seduction	04/10/22 04:25 PM
1	Is it better to take it slow when approaching a friend, or straight up tell her? i’d ask her out, what do you have to lose? ask her on a date and tell her if she’s not interested that it’s water under the bridge. rejection > regret mate!	/r/seduction	03/10/22 06:28 AM
0	Just came back from a party look man, you can’t put in little to no effort and expect results to come back. just because you workout doesn’t mean woman are lining up ready for you to take them out. these are mere stepping stones that helping you along the way. you’re at a party, introduce yourself to some random people. “hey my name is __, i’ve never seen you before what’s your name?” or “hey my name is __, i’ve never seen you around, how do you know (host) or(certain friend)” and man dance around a bit, have some drinks, …	/r/seduction	01/10/22 08:41 AM
5	Best thing to say after getting her snapchat? I’d hit her up next time you’re going out on town again, and see what she’s up to or if she’s going out. spend some more time with her in town and take it from there. take it casually and don’t expect too much, it’s a club after all	/r/seduction	11/09/22 09:12 PM