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I’m convinced Casey Zander has some serious psychological problems
/r/ExRedPill02/09/24 09:30 PM
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I don’t know anyone who’s done this.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 02:48 AM
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You know you can get experience and get good in bed through just having casual sex right? You don’t need to pay for sex. Also, I got better at sex by educating myself in between sex partners. There are great books and video resources out there.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 02:19 PM
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It’s not about acting hard to get, but actually being hard to get. You should not be desperate for any woman who shows interest in you, be cautious and take things slow
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 01:04 AM
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Yall have got to stop with these fixer uppers & making excuses for these crazy people
/r/ExRedPill11/07/24 08:38 PM
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Hamza is one of the biggest clowns in this space
/r/ExRedPill28/06/24 09:14 PM
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How tall are you? just curious
/r/ExRedPill23/06/24 11:06 PM
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I am 5’6 and I’ve had fwb and ONS and made out with girls at parties, bars etc. And my exes all seemed to find me hot a couple of them started as FWB / hookups.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/24 11:06 PM
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Men wish to date up in other ways.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 05:49 AM
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So you’re a sex addict?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 04:56 AM
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Men absolutely want to date up. So many men want to date “up” or out of their league looks wise.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 04:56 AM
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Since when is 30% most?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 04:55 AM
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Bro needs to raise his standards
/r/ExRedPill19/06/24 02:01 AM
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Yeah as someone who stayed in an abusive relationship out of fear of being alone, I can confirm that once I finally got out being alone was 100x better.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 02:19 AM
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Not sure if this counts because I’ve been in therapy since I was 4 due to having bad OCD. More recently though I’ve started to take therapy more seriously not just for ocd or a specific diagnosis but also for my attachment issues which relate to romantic relationships that led me to be vulnerable to red pill type stuff. I got into an abusive relationship and met my match when I tried to love bomb her and had been getting away with manipulating women for a couple years before with that type of st…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 10:42 PM
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Eventually the mask does always fall.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/24 02:24 PM
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Well you need to focus on the pros. You can’t change your situation. You need to love who you are.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 01:00 PM
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Just because the “majority” find something attractive doesn’t really matter. Are you looking to date the majority of women or just one? I am 5’6” and I have dated some girls who liked short men, and some who were indifferent to my height, and some who I just never asked. But a good handful of them actually liked aspects about me being short. There are pros and cons to every physical attribute. Stop trying to please the majority and look for the people who are into YOU and what you look like and …
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 04:27 PM
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As many others have stated, getting casual sex as an avg guy is relatively easy… but if you’re only going for 8s, 9s and 10s and you’re a 6 or 7, then it’s a lot more difficult. If you’re a 7 going for 5-7s then it is not hard at all. Just know your lane, lol. A lot of these guys complaining online are wayyy too picky looks wise. But then complain that women’s standards are too high. 😂 Side note: I don’t think the numbers rating system is a great way to describe attractiveness but you get what I…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/24 06:15 PM
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Not all the time but you’re really telling me you’d date someone you have no sexual attraction to?
/r/ExRedPill12/03/24 09:50 PM
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I think the same way you heal from any abusive relationship. Therapy, time, resetting your nervous system, community.
/r/ExRedPill12/03/24 02:39 PM
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It’s a red flag that he’s 31 pursuing a 21 year old and he follows these pages. You do know what the red pill tells older men to do right? Date younger women and try to mold them into submissive wives.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/24 01:45 AM
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Want my number?
/r/ExRedPill07/03/24 10:10 PM
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Yeah it’s not good to assume. I always ask first, I ask what they enjoy. He said in the video it’s better to go too far then not go far enough and I disagree. If you go overboard then it can be traumatic for the girl or whoever is being the sub. Also, personally I’m not comfortable being too violent or rough with someone in the beginning. It takes time and trust to truly get into that stuff. I couldn’t go too overboard with a one night stand like that, that’s kind of insane.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/24 05:25 PM
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Coming from a guy who really enjoys rough sex, Hamza has always given me the creeps. The way he speaks, his tone and body language, he seems abusive, if I was a woman I would have run miles away, he is very weird. Haven’t even watched the video yet just wanted to give my thoughts about him.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/24 03:12 PM
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Your first step should be to make friends with women.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 03:33 AM
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Last year, but I’m sure I could do it again.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 05:00 PM
1

I had 50+ likes on hinge within 2 weeks and those were the ones I didn’t even bother to go through and I’m short and not very buff either
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:16 PM
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Of course she had matches, did you not read my message? There’s a lack of good quality men out there
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 04:07 PM
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She has.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 03:15 PM
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Why does it have to be so black and white? Yes, more “attractive” people might have an easier time or a higher % success rate for casual flings but that doesn’t mean it’s that or nothing. You can still do decently well yourself. If you have to work 2x as hard, so what? That’s like being born into a poor family and not even bothering to become a wealthy person or even middle class just because some people were born into generational wealth.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 10:33 PM
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I keep my circle small and very picky about which guys and girls I have around. So Id like to think I’ve found some quality people! I’m 25, you?
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 11:09 PM
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Yeah, I think a lot of guys would benefit from making friends with women (without alterior motives) just to learn more about what it’s like to be a woman.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 08:10 PM
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It’s an illusion of options. Men think women have all these options because men don’t understand what women are really looking for. Even men, if all these women just wanted to fuck them and leave, would eventually get bored of that and feel empty from it. As humans we want genuine connection, and this is hard to find for both sexes.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 06:27 PM
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No I’m a guy, I just have female friends who I speak with about these topics.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 06:24 PM
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Crazy. I’m 25 and an 18 year old is a child to me.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 04:09 PM
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It is still a vulnerability if you have been hurt in the past, or you are falling in love and starting to have fears and insecurities around that.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 11:39 PM
2

I completely agree with you. Thanks for sharing your perspective
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 11:23 PM
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Thanks for your nuanced response. I agree with you, there are varying degrees of expressing emotions and too much of anything is excessive and unnecessary. I think for me it’s pretty obvious that telling someone you need them and can’t live without them is pretty unattractive, I would be put off by that from a woman as well. I more so struggle with the grey areas- how much can you truly open up or share without appearing clingy, weak, needy etc? It’s something I think about. Thanks for your pers…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 10:47 PM
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Have you been turned off if those emotions were directed towards you? Eg a man saying he misses you, is scared to lose you, or is scared you will hurt him?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 09:38 PM
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Yeah 100%, i think you can probably tell though, maybe they can keep a charade up for a while but no way you wouldn’t be able to tell after the honeymoon phase that they don’t have attraction. And yes those types of people probably can’t be alone and have issues and you don’t want them anyway. They aren’t genuine
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 07:38 PM
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This idea that women date men they don’t physically like is so bizarre to me. Why would you enter into an exclusive committed relationship where you are going to have way more sex than if you were single, if you weren’t sexually attracted to that person?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 06:58 PM
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Do you have any female friends? Women aren’t constantly approached by men lol, one of my female friends is an objectively very hot woman and almost never gets approached. If she does it’s by creepy weird guys. And you’d be surprised how weird and shitty men can be, women do not have as many actual good options as you might think.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 06:03 AM
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Idk I’m 5’6 and I would always get a lot of attention on dating apps I had 50+ likes on hinge and those were ones I didn’t bother to go through, I had more matches besides those. Those 15% must love me Plus, 15% of the population is still a ton of people!
/r/ExRedPill18/02/24 09:19 AM
1

Kevin samuels?
/r/ExRedPill17/02/24 11:33 PM
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He lost a real one. Tell him to have fun with his college girls, if he can even pull any.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 01:13 AM
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This is true they are all selling something
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 01:15 AM
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There is a very high cost to losing your humanity, even if it means you will “no longer hurt.”
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 04:31 PM
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What
/r/ExRedPill13/02/24 05:42 AM
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Lol the “women aren’t capable of love” thing is hilarious to me
/r/ExRedPill08/02/24 05:11 PM
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Shawn saying he’s the 20% yet still got “settled for” in the end… married and having serious problems … gtfo
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 11:19 PM
1

You knew red pill / black pill guys IRL?
/r/ExRedPill04/02/24 08:07 PM
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Yes
/r/ExRedPill03/02/24 12:41 AM
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Very interesting
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 02:35 PM
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Well but they’ll just say those guys are the “beta providers” and they’re sleeping with chads on the side
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 01:29 PM
6

Can’t even keep up anymore, now it’s the canthal tilt thing
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 03:44 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. But it does go to show, anyone can get cheated on, no matter how “high status” “high value” conventionally attractive etc they are in the eyes of society. At the end of the day cheaters are selfish and they will cheat regardless of all of the stuff that red pill says matters.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 03:44 AM
9

Ah very interesting, why’d u get sucked in? Got cheated on?
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 02:46 AM
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I think this too, it’s a very autistic way of thinking they have, I say this as someone who is slightly autistic and knows and loves many autistic people. Autism is not a negative but the thinking patterns and over systematizing things can sometimes lead to problems.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 01:59 AM
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I’m starting to think these people (RP and BlackPill) genuinely don’t go out, have friends or live in the real world.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 12:02 AM
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Agreed
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 12:05 AM
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Are you pro RP or not? That woman’s comment is very RP coded
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 11:55 PM
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Casey inspired me to make this post lol, I read his comment section and it’s full of cluster B dating stories. Highly abusive women. Some examples of his: https://youtube.com/shorts/7-L_q8guklQ?si=ZsmbB2qQXO0UrBSU https://youtu.be/JVtY_13Z2wA?si=LXwOeMCgKW2SNO_G Casey talks a lot about female nature. When really what he describes sounds to me like cluster B nature.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 11:00 PM
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He is abusive, definitely leave asap.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:57 PM
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Yeah, and as abusive people tend to jump relationship to relationship it’s not surprising most people have at least briefly dated or encountered one at some point.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:53 PM
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Yes - That played a part in it for me as to why I tolerated the abuse to a large extent. I also blamed myself for the abuse because I thought I just wasn’t masculine enough and that’s why she was abusing me. Turns out she is just an abuser lol.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:19 PM
1

How long have you been with the new partner?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:17 PM
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I had a similar experience , everyone with BPD is different. I didn’t deal with infidelity either from her, but she was a very controlling and abusive person.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 03:08 AM
3

Has it gotten better with her?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 02:05 AM
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Many of the stories I’ve heard involved serial cheating, suicide threats, emotional blackmail and hardcore abuse. I’m not talking about those cases you are referring to.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 10:56 PM
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