| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | [deleted by user]I've loved already once, so I suppose I'm done for good. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 12:36 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I'm struggling to understand why I should le chasing women at all. I mean, what is worth the struggle if statistically your relationship is almost guaranteed to break and will either leave you or your significant other back with a broken heart? Not to forget all the emotional and financial investment you need to put into it. Yes, you can have amazing memories as well but I've been there and once the relationship closes in towards its end, chances are high it will become really devastating if you… | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How to have harder and healthier boners?Stop watching porn | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 08:36 AM |
| 3 | 25 year old virgin here. Been with people a couple times but have never gone all the way. Have a date tonight and then Netflix and chill. Any advice? Anything is appreciated.Always remember: The girl will also be nervous. Nervousness in such situations is part of the game. It shows that you're alive. Considering you having anxiety to fuck up situations: You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. You will probably have a feeling when there's a good time to escalate. | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 07:32 PM |
| 4 | You can literally improve your game by 50% overnightYou did well and your post is motivating me as an introvert! | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Day of Date is not 100% agreed yet but probably next Wednesday, time and locations aren't set yet. When should I reach out to her to clear logistics?Thanks mate, the date is on for tomorrow evening. In the end she wrote wrote something today that she thinks it's nice that in our studies we are so well friends and we should all hang out at some time. Seemed a bit like a friend zone move in my eyes. That came a bit unexpected, maybe I'm overreading things. | /r/seduction | 24/06/19 09:25 PM |
| – | Probably date on Wednesday, day not 100% confirmed yet, time not set yet and neither location. When should I write her to clear the logistics?Know her for for about eight months from my studies , talking in person hasn't been too much but recently has increased. Check my recent posts in the forum for detailed info. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/c3egxx/first_date_got_delayed_because_of_bad_planing_and/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 10:56 PM |
| – | Probably date on Wednesday, day not 100% confirmed yet, time not set yet and neither location. When should I write her to clear the logistics?Little introduction like "How was it at the concert" still good or should I go straight for the date logistics? | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 08:00 PM |
| – | Probably date on Wednesday, day not 100% confirmed yet, time not set yet and neither location. When should I write her to clear the logistics?Something like "How was your weekend" as an text opener is ok or should I just go straight for clearing the logistics? | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Probably date on Wednesday, day not 100% confirmed yet, time not set yet and neither location. When should I write her to clear the logistics?Thank you. | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 03:41 PM |
| – | Day of Date is not 100% agreed yet but probably next Wednesday, time and locations aren't set yet. When should I reach out to her to clear logistics?Thanks for this idea, I think I'll stick to your schedule! And one other thing: It will be very very hot on Wednesday (38°C / 100°F), the weekend would be cooler (and she said few days ago that she also probably has time there). I'm planning to meet in the evening anyway but there will still be massive heat. Should I try to postpone the date or stick to it? And what should I do if she wants to flake or postpone it to another day in general because of not having time or some other reasons? | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 10:14 AM |
| 1 | How To Meet A Girl This Weekend (The 7 Lessons You Know But Forgot)Thanks for all these advices, I saved your post for whenever I need a reminder that all the needed skills are already ingrained in me. Going out tonight, no drinking though, and want to make a first big step out of a long phase of passiveness and whining about my ex GF. Looking forward to hit the bars and clubs tonight! | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | First date got delayed because of bad planing and maybe flakiness. What's the best to do to get a yes and fix logistics for the new meetup?Alright then, I was unsure because how you meant it cause English is not my native language. She seems to rate me as quite high value then. | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 09:03 PM |
| – | First date got delayed because of bad planing and maybe flakiness. What's the best to do to get a yes and fix logistics for the new meetup?She seemed confident that eventually your schedules will work out. Interesting approach. So you think that she was confident that I will find another day and it's no problem that I drive home on that particular Wednesday? | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | My date didn't take place because of probably bad planning. What's the best to do now until the new meetup?Do this before the weekend and do not contact her other than this before the date! : Your best bet to be a high value guy is to tell her that your "time is very valuable to you and you are figuring out your calendar next week and look forward to seeing her. You can meet/pick her up at ___time at ___place." So I should write her during the weekend that my time is precious and set the logistics for the date on Wednesday? I'll keep you updated, thanks for your suggestions so far! | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 08:40 AM |
| 1 | First trip since GMOW. Germany is treating me right 🇩🇪Where is that? | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/19 07:50 PM |
| 2 | How to vet womenDamn, my ex was a real keeper. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/18 11:47 PM |
| – | Crucial situation before possible first date: Waiting for her to text or initiate myself?Today she wrote to me on her initiative that she could finish university earlier but still has to learn for that other subject (not the one I wanted to practice with her) Don't really get it why she informed me about that. Also she said I can drive home with her to our home town on the weekend (I drove the last time so she has to go the next round. But I declined cause of exam preparations). | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Crucial situation before possible first date: Waiting for her to text or initiate myself?You're right. If she is attracted, she will most likely write within the next days. I'm out with investing by myself until then. Have a good day too! | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 08:56 PM |
| – | Crucial situation before possible first date: Waiting for her to text or initiate myself?Aaand she wrote that she has to learn for another subject. Seemed generally not talkative and didn't suggest another time when it suits. Kicked her out of my contacts. | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Crucial situation before possible first date: Waiting for her to text or initiate myself?That I'll do. Have a feeling that she will turn it down, but hopefully I'm wrong. Will comment the result in here. | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 01:38 PM |
| 2 | I finally did something.Congrats bro! Your courage is paying off! | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 01:50 AM |
| 14 | On finally fucking a girl after 18 years of celibacyPeople tend to overrate things which they can't have. So it's happening with sex. Nevertheless for me personally sex with a woman I know well (or is my GF) feels much more intimate and enjoyable. Doing the act with a girl I know for maybe three or four hours however feels always more like a disappointment in intimacy, passion and pleasure. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How to polarize / close at night clubs?Yeah that's true. And always stop the kissing first, so you don't appear too needy and overinvested. | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 07:20 PM |
| 2 | How to polarize / close at night clubs?My advice is not to go for the kiss too early. It will kill the frame and sexual vibes. Maybe even wait for the kiss until you pull her out of the club or just before you plan to go home with her. I've been kissing many times way too early and in a lot of cases the sexual tension started flatlining afterwards and it didn't go any further than making out. | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 06:44 PM |
| 2 | She's Bored, Evoking Emotion in HerI get your point but I don't see why all my thoughts should circle around how to be super spontaneous and exciting for her. If she can't accept and appreciate how the average me is on a daily basis, we're anyway not meant to be together for the long run. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Translation: “Only talk shit about me and judge me if you’ve been through at least half of what I’ve been through, you wouldn’t bear a step in my shoes”. “Okay, tell me more.”Is this typical for Hungarian girls, especially from Budapest? I've read actually only good things about them. | /r/MGTOW | 25/07/18 09:19 PM |
| 1 | My GF and me were in a long distance relationship. She broke up last night. Please help me to get her back.I understand your point. How could I change her mind? | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 03:08 PM |
| 1 | How to pass hotel lobby with ONSShe wasn't a guest, I met her during going out and we went to my hotel for some privacy in my hotel room. Hotel staff asked for my room number and saw that there was no girl booked in at all and didbt allow her to come with me as they didn't want strangers to stay the night | /r/seduction | 03/08/16 09:03 AM |
| 1 | How to pass hotel lobby with ONSThey asked for my room number and saw that there was only me and my male roommate registered for it. Then they told that they don't allow people not registered or paying for the room to stay the night. End of story | /r/seduction | 03/08/16 09:01 AM |
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