Schwiftybear Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental health I do too, but there are variations in interpretations, and having ones ideas challenged is a part of that.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/19 05:33 PM
2	Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental health How exactly are you defining "loser?"	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/19 12:36 PM
1	Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental health I suspect from this that you are a person who needs to win arguments and for whom very few people are adequate. This is fine - it's who you are - but they are flaws despite which someone has chosen to love you. Many people - myself included - would never choose to stay with this. Others would, and be very happy (as I hope you and your husband are). I think presuming you can understand OP's situation from what little she wrote is a nice effort.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/19 11:32 PM
1	Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental health Hmm...okay, okay, all pragmatic and logical. Im also willing to bet that you have either not had a long term relationship or are with an extremely stable person. Because sometimes, its a good idea to try to understand whether something is situational, environment based, temporary (yes even a few years is considered temporary if there is a given stimulus) before throwing them away entirely. Most people have "instability" at different times (and its funny how high stress situations bring them out)…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/19 06:03 PM
2	Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental health Hey OP. Keep reasoning through this with the balance and feeling youve demonstrated, and youll find the answer. I highly encourage you to ignore some of the more overly simplistic advice on here ("he has issues, dump him"). We all have issues, so only you will know what youre willing to accept. I will say, as a former resident, that while its not a fun occurrence to have Academic Probation brought up to a resident, his job security is likely just fine. You have to do something incredibly extreme…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/19 12:24 PM
4	Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental health So, I can see how you think that. But a) just for the record psychiatry has a lot more nuance than "temper issues. Also, b) its not uncommon for program directors to encourage this when a resident is going through a hard time, even for non "temper issues" (source - I have completed residency). And c) People arent solely their flaws. It sounds like shes trying to assess the good with the bad and evaluate her future, but he treats her well. Youve jumped to a few conclusions here (perhaps one of yo…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/19 12:13 PM
1	Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental health Residents ARE doctors. So she's already bagged one ;-)	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/19 03:58 AM
2	Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental health She never said he had temper issues. It sounds like extreme stress.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/19 03:57 AM
5	Great bf, but nervous about how he handles his mental health I think she also means that she doesnt want to HAVE to keep "nagging"/putting her foot down	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/19 03:50 AM