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ScienceGeneral9242/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:30 PM
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I just want you to know I’m human and your blanket assumptions do hurt my feelings to a degree. And also that your blanket assumptions are partly responsible for the growing gap between men and women. I’d also like to remind you the main difference between a platonic friendship and a long term relationship with your spouse is intercourse and intimacy. You can have a perfect relationship but it’s just a platonic friendship with out the intimacy. If you lose the intimacy the relationship follows. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:49 AM
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I shouldn’t have. I’ve been off Reddit for a couple months successfully. Only returning for sports or video game posts. This other person just blew me up with notifications today so I replied. I’m currently in a dead bedroom with the mother of my only two children who is on estrogen pills and another woman in my phone who tries to get me to see her daily. I’m in a rock and hard place. That’s how i got here in the first place. We’ve been together 6 years this past May and we don’t fight or argue …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:40 AM
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Sure because indirectly getting a man addicted to prawn who you were married to is just a okay. I don’t think women realize what happens to men when they don’t have sex, especially in a committed and loving relationship. It’s abusive in a way. Because he’s good enough to have children with and share a life with but you lack the desire to be intimate with him and you never say why or address the root problem and you vilify him if he cheats. All the while the root problem continues to go unaddress…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:29 AM
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It’s not in me. My mom is the controlling one. She’s been like that before I was ever born. She’s manipulative and an alcoholic. Her energy makes me uncomfortable just being in the next room. You can’t reason with her. I told her a couple weeks ago I don’t like being in the car with her because her driving isn’t safe. I then tried to help her back out of the driveway a few weeks ago and she almost hit the other two cars and I raised my voice a little and she got defensive. She was inches from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:21 AM
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I’m an only child? I walked in on my dad on the computer a couple times. I asked him later in life what happened between them? Also, it’s my parents? It’s pretty normal to discuss things like that when you’re in 4th grade and your parents sit you down to tell you they’re getting separate dwellings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:12 AM
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It’s the sharing household with said woman that it gets complicated. I don’t care if she doesn’t want my stick. But free me from the confines of monogamy at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:09 AM
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I’m approaching my mid 30s with two kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:08 AM
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And that’s why men cheat. Oh little do you know I’m currently in a dead bedroom with a spouse and 2 children with another woman actively trying to get me to come see her. And yet you’ll still lob all these verbal barbs at me like I’m the problem. Let’s get this straight because apparently the concept is quite complicated for women. IF YOU DONT FUCK YOUR HUSBAND HES GOING TO GO FUCK THE FIRST WOMAN WHO OFFERS TO DO IT FOR YOU. That’s how that works. Calling it cheating is deceptive in and of itse…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:00 AM
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I'm not saying you're wrong. just showing some different ways of interpretation. I've always operated that dating is an inherent risk. the risk of rejection is built in and there's no guarantee a woman will be positively receptive of your advances regardless of how nice or kind you may be, for that reason i consider it boundary pushing in that manner because you have to be willing to exist in the uncomfortably of it all in order to obtain a relationship. what you are saying is also entirely just…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:20 AM
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You’re talking about breaking consent. I’m talking about established boundaries that every person has based on social norms. To a degree you have to establish connection, then build comfort and then tension. But asking for a number is pushing boundaries in a form. You’re doing something that you aren’t sure if it’s warranted regardless before you ask. Obviously there can be hints and flirtations prior but you don’t know until you ask. Everyone has boundaries socially speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:57 PM
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Asking for her number is boundary pushing. You are getting closer to her. Her being comfortable around you is submissive by nature. Flirting is about establishing comfort and then chipping away at her wall. You can do all these things consensually but it still requires you to push boundaries. Advancing the conversation is pushing a boundary. At any time she can say no. It requires masculinity to take these risks. Whether she’s comfortable or not it’s a risk. There is a contract of assumed respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:46 AM
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All escalation is boundary pushing. Sex is boundary pushing. Getting a woman naked requires masculinity and her submission and approval to do so. You’re not going to make that happen by standing outside on her patio and just watering the flower bed. You have to generate interest and attraction and then pursue that attraction. This is why I don’t get women being so outraged about sexual conversations. Why are you on a dating app if you aren’t open to sexual pursuit? I’m not saying send an eggplan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:57 AM
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Man I really want to respond to some of this stuff but I can’t because you aren’t supposed to respond to top level posts in agreement. But I recently saw a YouTube video talking about how Ladies and Courtesans enable one another’s existence. How one can’t exist with out the other and it perfectly encapsulates what you’re talking about. It speaks to the idea that marriage was about contracts and land ownership and governance and the courtesans provided the noblemen access to sex in exchange for f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:08 PM
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Yes, I’d like to add it’s the dual female mating strategy. alpha has sex and the beta provides. The alpha gets her off and impregnates her and the beta provides the shelter and the food on the table. In exchange she also has sex with the beta but not because she wants to. In the end all parties are satisfied. Theoretically. I’m not trying to be sexist here but this is what they are talking about when they say women have a dual mating strategy. And considering how many single moms and step dads t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:49 PM
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Men settle for sex every single second of the day. It’s widely understood that men have sex when they can and women have sex when they want. So if that dynamic applies to the hookup market it would also apply to the relationship market. Men just don’t fuss about settling like women do. But obviously we are seeing a trend now where men aren’t dating at all. You see that with the various tik toks of women asking where all the men are. And that’s when we get to the rub of the dating ~ sex dynamic. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:42 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:18 PM
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You wouldn’t because extremist feminism is different from being a woman that believes in equality for women. One believes in actual gender superiority and the other equally supports men’s and women’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:11 PM
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Andrew Wilson just said this in that debate with that destiny girl like a month ago. Basically saying how leftist ideology relies on the idea that truth is relative. So anytime something conflicts with your narrative you can just alter its basis. Or adopt it when it benefits you. It’s mailable at its core and that’s the entire point. With out absolute truth nothing can be proven or disproven. It all falls under hear say. It was really eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:09 PM
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ngl bro got me jealous. im in a dead bedroom and she has health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:32 PM
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Yes because our prospects by nature are limited to begin with, as is the nature of pre selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:57 PM
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This is the expectation. This is why women aren’t getting free drinks anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:55 PM
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It was just a simple suggestion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:42 PM
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Stop it, you’re noticing…👀 Rollo tomassi calls it the roller coaster effect btw. You probably already know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:28 PM
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Call her daddy is a huge women’s podcast making the rounds. Alex cooper is the female host of the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:27 PM
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I’m going to shut this down right there. I’m not getting into the dos and don’ts of your personal life. But if you want more information on this topic rollo tomassi and Michael sartain talk about this stuff all the time. Even Alex cooper on call her daddy is talking to other women about their desires and relationship decisions these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:21 PM
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Because the attraction and the desire is not there. I’ve never in my life had problems with foreplay with an attractive woman. That’s the thing. Attraction and arousal are massive components. You can still complete the process with out them but you’re really not even having sex at that point. That’s why I don’t believe in hookers. And there’s plenty of guys who will take whatever they can get regardless. But when you do that you’re sacrificing all the other components. When I’m with an attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:17 PM
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No one is being rude to you. And wanting a submissive, feminine, understanding woman extends a lot farther than the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:09 PM
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I can tell you from personal experience it’s not laziness. Testosterone is a hell of a drug. If bro is prioritizing video games over kitty then he doesn’t want the kittty at all. And because men choose partners based on availability and not desire that happens A LOT. It’s the same reason dudes lie about wanting a long term relationship just to get sex. Women by and large want men who put their sexuality in a box and only take it out for her and her alone. So in order to cheat that system you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:06 PM
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It’s most men you don’t like. It’s not limited to Reddit. Because if you don’t like men who are willing to argue with you and debate you then it’s most men you don’t like. Or you like men you can control. Which is fine, so does my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:59 PM
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Well that seems like it would fall under the lack of attraction category.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:56 PM
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I didn’t ask if you had a boyfriend. We are speaking in generalizations. Like I said we know you don’t like us. All of you picked the bear. If you picked the bear you definitely aren’t going to like red pill dudes. That seems a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:55 PM
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That’s cap. Unless they’re devoid of attraction or they were never that attracted to begin with. Men usually aren’t the ones who stop initiating. But when women stop allowing him to be masculine and to lead and to make suggestions and do all the things he’s going to stop initiating intentionally because she’s not allowing him the space to be masculine and vice versa her to be feminine. And unfortunately often times women do various things to emasculate their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:51 PM
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Comprehension /s We absolutely blame simps in red pill circles. Giving women resources they haven’t earned or aren’t entitled to is a major problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:48 PM
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One thing I think we need to sort of start Susing out is this idea that women are constantly risking pregnancy. Look I got no problems with latex. There’s a fine line between courtship and prostitution. I think in 2026 we should be splitting the bill and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. If you don’t have an expectation of sex then I shouldn’t have an expectation of covering the entire dinner. Why can we not establish that as a standard? If you don’t want expectations thrust upon y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:34 PM
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Yeah nah you’re wrong. I’ll die on this hill. I like my steak ready and waiting for me and on the rarer side. I don’t eat steak when I’m not hungry and I don’t feel good when I don’t have steak. Mentally or physically. And coincidentally I’m talking about steak and women. Most men don’t give two shits about status unless it’s a requirement to achieve something else. Most men also get super annoyed with women who suck at making conversation. Why is that? Probably because we want engaging women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:26 AM
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Well you’re not gonna get any argument from me. I think relationships have always been transactional. Hell when you’re in high school and taking your crush to the movies and buying the tickets so she will enjoy her time with you ans then you go and get burgers and milkshakes afterwards, that’s a financial investment that you probably hope leads to sex at some point. I think it’s always been this way. That’s why I don’t understand why we demonize men so much now. Rollo tomassi says women’s only t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:15 AM
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You could TLDR this by just saying GBD. and yeah it’s harsh but it doesn’t matter. Sex matters. If you remove the desire then you’ve killed the reason. I’ve tried to explain this in dead bedrooms and purple pill and in monogamous relationships and anywhere else that will listen. Any jntercourse that occurs outside of GBD is trash. Coercion, duty sex, chore play. Hookers, you get the idea. And it’s fine to have your boundaries and your likes and dislikes but if you gave head to your ex college bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:58 AM
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I said more traditional values and then not entertaining dark triad men would be a good start. What are you being so confused and pedantic about? Is this how Hassan argues? It’s not that deep bro. And you’re not gonna rage bait me over a game about the perspective of fatherhood and heteronormative media. Don’t date felons and have children in standard traditional relationships. Seems pretty straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:41 AM
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What’s your point? And what is pink pill anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:34 AM
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You’re literally rage baiting. Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:33 AM
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"thats very misoginy of you sir" im shocked you actually got this post up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:24 AM
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dark triad traits
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:50 PM
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ehh its always been transactional imo. prostitution is the oldest profession as they say. provision and protection have always been the barter chips for traditional marriage for centuries. this is just now hyper transactional. and as such its far more robotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:12 PM
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yikes. and i thought i was pedantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:08 PM
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i think its on women to fix the intimacy and reproduction issues personally. i got no problems giving out cuddles and eating ice cream naked in bed together after a rom com. BUT WE CANT EVEN GET TO THIRD BASE RIGHT NOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:06 PM
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its not just you. theres a fundamental transition point where women stop being hot to trot and become home makers. any women ive ever been with long term hits that point. its the lack of competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:02 PM
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we dont have free will bro. just accept it and move on. there wont be any push back on any of these resistances either until a huge chunk of these feminist women have passed on w out bearing children. which is almost certainly going to happen at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:00 PM
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99 pct of womens complaints can be boiled down to "dont want to have sex" something about the bear here something else about 50 shades here we get it, you dont like us. the dead dating apps, the lack of matches and feminism have all made it quite clear you arent open for business. what is there to debate anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:56 PM
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we need more pieces of media like pragmata and more women rejecting feminism. and then women have to stop dating drug dealers and felons. that would be a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:49 PM
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i think the problem here is that men have reached a point where they have to lead with sex. sex has been removed so far off the table men wont even engage if its not up for consideration. you can have all that stuff after the fact but if you wont give a bj hes not going to waste his time with the conversation. which is fair. how many men have been taken advantage of with free dinners and other things or been friend zoned since senior year of high school? we stopped giving out free drinks and wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:46 PM
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its a massive cultural issue right now based on my own experiences even. the math doesnt work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:43 PM
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this is the crux. women don't like it, but its the ultimate incentive for men. if you remove it men might as well castrate themselves and hermit in the woods. forget having kids or a family or contributing to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:42 PM
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i just posted something similar lmao. yeah idk, i saw a yt video a couple weeks ago describing this dynamic. it basically said that "ladies need the courtesans, and courtesans need the ladies." they hate each other but they need each other. i think we are in some sort of displacement right now. thers a massive rejection of casual hookup culture in the younger generations and if enough women close their legs men will just stop trying. a lot of this reminds me of the divorces of the early and mid …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:40 PM
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im not totally sold on that idea, i think humans are selfish by nature. i think social media has made all of us lonely and simultaneously more selective. i think the two concepts combine to produce lonely narcisists. and because women are more social and selected by society, it disproprtionatel;y affects men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:40 PM
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came back to see the whole thread nuked....oops. guys i said dictate. i didnt say an exact science. but if any portion of 80/20 is accurate then thers going to be incels. lets be logical here. any n of x men not reproducing = incel. i also dont think this is unique to the last 60 years either. thers always been involuntrailiy celibate men. not laying with a woman kinda sucks. theyre resentful by their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:28 PM
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well psychological manipulation is one of their methods. the mixed signals you get while in the friend zone while continuing to pay for movie tickets and drinks and meals would tell you that. is it really courtship if she knows its never going anywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:25 PM
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well 80/20 theory would dictate there being a lot of incels....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:34 PM
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i wasnt disagreeing, i was just saying its been a societal problem since the dawn of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:33 PM
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this is both a feminst and a red pill take ironically. red pill teaches its not womens responsibilty to lower standards, its yours to meet them, or die off with no heir. but hey men gotta vent too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:31 PM
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well i guess all of humanity has been miserable then. assigning value is how we determine who gets to reproduce. discrimination of bad genes / survival of the fittest is basic evolution and no its not nice by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:27 PM
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women require some combination of the three at a surface level according to evolutionary psychology. those other things you mentioned also matter but they come after the basic qualifiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:18 PM
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high value just means six feet or taller, six pack abbs, and six figures or more. money, status, chiseled jaw line.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:11 PM
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i didnt say im the prize. high value males are the prize and becasue its harder for a man to become high value he will always be the prize. thats a logical conclusion. any resource that is harder to obtain is going to carry a higher value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:06 PM
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it was an auto mod. i was banned for 24 hrs. i dont report. my moms backhand and locking me out of the house in my late teens was more impactful than some words on a reddit forum. as are most of the roasts i get in my discord server w my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:03 PM
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technically speaking we would like women to settle for us and still be attracted to us but that doesnt happen as it is, let alone with the rise of feminism. but with equal rights and women wanting the top top percent of men, theres only one logical conclusion, youre adopting cats or youre sharing. men are the prize because they dont become high value simply by existing. where as women just have to be pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:01 PM
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Do you actually believe what you’re saying? I guess you do because you think my father is psychotic. 99.99 pct of women? So then in your estimation all the women that refuse to have sex globally because he didn’t take the trash out is perfectly acceptable? Like I’m beating my head against a wall attempting to reason with you. Chore play is never okay. Rollo tomassi has said 1 million times you can’t negotiate genuine desire. They either want you or they don’t. And I’m not about to reasonably sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:36 AM
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what he stated is the original intent, purpose and definition of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:57 AM
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buddy i dont think youre purple pill 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:56 AM
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well ive got some news for you, the man himself, rollo tomassi, has stated that too much red pill can be a bad thing. it was just a couple weeks ago he was talking about it and saying how too much of it and too much focus on women in that regard can lead to the black pill. in fact they talk about the black pill a lot. so when you step out of andew tate circles there is healthy discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:43 AM
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this is also problematic because people think clav and andrew tate are red pill. and maybe they are but they are still toxic inside those circles and most people wouldnt argue otherwise. most people never get to see the base reality or see a single rollo tomassi clip who is the author of the book everyone uses now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:15 AM
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what youve stated isnt inaccurate but it is quite the blanket generalization. keep in mind red pill is supposed to be a Praxeology. its best used when applied with common sense, logic and basic discernment. sure you can take it too far and be paranoid just as easily. but youre on the right track. we see these examples with the likes of andrew tate and clav. the objective is to be rational with red pill knowledge. but as they say, everything in moderation. understand when you divulge your true fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:12 AM
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Unintentional or involuntary gaslighting occurs when someone causes another to doubt their reality due to defensiveness, poor communication skills, or past trauma rather than malice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:02 AM
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😴
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 09:20 PM
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See. You’re just proving the existence of red pill. I’ve been attempting to engage this conversation with genuine honesty from the start and you haven’t at any point. That behavior alone is why red pill exists. I provided you with the evidence you kept asking for and you’re still dismissive of it. Fuck it. Horse to water.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:51 PM
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https://youtu.be/Zixi0-dKx8c?si=gvI3aCm0Y0duKu2N
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:43 PM
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It’s just the whole notion of robbing a man you love of his manhood and just having zero problems wirh it because she’s “not in the mood” Like get the fuck out. How can we reasonably be expected to approach that conversation ? The whole conversation is being upheld under disingenuous pretenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:41 PM
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https://youtu.be/Zixi0-dKx8c?si=gvI3aCm0Y0duKu2N
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:39 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/WRTeYvjF8Ic?si=6eRNZ0NiKIJGUidg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:27 PM
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Yes for example the idea that men in dead bedrooms while she’s doom scrolling tik tok is somehow his fault. It’s his fault she won’t put the phone down. It’s his fault she won’t pause her show and spend time with him. It’s his fault he’s playing a video game and she doesn’t take any interest in it. Like at what point is enough, enough? This is why men cheat, because it’s easier to find an available woman than it is to dig through the myriad of reasons the woman who is supposed to love you won’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:24 PM
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You want proof? You want to be this damn pedantic and helpless? Go watch rollo freaking tomassi talk about Brett cooper meeting Clavicular and the absolute uncontrollable smile etched all over her face despite him saying foul shit about her. And then go look at her agent make the same face. It’s twenty minutes. Go dig it up. It’s not hard. She cannot control herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:20 PM
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Holy, bro ran through my entire body count in two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:15 PM
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Sure just go ahead and gaslight me and everyone else in this particular sub thread. This is why men don’t take women seriously. Yes cause now I’m schizophrenic because that’s a logical or a mature response. People have provided examples. Try downloading tinder and making a male profile. It’s right there you just refuse to take the steps required to answer your own question and instead choose to downplay and subvert other men instead despite having the tools necessary to address these problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:13 PM
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And you seem better with off cats by how considerate you are of men’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 08:00 PM
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It’s only weird to you because you haven’t experienced it. Just like if you suddenly sprouted wings and could fly. It wouldn’t feel natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:59 PM
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It’s a Praxeology , if you ain’t practicing you ain’t gotta study. 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:35 PM
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Dynamite question by the way OP! Hat’s off! 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:33 PM
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This sent me…I can’t lie. Solid 5 minute laugh, I knew it was coming too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:30 PM
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Immediately went for the gaslighting. In her defense I don’t think she realizes it’s gaslighting though and I think that’s the problem. She really believes what she said is a him problem because she doesn’t share the same experience and she also knows other women who “aren’t like that”. WHICH IS FINE, but just because you haven’t experienced something doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. It’s more involuntary ignorance on the part of women. And they’re encouraged to keep doing it to subvert truths and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:28 PM
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HAHAHHAHA COOK MY BOY!!! I love that we have told them this and they still get mad. HONEY ALL WE DID WAS MAKE A LIST OF OBSERVABLE OBJECTIVE BEHAVIOR AND DECISIONS YOU MADE! It’s literally by definition judging someone based on their actions. How are you going to be mad at someone if they call you an alcoholic CAUSE YOURE DRUNK ALL THE TIME? ITS CAUSE YOU ARE! Women be like… what else can I say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:24 PM
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HAHAHAHA you got so mad. Red pill school person was WILD!! Why would I dunk on my mom though? She’s never remarried after my dad. I believe that’s called guilt. Shes also an alcoholic these days too. I don’t make the rules. I just came to you presenting personal experiences and you got mad. And that’s why I’m red pill. Your response was to acuse my dad of being a grapist. Again I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:18 PM
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Bro asmongold and shoe on head told me about minataur milking farm. I rarely use tik tok. I live in the states. The Ohio valley. I’m just not plugged into women’s circles like that and outside of those circles I sitll believe that that sort of conversation is taboo. Most guys wouldn’t have a clue what 50 shades of grey was if it hadn’t gotten so popular. I just don’t personally believe that women are that open about these things. You probably feel differently because you are a woman. Which is fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:10 PM
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The irony is I’m currently in a dead bedroom for the 3rd time in my life and putting my foot down about being non monogamous would’ve prevented it every single time. I have felt my confidence decline and my libido tank. It’s not fun or healthy and it’s mentally taxing. And I don’t like that women get a free pass for it. It’s not okay. And the solution is not well just get divorced. Bro people have kids and lives and shit and you can’t just throw people out because they stop wanting to suck your …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:05 PM
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yeah i dont know dudes out here having sex where the woman isnt reciprocating. i experienced it one time and i hated it. masturbation was more enjoyable. if shes not squirming it kills it completely. maybe im the exception but, the excitement comes from her intentionally being bothered and wanting you. and i promise you men that are cheating are getting that from the side chick. that feeling is why some dudes get of bed daily, that feeling or for their kids or both. men arent really that complic…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:22 AM
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well im a straight male. i dont think women are lining up to tell me about their hangouts or smut novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:14 AM
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eat this downvote. we just dont agree. i fundamentally believe there is an expectation of sex in a marriage. sue me. yall love this idea of asking for consent 24/7 so much and have zero compassion for dead bedrooms. if i wanted to just be friends and have no benefits then id just be friends. rolling up into a relationship and then withholding is the dumbest shit ever. thats exactly why i gave up on monogamy. women dont deserve it. HOW ARE YOU GOING TO ASK ME TO BE MONOGAMOUS AND THEN ONLY GIVE S…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:08 AM
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Should marriage not include an expectation of sex? Because that’s now the question. And yes I understand all the sleep grape marital crap going on. This is not about that. This is two consenting adults get married after dating and having sex and then a few years later have a kid most likely and then she tells the man ehh I don’t need to have sex anymore. It happens daily. What is your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:43 AM
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I didn’t even see your comment or report you. I was gonna let you keep going off. All I’m saying is there’s a reason women built an entire industry off sex deprived men, and it’s not a coincidence that 50 pct of that Industries clientele are married men. They can’t all be shitty men being the problem. I think there needs to be an expectation of sex in a healthy marriage. Agree to disagree with me I do not care. But expecting sex in a marriage is not grape. And if that’s what women think then no …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:39 AM
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Shut up. No one said he touched a hair on her head she didn’t approve of. I guess the solution is just to cheat. I’m not sick in the head for thinking a marriage with out regular sex is problematic. You have taken zero accountability for how he got addicted. It’s like the doctors proscribing opioids. This is so dumb. Just keep projecting though, I’ll just keep looking for available women, cause you know that’s how biology works. Preferably women who think it’s normal to be sexually active in hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:53 AM
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That’s not even true. Women only talk about these things inside their circles. It’s long been considered taboo socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:55 AM
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I gotta get out of this sub Reddit. Yall are clueless. It’s not grape to want to have sex with the woman you married. It’s also really really mentally exhausting once you have children to be suddenly rejected by your wife. He also never tried to grape her. But you’re shaming a man who had a prawn addiction develop after being rejected over and over and over again by his wife. And then you’re saying it’s his fault. How is anyone reasonably expected to have a conversation with you? Genuinely. It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:50 AM
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Then what’s your argument against polyamory?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:49 AM
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Then it’s not tainted by today’s opinion. It’s had 30 years to coalesce and marinade.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:44 AM
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It’s a Praxeology
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:41 AM
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I need feminists to stop fighting about this. Men have been conquering women sexually for millennia. And other men have always chased that success.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:37 AM
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Andrew Tate is a textbook case of the Streisand effect. Me too happened and then boys found Andrew Tate after being told by women for the next ten years they were evil. Andrew Tate is an organic reaction to extremist feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:33 AM
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The problem here is that these are characteristics of a providing male you feel comfortable being around. These are not characteristics of arousal. And all red pill is , is about observed behavior of female arousal. That’s why it’s negative in social circles. Because danger and adrenaline and mystery generate arousal in women. And people are uncomfortable acknowledging that. I don’t know why, we know adrenaline, just based on brain chemistry and science increases blood flow and speeds up synapse…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:29 AM
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It’s like catching pokemon man. I’m so tired of women arguing about this. If women weren’t attracted to all this BS they would stop doing it tomorrow. THERES A REASON IT PERSISTS. Men don’t and have never done anything in society that didn’t serve some sort of purpose. You know why bank robbers exist? Because people need money. How many wars have been fought over resources and oil at this point? If Clav and people like him weren’t getting results they wouldn’t exist. You’re mad at the horse not …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:18 AM
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It’s unspoken. It ruins the mystery and the drive and the longing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:16 AM
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Brother it’s a marriage. Let me ask yall, what’s in a marriage for a guy if he’s not having sex with his wife? Like do you ever stop and ask that question? Why get married at all except to establish paternity and a structure for raising children the one time you do have sex. I’m the one who’s far gone? ITS A FUCKING MARRIAGE! IF YOU CANT FUCK YOUR WIFE FREELY THEN WHAT ARE WE DOING OUT HERE? Genuinely. Do you hear how stupid you sound? My mother had the same thought process too. She thought ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:10 AM
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I think N count is a bit twisted in that regard. Men don’t like very high n counts. Anything above 20 is going to get a look. But 20 or below and inside relationships over a ten or so year period I think is quite average. But that still does nothing to combat pair bonding studies. But I think this idea of body count is a bit over saturated. Most normal guys aren’t freaking out over a woman that’s had some experience. I’m generalizing here but in my experience I haven’t come across guys freaking …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:05 PM
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That’s reductive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:50 PM
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Young and stupid? Who knows. Early 20s are complicated. I was also kinda emotionally unavailable. I was out of a failed engagement that lasted 4 months at the age of 20, she was 18. We were having fun. I met another girl i was into and it went somewhere and then it didn’t and I was talking to other women the whole time. I didn’t sleep with anyone else though. But I was just hurting and I didn’t think I was capable of doing the whole relationship thing with her with out fucking it up so I said as…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:38 AM
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It’s not higher. It’s different. And it’s weighted differently. For a relationship you can find ways around base level looks requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:19 AM
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My mother withheld sex from my father and then crucified him about his prawn addiction. I watched it in real time. My parents finalized their divorce of a 20 year marriage by the time I was in 5th grade. People need to hear this. And you bet your sweet ass it’s shaped how I view women. Calling that red pill and labeling it toxic is exactly why Andrew Tate exists. THEY DID IT TO THEMSELVES
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:33 AM
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“Hive mind” Probably get banned for that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:30 AM
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BASED! I just got a warning and my comment removed in this same sub Reddit for mentioning female shit tests and dread game and rollo tomassi. We aren’t even allowed to talk about these things. Can you say Streisand effect? The more guys who come to Reddit and try and openly discuss this topic and then eventually get banned from neutral sub reddits are only going to find their way to the Andrew Tates. THATS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU BAN PEOPLE FOR ASKING VALID QUESTIONS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:29 AM
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My comment explaining what red pill was got tagged as hate speech. Unbelievable. I’ve read the rational male all the way through more than once. Mentioning dread game and female shit tests is apparently sexist. And yet tik tok exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:25 AM
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Maybe their betas who can’t handle owning their own opinions? Women are selective by nature. It doesn’t really bother me. Just makes it harder to get laid consistently than it does for her. But as Michael sartain says if women weren’t selective we would all have STDs and still be living in caves. Masculinity is sexist. Because men are supposed to be stronger and supposed to be providers and protectors. Evolution has determined in order to do that and attract women you have to be a bit of a jerk …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:19 AM
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“Until it doesn’t” 🤷‍♂️ It happens. Don’t think most dudes in dead bedrooms started out that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:15 AM
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EHHHHHHHHH….. At the risk of being gross, I’ll just say once she stops giving head it’s over. And I’ve been in multiple monogamous situations in which she stopped doing that. I say that because I think how much and how well a woman gives head in a very strong indicator of desire. Having to ask for a bj as a dude is debilitating. And of those experiences it wasn’t like she didn’t do it the first time we had sex. It’s typically something women flat out stop doing at such an interval whenever and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:12 AM
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I just don’t really believe in poly. I think it’s a trap. Personally. And I think women get jealous regardless of what ground rules may be in place. But I could do poly with the right people. That’s how I define friends with benefits. Someone I hang out wirh repeatedly and do activities with and talk to a few times a week. I think calling it poly just weirds out a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:07 AM
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Well all women want monogamy so they have security in that situation. He’s not cheating and having babies with other women and she has security in that her kids are taken care of. Not to mention the 9 months it takes to incubate a child and the after care shortly after delivery. But beyond that is when it starts falling apart. Women transition into caretakers and the sexual desire falls off a cliff. Women are really really good at asking for things that will ultimately kill desire. They want the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:02 AM
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Then you’re going to have to present evidence to the contrary and based on my life experiences you’re going to need multiple pieces of evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:57 AM
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That’s cap. I only subscribe to rational male, Michael sartain and rich cooper. Women absolutely do not love games. But the idea of dread game and competition anxiety are rooted in psychology. Men have dread game and women have shit tests. Both things are about creating tension. About proving value. Both things I wouldn’t say are very healthy but they’re evolutionarily based and are mostly subconscious. Or at least should be. Tik tok is more than happy to show you all the ways women test their m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:53 AM
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I think we are on the same page. I’m just defining it from the male perspective. I do agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:41 AM
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You’re not supposed to ask that part. I’ll just say I met her when she was 18 while she was going to college and I was like 20 and local to the area. I didn’t care that she was in a relationship or dating someone and I was in and out of relationships and we had an amazing ability to bounce back into each other and despite whatever relationships were around us I was always the guy she called and I was always the guy to pick her back up. We didn’t care and we didn’t ask questions. I saw her for Va…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:39 AM
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A FWB if done properly is a dressed down open relationship. It sounds ridiculous and made up because it’s never labeled correctly. The whole point is that it’s not labeled but both parties ideally have built in desire and care for each other just like any healthy relationship they just lie to each other about it in a way that isn’t toxic and makes it last long term. The irony is at its core it’s a healthy idealistic relationship with both parties free to see other people if and when there’s a ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:31 AM
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That’s what red pill is supposed to be. That’s literally all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:37 PM
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Because non monogamy is easier and less toxic than serial monogamy. Not to mention it’s more honest. Who wakes up and says they like being a serial monogamist? The other component being, her loss of desire is likely related to you being a “kept” man. So why bother? I’ve always found a woman’s jealousy in the absence of a blow job to being extremely toxic and debilitating mentally. It’s abusive. You’re cock blocking and laying claim while not demonstrating the same desire for the man in your bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:12 PM
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If I didn’t see this post I wouldn’t believe it existed. Absolute Flawless Victory of a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:00 PM
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Holy what a generalization. I think you need to do some more research on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:56 PM
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Now ask him about marriage and see how quickly he goes limp? 😂 A caged animal just ain’t as attractive or fun. There’s no edge to a man once you always know what he’s doing and where he’s going to be. Women really don’t like admitting that but it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:50 PM
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Why leave the house when women are all over social media talking about not wanting ugly men to approach them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:48 PM
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Maybe, or maybe all those things are still inherently about desiring female attention and attraction. Some people just have more tact than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:44 PM
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Money is a component of being desired and being a high status male
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:41 PM
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I think you’ll find that men operate based on a woman’s feelings. Her desire for him being paramount. It’s the foundation of men on the sexless marriages subreddit. “What did I do to her for her to not desire me?”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:39 PM
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“That hot” Here’s what’s going on. You have a minimum threshold for guys you’d sleep with, once they hit that threshold you no longer care about the other variables or qualifies you may have. Then once you seek a relationship you have that same minimum threshold plus all the other filtering but at a minimum level of attraction you’ve already pre selected. You just do it subconsciously so you aren’t aware. Most men are invisible to a good chunk of women. You know in 5 seconds if you’re attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:32 PM
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It doesn’t make sense but then why do so many women have babies from nick cannon, stefon Diggs, and tyreek hill? Women are fine with sharing men they deem high value. That is a societal demonstration of that comfort-ability. It sounds counter intuitive sure but men are not commodities in the same way as gold. Men have inherently occupied power in the same way they have built harams throughout history. His value was linked to how many women he had. And here we are in the big ‘26 and women are sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:18 PM
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Best relationship of my life was a 6 year on off FWB We went to movies, bars, the mall, dinner, concerts, You name it. The only reason it ended was she moved to another state where she was from and settled down and got married and I didn’t follow her. It’s the only time I’ve ever seen a woman’s sexual desire of me not decline in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:12 PM
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Temporary monogamy is still monogamy. Keep moving the goal posts. You act like there’s a calendar date on relationships where they end and “only marriage” is monogamous for a length of time. Like what are you even trying to dunk on me with? Every relationship is taken on with the pretense it’s going to last until it doesn’t EVEN MARRIAGE. Marriage is just legally binding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:05 PM
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What’s the yellow pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:03 PM
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He’s a younger guy, you can tell by the prose and the situation he’s expounding on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:03 PM
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Most women aren’t very good at having basic conversations to begin with. The burden of performance by default falls to men and always has. How many of these men have learned that women just aren’t interested? Unless you’re talking about things that interest her she’s just not going to respond. Women are inherently selfish in that way. As they get older I think it gets better but that’s probably because they get less attention so they’re more likely to have conversations out of a desire for that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:01 PM
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Then explain sexless marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:47 PM
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Because monogamy sucks ass for men. And it eventually strips out all the desire. It removes her competition anxiety and I’ve never been in a monogamous situation in which the woman didn’t eventually stop initiating. Once she stops initiating it’s all on you however long you continue to be together. And you could still be hanging out and doing stuff together and giving her intimacy. It doesn’t matter. Subconsciously once she knows she has you it’s over. It’s just the truth. This is why marriage a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:31 PM
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its venting usually, if its directed at you or passive aggressive then its not productive venting and its now a conflict.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/26 07:24 AM
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both?
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/26 07:23 AM
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Isn’t the material cynical by nature? Aren’t women cynical by nature? Women do not cater to you when it comes to dating. They cater to themselves. So in order to approach that the content will be inherently self centered. And I’m not suggesting anything but by nature dating is a process of elimination inherently. It’s about filtering and eliminating.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 06:36 PM
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Rollos great, rational male is great. You get out what you put in. Women can absolutely be just as diabolical as men if not more. Holding the door won’t get you laid. The friend zone sucks. Genuine burning desire is very real and you shouldn’t marry someone that doesn’t have it. It’s purely an encyclopedia of knowledge describing why women like the bad guy. And yeah sure not all women whatever. But enough men have been kicked in the balls growing up and finding out the hard way that it exists. N…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 06:29 PM
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There’s been enough studies to suggest that it becomes harder to pair bond the more sexual partners you have.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 06:22 PM
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Men want to get laid. Why does it have to be complicated? And women like assholes. Red pill is ultimately just context for those two ideas. I mean the food might taste like shit but you still gotta eat. And if you want to be mad about it, then ask yourself this? How have we had however many years of human evolution and yet these are still basic driving forces for reproduction? You might simplify it by saying it’s human nature. Holding the door won’t get you laid. So the red pill exists. And if y…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 06:17 PM
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