ScientistinRednkland Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
93	When you choose to have standards and walk, why does it feel like you got dumped instead?	COCKHOLM SYNDROME	ScientistinRednkland	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/19 06:44 PM
27	If a man says his ex is a narcissist, it likely means he is, in fact, the narcissist.	LIES MEN TELL	ScientistinRednkland	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/19 09:52 PM
25	How would you describe this woman?	COCKHOLM SYNDROME	ScientistinRednkland	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 04:21 PM
15	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you?	SEEKING ADVICE	ScientistinRednkland	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/19 06:38 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Take your time. I see this a lot.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 01:16 AM
2	How would you describe this woman? I have no idea, other than the ex wife was being really nice to her and telling her she was a victim of the man and she was there so the side chick would not have to go to him anymore...but she was. The ex wife is quite upset that she had been lied to, again, and really just wants to move on with her life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 11:33 PM
2	How would you describe this woman? She has not hit any eject button at all. She is not threatened by him. A friend tells me that they are connected on social media and continue to regularly interact, publicly, on social media, to this day (I blocked everyone because I just don't want to get dragged in). She is constantly messaging the ex wife pretending she has not had anything to do with him for 2 years, but her social media is public and anyone can see that is a lie (but the ex is blocked). The only person she has tried to hide…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 11:21 PM
3	How would you describe this woman? I mean, it isn't impressive and he doesn't know how to use it and when he does it only last 2 minutes, sometimes less.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 07:50 PM
1	How would you describe this woman? I have no idea.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 07:45 PM
1	How would you describe this woman? The side chick??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 07:17 PM
4	How would you describe this woman? That's what I was thinking, but I'm not a psychiatrist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 07:17 PM
1	How would you describe this woman? Right???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 07:16 PM
3	When you choose to have standards and walk, why does it feel like you got dumped instead? There was no innocence. He cheated on his ex wife for 7 years, and the ex had no idea. He then set me up as the public girlfriend while keeping the side chick strung along. The side chick knew he was married before, and she knew I was the current girlfriend. He lied to me and tried to manipulate me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 04:01 AM
4	When you choose to have standards and walk, why does it feel like you got dumped instead? Thank you for this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/19 03:51 AM
12	When you choose to have standards and walk, why does it feel like you got dumped instead? "LVM will be attracted to you like flies right now." Yes, I think this has been my issue for 2 years now. I have decided to stop dating until I figure out what is going on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/19 08:40 PM
4	Where is the lie? 🤔 Awesome analogy. Bleeding definitely attracts the sharks!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/19 04:45 PM
10	Where is the lie? 🤔 This has been my issue - I have been in a bad place mentally the last 3 years, and I have done nothing but attract men who use that against me. I just learned this this past week.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/19 03:55 PM
85	I think ugly guys are more likely to have a vendetta against women and be less nice. Omg, I just dated a guy I had known 20 years ago in college, but never given the time of day. I was never attracted to him then, and I still am not, but convinced myself that he would treat me well because he is not attractive. After 3 months I found out he is a serial cheater. The ugliest guy I have ever dated is a serial cheater. So, he must feel so bad about his looks or having been rejected that he turned into a womanizer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/19 05:35 PM
46	Remember this when you catch him cheating, etc. and he apologizes profusely He wasn't sorry when you were unaware, and he wasn't sorry when he ran straight to her the SECOND you did not accept his apology.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/19 12:40 AM
1	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? I don't see how this is relevant, but thanks, I guess...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 04:16 PM
1	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? Not really. The messages I saw make it look like she chased after him after he made me his official public gf. She plays an active role in his cheating. They have a sick game.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 12:08 PM
1	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? No child, no current relationship. It looks like he keeps her around because he can. He can have a wife, a gf, and she keeps putting out for him. Why commit to her if he doesn't have to? She seems very mentally unhealthy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 12:02 PM
1	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? Well, he was married to someone else when he first started with the side chick, so I think that is why he did not commit at first.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 11:51 AM
1	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? He has been with her off and on for 9 years. What else do you mean?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 11:45 AM
5	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? This actually makes sense. He is in the same fraternity as my brother and father, who are both highly respected, and after the first date started telling the "brothers" that we were dating. His side chick appears troubled and a hippie, the exact opposite of his outward image.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 12:10 AM
3	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? I have decided to definitely take a step back and take a solid break from dating. A lot of self-reflection is needed. Thank you again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/19 09:44 PM
6	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? Wow, this is a LOT to think about. Thank you! I need to cool it on the dating front and do some serious self-reflection for awhile.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/19 08:18 PM
6	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? Well, I don't feel so sorry for her because she knew about me and continued seeing him and continued contacting the ex wife to fill her in on all of her recent exploits and how she was trying to "break us up."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/19 08:17 PM
4	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? Me neither, that is why I was floored. I found out from the ex wife that he would just meet his side chick at parking garages for quickies and then go back to work. The ex wife never knew until the side chick called her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/19 07:47 PM
3	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? Well, I wouldn't call him attached. He has been divorced for 2 years. He had a side chick for the last 7 years of his divorce, and he has had her, in secret, the last 2 years. He made me public, and I got introduced to friends and family, he tagged me on his social media, and he told the side chick about me, who then started posting on his social media so I would see it. But I AM in transition, and I am independent. So, all of that resonates with me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/19 07:34 PM
2	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? Oh no, he would spend the entire weekend with me (Thurs-Sun), post about our weekend trips online, call every single morning and night, text all day long, etc etc. I figured out one Friday when he left for 1.5 hours to go to his doctor he was just off to see his "mistress" or whatever she is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/19 07:30 PM
2	Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you? Yes, I wondered the same thing. He has been divorced for nearly 2 years, and had ample opportunity to make the side chick official. Instead, he picked me to be his public gf, on social media, for the friends and family, etc.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/19 07:21 PM
4	If a man says his ex is a narcissist, it likely means he is, in fact, the narcissist. I think we dated the same dude!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/19 07:41 PM
3	If a man says his ex is a narcissist, it likely means he is, in fact, the narcissist. Omg, the guy I am talking about used the same line, that "he lost himself" in his marriage and "he was not being true to himself."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/19 07:27 PM
2	Do you want closure or do you want to see if he came up with enough lies to get you to settle? I am not doubting myself, but the rants are not useful! Thank you! <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/19 05:53 PM
6	Do you want closure or do you want to see if he came up with enough lies to get you to settle? I needed this today. It got me to stop my rant to my now ex after finding out he has daily communication with a woman he has history with. I guess I WAS looking for enough lies to see if I was willing to settle. Thanks for this post so I realize I don't need to settle for this bs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/19 05:43 PM