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I hate the way men talk about hookups they didn’t find attractive. The women on here seem to be kinder about the hookups they didn’t find as physically attractive and talk about their other qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:29 PM
1

True! Studs would be picked over the virgin or low experience man by most women (a lot of women may say they would pick the low experience guy but actions in real life speak louder than words)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:46 PM
3

I knew a guy who was very average but he just had no standards whatsoever (slept with very fat or older women) and he was not considered desirable at all by most sane, young or attractive women. But yes I would agree that an attractive guy that can get with lots of other attractive women is a desirable trait for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:42 PM
11

A liar and a hoe….. nice 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:37 PM
1

I think somewhere in the middle. We want a man that is desired by other women but we don’t necessarily want him to be the type that will sleep with everyone and anything. Some standards are always attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:35 PM
2

Yes 🙌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:22 PM
2

Men really overestimate how much women value casual sex (most of us don’t at all). It leaves us feeling empty and most of us don’t even orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:03 PM
2

London is quite good (little harassment) British people on the whole are more reserved and polite
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:00 PM
1

I think British behaviour (especially in the south) is more polite and reserved when it comes to approaching strangers. I still got a lot of creeps in my teenage years though but I think they were the types that had no shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:10 PM
3

Omg me too! I feel paranoid that my prime was aged 14-18 because that is when I got the most catcalls
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:08 PM
1

Often “jokes” aren’t really jokes and they’re testing the waters
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 10:29 AM
1

Dance monkey, dance!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:58 PM
2

Yay! I’m glad you found your self worth! I have a very similar story ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:42 PM
1

Hell no! I get away with more stuff being a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:20 PM
0

He must have something he’s hiding. A man that is truly all those things would get snapped up in a heartbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:15 PM
1

There are actually good core points to both strategies that I agree with. You’re going to get extremists on both sides but at the heart they are just setting boundaries and helping both genders look out for red flags and bad people of the opposite genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:37 PM
11

I’m 26 and would only go for a guy over 33-35 if he was very wealthy and reasonably handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:24 PM
1

The jokes just tell themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:24 PM
1

Call me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:18 PM
2

That’s really abnormal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:11 PM
3

Do any of them actually commit to you though???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:25 PM
1

Right! He sounds pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:18 PM
1

To be fair, I’ve met a lot of really odd ducks from online dating. I think there is some truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:05 PM
2

Thanks 😊
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 03:35 PM
10

I will be fake vulnerable but hold a lot of cards close to the chest still
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 11:04 PM
6

Unfortunately being “vulnerable” has only allowed me to be hurt and stepped on. I don’t want to be a hard bitch either but it can be difficult when you have had such terrible experiences.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 10:46 PM
1

Is that a “the shining” reference?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 05:21 PM
18

I think some feminists forget that feminism is about women having CHOICE. You want to be a high powered career woman? Great You want to settle down early and have children?? If you’re reasonably stable and find the right man then that’s great!
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/21 11:59 PM
2

Yeah and I wish I never discovered TikTok! It’s mindless but addictive crap
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/21 03:33 PM
1

I don’t go for “chads” I tend to go for guys on a similar level of attractiveness to me and around the same age as me (24-28) and honestly they can be very convincing and manipulative in making you think they want a relationship and even if you make them wait a decent amount of time for sex (I don’t do casual sex) they often still end up hurting or cheating on you etc. I definitely don’t agree with a lot of the high standards on FDS for men and think a lot of the requirements are ridiculous (the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:16 AM
4

I’m addicted to mindlessly scrolling on my phone and it really prevents me from being productive and bettering myself
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 01:31 AM
5

Yes, you just put into words what I feel. There are lots of aspects I love and respect about FDS but it can be almost cult like and whenever I slightly challenged a point someone made and wanted to debate then I would basically be pounced on and told I couldn’t talk about anything outside the FDS handbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:21 AM
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I do agree with you on MANY Points. However, I think there is some truth that many men are JUST out for casual sex these days and it doesn’t matter how pleasant, pretty or respectful you are as a woman. A lot of women (and not just low class hood rats) are pissed off for a reason. It is a good place to vent sometimes when you’ve been on the wrong end of some very disturbing and unwarranted behaviour from men but it should definitely be taken with a HUGE grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:57 PM
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I admit I’ve been on there and have found some advice helpful (In asserting boundaries to stop men who want to use or trick you for sex) unfortunately I’ve had some very traumatic experiences and it did feel good to vent. However, I fully agree that it is a huge echo chamber and some of the standards they put on men are absolutely ridiculous. I think it can be a good forum but needs to be taken with a massive grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:42 PM
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I’m just getting a bit tired because I haven’t found one guy that is my physical type who isn’t a complete douche canoe man slut. Not one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:12 PM
-5

I don’t think one sex ages better than the other if they both look after diet, fitness and hygiene etc (apart from some guys who go bald unfortunately)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:04 PM
-1

Obviously they can’t be unattractive but they could be cute and have other good qualities that make them seem more attractive,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:59 PM
-4

I like to discuss and hear others opinions, other women have messaged me privately and say they agree with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:54 PM
6

You think they would just try and climb higher up the ladder??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:44 PM
-6

I know quite a few people in seemingly very happy relationships who are like this (although the guy also tends to have more money) so I feel like that is where they get the self esteem and power from. So the girlfriend may be more attractive but the guy has more money. Different strengths at play
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:30 PM
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Alright, I’m just talking about what I’ve seen and heard in real life. I’ve heard it so often in real life and there must be some truth to it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:21 PM
7

Oh shit, does that happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:19 PM
-11

I can talk about what I’ve heard from outside the walls of FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:18 PM
6

Why an account just for FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:16 PM
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Everyone says that less attractive men are more likely to stay faithful as they have less attention and therefore less temptation and that they’re typically more grateful if they score a girlfriend more attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:15 PM
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Yeah, they keep popping up but then there is nothing but the moderators message when I click on them. Very annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:10 PM
1

Why can’t I read any of the comments?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:07 PM
1

In the end I said “Hello, I’ve really enjoyed talking to you but I’ve been considering if I want to go on an actual date and I’ve decided that I don’t. I wish you well on your search X “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:53 PM
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Hahaha I love that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:55 PM
3

Yes, I bet he has frequent but shallow relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 04:17 PM
1

Ikr!! It’s excessive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:44 PM
8

Are you in London by any chance?? It’s a great city but people can be very cold and standoffish (which I understand) but yes it’s hard to meet people in person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:43 PM
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I’ve had “Send me a full body picture please, I want to see what I’m getting” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:35 PM
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I assume men will shoot their shot with many varieties of attractiveness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 03:29 PM
2

Okay thanks for clarification
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:36 PM
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Yeah, and unfortunately when I’ve been a “bitch” before I have just had the nastiest things said to me that still stick in my mind to this day. I do the squinted eye thing too! Or I turn my phone off and leave it under the bed for a couple hours and then return to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:08 PM
-21

Yeah but maybe he was telling the truth. I have extreme self esteem issues that I need to work on before anyone will take me seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:45 PM
-13

I’ve read sections but haven’t had time yet to read the whole thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:33 PM
2

Forgive my ignorance but who is Samantha Jones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:28 PM
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Yeah, my ex said I was an easy lay and that’s all I would ever be to anyone. Men are so evil to women they don’t respect. I still try and be polite to these people and I have no idea why. I have some very deep conditioning to try and unlearn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:03 PM
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One respectful comment on my appearance is fine but if it’s constant then I get so uncomfortable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:40 PM
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I think we should have boundaries but no need to be needlessly rude to people that haven’t done anything wrong is what I’m saying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:15 PM
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You’re on my post and comment section
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:04 PM
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You come across as pretty rude when it’s not necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:01 PM
5

Ugh, he’s such a dick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:37 AM
-13

Good for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:35 AM
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Thanks! Yes I think this is a reasonable way to handle it. If he had shown any hint of being a scrote then I wouldn’t feel bad about it but he was very polite, respectful and seemed to have a good sense of humour. He just wasn’t very attractive (which is out of his control)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:22 AM
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What happened to innocent until proven guilty?? He literally hasn’t shown any signs of being a scrote so I’m not going to treat him like one with no good reason. I’m just not attracted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:12 AM
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I don’t think he’s a “scrote” I’m just not attracted to him and that’s not his fault. I shouldn’t have agreed to go on the date and I want to get out of it without being a dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:09 AM
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I know this sounds so simple to most people but it gives me really bad anxiety. I feel awful and mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:56 AM
8

True but I think we’re reaching a bit here….there’s lots of shows I love and am obsessed with but that doesn’t mean I want to be like the characters in them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 08:52 PM
6

I’m sorry ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 07:56 PM
1

I don’t want him, I just feel sorry for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:53 PM
2

Probably worse, he was depraved and I’m still haunted by the sound of him in my tent and I had to throw my sleeping bag away 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:41 PM
10

Omg yes, I used to at least think that liberal feminism was on our side
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:31 PM
3

Me too, I had a disturbing experience with one of them on a camping trip last summer but because he’s charming outwardly he was still accepted by my old friend group and they still all talk to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:45 PM
8

Same! I would genuinely believe their lies and lovebombing because….what kind of scumbag would lie about that? I could never do that!! I thought creeps and psychos were like one in a thousand and that they definitely existed but it was very rare to encounter one in the wild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:29 PM
12

True, I’m glad I’m coming round to it at 26. Feel like I can save myself a lot of future pain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:26 PM
12

Yes, it feels like I’ve been scammed. Why did no one tell me how to play the game and was I stupid for not figuring it out sooner??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:11 PM
8

What’s wrong with being obsessed with breaking bad? It’s a phenomenal show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 03:39 PM
15

I don’t want to be taken advantage of again but I would also like to somewhat trust and enjoy men’s company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 03:35 PM
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A very high proportion unfortunately. I’ve had really traumatic experiences and I only feel truly safe around my brother, dad and grandpa. But luckily they show no sexual interest in me (Thank God, I know sometimes even being related won’t stop some men). My uncle abused my cousin and I loved him but don’t speak anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:34 PM
12

A lot of people have said that I just need to accept that men and women are very different and that they will always disappoint us to an extent and if I don’t lower my standards then I will end up alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:30 PM
14

Friends outside of FDS are telling me it’s not healthy to approach dating this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:55 PM
20

I will never completely relax around men ever again but now I’m just obsessively overanalysing and vetting every guy I come into contact with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:33 PM
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Nothing is militant about vetting standards but I think some of us (me included) can take it to the extreme. I feel like I can’t relax around a lot of men because I’m counting all the possible red flags and overanalysing every little thing they say and looking for a meaning behind it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:21 PM
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This actually sounds really sad and he should get help. I don’t wish for him to die alone and I hope he can get his shit together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 12:10 PM
15

Yes and there’s lots of places to explore when you don’t have to interact with lots of other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 12:08 PM
8

He might be autistic or struggling from extreme social anxiety (I’ve got experience with this) and it is debilitating. However, he needs to work on himself before entertaining the idea of dating. He should not drag others down with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 12:05 PM
4

Sex sells and she’s knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:44 PM
41

A small percentage of men will be getting laid a lot, the average guy is not going to be getting tons of women. Even in the crazy college years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:43 PM
3

I definitely do need to work on reducing my anxiety and improving my social skills, that is the only thing holding me back from being excited about a dinner with someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:09 AM
25

Wow 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:30 AM
17

Forgive my ignorance, who is is No-Neck Ed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:08 AM
21

So proud of this girl, that can’t have been easy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:00 AM
19

Yes, we are just more interactive and immersive porn to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:18 PM
234

Omg I’m getting second hand anger just reading this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:18 PM
-7

What if they ask you for dinner and then I suggest coffee for the first one?? Just to see if I like them? A whole dinner really stresses me the hell out. I don’t think it’s because I’m a cheap and easy date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 03:36 PM
17

Something to do with their urge to procreate as far and wide as possible. Sometimes it just goes too far and the women make them commit haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 01:58 AM
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My grandma told me this used to happen constantly in the old days. Probably still does but yeah social media and being able to constantly contact someone has made it more difficult. Harder to compartmentalise and keep the lives separate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 01:54 AM
13

I would not envy her inbox 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:28 PM
20

I don’t consider her a normal woman. Who hurt her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:37 PM
31

What the fuck is this guy on? This is making my skin crawl “showing off my beautiful purple mushroom head” pervert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:32 PM
7

It’s HORRIFYING isn’t it!! Yes unfortunately a lot of western women who are desperate to be rich influencers will go and get degraded in the worst ways possible for money. They get paid ALOT but no money is worth that in my book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:53 PM
10

Have you read about “Dubai porta potties”? I have never been more shocked and disgusted in my life. We often see pictures of these beautiful women on yachts and living the life but we don’t see what they had to do for those things behind the scenes. Truly shocking and vomit inducing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:10 PM
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This is why I make guys wait at least two months before sex, they usually can’t keep up the gentleman act for long and the mask will come down. Time is the only thing that will truly tell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:07 PM
9

Exactly, you communicate politely and they don’t listen! And if you repeat yourself then you’re a nag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 08:07 PM
93

I’m glad you’re teaching your daughter these things! I didn’t have a clue when I was younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:04 AM
67

Ugh, this is such a good point! I can’t believe I used to think sex with men (outside of a strictly committed relationship) had any meaning at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:59 AM
11

Bill Burr and Nia are a cute couple, you can tell they adore eachother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:20 PM
1

Thanks, yeah I’m probably being silly and will delete this post later ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 03:23 PM
1

Alright, I’m probably just having an irrational freak out because I found my first forehead wrinkles and a grey hair
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 03:22 PM
1

Maybe I’m just not that attractive and all I had was my youth then
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 03:12 PM
2

Yeah, I guess I’m just buying too much into the “women hit the wall at 30” thing and freaking out. I do still get a fair amount of attention but it’s less and I’m having a crisis because I’m just starting to acknowledge my mortality. I saw my first forehead wrinkles
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 03:05 PM
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Thanks! Yeah, I look after myself and am no heavier than I was at 18 but I’ve noticed there has been a reduction in attention. However, this is mainly on online dating which might be a shallow factor. I post my pics on Reddit and most guys say i’m still attractive and young looking.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 02:45 PM
1

She sounds sociopathic or narcissistic and those people are usually great at being charming when they want to be. Karma will catch up to her and it’s only a matter of time.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 04:15 PM
1

Either she thought you were cute or it was to make fun of you. Either way it’s out of order that she did that! Men would be absolutely crucified if they did the same thing for whatever reason.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:32 PM
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It’s hard to stop isn’t it! Especially because you HAVE to eat and it’s not like other addictions when you can just avoid it altogether. No I haven’t seen a dietician but I see a therapist and just try to go as long as I can without eating during the day (I also drink lots of black coffee)
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/21 08:47 AM
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Wow, thanks this is really helpful advice! Yes, I often eat a perfect model diet throughout the day and then it reaches 5pm and all bets are off! It’s a distraction that stops me thinking about stressful things I have to do the next day etc
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 06:02 PM
1

Yes, unfortunately I struggle with this and tend to be an all or nothing person
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 04:11 PM
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Ooh, that does sound really tasty! I love roasting vegetables with oils and seasoning
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 04:09 PM
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Thanks so much! Yes, I am trying my very best and my family said they will not flaunt bad foods in front of me and will keep it hidden if they buy any. That is all I can ask really :) I currently live in an expensive area of south west London and can’t afford to move out but tbh even if I lived on my own then I’m sure my brain would come up with different excuses to binge eat!!! (I’m so Lonely!! Etc” hahaha
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 04:07 PM
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Yes, it’s very hard to keep the iron willpower for long. I can usually manage a very strict couple of weeks and then I go back to normal and then my brain remembers how horrible the strict “diet” weeks were and tries its best to talk me out of dieting again.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 03:51 PM
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I do but it’s definitely more of a recent thing and hopefully that means it will be easier to unlearn the bad habits. My older family have only been on the heavier side as they got much older and during lockdown etc. I’m hoping that because I had quite a healthy upbringing and my food issues have only been terrible as I’ve recently been sober that I will be able to nip this in the bud before I become fat.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 03:50 PM
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Yes, coffee definitely helps 😃 I’m definitely done with serious drugs though, although yes I do miss how effortlessly slim I could be on them 😂
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 02:26 PM
1

Yes, I would ideally like to get my BMI back down to 22, and I think I could get down to 23 around Christmas and then have a small break for the holidays. Right now my weight is right on the edge of healthy/overweight and I have no allowances. My brain is already coming up with excuses to keep eating like “well you’re quite tall, so even if you’re a little overweight then no one will notice”
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 02:12 PM
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Yes, nearly everyday and I walk everywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 01:22 PM
2

I’m 26, is that getting on a bit? I’m dating someone and I like him but I don’t know if I want kids with him. I worry about the clock ticking already and it stresses me out.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 01:15 PM
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Jordan Peterson keeps me in line! We also both went through the hell that is benzo withdrawal. He’s amazing ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 12:39 PM
2

I’ve found that men love it when you approach but keep the flirting very subtle.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 03:55 PM
1

Yes 🙌🏻
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 07:16 AM
1

I always catch babies staring wide eyed at me and I get so paranoid that they think I’m funny looking
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/21 04:01 PM
3

I don’t think you need to actively “support” his hobbies but just leave him quietly to get on and enjoy them. Most men/women have different hobbies and friends outside of their relationship and they don’t necessarily have to mix.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 04:11 PM
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You’re on the right path! A lot of guys will really appreciate the effort and strength taken to improve yourself. No one is perfect but all we can do is try our best ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/21 03:04 PM
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You need to give them time to become emotionally attached to you, make them wait. Guys like to feel like they have earned something, yes he could potentially get sex elsewhere but he won’t commit to the women he’s getting easy sex from.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 10:05 AM
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Exactly, we can’t just expect to pop out a few kids and be set for life. I like guys that can provide but obviously In this day and age it’s even harder and people struggle to live on one salary .
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 09:34 AM
6

I used to send nudes (although I never included my face) fingers crossed it won’t come back to haunt me 😬🤞🏼
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/21 05:43 PM
1

Maybe not married but he still committed
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 04:02 PM
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I had a few when I was younger and it never ended well. I don’t know many women that are genuinely happy with that arrangement but the media pushes it all the time
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 02:30 PM
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Men can compartmentalise sex, women find this harder. He married you, therefore sex with you will be beautiful and meaningful to him. The casual sex will have meant literally nothing to him, I used to have FWB with some men and always looked at them with sadness and fascination because when the sex was put into the “casual” bracket then that is where it stayed. I would develop emotions due to the intimacy and it was very painful.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 11:24 AM
0

You’re not supposed to feel anything!! They’re meant to completely numb the area
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 08:17 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with wanting that! Feminism is about having freedom of choice
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 12:20 PM
3

My softness, empathy and insight. I also like that I can be wily and cunning if the situation calls for it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 12:00 PM
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Pictures are not cheating or abuse…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 08:42 AM
2

Guys are very visual creatures and he could be looking at a lot worse online. Personally I don’t think it’s the end of the world as he seems to just be looking and not communicating with any of these women.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 10:36 PM
5

I wholeheartedly agree
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 05:35 PM
1

I think jeans and a cute jumper sound lovely! Maybe add some nice earrings and make sure your hair and makeup are done nicely with a good wintery shade of nail polish.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 10:29 AM
2

Wow, well I have really been overthinking it all then. 😅
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 12:53 PM
3

I get why he would be annoyed but at those early stages it wasn’t official and you didn’t cheat on him. Tell him if he can’t get over what happened after you’ve apologised and changed your behaviour then you both need to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/21 01:41 PM
7

If he’s still holding old shit over you and can’t let it go then it’s not going to work. You’re still very young and have plenty of time to start over with another man.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/21 01:39 PM
4

Yes! Now I need to stop being a pussy and get out there
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/21 11:03 PM
3

True, hoe just for him. I think I can change because I genuinely didn’t enjoy most of the “hoe phase” it’s because I struggled with mental illness and hated myself.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 01:18 PM
2

Yeah course, although the whole “massive drop after 30” thing has got me panicking a little. Time has already passed by so quickly 😩
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 11:25 PM
5

How significantly? Even if you’re still hot and look younger?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 11:20 PM
3

Yes, I do need to keep calm. I will keep the first couple of dates very light but be very vigilant in looking out for red flags and will be pretty ruthless in moving on if things aren’t working. Plus, even if the clock strikes on your 30th it’s not like you suddenly expire and turn to shit (although ideally I would like to be married and pregnant by 29)
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 11:13 PM
2

I’m not going to rush but I am going to keep my eye firmly on the prize. If something isn’t working out then I’m going to waste no time and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 11:04 PM
3

Thankyou, I appreciate it 😊
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 08:57 PM
4

Agree to disagree
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 08:56 PM
3

Thanks lovely! Yes I will try 😊
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:30 PM
4

I am very high functioning and I’m fine with reading social cues, I just have a short social battery and get more anxiety than the average person. I think I would mention it after a couple dates if we are really getting on and have a connection. Yeah with the “hoe phase” I’m not going to go into explicit detail or use that kind of phrasing but will be honest if asked questions.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 07:27 PM
3

Yes, I think as I clean my act up I will have a lot to offer. ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 06:51 PM
1

I live in one of the most affluent thriving areas of London and went to private school etc, there is a lot of money round here
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 06:46 PM
2

What’s a SAHM? And oh that’s great! ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 06:38 PM
7

Isn’t it good !! Everyone is being so lovely and positive. I was a bit nervous about the responses I was going to get but I had nothing to worry about.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 06:36 PM
3

Nice 😉
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 05:06 PM
12

Well I better get out there then
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 03:31 PM
2

What about age? I’m 26 now
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 03:15 PM
8

I most certainly do
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 03:07 PM
1

It did in my teens and early twenties yes.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 02:41 PM
4

Very true
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 12:47 PM
4

Yes! I’m not going to reveal everything on the first couple of dates but I’m also not going to lie if I’m asked a direct question. Hahah yes I will slowly reveal more of the crazy over a long period of time so it’s not overwhelming 👍🏻
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 12:46 PM
13

Thankyou 😊❤️
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 12:22 PM
9

I know a lot of women with backgrounds similar to mine and I know for a fact they lied about their past. I don’t want to do that but I’m also scared of ending up alone.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 12:17 PM
6

Thank-you so much for the kind words and encouragement ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 12:11 PM
28

Hello, yes I do genuinely want to change for myself, my family and my future (a decent man will be a bonus). I will be willing to overlook some bad behaviour from the past as long as they are currently stable and didn’t commit any serious crimes. I think everyone deserves to redeem themselves ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 12:08 PM
1

Clear communication is key, politely ask him if everything is okay and calmly express your concerns.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 11:33 AM
3

Yes this is a good point, it’s important to be sweet and kind but also have very strong boundaries and know when to put your foot down and cut people off.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 11:31 AM
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