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| 0 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manYou are mentally ill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no good reason not to cold approach if you're an average manYour life will never end from approaching a woman unless you are a massive fucking idiot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Guys seem compelled to absolutely despise women they dont want to date.Being unattractive and having no kids tend to be correlated traits in middle aged men. And the few that aren't typically prefer to be glorified sugar daddies to younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | If the majority of women "hate" players, how the hell does a guy become a player in the first place?The overwhelming majority of men have never paid for Onlyfans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 06:37 PM |
| -1 | Why do women feel upset when their guy friend rejects approaching a girl?I'm not gonna lie bro you sound insanely insecure. Your whole post history is about women not wanting men to approach them and you seem to be under the impression that if you try to approach a woman in public that you'll ruin her day when the reality is that if she isn't interested and you aren't pushy she won't give a shit at all. Your friends probably realize this too and are trying to break you out of that mindset and you're getting mad at them for it because you also seem to think they hold … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/partiesYou have never tried to go to a club alone I guarantee it lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 09:44 PM |
| 2 | if women date up, men do tooMake a Tinder account with a 5/10 thin woman who doesn't wear makeup and tell me about how she isn't considered attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How exactly do you start the convo at a bar or club with a girl/girls?I live in the Phoenix area and it tends to be a pretty decent ratio. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 11:21 AM |
| 15 | How exactly do you start the convo at a bar or club with a girl/girls?Where I live the vast majority of clubs do not charge a cover so I go in, don't drink anything but free water, and just look for girls to dance with. | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 04:29 AM |
| – | Both partnered men and women accurately rated their own attractiveness; most couples also tend to have two partners of matching attractiveness level.That's using data from 1988. It's pretty much worthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:23 PM |
| 6 | OLD screwing with confidencePost your profile. OLD is boom or bust for men and without knowing what your profile looks like there is very little advice anyone can give you. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 09:04 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing “creepy” or “predatory” about 30-40 year old men wanting to date or sleep with 20-25 year olds, it isn’t men’s fault women don’t age wellIf it was true that so many men peak earlier than why would these young women be interested in them? You can't simultaneously argue that the age gaps are a problem and that those men are past their prime, it doesn't make any sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 02:00 AM |
| 12 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?That's a no then lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 07:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.I have my Tinder settings set to 21-49 there is a very noticeable difference between women in their 30s and women in their 20s. The idea that they are still in their prime is pretty clearly not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | What to do after kissing a girl in clubI've probably made out with 15 or so girls at the club and only left with three of them. Maybe 1 or 2 I could have played differently but the rest were never leaving with me no matter what I did. Most of the time girls will give me their snap or IG before they leave and then delete me the next day lol | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 07:00 AM |
| 12 | Clubs are the worst place to start conversations. I'm sorryThe way you look is all that matters at the club. If your goal is to get laid try to make yourself look as stylish and wealthy as possible. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 11:49 PM |
| 3 | areas for improvement: talking with tinder matchesWhy would you assume a person with hot yoga as one of their interests has never done hot yoga? You don't think that makes you come across as dismissive and annoying? | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Do you think many women prefer to date men they pity? Do you prefer the wounded bird over the guy fortunate enough to fly?The four women he impregnated were gang members who also helped smuggle drugs into prison for him lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:23 AM |
| 3 | How to battle ignorance at a Bar pickup?The advice is don't buy girls drinks. If you need to buy a girl a drink for her to be into you there is zero chance she is fucking you lmao | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 10:32 AM |
| 4 | How to battle ignorance at a Bar pickup?Ive danced with over 20 girls at the club in the past 6 months and haven't bought a single one a drink. I've had a few of them give me their drink to finish though lol | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Do you think many women prefer to date men they pity? Do you prefer the wounded bird over the guy fortunate enough to fly?OP you are delusional if you think the women picking loser drug dealers are actually beautiful hardworking women. They are often even bigger losers than the guy but your dick is tricking you into thinking these loser women have value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | It's not inherently irrational or sexist to choose the bearI’m not sure how a man would “treat women like whores” By going around constantly offering women money for sex. Obviously there are men who do this but imagine if it became the norm for men to just assume any woman that rejects them will change her mind if you offered her enough money. They are simply stating they are sometimes uncomfortable with lone, strange men, which is precisely what other men warn women about. This is far different. The point he is trying to make is that if men were actual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 07:10 PM |
| 2 | It's not inherently irrational or sexist to choose the bearHis comment is about the general zeitgeist around men. The opinions of individual women are not really relevant to what he is saying. If it became typical for men to treat women like they might be whores, because some of them actually are, I'm sure you would consider that extremely unreasonable. But if a woman treats men like they might be rapists, because some of them actually are, you would probably consider that reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 06:56 PM |
| 6 | It's not inherently irrational or sexist to choose the bearYou realize your response has nothing to do with what he said whatsoever, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 06:14 PM |
| 2 | If makeup were illegal, it might not entirely fix the current situation but it would change it significantlyI'm talking about a girl who is 100% into a guy but will reject them solely because they know their friends will judge them for the guy they choose. Guys do it to girls too and will fuckzone them, but women do it even more and then complain about the guys who fuckzone them. I once had a girl at the club come up to me and start dancing with me without me even asking, and then she stopped because her friend said she didn't like me. Now imagine all the times a girl is going to say no to a guy becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 05:18 PM |
| -3 | If makeup were illegal, it might not entirely fix the current situation but it would change it significantlyGirls will reject a guy they are attracted to just because their friends aren't attracted to them lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Getting the number is easy but I think I text too soonMy text game is horrendous so I can't really give you any advice on that front lol. Just wanted you to know that you shouldn't take it personally. | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Getting the number is easy but I think I text too soonGirls are essentially different people when they are at a bar and have been drinking. When they are sober the next day they often realize they weren't as interested as they thought. I've also gotten around 10 or so numbers while clubbing and so far only 1 turned into something consistent, the rest either didn't respond when I texted or things fizzled out quickly. | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 06:19 PM |
| 9 | Q4Men: Would you be mad if your friend didn’t let you stay overnight at his house after a bad experience with a house guest that overstayed? If not, then why be bitter if a woman has boundaries that she may not have had in the past?That's not what "Chad's leftovers" means. It means girls who are forced to settle for a lower value man because they can't get a high value man to commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 01:15 AM |
| – | Why is high body count in women a turnoff for men but (usually) not the other way around?Because it shows that the woman does not have the same values as you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Mastering communication before going to bars/night clubsNo, not everyone has high value lol | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Opinion on a woman saying she'll take anyone at this point ?You've now typed 300 words about how it would take too much effort to answer a question that you could have answered in like 10 words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Opinion on a woman saying she'll take anyone at this point ?Translation: "I can't think of a single legitimate example so I'm going to deliberately frame it like you expected me to name every possible way that women are shamed as a excuse to get out of answering the question" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 10:55 PM |
| 6 | Opinion on a woman saying she'll take anyone at this point ?What do women get shamed for besides maybe shaving? Because an average woman who doesn't wear makeup and isn't overweight has a way higher SMV than an average man who isn't overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Opinion on a woman saying she'll take anyone at this point ?The standard for women is to literally just not be obese or disfigured/disabled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Would you trade your inherent male strength in order to be considered as non-threatening as a woman?Plenty of women want that lol Pretty boys are super popular | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Actual, dirty tactics that work as well as a sharp blade to butter?One thing I've seen that somehow works is if it's packed at the club try grinding on different girls in the hopes that one will start grinding back. You can make it obvious to the girl that it's intentional and avoid consequences if she gets mad because you'll have plausible deniability from it being so packed. It's obviously an incredibly skeezy thing to do but I've seen guys do it successfully. I'll admit there have been times when a girl was backing up into me and I deliberately stayed put to… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:40 AM |
| 32 | Attractive guy getting rejected, why?Idk man maybe you aren't as attractive as you think | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 10:33 PM |
| 17 | Is cold approaching ever out of bounds?Yeah don't ever do that lmao It's one thing to hit on a customer at a workplace and another to hit on someone at their house | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Her dating profile would shed some light on both her mentality when dating as well as the kind of guys she is attracting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Most girls wouldn't even make it to 150 MATCHES before getting a boyfriend, let alone dating 150 different guys. What percentage of your matches would you say you went on a date with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:26 PM |
| 7 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?You must be absolutely terrible at judging men if you weren't able to weed out a huge chunk of those guys before going on a date lol I think in your case it could be fair to say it's as hard or harder to find a relationship than it is for men but you are in an extreme minority of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?How many guys did you have to date before you found your current partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:12 PM |
| -1 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Are you willing to share your dating profiles? It might help shine some light into why you're having issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 09:56 PM |
| 145 | What am I supposed to do at the bar?Going to a bar on a weeknight is typically not going to result in much action. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 09:10 PM |
| 29 | My AI photos are working...He's trying to sell you some bullshit lol | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Even if dating apps were majority women, they results would still be the sameDating apps don't suck for women lol The women who complain about dating apps will just swipe on exclusively top 10% guys despite being average themselves and then complain about how those men only want to fuck them, like no shit lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:45 PM |
| – | Man sues 27 women in an 'Are We Dating the Same Guy' Facebook groupWhen they evolve to be less horny and thus less willing to deal with women's bullshit, aka never | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone noticed that pick-me women are always single? Why is that?Again, I don't think there is a large contingency of men looking for desperate women who will pretend to have the qualities they are looking for. And any men among such a group are probably so low value that the pick-me women aren't interested in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:15 AM |
| – | As a man I honestly can't see whats unattractive about short men.From a purely biological standpoint being overweight and being short can both be seen as evolutionary disadvantages so it makes sense that women would view short men the way you view obese women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone noticed that pick-me women are always single? Why is that?For one, a pick me is not a woman who shouts about how traditional and submissive they are. A pick me is just a woman who shouts about traits that they perceive as being generally desirable to men, whatever they may be. And for two, when a woman feels the need to broadcast all their perceived positive traits it simultaneously makes them look desperate and it makes them seem disingenuous. Even if those specific traits ARE desirable it makes it seem like the woman is only pretending to have them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone noticed that pick-me women are always single? Why is that?Do men complain about not being able to find pick mes? I can't say I've ever heard that before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Is the guy just playing with me? Why guy can refuse giving his phone?He's keeping you on the backburner and doesn't want you bothering him outside of work. Stop giving him the time of day. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 01:20 AM |
| 3 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioYou need to reread everything I've said because you are completely missing the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:21 AM |
| 4 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioYou are strawmanning people who claim the friendzone doesn't exist by attacking a different claim from what they are making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:13 AM |
| 1 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioThe thing is I don't think anybody denies the first version, only the second version. So you're kinda strawmanning in a way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:56 AM |
| 3 | How can I (M20s) deal with conflict without cutting people off?Why are you hanging out with people who do that? Is it the same people, or do you somehow consistently find yourself in the presence of these types? | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 04:52 AM |
| 5 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioThe thing is there are two main ways that the friendzone is often described, one is simply when a person tells you they only want to be friends, which is obviously real. The other is the idea that a women will choose not to pursue a romantic relationship with someone she's friends with on that basis alone, when all else being equal she would have. This version is more dubious. Although there are almost certainly cases where this happens the reality is that the overwhelming majority of the time t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:49 AM |
| 4 | How can I (M20s) deal with conflict without cutting people off?Might help if you gave an example of what you are talking about but frankly it sounds like you need therapy. | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you all deal with rejection burnout?Are you getting rejected every time? If so you are probably doing something wrong. Try to go out with a friend who will give you honest advice on your approach, style, energy, etc. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 10:53 PM |
| 5 | How come so many guys do not want to go to clubs to get women, even though that is the easiest option?There is no easiest way for most men, it's going to depend on the individual. I'd say generally it's some kind of social environment that fits your interests. If you don't have anything like that then OLD and mutual friends is the easiest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 01:03 AM |
| 8 | How come so many guys do not want to go to clubs to get women, even though that is the easiest option?The club is not the easiest way for most men. It's an environment where women can afford to be incredibly picky so if you aren't above average attractiveness and confident enough to approach and constantly get rejected it can be incredibly difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 12:31 AM |
| 20 | How come so many guys do not want to go to clubs to get women, even though that is the easiest option?Because not every guy is looking for the type of girl who goes to the club. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 12:25 AM |
| 24 | Seduce my flatmate ?Guys are easy, just ask if he wants to be casual fuck buddies. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 10:10 PM |
| -4 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimTrue, the girls grinding their ass into me and making out with me were just being friendly. I obviously misread their interest. Nevermind the fact that 20 other girls have done the exact same thing and the only difference is they were either alone at the club or their friend(s) were also looking for guys to dance/hook up with so they had no reason to interfere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Need advice on escalating?Bars, the club, even just straight up ask to hook up. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 08:03 AM |
| 9 | Need advice on escalating?If it's a bar just ask if she wants to leave with you. It's a little more awkward if it's a coffee date or something but if your primary goal is to hook up you shouldn't be looking for coffee dates anyway. | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 01:04 AM |
| 6 | how do people even make conversation in loud bars and clubs?You aren't supposed to have conversations. Girls at the club aren't going to be convinced by words anyway, they are either into you or they aren't. | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 05:18 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather have a high value person of the opposite sex tell you that they like you but don’t want physical intimacy with you, or would you rather have sex with a high value person of the opposite sex who obviously doesn’t like you?youre the one getting cummed in You say that like it's a bad thing. Believe it or not some girls actually like casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What’s your process and mindset when you go to bars/clubs alone?I've been going solo to the club for about 6 months now after some friends convinced me to go clubbing with them a few times. I actually do go out alone, stay completely sober, and dance alone in the hopes of finding a girl who wants to dance (and hopefully eventually more). I typically cast a wide net and be willing to constantly show obvious interest in every girl who catches your eye in the hope they'll recipocrate some level of interest. The reality is that any girl you approach has probably… | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Need help getting women (24m)I get comments such as “you’re not my type” “I’m a lesbian” “I’m with my friends”. FWIW I'm tall attractive guy and I get those last two the vast majority of the time as well. The reality is that most girls don't go to the club to meet guys and the ones who do have a ton of options because the ratio of men to women is heavily skewed once you account for who is actually there to interact with the opposite sex. Frankly I very rarely see averaging looking guys have any luck because any woman who pu… | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 07:11 AM |
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