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Curious what shattered your ego? That's rough experience, although it's happened to me, and it was what I needed to get into a much better place in life. Hope that's the case for you. There are a few things you can do to avoid getting friend zoned, It's been decades now but it use to happen to me. Give me some details about what the girls are saying to you, or what you're doing. If you really do have real confidence I can tell you how to avoid it in the future. Happy to help if you'd like, It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:37 AM
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Being delusional about confidence isn't the same thing as having real confidence. That was your problem. Hope you figure it out man. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:45 PM
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Good luck brother. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:47 AM
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Actually, no. The anger and frustration of not understanding what motivates women and why they do what they do. Once you understand them, a lot of the frustration goes away and there is no need to be angry. Just act accordingly. I gotta run, if you wanna talk about it, you know where to find me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:43 AM
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Actually Im not a white night at all and I deal with men everyday who are going what you are going through. Anyway, good talk. We aren't going to agree but thats ok. Hope you have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:39 AM
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Im making assumptions based on what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:32 AM
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Jesus, do you guys actually date women or just sit around in your mom's basement watching Rollo and the whatever podcast. I can 100% tell you that the attitude you have is why women aren't interested in you. It's pussy repellent and shows a severe lack of confidence. I couldn't imagine waling through life with this mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:17 AM
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This is absolutely not true, if anything, it's the other way around. Men will go years with a bitchy wife and no sex. A woman will not do the same. I'd argue that either side should address the situation and either come to an agreement or move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:14 AM
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Ya, I use my real name here man. You're thinking about it from an anonymous point of view. Anyway, thanks for the reply. Hope you have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:51 AM
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What do I have to gain by lying about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:42 AM
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This is somewhat true but I know guys that are fat and jowly who can walk up to a table of ten women and have them laughing inside of 2 minutes. It really is how you carry yourself. If you got the look and you are socially awkward, you're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:26 AM
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Average, not super attractive. He has game though, and women through out their list of demands when he starts working his magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:14 AM
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Fair enough, Good talk man. Hope you have a great day! Take care....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 06:21 AM
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Did you read the OP? Come on man, we both now what time it is. That's not what I meant anyway. Guys wanna believe that the reason they can't get none(sex, relationship, or women's attention) is because of women and not their own attitude. It's easier to blame the "other." All of you could slay if you just shifted your perspective a little bit. It's so easy, but you guys just wanna keep slamming your dick in the door arguing with women about how they shouldn't feel the way they do. How's that wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:27 AM
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It succeeded at validating some guys biases that women are the problem. Not them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:03 AM
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It failed at both
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:17 AM
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5'9" You guys gotta let that go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:01 AM
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All of the above actually. The guy I learned a lot of this from could do it all. He's married successfully with a kid now. But before he was, he had his choice of women. He's not rich, he's kinda balding, and he drove a Subaru. He has unshakable confidence. Women love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:52 AM
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You're equating a complex political problem with red pill rhetoric. But to that end, Trump has confidence, thank you for making my point. If you think you have women on the run and they are suddenly going to admit that men are "right" because Andrew or Myron "hold WOMEN accountable using LOGIC"....I'll see you at the second coming. You aren't spreading awareness, you're spreading negitivity. Another thing women find unattractive. Women aren't your enemy, you are. Once you understand why women do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:30 AM
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There's no shame in being lonely, I've been there, but complaining about it on reddit solves exactly nothing. If fact, it just perpetuates it. Nothing is more attractive than confidence. If you don't have it, it won't matter how good looking or rich you are. Men who succeed look for solutions, those who don't look for excuses. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:42 AM
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I don't think you understand the meaning of the word worry. The whole post is incel rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:19 AM
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Women want a confident man most of all. There is nothing confident about this OP, and those studies are all kinds of whack. Being attractive and having money can open some doors but it won't keep her happy for long. I know lots of really good looking guys who can't hold it together for very long and they get dumped. All the guys I know who do best with women aren't that attractive at all. If she finds you half way attractive you have a chance if you know what you're doing. You can build attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:59 AM
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You've been watching way too much red pill content young man. Those guys are wounded men that never really figured out that how to make women feel feminine. They are angry dudes that think they are never wrong and seek out females to validate that shit, so they don't have to heal their own wounds. Is there some truth to it, yes there is. Are all women as extreme as the women they have on those shows, fuck no. Not by a damn sight. Since I did my own work I never run into those types of women. Bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:34 AM
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All of them are grounds for dismissal and show a lack of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:39 AM
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Yes, that was over a long period of time and did take a lot of planning and foresight. The assumption was "The average guy can't drop everything and go to a different country to drive their classic corvette up and down the PCH." I worked hard for that, I didn't just drop everything. It was over a period of many years. I'm 52 man, took a lot of hard work to learn these lessons. Anyway, you've been cool to talk to. No harm, no foul! Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:14 PM
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I don't have time to write it all out. I just have a browser open and I post in between calls and writing blogs and scripts. Fat guy had game, I keep trying to tell you it's more about how you feel about yourself. Women can feel it, it puts them at ease. Few men can do it so it's rare, when they find that guy it's like a unicorn to them. Women will return in kind. If they feel good they will give it back to you. If you make them feel shit, thats what you're gonna get. If you can do it, the sky's…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:43 AM
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I agree, he has a point, but so what, dwelling on it is helping him how? Work with what you have until you can do better. I've already said this but it's not pickup game, I don't teach that. It's attraction principals, and they work in all levels of relationships. You either like my style or you feel it's condescending. Not everyone is gonna want to work with me or like what I have to say. A lot guys just don't want to hear that they are the problem. They'd be liberated though, if they were will…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:28 AM
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Yoda ended up getting married and has a kid now. All the women he was with wanted him and he had his choice of suitors. What are you driving at? I feel like I've answered you best I can. At this point it seems like you want to debunk me to validate you point of view. You seem to already have a narrative that you are attached to. Ask direct and I'll answer the best I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:50 AM
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In the case of fat and funny, he made them laugh and it made them feel safe. He was comfortable with himself, so it made them feel comfortable with him. Think about it, she is letting you inside her, imagine how safe you'd have to feel to let someone do that to you. She isn't going to let you do that just because you want her too. You have to see it from their point of view. They love the feeling of femininity, it makes them feel sexy. If you make her feel that way she will associate that feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:19 AM
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It's hard to say but he is a fun guy to be around. He makes them feel safe, and they want to please him. It use to make me envious..lol.Until I figured out what he was doing. It was natural to him, he didn't need to try. Same with Yoda, I was young and he tried to explain it to me but I was to stubborn to accept reality and it use to make me mad. Once I got over that the doors opened for me. Among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:54 AM
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Big dick...lol . That's you thinking like a guy. You have to understand women from their perspective. Once you see it, it's like a eureka moment and they make perfect sense. Like I said, women only care about how you make them feel. Those guys just understand how to make women feel safe and feminine. Don't underestimate a woman's need to feel safe. Those guys also really like women, they accept that they feel a certain way and they like it. It make makes them feel good too. They don't spend any …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:06 AM
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The best ladies men I know aren't all that. One is fat and jowly and as threesomes with really hot girls.....foursomes sometimes. Another one is 5'8", balding, works for the city, and drives a Subaru. The guy is the fucking Yoda of game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:40 PM
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No it's not, and it never will be. No matter how many times that gets repeated. Women have a billion times more options, they don't need to learn how to pick up men. If you think that is gonna change any time soon, I'll see you at the second coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:34 PM
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Doing nice things is not what Im talking about. Making her feel attraction and desire is what Im talking about. Most guys don't know how to do it. Looks can help get you in the door but it won't keep a woman interested for long. I give up on you guys, Im even getting downvoted. Some of you just want to complain and be stuck. I'm out, good luck, I sincerely hope everything works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:31 PM
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You're interpreting it as preaching because Im challenging you viewpoint. It's information that could change your perspective and make your life happier. If you don't like it, stop replying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:26 PM
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You choose to see it that way and you'll never get out of there rut you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:39 PM
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Sometimes, depends on how you carry yourself. I've seen those guys totally fucking bomb as soon as they opened their mouths. You have to understand women from their point of view. Once you see it, you wonder why you missed it. It'll change your life and a lot of frustration will dissipate. If you can make her feel all warm and fuzzy inside(feminine) her bullshit list of attributes she thinks she wants goes out the window and you're in. All you have to do is not fuck it up. It can be learned but …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:38 PM
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You'd be very wrong about that. All gorgeous, high functioning women. You're very mistaken in your view of what women want my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:33 PM
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That's on dating apps where all there is to go from is a picture. Women aren't as fussy about looks as men think they are. All the man whores I know are average looking at best. Below average sometimes and they get with really hot women. Women care more about how you make them feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:49 AM
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Bullshit, Women care how you make them feel, they don't care how you feel about them. If you make them feel good they will fall for you. It's not about how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:47 AM
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This is totally not true, You've been brainwashed. All of the real ladies men I know are average looking, make average money, and drive average cars. They also really like women, and don't complain about modern women or hypergamy, or any other bullshit. They make it work for them. Get off the internet man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:46 AM
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"There are no facts just public opinion" - Tyler Durdan
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:44 AM
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Only if you let her. It's up to you to carry yourself in a way that commands respect. No one is going to save you but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:42 AM
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Sounds like you just have low confidence, there is a path out of that if you're willing to do the work. If you're not, You'll get more of the same. being attractive to women is a state of being and it's not even that hard once you get over the hump(no pun intended) Is so liberating to know you can do it though and the blueprint has been around since the dawn of time. When you're ready it'll show up for you. You'll do the work and wonder how you could have ever felt the way you do now. Head high …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:41 AM
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I dont disagree, Im saying it would be better for your own personal mental health and quality of life if you let it go and stop concerning yourself with any of it. You'll notice it's blown out of proportion on the internet and not really like that in real life. The double standard has always been there, it always will be there for a number of reasons. Many things in life aren't fair. So it goes. Men have lots of advantages, focus on those and make it work for you. I love being a man, wouldn't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:36 AM
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I agree with that(Working on yourself for you) I don't think everything gets blamed on men by default. Women do seem get a pass on some things but it's not as bent out of shape as some would like you to believe. Waiting for it to change is a fruitless endeavour. Best to just accept it and work with what you have. It's not so bad, as men, at least we can piss standing up. So there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:16 AM
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I do not specialize in pick-up game. I teach attraction, the principals can be applied to any stage of a relationship. I guide men to the best version of themselves, attraction and healthy relationships are a consequence of that. It's my purpose in life, more than just a job. And yes, it works for them if they do the work. Women are easy to understand. Once you see it, they make perfect sense. My longest relationship was 12 years. We didn't stay together for various reasons. I maintain a healthy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:57 AM
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Ok, well good luck with that. You could shift your perspective a little bit and it would help you so much, I use to think like you at one time. You'd be better off spending all your time working on yourself, and stop worrying about what women think. Women are actually attracted to that. See at the second coming, my good man! I'm outta this one!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:47 AM
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Actually, it works best for long term relationships but you actually have to know how to do the work. Im gonna be honest with you guys - you don't understand women. You think you do, but you don't. Anyway, I'm out. Hope you get it figured out. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:41 AM
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Alright man, you're dedicated to your point of view, I'll give you that. My work is done here, I hope everything works out for you. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:33 AM
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lol, anyway, ya I've done that many, many times. A man waits patiently for her to reveal the question. It creates attraction and you can avoid the very thing you are complaining about. But, you know, you do you. Let me know how it works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:08 AM
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Fair enough, I believe he should show his solution in his actions consistently, every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:38 AM
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I disagree, it's all in how you do it. Blubbering mess, no. Tell her how you feel without apology, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:36 AM
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I asked the OP that question because it sounds like red pill talking points that get repeated so many times people think they are all indisputable facts. I was wondering if he was one of those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:13 PM
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There is a difference between being vulnerable and emotionally dumping on a woman. I think thats what a lot of guys do and they scare a woman off. She doesn't feel safe with a guy like that. To be honest, I don't like it when a woman does that to me, it shows a lack of self control and an unstable personality. I've not had great experiences with women like that. People need to get their sh!t together before they get into a relationship. Nothing shines a glaring light on all your issues like an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:48 PM
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Im not sure what you mean by his experience being so much more valid. More valid that what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:19 PM
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it has nothing to do with his sex, its about attraction. it's no ones fault, it just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:17 PM
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If you're being yourself, and you like yourself, she will feel that and associate a positive feeling with you. If you aren't being yourself and can't maintain the facade, she'll figure it out and lose attraction for you. Women don't care how you feel about them, they care how you make them feel. Huge difference. There is no blame. It's just the way it is, always has been, always will be. It's like waiting for the second coming if you think it's gonna change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:08 PM
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Yes, I just said the same thing. He's pushing the pace of the relationship and probably coming off as clingy and needy or overly aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:49 PM
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Your mistake is asking them to be in a relationship. Wait for her to ask you, right around 8 weeks she'll say something like, "so what are we?" then you ask her to qualify that. If you make a woman feel good when she's around you she'll give up just about everything for that feeling. Women don't leave men they are in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:41 PM
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Is this something you've actually experienced or just heard about on YouTube?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:22 PM
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Not sure I understand what you're saying. Can you expand on that thought? What is your current business?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:22 AM
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Usually people that have success don't feel the need to go online and post things like that. It can speak to a deeper issue. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:09 AM
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Well, whats the problem then? You seem kinda angry about this whole thing.... I'm genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:03 AM
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Your initial post reads a lot more than, "not a glowing review." I sounds like it's written by a guy who can't get a girl to look at him and is angry about it. I'm just saying how it comes off. Sounds like you have some resentment int here. You wanna talk about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:50 PM
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Then why did you start this thread? It has a bitter tone to it. You've got good return on your dates, whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:37 PM
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This hasn't been my experience at all. The guys I know who do best with women aren't chads.They are average guys, average height, some are less than average looks. Al of them l knew how to make them feel good when they were around. Ive also see really good looking guys screw things up when they started talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:31 PM
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Well, seems like you have an answer for everything then. Hope you have a good day, good luck on your quest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:13 PM
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Oh you betcha. People are more sensitive to their feelings than they like to admit. They may not really know why they like you but they feel good when you're around and that's more than enough. If you make them feel like shit, uncomfortable, or give them anxiety they will remember that too and they just won't want to be around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:15 AM
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That's your first hurdle I guess. There are lots of ways to meet women but you have to be willing to get rejected without it making you angry or resentful. It's a numbers game. But it starts the minute you meet her. How you carry yourself, your demeanour toward her. Woman are SUPER sensitive to your energy. Women care how you make them feel, not how you feel about them. You have to make her feel good, then she will associate that feeling with you. Women make perfect sense to me now, but I had to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:48 AM
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If you know how to make her feel god when you're around she'll over look all your flaws and throw her list out the window. You don't' have to be flawless, you just need to understand women, if you do you're ahead of 90% of the guys out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:01 AM
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It's nothing like that. Is that generational thing or just reddit. Where people assign their own meaning to a post and act like its a quote? They have been hot their whole life, men have kissed their asses and no one has ever told them no. Imagine what you'd be like if you had that all your life. They get entitled and impossible to please. I'll pass, been there and have the scars to show for it. But you guys will have to learn the hard way I suppose. I'll take the girl next door and day of the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:39 AM
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lol. good one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:16 PM
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Ive had 9s and 9.5s and they were the biggest pain in the ass to be with. You think you want them if you've never had them, then you get them and it's just bullshit from he beginning. Ill pass. I like a good looking woman but she's gotta be cool too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:53 AM
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sure, if that makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:57 PM
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True, and it does happen, but not as often as the internet wants you to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:35 AM
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Sounds like it's all good man, don't worry about it. Most men are on a pussy embargo. You got so much they think your gay if you don't ask them out. Most women do and say shit they don't mean. It's just the way it is. Always has been , always will be, let it go. You might as well slam your dick in the door if you think it's gone change anytime soon, you won't be needing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:38 AM
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Don't worry about it, it is what it is. Life isn't fair. Spend your time working on yourself, then you won't be one of those guys women complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:25 AM
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I use to be a bouncer in a bar in my 20s and I saw some wild shit that I wouldn't even be able to talk about here. One night I got cornered by a group of fat chicks and they were basically going to assault me. I gave them the look, so they'd know I drop them all if they tried. They backed off, I didn't even need to speak. Anyway, when the metoo movement happened, at first, I was offended. It seemed so one sided. Then I realized, I NEVER felt physically threatened even when those hogs ganged up o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:20 AM
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Same here man, good to hear you're doing well. Keep up the good work!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:30 AM
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It's not the same thing for men. I know what you're talking about though. I did a talk on how women leave the relationship emotionally before they physically leave and guys don't understand why. I guess you'd have to be a man to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:29 AM
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I hope you're doing well now brother. Some of us had to learn the hard way, the story of gen x . ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:57 PM
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Not at all, just a lesson from my own life. If you are argumentative it's usually because you feel like you aren't being heard. It took me a long time to figure out how to be heard, it was frustrating. Arguing makes people tense and on guard, no one will listen to someone who's yelling. How you make someone feel is so much more important than the words you use. This is especially true with women. Ironically, learning to understand women taught me how to be heard. It also taught me a lot about my…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:00 AM
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Actually I'd argue the opposite. If you DON'T stand up for yourself the relationship won't last. She won't have respect for you, she'll get contemptuous, criticise and start fights to see if you've got any balls. Men don't often don't have the option of being heard or understood through their words. We have to do it through out actions. Setting boundaries and sticking to them. Don't get mad or argue with her. State your business. Be firm be strong and don't tolerate abuse but don't be a dickhead…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:50 AM
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I have, too many times to count. I use to work in a bar in my 20s called big daddy's. It was basically a real life roadhouse. There are guys that go out just for the sole purpose of starting fights. They are there every weekend doing the same thing over and over. They love it, it's their hobby. Its always the same guys and it was satisfying watching them get punched out once in a while by starting something with the wrong guy. Rarely did an innocent person get lumped by another guy, it's almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:01 AM
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Fair enough, I just don't think it's as much a factor as most guys think it is. Women care how a man makes them feel more than anything. Looks are more down on the list then they are for men. Most guys think they understand women but they have no idea whats going on. Learning to understand women changed the game for me. Honestly, black pill sounds worse than red pill. I had to look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:49 AM
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The best ladies man I ever met was 5'8" and balding. He wrecked more vaginas than I've had hot meals. Another friend is fat, jowly, around 5'10" and he has had more threesomes with hot chicks than I can count. I couldn't get with those girls one on one. Im not ugly, or short and I make shit tons of money. When I changed my perspective, I started getting high calibre women. I could go on for at least a dozen more examples. I could give you examples of "Chads" that ick girls out and they can't get…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:14 AM
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If a girl is into you she will be good to go after the second or third date in my experiences. The girls who want to make you wait a month or more are a total pain the ass and usually have some weird control issues. They aren't fun to be around and I got no candy for them. After three dates, if she isn't good to go, there's a good chance she is going to try and friend zone you, of just jerk you around making you jump through hoops. It's down hill from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:03 AM
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It's not an insult, it's an observation and Im genuinely curious why you feel the way you do. When somebody post something like that, or feels like that, it usually stems from an insecurity or they feel attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:02 AM
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You're acting how people act when they feel attacked. That's why I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:54 AM
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"You want a girl who’s not shallow? Have a good personality and she’ll most likely not be hot." This is absolutely not true, there are lots of cool hot girls out there. Your world view is subjective, it isn't a matter of objective fact. I don't disagree with a lot of what you said, but to be honest, you come off as bitter and angry. I wonder if you embody some of the things that men complain about and that's why you're so aggressive about this. Do you feel attacked? I'm curious, genuine. People …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:57 AM
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I don't agree with this, it's a stupid narrative pushed by the red pill guys to get clicks. I like women in their 30s and 40s. I think they are more attractive. Women in their early mid 20s look like kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:23 AM
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Fair enough, gonna have to disagree with you my friend. Thats ok though, can't agree with everyone. Good luck, take care and happy new year. May all your dreams come true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:01 AM
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The only thing that makes it ok is the agreement between the two adults involved in the in the interaction. The fact that you put a dollar amount on your ethics speaks to your character. Not in a good way. It makes your stance weak. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:50 AM
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So if she does it of her own volition, it's exploitive for men to have sex with them, because mens genitals go in her......but if they pay her a "shit ton" of money it's less bad? Correct? So money makes its "not ok" but "more ok" than if she does it of her own volitions but doesn't get payed as much? Is that correct? Im not into prostitutes, Id never pay for it, but your logic has some holes in it. Just sayin'
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:56 AM
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But it's ok if she's making a shit load of money? Just trying to understand your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:21 AM
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What part are you having trouble with?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:19 AM
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Im curious what you'd consider a misogynist? Genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:46 AM
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I accidentally ran across a sort of red pill woman page one time. The comments were almost word for word the same as men's red pill pages. Just swap the word woman for man. Who's right? It all seems like a bunch of wounded people validating their biases. Honestly this isn't new stuff. Tom Lykkis was doing this in the 90s. He would outright say it was for ratings. Also, there is no "modern women"- those types have always existed. As it is, as it's always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:38 AM
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It's not exploitive if she is doing it of her own volition. Not all women think they are victims. Its kinda bizarre that you think it's ok if the girl is making, "shit loads of money."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:59 AM
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You won't get any disagreement from me on that one. You try to be the person you want to be with. Like attracts like, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:01 AM
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I genuinely wanted to know your position. I think I have a good idea now, thanks. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:14 AM
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Awesome, me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:25 AM
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Ha! Ive done my time my good man. 12 years and a couple of 5ers. Nice try though. Good luck, Brother. Much love
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:48 PM
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No Im not, I do have a long term girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:24 PM
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Well, Im gonna have to disagree with you but thats ok. Good luck to you. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:23 PM
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I'm curious, is it a problem to want an attractive partner? Genuine. Men can have preferences, cant they?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:29 AM
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This is a victim mentality my man. Women can't take advantage of you unless you let them. An old guy once told me, "son, in this life, you get exactly what you are willing to tolerate."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:26 AM
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You're not talking about healthy masculinity, you're talking about an exaggerated misunderstood version of masculinity. Some people call it toxic masculinity. I just say, "that dude a dickhead." Toxic men, sure. Masculinity is divine. Women can teach us a lot about our own masculinity. I think if the person who asked the other person out should pay the bill. That's usually the man. Honestly, I don't guys should be dating if they can't take a woman out for a drink at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:22 AM
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I think you misunderstood what I wrote. I completely understand women, they make perfect sense to me and I love the shit out of them. Actually, understanding women helped me understand masculinity much better than I ever could have without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:14 AM
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Rock on, Brother. See you on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:58 AM
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Where you getting that from? I think we may just have different view on life my friend. If you're happy, good for you. Im gonna pull the chute on this one, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:47 AM
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"What makes you believe it’s the women you attract and not women in general?" My experience engaging in a life of observation and trial by error, my good man. I don't attract those types of women anymore. In fact, the women I know are beautifully feminine and worthy of a good man. I'm also old enough to know you can't generalize an entire gender by the actions of some.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:28 AM
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What Im saying is; if those are the types of women we are attracting, then it might be time to look at our own behaviour. Thats the only thing we can control, so why not focus on that? Most of these guys have a vetting problem, not a women problem. I found a red pill for women page one time by accident and the comments were almost word for word the same as men's red pill....lol. Both sides are just lobbing bombs back and forth, blaming each other for their poor choices. Who's experience it "righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:53 AM
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In my experience they aren't objective at all and totally biased to their own experience. Which has everything to do with them and nothing to do with women. People, especially women, will meet you where you are in life. Kinda like looking into a mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:17 AM
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That's true but I have a lot of experience with women and relationships and most of those guys are so far off track they can't see that they are their own worst enemy. I understand the attraction to red pill but it'll do you more harm than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:57 AM
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Female nature seen through the lens of hurt males that don't understand women. I get why red pill has become this way but it's just turned into women hating jerry springer show designed to validate and perpetuate some men's anger and outrage. They sure have figured out how to get clicks and keep guys coming back for more. A dopamine reward channel. There's some value to it but it can be extremely misleading. I like whores and I like good girls. I like women in general. I wouldn't marry a whore t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:54 AM
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Except they are not objective truths. They are opinions based on some peoples experiences that are presented as objective truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:50 AM
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This is not true but I understand why you think that. However, it's a gross generlization. I think we need to stop saying men and women and start saying masculine and feminine. It would clear up a lot of the noise. BTW - I don't think women are crazy, I think they make perfect sense once you take time to understand them from a feminine point of view. Doing so opens a mans true healthy masculinity and makes him more attractive to women. Its a beautiful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:28 AM
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Anytime we try to believe something outside ourselves is the problem it can be an opportunity to uncover the problem within ourselves.....if we choose to look, that is. I guess if you have a problem, you're the problem, as the old saying goes. It's the only thing you can control so all of your energy should be focused there. IMO of course. The divorce rate is 40% to 50% and has been going down over the last decade contrary to popular lore. Personally, I don't believe in marriage but thats becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:24 AM
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I personally think we need to start thinking in terms of masculine and feminine, rather than men and women. It'll stop a lot of the arguments that get dragged into the weeds of gender and biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:16 AM
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