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They're not settling. They can't be settling if what they want doesn't want them. That's just a girl whose standards are too high. I think you may wanna read up more on sex or talk to more women. I'll let a woman correct me if I'm wrong but most women have higher difficulty achieving orgasm from vaginal penetration than clitoral stimulation. And most aren't wanting to get pounded out by a giant dick, it actually hurts them if it goes too far. Just like guys, a lot of girls talk a big game. They'…
/r/seduction09/07/21 12:01 AM
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Fax. One of week of no porn or jacking off and you'll feel like a horny teenager. I like the guidelines suggested in Models: Once a week at most Must fantasize about someone you met in real life Keeps you from being the lethargic from overdoing it and prevents porn from distorting your standards.
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:25 PM
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Both of them are
/r/seduction25/06/21 03:53 PM
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Strongly disagree, it seems that either gender can catch feelings.
/r/seduction02/05/19 02:53 AM
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I wouldn't even try later. Hang with some other girls and she won't be on your mind. Seeing you with other girls might make her jealous. But don't post stuff with the explicit desire of pissing her off. Just do your own thing.
/r/seduction29/04/19 06:16 PM
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This is the way to go. Go out, have fun, talk to other girls, and if she sees you partying with them and wants to hit you up, that's a win win for you.
/r/seduction29/04/19 04:49 PM
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Fair enough. Though your final sentence about working toward things that matter could apply to men working toward meaningful relationships with women.
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:12 PM
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Missing the point. If you get the number, there's a possibility. If you don't approach, it's 100% no.
/r/seduction29/04/19 01:54 PM
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If that's really how you feel, then why are you here? You would not be following your model of 0% wasting time and 100% self improvement.
/r/seduction29/04/19 01:52 PM
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It's 2019, I don't think asking for or adding women on social media makes her view as any less of a sexual/romantic option. People chat thru text and Snapchat. Plus, we're talking about women, if they're interested, they're gonna find your social media anyways.
/r/seduction05/04/19 11:36 PM
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Have you considered that maybe she actually has a boyfriend and is faithful?
/r/seduction04/04/19 08:30 PM
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Would it not be better then to masturbate without porn? This would curb some of the desperation without also having porn's negative effects.
/r/seduction04/04/19 08:27 PM
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It depends from guy to guy, but for some guys it helps them not see the chick purely from a sexual standpoint. I compare it to eating a cliff bar before going to the grocery store. It ain't gonna fully satisfy you, but it will help to prevent you from making a bad impulse decision.
/r/seduction04/04/19 08:23 PM
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I think you're still missing where I'm coming from. I'm talking about a sexual context, not a general one. I'm also trying to draw a parallel between the way women act toward men and the way men act toward women in sexual situations. No one is saying to stop talking to someone if you consider them unattractive. However, if it becomes uncomfortable (in the case of a gay guy or unattractive women being too persistent), then naturally someone would take steps to remove themselves from the conversat…
/r/seduction04/04/19 07:47 PM
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I think you're missing my point. For one, her grinding on you could've been a dare by her friends. It's weird, but I've seen shit like that where girls grind on an old dude for fun. However, for the sake of the argument, let's take grinding out of the mix. If an unattractive fat chick tries to hit on you, chances are you're gonna find a way to end the conversation and move on. No matter what she does, wears, or says, you're not gonna be interested. Now if a hot chick starts hitting on you and ov…
/r/seduction04/04/19 06:41 PM
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C'mon man, you know that the general point of metoo is not to shame men for being men. The movement has gone too far in some cases, but the general message is that women are uncomfortable when men are overbearing. Generally women aren't thinking about metoo. Go out to a bar or restaurant and you'll see men and women continuing to go on dates and hook up, just like it always has.
/r/seduction04/04/19 04:50 PM
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The weird thing is that you haven't said anything wrong. There isn't one way of thinking around seduction. I'm like you. If a chick tells me she has a boyfriend, I may keep talking to her but most likely I'm gonna talk to someone else. That's not a game I wanna play, especially when there are a million other chicks who are more open to the idea of dating and won't put that barrier in front of you. Now if someone else wants to go after a chick who "has a boyfriend", that's on them.
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:50 PM
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Let's be real, dude, would you want a unattractive fat chick suddenly grinding on you in the club? No. But you'd probably be chill with it if some hot chick with a fat ass came up and did the same thing. Nobody's being a hypocrite. People just want to be around things/people they're attracted to.
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:02 PM
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Indicator of Disinterest
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:57 PM
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You ever met a girl who does that? Who says "I have boyfriend" to every guy she meets? If she likes a guy she will make herself available. If she says she has a bf, then move on to the next chick and quit wasting time with her.
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:57 PM
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Exactly. Fastest way to make a girl make a decision if she thinks that there's a chance she'll lose you. If she likes you, she'll make it a point to win you back.
/r/seduction03/04/19 07:37 PM
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Honestly, I think you're getting way ahead of yourself. Worrying about all that stuff is only gonna make it a reality. And so what it you cum quick? Apologize, pleasure her, and get ready for round 2. All the stuff you've mentioned, chances are she's experienced all of it. Every girl can tell you a story about a guy who came in 30 seconds or a guy who had whiskey dick. If she really likes you, she won't hold it against you the first time y'all have sex. Girls got their own shit to worry about an…
/r/seduction03/04/19 07:29 PM
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I wouldn't. It may not even be anything you did that hurt the date. It may be something happening in her life, maybe an ex came back into the picture, or maybe it actually was something you mentioned. But in any case, girls tend to try not to hurt guys' feelings so she may not tell you the truth if she thinks it's hurtful.
/r/seduction23/03/19 05:03 PM
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I mean, there's only so much you can do. If you pass the baton and your friend drops it, then that's it. You did your job. Maybe help them/hype them up before you get out to the bars so they're more confident going into the night.
/r/seduction23/03/19 04:55 PM
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And stats show that college educated women in their 20s are usually out performing college educated men in terms of pay. It is after 30 that college educated men begin to outpace college educated women. You're both correct. The gender wage gap is caused by women having children. At the same time, the reason women don't have to go back to work is partially because men don't value career ambition in women, so women working part time or becoming a stay at home mom doesn't hurt their attractiveness.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:00 PM
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I think you should reread the OP. There's a specific reason that we're not telling the girls to come over for sex.
/r/seduction21/02/19 03:34 PM
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It's precisely because they are unattractive that they have a higher partner count. These obese/overweight chicks are ignored at clubs until 1:45am, get no compliments and few dates, and are bombarded with tons of ads on all the different ways they are ugly. So in order to validate themselves they sleep with a ton of guys so they get a false feeling of being desired. It's why they co-opted the body acceptance movement so they can get the validation they never get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:37 PM
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I don't think men perceive less danger, they're just more risk taking and therefore are willing to roll the dice and face the consequences of their good or bad decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 06:31 PM
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Not true
/r/seduction24/04/18 09:46 AM
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You don't have to spend 3 hours at the gym, that's too much. A solid 1-1.5 hours gets the job done, just make sure to hit all the muscle groups.
/r/seduction17/04/18 07:28 PM
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Bro you're still very needy and results oriented. The way you wrote about yourself, it sounds like you only improved yourself because it would get you girls, not because your life would improve. You shouldn't be worried about how many girls you get, you should think about how you're gonna have a good time.
/r/seduction17/04/18 12:27 AM
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You're probably a confident attractive fun guy that women feel comfortable around. You also probably are calm and collected, don't get flustered much. In my experience, when a girl's asking if you're a player, she's started to fall for you but is afraid of getting hurt/wants to know more. She sees you as the kind of guy that gets lots of women but doesn't want to commit. Some girls will find that more attractive and try to win you over, others will avoid you because they don't want to get played…
/r/seduction11/04/18 11:05 PM
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Honestly, whatever you're doing is probably working.
/r/seduction11/04/18 08:13 PM
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Sounds like you're just describing volunteers. Why would anyone want to be called an SJW?
/r/seduction12/03/18 09:32 PM
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Yeah but OP seems like a stand up dude that isn't interested in that kind of stuf, just a genuine dude that's looking to avoid trouble. Chances are he won't have a problem but it's still something to be careful of due to its ramifications.
/r/seduction12/03/18 09:30 PM
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I'd ask"a valid excuse for what?" but you seem intent on not responding.
/r/seduction12/03/18 07:50 PM
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That's true but not really the point. The guy is asking how to protect himself from that type of situation. Are there women out there who will do something like that? Yes. How do you avoid them? By vetting them while dating. A false accusation isn't the only thing to watch out for. I had a friend whose ex threatened to kill herself and burn his house down if he broke up with her. There were some red flags he ignored early on because he was desperate. It is something that happens (at a lesser rat…
/r/seduction12/03/18 07:47 PM
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That's not really fair. Many men have no intention of assaulting a women and would be respectful of her wishes, but there are still bad men out there who will take advantage of women. Same goes for women. Most will not make a false accusation, but there are some who will spread false rumors and try to ruin someone's life. Stop perpetuating this idea that all women are angels. This is about good men protecting themselves from bad situations. There are tons of stories about men who were raped or f…
/r/seduction12/03/18 02:51 PM
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Stop either way. If it's a hard 'no', then you respect her boundaries and avoid a court case. If it's a soft 'no', then that's on her. She should be able to verbalize what she wants without ambiguity (or show it through nonverbal signals).
/r/seduction10/03/18 05:22 PM
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Exactly. Saying “Hello, I just wanted to say I think you’re beautiful” and chatting is not harassment. If she doesn’t wanna talk, she’ll let you know either directly or indirectly (through body language).
/r/seduction21/02/18 07:35 PM
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You realize that kind of stuff rarely happens to most guys? As long as you’re respectful to the girl, you’re good.
/r/seduction21/02/18 03:01 PM
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Like?
/r/seduction21/02/18 05:55 AM
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You actually do continue. You may start over with a new girl, but you learn from every experience you have.
/r/seduction21/02/18 05:51 AM
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What age difference would not be creepy?
/r/seduction17/02/18 06:08 PM
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I would’ve left out the second sentence. You didn’t need to explain yourself to her, she should already know that both of you are good to see whoever you want at this stage.
/r/seduction17/02/18 05:25 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with rating someone’s attractiveness. “Putting the pussy on the pedestal” simply means overvaluing the girl and not treating her like a regular person simply because she is a girl. His 3rd statement isn’t necessarily bad, lots of guys (and girls) do this. He shouldn’t suffer just to treat this girl well. There’s nothing wrong with hooking up with no intention of starting a relationship. Both men and women do this. As long as he doesn’t lead her on, there’s no harm. Unless y…
/r/seduction17/02/18 03:34 AM
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Nah they're checking you out man, you just don't what to look for. Chicks are a lot more subtle with their interest than guys. If you catch a chick making eye contact, hold it, and see what she does.
/r/seduction14/02/18 09:59 PM
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I suggest seeing a therapist man, ain’t nothing wrong with it. Sometimes you need someone’s help to get out of a funk. Concentrate on getting yourself good first then work on girls. Also, you’re 20 bro, super young. You got tons of time.
/r/seduction14/02/18 03:08 PM
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Music is a really good hobby man, you can actually talk to girls about it. Start telling yourself positive things and eventually you’ll start believing it. If you see a girl checking you out, think “yeah she thinks I’m hot”. It’ll reinforce the idea if you being attractive in your mind.
/r/seduction14/02/18 03:06 PM
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We’ve all been there, I’m cringing right now thinking of stuff I sent when I was younger.
/r/seduction14/02/18 03:00 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction14/02/18 02:57 PM
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If you're not the club type, what about a chill bar to hang at? People love to drink, maybe the people you play ice hockey with can join ya and y'all can talk to some girls.
/r/seduction14/02/18 06:04 AM
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Say what's on your mind. If you think she's cute, tell her. Tell her why you talked to her. Don't worry so much about what to say.
/r/seduction14/02/18 05:52 AM
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Read How Not to Give a Fuck by Mark Manson
/r/seduction14/02/18 05:49 AM
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Is he approaching all these chicks? Are you? You don’t know how many times he’s failed before he ended up sleeping with these girls. It may look like he’s a huge ladies man but he also could be striking out left and right.
/r/seduction13/02/18 10:37 PM
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Kinda. Women that are attracted to you will make a point to put themselves in your presence so that you will eventually acknowledge them. So him making it a point to work in himself improves his inner game and makes it easier to approach women because they will already be around him.
/r/seduction13/02/18 10:31 PM
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I like this one. At most, say "'Preciate the compliment" and talk about something else.
/r/seduction12/02/18 07:34 PM
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I wouldn't hook up with a roommate. With other chicks, if things get bad, you can just stop seeing her. With your roommate, there's nowhere to go.
/r/seduction07/02/18 03:05 PM
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It's not just race though. People don't tend to date too much outside their social status or economic class either. It's more about familiarity than anything else. A white guy that grew up around mostly black women would probably find black women more attractive. Show some of these guys a picture of Maria Taylor (ESPN analyst) and they'll drop that line.
/r/seduction27/12/17 08:04 AM
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Then you're agreeing with me.
/r/seduction27/12/17 06:33 AM
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I think what he's saying is that the white guys find the black chicks hot, but can't get over the fact that she's black. I've had a number of white guys tell me they could never date a black chick, and I believe part of that reason is that they've never had any real experience with a black girl/woman other than a few shows on TV and whoever gets interviewed for local news. It's not racist, it's just a lack of experience IMO.
/r/seduction27/12/17 06:14 AM
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I think I understand why you may be having some trouble. Southern women, especially black women, can be more strong-willed and independent than women in other places. There's definitely a subculture of "not needing a man to survive" in cities like that, so your approach is gonna be different than a city like Miami or Toronto, where international women come from South America & Asia, where women are deferential to men and are taught to follow men. You also need to understand that all women do not…
/r/seduction27/12/17 06:07 AM
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Interested
/r/seduction26/12/17 05:06 PM
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I usually try to have just 2-3 beers. It's enough to get you loose without being fully drunk.
/r/seduction21/12/17 02:56 PM
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