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| 0 | How to be the “goddess of fun and light” when it’s not your personality?I’m so glad. Do you trust your husband with your kids? It is so important to allow him time to bond with them and be needed by them. Doing too much for them could actually be hurting their relationship. Can you organise something outside the house for a small time? Even just walking alone around a park whilst you listen to a podcast or audiobook? You can bring a coffee from home. Tell your husband that you need to go out for an hour to exercise and that he needs to watch the kids. He will most l… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/24 12:38 AM |
| 6 | How to be the “goddess of fun and light” when it’s not your personality?Putting yourself at the center of this issue, the depression is what needs to be addressed, if these other two people disappeared it is still important that you are happy. Depression can kill you and destroy you physically. Have you spoken to a dr? Been referred for mental health help? For being a calm person that is you that is lovely don’t take that as an insult. Reading is a hobby, scrolling on your phone is not and you probably do it to avoid feeling anything or addressing your reality. Forc… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/24 09:29 PM |
| 1 | What defines controlling behavior?Replace your husband with a close girl friend, if she came to your house and put meat and no veggies on her plate, would you tease her? If your husband started teasing you for what you, an adult, chose to put on your plate would you feel he was trying to gently, coercively, control what you eat? Respect looks like trust, trust him to be an adult and choose his own plate. If you’re anxious about health do something to improve your plate, add more of your own vegetables, do added movement but don’… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/05/24 11:11 PM |
| 3 | My boyfriend watches a lot of RP content I disagree with and find kind of unsettlingI think if you directly ask he will feel controlled. Usually, in my experience, if you focus on the negative with men (don’t do this…) they want to do it all the more. It’s better that you focus on what you want him to do. Experiment by sending him a well researched, facts based video and tell him how much you would love him to watch it because you want to talk about it. If he does watch it, thank him in a way that’s genuine and sincere. It’s best to walk away from him if he starts watching the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend watches a lot of RP content I disagree with and find kind of unsettlingI married a man I was intellectually superior to and made it work. It sounds dumb/up-myself to say but I’m trying to make a point for intellectual incompatibility. He did better than me In high school and we ended up with the same career/similar degrees but he does not have a great ability to think for himself/think outside the box/think ahead. This isn’t something innate, his innate IQ is high, it’s something learned. He isn’t rp or anything he will just agree with anything/what he’s told/what’… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/23 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask for flowers or wait?Communicate. Men love getting women things and doing things for him. Make sure you thank him enthusiastically for everything he gets you before the date and compliment him for being so generous and sweet. Tell him outright you’re so excited and would love some flowers, add a bit about how flowers on special days make you feel. Then don’t mention it again. If he forgets, note that and move on. But if he does get you the flowers, even if they aren’t your favourite kind, be super grateful. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/23 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Please help - I don’t love when my husband is silly leading up to sexIt kills the vibe because it stems from insecurity. You can notice people do this in regular conversations: insecure people put on silly voices or make silly faces. Very secure (usually hot) people do not, they always speak in their regular voice, keep regular facial expressions and if they want to convey embarrassment they cover their faces or eyes. Telling him what you don’t want him to do will make him focus on what he’s doing wrong and make him more insecure. I suggest a two pronged approach… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/23 11:47 AM |
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