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| 5 | How to let her know I have a "big" dick without telling her?I've never known girls to respond well to "I have a big dick" If you're gonna hint at it at least be witty. You know when girls want to see your hand size compared to them? Yeah they just trying to touch you and also see your hand size if you catch my drift. You could tell her you're glad she has small hands so it will look even bigger. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The reason why this happens is really as much guys fault as the girls. What happens if someone get hundreds of options and likes on the very first day they make a profile because they're an even remotely good looking girl? Some of them will just not put in the effort. I mean why study for an exam if you can pass by just showing up? And can you really blame them, i don't think it's a conscious choice to be "lame" it's just a consequence of the dating market being saturated with desperate guys. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 11:09 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Like so many others mentioned we've always got that constant voice in the back of our head. "Don't be a creep, is this over the line? Am i going to far? Is she feeling unsafe?" Most of us would love to just TAKE THE LEAD but it is really hard to recover from reading a single signal wrong. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else turned off by tatted up hipster festival chicks who dress up in weird outfits & ghetto girls who smoke blunts and talk in AAVE?Can't say i've sampled enough to say if there is any truth to that but my ex gf has a ton of tats more than i like. But i was her second. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else turned off by tatted up hipster festival chicks who dress up in weird outfits & ghetto girls who smoke blunts and talk in AAVE?Well i don't mind prostate play but that's an entirely different discussion 🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 08:19 AM |
| 15 | Anyone else turned off by tatted up hipster festival chicks who dress up in weird outfits & ghetto girls who smoke blunts and talk in AAVE?Yes i like girls that are more natural, few if no tatoos or piercings wears dresses and skirts daily etc. I even found one she's great. That being said everyone has their types and some guys probably dig the hispster tatted up girls. It's a free world people like what they like and do what they want to do with their own bodies. You're not racist or a boomer but you do sound arrogant as fuck to be honest. And you're bashing these girls because they don't fit into your world view. If you have thes… | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 08:07 AM |
| 0 | Survey for the boys: How many women are a 7+Probably less than 10% attractiveness probably follows a normal distribution so a bell curve graph and most people are in the 4-6 range with maybe 10-15% in the 1-4 and 7-10 regions | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Anyone of them heard you talk like this suddenly they'd consider you "date down" | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that many men in Muslim countries have sex with other men due to gender segregation and sexual repression? But that Muslim women do not have sex with other women anywhere near as much?Look into prison studies I'm sure you've heard of don't drop the soap. Should be able to find something on if on Google of Google scholar | /r/seduction | 09/05/21 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell her I am a virginYou don't get your way and you turn to insults. The hallmark of an insecure man. | /r/seduction | 04/12/20 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell her I am a virginYeah. But it's not a competition. I'm glad I lost it as an adult. Although I did loose it to someone who was a horrible partner. | /r/seduction | 04/12/20 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell her I am a virginI was 22 when I lost my virginity | /r/seduction | 04/12/20 05:18 AM |
| 0 | Should I tell her I am a virginI told a few when I was.. many of them actually wanted to take my V-card they wanted to be my first cause they knew they would rock my world so I think yeah.. go for it. | /r/seduction | 03/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with the consent issue, while staying in frameI've always asked. And I only get good responses. Probably should have let you guys in on it earlier. Works for kissing too, asking the girl will leave a good impression. Unless she is one of those who needs a statue of smouldering intensity and has daddy issues. | /r/seduction | 29/11/20 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here try getting professional photos taken for Tinder/dating apps?If you don't want to hire a photographer if you have a friend who owns a decent camera with a 1,4-2,0 aperture 50mm lens you should be able to get alot of great photos. | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 01:39 PM |
| 3 | How do I (F) express that I'm sexually interested in a guy I met?If you don't have courage to outright tell him. Try getting him to watch a movie the two of you. Lean in, maybe use his lap as a headrest. Then put a hand on his thigh stroke it slightly. Especially if you're fingers are on the inside of his thigh. That will surely get something going. | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attachedOhh yeah. Ehm. So either you are idealizing and admiring what you think they are, the perfect idea, the things you wish they did too and imagine they will do in the future. Rather than idealizing who is infront of you right now. With their flaws. | /r/seduction | 17/02/20 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attachedIt means that even if your on like your 5th date. Still ask yourself. If this was our first date. Would I want a 2nd? | /r/seduction | 17/02/20 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attachedI actually developed a similar quote myself from the lessons I got in my toxic relationship. But when I saw his show it was what I had tried to put into words for so long. | /r/seduction | 17/02/20 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attachedYou mention two best solutions. One of em is bad one. Seing multiple fucking multiple people is not healthy. I don't see how it could be and be emotionally mature and viable. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attachedPlease elaborate. I've never understood the Freudian references | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 11 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attached.#panties? I'm a little lost on that? | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | What can I do to change my mindset and be less needy?Stop masturbation and watching sexual material. Worked for me. I started being able to control "need" for sexual pleasure and that left the only thing girls could be me that I actually need! Is companionship. And friends can give that too. So my needy mindset disappeared. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | What happens when you have a higher social status?What's wrong with being a soft guy? Make sure the girls know you are not there for the relationship the subreddit is not made for exploitation. Just make it abundantly clear to them what you are aiming for. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:13 PM |
| 0 | What happens when you have a higher social status?Mate. Nobody fucking knows what anyone is thinking. Either ask her out or don't. You aren't gonna magically deduct anyone's thoughts. Or intentions. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | What happens when you have a higher social status?Well that's you're problem man. You got a toxic ego. I'm not saying you are egotistic for sure. I only have the material you provided but I can only deduct a toxic egotistical mindset from it. If you got other girl "lined up" then you clearly aren't into anybody for the right reasons. But good for you that so many "dimes" are interested. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Can you give me?I agree. Ask a girl out. Practice through experience | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | What happens when you have a higher social status?Okay. Well i can't really give you any advice then. You aren't really providing any information that we can advice on. Just ask her out. Figure out if she likes you? | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:05 PM |
| 3 | What happens when you have a higher social status?Wtf is this? You haven't texted a girl in two months and she has seen your public stories. How are we supposed to know if she is into to you? Social status isn't everything but of course it's attractive in some sense. I say grow a pair and just text her. What do you want? A date? I don't think she is scared mate. Should probably get off the high horse. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:01 PM |
| 20 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attachedSounds like a bad idea. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 05:55 PM |
| 408 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attachedDon't get infatuated. And keep asking yourself am I idealizing the person's potential or the person infront of me. And always ask yourself. After having been on a date no matter what nr it is. If this was our first date? Would I want a 2nd? And if I was her/him would I want a 2nd with me? If dating is difficult or exhausting and you aren't having the time of your life and laughing. Then again something is wrong. One person isn't putting in the same effort as you. There should not be a chase. If … | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Anybody here ever have this problem?Close, i had a FWB introduce me to a girl. Who i had fucked. | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Gave a guy blue balls; should I apologise?Do you have balls? Either that or you have never been teased. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Gave a guy blue balls; should I apologise?No. You don't. Blue balls is really uncomfortable but you're never required to make us finish. He should have headed to the bathroom and finished up. Last time I had blue balls I was in pain for 3 hours. He oughta just have finished himself then. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Men should not pay for the date.I have a date next week. In intending to split 50/50. I asked her if she wanted to see a movie. Not if I can take her out. It's still intended to be a date expect this was never explicitly communicated. And if she expects me to pay given what was communicated. Well then she ain't for me. I agree with op. In that yes you should split. But then again you could do the gesture of paying first time, her next etc. But you don't know where it goes. And there are girls out there too just using this soci… | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Girl flaked but suggested alternative dayIf she at least suggested alternative day that's good. Most just keeps going cant, something's come up! Not today! Etc. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 05:59 AM |
| 2 | If world population is close to equal, why are there more lonely men out there than there are women?A study was made. The top 78% of women are competing for top 20% of men. While only top 20% of men are competing for the top 20% of women. So bassicly a large pool of women don't consider 80% of men an option. It's not the same with men. | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 05:58 PM |
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